Sex Toys


Désir’s range of sex toys have been carefully sourced and selected. Importing only the most trusted adult toy brands from around the world, we ensure that all products are 100% body safe; are quality checked and vetted; are medically sound, and are the most luxurious, authentic, and sophisticated of products available in South Africa

Promoting sexual health and intimacy, not only does Desir ensure that you are able to honour yourself in the most sensual manner possible, but we also ensure that both you and your partner are provided with the best sexually empowering experience – whether it be for beginners , experts , solo, couple play, for him or for her.

Desir's most sophisticated Sex Toys

Desir prides itself on its strong brand affiliations. With brands like Lelo,We Vibe, Womanizer, Fleshlight , Tenga, and Fun Factory to name but a few, we are able to provide customers online access to the most sophisticated and globally recognised adult sex toys right here in South Africa.

Through careful research, each brand has been invested in based on criteria that ensures that the product provides you with a unique experience; that they are deemed the highest in quality; that they promote intimacy in its most sensual form; and that they are 100% authentic and body-safe.

Categorised according to the application and type of pleasure each sex toy produces, you are able to find the ideal product to meet your sexual needs whether it be sex toys for men, sex toys for women, or sex toys for couples.


Our sex toys for woman category is extensive and selecting a sex toy for the first time can be incredibly overwhelming. From clitoral and g-spot stimulation, to oral sex simulators and pleasure air technology, knowing where to start is all based on the type of pleasure you are after.


This is by far one of the most popular vibrators available on the market. Named as such for its bunny ear design on the exterior of the vibrator, this sex toy offers both g-spot and clitoral stimulation - at the same time.

With two (or sometimes one) set of ears on the exterior, these are designed to sit either alongside the clitoris or applies pressure directly on top of the clitoral area. With a larger ergonomically curved shaft designed to provide internal g-spot stimulation and penetration, the rabbit is unique in that is stimulates both the clitoral and g-spot areas simultaneously giving you a completely new orgasmic experience.

Also known as a dual stimulator thanks to simultaneous massage of both the g-spot and clitoris, rabbit vibrators feature powerful motors and intense vibration patterns. With their usb rechargeable design, dual motors, and medically graded silicone, the rabbit vibrator is a firm favourite for both beginners and experts alike.


Desir’s clitoral stimulators and bullet vibrators are designed to ensure accurate and pinpoint precision to your clitoris offering you external stimulation alone. With an excess of 7000 nerve endings in the broader clitoral area, clitoral vibrators ensure even the deepest nerve endings are stimulated. 65% of women are unable to orgasm through penetration alone, making the clitoral vibrator and bullet a must-have for any woman who requires external clitoral stimulation.

From lay-on vibrators and oral stimulators, to saddle style and pebble, clitoral vibrators are ergonomically designed and often fit in the palm of your hand. Their sleek, compact design allows for perfect external stimulation whilst you are being penetrated by a partner, or provide you with the perfect match for solo masturbation play. Simply place the clit vibe between you whilst you are being penetrated and enjoy the feeling of fullness and external clitoral stimulation at the same time.

With the sleek and compact design of the bullet vibrator, these vibrators are perfect for travel or more discreet play. With a tapered tip shaped like a bullet, these vibrators are not only limited to clitoral play, but can be used to stimulate all of your, or his erogenous zones - from your nipples and temples, to his perineum and anus.

With their compact design, whisper-quiet motors and intensity, clitoral vibrators and bullet vibrators are ideal for external stimulation in a more discreet manner and are perfect for both beginners and experts alike.


For singular g-spot massage, Desir’s G-spot vibrators feature a curved tip on an elongated shaft. Used with your favourite water-based lubricant, g-spot massage is precise and takes a little practice. Situated deep within your vaginal walls, the g-spot is stimulated by what is best referred to as a ‘come hither’ motion. By gently stimulating the anterior wall of your vagina, different pressure and stimulation often leads to a more intense orgasm than you would normally experience.

With the incredible range of ergonomically designed g-spot massagers, you are able to reach your g-spot effortlessly and with the combination of intense vibrations and various patterned settings, orgasms are longer-lasting and more powerful


More modest in their design, body wand vibrators are a great solution for the more discerning customer who wants a less intimidating sex toy.

Also known as the famous hitachi wand or magic wand, body wand massagers feature a round swivel head design that offers broader coverage than a traditional vibrator. By pressing the rounded head firmly against your entire vulva area, you are able to reach the entire clitoral nerve structure, that leads to greater pleasure and a more intense orgasmic experience.

Also known for its body stress release, body wand vibrators are also commonly used on various pressure points around the body. From the neck and shoulders, to your back and erogenous zones, the options with the body wand are endless.


For more risque play that can include your partner, Panty Vibrators, remote controlled and even app controlled vibrators have made sure that you are able to keep up with remote or long-distance play, no matter where or when - keeping pleasure at a simple click away.

Simply link your app or remote to your sex toy, and control the vibrations and variable settings through your remote. With the control at his or her fingertips, nothing can be more exciting that submitting yourself to pleasure at the hands of your partner.


For women, the ultimate orgasmic experience is heavily reliant on strong pelvic muscles and these can be supported by Desir’s amazing kegel ball range. Worn discreetly for a couple of minutes a day over a limited time period, the pelvic muscles are stimulated and exercised by the internal movement of the rotating balls, thereby firming up your pelvic muscles and allowing for stronger contractions during orgasms.

According to WebMD, not only do kegel’s heighten your arousal and orgasmic strength but they also assist with symptoms related to urinary incontinence, vaginal prolapse and sphincter prolapse.


Not only catering for women, our men’s range is just as comprehensive. Shop our Sex Toys for Men range to explore cock rings, which prolong ejaculation and maintain erections, to male masturbator’s, which provide intense vibrations and oscillations. If it’s penis extension you are looking for, Desir’s range of penis pumps and penis extenders feature the latest hydrotherapy techniques, allowing you to practice penis enlargement in the comfort of your own home.


One of the most underrated sex toys for men, cock rings (also known as c-rings, or penis rings) are the most effective sex toys for the treatment of erectile dysfunction and premature ejaculation.

Sitting snugly at the base of his penis against his hips, a cock ring gently restricts the blood flow to the penis resulting in a larger, firmer erection and sustained or prolonged lovemaking. Available in materials that range from stretchy silicone and latex to leather and metal, penis rings cater for a number of sizes and provide almost immediate results.


With brands like Fleshlight pioneering real-feel pleasure for men, masturbation and masturbation sex toys for men has become a true art form.

With the combination of super soft realistic interiors, coupled with their compact vibrational designs, male masturbators are now designed to be longer-lasting and more durable than ever before. With textured ridges and nubs, and exteriors that replicate anal or vaginal openings, pleasure is right at your fingertips in a way you’ve never experienced it before.

With accessories like the Fleshlight warmer, shower mounts, Fleshlight Launch, and even Fleshlight vibrational bullets, you are able to customise your masturbatory experience to a whole new level.


With the benefits of prostate massage no longer kept a secret, our anal products, such as the prostate massagers, allow men to practice safe and comfortable prostate massage whilst experiencing an increase in orgasmic strength by up to a third.

With brands like LELO, Malesation,Rocks Off , and Nexus taking the lead on ergonomically engineered designs, prostate massagers are becoming more powerful, more effective, and more technologically advanced. Remote control allows you hands-free pleasure, while App controls let your partner take charge - no matter where in the world.


Penis enlargement and enhancement is no longer a treatment reserved for medical or surgical theatres. With brands like Hydromax, Bathmate and Malesation understanding the science and technology behind penis extension, you are now able to increase your length and girth in the comfort of your own home.

Using hydrotherapy as the most effective technique in penis enlargement, Bathmate has introduced a variety of pumps that suit a number of penis sizes and can be used in your shower at home. Much like a regular gym regime, penis enlargement requires commitment and consistency and with Hydromax promising an almost 20% increase in both girth and length with regular use, penis extension with these reputable brands is easy.


Desir offers a comprehensive range of anal sex toys designed for both him and her. For women looking to experiment with anal sex, Desir’s range of petite anal plugs (also known as butt plugs) are perfect for beginners, whilst the graduated anal beads and anal dildos are designed to accomodate the more adventurous users.

From vibrating to non, and in a variety of shapes and sizes, anal sex and the exploration thereof is easy with Desir. Starting off small is a good idea, and when you are ready you are able to progress to toys with a greater diameter. Remember to use your favourite water-based lubricant, and a good anti-bacterial cleanser to avoid cross-contamination or infection.


Dildos at Desir come in a mass of shapes and sizes. The more classic sex toy, dildos are generally shaped to replicate that of a penis and can feature realistic and fallic features like a glans or veins to make the design on the shaft that much more realistic.

In a variety of materials that range from glass and silicone, rubber and stone, dildos are perfect for internal penetration whether it be anally or vaginally and may feature a suction cup to allow hands free play. With most dildos featuring a solid shaft, hollow dildos or prosthetic dildos are becoming increasingly popular for men who are looking to experiment with extra length or girth. Vibrating hollow dildos offer dual stimulation to both wearer and receiver and with a harness to keep the hollow dildo in place, you gain hands free play at the same time.

For same sex couples or couples who enjoy pegging, strap on dildos feature a harness that is worn around the wearer’s hips. With an o-ring placed in the centre, the wide based dildo is placed firmly in the centre allowing the wearer to penetrate the receiver. Popular in bondage circles for their element of submission and control, strap ons and harnesses allow couples to experiment with power play, pegging, light bondage and even bdsm, making dildos a popular choice for a wide range of end uses.


Not limited to solo play, Desir caters perfectly for couples looking to add some adventure or fun into their bedroom. For couple play, Desir has a wide assortment of products available in the Sex Toys for Couples category. From light bondage and vibrating penis rings to remote control couples vibrators and dual ended dildos, couple play and exploration has never been more thrilling.

Brands like We-Vibe, Satisfyer, and LELO have made simultaneous orgasm easier than ever before with their unique designs on products like the Sync, Verge, and Tiani. Designed to act as both a clitoris stimulator as well as a vibrator for him, these products are worn by the woman and allow the man to penetrate her at the same time. With powerful vibrations, a multitude of settings, and even APP controlled, both partners receive pleasure during intercourse - making simultaneous orgasm and pleasure easier than ever before.


Désir provides all customers the opportunity to shop for their adult sex toys online or from our discreet showroom in Camps Bay, Cape Town.

We encourage the exploring of one’s sexuality and endeavour to provide as much information as possible pertaining to the functionality and end use of our sex toys. We believe that each purchase is an investment – both in yourself and your partner. Desir provides an environment where you are encouraged to explore, educate, and honour yourself.


Our client concierge team are on line during office hours to guide, interact, and assist you in making the right purchase for your needs if need be, and always act in the most professional and discreet manner possible. For our comprehensive buyers guide and additional info, please view here.

Once you have selected your intimate product, Désir offers a quick and discreet check out process, protected by a 100% secure payment method. Your parcel is discreetly and elegantly packaged, thereby protecting your identity and right to discretion at all times.

Our couriers are the most professional, and all deliveries within main lying areas (Johannesburg, Cape Town,Durban, Pretoria, Bloemfontein, Port Elizabeth etc) will reach you within 2 to 3 days of your parcel being dispatched.

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Le Wand Rechargeable All Over Body Wand Vibrator - Le Wand

Le Wand
BO DP 4890808186862
Vote as the winner of Cosmopolitan's most powerful sex toy, the Le Wand Rechargeable vibrating massager is an all over body massager that is perfect for both body and intimate massage. Guaranteed to deliver intense and sensual pleasure, the Le Wand rechargeable vibrator features 10 rumbly vibration speeds and 20 vibration patterns. With it's sleek design...
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Le Wand All Over Plug In Body Vibrator - Le Wand

Le Wand
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The Le Wand Plug in massager is a powerful body wand vibrator in a classic style and finish that offers continuous power and intense vibrations. Featuring unparalleled quality, the Le Wand features an extra long 8'' cord that allows you to experience 10 vibration speeds and 6 patterns all at an incredibly powerful level thanks to the mains plug in....
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LustGlider Intimate Douche - STToys

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The LustGlider douche is a black pvc douche designed to keep your anal and rectum area hygienic and clean and can be used in preparation for anal sex. With a length of approximately 11cm and a diameter of 4cm this douche can hold up to 224ml. For a more comfortable insertion if necessary, apply a small amount of water based lubricant onto the tube of the...
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PalmPower Extreme Massage Wand Vibrator - Swan

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The PalmPower Extreme body wand is a powerful and versatile massage wand designed for all-over body and intimate massage. Rechargeable and water-resistant, this wand features an elongated arm and flexible swivel neck allowing you to position the broad based silicone head on either your body's muscular pressure points or to deliver powerful vibrations to...
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Vibrating Snug Plug - B-Vibe

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The Vibrating Snug Plug by B-Vibe is a weighted silicone anal plug that offers a combination of exquisite fullness and powerful vibrations - all in one product. Designed for extended wear, the vibrating snug plugs are perfect for both solo and couples play. Wear them during intercourse or enjoy discreetly for extended wear stimulation with or without the...
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Iris Clitoral & G Spot Vibrator - Svakom

The Iris clitoral and g-spot vibrator by Svakom is an ergonomically designed vibrator that features the perfect angle in order to reach the g-spot seamlessly. Made from ultra-soft seamless silicone, the Iris features a slim design with a curved arm. With a soft spoon shaped head, insertion is both easy and comfortable and once inserted finding your...
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Vibro Spanning Ring - Malesation

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The Vibro Spanning Ring by Malesation is a sturdy penis ring designed to assist you to achieve a long lasting and far stronger erection whilst delaying ejaculation at the same time. With 2 motors situated inside the ring, you gain powerful vibrations that can be felt up and down your shaft whilst delivering the same amount pleasure to your partner on...
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Snug Anal Plug (Size 1 to 5) - B-Vibe

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The range of Snug Plugs by B-Vibe are weighted anal plugs that come in a range of sizes to suit every step of your anal plug journey.  Ranging from sizes 1 to 5, you are able to start as a complete beginner who is just starting anal training and you are able to progress to the very largest plug that is the heaviest and girthiest of the anal plug series....
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Cinco Remote Controlled Anal Beads - BVibe

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Voted as the best sex toy for anal stimulation in 2020, the Cinco Anal Beads by BVibe are a set of anal beads perfect for all levels of anal play. Excellent for anal training or as a start to penetrative sex, these beads feature a flared base and a sturdy handle for easy insertion and removal. Hypo-allogenic, non-porous and made from body safe materials...
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Emma Neo Rabbit Wand Interactive Warming Vibrator - Svakom

The Emma Neo warming wand vibrator by Svakom is part of the new Intelligent App Control series, now allowing you to be more connected than ever before. Featuring new technology, Emma is a powerful, interactive, warming wand vibrator featuring detachable rabbit ears. With it's versatility you are able to use your wand, with it's swivel head, for powerful...
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Siren Double Tongued Vibrator - Svakom

The Siren by Svakom is a double-tongued designed vibrator that provides intense clitoral and g-spot stimulation. Made from super-soft body safe silicone, Siren features a soft and flexible rounded head that allows for smooth and easy insertion whilst the double-tongued design on the opposite end gives you intense and stimulating vibrations on your...
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G-Spot Curved Rose Quartz Wand - Yoni Eggs

Yoni Eggs
The G-Spot curved Yoni wand from Yoni Eggs is a curved, smooth finished wand crafted from beautiful pale pink Rose Quartz crystal and is perfect for all over body massage or intimate stimulation. Known as the crystal of universal love, Rose Quartz is believed to purify and open the heart to all levels, thereby promoting self-love, friendship, feelings of...
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Set of 3 Crystal Yoni Eggs - Yoni Eggs

Yoni Eggs
Yoni Eggs, or more commonly known Jade Eggs, have been used for thousands of years as part of traditional medicine. Today the practice of inserting a Jade or Yoni Egg into the vagina, offers a myriad of benefits that not only incorporate medical advantages but also healing properties on an energetic level. By using a Yoni egg daily, blood and lymph flow...
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Double Down Dual Ended Masturbator - Porn Hub

Porn Hub
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R1,899 R2,499
The Double Down masturbator by Porn Hub is a double ended sleeve masturbator for him that features a vaginal opening on one side and an anal opening on the other. Made from 100% body safe material, this soft and realistic feel material hugs your shaft and provides extra stimulation on each and every thrust thanks to the textured tunnel. A matt black...
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I Rub My Duckie Waterproof Massager - Big Tease Toys

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ST Duckie
The I Rub My Duckie 2.0 romance collection is a massage duck that is perfect for relaxing and softening muscles, or for intimate caresses. Completely waterproof, the Duckie 2.0 has a stronger and quieter motor than before and features 7 vibrational patterns that are powerful and intense. Measuring 8cm, this petite duck is phthalate free, easy to clean...
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Vick Neo Interactive Prostate Massager - Svakom

The Vick Neo Prostate Vibrator by Svakom is part of the new Intelligent App Control series, now allowing you to be more connected than ever before. Offering long distance control, local control and even web interactive, the Vick allows you to enjoy your pleasure with whoever you want, wherever you are or even for solo pleasure. Controlled remotely via an...
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Muse Rhythm Based Audio Vibrator - Svakom

The Muse vibrator by Svakom is an egg-shaped vibrator that features incredible new rhythm-based technology that allows your egg vibrator to mimic the same intensity and vibrations as your favourite music. Connect via Bluetooth and sync up with your favourite playlist to experience the combination of technology and design that transfers the signals into...
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Wand-er Woman All Over Body Wand Vibrator - Satisfyer

This impressively sized wand by Satisfyer promises targeted stimulation and pressure designed for soothing tension and providing intense pleasure. Measuring in at an impressing 34 cms, the Wand-er Woman Wand features a streamlined shape coupled with 50 vibrational intensities made up of 10 rhythms and 5 varied intensities. With its waterproof seamless...
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Alex Neo Interactive Thrusting Masturbator - Svakom

The Alex Neo masturbator by Svakom is part of the new Intelligent App Control series, now allowing you to be more connected than ever before. Featuring new technology, Alex is a cutting-edge tech filled male masturbator featuring app functions and long distance functionality. Ergonomically designed, Alex is flexible enough to fit any length of the male...
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Womanizer Silver Delights Collection - Womanizer

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The Silver Delights Collection by Womanizer is a limited edition collection featuring two of your favourite products in one gorgeous gift pack. Featuring the Womanizer Premium clitoral suction vibrator and the We-Vibe Tango bullet vibrator, this set is perfect for women looking for intense clitoral stimulation whether it be for solo or couples play and...
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Willy Super-Stretch Penis Rings (Pack of 3) - Oxballs

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Ella Neo Interactive App Controlled Egg Vibrator - Svakom

The Ella Neo Egg Vibrator by Svakom is part of the new Intelligent App Control series, now allowing you to be more connected than ever before. Offering long distance control, local control and even web interactive, the Phoenix allows you to enjoy your pleasure with whoever you want, wherever you are or even for solo pleasure. Controlled remotely via an...
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Phoenix Neo Interactive App Controlled Bullet Vibe - Svakom

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Tedy Mini Rabbit Clitoral Vibrator - Good Vibes Only

Good Vibes Only
Tedy by Good Vibes Only is the perfect hand held clitoral vibrator that promises intense stimulation and absolute discretion. Measuring in at 8cm, Tedy is made from 100% body safe silicone and features two super-soft silicone ears designed to flex and stimulate the clitoral area. Use the bulbous end of the bunny to run the intense vibrations along your...
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