Sex Toys


Désir’s range of sex toys have been carefully sourced and selected. Importing only the most trusted adult toy brands from around the world, we ensure that all products are 100% body safe; are quality checked and vetted; are medically sound, and are the most luxurious, authentic, and sophisticated of products available in South Africa

Promoting sexual health and intimacy, not only does Desir ensure that you are able to honour yourself in the most sensual manner possible, but we also ensure that both you and your partner are provided with the best sexually empowering experience – whether it be for beginners , experts , solo, couple play, for him or for her.

Desir's most sophisticated Sex Toys

Desir prides itself on its strong brand affiliations. With brands like Lelo,We Vibe, Womanizer, Fleshlight , Tenga, and Fun Factory to name but a few, we are able to provide customers online access to the most sophisticated and globally recognised adult sex toys right here in South Africa.

Through careful research, each brand has been invested in based on criteria that ensures that the product provides you with a unique experience; that they are deemed the highest in quality; that they promote intimacy in its most sensual form; and that they are 100% authentic and body-safe.

Categorised according to the application and type of pleasure each sex toy produces, you are able to find the ideal product to meet your sexual needs whether it be sex toys for men, sex toys for women, or sex toys for couples.


Our sex toys for woman category is extensive and selecting a sex toy for the first time can be incredibly overwhelming. From clitoral and g-spot stimulation, to oral sex simulators and pleasure air technology, knowing where to start is all based on the type of pleasure you are after.


This is by far one of the most popular vibrators available on the market. Named as such for its bunny ear design on the exterior of the vibrator, this sex toy offers both g-spot and clitoral stimulation - at the same time.

With two (or sometimes one) set of ears on the exterior, these are designed to sit either alongside the clitoris or applies pressure directly on top of the clitoral area. With a larger ergonomically curved shaft designed to provide internal g-spot stimulation and penetration, the rabbit is unique in that is stimulates both the clitoral and g-spot areas simultaneously giving you a completely new orgasmic experience.

Also known as a dual stimulator thanks to simultaneous massage of both the g-spot and clitoris, rabbit vibrators feature powerful motors and intense vibration patterns. With their usb rechargeable design, dual motors, and medically graded silicone, the rabbit vibrator is a firm favourite for both beginners and experts alike.


Desir’s clitoral stimulators and bullet vibrators are designed to ensure accurate and pinpoint precision to your clitoris offering you external stimulation alone. With an excess of 7000 nerve endings in the broader clitoral area, clitoral vibrators ensure even the deepest nerve endings are stimulated. 65% of women are unable to orgasm through penetration alone, making the clitoral vibrator and bullet a must-have for any woman who requires external clitoral stimulation.

From lay-on vibrators and oral stimulators, to saddle style and pebble, clitoral vibrators are ergonomically designed and often fit in the palm of your hand. Their sleek, compact design allows for perfect external stimulation whilst you are being penetrated by a partner, or provide you with the perfect match for solo masturbation play. Simply place the clit vibe between you whilst you are being penetrated and enjoy the feeling of fullness and external clitoral stimulation at the same time.

With the sleek and compact design of the bullet vibrator, these vibrators are perfect for travel or more discreet play. With a tapered tip shaped like a bullet, these vibrators are not only limited to clitoral play, but can be used to stimulate all of your, or his erogenous zones - from your nipples and temples, to his perineum and anus.

With their compact design, whisper-quiet motors and intensity, clitoral vibrators and bullet vibrators are ideal for external stimulation in a more discreet manner and are perfect for both beginners and experts alike.


For singular g-spot massage, Desir’s G-spot vibrators feature a curved tip on an elongated shaft. Used with your favourite water-based lubricant, g-spot massage is precise and takes a little practice. Situated deep within your vaginal walls, the g-spot is stimulated by what is best referred to as a ‘come hither’ motion. By gently stimulating the anterior wall of your vagina, different pressure and stimulation often leads to a more intense orgasm than you would normally experience.

With the incredible range of ergonomically designed g-spot massagers, you are able to reach your g-spot effortlessly and with the combination of intense vibrations and various patterned settings, orgasms are longer-lasting and more powerful


More modest in their design, body wand vibrators are a great solution for the more discerning customer who wants a less intimidating sex toy.

Also known as the famous hitachi wand or magic wand, body wand massagers feature a round swivel head design that offers broader coverage than a traditional vibrator. By pressing the rounded head firmly against your entire vulva area, you are able to reach the entire clitoral nerve structure, that leads to greater pleasure and a more intense orgasmic experience.

Also known for its body stress release, body wand vibrators are also commonly used on various pressure points around the body. From the neck and shoulders, to your back and erogenous zones, the options with the body wand are endless.


For more risque play that can include your partner, Panty Vibrators, remote controlled and even app controlled vibrators have made sure that you are able to keep up with remote or long-distance play, no matter where or when - keeping pleasure at a simple click away.

Simply link your app or remote to your sex toy, and control the vibrations and variable settings through your remote. With the control at his or her fingertips, nothing can be more exciting that submitting yourself to pleasure at the hands of your partner.


For women, the ultimate orgasmic experience is heavily reliant on strong pelvic muscles and these can be supported by Desir’s amazing kegel ball range. Worn discreetly for a couple of minutes a day over a limited time period, the pelvic muscles are stimulated and exercised by the internal movement of the rotating balls, thereby firming up your pelvic muscles and allowing for stronger contractions during orgasms.

According to WebMD, not only do kegel’s heighten your arousal and orgasmic strength but they also assist with symptoms related to urinary incontinence, vaginal prolapse and sphincter prolapse.


Not only catering for women, our men’s range is just as comprehensive. Shop our Sex Toys for Men range to explore cock rings, which prolong ejaculation and maintain erections, to male masturbator’s, which provide intense vibrations and oscillations. If it’s penis extension you are looking for, Desir’s range of penis pumps and penis extenders feature the latest hydrotherapy techniques, allowing you to practice penis enlargement in the comfort of your own home.


One of the most underrated sex toys for men, cock rings (also known as c-rings, or penis rings) are the most effective sex toys for the treatment of erectile dysfunction and premature ejaculation.

Sitting snugly at the base of his penis against his hips, a cock ring gently restricts the blood flow to the penis resulting in a larger, firmer erection and sustained or prolonged lovemaking. Available in materials that range from stretchy silicone and latex to leather and metal, penis rings cater for a number of sizes and provide almost immediate results.


With brands like Fleshlight pioneering real-feel pleasure for men, masturbation and masturbation sex toys for men has become a true art form.

With the combination of super soft realistic interiors, coupled with their compact vibrational designs, male masturbators are now designed to be longer-lasting and more durable than ever before. With textured ridges and nubs, and exteriors that replicate anal or vaginal openings, pleasure is right at your fingertips in a way you’ve never experienced it before.

With accessories like the Fleshlight warmer, shower mounts, Fleshlight Launch, and even Fleshlight vibrational bullets, you are able to customise your masturbatory experience to a whole new level.


With the benefits of prostate massage no longer kept a secret, our anal products, such as the prostate massagers, allow men to practice safe and comfortable prostate massage whilst experiencing an increase in orgasmic strength by up to a third.

With brands like LELO, Malesation,Rocks Off , and Nexus taking the lead on ergonomically engineered designs, prostate massagers are becoming more powerful, more effective, and more technologically advanced. Remote control allows you hands-free pleasure, while App controls let your partner take charge - no matter where in the world.


Penis enlargement and enhancement is no longer a treatment reserved for medical or surgical theatres. With brands like Hydromax, Bathmate and Malesation understanding the science and technology behind penis extension, you are now able to increase your length and girth in the comfort of your own home.

Using hydrotherapy as the most effective technique in penis enlargement, Bathmate has introduced a variety of pumps that suit a number of penis sizes and can be used in your shower at home. Much like a regular gym regime, penis enlargement requires commitment and consistency and with Hydromax promising an almost 20% increase in both girth and length with regular use, penis extension with these reputable brands is easy.


Desir offers a comprehensive range of anal sex toys designed for both him and her. For women looking to experiment with anal sex, Desir’s range of petite anal plugs (also known as butt plugs) are perfect for beginners, whilst the graduated anal beads and anal dildos are designed to accomodate the more adventurous users.

From vibrating to non, and in a variety of shapes and sizes, anal sex and the exploration thereof is easy with Desir. Starting off small is a good idea, and when you are ready you are able to progress to toys with a greater diameter. Remember to use your favourite water-based lubricant, and a good anti-bacterial cleanser to avoid cross-contamination or infection.


Dildos at Desir come in a mass of shapes and sizes. The more classic sex toy, dildos are generally shaped to replicate that of a penis and can feature realistic and fallic features like a glans or veins to make the design on the shaft that much more realistic.

In a variety of materials that range from glass and silicone, rubber and stone, dildos are perfect for internal penetration whether it be anally or vaginally and may feature a suction cup to allow hands free play. With most dildos featuring a solid shaft, hollow dildos or prosthetic dildos are becoming increasingly popular for men who are looking to experiment with extra length or girth. Vibrating hollow dildos offer dual stimulation to both wearer and receiver and with a harness to keep the hollow dildo in place, you gain hands free play at the same time.

For same sex couples or couples who enjoy pegging, strap on dildos feature a harness that is worn around the wearer’s hips. With an o-ring placed in the centre, the wide based dildo is placed firmly in the centre allowing the wearer to penetrate the receiver. Popular in bondage circles for their element of submission and control, strap ons and harnesses allow couples to experiment with power play, pegging, light bondage and even bdsm, making dildos a popular choice for a wide range of end uses.


Not limited to solo play, Desir caters perfectly for couples looking to add some adventure or fun into their bedroom. For couple play, Desir has a wide assortment of products available in the Sex Toys for Couples category. From light bondage and vibrating penis rings to remote control couples vibrators and dual ended dildos, couple play and exploration has never been more thrilling.

Brands like We-Vibe, Satisfyer, and LELO have made simultaneous orgasm easier than ever before with their unique designs on products like the Sync, Verge, and Tiani. Designed to act as both a clitoris stimulator as well as a vibrator for him, these products are worn by the woman and allow the man to penetrate her at the same time. With powerful vibrations, a multitude of settings, and even APP controlled, both partners receive pleasure during intercourse - making simultaneous orgasm and pleasure easier than ever before.


Désir provides all customers the opportunity to shop for their adult sex toys online or from our discreet showroom in Camps Bay, Cape Town.

We encourage the exploring of one’s sexuality and endeavour to provide as much information as possible pertaining to the functionality and end use of our sex toys. We believe that each purchase is an investment – both in yourself and your partner. Desir provides an environment where you are encouraged to explore, educate, and honour yourself.


Our client concierge team are on line during office hours to guide, interact, and assist you in making the right purchase for your needs if need be, and always act in the most professional and discreet manner possible. For our comprehensive buyers guide and additional info, please view here.

Once you have selected your intimate product, Désir offers a quick and discreet check out process, protected by a 100% secure payment method. Your parcel is discreetly and elegantly packaged, thereby protecting your identity and right to discretion at all times.

Our couriers are the most professional, and all deliveries within main lying areas (Johannesburg, Cape Town,Durban, Pretoria, Bloemfontein, Port Elizabeth etc) will reach you within 2 to 3 days of your parcel being dispatched.

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Armour Vibrating Penis Ring - Zemalia

The Zemalia Armour penis ring is a vibrating silicone ring designed to prolong intercourse, delay ejaculation, and allows for clitoral stimulation for her at the same time. 100% waterproof, this vibrating penis ring is made from ultra soft body safe silicone and is a one-size-fits-most with a minimum circumference of 4.55cm. Wear it at the base of your...
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Pulse Solo Essential Male Masturbator - Hot Octopuss

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The Happy Rabbit Wand by Love Honey is the perfect combination of the classic rabbit vibrator 'ear' design combined with the easy to use and incredible power that you gain from a massage wand.  With 10 vibrating patterns and 3 powerful speeds, this sophisticated wand is versatile enough to use directly over your clitoral area or any other erogenous zone....
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The Falex Prostate Massager is a premium super-soft silicone vibrator ergonomically designed to massage his prostate - delivering powerful orgasms that are unlike anything you have ever experienced before. With its curved shaft and 10 powerful vibrations that can be felt throughout the entire vibrator, you gain intense stimulation directly within the...
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The Sparta prostate massager by Nexus is a luxury anal massager that uses unique stroker technology featured in the tip of it's shaft to precisely stimulate the prostate. The ergonomic design allows easy insertion whilst the looped handle at the base on the massager allows you to have absolutely control and precision on how deep or where to massage....
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The Senzzze5 male masturbator by Malesation is a super-soft, extremely flexible stroker designed to give you added sensation, pleasure and support during masturbation. Ergonomically designed, Senzzze features a natural shape and measures 13cm in length with the ribbed length measuring in at 9cm. Giving you a super-hug along your shaft, you simply add a...
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The mini bullet vibrator by Satisfyer is a discreetly designed, powerful vibrator that delivers concentrated pleasure wherever you need it most.  Featuring a removable lid that adds to the discretion and offers variable pleasure, you are able to choose from the silky softness of the silicone tip or the cold, sleek feel of the stainless steel against your...
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Magic Bunny Rabbit Vibrator - Satisfyer

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The Magic Bunny rabbit vibrator by Satisfyer is a super-soft G-spot and Rabbit vibrator that is perfect for experts and beginners alike thanks to it's ergonomic design and powerful motors. Designed using super-soft, flexible silicone, the shaft of this Rabbit has a curved tip that allows pinpoint precision, whether you are looking to stimulate your...
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Power Flower G-Spot & Rabbit Vibrator - Satisfyer

The Power Flower vibrator by Satisfyer is a versatile G-spot and Clitoral stimulating vibrator that features a unique fluttering tip that promises to dance around your sensitive areas creating explosive orgasms. Silicone flex technology makes the shaft soft and flexible whilst the curved design ensure precision stimulation to the g-spot area. Three soft...
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OhNut Rings (Set of 4) - OhNut

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The OhNut rings are soft, BPA, phthalate, and latex free body safe wearable rings that are designed to alleviate discomfort during sex by offering a customizable solution to the penetration depth.  Designed by renowned clinicians, each ring features a soft, compressible buffer that allows these rings to be used separately or together to vary the...
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Phoebe Rabbit Vibrator - Zemalia

The Phoebe rabbit vibrator by Zemalia is a super-soft rabbit vibe that promises dual stimulation and pleasure to both the clitoral area as well as the g-spot. With its round concave design on both the main shaft as well as the clitoral shaft, stimulation is precise and reaches even the deepest nerve endings. The main shaft measuring 17cm's in total,...
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Naked Addiction Remote Controlled Thrusting and Rotating Dildo - Swan

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The Naked Addiction Thrusting Dildo by Swan is a realistically designed dildo that used the combination of IncrediFeel technology and superior silicone to produce a as close as possible replica to the real thing. Unbelievably soft to the touch, this dildo is flexible yet firm where needed. A luxury dildo, the design features realistic textures and veins...
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Pillow Talk Frisky Dual Set Kegel Balls - Swan

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These beautifully designed Pillow Talk Frisky kegel pleasure balls are perfect for increasing your desire whilst strengthening your kegel pelvic muscles at the same time. Made from 100% soft body safe silicone, these weighted kegels deliver a stimulating rocking motion in reaction to your natural movements. Insert them deep within your vaginal canal...
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Pillow Talk Sultry Dual G-Spot and Wand Vibrator - Swan

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The Pillow Talk Sultry Wand Vibrator is a versatile vibrator that combines dual-ended functionality, intense vibrations, and powerful rotations - providing you with a two-in-one g-spot vibrator and an all-over body wand vibrator. With the rounded and tapered head that flexes and swivels upon pressure, this part of your vibrator is perfect for...
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The Max Nipple and Clitoral sucker set by EasyToys are a pair of powerful pump actioned suction cylinders designed to elongate your nipples or clitoris to encourage increased sensitivity and blood flow. Perfect for women who suffer from inverted nipples or a clitoris that is embedded by your labia majora, these pumps produce a powerful yet comfortable...
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Nipple Pump Set - EasyToys

These nipple pumps by EasyToys are the safest way to increase sensitivity around your areola area or to elongate your nipples. With two pumps included in this set, simply place the open-ended nozzle attachment on top of your nipple area and gently squeeze the pump to stimulate a vacuum action onto the nipple area. Gentle pumps will elongate and extend...
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The Minds of Love Little Friends set is the perfect combination for beginners or women who require a more discreet vibrator that will both tone their pelvic muscles and stimulate at the same time. Featuring two products, this set contains an ergonomically designed wand vibrator as well as a double stimulation kegel device. The wand massager with it's...
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This premium set of kegel's from Nurse Hatty is the first Kegel Exercise Weight System of its kind designed for both kegel beginners and kegel pros. Consisting of 10 stainless steel kegel weights wrapped in premium medically graded body safe silicone, these kegels help tighten your pelvic floor muscles, improve bladder control, improve labour and...
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The Chorus by We-Vibe is being hailed as the most intuitive couples vibrator ever. Featuring an adjustable fit, touch-responsive controls, and hands-free vibrations, simultaneous orgasms have never been easier to achieve. Chorus is an ergonomically designed couples vibrator designed to be worn by the female. With a small flattened arm that rests...
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F1S Developer's Kit Male Masturbator - LELO

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The F1S Red male masturbator is like nothing we've ever seen or experienced before. Classed as the world's first SDK-enabled (software development kit) male pleasure object, the LELO F1S is a high performance masturbator that allows you to take full control of your pleasure or dually allows a fully-automated technologically advanced sexual experience....
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Happy Rabbit Vibrating Panty with Remote - Love Honey

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These sexy lace panties are a combination of gorgeous lace and a slim and discreet vibrator designed to be worn inside the gusset of your panty. Featuring 30 intense vibrations that are operated via a remote control, these panties are perfect for discreet pleasure and erotic play. These knickers feature beautiful lace compartments, an adjustable satin...
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Relentless Vibrations Kegel Balls with Remote - Fifty Shades of Grey

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