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THE BEST SEX TOYS FOR WOMEN ENCOURAGE INTIMATE JOURNEYS INTO DESIRE, SENSITIVITY AND UNDERSTANDING.

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Discover our luxury range of exclusive sex toys for women, designed to enrich intimate couple encounters and individual exploration. Fulfil all the desires of your heart with quality ladies sex toys like vibrators, stimulators, beads, wands and plugs – for bedroom experiences that will please the most urgent cravings of the liberated, modern females.Explore your most intimate fantasies with our range of sex toys for women.


Your Private Bedroom Paradise

From our discerning intimate collection, Désir is proud to offer our clients the chance to collect some of the best sex toys for women in South Africa, available from our discreet online website, headquartered from our showroom in Camps Bay, Cape Town.


Whether you are hunting for just the right couple’s toy, or you need a more exciting solo experience, these female sex toys will open your eyes to a new world of intimate play.


To buy sex toys for women online these days, (especially in South Africa) you often have to wade through websites you would rather not have to visit.


Désir bridges the gap between tasteful play and credible, confidential delivery, to bring you an intimate brand you can trust with your deepest desires. We know that the most private women can also be the wildest in the bedroom!


Ladies sex toys are an essential element in any lively bedroom, adding fresh, creative opportunities for you to get to know yourself and your loved one better. For intense massaging, tickling or vibrating pleasure, our sex toys will give you the reason you need to add new rules to the bedroom games you so enjoy.


Discover our amazing list of the best sex toys for women for 2016, and glide down the rabbit hole into a new dimension of sexual excitement this year. It all starts with you.

The Best Sex Toys For Women: 2016

A sex toy worth investing in is always pleasurable, comfortable and fun. In 2016, the level of functionality and sophistication has reached an all-time high, and that is important news for women looking to add to their collections. Here is our top 5 list of the greatest luxury ladies sex toys on the market, available for purchase at Désir.co.za right now.


The finest sex toys draw him nearer, a closeness like you have never experienced

Every toy is the catalyst for greater intensity, whether used alone or shared between two.

#1: The Trendy Vibrator

Whether you are in the mood for a light massage, or some earth-shaking penetration action, a woman’s best friend this year is a quality vibrator. Easily one of the best sex toys for women ever created, they now come in a variety of fun colours, soft, waterproof materials and creative dual-action designs.


He will love your mounting excitement, she will love yours even more. Find your ideal vibrating companion here.

#2: The Orgasmic Exerciser

Stronger pelvic muscles mean more intense, longer-lasting orgasms with the many kegel exercisers now on offer. As a sex toy that women love, these kegel balls make it possible to enjoy the act of exercising while getting a little something extra out of the act.


From beginner’s level to a more advanced toning action, making sex feel better has never been more fun to do.


He will love the heightened pressure, she will rediscover the power of her orgasm. Find your perfect orgasmic exerciser here.

#3: The Daring Dildo

Add variety to your bedroom experiences with a daring dildo – one of the best sex toys for women in 2016. Whether used for manual or hands-free action, or for more creative couples play – no cabinet of delights should be without a few of these durable textured silicone or glass wands. As ladies sex toys go, this remains a timeless great.


He will love its Swiss-army surprises, she will never feel uninspired again. Find your personal dildo companion here.

#4: The Classic Love Egg

All women deserve a love egg, the discreet vibrating toy used in many heated bedroom experiences. As one of the best sex toys for women in 2016, this little toy is excellent for external stimulation, or internal stimulation for any spots that need arousing. These love eggs come with fluctuating remote control for exciting couples play.


He will love the intimate vibrations, she will experience new waves of delight. Find your classic love egg companion here.

#5: The Fifty Shades of Beads

Bringing up the rear, but by no means the least enticing, are the audacious plugs and beads for intimate anal play. It’s the year of exploring new frontiers and with these ‘Fifty Shades’ style beads, you are sure to be transported into couples ecstasy.


He will love to tease you into orgasm, she won’t be able to say no. Find your Fifty Shades beads here.


The Désir Intimate Collection of ladies sex toys will help you and your loved one overcome any obstacles to fulfilling every fantasy that you want to explore. Whether you want to try something risky for the first time, or you need a companion to spice up your solo play, your needs will always be satisfied with us.


Browse our range of luxury sex toys for women here, or honour yourself by booking an exclusive champagne consultation at our showroom in Camps Bay, Cape Town.

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  • R2,399
    1 Review

    The new Club Vibe 3.OH is a discreet wearable panty vibrator designed to please wherever the mood strikes  - whether at a club, concert or dinner party. With a quiet motor, you are able to tuck the slim, lightweight, velvety finish vibe into the custom designed black panty (included) and let your partner do the rest. With three different settings,...

  • R1,699
    2 Reviews

    The Award Winning Satisfyer Pro 2 is a waterproof, contactless clitoral stimulator that is an updated version of the original Satisfyer. This popular, rechargeable toy does not vibrate, but uses pressure-wave stimulated suction to provide mind-blowing pleasure sensations! The soft silicone head is placed over your clitoris for contactless extasy, pressure...

  • R2,499
    1 Review

    The first in the popular Womanizer range, the W100 is a handy, compact clitoral stimulator that works through suction and air pressure to stimulate without direct contact. Simply place the nozzle over the head of your clitoris and relax while the Womanizer W100’s pulsating, sucking sensations build you up to a tremendous orgasm. Add a little...

  • R1,899
    1 Review

    Oh, the sweet release of an incredible orgasm! This exquisite royal purple and rose gold clitoral stimulator means business when it comes to your pleasure. Featuring four suction patterns that stimulate the clitoris directly by replicating oral sex stimulation, and 3 speeds of vibrational intensity, you get the best of both worlds in this toy. Use the air...

  • R2,649

    The Womanizer 2GO is a powerful and petite on-the-go clitoral stimulator. With it's revolutionary, and contactless Pleasure Air Technology stimulation, the 2Go targets the clitoris by gently sucking and stimulating your sweet spot without touching it directly. By applying intense pulsating pressure waves to your clitoral region, you experience direct and...

  • R4,299

    The Womanizer Plus Size is one of the latest products from award winning brand, Womanizer. Specialising in touch-less clitoral suction and stimulation, the Womanizer products use a servomotor and air compression pump that when working together create a suctioning effect on your clitoris - replicating the intensity of oral stimulation - and provide...

  • R1,999
    Out of stock
    1 Review

    Sona Cruise by LELO stimulates the entire clitoris - even the parts you don't see! The Sona Cruise produces a whisper quiet fluttering hum and a gentle massage of sonic waves so you can reach a different kind of orgasm. It's a prolonged climax after a sensual build-up, an orgasm that comes from deep within. Sona doesn't directly make contact with the...

  • R3,545
    3 Reviews

    Womanizer's new and upgraded W500 PRO Clitoral stimulator is a revolutionary product which uses patented PleasureAir Technology to stimulate your clitoris without even touching it! By applying the circular nub directly over your clitoris (apply a small amount of lubricant prior), the W500 gently sucks and uses soft pressure waves to stimulate your entire...

  • R3,499 R3,944
    Reduced price!
    Out of stock

    The Womanizer has fast become one of the most popular clitoral stimulators & it is no wonder as to why! The W500 is stimulator that is a revolutionary product which uses both sucking and air pressure to stimulate the clitoris for mind-blowing orgasms. To top it all off, the Ultra Heat lubricant by Wicked is perfectly moulded to heat things up in just the...

  • R2,249

    The multi award-winning Queen Bee vibrator designed by the famous Hot Octopuss brand, is a revolutionary clitoral stimulator founded on medical science and designed for versatility. Powered by the incredible and next-generation oscillating Pulse-Plate, this clitoral stimulator delivers a completely unique and intense experience. By offering a gentle flat...

  • R2,449
    2 Reviews

    Lelo’s Smartwands are more than just a smart update on the traditional body massager/vibrator made famous by Hitachi. They’re ergonomically designed with a comfortably curved handle and flexible head to make them easier to hold and use. Plus, they’re rechargeable rather than mains powered, so there’s no fumbling with a clumsy cord...

  • R4,249 R4,777
    Reduced price!

    Shared desire and arousal is such an important part of a relationship. Celebrate your love with this luxury set of Lelo erotic toys and accessories. The Lelo Noa is a stunning couple’s toy that will stay in place during penetration, vibrating against her clitoris to bring her to an incredible orgasm during penetration. The Lelo Noa is a wonderful...

  • R3,299
    1 Review

    Lelo’s Smartwands are more than just a smart update on the traditional body massager/vibrator made famous by Hitachi. They’re ergonomically designed with a comfortably curved handle and flexible head to make them easier to hold and use. Plus, they’re rechargeable rather than mains powered, so there’s no fumbling with a clumsy cord...

  • R2,299
    1 Review

    The Fifty Shades Freed Awash with Sensation Wand is a powerful wand vibrator designed to offer you varied stimulation, from all-over body massage to broad, powerful intimate area stimulation. Designed much like the original 'Hitachi' wand, this vibrator features a large rounded swivel head coated in a luxuriously smooth silicone, allowing you to stimulate...

  • R4,499 R5,147
    Reduced price!

    From the Fifty Shades Freed range, we have put together three stunning sex toys for shared exploration. For her desire, the Awash With Sensations mains-powered wand vibrator is a powerhouse of pleasure. Start with all-over body massage and intensify the arousal by focusing on her vulva and clitoris with the ten speeds and twenty vibration patterns....

  • R1,499

    Based on the famous Hitachi Magic Wand, this Minds of Love Massager has been specifically designed for all-over body and clitoral massage. Featuring a flexible and soft head, this 2 speed wand vibrator is perfect for all-over clitoral and vulva stimulation. Thanks to it's broad coverage, you are able to flex the head over your vulva area stimulating...

  • R1,899

    Wand vibrators deserve their reputation for delivering the ultimate in powerful orgasms, and the Holy Cow wand vibrator is no exception. This lightweight smaller-sized wand from the Fifty Shades of Grey erotic toy collection will quickly become your favourite toy. Start out your playtime with a sensual massage on your shoulders and upper back, using...

  • R2,499

    At first glance, the Doxy Don looks a little odd, with its chunky handle and short shaft. Don’t be fooled. This strange looking toy is one of the most popular and successful sex toys available today, with dozens of glowing reviews. One reviewer even said that Doxy should receive an award for ‘their outstanding work in the Field of...

  • R799
    1 Review

    The BThrilled Classic Wand vibrator by BSwish is a powerful, 5 speed vibrating massage wand perfect for all-over vulva, clitoral, or body massage. With it's silky smooth silicone massage head, this wand features an ergonomically designed handle allowing you to precisely target your sweet spot. With 5 rumbly massage functions, the broad silky-smooth head...

  • R1,299 R1,547
    Reduced price!

    Get your sexy toy kit started with this set of two perfect toys – one for him and one for her – and a classic lubricant. Always start with a good lube for great sex or solo play. Hydra Natural Glide lubricant from Intimate Earth is a paraben- and glycerine-free lubricant with natural ingredients. It’s bodysafe and is totally compatible...

  • R2,349
    5 Reviews

    The Doxy plug-in all-over massage body wand, is an upgrade to the traditional Hitachi style clitoral wand. Now powered directly by your mains as opposed to battery, this large massage wand offers additional power and stimulation, making it perfect for either clitoral and vulva stimulation or simply for all over body massage. Based on the...

  • R999
    Out of stock
    1 Review

    The new Pillow Talk range from luxury erotic toy manufacturers BMS Factory is sure to prove as popular as their Swan and Palmpower toys. BMS adult toys are known for their powerful motors and beautiful silicone finish, and the Pillow Talk Cheeky Wand Massager is no exception. The PowerBullet™ motor in the head of this vibrating massage wand is...

  • R549
    4 Reviews

    The Mini Massager by BodyWand is a massage wand designed for intense vibrations, intimate stimulation and all over body massage. Petite in size, this mini wand has a rounded head that sits on a highly flexible neck to assist in massaging hard to reach spots. With a soft, cushioned cover, you are able to enhance the intense sensations, whilst simply...

  • R1,999
    1 Review

    The BodyWand Pulse is a 'Hitachi' style body-wand featuring a brand new upgraded look, feel, and design. Measuring in at 27cm's, this petite yet powerful wand is designed to provide you with all-over vulva and clitoral stimulation, and is even used as a pressure point body massager. A flexible neck allows you to swivel the wand and apply just the right...

  • R1,399
    Out of stock
    1 Review

    The Swan PalmPower personal massager has a deserved reputation as one of the most powerful and compact massage wands available. This rechargeable version of the classic PalmPower bodywand gives you all the power, with no pesky electrical cords to get in the way of your pleasure. The PalmPower features a cleverly tapered handle that is easy to hold...

  • R2,399 R2,796
    Reduced price!
    Out of stock

    With this beginner kit you’ll soon be pleasure pros! There’s plenty here for you to explore individually and as a couple. Get to know what turns you both on, and how to build each other’s pleasure to a peak. Remember, the couple that plays together, stays together! You’ll both love the Palm Power Personal Massager. It can be used...

  • R399
    2 Reviews

    The PalmSensual is a set of two click-and-play heads that are designed to be used with the Swan PalmPower Rechargeable Body Massager. Pop one of these on to the head of your PalmPower to change it from a regular bodywand to a powerful G-Spot massager or rabbit-style vibrator. Made from seamless 100% bodysafe silicone, these heads are designed to...

  • R399

    Though the real beauty of the Swan PalmPower lies in its orgasmic strength, let’s not forget that this petite yet powerful toy does actually make a great massager for less erogenous zones. Use it with the standard rounded head, or grab yourself this set of two clic-and-play interchangeable heads to target specific muscle zones and ease stress....

  • R2,849
    3 Reviews

    Rabbit vibrators can be your best friend, giving you endless blended orgasms with dual stimulation of the g-spot and clitoris. But if they don’t fit your body, they’ll just end up frustrating you. That’s why we love the Nova by We-Vibe™. This stunningly flexible rabbit-style vibrator has a curved and bulging insertable arm that has...

  • R3,299
    5 Reviews

    As part of the Lelo Insignia range, the Soraya can be expected to be high quality. With its silky smooth hypoallergenic silicone finish, and the opulent looking gold ABS trim, this rabbit vibrator is widely acknowledged as one of the most popular worldwide. The flexible external arm delivers pinpoint stimulation to the clitoris, while the curved 11 cm...

  • R3,699 R4,027
    Reduced price!

    Indulge in the luxury of this high quality branded sex toy. You’ll feel the difference immediately. From the strong rechargeable motor to the satin smooth silicone finish, Lelo erotic toys are lasting quality. In this set you’ll find the stunning Soraya rabbit vibrator. Part of the Insignia range from Lelo, the Soraya features an silver ABS...

  • R1,799

    The Fifty Shades Freed Come to Bed Rabbit vibrator is a beautifully styled, luxury silicone rabbit vibrator designed to stimulate both the clitoris and g-spot simultaneously. This rabbit vibrator has a smooth silicone shaft, silky smooth contours, and a curved tip - all to ensure precise and direct stimulation. Powered by twin motors, this rabbit offers 8...

  • R2,299

    The Royal Swan, a classic rabbit vibrator with rotation in the main shaft tip and a separate vibration in the external shaft is perfectly designed to target both the g-spot and the clitoris simultaneously. Two buttons control the different shafts, so you have complete control over the intensity of sensation. Quick press to turn on or off, or hold the...

  • R999
    1 Review

    The BWild Deluxe Rabbit vibrator is a dual stimulating vibrator designed to stimulate your clitoris and g-spot. With it's 10cm insertable shaft and a girth of 3.75cm at it's maximum width, this vibrator is a female favourite thanks to it's perfectly designed contours, and precision rabbit like clitoral stimulators. With an easy to use push button, you are...

  • R729

    The Ashley by SToys is a worldwide bestseller, and it’s not hard to see why. It’s good quality at a good price, with a surprisingly powerful motor and soft silicone finish. The Ashley rabbit vibrator has a flexible curved shaft with an insertable length of 8cm, designed to gently massage the g-spot while the nubbly exterior arm stimulates...

  • R1,249 R1,407
    Reduced price!

    This is your perfect essentials kit for plenty of sexy fun. The Ashley Rabbit Vibrator by Stoys is a small, flexible vibrator with a soft silicone finish. The flexible outer arm tickles the clitoris while the 8 cm inner arm targets the g-spot. There are twelve vibration settings to explore. For the most pleasure, you’ll want to add a good...

  • R2,899
    3 Reviews

    This designer dual vibrator from luxury sex toy brand Je Joue is both elegant and powerful. With three motors – one in each ‘ear’ and one in the shaft – the Fifi rabbit vibrator has five vibration speeds and seven pulsation patterns for the ultimate orgasmic indulgence. The Fifi has a narrow shaft with an insertable length of...

  • R2,099
    1 Review

    The Silver Swan is part of Swan’s collection of beautifully designed rabbit vibrators. If you prefer a broader and more rumbly sensation on your clitoris, rather than pinpoint attention, then the Silver Swan is the sex toy for you. The internal shaft is also a little shorter than others, with an insertable length of just 7.6cm, and a full...

  • R749
    Out of stock
    7 Reviews

    SToys vibrators are bodysafe, battery-operated vibrators with a purse-friendly price. They’re perfect for beginners or as fun gifts for friends. The Ayleen is a single motor rabbit-style vibrator with a ridged shaft for extra sensation. The handy one-touch control in the ABS handle allows you to switch between 12 vibration modes. The Ayleen...

  • R2,899

    For those who prefer more power with less length, Swan took one of the most popular Adore rabbit vibrator designs – the Beauty – and made it smaller. With an insertable length of around 13cm, and a maximum diameter of around 4.5cm, the Adore Petite Beauty is fulfilling without overwhelming. The rotating shaft and external bunny ears...

  • R2,599
    2 Reviews

    Swan is a luxury brand with multiple award-winning, powerful high quality erotic toys in its range. Among these, the Kissing Swan rabbit vibrator is one of the most popular, award winning vibrators and it’s not hard to see why. With a silky smooth silicone exterior in Swan’s signature bright pink, and a rabbit-like shape clitoral...

  • R749
    Out of stock
    1 Review

    A gorgeous and manageable 5-function, 100% body safe silicone rabbit with 2 individual motors (shaft and stimulator), perfect for beginners. The Bwild Classic Bunny has a curved tapered shaft with a contoured head, great for targeting the g-spot, while the smooth but precise vibrating ears tickle the clitoris for the ultimate experience. Ultra-discreet...

  • R1,999

    This dual-stimulating rabbit vibrator features powerful angel wings that sit externally on the vibrator and 'flutter' along the clitoris, while the gently curved shaft with realistic tip stimulates your vaginal canal internally at the same time - bringing you to the most powerful climax. With a 8.8cm insertable length, this petite vibrator has a strong...

  • R2,199

    Featuring two powerful motors in a classic rabbit-style design, the Whooper Swan is a luxurious vibrator you’ll fall in love with immediately. The generous proportions and flexible shaft ensure that the internal arm puts perfect pressure on the g-spot without grinding against the pelvic bone, while the external shaft covers the vulva. With the two...

  • R1,899
    1 Review

    The petite yet powerful Swan Hug rabbit vibrator features Squeeze Control technology to make your pleasure even easier. Simply switch on the Hug vibrator then squeeze the sides of the handle to increase the speed of the two motors. Separate buttons on the handle allow you to control the motors individually according to your desire. The 9cm insertable...

  • R2,499

    The Blossom rabbit vibrator by Swan is a vibrator in it's own league. With Swan's trademark Powerbullet technology, this vibrator has two motors situated in clitoral stimulator as well as the shaft of the vibrator. What makes this vibrator unique is that the internal shaft gently rotates whilst in use, stimulating not only your g-spot but your entire...

  • R3,299

    The Fun Factory Stronic range is well known for being the only vibrators that have a strong thrusting action. Now Fun Factory has combined that with a powerful external clitoral vibrator to give you twice the sensation, and far more pleasure - for both your clitoris and your g-spot! With 64 stimulation settings, from gentle pulses to deep rhythmic...

  • R1,599

    The Butch Cassidy rabbit vibrator by Adrien Lastic is a clitoral vibrator designed to allow you to personally customise the type of stimulation based on your desire. Use the rabbit eared head for traditional 'rabbit' clitoral stimulation, or simply slip on the smooth unicorn sleeve to experience the single, soft, curved wand for more precision....

  • R949
    2 Reviews

    The Ares rabbit vibrator by Adrien Lastic is a super soft clitoral vibrator that is designed to provide a full massage to the entire vaginal area - both internal and external. With two powerful motors - one in the head of the vibrator and another in the external clitoral arm - this vibe provides you with 8 types of powerful whisper quiet vibrations which...

  • R1,799

    The Franco rabbit vibrator from Minds of Love is a powerful clitoral and g-spot stimulator. The elegant curve of this vibrator brings the bulbous head perfectly into contact with the g-spot, while the clever ridges along the inner edge provide added stimulation to the vaginal canal. The looped ‘tail’ of the Franco makes it easy to hold...

  • R1,799
    1 Review

    The OhMiBod Snuggle rabbit vibrator is the perfect combination of curve and size, making this rabbit vibrator a must-have for beginners and advanced users alike.  Stimulating both the g-spot and the clitoris simultaneously, this rabbit vibrator is made from luxurious 100% body safe silicone, and with it's ergonomic design, it reaches each sweet spot...

  • R1,199
    1 Review

    Minds of Love gave this rabbit vibrator the right name when they called it the Seducer. This well-priced and popular battery-powered rabbit vibrator is a great choice for those new to sex toys. The bulbous head to the internal shaft mimics the shape of an erect penis, with a little extra curve to ensure it reaches the magical g-spot for excellent...

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