Sex Toys for beginners

Getting Started With Sex Toys for Better Bedroom Play.


Sex toys for beginners are a great way to start out in the exciting world of sexual exploration and are perfect for adding another layer to your sex life.

It can be a little overwhelming at first - to browse through the many innovations on offer. The good news is that you’re right at the beginning of your collection. That’s an exciting place to be!


You get to find out more about what you enjoy and don’t enjoy, and build a sex toy collection around the sexual experiences that enhance intimacy and connection, whether for solo play or for you and your partner. Understanding your body is the first step to sexual health and increased intimacy, and we’re here to help.


From cock rings and anal play, to bullet vibrators and rabbit vibrators, the options are endless. Whilst the visual design and ergonomic fit of your sex toy might be intimidating, Desir has ensured that not only are all products 100% body safe, but that they are super soft, silicone friendly and medically graded


To assist you on your sexual exploration and journey in buying your first sex toy, Desir has a dedicated Client Concierge that is available every step of the way to ensure you buy a sex toy that is right for you.


If you are still not sure about starting your sexual exploration with a hard sex toy, why not try a feather tickler, or lighter products that offer sensory play - like massage candles, massage glides, lubricants, or even some light bondage products. This allows you to get to know your body, your likes and dislikes and when you are ready for the next step, we will be here to guide you.


There are many incredible modern innovations in sexual health and pleasure that we’re happy to share with you. We have the most sophisticated collection in South Africa, and are experts at recommending the right toys to beginners.


Starting Out With Sex Toys

Beginner sex toys span every category we have available. In each category, there will be models that are specifically designed and recommended for new users. Here we’ve listed our top categories with a brief description of what each one can do for you


#1 Bullet Vibrators

Named for their shape and size, bullets feature a pointed tip and are designed for clitoral stimulation. Not limited to the clitoris however, bullets are also perfect for nipple, penis, and even anal play. Small in size, bullets are perfect for travel and for those looking for a more discreet vibrator to start off with.

View our recommended selection of bullet vibrators, for beginners.


#2 Rabbit Vibrators

Rabbit vibrators, or dual stimulating vibrators, are designed to stimulate your G-spot and Clitoral area at the same time. Given the name thanks to the two, sometimes one, bunny shaped ears at the top of the vibrator, stimulation can either be independently controlled or used simultaneously. With orgasms proven to be so much more powerful when both the clitoris and g-spot are stimulated, the rabbit vibe has become a firm favourite for those looking for a little more powerful and stimulation.

View our recommended selection of rabbit vibrators, for beginners.


#3 Wand Vibrators

Wand, or Body Wand Vibrators are perfect for those looking for a more ergonomically designed vibrator that can offer all-over body stimulation and massage. Ideal for both him and her, wands are designed with a rounded head that generally fit onto a swivel type arm. This makes precision and control so much easier, and with it’s broad and flattened head, you are able to stimulate a far wider area for more intense pleasure.


Use it on your vulva area to reach the deeper clitoral nerve endings, use it on his perineum for intense penile massage, or even on the anal area to stimulate the rectum nerve endings. The options are endless.

View our recommended selection of body wand vibrators, for beginners.


#4 Dildos

Dildos are the perfect go-to if you are looking for a non-motorised sex toy. Often in a more realistic shape, and made from more flexible and soft silicone or glass, dildos provide intense vaginal, anal, or g-spot stimulation. From suction cup dildos providing hands-free play, or strap on dildos to be used in a harness, dildos are versatile in their use and perfect for those looking for more naturalistic sex toys.

View our recommended selection of dildos, for beginners.


#5 Penis Sheath

Penis Sleeves or penis sheaths are perfect for men looking to add extra girth and length onto their penis without the risk of invasive medical procedures. Designed to be worn over the length of his penis, a penis sheath not only assists with erectile dysfunction symptoms, but also provides pleasure for the receiver thanks to extra nodules, ribs, and texture. Prolonging ejaculation and assisting with a firmer erection, penis sheaths are a great dual pleasure sex toy.


It’s important that you understand your needs. You can start out as risqué or as polite as you like – it’s completely up to you. From clitoral and g-spot stimulation, to prostate and anal play, we’ve built a range that caters for all levels of users. Many toys are sorted by solo or couple’s use here, and price range is a good indication of build quality, durability and technological advancement.


With products that are now app controlled that allow remote control play, sex toys for beginners are not only limited to solo play but are perfect for bringing partners together in a little more risque setting.


To find sex toys for beginners that will suit your requirements, make a mental list of what you like, what you’re looking for and what makes you feel comfortable.

View our recommended selection of penis sheaths, for beginners.


Have a look through our incredible Désir collection to find your favourite sex toys for beginners, or look directly in this recommended section. Pay attention to things like size, functionality and settings to get the most from your purchase. If you are still unsure, contact us and we’ll get our client concierge to guide you.

For our comprehensive buyers guide and additional info, view Desir's Sex Toy Encyclopedia here.

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Lovehoney
BO 5060020006494 D14.01.2020
R899
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Hot Octopuss
BO 5060354560679 D17.01.2020
R1,290
The Digit finger vibrator by Hot Octopuss is a powerful and lightweight vibrator that is designed to resemble a custom ring and is worn around the finger for absolute precision and control. With two flexible loops that curl around your fingers, Digit features 5 vibration patterns and 6 varying intensities. A smooth rounded silicone tip allows you to...
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Fifty Shades of Grey
BO 5060680311105
R565
These Jiggle balls by Fifty Shades of Grey allow you to add a little fun to your pelvic workout thanks to the colour changing silicone that responds to the heat of your body. Featuring a combined weight of 90g, these kegel balls are perfect for adding strength and tone to your pelvic and kegel area. Designed using 100% body safe and silky soft silicone,...
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R15-HS-BLK
R1,199
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Satisfyer
BO SAT009 M08.01.2020
R1,499
The Satisfyer Pro Traveller is a German design & award winning product that features a practical cap and magnetic closure - making this the perfect clitoral stimulator if you are on the move. With its compact size, the Pro traveller can be swiftly slipped into your bag and with a magnetic closure, you are guaranteed a discreet and hygienic product. The...
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Svakom
CON adonis 10.01.2020
R2,699
The Adonis rabbit vibrator by Svakom is an ultra soft double-motor rabbit vibrator that offers a warming sensation and exquisite dual stimulation to your clitoris and g-spot. With a ribbed design on both ends, you gain extra stimulation to both the g-spot and clitoral area, whilst the warming functionality reaches a comfortable body temperature of 38...
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Svakom
CON keri 10.01.2020
R1,599
The Keri by Svakom is a finger-shaped clitoral stimulator that offers powerful contoured vibrations and an ergonomic handle and fit. With ultra soft environmentally friendly silicone, the Keri offers 5 vibration modes and a unique semi-arced head that is designed to stimulate the clitoral area with absolute precision. With a motor situated at the head of...
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Svakom
SLS02CVLT
R1,499
The Sara Mini G-Spot & Clitoral vibrator is a flexible headed vibrator that is both powerful and compact in design and is perfect for both clitoral or g-spot stimulation. With a strong motor situated in the middle of the shaft, the whisper quiet vibrations can be felt from the head of the wand to the very tip. Use it externally to press against your...
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R1,799 R2,099
The Seductive clitoral air stimulator by Shots is an ergonomically designed clitoral suction vibrator that is designed to reach even the deepest of nerve endings - giving you an orgasmic experience like never before. With touch-less air wave technology, Seductive does not desensitize your clitoral area, meaning you are able to experience multiple orgasms...
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8714273549310 11.11.19
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Rocks off
811041019933 25.09.2019
R1,099
These award-winning bullet vibrators deliver intense power in a pocket size. 7 settings - 3 speeds and 4 pulses, is all you need for breathtaking orgasms. The RO-80mm bullet vibrator is discreet, 100% waterproof and sturdy. Pop one into your handbag for on-the-go orgasms, and keep another one or two easily accessible in your bedside...
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BO811041012606
R629
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BO811041012453 D06.01.2020
R999
The O-Boy by Rocks Off is a vibrating prostate massager featuring a powerful removeable bullet.Made of soft body-safe silicone, the O-Boy is sleek and unintimidating - making it perfect for beginners and experts alike. Featuring a strong curve for precise prostate stimulation, the O-Boy measures in at 11.4cm with a buttery soft and flexible insertion...
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BO811041013498
R499
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BO811041013597 D13.12.19
R849
The Rocks Off Chaiamo bullet vibrator is an elegant, and highly powerful bullet vibrator designed to drive you to the ultimate climax.Designed with soft, velvety body safe silicone and exquisite rose gold finishes, the Chaiamo is a 10 speed highly powerful vibrator designed for the clitoral area. A tapered tip for absolute precision allows you to direct...
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BO811041013399 D18.09.2019
R499
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BO811041011210 D18.09.2019
R1,299
The Rocks off Collection in all gold, combines all of your favourite Rocks Off vibrators that are designed in beautifully crafted gold finish and offer powerful stimulation and intense pleasure at the same time. Featuring a 3-in-1 gift set, this collection features some of Rocks Off's most award winning vibrators. From thh RO-VAL necklace that...
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R1,599
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Rocks off
BO811041013412 D160919
R449
The Rocks Off Holographic bullet range is designed using a striking Ultra purple, Spectra red, and Electra green holographic finish. Offering precise stimulation - whether it be for your nipples, clitoris, or even his perineum - these powerful 90mm bullets pack a punch thanks to their 10 variable functions that range from a slow yet intense buzz to a more...
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BO810476017934
R1,099
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BO810476017934 D060.01.2020
R829
The FleshSkin Grip by Fleshlight is a revolutionary sleeve designed specifically for men who still want the realistic feel and design of the Fleshlight sleeve, but without the bulkier casing that is part of the original Fleshlight design.This sleeve, specifically designed to allow you to control the intensity and tightness of your stroke, is made from the...
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B Swish
BO6509N2 D10.12.19
R799
The BWild Classic Rabbit vibrator by BSwish is a fun twist on the traditional rabbit massager in a compact yet powerful design.Made from 100% body safe super-soft silicone, this bunny features dual motors that guarantee all-over stimulation to your clitoris and g-spot. With it's up-angled contoured head and a super soft external arm that rests perfectly...
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Coco De Mer
BO5060428801851
R2,799
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Swan
BO677613571533 D04.11.19
R499
This PowerBullet by Swan is an absolute must have for anyone look for discreet, long-lasting pocket-sized power.Measuring in at a petite 7cm's, this powerfull bullet vibrator offers an incredible 9 functions that are deep, rumbling, and intense when you need it. With one press button, you are able to navigate your way through each of the 9 intensities...
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