Sex Toys for men

Shop the most luxurious range of sex toys for men - designed for maximum intensity and long-lasting pleasure


Désir’s range of Male Sex toys are a carefully curated catalogue of the worlds’ best male masturbators,  penis enhancers, fleshlights, prostate massagers, cock rings, and sheaths designed to stimulate pleasure, increase confidence, and improve your overall sexual health and wellness.


Featuring globally recognized brands such as Tenga, Fleshlight, Aneros, Bathmate, LELO, Malesation and OxBalls, to name a few, Désir has worked tirelessly to ensure South African men have access to the most prestigious and globally recognized male pleasure products for intense sensation and pleasure.

What are the best Sex Toys for men?

The mark of a great sex toy for men is durability, comfort and satisfying stimulation, that not only invokes intense pleasure, but provides you with absolute confidence in the bedroom. Here we feature several of our favorite categories and explain why these are a must-have for anyone wanting to take their pleasure to the next level.

#1: The Cock Ring

For a stronger, harder, longer-lasting erection no man should be without a cock ring. Still one of the best sex toys for men, these silicone rings encourage longer play, firmer erections, and delayed ejaculation. Penis Rings are designed with your anatomy in mind and can either be singular or double ringed.


Depending on your comfort levels, wear the singular ring at the base of the penis against your pelvis for a traditional fit, or fit the double ring around your scrotum. The secondary ring gently pulls out your erection and provides gentle pressure to your testicles to increase your orgasmic strength and intensity of your pleasure.


With several cock rings now featuring an added motor, you are able to enjoy intense vibrations either to your perineum (the area underneath your scrotum) or you are able to deliver powerful vibrations to your partner on each and every thrust.


Simultaneous orgasms and maintaining an erection have never been easier than wearing a cock ring. The easiest way to prolong bedroom play and to deliver a harder erection, vibrating and non- vibrating cock rings are 100% body safe, easy to use, and 100% effective.


Shop your perfect cock ring companion here.

#2: The Prostate Massager

Prostate Massagers not only deliver incredible prostate pleasure for him, but are becoming more and more necessary in promoting overall prostate health. Known to clear the prostatic duct, prostate massage is anecdotally supported for a range of conditions, including erectile dysfunction and chronic prostatitis.


Used as an intimate product to assist with the side effects associated with prostate surgery, prostate or anal massagers, and prostate play, give the added benefit of increased prostate orgasmic strength, explosive pleasure, and all-over erogenous pleasure. Taking care of your health has never been more satisfying.


With a comprehensive range of prostate massagers ranging from vibrating to non, remote controlled, and waterproof, Désir has ensured that prostate massage is not only ergonomically safe, but intensely pleasurable at the same time.


With popular brands like Rocks Off, Malesation, Nexus Nexus, and Fun Factory, we’ve built a range that is easy on the eye, powerful to the touch, and gentle on the body. Gaining award-winning recognition for their benefits from all around the world, Désir’s range of premium prostate massagers for him are the ultimate in male pleasure and sexual health.


From beginners to the more advanced, prostate massage has never been easier or more fulfilling.


Find your ideal prostate massager here.

#3: The Penis Sheath

Penis Sheaths are becoming increasingly popular for their non-invasive and non-surgical approach to providing him with a firmer and larger girth and a longer penis length.


Designed as a hollow prosthetic, penis sheaths are worn over his penis and are available in a multitude of textures, colors, attachments, and materials. With the added layer of body-safe material that fits snugly around his shaft, the gains on his girth and length are instant and in many instances offer additional stimulation and pleasure to the receiver thanks to the added nubs, textures, and realistic designs.


With their harness type structure, penis sheaths provide the wearer with additional support that not only supports a harder erection, but also allows for delayed ejaculation due to the reduced sensitivity.


For an instant, non-surgical and pain-free alternative to a larger girth and erection size, shop Désir’s body-safe Penis Sheaths for the confidence you need.

#4: Penis Pumps & Penis Enlargers

With award winning brands like Bathmate pioneering the world of all-natural penis enlargement, non-surgical growth on his shaft in the comfort of his home has never been easier. From hydro pumps to male extenders, vacuum devices or penis enlargement devices promise extra length and girth, increased confidence and an improved sex life.


With lasting improvements, Désir’s range of penis pumps and enhancers are internationally sourced and backed by medical expertise and sound results. Designed to assist with moderate erectile dysfunction, and promoting an increase in blood flow by creating a vacuum, the use of Penis pumps and enlargers have produced successful results from the over 1 million satisfied users across the world.


Use the Bathmate range for their hydro pump effect and water-based suction power, or opt for the more traditional Penis extender. Based on spring force traction that promises long-lasting or even permanent results, the Penis Extender is recommended specifically for users who suffer from Peyronies’ disease (penile curvature). Backed by medical research and with their lightweight design, penis extenders and pumps are a healthy and safe alternative to surgical procedures.


Shop Désir’s range of Penis Pumps and Penis Enhancers here.

#5: Fleshlight - Our Favourite Male Masturbator

Meet the ultimate in male pleasure. Fleshlight (also known as a pocket pussy) is an international male brand known for their mind-blowing sensations, quality and replicated oral sex experiences.


A masturbation sleeve made from the incredibly realistic Superskin material, Fleshlight promises the near real deal and features orifices that range from vaginal and anal, to neutral and round – making sure that they have catered for each individual’s specific desires and needs. Including the popular Stamina Training unit, you can now improve your performance thanks to this all realistic feel masturbation training sleeve.


With several sleeves molded on international players from within the adult industry, the Fleshlight Girls and the Fleshlight brand is unparalleled when it comes to pleasure, fit, and design. With over 7 million masturbation sleeves sold across the world, Fleshlight continues to innovate and maintain its position as the number one male masturbation brand in the world.


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Ditto Vibrating Prostate Massager with Remote - We-Vibe
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Ditto Vibrating Prostate Massager with Remote - We-Vibe

We Vibe
BO 1013 M19.12.19
R2,499
The Ditto anal massager by We-Vibe is a vibrating anal plug designed to stimulate and arouse the P-spot.Adding new stimulation to your intimate play, the Ditto is perfect for use during masturbation, foreplay or even intercourse. Stimulating your prostate with gentle pressure and rumbling vibrations, the Ditto is made of soft, smooth silicone and has a...
Vector Remote Control Vibrating Prostate Massager - We-Vibe
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Vector Remote Control Vibrating Prostate Massager - We-Vibe

We Vibe
BO 839289007161 D11.02.20
R2,699
The Vector prostate massager by We-Vibe is a two in one perineum and prostate massager that deliver sensations that go beyond anything you've experienced before. Designed for comfort, the Vector features an adjustable head and flexible base. With 10 vibrational modes, a remote control, and fully rechargeable this prostate and anal massager stimulates via...
We Vibe Luxury Pivot Couples Vibrating Penis Ring - APP ready
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Pivot Vibrating Penis Ring for Couples - We-Vibe™

We Vibe
BO839289006812 D28.01.2020
R2,199
The Pivot by We-Vibe™ is a stretchy silicone cock ring that is worn around the base of the penis. It is made of soft silicone that is comfortable and hardwearing. Apply We-Vibe™ Lube to the ring and the penis and slide down gently to the base of the penis. The Pivot cock ring helps him to stay harder and to last longer. The powerful rumbly motor in the...
We Vibe Luxury  Verge Penis Ring
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Verge Luxury Vibrating Penis Ring & Perineum Massager - We-Vibe

We Vibe
BO 839289006805 D04.02.20
R2,299
You’ll love the the power and pleasure you’ll feel with the Verge by We-Vibe™. Cock rings help to create a bigger, harder, and more long-lasting erection, finishing with more powerful orgasms. Now, the Verge cock ring by We-Vibe™ intensifies that pleasure with vibrations targeted to the scrotum and perineum. Put the Verge on before you get aroused, gently...
Tango Pleasure Mate Collection - We Vibe
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Tango Pleasure Mate™ 3-in-1 Clitoral, G-Spot & Anal Vibrator Collection - We-Vibe

We Vibe
WEVSNTMSGZ D05.06.2019
R2,499
This stunning collection from We-Vibe™ brings together the Tango bullet vibrator with the Glow and Dusk silicone toy forms. The Tango is a waterproof and powerful rechargeable bullet vibrator with easy single button operation and when couples with the silicone forms, you are able to transform your bullet into a G-Spot (Glow) or Anal (Dusk) Vibrator. The...
Wet Mouth "Fleshlight" Masturbating Sleeve - Vulcan
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Wet Mouth Masturbation Sleeve - Vulcan

Vulcan
BO846623001365 D07.02.20
R449
This discreetly packaged masturbation sleeve can pass as a male personal care product, and is compact and lightweight for easy storage and travel. At a pocket friendly price, this pocket pussy is sure to please. With a soft, mouth-shaped opening and realistic feel interior canal, the Vulcan Wet Mouth male masturbator is a pleasure to use, again and again....
Eggs Easy Beat 6 Pack - Tenga
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Easy Beat Regular Strength 6 Pack Male Masturbating Eggs - Tenga

Tenga
BO45620550700 D10.02.20
R899
Tenga Eggs are a really fun concept in male masturbators. Each innocent-looking egg shape is in fact a masturbation sleeve that can stretch to as much as 31 cm long and 20 cm in girth. Remove the wrapper and plastic egg casing, and inside you’ll find a soft, real-feel sleeve and a tube containing a Tenga lubricant. Remove the tube, lube...
Flip Hole D2 Red Male Masturbator - Tenga
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Flip Hole D2 Red Male Masturbator - Tenga

Tenga
BO 4560220551677 D11.02.20
R1,799
Tenga Flip Hole Masturbators are known to be the ultimate in reusable male masturabators. Remarkably discreet,the Tenga flip hole has been designed by an engineer to be both stylish and efficient. Not only looking incredible, these masturbators feel incredible too.  Much like its predecessors, the red Tenga Flip Hole has a soft internal sleeve,...
Hard Boiled Extra Strength 6 Pack Male Masturbating Eggs  - Tenga
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Hard Boiled Extra Strength 6 Pack Male Masturbating Eggs - Tenga

Tenga
BO4560220552827 D11.02.20
R899
With a pack of Tenga Eggs in your closet, you’re set for some seriously fun male masturbation. The Hard Boiled pack contains six eggs with different patterns for serious stimulation during masturbation. When you remove the wrapper and open the innocent-looking egg-shaped package, you’ll find a real-feel masturbation sleeve in super-stretchy...
Air Tech - Tenga
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Air Tech Reusable Vacuum Cup Male Masturbator - Tenga

Tenga
BO4560220554548 D11.02.20
R549
Air Tech Masturbators are Tenga’s new generation reusable male masturbators, based on their ever-popular cup masturbators with vacuum effect. The Air Tech Regular is tight, with a strong suction. Inside, the sleeve is textured with ribbed rows and raised nodules that deliver intense sensation as you stroke and thrust. Thanks to internal air...
Tenga Air-Tech Twist Reusable Vacuum Cup (Ripple) - Tenga
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Air-Tech Reusable Twist Male Masturbator (Ripple) - Tenga

Tenga
BO 4560220555347 D17.01.2020
R999
The Tenga Air Tech Ripple is a reusable vacuum cup masturbator that allows you to tailor the tightness to your preference. With a unique compression system you are able to adjust the stimulation from tight to loose to create a completely unique air-tech experience. Twist the dial at the top of the cylinder to experience the varied 5 stages of tightness...
Tenga Air Tech Reusable Vacuum Cup (Tickle) - Tenga
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Air-Tech Reusable Twist Male Masturbator (Tickle) - Tenga

Tenga
BOTENGATT001 D06.01.2020
R999
The Air-Tech Twist range of masturbators by Tenga have the same discreet containers and sensational interior as the Onacup range, with the added advantage that they’re reusable. These masturbation sleeves feature different interior textures, a vacuum seal for a sucking effect, and a twist top that adjusts the tightness to your perfect setting....
Air-Tech Reusable Vacuum Cup STRONG - Tenga
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Air-Tech Reusable Vacuum Cup STRONG - Tenga

Tenga
BO4560220554555 D04.02.20
R599
The Air-Tech Reusable vacuum cup by Tenga is a hygienic, reusable, unique air-cushion masturbator for men.With a new airflow structure, the STRONG Air-Tech allows an intense suction sensation even stronger than the original CUP series. With air flowing freely through the item, you receive the maximum vacuum suction possible, giving you a realistic and...
Cool Edition 6 Pack Male Masturbating Eggs - Tenga
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Cool Edition 6 Pack Male Masturbating Eggs - Tenga

Tenga
BO4560220555057 D18.09.2019
R849
The Cool edition eggs by Tenga are a refreshing take on the original mini masturbating sleeves made famous by the Tenga brand. Made from the incredibly super-stretchy elastomer, this sleeve stretches to fit most sizes and offers incredible stimulation at the same time. With it's wavy and textured interior, zig-zag nodules and elongated...
Flex Masturbation Sleeve - Tenga
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Flex Masturbation Sleeve - Tenga

Tenga
BO4560220555873 D10.12.19
R879
The Flex masturbation sleeve by Tenga is a uniquely designed masturbation sleeve featuring a spiral-ribbed design that twists, sucks and flexes as you thrust.In a gorgeously designed malleable casing, the Flex features a lid type cover, that when removed reveals the soft and realistically textured spiraling sleeve inner. Simply remove...
Spinner Hexa Masturbation Sleeve - Tenga
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Spinner Hexa Masturbation Sleeve - Tenga

Tenga
BO4560220557198 D04.02.20
R699
The Tenga Spinner Hexa is a stimulating masturbation sleeve that automatically spins around as you thrust in and out.With it's striking design, the Hexa is made out of a smooth, transparent material which is wrapped by a brightly coloured spiral cord. This cord allows the sleeve to twist upon each and every thrust, creating an intense suction and...
Spinner Shell Masturbation Sleeve - Tenga
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Spinner Shell Masturbation Sleeve - Tenga

Tenga
BO4560220557204 D24.01.2020
R699
The Tenga Spinner Shell is a stimulating masturbation sleeve that automatically spins around as you thrust in and out.With it's striking design, the Shell is made out of a smooth, transparent material which is wrapped by a brightly coloured spiral cord. This cord allows the sleeve to twist upon each and every thrust, creating an intense suction...
Spinner Tetra Masturbation Sleeve - Tenga
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Spinner Tetra Masturbation Sleeve - Tenga

Tenga
BO4560220557181 D04.02.20
R699
The Tenga Spinner Tetra is a stimulating masturbation sleeve that automatically spins around as you thrust in and out.With it's striking design, the Tetra is made out of a smooth, transparent material which is wrapped by a brightly coloured spiral cord. This cord allows the sleeve to twist upon each and every thrust, creating an intense...
Vicky Unisex 35 Speed Prostate or G-Spot Massager - Svakom
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Vicky Unisex 35 Speed Prostate or G-Spot Massager - Svakom

Svakom
SPM-03-VLT
R1,699
The Vicky Unisex Massager by Svakom is a luxurious silicone-soft massager designed to provide dual stimulation for both him or her.With it's dual ergonomic design, women benefit from a dual g-spot and clitoral massage, whilst men experience intense all-over prostate orgasms thanks to the all-over dual prostate and perineum massage. For women, simply...
Bonnie Unisex Dual Motor Vibrator - Svakom
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Bonnie Flexible Unisex Dual Motor Vibrator - Svakom

Svakom
CON S1-PMR 11.11.19
R2,199
The Bonnie unisex vibrator by Svakom is a versatile vibrator, ergonomically designed to stimulate either your nipples, clitoris, g-spot, and even his perineum and prostate.Made from super-soft body-safe silicone, this vibrator features two different sized heads on either size of the vibrator. The small flexible head on one side, can be...
Vick Remote Control Vibrating Unisex Plug - Svakom
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Vick Remote Control Vibrating Unisex Plug - Svakom

Svakom
CON Vick 05.02.20
R1,599
The Vick remote controlled dual motor prostate massager by Svakom is a powerful and luxurious massager ideal for couples or solo play. Featuring two separate powerful motors, you are able to experience both internal and external stimulation. For her, simply wear the Vick with the curved arm worn internally and allow the thicker shorter arm to rest...
Bella Anal Plug - Svakom
  • New
Available
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Bella Anal Plug - Svakom

Svakom
S-23B-BLK
R899
The Bella Anal plug by Svakom is a plug designed for unisex use providing either prostate or anal massage perfectly. Made from 100% body safe silicone, the Bella features a soft silicone probe that features a rounded tip for easy insertion. Flexible enough to be used at different angles, Bella also features a swirled textured design that increases...
Judy Vibrating Anal Plug - Svakom
  • New
Available
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Judy Vibrating Anal Plug - Svakom

Svakom
SPM-04-BLK
R1,599
The Judy Vibrating anal plug by Svakom is a luxury anal plug designed to be used by both men and women alike. Designed using superior soft silicone, Judy is waterproof and non-porous. A soft rounded flexible head promises easy insertion and with a flared base  to keep it securely in place you are promised intense hands-free play. Judy offers 5 different...
Gina Realistic Double Ended Masturbation Cup - Zemalia
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Gina Realistic Double Ended Masturbation Cup - Zemalia

Svakom
CON Z9-CPHS 18.12.19
R999
The Gina masturbation sleeve by Zemalia is a two-in-one realistically designed sleeve that features a mouth on one end and a smooth vagina on the other. Designed to provide a realistically modelled 3D replica of both a vagina and a mouth, this double-ended masturbation sleeve provides both the texture and feel that you would get from either deep throat...
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