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Strap On Dildos


The Harness Toys for Better, Bolder Hands-Free Sex

Strap on dildos come in a variety of shapes, sizes and technological enhancements – which means improving your harness game is just a short decision away. You’ll love these body-safe harness toys.

Internal and external stimulation has never been easier!

What makes a strap on dildo an essential for any modern day couple? It’s a great way to experiment with different toys while still maintaining a close sense of intimacy in the bedroom. With hands-free play, you can add vibrating toys, mutual foreplay, pegging or enhanced size to your bedroom experiences.

What’s So Great about Strap on Dildos?

Our strap on dildos fit inside any standard harness, and because they’re made from the highest quality materials, they’re safe to use, light to wear, and easy to secure to your harness. Plus many of our dildos have a suction cup, so that you can fix them securely to a static surface.

Easily Secured / Lightweight / Interchangeable

Each of our colourful dildos has been made with you in mind. You’ll find anatomically realistic dildos here, and non-anatomical dildos too. There’s even a strap on dildo for men - which will enhance your size, girth and length. If you’re into pleasing your partner, you can’t miss out on that one!

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Who are Strap on Dildos For?

It’s a common misconception that strap-on dildos are only for gay women to wear. In fact, men and women of all sexualities love harnesses and interchangeable toys, to add some pizazz to their bedroom play. Whether you like vibrating dongs or rotating balls – these toys have it all.

  • Use it to change things up: Frequent harness users know that a new strap on dildo is an exciting addition to their collection, because everything feels fresh and different again! A new dildo for your harness can reignite passion and inspire more fulfilling intimacy. 
  • Use it for experimentation: Few toys offer the flexibility that harnesses and strap on dildos can provide. These are the height of sexual experimentation, and can be used for mutual masturbation, solo play, for pegging, oral sex or anything you can think to try.
Browse through our amazing range of luxury strap on dildos below. Focus on finding the right size and material, and be bold with your choices – your new strap on toy awaits!
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  • R1,199
    Out of stock

    When you’re looking for size, the Fun Factory Magnum lives up to its name. This girthy 18cm dildo is made in a flexible and bodysafe silicone that makes it soft to the touch yet firm enough to fulfil. Thanks to the flat suction cup base, the Magnum dildo can be used for both vaginal and anal play, and is also harness compatible. It has a smooth...

  • R649

    The Robbie dildo from Malesation is perfect for solo or strap-on play. The flared suction base fits most standard strap-on harnesses, or can be used to firmly attach your dildo to a smooth surface. The wavy shaft and angled tip of the Robbie dildo make it ideal for g-spot or p-spot stimulation. It’s made from seamless, bodysafe, phthalate-free...

  • R1,499
    1 Review

    The Fun Factory Bouncer is a wonderfully simple and pleasing dildo design. Like other Fun Factory dildos, it features a flat, wide suction cup base that allows you to stick it to a wall or other clean surface. That wide base also makes it perfect for anal play, and for use with a harness. This means the Bouncer can be used for solo or couples play....

  • R899
    Out of stock
    1 Review

    Fun Factory dildos are a firm favourite, and we think every toy collection should contain a couple. With wide, flat, suction bases, Fun Factory dildos can be used safely for both vaginal and anal play, stick to smooth surfaces and walls for fun solo play, and fit comfortably into a harness. The Amor dildo is the smallest in the range, and is perfect...

  • R999
    1 Review

    If you’re looking for a dildo that has a natural shape and feel and a pleasing length, look no further. The Boss by Fun Factory is a 17.8cm insertable length dildo with a diameter of 4.2cm. A glans shape to the top, with a prominent coronal ridge, targets the g-spot or prostate. Close to the base, pronounced ridges in vein-like shapes will give...

  • R549

    This clear dildo by ClearStone is a 7" dildo featuring a ripple effect on the shaft and a realistic penile type head for adding stimulation and sensation. Made from clear PVC, this soft to the touch dildo is Phthalate free and hygienic. With a suction base, it is easily attachable to any surface allowing for either anal or vaginal hands free play. Use it...

  • R699
    Out of stock

    The Olly dildo is big and beautiful. Its impressive size makes it perfect for experienced users, both male and female for anal or vaginal play. The base is large and features a very strong suction cup for solo play. The Olly is also great used with a harness for adventurous couples play. Olly has a smooth ribbed shaft made from 100% medical grade...

  • R1,199
    2 Reviews

    The Homeboy is a rigid, ribbed prosthetic penis cover that adds plenty to your length and girth for a more filling sensation for your partner. This vibrating strap-on is ideal for men suffering from Erectile Dysfunction (ED). It’s hollow inside, so the penis rests comfortably within the strap-on, held in place by the adjustable straps. Simply slip...

  • R999

    The Switch Soft Strap-On Set includes a silicone, phthalate-free slightly curved and contoured dildo to hit either her g-spot or his p-spot every time. The harness straps are fully adjustable to fit all sizes and shapes. Best used with a water based lubricant.

  • R699

    This harness with black lace overlay over satin stands out thanks to its sexy appearance, and is nonetheless robust and versatile. Thanks to its adjustable belt, it can fit a multitude of wearers. Two different rings are available for different dildo sizes with a flat base. A small pocket in which a vibration bullet can be stored ensures additional...

  • R649
    Out of stock

    This lifelike dildo with a realistic looking scrotum base is an 8inch (20.3cm) dildo made of clear silicone PVC. Phthalate free and made of hygienic material this soft to the touch dildo has rigid vein detailing, a lifelike looking head and a realistic scrotum base. With a suction on the base, it is easily attachable to any surface, making this product...

  • R529
    Out of stock

    This Lux Fetish Pretty in Pink Strap-On Harness is perfect for beginners wanting to experience the pleasures of the role-reversal and domination. With it's sturdy rubber O rings is compatible with most flared base dildos. With fully adjustable 4 way straps fitting up to a 152cm hip measurement, it provides you with a comfortable fit. With a pink...

  • R2,699
    Out of stock

    Tantus' Bend Over Intermediate Strap on Kit is the perfect way to explore strap-on sex. With two smooth 100% Ultra-Premium Silicone dildos, the Medium and Large Silk, this kit comes with a velvet harness that is comfortable, adjustable (fits up to 60” hips), and machine washable. With a one touch vibrator fitting snugly on the pouch on the front of...

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