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Explore our superior range of selected sex toys for men, designed to enhance intimate couple encounters and individual play. Invite desire back into your life with luxury male sex toys like massagers, plugs, rings, masturbators, enhancers and sleeves – for bedroom experiences that will satisfy the deepest longings of the daring, modern man.


Discover your innermost desires with our range of sex toys for men.

Your Confidential Bedroom Playtime

Direct from our intimate collection, Desir offers clients the opportunity to acquire some of the best sex toys for men in South Africa, available exclusively online from our showroom in Camps Bay, Cape Town.


For couples looking for excitement and rediscovery, or for a more enriching solo experience, these male sex toys will help you redefine your definition of pleasure.


Sexual exploration has become an important aspect of male intimacy, though it can still be a challenge to buy sex toys for men online in South Africa with complete peace of mind. We firmly believe in the manta ‘what happens in the bedroom, stays in the bedroom’ and work tirelessly to make sure that our client’s desires remain private and confidential.


Male sex toys can unlock the potential hidden in the stagnancy of a familiar relationship, unleashing new waves of pleasure and connection for the couple involved. For profound vibrating, tickling, squeezing or massaging thrills - few sex toys will heighten the excitement of your bedroom games quite like ours can.


Browse our sophisticated list of the best sex toys for men for 2016, and choose how you are going to add zest to your sexual experiences this year. Warning! Pleasure ahead.

The Best Sex Toys For Men: 2016

The mark of a great sex toy for men is durability, comfort and satisfying stimulation. If you are looking for the finest recommendations for 2016, check out our top 5 list of classic luxury male sex toys on sale at Desir.co.za today. Some of these toys you can really get behind!


The best sex toys create the best sexual experiences, over and over again.Each toy is an investment in shared desires, which brings people closer together.

#1: The Pervasive Cock Ring

For a stronger, harder, longer-lasting erection no man should be without a cock ring this year. Still one of the best sex toys for men, use one ring or several simultaneously to enjoy several hours of fun in the bedroom. Many cock rings come with powerful vibrating add-ons and extensions for heightened couple interactions.


She will love how long you last, he will break records in personal pleasure. Find your perfect cock ring companion here.

#2: The Ever-Popular Vibrator

Vibrators are not just for women anymore! Once tried, few can resist the deep pulsing, teasing and tickling of a luxury vibrator. These are some of the best sex toys for men because they amplify the power of your orgasm every time you use them.


From prostate vibrators and vibrating dildos, to handheld masturbators, this is a crucial addition to any cabinet of delights.


She will love your ecstatic enthusiasm, he will discover a new level of stimulation. Find your ideal vibrating companion here.

#3: The Definitive Penis Sleeve

Add girth and size to your penis, all while sending pulsing vibrations through the both of you with one of the best sex toys for men in 2016. The soft silicone finish on this indulgent sex toy makes it comfortable and intensely arousing for couples indulging their most secret sexual desires. Perfect the art of love-making with this popular male sex toy.


She will love the deep sensations, he will enjoy how it drives her wild. Find your penis sleeve companion here.

#4: The Unforgettable P-Spot Plug

Every man deserves a plug for enhanced orgasm stimulation. Prostate plugs are hot items this year, which makes them one of the best sex toys for men in 2016. Some of them vibrate, others are more for manual operation – but there is no denying the lure of anal play for intimate, thrill-seeking couples or during solo masturbation.


She will love your building excitement, he will explode with stronger climaxes. Find your personal p-spot plug here.

#5: The Exhilarating Enhancer

Last on the list of best sex toys for men is the heady enhancer, ideal for increasing the size and strength of a man's erection. Get yours as a handheld pump, or one that works with water for added suction, usable in the bath or shower for intense sexual arousal.


She will love your eager energy, he will delight in her all-consuming contentment. Find your favourite enhancer here.


The Desir Intimate Collection of male sex toys was designed to facilitate a wide variety of sexual encounters and tastes – so whether you are role playing with your spouse, or investing in a new set of bondage restraints, your needs will always be satisfied with us.


Browse our range of exclusive sex toys for men here, or honour yourself with a champagne consultation at our showroom in Camps Bay, Cape Town.

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  • R999

    Tenga's Air Tech Ultra masturbator now provides 120% bigger size than the regular Air Tech range and provides you with the ultimate experience in Aerostimulation. With more pronounced nubs and spongy ridges, the amazing air control system allows air to escape whilst thrusting providing you with the most incredible sensory experience - even better than the...

  • R2,899

    The XChange by Rocks-Off is an amazingly innovative luxury anal vibrator, that features two interchangeable attachments, the Curve prostate massager and the Oval anal plug. By simply twisting the base of the product, you are able to attach each head according to your wants and needs. Featuring 10 Functions, you are guaranteed absolute intensity as you...

  • R899
    3 Reviews

    This is your absolute must have cock ring! The JNaja is designed to provide you with a completely different sensation to ordinary cock ring. When positioned correctly, the pressure on your perineum allows you stronger erections and incredibly powerful ejaculation. Providing you with constant perineum massage, this ring provides you with a host of health...

  • R1,899

    The Manta Ray - a revolutionary toy for men from the luxury sex toy manufacturer, Imtoy. With it's innovative design this super flexible and softly pliable masturbator has subtle yet stimulating textures providing you with fully customisable pleasure. Wrapping the stroker around your shaft, and with the use of a good lubricant, you are able to enjoy the...

  • R1,499

    The RO-Zen vibrating Penis Ring and prostate massager is an all in one cock ring, perineum massager, anal plug, and prostate massager all in one! This is the ultimate toy for the man who wants to enjoy prolonged play, delayed ejaculation, an increase in orgasmic strength due to the anal and prostate massage, and an all over multi-sensory orgasmic...

  • R699

    Discover the Sensation of Aerostimulation!TENGA has improved upon their famous CUP Style with the new AIR-TECH Reusable Vacuum CUP – now with a removable sleeve for cleaning! Also featuring an all-new airflow structure for boosted Vacuum Suction Sensation!

  • R1,299

    The Rocks Off Butt Boy Intense is an upgrade from the original Butt Boy in that it is rechargeable, bigger and more powerful. With the included Ignition 10 function USB rechargeable bullet, you are now able to enjoy the combination of a sleek vibrating anal plug with dual perineum massage, which improves both the strength and duration of your orgasm. Butt...

  • R1,299

    The Rocks Off Bad Boy Intense Prostate Massager is an upgrade on the original Bad Boy in that it is more powerful, bigger, and rechargeable. Powered by a 10 speed Ignition bullet, this massager provides you with intense dual prostate and perineum massage and is the perfect product if you are looking for the next level after having already used a medium...

  • R2,699

    The Bathmate Hydromax X30 is designed to increase both the girth and length of the penis. Used in the bath or shower by using the suction of water, this product not only increases the size in both length and girth of the penis, but also assists in promoting longer lasting erections and increased sexual satisfaction. The HydroMax X30 is...

  • R1,499

    The Rocks Off Cheeky Boy Intense Prostate Massager is an upgrade on the original Cheeky Boy in that it is USB rechargeable and is powered by the intense 10 speed Ignition bullet, giving you more powerful and intense vibrations and orgasms. Worn analy, this prostate massager features four spheres which push into your sensitive prostate, whilst massaging...

  • R1,569

    "Fleshlight - The #1 selling male sex toy in the world"The Fleshlight Go Torque Ice is smaller than the standard Fleshlights, giving you a more discreet, travel-friendly companion made from soft SuperSkin material. Its clear sleeve and casing allows you and your partner to watch the action. The screw cap at the bottom of the Fleshlight allows you to...

  • R1,699

    The Big Boy Intense Prostate Massager by Rocks Off is an upgrade of the original Big Boy in that it is bigger, more powerful and USB rechargeable. With it's 10 powerful settings, powered by an Ignition USB rechargeable bullet, this prostate massager worn analy, presses against your prostate, and massages your perineum providing you with intense and...

  • R2,099

    The Luxury G Rider vibrating prostate massager, by Nexus, has been created for those wanting penetration, and both internal and external stimulation all at the same time. Designed for anal use, this prostate massager stimulates the prostate through it's curved head and intense vibrations, whilst the perineum area between the scrotum and anus is massaged...

  • R169

    The Lingus vibrating Cock Ring by Adrien Lastic is a dual pleasure cock ring designed to pleasure both him and her. With a bud-shaped tip situated on top of the ring, you are able to stimulate her clitoris via the intense vibrations and the several rows of small, round beads, which provide additional texture and enjoyment. The solid, smooth, cock ring is...

  • R2,599 R2,938
    Reduced price!

    Spoil yourself with the Hot Octopuss Pulse III Duo Male Masturbator - also known as the world's first "Guybrator". It is a versatile toy that can be used for solo play or couples foreplay. What's more, this bundled deal provides you with the opportunity to extend your solo play time with the popular Wicked OverTime Delay cream, all at a reduced price!...

  • R3,199
    1 Review

    Lelo's Hugo prostate massager is one of a kind. t's remote control functionality allows you the option to control the vibes & intensity, giving you the perfect hands free experience! The Hugo is designed to increase the size & intensity of the male climax by 30% providing you with the most explosive orgasmic experience. Perfect for either solo...

  • R199

    The Maximum penis sheath by Adrien Lastic is a sheath designed to add both girth and volume to your penis. Worn simply by slipping the sheath onto your shaft, this sheath sits securely at the base, and maximises the width of your penis whilst providing you with a harder, firmer erection at the same time. With it's smooth textured body, these penis rings...

  • R1,979

    The We Vibe Verge luxury penis ring is a revolutionary ring designed to stimulate the man's perineum - an erogenous zone that responds to both pressure and vibrations. Designed to bring your pleasure whether on your own or with a partner, the Verge is worn over the penis, with the pointed end sitting underneath the perineum area, an erogenous zone found...

  • R1,599

    They say practice makes perfect and Fleshlight has engineered the Stamina Training Unit (STU) to assist with just that. This unit has been designed to turn an ordinary masturbation session into an intensely pleasurable training session. The Stamina Training Unit's stimulating inner texture, made to replicate the sensations of intercourse, will help you...

  • R1,199

    The Nexus Neo prostate massager (slightly bigger than the Nexus Excel) has been specifically designed for men looking to experiment and start for both anal play, and P spot stimulation. Ergonomically designed, the Neo can be used during masturbation, foreplay or during intercourse. With a smooth, curved and angled head to directly stimulate the P spot, a...

  • R3,899
    1 Review

    In your journey to penis enlargement, you would have already started out with either the Bathmate Hercules or the HydroMax X30. And now that you have outgrown those (literally), it is time to move on to the HydroMax X40 to continue growing to your preferred size. It is not suggested to advance directly to the X40, as the results are not...

  • R1,299

    Awarded best product design by the Brussels Erotica Awards in 2006, the Nexus Excel Prostate Massager (slightly smaller than the Nexus Neo prostate massager) is an ergonomically designed thick and hard prostate massager which fits the inner contours of a man's body perfectly. With smooth, durable material combined with a stainless steel perineum massage...

  • R1,399

    The Little Rocket anal plug by Adrien Lastic is a remote controlled plug made of the highest quality, body safe, and super soft silicone. Measuring at 13cm in length, and 3.5cm in girth, this anal stimulator is perfect for beginners thanks to it's very spongy and soft touch. Controlled either by the button at the spherical end of via the remote control...

  • R799

    The Rocks Off RO-Zen penis ring is a one of a kind penis, scrotum, perineum, and anal stimulator in ONE. The ultimate toy for the man who wants to experience heightened orgasms, prolonged intercourse, delayed ejaculation and a multi-sensory experience. With a 1.4 inch penis ring fitting around your shaft and a 1.5 inch scrotal ring that stretches...

  • R559

    Orny - The best selling Vibrating Ring!The Orny vibe ring by Screaming O is designed to get couples hot and heavy fast! With a unique shape designed for dramatically different orgasms, the orny is powered by a Vooom bullet, which has a new low-pitch mini vibe that vibrates with a deep, rumbling sensation rather than a high pitched vibration. Unlike...

  • R999

    The Spicy strap on dildo by Smile is a hollow strap on dildo, which can be worn by either him or her. With it's hollow inner, he can simply slip inside for added girth and length, or worn by her it features comfortable waist and leg straps that are both flexible and adjustable ensuring the ultimate comfort and fit. Large in size, this dildo is made from...

  • R439

    Reach your full potential with the Lust Pumper Penis Enlarger. These pumps have two kinds results - immediate and permanent. It works on a vacuum system, where the suction draws blood into the penis, providing a longer, harder erection as an immediate result. For longer lasting results, it is recommended to use daily in order to grow and to maintain this...

  • R2,499 R2,758
    Reduced price!

    The prostate is a walnut sized gland located at the root of the penis & when massaged correctly, provides intense, long-lasting, even multiple, orgasms and intense ejaculation. Lelo engineered the Bruno Prostate Massager to provide men with the ultimate prostate experience. We have teamed the Bruno up with the Jelle water-based anal lubricant to ensure...

  • R599

    The O Hare wearable rabbit vibe, is a soft and flexible penis ring with vibrating rabbit ears on top. Worn by the male, a stretchy reinforced ring provides longer lasting erections, whilst a rear ring, gently hugging the testes allows for added targeted stimulation. With the rabbit ears on top, you are able to enter your lady, allowing the rabbit ears to...

  • R999

    The Union Penis Ring by Rocks off is a clever multi-way cock, ball, and clitoral stimulator. Worn on the shaft of the penis, you can either use this product as a couples toy, but allowing the bullet vibe to rest on top of her clitoris, allowing simultaneous orgasms, or simply slide the ring onto the shaft and rest the bullet vibe underneath his...

  • R299

    The Bullet Lastic couples cockring by Adrien Lastic is a penis ring designed to be worn over his penis, providing him with longer lasting erections and delayed ejaculation. With the two flexible and super soft silicone bands, you can position these at the base of his penis ensuring firmness and solid support. With a textured simulator and slick, curved...

  • R1,999
    1 Review

    The Bathmate Hercules Enhancer is designed to increase the size of a man's penis. Used in the bath or shower using the suction of water, this product not only increases the size of the penis, but also assists in promoting longer lasting erection and increased sexual satisfaction. As the original and longest selling hydropump to help men get bigger,...

  • R1,489

    Fun Factory Duke prostate massager for men has been ergonomically designed to stimulate the anus, the prostate and perineum. The prostate, a walnut sized gland located at the root of the penis, when massaged correctly, provides intense, long-lasting, even multiple, orgasms and intense ejaculation. While many men focus largely on external stimulation,...

  • R159

    The Tenga Egg Male Masturbator is a discreet & innovative product for male masturbation. Your solo experience is taken to new heights with each eggs' unique texture. This Tenga Egg Crater has large, cratered nubs to stimulate you from all angles for a tremulous, exhilarating experience.

  • R599

    Primo Tux by Screaming O is a 4-function, vibrating love ring made from premium silicone and can stretch for a tailer made fit. It has a simple one button operation that allows you to switch it on and off and to switch through its 3 vibration speeds and its pulsation function. The rounded teeth on the inside of the ring are soft and have been specially...

  • R1,799 R2,068
    Reduced price!

    Fleshlight is the #1 male sex toy in the world and with its 'Real Feel' material, what is not to love! The Fleshlight Pink Lady Original is the original Fleshlight masturbator that was launched and is still a favourite amongst returning and first-time customers. this smooth patented SuperSkin sleeve not only provides a hyper-realistic feel, it is...

  • R2,799 R3,094
    Reduced price!

    The Hydromax X30 is a popular pump used for both penis enlargment and assisting those with erectile dysfunction. Due to this pump using water to assist with the enlargment / erections, the pump itself can become quite heavy when in use. In this instance, BathMate has designed the Shower Strap, allowing you to use your pump, hands-free. Get both of these...

  • R199

    This vibrating cock ring is made from soft silicone, and is accompanied by a vibrating bullet that slips into a sleeve attached to the top of the ring. This sleeve was designed with soft silicone nubs for added stimulation. Two sets of batteries are included & is made to fit most sizes!

  • R2,999

    "Piu - Designed for Pleasure - the world's first men's interactive masturbator "The Piu by IMTOY is one of the most luxurious and revolutionary vibrators for men, and is also the only men's product which is smart phone or tablet manipulated. With 3 whisper quiet motors and it's ergonomic form, this device allows you to syncronize your pleasure with adult...

  • R2,999 R3,544
    Reduced price!

    Fleshlight is the #1 male sex toy in the world. With its 'real-feel' material and their incredible accessories, it is no wonder it is the preferred choice. The Vibro Pink Lady Touch is a popular one due to the 3 vibrating bullets that are included for added stimulation to your solo session. What's more, Fleshlight have created the V Stroker, the world's...

  • R199

    The Devol vibrating cockring by Adrien Lastic is a fun and cheeky addition to your couple playtime. Worn over the shaft of the penis, you can enjoy the benefits of this ultra-flexbile cockring allowing you prolonged intercourse, delayed ejaculation, and a firmer and steadier erection. Fitting almost every size, this smooth, velvety ring includes a...

  • R1,199

    The Feranti His & Hers Vibe set by Rocks off is a cheeky and fun set consisting of 3 of their most popular vibes. In a gorgeous combination of black and pink, this set contains the Ramsey Rabbit clitoral vibe, the RO-80mm Bullet Vibe, and the infamous 4US Vibrating Penis Ring. The Rocks Off Ramsey Bullet Vibrator is a discreet clitoral vibrator powerful...

  • R1,399

    This 50 Shades Darker Love Ring is an ergonomic, stretchable vibrating cock ring designed to enhance clitoral stimulation for her whilst helping him achieve longer lasting and harder erections. With 8 patterns and 12 speeds this powerful motor offers a whisper quiet vibration. USB rechargeable, 100% waterproof and perfect for the ultimate couple play.

  • R999

    The Cheeky Boy Prostate Massager by Rocks Off is a prostate massager designed to stimulate the perineum, anus, and prostate. The prostate, a walnut sized gland located at the root of the penis, when massaged correctly, provides intense, long-lasting, even multiple, orgasms and intense ejaculation. While many men focus largely on...

  • R1,569

    The Ice Lady Crystal Fleshlight, like all Fleshlights, is made from patented SuperSkin material and has an incredible, textured interior, with nodules, bumps and spirals. Not only that, it also has a clear sleeve and casing, allowing you to watch the action and the bottom screw cap regulates the suction intensity. It is advisable to use a water-based...

  • R1,595

    "VStroker - The world's most advanced virtual sex system"Enhance your solo experience with the revolutionary VStroker. It connects seamlessly to your Fleshlight (sold seperately) and wirelessly transmits sensor information to your PC or Mac - simulating a lifelike experience. Simply attach VStroker to the end of your Fleshlight (sold separately),...

  • R319

    The Lidl Extra Penis Extension sleeve is perfect for those who want to delay ejaculation and provide extra stimulation for their partner. Adding on an an extra 7.6cm's this penis sleeve also add's on extra length to your penis, whilst providing her with additional stimulation at the same time. Covered in textured pleasure beads, this sleeve is perfect for...

  • R895

    Rated as the #1 selling male sex toy in the world, the Quickshot Vantage male masturbator is a non anatomical masturbator with an array of ridges & textures designed to provide you with the most incredible stimulation. With a hole on either side, this product is perfect for either solo or couple play. For solo play, you can either leave the cap on one end...

  • R2,599
    2 Reviews

    Known as the first “Guybrator”, this multi-award winning male-stimulator, is one of the hottest male masturbators on the market. Originally designed for solo play, the new Pulse III Duo allows for couple play as well. Worn by the male, the powerful vibrations and oscillations stimulate the penis encouraging a snug fit and providing the most...

  • R2,599

    Lelo's perfectly shaped Loki prostate massager for men is perfect for more controlled application and direction. Guaranteed to enhance your orgasms by 30%, this vibrating massager is waterproof and rechargeable. With 6 variable settings providing mind blow and intensive orgasms, this perfectly shaped and angled prostate massager, makes it your number one...

  • R1,145

    The Naughty Boy Prostate Stimulator by Rocks Off is designed for the ultimate in prostate massage specifically stimulating the anus, prostate, and perineum. perfect for beginners. The prostate, a walnut sized gland located at the root of the penis, when massaged correctly, provides intense, long-lasting, even multiple, orgasms and intense...

  • R1,594

    "Fleshlight - The #1 selling male sex toy in the world"The name says it all. This Fleshlight is the original Fleshlight masturbator that was launched and is still a favourite amongst returning and first-time customers. Unlike the other Fleshlight models with patterned interiors, this smooth patented SuperSkin sleeve not only provides a...

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