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SEX TOYS FOR HIM

THE BEST SEX TOYS FOR MEN ARE AN EXPLORATION OF INTIMACY, PLEASURE AND ADVENTURE

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Explore our superior range of selected sex toys for men, designed to enhance intimate couple encounters and individual play. Invite desire back into your life with luxury male sex toys like massagers, plugs, rings, masturbators, enhancers and sleeves – for bedroom experiences that will satisfy the deepest longings of the daring, modern man.


Discover your innermost desires with our range of sex toys for men.

Your Confidential Bedroom Playtime

Direct from our intimate collection, Desir offers clients the opportunity to acquire some of the best sex toys for men in South Africa, available exclusively online from our showroom in Camps Bay, Cape Town.


For couples looking for excitement and rediscovery, or for a more enriching solo experience, these male sex toys will help you redefine your definition of pleasure.


Sexual exploration has become an important aspect of male intimacy, though it can still be a challenge to buy sex toys for men online in South Africa with complete peace of mind. We firmly believe in the manta ‘what happens in the bedroom, stays in the bedroom’ and work tirelessly to make sure that our client’s desires remain private and confidential.


Male sex toys can unlock the potential hidden in the stagnancy of a familiar relationship, unleashing new waves of pleasure and connection for the couple involved. For profound vibrating, tickling, squeezing or massaging thrills - few sex toys will heighten the excitement of your bedroom games quite like ours can.


Browse our sophisticated list of the best sex toys for men for 2016, and choose how you are going to add zest to your sexual experiences this year. Warning! Pleasure ahead.

The Best Sex Toys For Men: 2016

The mark of a great sex toy for men is durability, comfort and satisfying stimulation. If you are looking for the finest recommendations for 2016, check out our top 5 list of classic luxury male sex toys on sale at Desir.co.za today. Some of these toys you can really get behind!


The best sex toys create the best sexual experiences, over and over again.Each toy is an investment in shared desires, which brings people closer together.

#1: The Pervasive Cock Ring

For a stronger, harder, longer-lasting erection no man should be without a cock ring this year. Still one of the best sex toys for men, use one ring or several simultaneously to enjoy several hours of fun in the bedroom. Many cock rings come with powerful vibrating add-ons and extensions for heightened couple interactions.


She will love how long you last, he will break records in personal pleasure. Find your perfect cock ring companion here.

#2: The Ever-Popular Vibrator

Vibrators are not just for women anymore! Once tried, few can resist the deep pulsing, teasing and tickling of a luxury vibrator. These are some of the best sex toys for men because they amplify the power of your orgasm every time you use them.


From prostate vibrators and vibrating dildos, to handheld masturbators, this is a crucial addition to any cabinet of delights.


She will love your ecstatic enthusiasm, he will discover a new level of stimulation. Find your ideal vibrating companion here.

#3: The Definitive Penis Sleeve

Add girth and size to your penis, all while sending pulsing vibrations through the both of you with one of the best sex toys for men in 2016. The soft silicone finish on this indulgent sex toy makes it comfortable and intensely arousing for couples indulging their most secret sexual desires. Perfect the art of love-making with this popular male sex toy.


She will love the deep sensations, he will enjoy how it drives her wild. Find your penis sleeve companion here.

#4: The Unforgettable P-Spot Plug

Every man deserves a plug for enhanced orgasm stimulation. Prostate plugs are hot items this year, which makes them one of the best sex toys for men in 2016. Some of them vibrate, others are more for manual operation – but there is no denying the lure of anal play for intimate, thrill-seeking couples or during solo masturbation.


She will love your building excitement, he will explode with stronger climaxes. Find your personal p-spot plug here.

#5: The Exhilarating Enhancer

Last on the list of best sex toys for men is the heady enhancer, ideal for increasing the size and strength of a man's erection. Get yours as a handheld pump, or one that works with water for added suction, usable in the bath or shower for intense sexual arousal.


She will love your eager energy, he will delight in her all-consuming contentment. Find your favourite enhancer here.


The Desir Intimate Collection of male sex toys was designed to facilitate a wide variety of sexual encounters and tastes – so whether you are role playing with your spouse, or investing in a new set of bondage restraints, your needs will always be satisfied with us.


Browse our range of exclusive sex toys for men here, or honour yourself with a champagne consultation at our showroom in Camps Bay, Cape Town.

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  • R3,199

    The We-Vibe Sensations Unite Collection is the ultimate toy set for adventurous couples. Containing the couples sex toy, the We-Vibe Unite, and the couples penis ring, the We-Vibe Pivot, this set is all you need to ensure simultaneous satisfaction and intense orgasms. We-Vibe Unite:The We-Vibe Unite provides you the opportunity for hands-free clitoral...

  • R2,599
    Out of stock
    3 Reviews

    Known as the first “Guybrator”, this multi-award winning male-stimulator, is one of the hottest male masturbators on the market. Originally designed for solo play, the new Pulse III Duo allows for couple play as well. Worn by the male, the powerful vibrations and oscillations stimulate the penis encouraging a snug fit and providing the most...

  • R3,199
    1 Review

    Lelo's Hugo prostate massager is one of a kind. t's remote control functionality allows you the option to control the vibes & intensity, giving you the perfect hands free experience! The Hugo is designed to increase the size & intensity of the male climax by 30% providing you with the most explosive orgasmic experience. Perfect for either solo...

  • R1,399

    Nexus Ace vibrating butt plugs are ideal for all anal enthusiasts. They're available in three sizes: a comfortable 3cm diameter, 6.5cm insertable length perfect for beginners; an intermediate 4cm/10.5cm; or a fulfilling 5cm/12.5cm perfect for more experienced anal players. The Ace butt plugs have been beautifully designed to fit all your anal play needs....

  • R999

    The Nexus G-Play vibrators are a perfect addition to your toybox, whether you prefer anal or vaginal play. These unisex vibrators have been designed with pleasure in mind, and feature a central buldge and bulbous tip intended to stimulate either the g-spot or the prostate. The flat base acts as a stopper, making the G-Play safe for anal pleasure. The...

  • R249
    Out of stock

    The Nexus Enduro silicone cock ring is wonderfully stretchy to accommodate either cock and balls or extra girth. It's a thick, phthalate-free silicone ring that will constrict blood flow to your penis to prolong and extend your erection for longer, more fulfilling sex or masturbation. using a cock ring can also enhance your orgasm greatly. Simply stretch...

  • R2,199

    The Lelo Accomplice Gift Set is the perfect indulgence for those looking for a couple's experience. With the luxury  TOR 2 vibrating couples cock ring, a box of 12 Lelo HEX condoms, and a 150ml quality water-based personal moisturizer, you have all you need to ensure a night of uninterupted pleasure. Use the vibrating ring to enhance and prolong...

  • R1,599

    They say practice makes perfect and Fleshlight has engineered the Stamina Training Unit (STU) to assist with just that. This unit has been designed to turn an ordinary masturbation session into an intensely pleasurable training session. The Stamina Training Unit's stimulating inner texture, made to replicate the sensations of intercourse, will help you...

  • R2,599

    The Rocks Off Xchange gives you two luxury toys in one convenient package, designed to take your prostate pleasure to the next level. The Oval is a streamlined butt plug with an insertable length of just under 9cm and a maximum width of 11.5cm. With its narrow neck and tapered tip, the Oval is comfortable and easy to insert, even for beginners. The...

  • R1,099 R1,599

    The Manta Ray - a revolutionary toy for men from the luxury sex toy manufacturer, Imtoy. With it's innovative design this super flexible and softly pliable masturbator has subtle yet stimulating textures providing you with fully customisable pleasure. Wrapping the stroker around your shaft, and with the use of a good lubricant, you are able to enjoy the...

  • R1,599
    1 Review

    The RISE by ROCKS OFF is a USB Rechargeable male masturbator, which features 10 powerful vibration and pulsation settings providing you up to four hours of incredible play time. With an open channel to comfortably fit your penis (accomodates almost any size), and a handle for you to slip your hand through for an easy grip and control, the Rise features a...

  • R1,549

    The Pink Lady Super Ribbed Fleshlight provides the same tight feel as the original Fleshlight but provides a deep massaging ribbed detail inside. Filled with miniature, engraved ribs, this masturbator thoroughly strokes and massages whilst the ribs add additional stimulation to the entire shaft area. Applying extra pressure to the most sensitive parts of...

  • R249

    These stretchy penis ring set by Malesation is designed specifically to help you achieve a longer-lasting and stronger erection. With three seperate rings, each featuring a unique design, you can choose from ribbed wtih chunky blocks, groovy waves, or fine ornamentation - all providing you with unique and varied stimulation. Made from phthalate free and...

  • R1,199

    This slimline, 9.5cm insertable length butt plug with rumbly deep vibration is a sure-fire winner for your erotic toy collection. Its smoothly tapered and narrow design makes it great for beginners, while the powerful motor makes the vibrations a winner for more experienced anal players. The flared base makes for easy insertion and removal, with an...

  • R1,149

    When you're getting started with anal play, it can be hard to decide which toys to invest in. Until you've got to know your body, every anal toy may seem big and scary, but you don't want to keep buying new butt plugs as you become more experienced. That's what makes this simple Anal Starter Kit so clever. Nexus has designed a comfortable and fulfulling...

  • R899
    Out of stock
    3 Reviews

    This is your absolute must have cock ring! The JNaja is designed to provide you with a completely different sensation to ordinary cock ring. When positioned correctly, the pressure on your perineum allows you stronger erections and incredibly powerful ejaculation. Providing you with constant perineum massage, this ring provides you with a host of health...

  • R1,399

    The RO-Zen vibrating Penis Ring and prostate massager is an all in one cock ring, perineum massager, anal plug, and prostate massager all in one! This is the ultimate toy for the man who wants to enjoy prolonged play, delayed ejaculation, an increase in orgasmic strength due to the anal and prostate massage, and an all over multi-sensory orgasmic...

  • R699
    Out of stock

    Discover the Sensation of Aerostimulation!TENGA has improved upon their famous CUP Style with the new AIR-TECH Reusable Vacuum CUP – now with a removable sleeve for cleaning! Also featuring an all-new airflow structure for boosted Vacuum Suction Sensation!

  • R1,299
    1 Review

    The Butt-Boy Slim is a slimline, soft silicone prostate and perineum massager with a removable bullet vibrator. It’s perfect for beginners to anal play, with a classic tapered butt plug shape and narrow shaft. The insertable length is a pleasing but easily manageable 8.5cm, with a maximum 3.8cm diameter. The flexible neck of the shaft is narrow...

  • R649

    The Rocks Off Feranti Boys will be Boys 3 in 1 kit is the perfect gift for the man who enjoys all round pleasure. With a powerful 7 function bullet, a strong silicone double cock ring, and a silicone hand-solo male masturbator, the Boys will be Boys kit provides you with an array of tools perfect for all encompassing pleasure, whether your choose to use...

  • R1,299

    Intense is certainly the word when it comes to describing the pleasure delivered by the Rocks Off Bad Boy Intense. This dual prostate and perineum massager is shaped and sized for maximum feeling as you insert the 12.4cm internal shaft with its deep curve and two fulfilling bulges. This is an anal toy for more experienced players who are looking for...

  • R1,199
    Out of stock

    The sleeve warmer by Fleshlight is specifically designed to turn up the heat on your Fleshlight experience. Designed to warm your superskin sleeve to the perfect temperature, your Fleshlight will not only be snug and warm to the touch, but will feel more like the real thing. Compatible with all Fleshlight and Flight male masturbators, the warmer is simple...

  • R1,999

    Prostate massage combines health benefits with pleasure, keeping your prostate in perfect shape while providing amazing orgasms. As if that weren't enough reason to indulge in regular prostate massage, the Nexus Vibro prostate massager includes a stainless-steel roller ball perfectly placed to stimulate the perineum. With the addition of the Nexus...

  • R1,549

    "Fleshlight - The #1 selling male sex toy in the world"The Fleshlight Go Torque Ice is smaller than the standard Fleshlights, giving you a more discreet, travel-friendly companion made from soft SuperSkin material. Its clear sleeve and casing allows you and your partner to watch the action. The screw cap at the bottom of the Fleshlight allows you to...

  • R1,499

    The Rocks Off Cheeky Boy Intense Prostate Massager is an upgrade on the original Cheeky Boy in that it is USB rechargeable and is powered by the intense 10 speed Ignition bullet, giving you more powerful and intense vibrations and orgasms. Worn analy, this prostate massager features four spheres which push into your sensitive prostate, whilst massaging...

  • R199
    1 Review

    The Joy Division VarioRing is a silicone cock ring that has an adjustable closure allowing it to fit perfectly on any size penis. Allowing you to control the tension by constricting blood flow, this cock ring allows for a fuller and stronger erection and assists with erectile dysfunction issues.  *This product has been medically endorsed by Desir's...

  • R1,999

    The Luxury G Rider vibrating prostate massager, by Nexus, has been created for those wanting penetration, and both internal and external stimulation all at the same time. Designed for anal use, this prostate massager stimulates the prostate through it's curved head and intense vibrations, whilst the perineum area between the scrotum and anus is massaged...

  • R1,599
    1 Review

    If anal pleasure is your priority, then the Big Boy Intense is the perfect prostate massager. You’ll enjoy the ridged base that massages your perineum with every vibration and move. You’ll love the filling sensation of the 17cm insertable length and three girthy bulges with a maximum girth of almost 13cm. You’ll thrill to the 10-function...

  • R329
    1 Review

    The Lidl Extra Penis Extension sleeve is perfect for those who want to delay ejaculation and provide extra stimulation for their partner. Adding on an an extra 7.6cm's this penis sleeve also add's on extra length to your penis, whilst providing her with additional stimulation at the same time. Covered in textured pleasure beads, this sleeve is perfect for...

  • R1,149

    The innovative shape of the Nexus O sets it apart from your average prostate massager, and makes it possible to experience true hands-free orgasm. The O is, in fact, more of a C shape, with a ball at each end and one in the centre of the flexible silicone body. One end is inserted, with plenty of water-based lubricant, into the anus, until you feel the...

  • R1,299

    The Nexus Titus is a beautifully designed prostate massager with a ribbed 20cm shaft and bulbous curved end. Those thick ridges stimulate the anal walls while the tip delivers precise prostate massage. Who says keeping healthy can't be fun? Regular prostate massage keeps your prostate in excellent shape, warding off the possibility of cancer or related...

  • R899

    The Glide beginners prostate massager by Nexus is the perfect product for those looking for gentle prostate massage. With it's aesthetic and ergonomic design, the Glide has a smooth, slim shaft and a stainless steel roller ball perfect for perineum massage. Ideal for solo or partner play, the Glide is best used with your favourite lubricant and has a...

  • R2,599 R2,948
    Reduced price!
    Out of stock

    Spoil yourself with the Hot Octopuss Pulse III Duo Male Masturbator - also known as the world's first "Guybrator". It is a versatile toy that can be used for solo play or couples foreplay. What's more, this bundled deal provides you with the opportunity to extend your solo play time with the popular Wicked OverTime Delay cream, all at a reduced price!...

  • R1,899

    The We Vibe Verge luxury penis ring is a revolutionary ring designed to stimulate the man's perineum - an erogenous zone that responds to both pressure and vibrations. Designed to bring your pleasure whether on your own or with a partner, the Verge is worn at the base of the penis with enough room to gently pull your testicles through, allowing the...

  • R299

    The 3 piece cock ring set by Malesation offers a combination of 4cm, 4.5cm, and 5cm penis rings. Made from soft, hygienic, nonporous, odourless, and durable silicone, these rings have a slight amount of stretch, but fit snuggly when worn at the base of the penis. Designed to restrict blood flow the penis ring allows for firmer erections and delayed...

  • R599

    The Spartacus Double vibrating penis ring by Adrien Lastic is specifically designed to allow couples to enjoy simultaneous orgasms. Combining 4 concepts in one, the sheath slides over the penis providing additional girth and volume, whilst the additional ring detail within the sheath acts as a traditional cockring allowing him to enjoy prolonged...

  • R1,499
    1 Review

    This revolutionary and powerful vibrating ring by Adrien Lastic is designed to feature a vibrating sheath for him and a vibrating clitoral stimulator for her. Worn over the shaft of the penis, the external vibrating arm rests gently on her clitoris allowing you to both experience the powerful vibrations bringing you to simultaneous orgasm. Wear it the...

  • R999

    The Nexus Neo prostate massager (slightly bigger than the Nexus Excel) has been specifically designed for men looking to experiment and start for both anal play, and P spot stimulation. Ergonomically designed, the Neo can be used during masturbation, foreplay or during intercourse. With a smooth, curved and angled head to directly stimulate the P spot, a...

  • R3,899
    1 Review

    In your journey to penis enlargement, you would have already started out with either the Bathmate Hercules or the HydroMax X30. And now that you have outgrown those (literally), it is time to move on to the HydroMax X40 to continue growing to your preferred size. It is not suggested to advance directly to the X40, as the results are not...

  • R1,299

    Awarded best product design by the Brussels Erotica Awards in 2006, the Nexus Excel Prostate Massager (slightly smaller than the Nexus Neo prostate massager) is an ergonomically designed thick and hard prostate massager which fits the inner contours of a man's body perfectly. With smooth, durable material combined with a stainless steel perineum massage...

  • R799
    Out of stock

    The Rocks Off RO-Zen penis ring is a one of a kind penis, scrotum, perineum, and anal stimulator in ONE. The ultimate toy for the man who wants to experience heightened orgasms, prolonged intercourse, delayed ejaculation and a multi-sensory experience. With a 1.4 inch penis ring fitting around your shaft and a 1.5 inch scrotal ring that stretches...

  • R1,299

    The BNaughty Premuim Unleashed by BSwish is a wireless, vibrating egg that was nominated for the Best New Luxury Product at the “O” Awards in 2012. It is seen as a product that infuses originality with creativity. And you can get quite creative with this toy! The egg has a slighty pointed head that allows you to target whichever senstive area...

  • R199

    The Ofinity Stretchy Cock and Ball ring is a double ring designed specifically to provide long lasting erections. With your shaft through the top ring, the tests fit snugly underneath through the second ring, allowing delayed ejaculation and prolonged foreply. With it's stretchy SEBS silicone, this flexible ring fits most sizes, and constricts blood flow...

  • R649
    Out of stock

    This double-trouble toy will really up your bedroom bliss with dual vibrations on either side of the stretchy silicone cock ring to give you both extra pleasure. With two removable bullet vibrators, the Union Cock Ring by Rocks Off stimulates the clitoris and testicles during penetration, creating a buzzing sensation that will take you both over the edge....

  • R349
    1 Review

    The Bullet Lastic couples cockring by Adrien Lastic is a penis ring designed to be worn over his penis, providing him with longer lasting erections and delayed ejaculation. With the two flexible and super soft silicone bands, you can position these at the base of his penis ensuring firmness and solid support. With a textured simulator and slick, curved...

  • R1,599
    Out of stock
    1 Review

    Bathmate deservedly have a reputation as the world’s top range of penis pumps with the patented hydropump system. The Bathmate Hercules is where it all started: the original Hydropump. Designed to be used in the bath or shower, the Hercules penis pump uses the power of a vacuum to exercise your penis. Using the pump expands the three chambers...

  • R1,099 R1,499
    Out of stock

    Prostate massage gives the best of both worlds. It’s important for the care of your prostate and prevention of prostate cancer, especially as a man gets older. It’s also deeply pleasurable. When this walnut sized gland is correctly stimulated, you can experience intense, long-lasting orgasms. With the Fun Factory Duke prostate massager, that...

  • R529
    Out of stock

    Primo Tux by Screaming O is a 4-function, vibrating love ring made from premium silicone and can stretch for a tailer made fit. It has a simple one button operation that allows you to switch it on and off and to switch through its 3 vibration speeds and its pulsation function. The rounded teeth on the inside of the ring are soft and have been specially...

  • R1,799 R1,977
    Reduced price!

    Fleshlight is the #1 male sex toy in the world and with its 'Real Feel' material, what is not to love! The Fleshlight Pink Lady Original is the original Fleshlight masturbator that was launched and is still a favourite amongst returning and first-time customers. this smooth patented SuperSkin sleeve not only provides a hyper-realistic feel, it is...

  • R2,799 R3,098
    Reduced price!

    The Hydromax X30 is a popular pump used for both penis enlargment and assisting those with erectile dysfunction. Due to this pump using water to assist with the enlargment / erections, the pump itself can become quite heavy when in use. In this instance, BathMate has designed the Shower Strap, allowing you to use your pump, hands-free. Get both of these...

  • R249

    This vibrating cock ring is made from soft silicone, and is accompanied by a vibrating bullet that slips into a sleeve attached to the top of the ring. This sleeve was designed with soft silicone nubs for added stimulation. Two sets of batteries are included & is made to fit most sizes!

  • R2,099 R2,799

    The IMTOY range is new on the world market, and offers a high quality range of well-designed toys. The Piu is intended for stimulation of the head of the penis, with three motors in a solid casing that vibrate at different intensities to stimulate you to orgasm with no need for stroking or thrusting. The casing is ABS plastic, with a lining of smooth,...

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