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THE BEST SEX TOYS FOR MEN ARE AN EXPLORATION OF INTIMACY, PLEASURE AND ADVENTURE

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Explore our superior range of selected sex toys for men, designed to enhance intimate couple encounters and individual play. Invite desire back into your life with luxury male sex toys like massagers, plugs, rings, masturbators, enhancers and sleeves – for bedroom experiences that will satisfy the deepest longings of the daring, modern man.



Discover your innermost desires with our range of sex toys for men.

Your Confidential Bedroom Playtime

Direct from our intimate collection, Desir offers clients the opportunity to acquire some of the best sex toys for men in South Africa, available exclusively online from our showroom in Camps Bay, Cape Town.


For couples looking for excitement and rediscovery, or for a more enriching solo experience, these male sex toys will help you redefine your definition of pleasure.


Sexual exploration has become an important aspect of male intimacy, though it can still be a challenge to buy sex toys for men online in South Africa with complete peace of mind. We firmly believe in the manta ‘what happens in the bedroom, stays in the bedroom’ and work tirelessly to make sure that our client’s desires remain private and confidential.


Male sex toys can unlock the potential hidden in the stagnancy of a familiar relationship, unleashing new waves of pleasure and connection for the couple involved. For profound vibrating, tickling, squeezing or massaging thrills - few sex toys will heighten the excitement of your bedroom games quite like ours can.


Browse our sophisticated list of the best sex toys for men for 2016, and choose how you are going to add zest to your sexual experiences this year. Warning! Pleasure ahead.

The Best Sex Toys For Men: 2016

The mark of a great sex toy for men is durability, comfort and satisfying stimulation. If you are looking for the finest recommendations for 2016, check out our top 5 list of classic luxury male sex toys on sale at Desir.co.za today. Some of these toys you can really get behind!


The best sex toys create the best sexual experiences, over and over again.Each toy is an investment in shared desires, which brings people closer together.

#1: The Pervasive Cock Ring

For a stronger, harder, longer-lasting erection no man should be without a cock ring this year. Still one of the best sex toys for men, use one ring or several simultaneously to enjoy several hours of fun in the bedroom. Many cock rings come with powerful vibrating add-ons and extensions for heightened couple interactions.


She will love how long you last, he will break records in personal pleasure. Find your perfect cock ring companion here.

#2: The Ever-Popular Vibrator

Vibrators are not just for women anymore! Once tried, few can resist the deep pulsing, teasing and tickling of a luxury vibrator. These are some of the best sex toys for men because they amplify the power of your orgasm every time you use them.


From prostate vibrators and vibrating dildos, to handheld masturbators, this is a crucial addition to any cabinet of delights.


She will love your ecstatic enthusiasm, he will discover a new level of stimulation. Find your ideal vibrating companion here.

#3: The Definitive Penis Sleeve

Add girth and size to your penis, all while sending pulsing vibrations through the both of you with one of the best sex toys for men in 2016. The soft silicone finish on this indulgent sex toy makes it comfortable and intensely arousing for couples indulging their most secret sexual desires. Perfect the art of love-making with this popular male sex toy.


She will love the deep sensations, he will enjoy how it drives her wild. Find your penis sleeve companion here.

#4: The Unforgettable P-Spot Plug

Every man deserves a plug for enhanced orgasm stimulation. Prostate plugs are hot items this year, which makes them one of the best sex toys for men in 2016. Some of them vibrate, others are more for manual operation – but there is no denying the lure of anal play for intimate, thrill-seeking couples or during solo masturbation.


She will love your building excitement, he will explode with stronger climaxes. Find your personal p-spot plug here.

#5: The Exhilarating Enhancer

Last on the list of best sex toys for men is the heady enhancer, ideal for increasing the size and strength of a man's erection. Get yours as a handheld pump, or one that works with water for added suction, usable in the bath or shower for intense sexual arousal.


She will love your eager energy, he will delight in her all-consuming contentment. Find your favourite enhancer here.


The Desir Intimate Collection of male sex toys was designed to facilitate a wide variety of sexual encounters and tastes – so whether you are role playing with your spouse, or investing in a new set of bondage restraints, your needs will always be satisfied with us.


Browse our range of exclusive sex toys for men here, or honour yourself with a champagne consultation at our showroom in Camps Bay, Cape Town.

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  • R2,999
    1 Review

    The Revo Intense Prostate massager by Nexus is an anatomically designed prostate massager that has been specifically engineered to directly stimulate the prostate and perineum simultaneously. Offering intense rotational and vibration settings, the Revo provides a truly deep and stimulating massage with it's 2 shaft rotation speeds and it's 3 vibration...

  • R2,499

    The Rocks Off Xchange gives you two luxury toys in one convenient package, designed to take your prostate pleasure to the next level. The Oval is a streamlined butt plug with an insertable length of just under 9cm and a maximum width of 11.5cm. With its narrow neck and tapered tip, the Oval is comfortable and easy to insert, even for beginners. The...

  • R2,599

    Lelo’s Bruno male prostate massager is the ultimate in luxury and sophistication. With two strong motors situated in the base and the tapered shaft, Bruno ensures that you will receive intense stimulation to both your prostate and perineum area. With a 8.5cm insertable length on the shaft, and a narrow nack for more comfort, Bruno delivers deep...

  • R3,299
    1 Review

    The luxurious feel and easy remote control of the Hugo prostate massager by Lelo make it an instant win in our books. This male prostate massager has been designed to feel comfortable and fulfilling, with a broad base, tapered neck and 8.5cm insertable shaft. With two strong motors, one in the shaft and another in the base, the Hugo massages both the...

  • R849

    The Malesation Anal Stimulator has been ergonomically designed for ultimate pleasure. Its internal arm massages his prostate with precision, while the bump on the external arm will massage his perineum to gain maximum pleasure.

  • R1,978

    This set is perfect for the beginner to prostate massage. It contains all you need to ease into anal play and enjoy the health and pleasure benefits of prostate stimulation. The prostate gland is susceptible to cancer, and doctors advise regular checkups and massage to help prevent this. Thankfully, massage of the prostate can result in really intense...

  • R1,299

    Awarded best product design by the Brussels Erotica Awards in 2006, the Nexus Excel Prostate Massager (slightly smaller than the Nexus Neo prostate massager) is an ergonomically designed thick and hard prostate massager which fits the inner contours of a man's body perfectly. With smooth, durable material combined with a stainless steel perineum massage...

  • R4,047

    Once you’ve experienced the intense pleasure of a prostate orgasm, you’ll want to try out the many different ways you can stimulate this sensitive area. We’ve put together this bundle to give you a hands-on and a hands-free option for play, plus a long-wearing water based lubricant perfect for use with these toys. Go hands-free with the...

  • R999

    The Nexus Neo prostate massager (slightly bigger than the Nexus Excel) has been specifically designed for men looking to experiment and start for both anal play, and P spot stimulation. Ergonomically designed, the Neo can be used during masturbation, foreplay or during intercourse. With a smooth, curved and angled head to directly stimulate the P spot, a...

  • R1,899

    Prostate massage combines health benefits with pleasure, keeping your prostate in perfect shape while providing amazing orgasms. As if that weren't enough reason to indulge in regular prostate massage, the Nexus Vibro prostate massager includes a stainless-steel roller ball perfectly placed to stimulate the perineum. With the addition of the Nexus...

  • R1,099

    The Nexus Titus is a beautifully designed prostate massager with a ribbed 20cm shaft and bulbous curved end. Those thick ridges stimulate the anal walls while the tip delivers precise prostate massage. Who says keeping healthy can't be fun? Regular prostate massage keeps your prostate in excellent shape, warding off the possibility of cancer or related...

  • R899

    The Glide beginners prostate massager by Nexus is the perfect product for those looking for gentle prostate massage. With it's aesthetic and ergonomic design, the Glide has a smooth, slim shaft and a stainless steel roller ball perfect for perineum massage. Ideal for solo or partner play, the Glide is best used with your favourite lubricant and has a...

  • R1,299

    Enjoy the health benefits of regular prostate massage and the intense pleasure of prostate orgasm with the Rude Boy Prostate Stimulator. Designed just for him, this hands-free, easy to use design offers both prostate and perineal massage.This vibrating prostate and perineum massager is designed for the intermediate user. It has a mid-sized girth and...

  • R1,499

    Up your game with the new rechargeable version of the Rocks Off Cheeky Boy prostate massager. The Cheeky Boy Intense gives you all the excellent features of the original Cheeky Boy, with the added pleasure of a more powerful, rechargeable motor in the bullet vibrator. The rechargeable Ignition Bullet Vibrator by Rocks Off has 10 speeds, and holds up...

  • R1,499

    Intense is certainly the word when it comes to describing the pleasure delivered by the Rocks Off Bad Boy Intense. This dual prostate and perineum massager is shaped and sized for maximum feeling as you insert the 12.4cm internal shaft with its deep curve and two fulfilling bulges. This is an anal toy for more experienced players who are looking for...

  • R1,799
    1 Review

    If anal pleasure is your priority, then the Big Boy Intense is the perfect prostate massager. You’ll enjoy the ridged base that massages your perineum with every vibration and move. You’ll love the filling sensation of the 17cm insertable length and three girthy bulges with a maximum girth of almost 13cm. You’ll thrill to the 10-function...

  • R1,199
    1 Review

    The Butt-Boy Slim is a slimline, soft silicone prostate and perineum massager with a removable bullet vibrator. It’s perfect for beginners to anal play, with a classic tapered butt plug shape and narrow shaft. The insertable length is a pleasing but easily manageable 8.5cm, with a maximum 3.8cm diameter. The flexible neck of the shaft is narrow...

  • R1,999

    The Luxury G Rider vibrating prostate massager, by Nexus, has been created for those wanting penetration, and both internal and external stimulation all at the same time. Designed for anal use, this prostate massager stimulates the prostate through it's curved head and intense vibrations, whilst the perineum area between the scrotum and anus is massaged...

  • R999
    1 Review

    The innovative shape of the Nexus O sets it apart from your average prostate massager, and makes it possible to experience true hands-free orgasm. The O is, in fact, more of a C shape, with a ball at each end and one in the centre of the flexible silicone body. One end is inserted, with plenty of water-based lubricant, into the anus, until you feel the...

  • R1,199
    1 Review

    The Gyro hands-free massager by Nexus is a hands-free toy like no other! With a curved shaft perfectly designed for G and P spot play, and a heavy weighted ball base, you are able to literally sit and gyrate your way through your orgasm. Using motion to stimulate your anal canal, you gently massage your prostate with every movement. With a pivot ball...

  • R2,499

    At first glance, the Doxy Don looks a little odd, with its chunky handle and short shaft. Don’t be fooled. This strange looking toy is one of the most popular and successful sex toys available today, with dozens of glowing reviews. One reviewer even said that Doxy should receive an award for ‘their outstanding work in the Field of...

  • R2,199
    1 Review

    The new G Jack vibrator by G Vibe reaches new heights with it's state of the art BIOSKIN material. Feeling as real and as close to the human body as possible, this ecologically safe, hypoallergenic, and premium material vibrator is impossibly close to the real thing. 100% waterproof, G Jack is great to play with in the bath or shower. With a magentic...

  • R1,999

    The Fun Factory Tiger G5 is a unisex, medium in length, wide girthed clitoral, g-spot, and p-spot vibrator that provides an incredible sense of fullness and all round stimulation - whether it be for anal or vaginal play. With a 15.2cm insertable length and a 12cm girth, you get the added stimulation of the raised ridges from the base of the shaft to...

  • R2,349

    For men who are serious about their personal satisfaction, the Lelo Billy prostate massager offers the ultimate in luxury, form, and deeply satisfying pleasure. Helping you achieve a multitude of pleasures, the Billy combines safety and pleasure in it's ergonomically designed form. With a tapered body for easy insertion, and a slightly curved tip,...

  • R2,899

    The Stronic series by Fun Factory is a revolution in vibrators. In fact, they are more properly called pulsators. Stronic erotic toys thrust instead of vibrating, creating a back and forth motion that builds intense orgasms. The Stronic Zwei has been especially designed to stimulate the g-spot or the p-spot, with a rounded tip that rubs against that...

  • R2,699

    The Loki prostate massager allows you to control your pleasure by holding, thrusting, and otherwise manipulating the vibrator to achieve the perfect sensation for your orgasm. With six settings and a luxurious silicone curved 10cm shaft, the Loki has the power to bring you to your knees with pleasure. The shaft is wide at the curved tip, but narrows...

  • R1,199

    Starting out at a very acceptable 15.5cm long and 3.3cm girth, the Magical Boy expands to more than double the size when inflated with the hand pump. It’s easily inserted with just a little waterbased lube, then gently pumped to reach that size that is most fulfilling. When needed, the easy push release button deflates the dildo, so you can adjust...

  • R1,199
    Out of stock

    When you’re looking for size, the Fun Factory Magnum lives up to its name. This girthy 18cm dildo is made in a flexible and bodysafe silicone that makes it soft to the touch yet firm enough to fulfil. Thanks to the flat suction cup base, the Magnum dildo can be used for both vaginal and anal play, and is also harness compatible. It has a smooth...

  • R699
    Out of stock

    The Olly dildo is big and beautiful. Its impressive size makes it perfect for experienced users, both male and female for anal or vaginal play. The base is large and features a very strong suction cup for solo play. The Olly is also great used with a harness for adventurous couples play. Olly has a smooth ribbed shaft made from 100% medical grade...

  • R649

    The Robbie dildo from Malesation is perfect for solo or strap-on play. The flared suction base fits most standard strap-on harnesses, or can be used to firmly attach your dildo to a smooth surface. The wavy shaft and angled tip of the Robbie dildo make it ideal for g-spot or p-spot stimulation. It’s made from seamless, bodysafe, phthalate-free...

  • R1,499
    1 Review

    The Fun Factory Bouncer is a wonderfully simple and pleasing dildo design. Like other Fun Factory dildos, it features a flat, wide suction cup base that allows you to stick it to a wall or other clean surface. That wide base also makes it perfect for anal play, and for use with a harness. This means the Bouncer can be used for solo or couples play....

  • R729
    Out of stock

    The Fifty Shades Freed Divine glass beaded dildo is a luxuriously designed dildo offering sculpted firmness, rippling forms, and two distinct insertable tips. Perfect for both external and internal massage, this hand-crafted glass dildo is ideal for temperature play - simply warm or cool and enjoy the added stimulation of this sensory play. Use with your...

  • R549

    This clear dildo by ClearStone is a 7" dildo featuring a ripple effect on the shaft and a realistic penile type head for adding stimulation and sensation. Made from clear PVC, this soft to the touch dildo is Phthalate free and hygienic. With a suction base, it is easily attachable to any surface allowing for either anal or vaginal hands free play. Use it...

  • R599

    The Luxy Double Headed Dildo by the Clearstone series is an 11" dildo made from clear 100% phthalate free PVC. Soft and flexible, this dildo is moulded on a realistic shaft and head design, thereby offering a realistic experience. Thanks to it's curve you are able to reach your P-Spot/G-Spot with ease, making this the ideal toy for same-sex play. Simply...

  • R1,849

    The Fifty Shades of Freed Feel So Alive vibrating anal plug is a remote controlled pleasure plug designed to offer sensational indulgence and intimacy. With it's smooth silicone base and ergonomically designed shape, this anal plug is perfect for beginners and experienced users alike. With a solid t-like base to maintain it's position, this plug has 8...

  • R4,499 R5,147
    Reduced price!

    From the Fifty Shades Freed range, we have put together three stunning sex toys for shared exploration. For her desire, the Awash With Sensations mains-powered wand vibrator is a powerhouse of pleasure. Start with all-over body massage and intensify the arousal by focusing on her vulva and clitoris with the ten speeds and twenty vibration patterns....

  • R1,411

    Nexus Ace vibrating butt plugs are ideal for all anal enthusiasts. They're available in three sizes: a comfortable 3cm diameter, 6.5cm insertable length perfect for beginners; an intermediate 4cm/10.5cm; or a fulfilling 5cm/12.5cm perfect for more experienced anal players. The Ace butt plugs have been beautifully designed to fit all your anal play needs....

  • R1,008

    The Nexus G-Play vibrators are a perfect addition to your toybox, whether you prefer anal or vaginal play. These unisex vibrators have been designed with pleasure in mind, and feature a central buldge and bulbous tip intended to stimulate either the g-spot or the prostate. The flat base acts as a stopper, making the G-Play safe for anal pleasure. The...

  • R1,199

    The Tano2 by Picobong is a tiny yet powerful anal vibrator that offers deep rumbly vibrations and intense orgasmic experience. With it's 9.5cm insertable length, this anal plug is perfect for beginners and experts alike. It's improved motor packs twice the punch compared to the original Tano with intensive vibrations and 12 modes of funtion. With a...

  • R1,699

    The G Plug (Large), is a vibrating anal plug slightly larger than the original G Plug Small.With a diameter of 3.9cm (compared to the small at 3cm) and and a slightly wider base, this anal plug is the perfect step up for those wanting to advance in their anal play journey. Use it with your favourite anal or water-based lubricant, switch on the easy...

  • R1,499

    The G Plug Small is one of the smallest rechargeable anal plugs available today. With a diameter of 3cm and in a gorgeous neon rose colour, it is perfect for beginners or those wanting to experience gentle anal play. With 6 different vibrations, you are able to navigate your way through the varied sensations. USB rechargeable you have approximately 40...

  • R649

    The B Swish Bfilled wireless remote massaging plug is perfect for anal couple play. However, and wherever you chose, the remote allows a partner to control the vibes with 5 vibrationary speeds and a wireless remote. Perfectfully designed with a tapered tip for easy insertion and an unobtrusive base, this plug is ideal for prolonged wear and for...

  • R849 R978
    Reduced price!

    Anal play made fun! The BFilled remote controlled vibrating anal plug from BSwish is not only great for solo play, but best enjoyed with your partner! Toys such as these deserve to be used with a lubricant that will enhance your experience. We have therefore teamed the BFilled anal plug with the amazing Toy Love Gel from Wicked, a lubricant that has a...

  • R599

    For the beginner to experienced anal player, the Rocks-Off Ass-Berries anal plug is a sensational erotic toy. At just under 13cm of insertable length, this girthy butt plug has a bulbous design, with a slim neck and flared base to ensure it stays safely in place. The vibrations can be felt throughout this berry-shaped anal plug. It’s powered by...

  • R649
    Out of stock

    Tantus butt plugs are cleverly designed and hand-poured in velvety-soft bodysafe silicone. The Ryder is intended as an ‘intermediate’ anal plug: smooth to insert, and with a curved base that sits comfortably between the butt cheeks for comfortable wear and easy-grip removal. This butt plug has a 10cm insertable length, with a long, narrow...

  • R1,599

    The B.1 Stone Butt Plug by Laid is hand sculpted from polished Absolute Black Granite. With it's smooth, hard and heavy exterior, this anal plug is designed to intensify the feelings and sensations ahead of an orgasm. Hand Sculpted and polished from black granite, the B1 Stone is with it's silvery, charcoal reflections make this stone an object of true...

  • R449

    The Petite Sensations Anal Plug by Rocks off is a small vibrating butt plug perfect for beginners and experienced users alike. With ultra soft body safe silicone, this plug has a slim tapered tip allowing it to be completely and easily insertable. With a 7 function vibrating bullet, this anal plug with it's t shaped base fits perfectly between your cheeks...

  • R302

    Available in three sizes for all experience levels, the Malesation Silicone Butt Plug is beautifully shaped for easy insertion and amazing sensation. The tapered design and pointed tip allow you to gently ease this anal plug in, using plenty of water-based lube, while the broad central shaft gives you a pleasing feeling of fullness. The narrow base shaft...

  • R999

    The Beyond Erotic Anal Plug by Fifty Shades Darker is a beautiful addition to your adult toy collection. This medical-grade stainless steel butt plug is perfectly shaped for easy insertion and comfortable long-term wear. Simply add your favourite lube – water-based and silicone lubricants are both safe to use on the steel finish – and...

  • R399

    The Budy Anal plug by Adrien Lastic is a unisex anal plug designed for first time users. Measuring just 8cm in length and 9.75cm in girth, this anal plug is small enough for an introduction into anal play, but large enough to give you just the right amount of intensity. With a tapered head and ribbed shaft, insertion is easy and gentle, and allows the...

  • R645 R1,045
    Reduced price!

    Ready for some serious stimulation in the anal area? The Silicone Inflatable Vibrating Butt Plug from Malesation is a sensational anal toy, in every sense of the word. It’s a fulfilling 12cm of insertable length, with a hand pump for inflation and seven vibration modes. Tapering to a modest tip, with a total diameter (un-inflated) of 4.5cm,...

  • R649

    This Tantus butt plug in 100% bodysafe silicone is perfect for more experienced anal players. The extra stimulation offered by the textured, corkscrew effect shaft will make the entire experience of the Twist anal plug more pleasurable. It’s a reasonably-sized plug, at just over 10cm of insertable length, and a diameter of 3.3cm. The silicone...

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