Sex Toys for beginners

Getting Started With Sex Toys for Better Bedroom Play.


Sex toys for beginners are a great way to start out in the exciting world of sexual exploration and are perfect for adding another layer to your sex life.

It can be a little overwhelming at first - to browse through the many innovations on offer. The good news is that you’re right at the beginning of your collection. That’s an exciting place to be!


You get to find out more about what you enjoy and don’t enjoy, and build a sex toy collection around the sexual experiences that enhance intimacy and connection, whether for solo play or for you and your partner. Understanding your body is the first step to sexual health and increased intimacy, and we’re here to help.


From cock rings and anal play, to bullet vibrators and rabbit vibrators, the options are endless. Whilst the visual design and ergonomic fit of your sex toy might be intimidating, Desir has ensured that not only are all products 100% body safe, but that they are super soft, silicone friendly and medically graded


To assist you on your sexual exploration and journey in buying your first sex toy, Desir has a dedicated Client Concierge that is available every step of the way to ensure you buy a sex toy that is right for you.


If you are still not sure about starting your sexual exploration with a hard sex toy, why not try a feather tickler, or lighter products that offer sensory play - like massage candles, massage glides, lubricants, or even some light bondage products. This allows you to get to know your body, your likes and dislikes and when you are ready for the next step, we will be here to guide you.


There are many incredible modern innovations in sexual health and pleasure that we’re happy to share with you. We have the most sophisticated collection in South Africa, and are experts at recommending the right toys to beginners.


Starting Out With Sex Toys

Beginner sex toys span every category we have available. In each category, there will be models that are specifically designed and recommended for new users. Here we’ve listed our top categories with a brief description of what each one can do for you


#1 Bullet Vibrators

Named for their shape and size, bullets feature a pointed tip and are designed for clitoral stimulation. Not limited to the clitoris however, bullets are also perfect for nipple, penis, and even anal play. Small in size, bullets are perfect for travel and for those looking for a more discreet vibrator to start off with.

View our recommended selection of bullet vibrators, for beginners.


#2 Rabbit Vibrators

Rabbit vibrators, or dual stimulating vibrators, are designed to stimulate your G-spot and Clitoral area at the same time. Given the name thanks to the two, sometimes one, bunny shaped ears at the top of the vibrator, stimulation can either be independently controlled or used simultaneously. With orgasms proven to be so much more powerful when both the clitoris and g-spot are stimulated, the rabbit vibe has become a firm favourite for those looking for a little more powerful and stimulation.

View our recommended selection of rabbit vibrators, for beginners.


#3 Wand Vibrators

Wand, or Body Wand Vibrators are perfect for those looking for a more ergonomically designed vibrator that can offer all-over body stimulation and massage. Ideal for both him and her, wands are designed with a rounded head that generally fit onto a swivel type arm. This makes precision and control so much easier, and with it’s broad and flattened head, you are able to stimulate a far wider area for more intense pleasure.


Use it on your vulva area to reach the deeper clitoral nerve endings, use it on his perineum for intense penile massage, or even on the anal area to stimulate the rectum nerve endings. The options are endless.

View our recommended selection of body wand vibrators, for beginners.


#4 Dildos

Dildos are the perfect go-to if you are looking for a non-motorised sex toy. Often in a more realistic shape, and made from more flexible and soft silicone or glass, dildos provide intense vaginal, anal, or g-spot stimulation. From suction cup dildos providing hands-free play, or strap on dildos to be used in a harness, dildos are versatile in their use and perfect for those looking for more naturalistic sex toys.

View our recommended selection of dildos, for beginners.


#5 Penis Sheath

Penis Sleeves or penis sheaths are perfect for men looking to add extra girth and length onto their penis without the risk of invasive medical procedures. Designed to be worn over the length of his penis, a penis sheath not only assists with erectile dysfunction symptoms, but also provides pleasure for the receiver thanks to extra nodules, ribs, and texture. Prolonging ejaculation and assisting with a firmer erection, penis sheaths are a great dual pleasure sex toy.


It’s important that you understand your needs. You can start out as risqué or as polite as you like – it’s completely up to you. From clitoral and g-spot stimulation, to prostate and anal play, we’ve built a range that caters for all levels of users. Many toys are sorted by solo or couple’s use here, and price range is a good indication of build quality, durability and technological advancement.


With products that are now app controlled that allow remote control play, sex toys for beginners are not only limited to solo play but are perfect for bringing partners together in a little more risque setting.


To find sex toys for beginners that will suit your requirements, make a mental list of what you like, what you’re looking for and what makes you feel comfortable.

View our recommended selection of penis sheaths, for beginners.


Have a look through our incredible Désir collection to find your favourite sex toys for beginners, or look directly in this recommended section. Pay attention to things like size, functionality and settings to get the most from your purchase. If you are still unsure, contact us and we’ll get our client concierge to guide you.

For our comprehensive buyers guide and additional info, view Desir's Sex Toy Encyclopedia here.

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Anniversary Collection Featuring Sync & Tango Vibrators | We-Vibe Anniversary Collection Featuring Sync & Tango Vibrators | We-Vibe 2
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We-Vibe Anniversary Collection Featuring Sync & Tango - We-Vibe

We Vibe
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R3,899
To celebrate 10 years of bringing couples closer together, We-vibe have paired two of their most-loved products together - the We-Vibe Tango and the We-Vibe Sync - in a luxurious exclusive travel-ready play case.We-Vibe SyncDesigned to be worn by the female during love-making, the We-Vibe Sync is one of the most famous couples vibrators on the market....
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Volita Slim Mini Rabbit Clitoral Vibrator - Fun Factory

Fun factory
BO4032498187068 D31.07.2019
R579
The Volita by Fun Factory is a mini clitoral vibrator that features soft silicone fluttering tips to boost arousal and sensitivity to the clitoral area.The mini version of the best selling Volta vibrator has the same fluttering tips that amplify your vibrations and flicker against the entire clitoral area. Versatile in it's use you can choose to lay it on...
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Vesper Dual Motor & Stimulating Warming Vibrator - Svakom

Svakom
CON S7-VLT 11.11.19
R2,199
The Vesper warming vibrator by Svakom  is a dual motored g-spot and clitoral vibrator featuring a super flexible V Shape.With 2 different size heads on each end, this vibrator is designed to stimulate the G-spot and clitoris simultaneously. Insert the longer end internally and allow the smaller arm to rest on top of your clitoral area for...
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Malesation
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R199
The 3 piece cock ring set by Malesation offers a combination of 4cm, 4.5cm, and 5cm penis rings. Made from soft, hygienic, nonporous, odourless, and durable silicone, these rings have a slight amount of stretch, but fit snuggly when worn at the base of the penis. Designed to restrict blood flow, the penis ring allows for firmer erections and delayed...
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The Silver Swan Powerful Multi-Speed Rabbit Vibrator - Swan

Swan
BO677613320766- D 29.11.17
R1,799
The Silver Swan is part of Swan’s collection of beautifully designed rabbit vibrators. If you prefer a broader and more rumbly sensation on your clitoris, rather than pinpoint attention, then the Silver Swan is the sex toy for you. The internal shaft is also a little shorter than others, with an insertable length of just 7.6cm, and a full...
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The Princess Swan G-Spot & Clitoral Vibrator - Swan

Swan
BO67613320360 D14.05.2019
R1,699
The Princess vibrator by Swan is a powerful G-spot and Clitoral vibrator designed for maximum contact.With two powerful motors in each tip, the bulbous arm gets to work on your g-spot whilst the smaller external tip rests perfectly on your clitoral area, giving you the most powerful all-over cervical and clitoral orgasm. With it's ergonomic shape and...
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We Vibe
BO839289015883 D04.11.19
R1,599
The Tango is a rechargeable, discreet and powerful bullet vibrator. It’s unusual to find such a rumbly, strong bullet vibrator, and Tango by We-Vibe™ deserves its reputation as one of the best available. It’s just 9cm long and 2cm wide, fully rechargeable for up to two hours of play and waterproof. The classic design makes it easy...
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Rocks off
811041011227 D18.09.2019
R1,499
The Sweet Satisfaction bullet collection by Rocks Off is a beautifully packaged collection featuring 3 of Rocks Off's most popular bullet vibrators.The Sweet Satisfaction collection includes:RO-100mm Soft-Tip bullet vibratorWith it's soft and flexible tip, this award winning bullet vibrator is perfect for all over erogenous stimulation thanks to it's soft...
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Rocks off
7016 M26.02.19
R1,299
Get a little naughty with this Slap & Tickle set, and explore the kinky side of life. This sexy set is a perfect way to add just a touch of BDSM to your bedroom without bringing out the bullwhip. The Rocks-Off Slap & Tickle Beginners S&M Kit contains a pair of soft wrist restraints, a satin blindfold, a sexy feather tickler, a small riding crop, and...
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The Seductive clitoral air stimulator by Shots is an ergonomically designed clitoral suction vibrator that is designed to reach even the deepest of nerve endings - giving you an orgasmic experience like never before. With touch-less air wave technology, Seductive does not desensitize your clitoral area, meaning you are able to experience multiple orgasms...
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BO SAT001 M11.11.19
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The Award Winning Satisfyer Pro 2 is a waterproof, contactless clitoral stimulator that is generating much hype around the world. With its spectacular technology, this popular magic clitoral wand combines negative pressure paired with exciting pulsations that stimulate the clitoris without any contact - giving you mind-blowing pleasure sensations! The...
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BO SLE002
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The Satisfyer Men's Interchangeable Masturbation Sleeves are an exciting addition to your Sastifyer Men Masturbator (sold seperately). With several options ranging from intense oral sex to kinky waves, you are able to interchange your sleeves according to your preference or desire.Once you have purchased the Satisfyer Men Masturbator (sold...
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BO RNG002 M11.11.19
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The Couples LoveRing2 by Satisfyer is a vibrating penis ring perfectly designed for simultaneous orgasms.With it's luxurious super-soft silicone material and it's stretch and flexible design, this penis ring is a one-size-fits-most product. In a gorgeous cobalt blue colour, this ring is sophisticated and perfect for the more discerning gentleman....
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Svakom
SLS02CVLT
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The Sara Mini G-Spot & Clitoral vibrator is a flexible headed vibrator that is both powerful and compact in design and is perfect for both clitoral or g-spot stimulation. With a strong motor situated in the middle of the shaft, the whisper quiet vibrations can be felt from the head of the wand to the very tip. Use it externally to press against your...
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Malesation
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R649
The Robbie dildo from Malesation is perfect for solo or strap-on play. The flared suction base fits most standard strap-on harnesses, or can be used to firmly attach your dildo to a smooth surface. The wavy shaft and angled tip of the Robbie dildo make it ideal for g-spot or p-spot stimulation. It’s made from seamless, bodysafe, phthalate-free...
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Screaming O
ART-110
R999
The Reach-It rechargeable vibrator by Screaming O is an ergonomically designed vibrator designed to stimulate either the G-spot or the clitoris - precisely every time!This cleverly curved vibrator takes the guess work out of locating your erogenous zones. A flat head with soft silicone ridges allows you to press it down firmly on your clitoris, or for...
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Je Joue
5060170971604 D09.10.2019
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Powered by Je Joue’s strong bullet motor, with five speeds and seven patterns, this petite bullet vibrator with ears packs a lot of pleasure in. It’s small and discreet, easy to hold and stimulates the clitoris with it's ears fitting snuggly on either side. From the satin-smooth texture of the bodysafe silicone to the flexible ears, this...
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Hot Octopuss
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R1,999
The multi award-winning Queen Bee vibrator designed by the famous Hot Octopuss brand, is a revolutionary clitoral stimulator founded on medical science and designed for versatility. Powered by the incredible and next-generation oscillating Pulse-Plate, this clitoral stimulator delivers a completely unique and intense experience. By offering a gentle flat...
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Satisfyer
BO SAT006 M11.11.19
R1,999
The Satisfyer Pro Plus Vibration clitoral stimulator is the perfect combination of the pressure wave technology know to the Satisfyer brand along with intense vibrational stimulation.Giving you an incomparable pleasure experience, Satisfyer have combined their unique pressure wave hands-free clitoral stimulation with the added stimulation of powerful...
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Satisfyer
BO SAT003 M11.11.19
R1,599
The Satisfyer Pro Penguin is an ergonomically designed clitoral stimulator that offers incredible pressure wave and touch-free clitoral stimulation.With it's curved head, the Pro Penguin's head rests gently around your clitoral area ensuring that each and every nerve ending is stimulated. With the powerful pressure wave stimulation and 11 programs of...
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Satisfyer
BO SAT004 M02.10.2019
R1,599
The Pro Deluxe Next Generation Satisfyer bring a touch of added luxury and elegance to the bedroom. In it's gorgeous rose gold and white design, this pressure wave clitoral stimulator is ergonomically designed to fit perfectly in the palm of your hand or between couples during intercourse. The head rests gently over your clitoral area, giving you...
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Womanizer
42514660902 D23.10.19
R3,399
The Premium clitoral stimulator by Womanizer is a combination of powerful technology and high-quality design, including the incredible Pleasure Air technology that the Womanizer brand is known for.Working gently and indirectly, the Pleasure Air technology of the Premium Womanizer stimulates the clitoris and your deepest nerve endings via 12 different...
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PowerBullet Essential Rechargeable Bullet Vibrator - Swan

Swan
BO677613571533 D04.11.19
R449
This PowerBullet by Swan is an absolute must have for anyone look for discreet, long-lasting pocket-sized power.Measuring in at a petite 7cm's, this powerfull bullet vibrator offers an incredible 9 functions that are deep, rumbling, and intense when you need it. With one press button, you are able to navigate your way through each of the 9 intensities...
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Pjur Woman Body Glide & Toy Friendly Silicone Lubricant - Pjur

Pjur
BO300000091333 D26.08.2019
R399
Pjur Woman super-concentrated Bodyglide is dermatologically tested to be kind to sensitive skin. Pjur Woman Bodyglide is just as long-lasting as original Bodyglide, but is not as thick a formula. It’s still non-sticky, preservative-free and bodysafe.We recommend using a water-based lubricant with silicone toys, to avoid long-term damage to the toy, but...
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