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Explore our superior range of selected sex toys for men, designed to enhance intimate couple encounters and individual play. Invite desire back into your life with luxury male sex toys like massagers, plugs, rings, masturbators, enhancers and sleeves – for bedroom experiences that will satisfy the deepest longings of the daring, modern man.


Discover your innermost desires with our range of sex toys for men.

Your Confidential Bedroom Playtime

Direct from our intimate collection, Desir offers clients the opportunity to acquire some of the best sex toys for men in South Africa, available exclusively online from our showroom in Camps Bay, Cape Town.


For couples looking for excitement and rediscovery, or for a more enriching solo experience, these male sex toys will help you redefine your definition of pleasure.


Sexual exploration has become an important aspect of male intimacy, though it can still be a challenge to buy sex toys for men online in South Africa with complete peace of mind. We firmly believe in the manta ‘what happens in the bedroom, stays in the bedroom’ and work tirelessly to make sure that our client’s desires remain private and confidential.


Male sex toys can unlock the potential hidden in the stagnancy of a familiar relationship, unleashing new waves of pleasure and connection for the couple involved. For profound vibrating, tickling, squeezing or massaging thrills - few sex toys will heighten the excitement of your bedroom games quite like ours can.


Browse our sophisticated list of the best sex toys for men for 2016, and choose how you are going to add zest to your sexual experiences this year. Warning! Pleasure ahead.

The Best Sex Toys For Men: 2016

The mark of a great sex toy for men is durability, comfort and satisfying stimulation. If you are looking for the finest recommendations for 2016, check out our top 5 list of classic luxury male sex toys on sale at Desir.co.za today. Some of these toys you can really get behind!


The best sex toys create the best sexual experiences, over and over again.Each toy is an investment in shared desires, which brings people closer together.

#1: The Pervasive Cock Ring

For a stronger, harder, longer-lasting erection no man should be without a cock ring this year. Still one of the best sex toys for men, use one ring or several simultaneously to enjoy several hours of fun in the bedroom. Many cock rings come with powerful vibrating add-ons and extensions for heightened couple interactions.


She will love how long you last, he will break records in personal pleasure. Find your perfect cock ring companion here.

#2: The Ever-Popular Vibrator

Vibrators are not just for women anymore! Once tried, few can resist the deep pulsing, teasing and tickling of a luxury vibrator. These are some of the best sex toys for men because they amplify the power of your orgasm every time you use them.


From prostate vibrators and vibrating dildos, to handheld masturbators, this is a crucial addition to any cabinet of delights.


She will love your ecstatic enthusiasm, he will discover a new level of stimulation. Find your ideal vibrating companion here.

#3: The Definitive Penis Sleeve

Add girth and size to your penis, all while sending pulsing vibrations through the both of you with one of the best sex toys for men in 2016. The soft silicone finish on this indulgent sex toy makes it comfortable and intensely arousing for couples indulging their most secret sexual desires. Perfect the art of love-making with this popular male sex toy.


She will love the deep sensations, he will enjoy how it drives her wild. Find your penis sleeve companion here.

#4: The Unforgettable P-Spot Plug

Every man deserves a plug for enhanced orgasm stimulation. Prostate plugs are hot items this year, which makes them one of the best sex toys for men in 2016. Some of them vibrate, others are more for manual operation – but there is no denying the lure of anal play for intimate, thrill-seeking couples or during solo masturbation.


She will love your building excitement, he will explode with stronger climaxes. Find your personal p-spot plug here.

#5: The Exhilarating Enhancer

Last on the list of best sex toys for men is the heady enhancer, ideal for increasing the size and strength of a man's erection. Get yours as a handheld pump, or one that works with water for added suction, usable in the bath or shower for intense sexual arousal.


She will love your eager energy, he will delight in her all-consuming contentment. Find your favourite enhancer here.


The Desir Intimate Collection of male sex toys was designed to facilitate a wide variety of sexual encounters and tastes – so whether you are role playing with your spouse, or investing in a new set of bondage restraints, your needs will always be satisfied with us.


Browse our range of exclusive sex toys for men here, or honour yourself with a champagne consultation at our showroom in Camps Bay, Cape Town.

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  • R2,911 R3,234
    Reduced price!

    Spoil yourself with the Hot Octopuss Pulse III Duo Male Masturbator - also known as the world's first "Guybrator". It is a versatile toy that can be used for solo play or couples foreplay. What's more, this bundled deal provides you with the opportunity to extend your solo play time with the popular Wicked OverTime Delay cream, all at a reduced price!...

  • R2,399

    The Luxury G Rider vibrating prostate massager, by Nexus, has been created for those wanting penetration, and both internal and external stimulation all at the same time. Designed for anal use, this prostate massager stimulates the prostate through it's curved head and intense vibrations, whilst the perineum area between the scrotum and anus is massaged...

  • R3,199
    1 Review

    Lelo's Hugo prostate massager is one of a kind. t's remote control functionality allows you the option to control the vibes & intensity, giving you the perfect hands free experience! The Hugo is designed to increase the size & intensity of the male climax by 30% providing you with the most explosive orgasmic experience. Perfect for either solo...

  • R199

    The Maximum penis sheath by Adrien Lastic is a sheath designed to add both girth and volume to your penis. Worn simply by slipping the sheath onto your shaft, this sheath sits securely at the base, and maximises the width of your penis whilst providing you with a harder, firmer erection at the same time. With it's smooth textured body, these penis rings...

  • R1,979

    The We Vibe Verge luxury penis ring is a revolutionary ring designed to stimulate the man's perineum - an erogenous zone that responds to both pressure and vibrations. Designed to bring your pleasure whether on your own or with a partner, the Verge is worn over the penis, with the pointed end sitting underneath the perineum area, an erogenous zone found...

  • R899
    3 Reviews

    This is your absolute must have cock ring! The JNaja is designed to provide you with a completely different sensation to ordinary cock ring. When positioned correctly, the pressure on your perineum allows you stronger erections and incredibly powerful ejaculation. Providing you with constant perineum massage, this ring provides you with a host of health...

  • R599

    The Spartacus Double vibrating penis ring by Adrien Lastic is specifically designed to allow couples to enjoy simultaneous orgasms. Combining 4 concepts in one, the sheath slides over the penis providing additional girth and volume, whilst the additional ring detail within the sheath acts as a traditional cockring allowing him to enjoy prolonged...

  • R1,525

    They say practice makes perfect and Fleshlight has engineered the Stamina Training Unit (STU) to assist with just that. This unit has been designed to turn an ordinary masturbation session into an intensely pleasurable training session. The Stamina Training Unit's stimulating inner texture, made to replicate the sensations of intercourse, will help you...

  • R1,459

    This revolutionary and powerful vibrating ring by Adrien Lastic is designed to feature a vibrating sheath for him and a vibrating clitoral stimulator for her. Worn over the shaft of the penis, the external vibrating arm rests gently on her clitoris allowing you to both experience the powerful vibrations bringing you to simultaneous orgasm. Wear it the...

  • R1,899

    The Manta Ray - a revolutionary toy for men from the luxury sex toy manufacturer, Imtoy. With it's innovative design this super flexible and softly pliable masturbator has subtle yet stimulating textures providing you with fully customisable pleasure. Wrapping the stroker around your shaft, and with the use of a good lubricant, you are able to enjoy the...

  • R1,199

    The Nexus Neo prostate massager (slightly bigger than the Nexus Excel) has been specifically designed for men looking to experiment and start for both anal play, and P spot stimulation. Ergonomically designed, the Neo can be used during masturbation, foreplay or during intercourse. With a smooth, curved and angled head to directly stimulate the P spot, a...

  • R3,899
    1 Review

    In your journey to penis enlargement, you would have already started out with either the Bathmate Hercules or the HydroMax X30. And now that you have outgrown those (literally), it is time to move on to the HydroMax X40 to continue growing to your preferred size. It is not suggested to advance directly to the X40, as the results are not...

  • R1,399

    Awarded best product design by the Brussels Erotica Awards in 2006, the Nexus Excel Prostate Massager (slightly smaller than the Nexus Neo prostate massager) is an ergonomically designed thick and hard prostate massager which fits the inner contours of a man's body perfectly. With smooth, durable material combined with a stainless steel perineum massage...

  • R1,569

    "Fleshlight - The #1 selling male sex toy in the world"The Fleshlight Go Torque Ice is smaller than the standard Fleshlights, giving you a more discreet, travel-friendly companion made from soft SuperSkin material. Its clear sleeve and casing allows you and your partner to watch the action. The screw cap at the bottom of the Fleshlight allows you to...

  • R1,399

    The Little Rocket anal plug by Adrien Lastic is a remote controlled plug made of the highest quality, body safe, and super soft silicone. Measuring at 13cm in length, and 3.5cm in girth, this anal stimulator is perfect for beginners thanks to it's very spongy and soft touch. Controlled either by the button at the spherical end of via the remote control...

  • R999

    The Rocks Off RO-Zen penis ring is a one of a kind penis, scrotum, perineum, and prostate massager in ONE. With a 1.4 inch penis ring fitting around your shaft and a 1.5 inch scrotal ring that stretches independently around your ball sac, the RO-Zen features a prostate massager that fits gently into your anus, providing you with the ultimate in...

  • R559

    Orny - The best selling Vibrating Ring!The Orny vibe ring by Screaming O is designed to get couples hot and heavy fast! With a unique shape designed for dramatically different orgasms, the orny is powered by a Vooom bullet, which has a new low-pitch mini vibe that vibrates with a deep, rumbling sensation rather than a high pitched vibration. Unlike...

  • R999

    The Spicy strap on dildo by Smile is a hollow strap on dildo, which can be worn by either him or her. With it's hollow inner, he can simply slip inside for added girth and length, or worn by her it features comfortable waist and leg straps that are both flexible and adjustable ensuring the ultimate comfort and fit. Large in size, this dildo is made from...

  • R439

    Reach your full potential with the Lust Pumper Penis Enlarger. These pumps have two kinds results - immediate and permanent. It works on a vacuum system, where the suction draws blood into the penis, providing a longer, harder erection as an immediate result. For longer lasting results, it is recommended to use daily in order to grow and to maintain this...

  • R199

    The Ofinity Stretchy Cock and Ball ring is a double ring designed specifically to provide long lasting erections. With your shaft through the top ring, the tests fit snugly underneath through the second ring, allowing delayed ejaculation and prolonged foreply. With it's stretchy SEBS silicone, this flexible ring fits most sizes, and constricts blood flow...

  • R2,572 R2,858
    Reduced price!

    The prostate is a walnut sized gland located at the root of the penis & when massaged correctly, provides intense, long-lasting, even multiple, orgasms and intense ejaculation. Lelo engineered the Bruno Prostate Massager to provide men with the ultimate prostate experience. We have teamed the Bruno up with the Jelle water-based anal lubricant to ensure...

  • R599

    The O Hare wearable rabbit vibe, is a soft and flexible penis ring with vibrating rabbit ears on top. Worn by the male, a stretchy reinforced ring provides longer lasting erections, whilst a rear ring, gently hugging the testes allows for added targeted stimulation. With the rabbit ears on top, you are able to enter your lady, allowing the rabbit ears to...

  • R999

    The Union Penis Ring by Rocks off is a clever multi-way cock, ball, and clitoral stimulator. Worn on the shaft of the penis, you can either use this product as a couples toy, but allowing the bullet vibe to rest on top of her clitoris, allowing simultaneous orgasms, or simply slide the ring onto the shaft and rest the bullet vibe underneath his...

  • R299

    The Bullet Lastic couples cockring by Adrien Lastic is a penis ring designed to be worn over his penis, providing him with longer lasting erections and delayed ejaculation. With the two flexible and super soft silicone bands, you can position these at the base of his penis ensuring firmness and solid support. With a textured simulator and slick, curved...

  • R1,999
    1 Review

    The Bathmate Hercules Enhancer is designed to increase the size of a man's penis. Used in the bath or shower using the suction of water, this product not only increases the size of the penis, but also assists in promoting longer lasting erection and increased sexual satisfaction. As the original and longest selling hydropump to help men get bigger,...

  • R1,489

    Fun Factory Duke prostate massager for men has been ergonomically designed to stimulate the anus, the prostate and perineum. The prostate, a walnut sized gland located at the root of the penis, when massaged correctly, provides intense, long-lasting, even multiple, orgasms and intense ejaculation. While many men focus largely on external stimulation,...

  • R159

    The Tenga Egg Male Masturbator is a discreet & innovative product for male masturbation. Your solo experience is taken to new heights with each eggs' unique texture. This Tenga Egg Crater has large, cratered nubs to stimulate you from all angles for a tremulous, exhilarating experience.

  • R599

    Primo Tux by Screaming O is a 4-function, vibrating love ring made from premium silicone and can stretch for a tailer made fit. It has a simple one button operation that allows you to switch it on and off and to switch through its 3 vibration speeds and its pulsation function. The rounded teeth on the inside of the ring are soft and have been specially...

  • R2,846 R3,094
    Reduced price!

    The Hydromax X30 is a popular pump used for both penis enlargment and assisting those with erectile dysfunction. Due to this pump using water to assist with the enlargment / erections, the pump itself can become quite heavy when in use. In this instance, BathMate has designed the Shower Strap, allowing you to use your pump, hands-free. Get both of these...

  • R630

    Close to 10% of all couples experience infertility at one point or another, with half of all couple's infertility problems being due to male infertility. This is commonly due to deficiencies in the semen. Lamelle Research Laboratories has over 40 years of pharmaceutical and medical experience and it is with this extensive knowledge that they have...

  • R199

    This vibrating cock ring is made from soft silicone, and is accompanied by a vibrating bullet that slips into a sleeve attached to the top of the ring. This sleeve was designed with soft silicone nubs for added stimulation. Two sets of batteries are included & is made to fit most sizes!

  • R2,999

    "Piu - Designed for Pleasure - the world's first men's interactive masturbator "The Piu by IMTOY is one of the most luxurious and revolutionary vibrators for men, and is also the only men's product which is smart phone or tablet manipulated. With 3 whisper quiet motors and it's ergonomic form, this device allows you to syncronize your pleasure with adult...

  • R2,977 R3,544
    Reduced price!
    Out of stock

    Fleshlight is the #1 male sex toy in the world. With its 'real-feel' material and their incredible accessories, it is no wonder it is the preferred choice. The Vibro Pink Lady Touch is a popular one due to the 3 vibrating bullets that are included for added stimulation to your solo session. What's more, Fleshlight have created the V Stroker, the world's...

  • R199

    The Devol vibrating cockring by Adrien Lastic is a fun and cheeky addition to your couple playtime. Worn over the shaft of the penis, you can enjoy the benefits of this ultra-flexbile cockring allowing you prolonged intercourse, delayed ejaculation, and a firmer and steadier erection. Fitting almost every size, this smooth, velvety ring includes a...

  • R1,255

    The Feranti His & Hers Vibe set by Rocks off is a cheeky and fun set consisting of 3 of their most popular vibes. In a gorgeous combination of black and pink, this set contains the Ramsey Rabbit clitoral vibe, the RO-80mm Bullet Vibe, and the infamous 4US Vibrating Penis Ring. The Rocks Off Ramsey Bullet Vibrator is a discreet clitoral vibrator powerful...

  • R1,627 R1,808
    Reduced price!

    It's time to make your masturbation session a more fun and stimulating one and this deal is the perfect purchase! The Tenga Eggs allow you to pick and choose the kind of stimulation that would suit your mood, and the Tenga AirTech is your reusable faithful, with improved suction power. No playtime is complete without a water-based lubricant and the JO H2O...

  • R1,399

    This 50 Shades Darker Love Ring is an ergonomic, stretchable vibrating cock ring designed to enhance clitoral stimulation for her whilst helping him achieve longer lasting and harder erections. With 8 patterns and 12 speeds this powerful motor offers a whisper quiet vibration. USB rechargeable, 100% waterproof and perfect for the ultimate couple play.

  • R1,569

    The Ice Lady Crystal Fleshlight, like all Fleshlights, is made from patented SuperSkin material and has an incredible, textured interior, with nodules, bumps and spirals. Not only that, it also has a clear sleeve and casing, allowing you to watch the action and the bottom screw cap regulates the suction intensity. It is advisable to use a water-based...

  • R1,899 R2,089
    Reduced price!

    The Manta Ray - a revolutionary toy for men from the luxury sex toy manufacturer, Imtoy. Its innovative design and functionality provides you with an experience like no other! It is a super-flexible, open male stroker made from silky soft, body-safe silicone. No playtime is complete without a water-based lubricant and the JO H2O is the perfect addition!...

  • R1,595
    Out of stock

    "VStroker - The world's most advanced virtual sex system"Enhance your solo experience with the revolutionary VStroker. It connects seamlessly to your Fleshlight (sold seperately) and wirelessly transmits sensor information to your PC or Mac - simulating a lifelike experience. Simply attach VStroker to the end of your Fleshlight (sold separately),...

  • R895

    Rated as the #1 selling male sex toy in the world, the Quickshot Vantage male masturbator is a non anatomical masturbator with an array of ridges & textures designed to provide you with the most incredible stimulation. With a hole on either side, this product is perfect for either solo or couple play. For solo play, you can either leave the cap on one end...

  • R2,895
    2 Reviews

    Known as the first “Guybrator”, this multi-award winning male-stimulator, is one of the hottest male masturbators on the market. Originally designed for solo play, the new Pulse III Duo allows for couple play as well. Worn by the male, the powerful vibrations and oscillations stimulate the penis encouraging a snug fit and providing the most...

  • R2,599

    Lelo's perfectly shaped Loki prostate massager for men is perfect for more controlled application and direction. Guaranteed to enhance your orgasms by 30%, this vibrating massager is waterproof and rechargeable. With 6 variable settings providing mind blow and intensive orgasms, this perfectly shaped and angled prostate massager, makes it your number one...

  • R1,699

    The Naughty Boy Prostate Stimulator by Rocks Off is designed for the ultimate in prostate massage specifically stimulating the anus, prostate, and perineum. perfect for beginners. The prostate, a walnut sized gland located at the root of the penis, when massaged correctly, provides intense, long-lasting, even multiple, orgasms and intense...

  • R1,594

    "Fleshlight - The #1 selling male sex toy in the world"The name says it all. This Fleshlight is the original Fleshlight masturbator that was launched and is still a favourite amongst returning and first-time customers. Unlike the other Fleshlight models with patterned interiors, this smooth patented SuperSkin sleeve not only provides a...

  • R1,585

    The Fleshlight GO Surge is a discreet, and compact version of their original best-selling Fleshlight products, making this the perfect travel companion! It is a compressed design so single-handed grip action is made easier, while the internal sleeve is made from lifelike SuperSkin, and has textured ribbs and ridges for a thrilling experience. Being 17%...

  • R1,159
    1 Review

    Malesation's Homeboy is a vibrating strap-on prosthesis that has 7 levels of vibration, all managed by an easily accessible remote control. Though it has a soft-to-the-touch silicone coating, the prosthesis itself is sturdy and rigid. These strap on prostheses assist men that suffer from Erectile Dysfunction. Added girth & realistic veins add...

  • R2,399

    Intensify your sexual experience with the Lelo Tor 2 Vibrating Couples Cock Ring. It is a comfortable and perfectly-fitting ring made from 100% sfot body-safe silicone. Not only does it provide him with prolonged erections and delayed ejaculation, it has been designed to stimulate her clitoris just as effectively. It has a motor that is 100% more...

  • R839

    The Malesation Anal Stimulator has been ergonomically designed for ultimate pleasure. Its internal arm massages his prostate with precision, while the bump on the external arm will massage his perineum to gain maximum pleasure.

  • R319

    The Rabbit Cock and Ball harness is a vibrating cock ring that is perfect for couples play. It has 2 rings, one to go around the shaft, the other the balls, allowing him to stay harder for longer. The multi-speed, removeable bullet as well as the rabbit ears are perfect for stimulating her clitoris. The bullet can be removed and used as a regular bullet...

  • R3,299

    The Doxy Skittle, shaped similar to a bowling skittle, is a powerful, multi-purpose vibrator perfect for both men and female. With it's unique shape, the skittle can be used effectively for all kinds of stimulation, from direct clitoral stimulation, to perineum play, as well a anal probe. Smaller and lighter than the original Doxy wand, the Skittle...

  • R349
    1 Review

    This extra thick, stretchy soft silicone penis sleeve not only adds an inch of thickness to your entire penis, but also features a removable multi speed dial vibrator, which sits on the inside of the sleeve's tip. This provides amazing sensations for him and allows vibrating sensations for her, either directly on her clitoris or internally. Perfect for...

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