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Discover our luxury range of exclusive sex toys for women, designed to enrich intimate couple encounters and individual exploration. Fulfil all the desires of your heart with quality ladies sex toys like vibrators, stimulators, beads, wands and plugs – for bedroom experiences that will please the most urgent cravings of the liberated, modern woman.

Explore your most intimate fantasies with our range of sex toys for women.

Your Private Bedroom Paradise

From our discerning intimate collection, Désir is proud to offer our clients the chance to collect some of the best sex toys for women in South Africa, available from our discreet online website, headquartered from our showroom in Camps Bay, Cape Town.


Whether you are hunting for just the right couple’s toy, or you need a more exciting solo experience, these ladies sex toys will open your eyes to a new world of intimate play.


To buy sex toys for women online these days, (especially in South Africa) you often have to wade through websites you would rather not have to visit.


Désir bridges the gap between tasteful play and credible, confidential delivery, to bring you an intimate brand you can trust with your deepest desires. We know that the most private women can also be the wildest in the bedroom!


Ladies sex toys are an essential element in any lively bedroom, adding fresh, creative opportunities for you to get to know yourself and your loved one better. For intense massaging, tickling or vibrating pleasure, our sex toys will give you the reason you need to add new rules to the bedroom games you so enjoy.


Discover our amazing list of the best sex toys for women for 2016, and glide down the rabbit hole into a new dimension of sexual excitement this year. It all starts with you.

The Best Sex Toys For Women: 2016

A sex toy worth investing in is always pleasurable, comfortable and fun. In 2016, the level of functionality and sophistication has reached an all-time high, and that is important news for women looking to add to their collections. Here is our top 5 list of the greatest luxury ladies sex toys on the market, available for purchase at Désir.co.za right now.


The finest sex toys draw him nearer, a closeness like you have never experienced

Every toy is the catalyst for greater intensity, whether used alone or shared between two.

#1: The Trendy Vibrator

Whether you are in the mood for a light massage, or some earth-shaking penetration action, a woman’s best friend this year is a quality vibrator. Easily one of the best sex toys for women ever created, they now come in a variety of fun colours, soft, waterproof materials and creative dual-action designs.


He will love your mounting excitement, she will love yours even more. Find your ideal vibrating companion here.

#2: The Orgasmic Exerciser

Stronger pelvic muscles mean more intense, longer-lasting orgasms with the many kegel exercisers now on offer. As a sex toy that women love, these kegel balls make it possible to enjoy the act of exercising while getting a little something extra out of the act.


From beginner’s level to a more advanced toning action, making sex feel better has never been more fun to do.


He will love the heightened pressure, she will rediscover the power of her orgasm. Find your perfect orgasmic exerciser here.

#3: The Daring Dildo

Add variety to your bedroom experiences with a daring dildo – one of the best sex toys for women in 2016. Whether used for manual or hands-free action, or for more creative couples play – no cabinet of delights should be without a few of these durable textured silicone or glass wands. As ladies sex toys go, this remains a timeless great.


He will love its Swiss-army surprises, she will never feel uninspired again. Find your personal dildo companion here.

#4: The Classic Love Egg

All women deserve a love egg, the discreet vibrating toy used in many heated bedroom experiences. As one of the best sex toys for women in 2016, this little toy is excellent for external stimulation, or internal stimulation for any spots that need arousing. These love eggs come with fluctuating remote control for exciting couples play.


He will love the intimate vibrations, she will experience new waves of delight. Find your classic love egg companion here.

#5: The Fifty Shades of Beads

Bringing up the rear, but by no means the least enticing, are the audacious plugs and beads for intimate anal play. It’s the year of exploring new frontiers and with these ‘Fifty Shades’ style beads, you are sure to be transported into couples ecstasy.


He will love to tease you into orgasm, she won’t be able to say no. Find your Fifty Shades beads here.


The Désir Intimate Collection of ladies sex toys will help you and your loved one overcome any obstacles to fulfilling every fantasy that you want to explore. Whether you want to try something risky for the first time, or you need a companion to spice up your solo play, your needs will always be satisfied with us.


Browse our range of luxury sex toys for women here, or honour yourself by booking an exclusive champagne consultation at our showroom in Camps Bay, Cape Town.

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  • R799

    Bijoux’s Happily Ever After set makes a perfect bridal shower or honeymoon gift. The matching satin garter, self-adhesive nipple pasties and satin handcuffs make a seductive combination, inviting teasing with the exotic feather tickler. The beautiful presentation box needs no extra wrapping to make the ideal gift.

  • R2,399

    The Silver Swan rabbit vibrator is a flexible, luxury, silicone-smooth vibrator, which features a 17cm shaft designed to stimulate you internally whilst the bulbous (4cm) external curved tip ensures maximum contact and precision to your entire clitoral area. With two independently controlled motors and amazing 'press and hold' technology, you are able to...

  • R999

    The Nexus G-Play vibrators are a perfect addition to your toybox, whether you prefer anal or vaginal play. These unisex vibrators have been designed with pleasure in mind, and feature a central buldge and bulbous tip intended to stimulate either the g-spot or the prostate. The flat base acts as a stopper, making the G-Play safe for anal pleasure. The...

  • R3,149

    Beautifully packaged and a pleasure to use, the Bisous is a lightweight, high quality dual stimulation vibrator by Nexus Femme. The 11cm insertable length of the internal shaft is sharply curved to deliver maximum G-Spot stimulation and a feeling of pleasing fullness. The clitoral arm is a generous 5cm long and flexible enough to adapt to different body...

  • R3,149

    Nexus is a highly innovative brand, and with the Cadence rabbit vibrator they've taken g-spot stimulation to a new level. The Cadence has an external shaft to stimulate the clitoris, and curved internal shaft that features a moving bead at the tip. This bead 'strokes' up and down against the g-spot, stimulating it with a feeling that feels very similar to...

  • R2,699

    The Womanizer 2GO is the petite version of the original Womanizer and the ultimate clitoral stimulator. Replicating a petite lipstick in design, the Womanizer 2GO offers precise and direct stimulation by targeting the clitoris using incredible contactless Pleasure Air technology. The Womanizer 2 Go is not inserted or placed on the skin, but works by...

  • R2,799
    2 Reviews

    2016's most anticipated dual vibrator!! The new We Vibe Nova is a uniquely designed toy that takes the rabbit vibrator style to a whole new level! What makes this incredible dual stimulator so unique is its very flexible clitoral arm - it flexes with your movement, allowing it to stay in constant contact with your clitoris. It has whisper quiet...

  • R2,399

    The new Club Vibe 3.OH is a discreet wearable panty vibrator designed to please wherever the mood strikes. Whether at a club, concert or dinner party - add a new dimension to your experience. Both the panty vibe and wireless remote control, with built in microphone are now rechargable. A beautiful lace panty with custom pouch is included. The vibe is...

  • R579
    1 Review

    The Mini Massager by BodyWand is a massage wand designed for intense vibrations, intimate stimulation and all over body massage. Petite in size, this mini wand has a rounded heads that sits on a highly flexible next to assist in massaging hard to reach spots. With a soft, cushioned cover, you are able to enhance the intense sensations, whilst simply...

  • R1,799
    1 Review

    Discreet and stylish, the Lelo Mia 2 is a bliss-inducing clitoral vibrator cunningly disguised as an innocent lipstick case. It’s practically silent when in operation, has a travel lock, and is easily popped into your make-up bag (though the beautiful satin carry pouch will also do the job just fine). What’s not to love about this perfect...

  • R2,799

    The Blossom vibrator by Swan is a premium silicone rabbit type vibrator designed to allow the clitoral arm to surround and cover your clitoral area, allowing you to experience maximum stimulation and sensation. With the clitoral arm resting externally, the internal arm is gently curved to stimulate your g-spot, whilst the rotating shaft ensures you...

  • R1,499

    The Butch Cassidy rabbit vibrator by Adrien Lastic is a clitoral vibrator designed to allow you to personally customise the type of stimulation based on your desire. Use the rabbit eared head for traditional 'rabbit' clitoral stimulation, or simply slip on the smooth unicorn sleeve to experience the single, soft, curved wand for more precision....

  • R649
    Out of stock
    1 Review

    The Feranti Girls Just Wanna Have Fun gift set is a 3 in 1 collection designed to target your most sensitive hot spots. Featuring a RO-80mm Vibrating bullet, a Ramsey Rabbit sleeve, and the Finger Tingles sleeve vibe, this set is perfect for beginners and makes for the perfect gift to entice and stimulate.  Mix and match and enjoy the versatility and...

  • R1,499

    The Tango by We-vibe is quoted as being the most powerful mini vibe. Petite, powerful and pocket sized, the tango is designed for precise clitoral and external stimulation. With a tapered tip with pinpoint precision, the Tango features a flat edge perfect for all over pinpoint massage. Rechargeable and 100% body safe, the tango is 100% waterproof and...

  • R3,699
    3 Reviews

    Womanizer's new and upgraded W500 PRO Clitoral stimulator is a revolutionary product which uses both sucking and air pressure to stimulate the clitoris. Featuring two stimulating attachments, this Womanizer provides for any size clitoris, guaranteeing you a comfortable and compact fit. It has 8 intensity levels all controlled by a simple push of a button....

  • R1,299

    The BSoft is a clitoral vibrator designed to fit neatly into your panties to make any outing a little more exciting, or held in the hand for pinpoint stimulation of the clitoris. It provides light, buzzing vibrations that are ideal for the more sensitive clitoris or for beginner users. Seven functions provide a range of sensation to try out....

  • R599

    The Feranti Derriere Delights gift set by Rocks off is a gorgeous combination of anal friendly vibrators, perfect for both the introduction to anal play or for advanced use. Featuring the Little Cocky anal vibrator, the Blackberry anal plug, and a RO-80mm bullet vibrator, you have everything you need for both anal stimulation or stimulating foreplay. Use...

  • R999

    The Zizo Innie Vibe by Picobong is a classically curved vibrator perfect for focussing on all of your pleasure points. Classic and classy in it's design, the Zizo is for confident minimalists looking for maximum pleasure. With a curved shaft for G spot stimulation and a tapered tip for precise clitoral massage, the Zizo is a versatile vibe offering all...

  • R1,199

    https://www.desir.co.za/brand/picobong/The Mahana by Picobong is an innovative dual vibrator that is inserted into the vagina and stimulates both the g-spot and the clitoris. Each arm can be operated separately or they can both vibrate together to build up to a blissful blended orgasm. The Mahana is made of bodysafe ABS plastic and high-quality soft-touch...

  • R1,199

    The Moka G Spot Vibrator by Picobong is a versatile and agile vibrator designed to switch between both G-Spot and Clitoral massage. With it's angled ergonomic design, it directly stimulates the G Spot, whilst the flattened head allows you to turn it over and massage your clitoris. With vibrations alternating between the clitoris and G-spot, you are able...

  • R1,229
    1 Review

     The Lelo Luna Beads Mini are a smaller version of the original Luna Beads, offering a smaller diameter of 29mm as opposed to the Classic Luna Beads which has a diameter of 36mm.Providing sleek and seductive kinetic energy, these kegel balls are designed to respond perfectly to your movements, enhancing and toning your pelvic muscles, providing...

  • R999

    The Boss Dildo by Fun Factory is a solid dildo made of supple medical grade silicone. With a pronounced glans and realistic shaft, this ergonomically moulded dildo is perfect for both vaginal and anal use. With an impressive diameter of 4.2cm and a length of 17.9cm, this dildo has a curved tip specifically designed to stimulate the g spot as well as for...

  • R299

    The Mia kegel ball by Adrien Lastic is a singular kegel ball designed to be worn internally by a woman. Traditionally used to strengthen your pelvic muscles and internal vaginal walls, Kegel balls have also been proven to increase your orgasmic intensity when used consistently over a period of time. With a tiny weight situated inside this silky soft ball,...

  • R2,899

    The first in the popular Womanizer range, the W100 is a handy, compact clitoral stimulator that works through suction and air pressure to stimulate without direct contact. Simply place the nozzle over the head of your clitoris and relax while the Womanizer W100’s pulsating, sucking sensations build you up to a tremendous orgasm. Add a little...

  • R699
    Out of stock

    The Ignition 10 function bullet vibrator by Rocks Off is a gold, USB rechargeable, petite yet powerful on-the-go clitoral vibrator. Shaped with a tapered tip for absolute precision, the Ignition is perfect for clitoral stimulation and orgasm as well as all over erogenous massage. Simply click the button on the base to work through 3 speeds and 7 patterns,...

  • R999

    The Sqweel Go Oral Simulator gives exactly the same amount of pleasure as the original Sqweel, the only difference being its size. At just 7cm, it is the perfect travel companion. A wheel of 10 soft silicone tongue shapes turns at your chosen speed (there are three speed modes) to stimulate the clitoris. The wheel can also go into reverse mode, or...

  • R1,149
    1 Review

    The 50 speeds of play bullet by Rocks off is a stunning 16cm bullet type vibrator that packs 50 different vibrational settings into one! In a magnificent silver steel colour, this waterproof vibrator offers 50 speeds and with it's amazing new motor, provides you with more increased power than ever before. Seductive and sleek, this bullet has a tapered tip...

  • R1,699

    The Trigger rabbit vibrator by Adrien Lastic is a vibrator with a specific 'come hither' oscillating movement. With it's three powerful motors and intense vibration settings the Trigger focuses on powerful vaginal and clitoral stimulation. With the internal arm giving you a backwards and forwards motion massaging your internal vaginal canal and g spot,...

  • R1,999

    Wand vibrators deserve their reputation for delivering the ultimate in powerful orgasms, and the Holy Cow wand vibrator is no exception. This lightweight smaller-sized wand from the Fifty Shades of Grey erotic toy collection will quickly become your favourite toy. Start out your playtime with a sensual massage on your shoulders and upper back, using...

  • R699

    What is it that you most desire? When you see the Fifty Shades of Grey Insatiable Desire mini g-spot vibrator, we’re sure it will go on to your list of most desired objects. It is a compact, powerful vibrator curved perfectly to target the g-spot for intense orgasmic pleasure. The Insatiable Desire vibrator is part of the very popular Fifty...

  • R1,149
    1 Review

    Diamonds are a girls best friend & what could be a better addition to your boudoir than the Twenty One clitoral stimulator by Bijoux Indiscrets. This jewel-shaped, luxury vibrator has a powerful, discreet motor & is perfectly shaped to provide you various types of stimulation. Use it in conjunction with the luxurious Bijoux 21 2in1 Silicone Massage...

  • R1,799
    1 Review

    The Bonnie & Clyde remote controlled rabbit by Adrien Lastic is a unique vibrator designed for massaging the entire vaginal canal from top to bottom. With a remote control to seamlessly control the vibrations and intensity, this vibrator not only offers intense vibrations throughout it's shaft, but has two rotating shafts - one on the outside to swirl and...

  • R2,299

    For your own pleasure or as the perfect gift for a naughty friend, the Dare Me Pleasure Set from Lelo is both elegant and wicked. It includes a soft suede flogger, silk cuffs and Luna Beads Mini Noir. Lelo Luna Beads are pleasure-enhancing kegel exercisers that train the muscles for longer, stronger orgasms and more pleasure for your partner. This...

  • R899

    The Typhoon Rabbit vibrator by Adrien Lastic is a powerful rabbit vibe designed to stimulate both the clitoris and the internal g spot, providing you with blended and intense orgasm. Featuring a slightly larger girth (3.9cm) than the other rabbit vibes in the Adrien Lastic range, the Typhoon is powerful and big on features. With a smooth, textured...

  • R849

    The A-Moore clitoral massager by Adrien Lastic is a powerful, compressed, and ergonomically designed massager specifically for all over clitoral, vulva and even perineum massage. With it's ergonomic design resembling that of a curved tongue, this mini vibe fits perfectly into the palm of your hand, allowing you to direct your stimulation with accurate...

  • R399

    The Vibrating mesh sponge by Sex in the shower is a mesh like sponge which features a vibrating bullet hidden deep inside. Completely waterproof this sponge is designed to be visually ultra discreet and is perfect for bath or shower play. With a waterproof single speed bullet, the vibrations are dispersed throughout the sponge providing you with the most...

  • R2,399

    Je Joue is one of the most-popular luxury sex toy brands in the world. With the Uma G-spot vibrator they once again prove why they remain so popular. This vibrator, with its elegant lines and silky smooth exterior, feels incredible on your body’s most sensitive areas. Run it all over your own body or your partner’s, concentrating on erogenous...

  • R1,699

    The Fifty Shades Darker 'Oh My' Rabbit Vibrator has a smooth contoured shape with ears positioned for the ultimate clitoral stimulation during use. In a natural shape and ergonomically designed shaft, this rabbit is perfect for beginners and experianced users alike. It has two powerful twin motors which offer 8 patterns and 12 powerful speeds. In...

  • R949

    The Gaia rabbit vibrator by Adrien Lastic is all you need for all over clitoral massage and intense orgasms. With it's 2 motor design, this powerful yet whisper quiet vibrator fully massage the entire vaginal area to stimulate and provide intense sensations. With one arm vibrating internally, the external arm sits gently on the clitoris ensuring that the...

  • R1,899

    The team from G Vibe have consulted a team of researchers, designers, engineers and health specialists to come together to introduce the ultimate solution for women seeking pelvic muscle improvement. Integrating state of the art wireless technology, the G Balls 2 was born. By simply inserting the kegel device into your vagina (with a little bit of...

  • R849

    The Nyx super soft G Spot Vibrator by Adrien Lastic at a length of 20cm's features an ergonomical design and rounded curvature allowing you to precisely stimulate and reach your inner g spot. With it's super soft touch, this whisper quiet vibrator can also be used for external clitoral stimulation using it's curved and slightly flattened tip to directly...

  • R999

    The Ocean dream vibrating love egg by Adrien Lastic is a powerful wireless remote control vibrating egg designed to be worn internally by her. With 10 varying vibration speeds and settings, ranging from a steady buzz to intense orgasmic patterns, this egg is perfect for vaginal and clitoral stimulation. With a smooth silicone soft surface and a bumpy body...

  • R999
    1 Review

    The Ares rabbit vibrator by Adrien Lastic is a super soft clitoral vibrator that is designed to provide a full massage to the entire vaginal area - both internal and external. With two powerful motors - one in the head of the vibrator and another in the external clitoral arm - this vibe provides you with 8 types of powerful whisper quiet vibrations which...

  • R2,899

    The Ina Wave rabbit vibrator is one of Lelo’s innovative Wave series: vibrators that mimic the ‘come hither’ motion so often described as the perfect way to induce g-spot orgasms. The Ina is a classic rabbit vibrator, with a 10cm long internal shaft and just under 6cm on the flexible outer arm, designed to reach the clitoris with...

  • R1,699

    You’ll love the feel of the Iroha Sakura clitoral vibrator, with its supple interior and super-soft silicone finish. This luxurious clitoral stimulator gently hugs the clitoris with its split tip, or massages the entire vulva using the full surface. Squeeze the tip together to add more pressure as needed. This ladylike little vibrator nestles neatly...

  • R999

    BMS Factory has released the new Wonderlust collection (2017). Its superior engineering offers you a range of high-end luxury products at a more affordable price.Wonderlust Harmony is a classic dual-stimulating, rabbit vibrator that will hit all the right spots! The internal shaft has a sensual, tapering curve for the ultimate g spot massage, as well as a...

  • R2,799
    1 Review

    A Luxury kegel exerciser like no other! " Stimulate. Tighten. Strengthen. Recover."Welcome to your new personal trainer, the only kegel exerciser you'll ever need to help awaken those pelvic floor muscles. Unlike traditional kegel balls, this innovative design allows you to sync Candy to your Android or iPhone device via a free downloadable app, and...

  • R1,299

    The mini wand by Swan is a luxuriously compact vibrator beautiful in both design and power. Perfect for on the go, this wand in it's seamless and soft to the touch silicone finish is waterproof, luxurious and compact. Powered by the intensive PowerBullet motor, this press and hold vibe has a travel lock and is charged via a USB cord. With a run time of up...

  • R1,499
    1 Review

    The Bcurious Premium vibrator is ergonomically designed with each surface and curve designed with the specific intention of pleasure. The broad curves allow for all over vulva massage while the pointed tip is perfect for clitoral or anal stimulation. The firmness of the material makes it perfect for grinding against. With 7 functions, the pulsations and...

  • R1,199

    The Tano2 by Picobong is a sleek anal vibrator designed for both beginners and experienced pleasure-seekers alike. With a flared base for added security and comfort, the Tano features a ring for ease of control and is easy to insert and remove thanks to the tapered slim tip. The Tano features 12 intense vibration modes operated by only 1 AAA battery and...

  • R1,449
    1 Review

    This small yet incredibly powerful Palmpower Personal Massager features a sturdy & slighty tapered handle that fits perfectly in your hand, and is perfect for clitoral, anal, or body massage. Its soft silicone head pivots as you let it explore your body. With its one touch speed control, its varying vibrations strengths will take your sensual...

  • R649
    Out of stock
    1 Review

    The Delicious Pleasure Ben Wa Balls from Fifty Shades of Grey are beautifully designed and wonderfully versatile. The two bodysafe ABS plastic balls can be used individually. At 32 grams each, they are excellent exercisers for the pelvic floor. Combining the balls with the medical grade silicone sheath makes them easier to insert and remove, using...

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