Sex Toys for beginners
Getting Started With Sex Toys for Better Bedroom Play.
Sex toys for beginners are a great way to start out in the exciting world of sexual exploration and are perfect for adding another layer to your sex life.
It can be a little overwhelming at first - to browse through the many innovations on offer. The good news is that you’re right at the beginning of your collection. That’s an exciting place to be!
You get to find out more about what you enjoy and don’t enjoy, and build a sex toy collection around the sexual experiences that enhance intimacy and connection, whether for solo play or for you and your partner. Understanding your body is the first step to sexual health and increased intimacy, and we’re here to help.
From cock rings and anal play, to bullet vibrators and rabbit vibrators, the options are endless. Whilst the visual design and ergonomic fit of your sex toy might be intimidating, Desir has ensured that not only are all products 100% body safe, but that they are super soft, silicone friendly and medically graded
To assist you on your sexual exploration and journey in buying your first sex toy, Desir has a dedicated Client Concierge that is available every step of the way to ensure you buy a sex toy that is right for you.
If you are still not sure about starting your sexual exploration with a hard sex toy, why not try a feather tickler, or lighter products that offer sensory play - like massage candles, massage glides, lubricants, or even some light bondage products. This allows you to get to know your body, your likes and dislikes and when you are ready for the next step, we will be here to guide you.
There are many incredible modern innovations in sexual health and pleasure that we’re happy to share with you. We have the most sophisticated collection in South Africa, and are experts at recommending the right toys to beginners.
Starting Out With Sex Toys
Beginner sex toys span every category we have available. In each category, there will be models that are specifically designed and recommended for new users. Here we’ve listed our top categories with a brief description of what each one can do for you
#1 Bullet Vibrators
Named for their shape and size, bullets feature a pointed tip and are designed for clitoral stimulation. Not limited to the clitoris however, bullets are also perfect for nipple, penis, and even anal play. Small in size, bullets are perfect for travel and for those looking for a more discreet vibrator to start off with.
View our recommended selection of bullet vibrators, for beginners.
#2 Rabbit Vibrators
Rabbit vibrators, or dual stimulating vibrators, are designed to stimulate your G-spot and Clitoral area at the same time. Given the name thanks to the two, sometimes one, bunny shaped ears at the top of the vibrator, stimulation can either be independently controlled or used simultaneously. With orgasms proven to be so much more powerful when both the clitoris and g-spot are stimulated, the rabbit vibe has become a firm favourite for those looking for a little more powerful and stimulation.
View our recommended selection of rabbit vibrators, for beginners.
#3 Wand Vibrators
Wand, or Body Wand Vibrators are perfect for those looking for a more ergonomically designed vibrator that can offer all-over body stimulation and massage. Ideal for both him and her, wands are designed with a rounded head that generally fit onto a swivel type arm. This makes precision and control so much easier, and with it’s broad and flattened head, you are able to stimulate a far wider area for more intense pleasure.
Use it on your vulva area to reach the deeper clitoral nerve endings, use it on his perineum for intense penile massage, or even on the anal area to stimulate the rectum nerve endings. The options are endless.
View our recommended selection of body wand vibrators, for beginners.
Dildos are the perfect go-to if you are looking for a non-motorised sex toy. Often in a more realistic shape, and made from more flexible and soft silicone or glass, dildos provide intense vaginal, anal, or g-spot stimulation. From suction cup dildos providing hands-free play, or strap on dildos to be used in a harness, dildos are versatile in their use and perfect for those looking for more naturalistic sex toys.
View our recommended selection of dildos, for beginners.
#5 Penis Sheath
Penis Sleeves or penis sheaths are perfect for men looking to add extra girth and length onto their penis without the risk of invasive medical procedures. Designed to be worn over the length of his penis, a penis sheath not only assists with erectile dysfunction symptoms, but also provides pleasure for the receiver thanks to extra nodules, ribs, and texture. Prolonging ejaculation and assisting with a firmer erection, penis sheaths are a great dual pleasure sex toy.
It’s important that you understand your needs. You can start out as risqué or as polite as you like – it’s completely up to you. From clitoral and g-spot stimulation, to prostate and anal play, we’ve built a range that caters for all levels of users. Many toys are sorted by solo or couple’s use here, and price range is a good indication of build quality, durability and technological advancement.
With products that are now app controlled that allow remote control play, sex toys for beginners are not only limited to solo play but are perfect for bringing partners together in a little more risque setting.
To find sex toys for beginners that will suit your requirements, make a mental list of what you like, what you’re looking for and what makes you feel comfortable.
View our recommended selection of penis sheaths, for beginners.
Have a look through our incredible Désir collection to find your favourite sex toys for beginners, or look directly in this recommended section. Pay attention to things like size, functionality and settings to get the most from your purchase. If you are still unsure, contact us and we’ll get our client concierge to guide you.
For our comprehensive buyers guide and additional info, view Desir's Sex Toy Encyclopedia here.