Sex Toys for those with disabilities

Sexual health and wellness should not be limited to any specific group of individuals.

For many, physical disability often impairs a person’s ability to engage in a regular sex life. It also brings feelings of anxiety, lack of confidence, and concern with regards to sexual performance and the ability to communicate your wants and needs effectively. It is important to recognise that these feelings are all completely normal.

Being born with or acquiring a disability, requires a lot of adapting and re-education around activities that were once deemed easy or simple. According to the World Health Organisation, more than 56 million people experience some kind of disability, and it is here that there is a blindspot regarding sex education, sexual health, and intimacy.

For many, it has been through the introduction of sex toys into their self care or relationships, that intimacy and sexual exploration has been made possible.

Sex toys, with the help of brands like Hot Octopuss, have evolved considerably over time in recognising the need for sexual aids and sex toys. Specifically designed for people with physical disabilities or serious health conditions, sex and disability are no longer a myth or an attempt at the near impossible.

Desir has carefully curated a category of products that allow persons with disabilities to opt for a selection of sex toys that promise sexual exploration and the option of a fulfillling sex life. Physical impairment or physical disabilities should not restrict your ability to be mentally and physically stimulated.

Whilst penetrative sex is not always possible, Desir’s products for people with disabilities include male masturbators, hands free strap on harnesses, penis rings to assist with erectile dysfunction, and ergonomically designed rabbit vibrators and bullet vibrators.

Bullet vibrators are ideal for precise clitoral or g-spot massage, and even for nipple and penis play and are a great start for beginners looking to add adult toys into their sex life. For products that assist with sex positions, look for adaptive equipment like sex swings or even harnesses that offer added support and comfort to the hips and back.

For those that are not quite ready to introduce a sex toy to the bedroom, start by exploring with a good water-based or silicone-based lubricant that could assist with masturbation or even oral sex. Massage candles or massage glides are also the perfect way to offer your partner intimate sensory play.

Bearing an intellectual or physical disability does not mean the end to a fulfilling sex life and with so many ways in which to continue enjoying sex, you are now able to incorporate your imagination, sex toys, bondage, and restraints into your sex life and health care.

You may have to approach sexual activity differently, but with Desir’s access to carefully curated products and a panel of medical experts to assist, you have the ability to make your own informed choices regarding your physical and emotional health.

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Emma Neo Rabbit Wand Interactive Warming Vibrator - Svakom

The Emma Neo warming wand vibrator by Svakom is part of the new Intelligent App Control series, now allowing you to be more connected than ever before. Featuring new technology, Emma is a powerful, interactive, warming wand vibrator featuring detachable rabbit ears. With it's versatility you are able to use your wand, with it's swivel head, for powerful...
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Set of 3 Crystal Yoni Eggs - Yoni Eggs

Yoni Eggs
Yoni Eggs, or more commonly known Jade Eggs, have been used for thousands of years as part of traditional medicine. Today the practice of inserting a Jade or Yoni Egg into the vagina, offers a myriad of benefits that not only incorporate medical advantages but also healing properties on an energetic level. By using a Yoni egg daily, blood and lymph flow...
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Double Down Dual Ended Masturbator - Porn Hub

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ST Hub
The Double Down masturbator by Porn Hub is a double ended sleeve masturbator for him that features a vaginal opening on one side and an anal opening on the other. Made from 100% body safe material, this soft and realistic feel material hugs your shaft and provides extra stimulation on each and every thrust thanks to the textured tunnel. A matt black...
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I Rub My Duckie Waterproof Massager - Big Tease Toys

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ST Duckie
The I Rub My Duckie 2.0 romance collection is a massage duck that is perfect for relaxing and softening muscles, or for intimate caresses. Completely waterproof, the Duckie 2.0 has a stronger and quieter motor than before and features 7 vibrational patterns that are powerful and intense. Measuring 8cm, this petite duck is phthalate free, easy to clean...
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Wand-er Woman All Over Body Wand Vibrator - Satisfyer

This impressively sized wand by Satisfyer promises targeted stimulation and pressure designed for soothing tension and providing intense pleasure. Measuring in at an impressing 34 cms, the Wand-er Woman Wand features a streamlined shape coupled with 50 vibrational intensities made up of 10 rhythms and 5 varied intensities. With its waterproof seamless...
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Alex Neo Interactive Thrusting Masturbator - Svakom

The Alex Neo masturbator by Svakom is part of the new Intelligent App Control series, now allowing you to be more connected than ever before. Featuring new technology, Alex is a cutting-edge tech filled male masturbator featuring app functions and long distance functionality. Ergonomically designed, Alex is flexible enough to fit any length of the male...
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Womanizer Silver Delights Collection - Womanizer

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The Silver Delights Collection by Womanizer is a limited edition collection featuring two of your favourite products in one gorgeous gift pack. Featuring the Womanizer Premium clitoral suction vibrator and the We-Vibe Tango bullet vibrator, this set is perfect for women looking for intense clitoral stimulation whether it be for solo or couples play and...
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Ella Neo Interactive App Controlled Egg Vibrator - Svakom

The Ella Neo Egg Vibrator by Svakom is part of the new Intelligent App Control series, now allowing you to be more connected than ever before. Offering long distance control, local control and even web interactive, the Phoenix allows you to enjoy your pleasure with whoever you want, wherever you are or even for solo pleasure. Controlled remotely via an...
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Aida Mini Wand Massager - Good Vibes Only

Good Vibes Only
The Aida wand massager by Good Vibes Only is a travel friend mini wand massager designed to stimulate your intimate areas or release muscular tension. With it's swivel head design, Aida features 10 vibrational speeds that range from slow and deliberate to deep and intense. It's super soft silicone design allows you to slide the head over your intimate or...
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Lici G-Spot Vibrator - Good Vibes Only

Good Vibes Only
The Lici G-Spot vibrator is a slim-lined vibrator designed to stimulate and pleasure your g-spot. With 10 speeds and an easy to use control panel on the shaft of the vibrator, Lici features vibrations that range from slow and steady to strong and intense. The tapered tip makes Lici perfect for direct G-spot stimulation but also allows you the versatility...
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Gili G-Spot Vibrator - Good Vibes Only

Good Vibes Only
The Gili by Good Vibes Only is a slim, sleek designed vibrator that promises precise and intense g-spot massage. Measuring in at 22cm, Gili features a super-soft silicone designed shaft that features a realistic glans tip. With a curve in it's shaft, it is ergonomically shaped to ensure you reach your g-spot with absolute precision and accuracy. 10...
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Base Wand Vibrator - Post Modern Vibes

The Base wand vibrator by PMV-20 is a cordless and super-flexible slim wand vibrator that is both versatile and easy to use. With a flexible head that swivels and flexes according to your pressure, Base is perfect for both all-over body tension release as well as intimate massage. The super soft silicone texture allows it to slide and glide, making it...
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Tulip Clitoral Vibrator - Bloom

The Tulip clitoris vibrator is an elegant vibrator from the Bloom collection. Designed to stimulate the entire clitoral area, this Tulip is made from super-soft body safe silicone that is soft to the touch. With it's ergonomic design, the Tulip fits perfectly into the palm of your hand allowing you to easily control the positioning and stimulation of the...
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Ion Male Pleasure Air Stroker - ArcWave

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Meet the world's first pleasure air stroker for men. The Ion by ArcWave is quoted as being the first male masturbator for men that allows you to experience the closest thing to a female orgasm. Designed to provide a powerful new type of stimulation to your shaft based purely on pulsating airwaves, the Ion targets the Pacinian pleasure points in the...
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Nouveau Wand Massager - Rosy Gold

Rosy Gold
The Rosy Gold Nouveau body wand massager is a sophisticated and luxuriously designed wand vibrator ideal for releasing muscular tension and for exquisite external stimulation. Featuring a broad rounded swivel head on a flexible neck, this powerful cordless wand directs 10 powerful vibrations to where you need it most. Use the head to cover your entire...
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Domi 2 Wand Vibrator - Lovense

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The Lovense Domi 2 is a powerful cordless mini wand vibrator designed with a three times longer battery life and far more efficient Bluetooth connectivity. Perfect for solo play or foreplay with a partner, the Domi wand features a reinforced swivel neck that is perfect for releasing muscular tension or for direct and broad stimulation to the clitoral...
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Sila Sonic Clitoral Massager - LELO

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The Sila Clitoral Massager by LELO has been inspired by the world famous Sona Clitoral Massager. Promising touch free clitoral stimulation like no other, the Sila allows you to explore new ways to climax. Featuring a varied range of sonic wave intensities for whole and deep clitoral stimulation, the Sila has a broad mouth opening that gently fits over...
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Vibrating Wand - PlusOne

This lightweight body wand by PlusOne is a cordless and compact massager featuring a powerful motor that promises all-over body massage and intense pleasure. With 10 vibrational settings operated by an easy-to-use control panel, this super soft wand can be used on any of your erogenous zones or any part of your body that requires muscular tension relief....
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Haute Couture Luxury Leather & Gold Air Pulse Vibrator - Satisfyer

The Haute Couture Air Pulse Vibrator by Satisfyer is the ultimate statement of luxury and sophistication.Using a combination of leather and sophisticated gold detailing, this refined air stimulator is not only gorgeous to look at and hold, but offers the most intense hands free 'oral sex' experience that brings you to a climax again and again.Using a...
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Purple Pleasure Layon Clitoral Vibrator - Satisfyer

The Purple Pleasure Layon Vibrator by Satisfyer is the perfect vibrator for those looking for wider coverage of the entire vulva and clitoral area. With a delicate silicone surface, tapered tip design and wider coverage, this layon vibe is ideal for women who are only able to climax through clitoral and vulva stimulation alone. Thanks to it's flattened...
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Curvy 1+ Air Pulse Stimulator - Satisfyer

The Curvy 1+ is an ergonomically designed clitoral stimulator that promises to combine unforgettable Satisfyer pressure waves as well as intense and deep vibrations to stimulate the clitoris. Using a combination of air-pulse stimulation as well as intense vibrations, this clitoral air stimulator pleasures even the deepest clitoral nerve endings thanks to...
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Powerful Wand Vibrator with Attachments - We-Vibe

We Vibe
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The Wand by We-Vibe is an ergonomically designed wand vibrator that includes two custom attachments to give you both versatility and a variety of sensations as well the intense pleasure that is synonymous with the We-Vibe brand. Made from soft-touch silicone, this seamless wand vibrator is 30cm in length and features a gentle ergonomic curve in it's...
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Doxy Die Cast 3R Powerful Massage Wand - Doxy

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The Doxy Die Cast 3R is a rechargeable cordless massage wand designed to give you the same intense stimulation as the plug-in Doxy with absolutely no compromise on power or intensity.   Capable of reaching up to 9000 RPM, Doxy's rechargeable wands have fast become known as the most powerful all-over body wands available currently on the market. Made from...
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Ora 3 Oral Sex Simulator - LELO

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The LELO Ora3 is an intuitive oral sex stimulator designed specifically for women. With it's unique PreMotion Technology, this hand held vibrator uses a mind-blowing combination of different vibration patterns and an ultra-smooth rotating node to precisely simulate the feeling of oral pleasure. Ergonomically perfected, it features a pleasure nub that...
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