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Discover our luxury range of exclusive sex toys for women, designed to enrich intimate couple encounters and individual exploration. Fulfil all the desires of your heart with quality ladies sex toys like vibrators, stimulators, beads, wands and plugs – for bedroom experiences that will please the most urgent cravings of the liberated, modern woman.

Explore your most intimate fantasies with our range of sex toys for women.

Your Private Bedroom Paradise

From our discerning intimate collection, Désir is proud to offer our clients the chance to collect some of the best sex toys for women in South Africa, available from our discreet online website, headquartered from our showroom in Camps Bay, Cape Town.


Whether you are hunting for just the right couple’s toy, or you need a more exciting solo experience, these ladies sex toys will open your eyes to a new world of intimate play.


To buy sex toys for women online these days, (especially in South Africa) you often have to wade through websites you would rather not have to visit.


Désir bridges the gap between tasteful play and credible, confidential delivery, to bring you an intimate brand you can trust with your deepest desires. We know that the most private women can also be the wildest in the bedroom!


Ladies sex toys are an essential element in any lively bedroom, adding fresh, creative opportunities for you to get to know yourself and your loved one better. For intense massaging, tickling or vibrating pleasure, our sex toys will give you the reason you need to add new rules to the bedroom games you so enjoy.


Discover our amazing list of the best sex toys for women for 2016, and glide down the rabbit hole into a new dimension of sexual excitement this year. It all starts with you.

The Best Sex Toys For Women: 2016

A sex toy worth investing in is always pleasurable, comfortable and fun. In 2016, the level of functionality and sophistication has reached an all-time high, and that is important news for women looking to add to their collections. Here is our top 5 list of the greatest luxury ladies sex toys on the market, available for purchase at Désir.co.za right now.


The finest sex toys draw him nearer, a closeness like you have never experienced

Every toy is the catalyst for greater intensity, whether used alone or shared between two.

#1: The Trendy Vibrator

Whether you are in the mood for a light massage, or some earth-shaking penetration action, a woman’s best friend this year is a quality vibrator. Easily one of the best sex toys for women ever created, they now come in a variety of fun colours, soft, waterproof materials and creative dual-action designs.


He will love your mounting excitement, she will love yours even more. Find your ideal vibrating companion here.

#2: The Orgasmic Exerciser

Stronger pelvic muscles mean more intense, longer-lasting orgasms with the many kegel exercisers now on offer. As a sex toy that women love, these kegel balls make it possible to enjoy the act of exercising while getting a little something extra out of the act.


From beginner’s level to a more advanced toning action, making sex feel better has never been more fun to do.


He will love the heightened pressure, she will rediscover the power of her orgasm. Find your perfect orgasmic exerciser here.

#3: The Daring Dildo

Add variety to your bedroom experiences with a daring dildo – one of the best sex toys for women in 2016. Whether used for manual or hands-free action, or for more creative couples play – no cabinet of delights should be without a few of these durable textured silicone or glass wands. As ladies sex toys go, this remains a timeless great.


He will love its Swiss-army surprises, she will never feel uninspired again. Find your personal dildo companion here.

#4: The Classic Love Egg

All women deserve a love egg, the discreet vibrating toy used in many heated bedroom experiences. As one of the best sex toys for women in 2016, this little toy is excellent for external stimulation, or internal stimulation for any spots that need arousing. These love eggs come with fluctuating remote control for exciting couples play.


He will love the intimate vibrations, she will experience new waves of delight. Find your classic love egg companion here.

#5: The Fifty Shades of Beads

Bringing up the rear, but by no means the least enticing, are the audacious plugs and beads for intimate anal play. It’s the year of exploring new frontiers and with these ‘Fifty Shades’ style beads, you are sure to be transported into couples ecstasy.


He will love to tease you into orgasm, she won’t be able to say no. Find your Fifty Shades beads here.


The Désir Intimate Collection of ladies sex toys will help you and your loved one overcome any obstacles to fulfilling every fantasy that you want to explore. Whether you want to try something risky for the first time, or you need a companion to spice up your solo play, your needs will always be satisfied with us.


Browse our range of luxury sex toys for women here, or honour yourself by booking an exclusive champagne consultation at our showroom in Camps Bay, Cape Town.

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  • R2,399

    Featuring two powerful motors in a classic rabbit-style design, the Whooper Swan is a luxurious vibrator you’ll fall in love with immediately. The generous proportions and flexible shaft ensure that the internal arm puts perfect pressure on the g-spot without grinding against the pelvic bone, while the external shaft covers the vulva. At a little...

  • R1,449
    1 Review

    The Swan PalmPower personal massager has a deserved reputation as one of the most powerful and compact massage wands available. This rechargeable version of the classic PalmPower bodywand gives you all the power, with no pesky electrical cords to get in the way of your pleasure. The PalmPower features a cleverly tapered handle that is easy to hold...

  • R849

    The A-Moore clitoral massager by Adrien Lastic is a powerful, compressed, and ergonomically designed massager specifically for all over clitoral, vulva and even perineum massage. With it's ergonomic design resembling that of a curved tongue, this mini vibe fits perfectly into the palm of your hand, allowing you to direct your stimulation with accurate...

  • R1,999
    1 Review

    The Award Winning Satisfyer Pro 2 is a waterproof, contactless clitoral stimulator that is an updated version of the original Satisfyer. This popular, rechargeable toy does not vibrate, but uses suction to provide mind-blowing pleasure sensations! The soft silicone head is placed over your clitoris for contactless extasy, pressure waves, and by switching...

  • R949

    The Gaia rabbit vibrator by Adrien Lastic is all you need for all over clitoral massage and intense orgasms. With it's 2 motor design, this powerful yet whisper quiet vibrator fully massage the entire vaginal area to stimulate and provide intense sensations. With one arm vibrating internally, the external arm sits gently on the clitoris ensuring that the...

  • R2,699
    Out of stock

    The Royal Swan, a classic rabbit vibrator with rotation in the main shaft tip and a separate vibration in the external shaft to target the clitoris. Two buttons control the different shafts, so you have complete control over the intensity of sensation. Quick press to turn on or off, or hold the button down to speed up the motor. The insertable shaft is a...

  • R2,799

    The Elise 2 by Lelo is a classic designed vibrator providing you with the most intense and powerful vibrations. With 100% stronger stimulation than before, the Elise 2 features 8 modes and vibrations which stem from the two powerful motors in the base and tip. Perfect for both clitoral and g-spot massage, the Elise 2 is made from 100% body safe silicone,...

  • R699
    2 Reviews

    The Sweet Touch is an innovative clitoral vibrator with two stimulation points guaranteed to set your nerves aquiver! On one side, the hooded end is placed over the head of the clitoris to gently massage you to orgasm. If you are looking for more pinpoint vibrations, simply flip the Sweet Touch over and use the powerful nub end to take you over the edge...

  • R299
    1 Review

    The Mia kegel ball by Adrien Lastic is a singular kegel ball designed to be worn internally by a woman. Traditionally used to strengthen your pelvic muscles and internal vaginal walls, Kegel balls have also been proven to increase your orgasmic intensity when used consistently over a period of time. With a tiny weight situated inside this silky soft ball,...

  • R1,149

    https://www.desir.co.za/brand/picobong/The Mahana by Picobong is an innovative dual vibrator that is inserted into the vagina and stimulates both the g-spot and the clitoris. Each arm can be operated separately or they can both vibrate together to build up to a blissful blended orgasm. The Mahana is made of bodysafe ABS plastic and high-quality soft-touch...

  • R1,999

    The Abby G-Spot Vibrator is the latest vibrator from Fun Factory's Battery+ range, which now features the strongest and most powerful battery-operated motor on the market. Featuring both rechargeable and regular batteries, the Abby G allows you to choose your charging mode, ensuring that you never lose power - no matter where you are. Shaped for amazing...

  • R849

    The Fun Factory Amor dildo at a length of 12.5 cm, an insertable length of 11cm and diameter of 3.5 cm, is the smallest dildo from the Fun Factory range. With a sleek, flexible design and a naturalistic shape of the tip, this dildo is perfect for targeting either the g-spot or the p-spot. Used with water based lubricant this dildo is perfect for either...

  • R799

    Bijoux’s Happily Ever After set makes a perfect bridal shower or honeymoon gift. The matching satin garter, self-adhesive nipple pasties and satin handcuffs make a seductive combination, inviting teasing with the exotic feather tickler. The beautiful presentation box needs no extra wrapping to make the ideal gift.

  • R2,299
    1 Review

    The Silver Swan is part of Swan’s collection of beautifully designed rabbit vibrators. If you prefer a broader and more rumbly sensation on your clitoris, rather than pinpoint attention, then the Silver Swan is the sex toy for you. The internal shaft is also a little shorter than others, with an insertable length of just 7.6cm, and a full...

  • R1,299
    1 Review

    The Bcurious Premium vibrator is ergonomically designed with each surface and curve designed with the specific intention of pleasure. The broad curves allow for all over vulva massage while the pointed tip is perfect for clitoral or anal stimulation. The firmness of the material makes it perfect for grinding against. With 7 functions, the pulsations and...

  • R999

    The Nexus G-Play vibrators are a perfect addition to your toybox, whether you prefer anal or vaginal play. These unisex vibrators have been designed with pleasure in mind, and feature a central buldge and bulbous tip intended to stimulate either the g-spot or the prostate. The flat base acts as a stopper, making the G-Play safe for anal pleasure. The...

  • R3,199

    Beautifully packaged and a pleasure to use, the Bisous is a lightweight, high quality dual stimulation vibrator by Nexus Femme. The 11cm insertable length of the internal shaft is sharply curved to deliver maximum G-Spot stimulation and a feeling of pleasing fullness. The clitoral arm is a generous 5cm long and flexible enough to adapt to different body...

  • R2,999

    Nexus is a highly innovative brand, and with the Cadence rabbit vibrator they've taken g-spot stimulation to a new level. The Cadence has an external shaft to stimulate the clitoris, and curved internal shaft that features a moving bead at the tip. This bead 'strokes' up and down against the g-spot, stimulating it with a feeling that feels very similar to...

  • R2,299

    The Jive, by We-vibe,  has been quoted as being the ultimate in discreet pleasure. A bluetooth wearable, remote-controlled vibrator, the Jive allows hands-free play whether solo or with your partner. Connect it to the We-vibe App on your smartphone and allow your partner to control the 10 varied settings which take you from slow and steady to...

  • R2,699

    The Womanizer 2GO is the petite version of the original Womanizer and the ultimate clitoral stimulator. Replicating a petite lipstick in design, the Womanizer 2GO offers precise and direct stimulation by targeting the clitoris using incredible contactless Pleasure Air technology. The Womanizer 2 Go is not inserted or placed on the skin, but works by...

  • R2,799
    2 Reviews

    2016's most anticipated dual vibrator!! The new We Vibe Nova is a uniquely designed toy that takes the rabbit vibrator style to a whole new level! What makes this incredible dual stimulator so unique is its very flexible clitoral arm - it flexes with your movement, allowing it to stay in constant contact with your clitoris. It has whisper quiet...

  • R1,799
    1 Review

    Discreet and stylish, the Lelo Mia 2 is a bliss-inducing clitoral vibrator cunningly disguised as an innocent lipstick case. It’s practically silent when in operation, has a travel lock, and is easily popped into your make-up bag (though the beautiful satin carry pouch will also do the job just fine). What’s not to love about this perfect...

  • R349
    Out of stock
    4 Reviews

    You can’t please everyone, but we’d bet that the We Aim to Please vibrating bullet will please most of you. It’s a discreet and elegant silver bullet-shaped clitoral vibrator designed to maximise pleasure at the touch of a button. Slip it into a panty for vulva stimulation, or direct the rounded end at the head of the clitoris for more...

  • R2,699

    With nearly 14cm of insertable length on a girthy shaft, and a longer and more flexible external shaft, the Blossom Swan is an intensely fulfilling rabbit vibrator for those who like powerful sensations. The rotating internal shaft has a bulge to the centre and a noticeable curve to the tip to target all your internal sweet spots. The outer arm has a...

  • R1,499

    The Butch Cassidy rabbit vibrator by Adrien Lastic is a clitoral vibrator designed to allow you to personally customise the type of stimulation based on your desire. Use the rabbit eared head for traditional 'rabbit' clitoral stimulation, or simply slip on the smooth unicorn sleeve to experience the single, soft, curved wand for more precision....

  • R1,999

    Fun Factory's Mr Boss g-spot and clitoral vibrator is part of the Battery+ range. With the most powerful battery operated motor in the market, the Mr Boss vibrator offers power that is comparable to your favourite rechargeable toy. With it's new technology, the MR Boss takes ordinary batteries, offering such strong vibrations that you wouldn't know the...

  • R1,499

    The Tango by We-vibe is quoted as being the most powerful mini vibe. Petite, powerful and pocket sized, the tango is designed for precise clitoral and external stimulation. With a tapered tip with pinpoint precision, the Tango features a flat edge perfect for all over pinpoint massage. Rechargeable and 100% body safe, the tango is 100% waterproof and...

  • R1,199

    Starting out at a very acceptable 15.5cm long and 3.3cm girth, the Magical Boy expands to more than double the size when inflated with the hand pump. This bodysafe silicone dildo will satisfy even the most enthusiastic size queen. It’s easily inserted with just a little waterbased lube, then gently pumped to reach that size that is most fulfilling....

  • R3,599
    3 Reviews

    Womanizer's new and upgraded W500 PRO Clitoral stimulator is a revolutionary product which uses both sucking and air pressure to stimulate the clitoris. Featuring two stimulating attachments, this Womanizer provides for any size clitoris, guaranteeing you a comfortable and compact fit. It has 8 intensity levels all controlled by a simple push of a button....

  • R1,299

    The BSoft is a clitoral vibrator designed to fit neatly into your panties to make any outing a little more exciting, or held in the hand for pinpoint stimulation of the clitoris. It provides light, buzzing vibrations that are ideal for the more sensitive clitoris or for beginner users. Seven functions provide a range of sensation to try out....

  • R999

    The Zizo Innie Vibe by Picobong is a classically curved vibrator perfect for focussing on all of your pleasure points. Classic and classy in it's design, the Zizo is for confident minimalists looking for maximum pleasure. With a curved shaft for G spot stimulation and a tapered tip for precise clitoral massage, the Zizo is a versatile vibe offering all...

  • R2,399

    The new Club Vibe 3.OH is a discreet wearable panty vibrator designed to please wherever the mood strikes. Whether at a club, concert or dinner party - add a new dimension to your experience. Both the panty vibe and wireless remote control, with built in microphone are now rechargable. A beautiful lace panty with custom pouch is included. The vibe is...

  • R1,199

    The Moka G Spot Vibrator by Picobong is a versatile and agile vibrator designed to switch between both G-Spot and Clitoral massage. With it's angled ergonomic design, it directly stimulates the G Spot, whilst the flattened head allows you to turn it over and massage your clitoris. With vibrations alternating between the clitoris and G-spot, you are able...

  • R1,229
    Out of stock
    1 Review

     The Lelo Luna Beads Mini are a smaller version of the original Luna Beads, offering a smaller diameter of 29mm as opposed to the Classic Luna Beads which has a diameter of 36mm.Providing sleek and seductive kinetic energy, these kegel balls are designed to respond perfectly to your movements, enhancing and toning your pelvic muscles, providing...

  • R799

    Tantus butt plugs are cleverly designed and hand-poured in velvety-soft bodysafe silicone. The Ryder is intended as an ‘intermediate’ anal plug: smooth to insert, and with a curved base that sits comfortably between the butt cheeks for comfortable wear and easy-grip removal. This butt plug has a 10cm insertable length, with a long, narrow...

  • R2,299

    The Je Joue Dua is a G-spot and Clitoral vibrator designed for couple use and perfect for foreplay. Shaped to fit each woman's intimate shape perfectly, the Dua features two seperate vibrating pleasure points via an external and internal motor which provide you with a deep rumbling sensation for dual stimulation. Worn with the bigger shaft inserted...

  • R4,199

    The Womanizer Plus Size is one of the latest products from award winning brand, Womanizer. Specialising in touch-less clitoral suction and stimulation, the Womanizer products use a servomotor and air compression pump that when working together create a suctioning effect on your clitoris. With two removeable treatment heads, you are able to vary the...

  • R1,999

    The Wicked Wings rabbit vibrator by Fun Factory is part of the technologically advanced Battery+ range. Known as the most powerful battery operated vibrators on the market, the Battery+ Wicked Wings rabbit, provides you the same amount of intensity when compared to a rechargeable toy. With consistent and steady power throughout the battery life, your vibe...

  • R2,899
    1 Review

    The first in the popular Womanizer range, the W100 is a handy, compact clitoral stimulator that works through suction and air pressure to stimulate without direct contact. Simply place the nozzle over the head of your clitoris and relax while the Womanizer W100’s pulsating, sucking sensations build you up to a tremendous orgasm. Add a little...

  • R2,499

    The Gala by luxury adult toy manufacturer, We-Vibe, is an ultra powerful and luxurious dual-motor vibrator, that has two tips targeted for pleasure to the clitoral area. With two vibrating motors on each tip, the clitoral tips drive powerful stimulation to your clitoris and can either be controlled together or seperately. The compact size...

  • R999
    Out of stock

    The Sqweel Go Oral Simulator gives exactly the same amount of pleasure as the original Sqweel, the only difference being its size. At just 7cm, it is the perfect travel companion. A wheel of 10 soft silicone tongue shapes turns at your chosen speed (there are three speed modes) to stimulate the clitoris. The wheel can also go into reverse mode, or...

  • R1,149
    Out of stock
    1 Review

    The 50 speeds of play bullet by Rocks off is a stunning 16cm bullet type vibrator that packs 50 different vibrational settings into one! In a magnificent silver steel colour, this waterproof vibrator offers 50 speeds and with it's amazing new motor, provides you with more increased power than ever before. Seductive and sleek, this bullet has a tapered tip...

  • R1,699
    1 Review

    The Trigger rabbit vibrator by Adrien Lastic is a vibrator with a specific 'come hither' oscillating movement. With it's three powerful motors and intense vibration settings the Trigger focuses on powerful vaginal and clitoral stimulation. With the internal arm giving you a backwards and forwards motion massaging your internal vaginal canal and g spot,...

  • R1,999

    Wand vibrators deserve their reputation for delivering the ultimate in powerful orgasms, and the Holy Cow wand vibrator is no exception. This lightweight smaller-sized wand from the Fifty Shades of Grey erotic toy collection will quickly become your favourite toy. Start out your playtime with a sensual massage on your shoulders and upper back, using...

  • R699

    What is it that you most desire? When you see the Fifty Shades of Grey Insatiable Desire mini g-spot vibrator, we’re sure it will go on to your list of most desired objects. It is a compact, powerful vibrator curved perfectly to target the g-spot for intense orgasmic pleasure. The Insatiable Desire vibrator is part of the very popular Fifty...

  • R1,149
    1 Review

    The Twenty One is the ultimate gift for the girl who has everything. Beautiful enough to pass discreetly as an ornament, and powerful enough to provide endless pleasure, the Twenty One is the diamond every girl dreams of. Use the flat face to provide all over vulva massage, or the pointed end for direct clitoral stimulation. Whichever way you hold it,...

  • R1,799
    1 Review

    The Bonnie & Clyde remote controlled rabbit by Adrien Lastic is a unique vibrator designed for massaging the entire vaginal canal from top to bottom. With a remote control to seamlessly control the vibrations and intensity, this vibrator not only offers intense vibrations throughout it's shaft, but has two rotating shafts - one on the outside to swirl and...

  • R2,299

    For your own pleasure or as the perfect gift for a naughty friend, the Dare Me Pleasure Set from Lelo is both elegant and wicked. It includes a soft suede flogger, silk cuffs and Luna Beads Mini Noir. Lelo Luna Beads are pleasure-enhancing kegel exercisers that train the muscles for longer, stronger orgasms and more pleasure for your partner. This...

  • R899

    The Typhoon Rabbit vibrator by Adrien Lastic is a powerful rabbit vibe designed to stimulate both the clitoris and the internal g spot, providing you with blended and intense orgasm. Featuring a slightly larger girth (3.9cm) than the other rabbit vibes in the Adrien Lastic range, the Typhoon is powerful and big on features. With a smooth, textured...

  • R399

    The Vibrating mesh sponge by Sex in the shower is a mesh like sponge which features a vibrating bullet hidden deep inside. Completely waterproof this sponge is designed to be visually ultra discreet and is perfect for bath or shower play. With a waterproof single speed bullet, the vibrations are dispersed throughout the sponge providing you with the most...

  • R2,399

    Je Joue is one of the most-popular luxury sex toy brands in the world. With the Uma G-spot vibrator they once again prove why they remain so popular. This vibrator, with its elegant lines and silky smooth exterior, feels incredible on your body’s most sensitive areas. Run it all over your own body or your partner’s, concentrating on erogenous...

  • R1,699
    Out of stock

    The Fifty Shades Darker 'Oh My' Rabbit Vibrator has a smooth contoured shape with ears positioned for the ultimate clitoral stimulation during use. In a natural shape and ergonomically designed shaft, this rabbit is perfect for beginners and experianced users alike. It has two powerful twin motors which offer 8 patterns and 12 powerful speeds. In...

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