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Sex Toys for Beginners


Getting Started With Sex Toys for Better Bedroom Play. Sex toys for beginners are a great way to start out in the exciting world of sensual bedroom play. It can be a little overwhelming at first - to browse through the many innovations on offer. The good news is that you’re right at the beginning of your collection. That’s an exciting place to be!
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You get to find out more about what you enjoy and don’t enjoy, and build a sex toy collection around the sexual experiences that enhance intimacy and connection for you and your partner.

There are many incredible modern innovations in sexual health and pleasure that we’re happy to share with you. We have the most sophisticated collection in South Africa, and are experts at recommending the right toys to beginners.

Starting Out With Sex Toys

Beginner sex toys span every category we have available. In each category, there will be models that are specifically designed and recommended for new users.

It’s important that you understand your needs. You can start out as risqué or as polite as you like – it’s completely up to you. Many toys are sorted by solo or couple’s use here, and price range is a good indication of build quality, durability and technological advancement.

To find sex toys for beginners that will suit your requirements, make a mental list of what you like, what you’re looking for and what both of you are happy to try first.

Have a look through our incredible Désir collection to find your favourite sex toys for beginners, or look directly in this recommended section. Pay attention to things like size, functionality and settings to get the most from your purchase. Good luck!
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  • R2,279

    The Princess vibrator by Swan is a powerful G-spot and Clitoral vibrator designed for maximum contact.With two powerful motors in each tip, the bulbous arm gets to work on your g-spot whilst the smaller external tip rests perfectly on your clitoral area, giving you the most powerful all-over cervical and clitoral orgasm. With it's ergonomic shape and...

  • R999

    The Rocks Off Feranti His & Hers Pleasure set is the perfect kit to allow both of you to experience pleasure by three of the most popular Rocks Off vibrator toys.  Featuring two silicone sleeves, one in the form of the stimulating Ramsey Rabbit, and another in the form of the 4US couples cock ring, you are able to simply slip the...

  • R399

    The Screaming O Ovation Kit provides the ultimate kit for a night with your partner. Containing 2 of each item, this kit includes 2 screaming o vibrating cock rings, 2 water-based lubricant sachets, 2 warming lubricant sachets, two cleansing towelettes, and two sweet mints. The disposable vibrating cock ring, allows for 30 plus minutes of play and has a...

  • R1,999

    You won’t go wrong with this luxury gift set in elegant black. Inside The Alibi, you’ll find the Lelo Mia 2. This USB-rechargeable bullet vibrator is smartly shaped like a lipstick case, so it’s easy to pop in your handbag for portable pleasure. Even left casually on your dressing table, the Mia 2 won’t raise and eyebrow. Along...

  • R2,899

    This stunning collection from We-Vibe™ brings together the Tango bullet vibrator with the Glow and Dusk silicone toy forms. The Tango is a waterproof and powerful rechargeable bullet vibrator with easy single button operation and when couples with the silicone forms, you are able to transform your bullet into a G-Spot (Glow) or Anal (Dusk)...

  • R2,249
    1 Review

    The multi award-winning Queen Bee vibrator designed by the famous Hot Octopuss brand, is a revolutionary clitoral stimulator founded on medical science and designed for versatility. Powered by the incredible and next-generation oscillating Pulse-Plate, this clitoral stimulator delivers a completely unique and intense experience. By offering a gentle flat...

  • R799
    2 Reviews

    The BThrilled Classic Wand vibrator by BSwish is a powerful, 5 speed vibrating massage wand perfect for all-over vulva, clitoral, or body massage. With it's silky smooth silicone massage head, this wand features an ergonomically designed handle allowing you to precisely target your sweet spot. With 5 rumbly massage functions, the broad silky-smooth head...

  • R1,399
    1 Review

    The Swan PalmPower personal massager has a deserved reputation as one of the most powerful and compact massage wands available. This rechargeable version of the classic PalmPower bodywand gives you all the power, with no pesky electrical cords to get in the way of your pleasure. The PalmPower features a cleverly tapered handle that is easy to hold...

  • R2,499 R2,796
    Reduced price!

    With this beginner kit you’ll soon be pleasure pros! There’s plenty here for you to explore individually and as a couple. Get to know what turns you both on, and how to build each other’s pleasure to a peak. Remember, the couple that plays together, stays together! You’ll both love the Palm Power Personal Massager. It can be used...

  • R1,499 R1,747
    Reduced price!
    Out of stock

    Get your orgasm on with this budget-friendly kit that’s perfect for absolute beginners. Learn to explore your erogenous zones with the small Charged Voom bullet vibrator that’s perfect for clitoral stimulation. Pop this little bullet vibrator into your handbag for on-the-go orgasms. It’s small and discreet, but full of power where you...

  • R849

    The A-Moore clitoral massager by Adrien Lastic is a powerful, compressed, and ergonomically designed massager specifically for all over clitoral, vulva and even perineum massage. With it's ergonomic design resembling that of a curved tongue, this mini vibe fits perfectly into the palm of your hand, allowing you to direct your stimulation with accurate...

  • R2,499
    Out of stock
    1 Review

    Take your couples play to a new level with the Lyla 2 remote-controlled vibrator. This egg-shaped vibrator can be worn discreetly inside the vagina, or slip it inside your panties, and allow your partner to control the vibes remotely for thrilling sensations. The motor is whisper-quiet yet powerful enough to truly stimulate, with six vibration modes and...

  • R729
    8 Reviews

    SToys vibrators are bodysafe, battery-operated vibrators with a purse-friendly price. They’re perfect for beginners or as fun gifts for friends. The Ayleen is a single motor rabbit-style vibrator with a ridged shaft for extra sensation. The handy one-touch control in the ABS handle allows you to switch between 12 vibration modes. The Ayleen...

  • R729

    The Ashley by SToys is a worldwide bestseller, and it’s not hard to see why. It’s good quality at a good price, with a surprisingly powerful motor and soft silicone finish. The Ashley rabbit vibrator has a flexible curved shaft with an insertable length of 8cm, designed to gently massage the g-spot while the nubbly exterior arm stimulates...

  • R1,899
    1 Review

    The Silver Swan is part of Swan’s collection of beautifully designed rabbit vibrators. If you prefer a broader and more rumbly sensation on your clitoris, rather than pinpoint attention, then the Silver Swan is the sex toy for you. The internal shaft is also a little shorter than others, with an insertable length of just 7.6cm, and a full...

  • R2,899
    3 Reviews

    This designer dual vibrator from luxury sex toy brand Je Joue is both elegant and powerful. With three motors – one in each ‘ear’ and one in the shaft – the Fifi rabbit vibrator has five vibration speeds and seven pulsation patterns for the ultimate orgasmic indulgence. The Fifi has a narrow shaft with an insertable length of...

  • R1,899
    1 Review

    The petite yet powerful Swan Hug rabbit vibrator features Squeeze Control technology to make your pleasure even easier. Simply switch on the Hug vibrator then squeeze the sides of the handle to increase the speed of the two motors. Separate buttons on the handle allow you to control the motors individually according to your desire. The 9cm insertable...

  • R799

    The Nyx super soft G Spot Vibrator by Adrien Lastic at a length of 20cm's features an ergonomical design and rounded curvature allowing you to precisely stimulate and reach your inner g spot. With it's super soft touch, this whisper quiet vibrator can also be used for external clitoral stimulation using it's curved and slightly flattened tip to directly...

  • R749
    1 Review

    Like the BDesired Classic, the BDesired Deluxe Pearl vibrator is a simple, easy to use vibrator that’s perfect for beginners. It’s petite, bodysafe and features six vibration patterns. The curved tip and rippled exterior of the BDesired Deluxe Pearl vibrator are designed to stimulate the vaginal passage and massage the g-spot. The rounded end...

  • R1,399

    This petite and powerful g-spot vibrator is highly recommended for those new to sex toys. It’s strong, quiet and easy to use, with ergonomic design for a comfortable grip and a simple one-touch button control on the handle. The Lovelife Cuddle is an award-winning design with a subtle ridge to the tip and a curved shaft that perfectly targets the...

  • R1,699
    2 Reviews

    The Award Winning Satisfyer Pro 2 is a waterproof, contactless clitoral stimulator that is an updated version of the original Satisfyer. This popular, rechargeable toy does not vibrate, but uses pressure-wave stimulated suction to provide mind-blowing pleasure sensations! The soft silicone head is placed over your clitoris for contactless extasy, pressure...

  • R2,499
    1 Review

    The first in the popular Womanizer range, the W100 is a handy, compact clitoral stimulator that works through suction and air pressure to stimulate without direct contact. Simply place the nozzle over the head of your clitoris and relax while the Womanizer W100’s pulsating, sucking sensations build you up to a tremendous orgasm. Add a little...

  • R1,599
    1 Review

    The Starlet compact clitoral stimulator by Womanizer has been specifically designed for the those still experimenting with the use of adult toys, for those looking for a compact and discreet stimulator for on-the-go, or simply for those looking for a clitoral stimulator small enough to be used with a partner.Taking the same powerful pleasure air...

  • R349
    1 Review

    Strengthen your pleasure with the Bfit Classic love balls, an adaptable workout regimen designed to grow with you. The Bfit Classic includes single and dual 100% body-safe silicone harnesses, along with two interchangeable smooth and soft silicone balls. Use either a single 24g weighted silicone ball or both for a total of 48g. 100% waterproof and...

  • R1,199

    The Ami 3-in-1 kegel exercise set is an investment in pelvic health that will see you through from beginner kegel exercises to advanced pelvic strength. This set contains beginner, intermediate and advanced kegel training balls, along with an instruction manual, presented in a discreet and beautiful box. Start with the larger and lightweight Ami 1 if...

  • R749 R848
    Reduced price!

    We all wish we stayed toned and in shape, but life gets in the way and we don’t get to the gym as often as we should. Now imagine what happens to the muscles of your pelvis, which need exercise just as much as any other muscle. Most of us spend long hours sitting at desks, and we’re definitely not thinking about exercising those vaginal...

  • R1,299 R1,498
    Reduced price!

    Your pelvic floor is a set of muscles that are often over-looked. Strengthening these muscles will assist with the prevention of incontinence, it will improve recovery time from childbirth & increases sexual sensations and orgasmic potential. This pack is the perfect purchase when looking to strengthen your pelvic floor. It contains the Je Joue Ami Kegel...

  • R1,499
    2 Reviews

    The Tango is a rechargeable, discreet and powerful bullet vibrator. It’s unusual to find such a rumbly, strong bullet vibrator, and Tango by We-Vibe™ deserves its reputation as one of the best available. It’s just 9cm long and 2cm wide, fully rechargeable for up to two hours of play and waterproof. The classic design makes it easy...

  • R999
    1 Review

    The Je Joue Classic Bullet is a silky soft bullet vibrator designed with a tapered tip for absolute pin point clitoral precision.With an included finger sleeve, this bullet is versatile in it's various options of play. For hands free play, simply slip your bullet into the circular side and you, or your partner's fingers into the oval side. Allow your...

  • R379
    2 Reviews

    This award-winning bullet vibrator gives you Ammunition for Love. It’s simple, perfectly sized and powerful. One button, one speed is all you need for breathtaking orgasms. The RO-80mm bullet vibrator is discreet, waterproof and sturdy. Pop it into your handbag for on-the-go orgasms, and keep another one easily accessible in your bedside drawer....

  • R1,099
    1 Review

    Powered by Je Joue’s strong bullet motor, with five speeds and seven patterns, this petite bullet vibrator with ears packs a lot of pleasure in. It’s small and discreet, easy to hold and stimulates the clitoris with it's ears fitting snuggly on either side. From the satin-smooth texture of the bodysafe silicone to the flexible ears, this...

  • R3,099
    1 Review

    In the Sensations Unite™ Collection by We-Vibe® you’ll find toys for him and for her that are both perfect for solo or couples play. The We-Vibe® Unite™ is an easy-to-use couples vibrator with a vibrating external arm to stimulate the clitoris during lovemaking. The slimline insertable arm holds the Unite firmly in position...

  • R449

    The Luxy 15cm realistic clear dildo by ClearStone is a small dildo featuring a realistic penile effect across both the shaft and head. Providing you with added stimulation and a scrotum for realism and comfort, this dildo is perfect for beginners or for those who prefer a smaller fit.  Measuring in at 15cm, the Luxy realistic dong is small enough for...

  • R649

    The Robbie dildo from Malesation is perfect for solo or strap-on play. The flared suction base fits most standard strap-on harnesses, or can be used to firmly attach your dildo to a smooth surface. The wavy shaft and angled tip of the Robbie dildo make it ideal for g-spot or p-spot stimulation. It’s made from seamless, bodysafe, phthalate-free...

  • R749
    3 Reviews

    The Diogol Anni Round T2 Buttplug is a beautiful & stylish crystal Swarovski anal plug designed for both men & women. The initial tapered design helps for insertion, while the thin neck keeps the butt plug in place so that it can’t slip out of your body. Whilst the fullness adds intensity into the orgasmic experience, we suggest using...

  • R2,299 R2,593
    Reduced price!
    Out of stock

    For anal pleasure, the rechargeable GPlug is small and sexy, with a luxury body safe silicone finish. The tapered head makes it easy to insert and the narrow neck is comfortable enough to use for long wear. Perfect for beginners this anal plug is unobtrusive and gentle enough to allow for a good starter anal play experience. Anal play increases your...

  • R1,499
    1 Review

    The G Plug Small is one of the smallest rechargeable anal plugs available today. With a diameter of 3cm and in a gorgeous neon rose colour, it is perfect for beginners or those wanting to experience gentle anal play. With 6 different vibrations, you are able to navigate your way through the varied sensations. USB rechargeable you have approximately 40...

  • R299

    The Budy Anal plug by Adrien Lastic is a unisex anal plug designed for first time users. Measuring just 8cm in length and 9.75cm in girth, this anal plug is small enough for an introduction into anal play, but large enough to give you just the right amount of intensity. With a tapered head and ribbed shaft, insertion is easy and gentle, and allows the...

  • R549
    1 Review

    The LoveLife Explore Anal Plug by Ohmibod is a 100% body safe silicone plug designed for beginners. With it's tapered tip, smooth and supple feel, and a safety ring for easy retrieval, the Explore anal plug penetrates as easily as it pleases. Use it with your favourite anal lubricant for ease and comfort and be sure to keep it clean and dry after use.

  • R449
    1 Review

    The versatility of the Rocks Off Petite Sensations Bubbles vibrating butt plug makes it a great choice for any toy kit. From beginner to advanced, you’ll enjoy what this quality anal plug has to offer. Firstly, the design is similar to anal beads, so you can experiment with this sensation (inserting and then removing the beads slowly on the...

  • R1,149 R1,327
    Reduced price!

    Anal play can be sensationally wonderful, and wildly orgasmic for some. Whatever your identity or orientation, everyone has a butt, and it’s the site of hundreds of sensitive nerve endings that love to be stimulated. This bundle contains the petite LoveLife Explore anal plug, which is just 6cm of insertable length, with a maximum width of under 3cm....

  • R3,199
    1 Review

    The luxurious feel and easy remote control of the Hugo prostate massager by Lelo make it an instant win in our books. This male prostate massager has been designed to feel comfortable and fulfilling, with a broad base, tapered neck and 8.5cm insertable shaft. With two strong motors, one in the shaft and another in the base, the Hugo massages both the...

  • R899

    The Glide beginners prostate massager by Nexus is the perfect product for those looking for gentle prostate massage. With it's aesthetic and ergonomic design, the Glide has a smooth, slim shaft and a stainless steel roller ball perfect for perineum massage. Ideal for solo or partner play, the Glide is best used with your favourite lubricant and has a...

  • R1,199
    1 Review

    The Butt-Boy Slim is a slimline, soft silicone prostate and perineum massager with a removable bullet vibrator. It’s perfect for beginners to anal play, with a classic tapered butt plug shape and narrow shaft. The insertable length is a pleasing but easily manageable 8.5cm, with a maximum 3.8cm diameter. The flexible neck of the shaft is narrow...

  • R129

    Cock rings extend your enjoyment, make your erection harder and longer, and build up amazing orgasms. So who wouldn’t want to make sure they have a selection of different cock rings in their toy drawer? The basic cock ring from Malesation is a great one to start with. It’s made of soft, bodysafe silicone, and is available in different...

  • R299
    1 Review

    The 3 piece cock ring set by Malesation offers a combination of 4cm, 4.5cm, and 5cm penis rings. Made from soft, hygienic, nonporous, odourless, and durable silicone, these rings have a slight amount of stretch, but fit snuggly when worn at the base of the penis. Designed to restrict blood flow, the penis ring allows for firmer erections and delayed...

  • R649
    2 Reviews

    Simple, easy-to-use, and oh, so effective, the Rocks-Off 4US is an extremely popular couples’ toy. The soft and flexible silicone ring sits around the base of the penis, with the long shaft pointing upward to direct vibrations toward your partner’s clitoris. The removable RO-80mm bullet vibrator provides powerful and rumbly vibes, and...

  • R1,799
    2 Reviews

    Bathmate deservedly have a reputation as the world’s top range of penis pumps with the patented hydropump system. The Bathmate Hercules is where it all started: the original Hydropump. Designed to be used in the bath or shower, the Hercules penis pump uses the power of a vacuum to exercise your penis. Using the pump expands the three chambers...

  • R799
    2 Reviews

    The versatile Quickshot™ male stroker range from Fleshlight is great both for solo play and couple’s fun, and is compact and easy to use. With caps on either end, the 11cm casing opens on both sides to form a stroker that works for guys of any size. Even better, your partner can get to work on pleasuring you with hands or mouth while using the...

  • R1,499

    Get a little naughty with this Slap & Tickle set, and explore the kinky side of life. This sexy set is a perfect way to add just a touch of BDSM to your bedroom without bringing out the bullwhip. The Rocks-Off Slap & Tickle Beginners S&M Kit contains a pair of soft wrist restraints, a satin blindfold, a sexy feather tickler, a small riding crop, and...

  • R399

    Pjur Woman super-concentrated Bodyglide is dermatologically tested to be kind to sensitive skin. Pjur Woman Bodyglide is just as long-lasting as original Bodyglide, but is not as thick a formula. It’s still non-sticky, preservative-free and bodysafe.We recommend using a water-based lubricant with silicone toys, to avoid long-term damage to the...

  • R399

    MELT is a warming lubricant brought to you by Intimate Organics. Containing cinnamomum zeylancium bark, for added stimulation, it is Paraben free, menthol free, DEA free, and is plant derived and is pure vegan. This is a perfect product for those with sensitive skin. The gentle formula is silky and natural to the touch, and a little will go a long way. It...

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