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SEX TOYS FOR HIM

THE BEST SEX TOYS FOR MEN ARE AN EXPLORATION OF INTIMACY, PLEASURE AND ADVENTURE

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Explore our superior range of selected sex toys for men, designed to enhance intimate couple encounters and individual play. Invite desire back into your life with luxury male sex toys like massagers, plugs, rings, masturbators, enhancers and sleeves – for bedroom experiences that will satisfy the deepest longings of the daring, modern man.


Discover your innermost desires with our range of sex toys for men.

Your Confidential Bedroom Playtime

Direct from our intimate collection, Desir offers clients the opportunity to acquire some of the best sex toys for men in South Africa, available exclusively online from our showroom in Camps Bay, Cape Town.


For couples looking for excitement and rediscovery, or for a more enriching solo experience, these male sex toys will help you redefine your definition of pleasure.


Sexual exploration has become an important aspect of male intimacy, though it can still be a challenge to buy sex toys for men online in South Africa with complete peace of mind. We firmly believe in the manta ‘what happens in the bedroom, stays in the bedroom’ and work tirelessly to make sure that our client’s desires remain private and confidential.


Male sex toys can unlock the potential hidden in the stagnancy of a familiar relationship, unleashing new waves of pleasure and connection for the couple involved. For profound vibrating, tickling, squeezing or massaging thrills - few sex toys will heighten the excitement of your bedroom games quite like ours can.


Browse our sophisticated list of the best sex toys for men for 2016, and choose how you are going to add zest to your sexual experiences this year. Warning! Pleasure ahead.

The Best Sex Toys For Men: 2016

The mark of a great sex toy for men is durability, comfort and satisfying stimulation. If you are looking for the finest recommendations for 2016, check out our top 5 list of classic luxury male sex toys on sale at Desir.co.za today. Some of these toys you can really get behind!


The best sex toys create the best sexual experiences, over and over again.Each toy is an investment in shared desires, which brings people closer together.

#1: The Pervasive Cock Ring

For a stronger, harder, longer-lasting erection no man should be without a cock ring this year. Still one of the best sex toys for men, use one ring or several simultaneously to enjoy several hours of fun in the bedroom. Many cock rings come with powerful vibrating add-ons and extensions for heightened couple interactions.


She will love how long you last, he will break records in personal pleasure. Find your perfect cock ring companion here.

#2: The Ever-Popular Vibrator

Vibrators are not just for women anymore! Once tried, few can resist the deep pulsing, teasing and tickling of a luxury vibrator. These are some of the best sex toys for men because they amplify the power of your orgasm every time you use them.


From prostate vibrators and vibrating dildos, to handheld masturbators, this is a crucial addition to any cabinet of delights.


She will love your ecstatic enthusiasm, he will discover a new level of stimulation. Find your ideal vibrating companion here.

#3: The Definitive Penis Sleeve

Add girth and size to your penis, all while sending pulsing vibrations through the both of you with one of the best sex toys for men in 2016. The soft silicone finish on this indulgent sex toy makes it comfortable and intensely arousing for couples indulging their most secret sexual desires. Perfect the art of love-making with this popular male sex toy.


She will love the deep sensations, he will enjoy how it drives her wild. Find your penis sleeve companion here.

#4: The Unforgettable P-Spot Plug

Every man deserves a plug for enhanced orgasm stimulation. Prostate plugs are hot items this year, which makes them one of the best sex toys for men in 2016. Some of them vibrate, others are more for manual operation – but there is no denying the lure of anal play for intimate, thrill-seeking couples or during solo masturbation.


She will love your building excitement, he will explode with stronger climaxes. Find your personal p-spot plug here.

#5: The Exhilarating Enhancer

Last on the list of best sex toys for men is the heady enhancer, ideal for increasing the size and strength of a man's erection. Get yours as a handheld pump, or one that works with water for added suction, usable in the bath or shower for intense sexual arousal.


She will love your eager energy, he will delight in her all-consuming contentment. Find your favourite enhancer here.


The Desir Intimate Collection of male sex toys was designed to facilitate a wide variety of sexual encounters and tastes – so whether you are role playing with your spouse, or investing in a new set of bondage restraints, your needs will always be satisfied with us.


Browse our range of exclusive sex toys for men here, or honour yourself with a champagne consultation at our showroom in Camps Bay, Cape Town.

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  • R2,499

    The Rocks Off Xchange gives you two luxury toys in one convenient package, designed to take your prostate pleasure to the next level. The Oval is a streamlined butt plug with an insertable length of just under 9cm and a maximum width of 11.5cm. With its narrow neck and tapered tip, the Oval is comfortable and easy to insert, even for beginners. The...

  • R1,599 R2,799

    The IMTOY range is new on the world market, and offers a high quality range of well-designed toys. The Piu is intended for stimulation of the head of the penis, with three motors in a solid casing that vibrate at different intensities to stimulate you to orgasm with no need for stroking or thrusting. The casing is ABS plastic, with a lining of smooth,...

  • R599
    1 Review

    The JBoa Lasso penis ring by Velv'or is a soft and flexible silicone ring, perfect for delaying ejaculation, prolonging foreplay, and maintaining your erection. With it's adjustable fit, it is a 'one size fits most' and with a hand finished stainless steel ring to secure the ring, it is both comfortable and safe to wear. Stored in a sleek aluminium tube,...

  • R899

    The Glide beginners prostate massager by Nexus is the perfect product for those looking for gentle prostate massage. With it's aesthetic and ergonomic design, the Glide has a smooth, slim shaft and a stainless steel roller ball perfect for perineum massage. Ideal for solo or partner play, the Glide is best used with your favourite lubricant and has a...

  • R199

    The Ofinity Stretchy Cock and Ball ring is a double ring designed specifically to provide long lasting erections. With your shaft through the top ring, the tests fit snugly underneath through the second ring, allowing delayed ejaculation and prolonged foreply. With it's stretchy SEBS silicone, this flexible ring fits most sizes, and constricts blood flow...

  • R2,599
    3 Reviews

    Known as the first “Guybrator”, this multi-award winning male-stimulator, is one of the hottest male masturbators on the market. Originally designed for solo play, the new Pulse III Duo allows for couple play as well. Worn by the male, the powerful vibrations and oscillations stimulate the penis encouraging a snug fit and providing the most...

  • R1,499

    They say practice makes perfect and Fleshlight has engineered the Stamina Training Unit (STU) to assist with just that. This unit has been designed to turn an ordinary masturbation session into an intensely pleasurable training session. The Stamina Training Unit's stimulating inner texture, made to replicate the sensations of intercourse, will help you...

  • R749

    This stylish signature piece from the Fifty Shades Freed range is smooth, cool, and exciting to wear. With a firm grip, which aids in prolonged ejaculation, maintaining a stronger erection, and allowing for longer play, this premium cock ring amplifies your sensory and orgasmic experience. Worn around your shaft, or around both your shaft and testicles,...

  • R1,899

    The Fifty Shades of Freed Feel So Alive vibrating anal plug is a remote controlled pleasure plug designed to offer sensational indulgence and intimacy. With it's smooth silicone base and ergonomically designed shape, this anal plug is perfect for beginners and experienced users alike. With a solid t-like base to maintain it's position, this plug has 8...

  • R4,699

    The Hydromax X40 XTREME is the ultimate in hydrotherapy pump technology. Featuring the same attributes as the rest of the Hydromax series, the X40 features 35% more power than the original Hercules. Recommended for users whose penis is between 7 and 9 inches in length, the Hydromax X40 now features a greater internal width and a long insert comfort pad to...

  • R2,999
    1 Review

    The We-Vibe Sensations Unite Collection is the ultimate toy set for adventurous couples. Containing the couples sex toy, the We-Vibe Unite, and the couples penis ring, the We-Vibe Pivot, this set is all you need to ensure simultaneous satisfaction and intense orgasms. We-Vibe Unite:The We-Vibe Unite provides you the opportunity for hands-free clitoral...

  • R3,199
    1 Review

    Lelo's Hugo prostate massager is one of a kind. t's remote control functionality allows you the option to control the vibes & intensity, giving you the perfect hands free experience! The Hugo is designed to increase the size & intensity of the male climax by 30% providing you with the most explosive orgasmic experience. Perfect for either solo...

  • R1,399

    Nexus Ace vibrating butt plugs are ideal for all anal enthusiasts. They're available in three sizes: a comfortable 3cm diameter, 6.5cm insertable length perfect for beginners; an intermediate 4cm/10.5cm; or a fulfilling 5cm/12.5cm perfect for more experienced anal players. The Ace butt plugs have been beautifully designed to fit all your anal play needs....

  • R999

    The Nexus G-Play vibrators are a perfect addition to your toybox, whether you prefer anal or vaginal play. These unisex vibrators have been designed with pleasure in mind, and feature a central buldge and bulbous tip intended to stimulate either the g-spot or the prostate. The flat base acts as a stopper, making the G-Play safe for anal pleasure. The...

  • R599

    The Feranti Derriere Delights gift set by Rocks off is a gorgeous combination of anal friendly vibrators, perfect for both the introduction to anal play or for advanced use. Featuring the Little Cocky anal vibrator, the Blackberry anal plug, and a RO-80mm bullet vibrator, you have everything you need for both anal stimulation or stimulating foreplay. Use...

  • R2,699

    The Bathmate Hydromax X30 is designed to increase both the girth and length of the penis. Used in the bath or shower by using the suction of water, this product not only increases the size in both length and girth of the penis, but also assists in promoting longer lasting erections and increased sexual satisfaction. The HydroMax X30 is...

  • R999 R1,599

    The Manta Ray - a revolutionary toy for men from the luxury sex toy manufacturer, Imtoy. With it's innovative design this super flexible and softly pliable masturbator has subtle yet stimulating textures providing you with fully customisable pleasure. Wrapping the stroker around your shaft, and with the use of a good lubricant, you are able to enjoy the...

  • R249

    These stretchy penis ring set by Malesation is designed specifically to help you achieve a longer-lasting and stronger erection. With three seperate rings, each featuring a unique design, you can choose from ribbed wtih chunky blocks, groovy waves, or fine ornamentation - all providing you with unique and varied stimulation. Made from phthalate free and...

  • R1,299

    The RO-Zen vibrating Penis Ring and prostate massager is an all in one cock ring, perineum massager, anal plug, and prostate massager all in one! This is the ultimate toy for the man who wants to enjoy prolonged play, delayed ejaculation, an increase in orgasmic strength due to the anal and prostate massage, and an all over multi-sensory orgasmic...

  • R499

    The Eros Pleasure band is a penis ring designed specifically to assist with premature ejaculation, erectile disfunction, and helps achieve a natural erection. Worn at the base of the penis or around the penis and scrotum, the partial restriction of blood flow allows for a firmer erection and delays ejaculation considerably. Unlike any other cock ring, the...

  • R1,199
    1 Review

    The Butt-Boy Slim is a slimline, soft silicone prostate and perineum massager with a removable bullet vibrator. It’s perfect for beginners to anal play, with a classic tapered butt plug shape and narrow shaft. The insertable length is a pleasing but easily manageable 8.5cm, with a maximum 3.8cm diameter. The flexible neck of the shaft is narrow...

  • R1,649

    The Luxury Fifty Shades Freed Pleasure Overload Gift Set is a tantalizing gift box, perfect for introducing new ways to play together. Open a different door each day and discover either a sensual pleasure toy or a bondage accessory to introduce you to the world of sensory and light bondage play. Offering all kinds of intimate stimulation, the pleasure...

  • R1,299

    Intense is certainly the word when it comes to describing the pleasure delivered by the Rocks Off Bad Boy Intense. This dual prostate and perineum massager is shaped and sized for maximum feeling as you insert the 12.4cm internal shaft with its deep curve and two fulfilling bulges. This is an anal toy for more experienced players who are looking for...

  • R999

    The sleeve warmer by Fleshlight is specifically designed to turn up the heat on your Fleshlight experience. Designed to warm your superskin sleeve to the perfect temperature, your Fleshlight will not only be snug and warm to the touch, but will feel more like the real thing. Compatible with all Fleshlight and Flight male masturbators, the warmer is simple...

  • R1,899

    Prostate massage combines health benefits with pleasure, keeping your prostate in perfect shape while providing amazing orgasms. As if that weren't enough reason to indulge in regular prostate massage, the Nexus Vibro prostate massager includes a stainless-steel roller ball perfectly placed to stimulate the perineum. With the addition of the Nexus...

  • R1,549
    1 Review

    "Fleshlight - The #1 selling male sex toy in the world"The Fleshlight Go Torque Ice is smaller than the standard Fleshlights, giving you a more discreet, travel-friendly companion made from soft SuperSkin material. Its clear sleeve and casing allows you and your partner to watch the action. The screw cap at the bottom of the Fleshlight allows you to...

  • R1,499

    The Rocks Off Cheeky Boy Intense Prostate Massager is an upgrade on the original Cheeky Boy in that it is USB rechargeable and is powered by the intense 10 speed Ignition bullet, giving you more powerful and intense vibrations and orgasms. Worn analy, this prostate massager features four spheres which push into your sensitive prostate, whilst massaging...

  • R179
    1 Review

    The Joy Division VarioRing is a silicone cock ring that has an adjustable closure allowing it to fit perfectly on any size penis. Allowing you to control the tension by constricting blood flow, this cock ring allows for a fuller and stronger erection and assists with erectile dysfunction issues.  *This product has been medically endorsed by Desir's...

  • R1,999

    The Luxury G Rider vibrating prostate massager, by Nexus, has been created for those wanting penetration, and both internal and external stimulation all at the same time. Designed for anal use, this prostate massager stimulates the prostate through it's curved head and intense vibrations, whilst the perineum area between the scrotum and anus is massaged...

  • R1,499
    1 Review

    If anal pleasure is your priority, then the Big Boy Intense is the perfect prostate massager. You’ll enjoy the ridged base that massages your perineum with every vibration and move. You’ll love the filling sensation of the 17cm insertable length and three girthy bulges with a maximum girth of almost 13cm. You’ll thrill to the 10-function...

  • R329
    2 Reviews

    The Lidl Extra Penis Extension sleeve is perfect for those who want to delay ejaculation and provide extra stimulation for their partner. Adding on an an extra 7.6cm's this penis sleeve also add's on extra length to your penis, whilst providing her with additional stimulation at the same time. Covered in textured pleasure beads, this sleeve is perfect for...

  • R999
    1 Review

    The innovative shape of the Nexus O sets it apart from your average prostate massager, and makes it possible to experience true hands-free orgasm. The O is, in fact, more of a C shape, with a ball at each end and one in the centre of the flexible silicone body. One end is inserted, with plenty of water-based lubricant, into the anus, until you feel the...

  • R999

    The Nexus Titus is a beautifully designed prostate massager with a ribbed 20cm shaft and bulbous curved end. Those thick ridges stimulate the anal walls while the tip delivers precise prostate massage. Who says keeping healthy can't be fun? Regular prostate massage keeps your prostate in excellent shape, warding off the possibility of cancer or related...

  • R2,699 R2,948
    Reduced price!

    Spoil yourself with the Hot Octopuss Pulse III Duo Male Masturbator - also known as the world's first "Guybrator". It is a versatile toy that can be used for solo play or couples foreplay. What's more, this bundled deal provides you with the opportunity to extend your solo play time with the popular Wicked OverTime Delay cream, all at a reduced price!...

  • R1,899

    The We Vibe Verge luxury penis ring is a revolutionary ring designed to stimulate the man's perineum - an erogenous zone that responds to both pressure and vibrations. Designed to bring your pleasure whether on your own or with a partner, the Verge is worn at the base of the penis with enough room to gently pull your testicles through, allowing the...

  • R1,499
    1 Review

    This revolutionary and powerful vibrating ring by Adrien Lastic is designed to feature a vibrating sheath for him and a vibrating clitoral stimulator for her. Worn over the shaft of the penis, the external vibrating arm rests gently on her clitoris allowing you to both experience the powerful vibrations bringing you to simultaneous orgasm. Wear it the...

  • R899

    The Nexus Neo prostate massager (slightly bigger than the Nexus Excel) has been specifically designed for men looking to experiment and start for both anal play, and P spot stimulation. Ergonomically designed, the Neo can be used during masturbation, foreplay or during intercourse. With a smooth, curved and angled head to directly stimulate the P spot, a...

  • R3,699
    1 Review

    In your journey to penis enlargement, you would have already started out with either the Bathmate Hercules or the HydroMax X30. And now that you have outgrown those (literally), it is time to move on to the HydroMax X40 to continue growing to your preferred size. It is not suggested to advance directly to the X40, as the results are not...

  • R1,199

    Awarded best product design by the Brussels Erotica Awards in 2006, the Nexus Excel Prostate Massager (slightly smaller than the Nexus Neo prostate massager) is an ergonomically designed thick and hard prostate massager which fits the inner contours of a man's body perfectly. With smooth, durable material combined with a stainless steel perineum massage...

  • R999

    The Rocks Off RO-Zen penis ring is a one of a kind penis, scrotum, perineum, and anal stimulator in ONE. The ultimate toy for the man who wants to experience heightened orgasms, prolonged intercourse, delayed ejaculation and a multi-sensory experience. With a 1.4 inch penis ring fitting around your shaft and a 1.5 inch scrotal ring that stretches...

  • R1,299

    The BNaughty Premuim Unleashed by BSwish is a wireless, vibrating egg that was nominated for the Best New Luxury Product at the “O” Awards in 2012. It is seen as a product that infuses originality with creativity. And you can get quite creative with this toy! The egg has a slighty pointed head that allows you to target whichever senstive area...

  • R2,599 R2,798
    Reduced price!

    The prostate is a walnut sized gland located at the root of the penis & when massaged correctly, provides intense, long-lasting, even multiple, orgasms and intense ejaculation. Lelo engineered the Bruno Prostate Massager to provide men with the ultimate prostate experience. We have teamed the Bruno up with the Jelle water-based anal lubricant to ensure...

  • R499

    The O Hare wearable rabbit vibe, is a soft and flexible penis ring with vibrating rabbit ears on top. Worn by the male, a stretchy reinforced ring provides longer lasting erections, whilst a rear ring, gently hugging the testes allows for added targeted stimulation. With the rabbit ears on top, you are able to enter your lady, allowing the rabbit ears to...

  • R1,799
    2 Reviews

    Bathmate deservedly have a reputation as the world’s top range of penis pumps with the patented hydropump system. The Bathmate Hercules is where it all started: the original Hydropump. Designed to be used in the bath or shower, the Hercules penis pump uses the power of a vacuum to exercise your penis. Using the pump expands the three chambers...

  • R2,799 R3,098
    Reduced price!

    The Hydromax X30 is a popular pump used for both penis enlargment and assisting those with erectile dysfunction. Due to this pump using water to assist with the enlargment / erections, the pump itself can become quite heavy when in use. In this instance, BathMate has designed the Shower Strap, allowing you to use your pump, hands-free. Get both of these...

  • R2,899 R3,198
    Reduced price!

    Fleshlight is the #1 male sex toy in the world. With its 'real-feel' material and their incredible accessories, it is no wonder it is the preferred choice. The Vibro Pink Lady Touch is a popular one due to the 3 vibrating bullets that are included for added stimulation to your solo session. What's more, Fleshlight have created the V Stroker, the world's...

  • R299

    The Devol vibrating cockring by Adrien Lastic is a fun and cheeky addition to your couple playtime. Worn over the shaft of the penis, you can enjoy the benefits of this ultra-flexbile cockring allowing you prolonged intercourse, delayed ejaculation, and a firmer and steadier erection. Fitting almost every size, this smooth, velvety ring includes a...

  • R999

    The Feranti His & Hers Vibe set by Rocks off is a cheeky and fun set consisting of 3 of their most popular vibes. In a gorgeous combination of black and pink, this set contains the Ramsey Rabbit clitoral vibe, the RO-80mm Bullet Vibe, and the infamous 4US Vibrating Penis Ring. The Rocks Off Ramsey Bullet Vibrator is a discreet clitoral vibrator powerful...

  • R1,199

    This 50 Shades Darker Love Ring is an ergonomic, stretchable vibrating cock ring designed to enhance clitoral stimulation for her whilst helping him achieve longer lasting and harder erections. With 8 patterns and 12 speeds this powerful motor offers a whisper quiet vibration. USB rechargeable, 100% waterproof and perfect for the ultimate couple play.

  • R1,449

    The Ice Lady Crystal Fleshlight, like all Fleshlights, is made from patented SuperSkin material and has an incredible, textured interior, with nodules, bumps and spirals. Not only that, it also has a clear sleeve and casing, allowing you to watch the action and the bottom screw cap regulates the suction intensity. It is advisable to use a water-based...

  • R1,399

    "VStroker - The world's most advanced virtual sex system"Enhance your solo experience with the revolutionary VStroker. It connects seamlessly to your Fleshlight (sold seperately) and wirelessly transmits sensor information to your PC or Mac - simulating a lifelike experience. Simply attach VStroker to the end of your Fleshlight (sold separately),...

  • R2,599

    Lelo's perfectly shaped Loki prostate massager for men is perfect for more controlled application and direction. Guaranteed to enhance your orgasms by 30%, this vibrating massager is waterproof and rechargeable. With 6 variable settings providing mind blow and intensive orgasms, this perfectly shaped and angled prostate massager, makes it your number one...

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