Sex Toys for beginners

Getting Started With Sex Toys for Better Bedroom Play.


Sex toys for beginners are a great way to start out in the exciting world of sexual exploration and are perfect for adding another layer to your sex life.

It can be a little overwhelming at first - to browse through the many innovations on offer. The good news is that you’re right at the beginning of your collection. That’s an exciting place to be!


You get to find out more about what you enjoy and don’t enjoy, and build a sex toy collection around the sexual experiences that enhance intimacy and connection, whether for solo play or for you and your partner. Understanding your body is the first step to sexual health and increased intimacy, and we’re here to help.


From cock rings and anal play, to bullet vibrators and rabbit vibrators, the options are endless. Whilst the visual design and ergonomic fit of your sex toy might be intimidating, Desir has ensured that not only are all products 100% body safe, but that they are super soft, silicone friendly and medically graded


To assist you on your sexual exploration and journey in buying your first sex toy, Desir has a dedicated Client Concierge that is available every step of the way to ensure you buy a sex toy that is right for you.


If you are still not sure about starting your sexual exploration with a hard sex toy, why not try a feather tickler, or lighter products that offer sensory play - like massage candles, massage glides, lubricants, or even some light bondage products. This allows you to get to know your body, your likes and dislikes and when you are ready for the next step, we will be here to guide you.


There are many incredible modern innovations in sexual health and pleasure that we’re happy to share with you. We have the most sophisticated collection in South Africa, and are experts at recommending the right toys to beginners.


Starting Out With Sex Toys

Beginner sex toys span every category we have available. In each category, there will be models that are specifically designed and recommended for new users. Here we’ve listed our top categories with a brief description of what each one can do for you


#1 Bullet Vibrators

Named for their shape and size, bullets feature a pointed tip and are designed for clitoral stimulation. Not limited to the clitoris however, bullets are also perfect for nipple, penis, and even anal play. Small in size, bullets are perfect for travel and for those looking for a more discreet vibrator to start off with.

View our recommended selection of bullet vibrators, for beginners.


#2 Rabbit Vibrators

Rabbit vibrators, or dual stimulating vibrators, are designed to stimulate your G-spot and Clitoral area at the same time. Given the name thanks to the two, sometimes one, bunny shaped ears at the top of the vibrator, stimulation can either be independently controlled or used simultaneously. With orgasms proven to be so much more powerful when both the clitoris and g-spot are stimulated, the rabbit vibe has become a firm favourite for those looking for a little more powerful and stimulation.

View our recommended selection of rabbit vibrators, for beginners.


#3 Wand Vibrators

Wand, or Body Wand Vibrators are perfect for those looking for a more ergonomically designed vibrator that can offer all-over body stimulation and massage. Ideal for both him and her, wands are designed with a rounded head that generally fit onto a swivel type arm. This makes precision and control so much easier, and with it’s broad and flattened head, you are able to stimulate a far wider area for more intense pleasure.


Use it on your vulva area to reach the deeper clitoral nerve endings, use it on his perineum for intense penile massage, or even on the anal area to stimulate the rectum nerve endings. The options are endless.

View our recommended selection of body wand vibrators, for beginners.


#4 Dildos

Dildos are the perfect go-to if you are looking for a non-motorised sex toy. Often in a more realistic shape, and made from more flexible and soft silicone or glass, dildos provide intense vaginal, anal, or g-spot stimulation. From suction cup dildos providing hands-free play, or strap on dildos to be used in a harness, dildos are versatile in their use and perfect for those looking for more naturalistic sex toys.

View our recommended selection of dildos, for beginners.


#5 Penis Sheath

Penis Sleeves or penis sheaths are perfect for men looking to add extra girth and length onto their penis without the risk of invasive medical procedures. Designed to be worn over the length of his penis, a penis sheath not only assists with erectile dysfunction symptoms, but also provides pleasure for the receiver thanks to extra nodules, ribs, and texture. Prolonging ejaculation and assisting with a firmer erection, penis sheaths are a great dual pleasure sex toy.


It’s important that you understand your needs. You can start out as risqué or as polite as you like – it’s completely up to you. From clitoral and g-spot stimulation, to prostate and anal play, we’ve built a range that caters for all levels of users. Many toys are sorted by solo or couple’s use here, and price range is a good indication of build quality, durability and technological advancement.


With products that are now app controlled that allow remote control play, sex toys for beginners are not only limited to solo play but are perfect for bringing partners together in a little more risque setting.


To find sex toys for beginners that will suit your requirements, make a mental list of what you like, what you’re looking for and what makes you feel comfortable.

View our recommended selection of penis sheaths, for beginners.


Have a look through our incredible Désir collection to find your favourite sex toys for beginners, or look directly in this recommended section. Pay attention to things like size, functionality and settings to get the most from your purchase. If you are still unsure, contact us and we’ll get our client concierge to guide you.

For our comprehensive buyers guide and additional info, view Desir's Sex Toy Encyclopedia here.

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Liberty Clitoral Stimulator - Womanizer
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Liberty Clitoral Stimulator - Womanizer

Womanizer
BO4251460611015 D28.01.2020
R1,899
The Liberty - the latest release by Womanizer -  is a small, lightweight clitoral stimulator that now offers a super silent motor, and a uniquely designed cover, making it the perfect companion no matter where you are.With the incredible and award winning Air Pleasure technology, the Womanizer is designed to stimulate your clitoris by barely touching it...
Premium Clitoral Stimulator - Womanizer
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Premium Clitoral Stimulator - Womanizer

Womanizer
BO42514660902 D10.02.20
R3,449
The Premium clitoral stimulator by Womanizer is a combination of powerful technology and high-quality design, including the incredible Pleasure Air technology that the Womanizer brand is known for.Working gently and indirectly, the Pleasure Air technology of the Premium Womanizer stimulates the clitoris and your deepest nerve endings via 12 different...
Classic 8 Speed Clitoral Stimulator - Womanizer
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Classic 8 Speed Clitoral Stimulator - Womanizer

Womanizer
BO4251460610018 D10.02.20
R2,399
The Womanizer Classic clitoral stimulator is the latest upgrade by Womanizer, featuring the same Pleasure Air technology and 8 intensity levels.Equipped with the unique Pleasure Air technology that provides contactless stimulation to your clitoris, you simply place the suction nozzle on top of your clitoral area, enclosing it using light pressure to keep...
Tango Petite Classic 8 Speed Bullet Vibrator - We-Vibe
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Tango Petite Classic 8 Speed Bullet Vibrator - We-Vibe

We Vibe
BO839289015883 D04.02.20
R1,599
The Tango is a rechargeable, discreet and powerful bullet vibrator. It’s unusual to find such a rumbly, strong bullet vibrator, and Tango by We-Vibe™ deserves its reputation as one of the best available. It’s just 9cm long and 2cm wide, fully rechargeable for up to two hours of play and waterproof. The classic design makes it easy to slip into a handbag...
Tango Pleasure Mate Collection - We Vibe
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Tango Pleasure Mate™ 3-in-1 Clitoral, G-Spot & Anal Vibrator Collection - We-Vibe

We Vibe
WEVSNTMSGZ D05.06.2019
R2,499
This stunning collection from We-Vibe™ brings together the Tango bullet vibrator with the Glow and Dusk silicone toy forms. The Tango is a waterproof and powerful rechargeable bullet vibrator with easy single button operation and when couples with the silicone forms, you are able to transform your bullet into a G-Spot (Glow) or Anal (Dusk) Vibrator. The...
Anniversary Collection Featuring Sync & Tango Vibrators | We-Vibe
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We-Vibe Anniversary Collection Featuring Sync & Tango - We-Vibe

We Vibe
BO839289006935 D10.02.20
R3,899
To celebrate 10 years of bringing couples closer together, We-vibe have paired two of their most-loved products together - the We-Vibe Tango and the We-Vibe Sync - in a luxurious exclusive travel-ready play case.We-Vibe SyncDesigned to be worn by the female during love-making, the We-Vibe Sync is one of the most famous couples vibrators on the market....
Ditto Vibrating Prostate Massager with Remote - We-Vibe
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Ditto Vibrating Prostate Massager with Remote - We-Vibe

We Vibe
BO 1013 M19.12.19
R2,499
The Ditto anal massager by We-Vibe is a vibrating anal plug designed to stimulate and arouse the P-spot.Adding new stimulation to your intimate play, the Ditto is perfect for use during masturbation, foreplay or even intercourse. Stimulating your prostate with gentle pressure and rumbling vibrations, the Ditto is made of soft, smooth silicone and has a...
Cool Edition 6 Pack Male Masturbating Eggs - Tenga
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Cool Edition 6 Pack Male Masturbating Eggs - Tenga

Tenga
BO4560220555057 D18.09.2019
R849
The Cool edition eggs by Tenga are a refreshing take on the original mini masturbating sleeves made famous by the Tenga brand. Made from the incredibly super-stretchy elastomer, this sleeve stretches to fit most sizes and offers incredible stimulation at the same time. With it's wavy and textured interior, zig-zag nodules and elongated...
Flex Masturbation Sleeve - Tenga
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Flex Masturbation Sleeve - Tenga

Tenga
BO4560220555873 D10.12.19
R879
The Flex masturbation sleeve by Tenga is a uniquely designed masturbation sleeve featuring a spiral-ribbed design that twists, sucks and flexes as you thrust.In a gorgeously designed malleable casing, the Flex features a lid type cover, that when removed reveals the soft and realistically textured spiraling sleeve inner. Simply remove...
Palmpower Rechargeable Personal Massager Mini - Swan
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Palmpower Rechargeable Personal Massager - Swan

Swan
BO677613306289 D04.02.20
R1,599
The Swan PalmPower personal massager has a deserved reputation as one of the most powerful and compact massage wands available. This rechargeable version of the classic PalmPower bodywand gives you all the power, with no pesky electrical cords to get in the way of your pleasure. The PalmPower features a cleverly tapered handle that is easy to hold...
Swan Squeeze Me Hug Rabbit Vibrator
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Hug Rabbit Vibrator with Squeeze Control - Swan

Swan
BO677613942197 D10.12.19
R1,499
The petite yet powerful Swan Hug rabbit vibrator features Squeeze Control technology to make your pleasure even easier. Simply switch on the Hug vibrator then squeeze the sides of the handle to increase the speed of the two motors. Separate buttons on the handle allow you to control the motors individually according to your desire. The 9cm insertable...
Silver Swan Dual Motored Multi-Speed Rabbit Vibrator | Swan
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The Silver Swan Powerful Multi-Speed Rabbit Vibrator - Swan

Swan
BO677613320766 D10.02.20
R1,799
The Silver Swan is part of Swan’s collection of beautifully designed rabbit vibrators. If you prefer a broader and more rumbly sensation on your clitoris, rather than pinpoint attention, then the Silver Swan is the sex toy for you. The internal shaft is also a little shorter than others, with an insertable length of just 7.6cm, and a full...
PalmPower Plug In Personal Massager - Swan
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PalmPower Plug In Personal Massager - Swan

Swan
BO677613305282 D18.12.19
R1,299
The Swan PalmPower personal massager has a deserved reputation as one of the most powerful and compact massage wands available. This plug-in version gives you all the power equal to that of a super-charged vibrator. The PalmPower features a cleverly tapered handle that is easy to hold while you guide the head to the perfect position. The flexible neck...
PowerBullet Essential Rechargeable Bullet Vibrator - Swan
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PowerBullet Essential Rechargeable Bullet Vibrator - Swan

Swan
BO677613571533 D10.02.20
R499
This PowerBullet by Swan is an absolute must have for anyone look for discreet, long-lasting pocket-sized power.Measuring in at a petite 7cm's, this powerfull bullet vibrator offers an incredible 9 functions that are deep, rumbling, and intense when you need it. With one press button, you are able to navigate your way through each of the 9 intensities...
Emma Mini Wand Vibrator | Svakom
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Emma Mini Wand Vibrator - Svakom

Svakom
SVA-02M
R1,599
The Emma mini wand by Svakom, is a powerful mini wand designed for women who prefer medium or small sized massagers. With 6 vibration modes and a powerful motor, this wand features a flexible vibrating head that stimulates the entire vulva area, or allows for a powerful all-over body massage. Stimulating even the deepest of vaginal nerve endings, the head...
Angel Warming Rabbit Vibrator - Svakom
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Angel Warming Rabbit Vibrator - Svakom

Svakom
CON SUDB-03B 05.02.20
R2,199
The Angel warming vibrator by Svakom is a whisper quiet powerful vibrator that gently warms to a comfortable 38 degrees celsius. With it's curved ergonomic design, and it's ridged shaft and clitoral arm, this vibrator not only stimulates both the clitoral and g-spot areas simultaneously, but offers extra stimulation and powerful orgasms. Fully waterproof,...
Cookie Rotating Clitoral Vibrator - Svakom
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Cookie Rotating Clitoral Vibrator - Svakom

Svakom
CON S6-PNK 05.02.20
R1,899
The Cookie vibrator by Svakom is a uniquely designed clitoral vibrator that features small rotating 'tentacle' like arms that gently swirl, hug, and caress the clitoral area - giving you the most deeply powerful and intense orgasms. With it's ultra-soft body-safe silicone texture, this luxurious petite clitoral vibrator is not only pleasing to the eye,...
Candy Kissing Mouth Clitoral Vibrator - Svakom
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Candy Kissing Mouth Clitoral Vibrator - Svakom

Svakom
CON S4-Blue 11.11.19
R1,799
The Candy 'Kissing Mouth' Vibrator is a uniquely designed clitoral vibrator that features soft luscious type lips that gently caress and flutter against your clitoris.With it's super-soft silicone texture, this petite massager is perfect for beginners or for those that require clitoral stimulation during penetration in order to orgasm. With it's 3 varied...
Daisy Powerful Mini Vibrator - Svakom
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Daisy Powerful Mini Vibrator - Svakom

Svakom
CON SLS-02 11.11.19
R1,499
The Daisy mini clitoral vibrator by Svakom, is a powerful yet petite vibrator that delivers 3 powerful intensities to where you need it most.Use it directly on your clitoris for intense stimulation, or use this mini-vibe on any of your erogenous zones for increased sensitivity and foreplay, whether it be your nipples, your vulva, or even his perineum....
Cici Flexible Head Multi-Use Vibrator - Svakom
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Cici Flexible Head Multi-Use Vibrator - Svakom

Svakom
CON SG-02B 10.01.2020
R1,799
The Cici flexible vibrator by Svakom is a uniquely designed slim, elegant multi-use vibrator designed to reach your most erogenous spots effortlessly.Made from super-soft body-safe silicone, the Cici features a 18cm length with a textured and flexible head for added stimulation. Bend the head at any angle and use it anywhere, anyhow. From direct clitoral...
Emma Heating Wand Vibrator with Rabbit Attachment - Svakom
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Emma Luxury Heating Wand Vibrator with Rabbit Attachment - Svakom

Svakom
CON SAV-01C 18.12.19
R1,999
The Emma wand by Svakom is a powerful and lasting (48 hours) massager that allows use at any angle, with an added constant heating  function and replaceable Rabbit ears.With a fully rotational bulbous head, this versatile wand is perfect for both intimate and all-over body massage. Direct the head onto your aching muscles and allow the intense...
Bonnie Unisex Dual Motor Vibrator - Svakom
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Bonnie Flexible Unisex Dual Motor Vibrator - Svakom

Svakom
CON S1-PMR 11.11.19
R2,199
The Bonnie unisex vibrator by Svakom is a versatile vibrator, ergonomically designed to stimulate either your nipples, clitoris, g-spot, and even his perineum and prostate.Made from super-soft body-safe silicone, this vibrator features two different sized heads on either size of the vibrator. The small flexible head on one side, can be...
Barbara Ultra-Soft Vibrator - Svakom
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Barbara Ultra-Soft Vibrator - Svakom

Svakom
CON SUDV-02B 11.11.19
R1,899
The Barbara ultra soft rabbit vibrator by Svakom is the ultimate beginners rabbit, thanks to it's medium size and gorgeously soft silicone texture.Covered in the softest skin-like, medically graded silicone available on the market, the Barbara features two stimulating arms. The smaller arm is designed to sit comfortably on top of the clitoris, whilst the...
Amy G-spot Vibrator - Svakom
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Amy G-spot Vibrator - Svakom

Svakom
SUV-02 05.02.20
R1,699
The Amy by Svakom is a medium sized, super-soft silicone vibrator in a curved design - perfect for targeted stimulation to your g-spot.Designed in super-soft body-safe silicone, Amy is an ergonomically designed G-spot vibrator that faatures a slightly flattened head at the tip and a curved shaft. When inserted internally with the flattened head pointing...
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