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Discover our luxury range of exclusive sex toys for women, designed to enrich intimate couple encounters and individual exploration. Fulfil all the desires of your heart with quality ladies sex toys like vibrators, stimulators, beads, wands and plugs – for bedroom experiences that will please the most urgent cravings of the liberated, modern woman.

Explore your most intimate fantasies with our range of sex toys for women.

Your Private Bedroom Paradise

From our discerning intimate collection, Désir is proud to offer our clients the chance to collect some of the best sex toys for women in South Africa, available from our discreet online website, headquartered from our showroom in Camps Bay, Cape Town.


Whether you are hunting for just the right couple’s toy, or you need a more exciting solo experience, these ladies sex toys will open your eyes to a new world of intimate play.


To buy sex toys for women online these days, (especially in South Africa) you often have to wade through websites you would rather not have to visit.


Désir bridges the gap between tasteful play and credible, confidential delivery, to bring you an intimate brand you can trust with your deepest desires. We know that the most private women can also be the wildest in the bedroom!


Ladies sex toys are an essential element in any lively bedroom, adding fresh, creative opportunities for you to get to know yourself and your loved one better. For intense massaging, tickling or vibrating pleasure, our sex toys will give you the reason you need to add new rules to the bedroom games you so enjoy.


Discover our amazing list of the best sex toys for women for 2016, and glide down the rabbit hole into a new dimension of sexual excitement this year. It all starts with you.

The Best Sex Toys For Women: 2016

A sex toy worth investing in is always pleasurable, comfortable and fun. In 2016, the level of functionality and sophistication has reached an all-time high, and that is important news for women looking to add to their collections. Here is our top 5 list of the greatest luxury ladies sex toys on the market, available for purchase at Désir.co.za right now.


The finest sex toys draw him nearer, a closeness like you have never experienced

Every toy is the catalyst for greater intensity, whether used alone or shared between two.

#1: The Trendy Vibrator

Whether you are in the mood for a light massage, or some earth-shaking penetration action, a woman’s best friend this year is a quality vibrator. Easily one of the best sex toys for women ever created, they now come in a variety of fun colours, soft, waterproof materials and creative dual-action designs.


He will love your mounting excitement, she will love yours even more. Find your ideal vibrating companion here.

#2: The Orgasmic Exerciser

Stronger pelvic muscles mean more intense, longer-lasting orgasms with the many kegel exercisers now on offer. As a sex toy that women love, these kegel balls make it possible to enjoy the act of exercising while getting a little something extra out of the act.


From beginner’s level to a more advanced toning action, making sex feel better has never been more fun to do.


He will love the heightened pressure, she will rediscover the power of her orgasm. Find your perfect orgasmic exerciser here.

#3: The Daring Dildo

Add variety to your bedroom experiences with a daring dildo – one of the best sex toys for women in 2016. Whether used for manual or hands-free action, or for more creative couples play – no cabinet of delights should be without a few of these durable textured silicone or glass wands. As ladies sex toys go, this remains a timeless great.


He will love its Swiss-army surprises, she will never feel uninspired again. Find your personal dildo companion here.

#4: The Classic Love Egg

All women deserve a love egg, the discreet vibrating toy used in many heated bedroom experiences. As one of the best sex toys for women in 2016, this little toy is excellent for external stimulation, or internal stimulation for any spots that need arousing. These love eggs come with fluctuating remote control for exciting couples play.


He will love the intimate vibrations, she will experience new waves of delight. Find your classic love egg companion here.

#5: The Fifty Shades of Beads

Bringing up the rear, but by no means the least enticing, are the audacious plugs and beads for intimate anal play. It’s the year of exploring new frontiers and with these ‘Fifty Shades’ style beads, you are sure to be transported into couples ecstasy.


He will love to tease you into orgasm, she won’t be able to say no. Find your Fifty Shades beads here.


The Désir Intimate Collection of ladies sex toys will help you and your loved one overcome any obstacles to fulfilling every fantasy that you want to explore. Whether you want to try something risky for the first time, or you need a companion to spice up your solo play, your needs will always be satisfied with us.


Browse our range of luxury sex toys for women here, or honour yourself by booking an exclusive champagne consultation at our showroom in Camps Bay, Cape Town.

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  • R929
    1 Review

    The Fifty Shades of Freed Crazy for You bullet vibrator is a luxury silicone bullet styled with a heart shaped tip designed to offer pinpoint and precise arousal to the clitoral area. With a smooth cartridge type shape, the Crazy For You, measuring at 10cm in length and 8cm in circumference is made from the finest soft, body-safe silicone, and is...

  • R1,399
    Out of stock

    This petite and powerful g-spot vibrator is highly recommended for those new to sex toys. It’s strong, quiet and easy to use, with ergonomic design for a comfortable grip and a simple one-touch button control on the handle. The Lovelife Cuddle is an award-winning design with a subtle ridge to the tip and a curved shaft that perfectly targets the...

  • R1,899
    1 Review

    The Fifty Shades Freed Body Bloom vibrating panty takes erotic play to a new level. Including a beautifully designed stretch lace panty and a ergonomically designed whisper-quiet vibrator, you are able to experience the ultimate in teasing foreplay. With a remote control, your partner is able to navigate through 8 differing pulsating patterns, as well as...

  • R3,599
    3 Reviews

    Womanizer's new and upgraded W500 PRO Clitoral stimulator is a revolutionary product which uses both sucking and air pressure to stimulate the clitoris. Featuring two stimulating attachments, this Womanizer provides for any size clitoris, guaranteeing you a comfortable and compact fit. It has 8 intensity levels all controlled by a simple push of a button....

  • R599

    The Vooom Charged bullet vibrator by Screaming O is a powerful, portable, waterproof vibrator that provides precise and powerful vibrations perfect for either clitoral, perineal, or anal play. Featuring 10 functions, this vibrator has a powerful rumbling vibration providing you with a dramatically different sensation to that of a regular humm. With it's...

  • R2,499
    1 Review

    Nexus is a highly innovative brand, and with the Cadence rabbit vibrator they've taken g-spot stimulation to a new level. The Cadence has an external shaft to stimulate the clitoris, and curved internal shaft that features a moving bead at the tip. This bead 'strokes' up and down against the g-spot, stimulating it with a feeling that feels very similar to...

  • R1,899
    1 Review

    The petite yet powerful Swan Hug rabbit vibrator features Squeeze Control technology to make your pleasure even easier. Simply switch on the Hug vibrator then squeeze the sides of the handle to increase the speed of the two motors. Separate buttons on the handle allow you to control the motors indivicually according to your desire. The 9cm insertable...

  • R2,499
    1 Review

    The Gala by luxury adult toy manufacturer, We-Vibe, is an ultra powerful and luxurious dual-motor vibrator, that has two tips targeted for pleasure to the clitoral area. With two vibrating motors on each tip, the clitoral tips drive powerful stimulation to your clitoris and can either be controlled together or seperately. The compact size...

  • R1,499

    The Butch Cassidy rabbit vibrator by Adrien Lastic is a clitoral vibrator designed to allow you to personally customise the type of stimulation based on your desire. Use the rabbit eared head for traditional 'rabbit' clitoral stimulation, or simply slip on the smooth unicorn sleeve to experience the single, soft, curved wand for more precision....

  • R1,599
    1 Review

    The Fifty Shades Freed I've Got You remote-controlled egg is the perfect love egg for both beginners and experienced toy users. Designed with an ergonomical and shapely contour, this love-egg is perfect for either anal or vaginal use. Cover it in your favourite water-based lubricant, give the remote-control to your partner and enjoy exhiliration of the 8...

  • R2,299
    3 Reviews

    The Doxy plug in all over massage body wand is an upgrade to the traditional Hitachi style clitoral wand. Now powered directly by your mains as opposed to battery, this large massage wand offers additional power and stimulation, making it perfect for either clitoral and vulva stimulation or simply for all over body massage. With a soft,...

  • R549
    Out of stock
    1 Review

    The Mini Massager by BodyWand is a massage wand designed for intense vibrations, intimate stimulation and all over body massage. Petite in size, this mini wand has a rounded heads that sits on a highly flexible next to assist in massaging hard to reach spots. With a soft, cushioned cover, you are able to enhance the intense sensations, whilst simply...

  • R2,199
    1 Review

    The BodyWand Pulse is a 'Hitachi' style body-wand featuring a brand new upgraded look, feel, and design. This rechargeable massager has improved features such as a smooth scrolling dial, a flexible neck perfect for body pressure points, a pulsation mode with intensely powerful and quiet vibrations perfect for clitoral stimulation, and has a long-lasting 2...

  • R1,899

    The Fifty Shades Freed Come to Bed Rabbit vibrator is a beautifully styled, luxury silicone rabbit vibrator designed to stimulate both the clitoris and g-spot simultaneously. This rabbit vibrator has a smooth silicone shaft, silky smooth contours, and a curved tip - all to ensure precise and direct stimulation. Powered by twin motors, this rabbit offers 8...

  • R1,599 R1,898
    Reduced price!

    Treat yourself to the ultimate clitoral stimulation experience. The Iroha Sakura is a clitoral vibrator by Tenga, covered in soft, supple silicone. Its oval shape allows for general clitoral stimulation, whilst the split tip gently hugs the clitoris for a more precise stimulation. To increase that intimate sensation, the Wicked Awaken gel, with its added...

  • R1,199
    1 Review

    With Lelo’s Luna Beads you can graduate to different sizes and weights of beads as your pelvic floor strengthens. A strong and body-safe silicon harness holds two beads securely, with a loop for easy retrieval. In your set, you’ll receive two lighter beads, and two larger beads. Each bead has an internal weight that moves with you, creating an...

  • R1,149

    The So Exquisite G-Spot Vibrator by Fifty Shades Freed is a specially shaped luxurious vibrator designed to stimulate and activate your g-spot. With it's sensual curves, full shape, and sleek finish, this vibrator offers 7 speeds and 3 vibrational patterns, and is perfect for both beginners and experts alike. Made from the softest body safe silicone, the...

  • R999

    The Zizo Innie Vibe by Picobong is a classically curved vibrator perfect for focussing on all of your pleasure points. Classic and classy in it's design, the Zizo is for confident minimalists looking for maximum pleasure. With a curved shaft for G spot stimulation and a tapered tip for precise clitoral massage, the Zizo is a versatile vibe offering all...

  • R1,499

    The G Plug Small is one of the smallest rechargeable anal plugs available today. With a diameter of 3cm and in a gorgeous neon rose colour, it is perfect for beginners or those wanting to experience gentle anal play. With 6 different vibrations, you are able to navigate your way through the varied sensations. USB rechargeable you have approximately 40...

  • R949

    The Bloom Clitoral vibrator by Fifty Shades of Freed is a petal shaped, rechargeable vibrator designed for all-encompassing external clitoral and vulva stimulation. Made from the most luxurious body-safe silicone, this ergonomic toy is completely supple at both sides, allowing you to flex your toy for the perfect fit and shape for your body contours....

  • R2,399
    Out of stock
    2 Reviews

    Lelo’s Smartwands are more than just a smart update on the traditional body massager/vibrator made famous by Hitachi. They’re ergonomically designed with a comfortably curved handle and flexible head to make them easier to hold and use. Plus, they’re rechargeable rather than mains powered, so there’s no fumbling with a clumsy cord...

  • R1,199

    Vibrating ‘love eggs’ are so much fun. They can be used externally similarly to a bullet vibrator by holding the egg against the clitoris for direct stimulation. They can also be inserted into the vagina and then worn while you go about your daily tasks, adding a wicked extra edge of pleasure to your routine. Of course, they’re also...

  • R1,499
    Out of stock
    1 Review

    The Swan PalmPower personal massager has a deserved reputation as one of the most powerful and compact massage wands available. This rechargeable version of the classic PalmPower bodywand gives you all the power, with no pesky electrical cords to get in the way of your pleasure. The PalmPower features a cleverly tapered handle that is easy to hold...

  • R629

    The B Swish Bfilled wireless remote massaging plug is perfect for anal couple play. However, and wherever you chose, the remote allows a partner to control the vibes with 5 vibrationary speeds and a wireless remote. Perfectfully designed with a tapered tip for easy insertion and an unobtrusive base, this plug is ideal for prolonged wear and for...

  • R749

    The A-Moore clitoral massager by Adrien Lastic is a powerful, compressed, and ergonomically designed massager specifically for all over clitoral, vulva and even perineum massage. With it's ergonomic design resembling that of a curved tongue, this mini vibe fits perfectly into the palm of your hand, allowing you to direct your stimulation with accurate...

  • R599

    Discover a whole new sexual experience with the Discover Double Dong by Vibe Therapy. Made from body-safe silicone, it has sensual ridges along its shaft for added stimulation. This double ended dildo also warms quickly to your body temperature, for enhanced sensations. It can be used for solo play, but is most definitely a toy to bring excitement to the...

  • R1,699
    2 Reviews

    The Award Winning Satisfyer Pro 2 is a waterproof, contactless clitoral stimulator that is an updated version of the original Satisfyer. This popular, rechargeable toy does not vibrate, but uses suction to provide mind-blowing pleasure sensations! The soft silicone head is placed over your clitoris for contactless extasy, pressure waves, and by switching...

  • R1,499

    You’ll love the feel of the Iroha Sakura clitoral vibrator, with its supple interior and super-soft silicone finish. This luxurious clitoral stimulator gently hugs the clitoris with its split tip, or massages the entire vulva using the full surface. Squeeze the tip together to add more pressure as needed. This ladylike little vibrator nestles neatly...

  • R949

    The Gaia rabbit vibrator by Adrien Lastic is all you need for all over clitoral massage and intense orgasms. With it's 2 motor design, this powerful yet whisper quiet vibrator fully massage the entire vaginal area to stimulate and provide intense sensations. With one arm vibrating internally, the external arm sits gently on the clitoris ensuring that the...

  • R2,099
    1 Review

    The Silver Swan is part of Swan’s collection of beautifully designed rabbit vibrators. If you prefer a broader and more rumbly sensation on your clitoris, rather than pinpoint attention, then the Silver Swan is the sex toy for you. The internal shaft is also a little shorter than others, with an insertable length of just 7.6cm, and a full...

  • R2,299

    The Royal Swan, a classic rabbit vibrator with rotation in the main shaft tip and a separate vibration in the external shaft to target the clitoris. Two buttons control the different shafts, so you have complete control over the intensity of sensation. Quick press to turn on or off, or hold the button down to speed up the motor. The insertable shaft is a...

  • R2,799
    Out of stock

    The Elise 2 by Lelo is a classic designed vibrator providing you with the most intense and powerful vibrations. With 100% stronger stimulation than before, the Elise 2 features 8 modes and vibrations which stem from the two powerful motors in the base and tip. Perfect for both clitoral and g-spot massage, the Elise 2 is made from 100% body safe silicone,...

  • R699
    3 Reviews

    The Sweet Touch is an innovative clitoral vibrator with two stimulation points guaranteed to set your nerves aquiver! On one side, the hooded end is placed over the head of the clitoris to gently massage you to orgasm. If you are looking for more pinpoint vibrations, simply flip the Sweet Touch over and use the powerful nub end to take you over the edge...

  • R1,149

    https://www.desir.co.za/brand/picobong/The Mahana by Picobong is an innovative dual vibrator that is inserted into the vagina and stimulates both the g-spot and the clitoris. Each arm can be operated separately or they can both vibrate together to build up to a blissful blended orgasm. The Mahana is made of bodysafe ABS plastic and high-quality soft-touch...

  • R1,999

    The Abby G-Spot Vibrator is the latest vibrator from Fun Factory's Battery+ range, which now features the strongest and most powerful battery-operated motor on the market. Featuring both rechargeable and regular batteries, the Abby G allows you to choose your charging mode, ensuring that you never lose power - no matter where you are. Shaped for amazing...

  • R899

    The Fun Factory Amor dildo at a length of 12.5 cm, an insertable length of 11cm and diameter of 3.5 cm, is the smallest dildo from the Fun Factory range. With a sleek, flexible design and a naturalistic shape of the tip, this dildo is perfect for targeting either the g-spot or the p-spot. Used with water based lubricant this dildo is perfect for either...

  • R999
    1 Review

    The Bcurious Premium vibrator is ergonomically designed with each surface and curve designed with the specific intention of pleasure. The broad curves allow for all over vulva massage while the pointed tip is perfect for clitoral or anal stimulation. The firmness of the material makes it perfect for grinding against. With 7 functions, the pulsations and...

  • R999

    The Nexus G-Play vibrators are a perfect addition to your toybox, whether you prefer anal or vaginal play. These unisex vibrators have been designed with pleasure in mind, and feature a central buldge and bulbous tip intended to stimulate either the g-spot or the prostate. The flat base acts as a stopper, making the G-Play safe for anal pleasure. The...

  • R2,499

    Beautifully packaged and a pleasure to use, the Bisous is a lightweight, high quality dual stimulation vibrator by Nexus Femme. The 11cm insertable length of the internal shaft is sharply curved to deliver maximum G-Spot stimulation and a feeling of pleasing fullness. The clitoral arm is a generous 5cm long and flexible enough to adapt to different body...

  • R2,199

    The Jive, by We-vibe,  has been quoted as being the ultimate in discreet pleasure. A bluetooth wearable, remote-controlled vibrator, the Jive allows hands-free play whether solo or with your partner. Connect it to the We-vibe App on your smartphone and allow your partner to control the 10 varied settings which take you from slow and steady to...

  • R2,799
    2 Reviews

    2016's most anticipated dual vibrator!! The new We Vibe Nova is a uniquely designed toy that takes the rabbit vibrator style to a whole new level! What makes this incredible dual stimulator so unique is its very flexible clitoral arm - it flexes with your movement, allowing it to stay in constant contact with your clitoris. It has whisper quiet...

  • R2,599

    With nearly 14cm of insertable length on a girthy shaft, and a longer and more flexible external shaft, the Blossom Swan is an intensely fulfilling rabbit vibrator for those who like powerful sensations. The rotating internal shaft has a bulge to the centre and a noticeable curve to the tip to target all your internal sweet spots. The outer arm has a...

  • R1,799

    Fun Factory's Mr Boss g-spot and clitoral vibrator is part of the Battery+ range. With the most powerful battery operated motor in the market, the Mr Boss vibrator offers power that is comparable to your favourite rechargeable toy. With it's new technology, the MR Boss takes ordinary batteries, offering such strong vibrations that you wouldn't know the...

  • R1,499
    1 Review

    The Tango by We-vibe is quoted as being the most powerful mini vibe. Petite, powerful and pocket sized, the tango is designed for precise clitoral and external stimulation. With a tapered tip with pinpoint precision, the Tango features a flat edge perfect for all over pinpoint massage. Rechargeable and 100% body safe, the tango is 100% waterproof and...

  • R1,299

    The BSoft is a clitoral vibrator designed to fit neatly into your panties to make any outing a little more exciting, or held in the hand for pinpoint stimulation of the clitoris. It provides light, buzzing vibrations that are ideal for the more sensitive clitoris or for beginner users. Seven functions provide a range of sensation to try out....

  • R1,899

    The Fifty Shades of Freed Feel So Alive vibrating anal plug is a remote controlled pleasure plug designed to offer sensational indulgence and intimacy. With it's smooth silicone base and ergonomically designed shape, this anal plug is perfect for beginners and experienced users alike. With a solid t-like base to maintain it's position, this plug has 8...

  • R599

    The Feranti Derriere Delights gift set by Rocks off is a gorgeous combination of anal friendly vibrators, perfect for both the introduction to anal play or for advanced use. Featuring the Little Cocky anal vibrator, the Blackberry anal plug, and a RO-80mm bullet vibrator, you have everything you need for both anal stimulation or stimulating foreplay. Use...

  • R1,899

    The new Club Vibe 3.OH is a discreet wearable panty vibrator designed to please wherever the mood strikes. Whether at a club, concert or dinner party - add a new dimension to your experience. Both the panty vibe and wireless remote control, with built in microphone are now rechargable. A beautiful lace panty with custom pouch is included. The vibe is...

  • R1,149
    1 Review

    The Lelo Luna Beads are an excellent kegel exercise system. This set of Luna Beads Mini has beads that are the same weight but are somewhat smaller in size than the classic Luna Beads set. This is ideal for women who find that a larger bead is uncomfortable to insert or wear. You’ll still get the advantages of the weighted balls inside the...

  • R999
    1 Review

    The Boss Dildo by Fun Factory is a solid dildo made of supple medical grade silicone. With a pronounced glans and realistic shaft, this ergonomically moulded dildo is perfect for both vaginal and anal use. With an impressive diameter of 4.2cm and a length of 17.9cm, this dildo has a curved tip specifically designed to stimulate the g spot as well as for...

  • R599

    Tantus butt plugs are cleverly designed and hand-poured in velvety-soft bodysafe silicone. The Ryder is intended as an ‘intermediate’ anal plug: smooth to insert, and with a curved base that sits comfortably between the butt cheeks for comfortable wear and easy-grip removal. This butt plug has a 10cm insertable length, with a long, narrow...

  • R2,199

    The Je Joue Dua is a G-spot and Clitoral vibrator designed for couple use and perfect for foreplay. Shaped to fit each woman's intimate shape perfectly, the Dua features two seperate vibrating pleasure points via an external and internal motor which provide you with a deep rumbling sensation for dual stimulation. Worn with the bigger shaft inserted...

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