Sex Toys for those with disabilities

Sexual health and wellness should not be limited to any specific group of individuals.


For many, physical disability often impairs a person’s ability to engage in a regular sex life. It also brings feelings of anxiety, lack of confidence, and concern with regards to sexual performance and the ability to communicate your wants and needs effectively. It is important to recognise that these feelings are all completely normal.


Being born with or acquiring a disability, requires a lot of adapting and re-education around activities that were once deemed easy or simple. According to the World Health Organisation, more than 56 million people experience some kind of disability, and it is here that there is a blindspot regarding sex education, sexual health, and intimacy.


For many, it has been through the introduction of sex toys into their self care or relationships, that intimacy and sexual exploration has been made possible.


Sex toys, with the help of brands like Hot Octopuss, have evolved considerably over time in recognising the need for sexual aids and sex toys. Specifically designed for people with physical disabilities or serious health conditions, sex and disability are no longer a myth or an attempt at the near impossible.


Desir has carefully curated a category of products that allow persons with disabilities to opt for a selection of sex toys that promise sexual exploration and the option of a fulfillling sex life. Physical impairment or physical disabilities should not restrict your ability to be mentally and physically stimulated.


Whilst penetrative sex is not always possible, Desir’s products for people with disabilities include male masturbators, hands free strap on harnesses, penis rings to assist with erectile dysfunction, and ergonomically designed rabbit vibrators and bullet vibrators.


Bullet vibrators are ideal for precise clitoral or g-spot massage, and even for nipple and penis play and are a great start for beginners looking to add adult toys into their sex life. For products that assist with sex positions, look for adaptive equipment like sex swings or even harnesses that offer added support and comfort to the hips and back.


For those that are not quite ready to introduce a sex toy to the bedroom, start by exploring with a good water-based or silicone-based lubricant that could assist with masturbation or even oral sex. Massage candles or massage glides are also the perfect way to offer your partner intimate sensory play.


Bearing an intellectual or physical disability does not mean the end to a fulfilling sex life and with so many ways in which to continue enjoying sex, you are now able to incorporate your imagination, sex toys, bondage, and restraints into your sex life and health care.


You may have to approach sexual activity differently, but with Desir’s access to carefully curated products and a panel of medical experts to assist, you have the ability to make your own informed choices regarding your physical and emotional health.

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Noam Couples Vibrator - Good Vibes Only

Good Vibes Only
EDC Noam
R1,499
Noam by Good Vibes Only is a versatile unisex couples vibrator that you are able to enjoy together or on your own. Made from 100% body safe silicone, this vibrator features a rounded end on the one side that acts as a masturbator for him. Little protrusions promise extra stimulation around his shaft whilst the two open ended arms wrap snuggly ensuring...
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Curvy 2+ Air Pulse Stimulator - Satisfyer

Satisfyer
BO MS CUR002
R1,189 R1,699
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The Curvy 2+ is an ergonomically designed clitoral stimulator that promises to combine unforgettable Satisfyer pressure waves as well as intense and deep vibrations to stimulate the clitoris. Using a combination of air-pulse stimulation as well as intense vibrations, this clitoral air stimulator pleasures even the deepest clitoral nerve endings thanks to...
Romp Free Clitoral...Romp Free Clitoral... 2
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Romp Free Clitoral Stimulator - ROMP

Womanizer
BO DP4251460600965
R929
Romp Free is a clitoral stimulator designed using the incredible pleasure air technology - giving you multiple orgasms again and again. Designed specifically for clitoral stimulation, the Romp Free uses subtle changes in air pressure that mimic a sucking and pulling sensation. With 10 intensity levels, you are able to experience intense pleasure without...
BNear Classic Bullet...BNear Classic Bullet... 2
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BNear Classic Bullet Vibrator - BSwish

B Swish
BO DP8555888501399
R629
The BNear classic bullet vibrator is a corded remote-controlled set of bullets designed to work on two pleasure points at once. With 5 powerful vibration modes, these waterproof bullets are perfect for sharing or for use during solo play. Let your imagination run wild and use them on your clitoris, nipples, and even his erogenous zones.  A single...
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Lust Glider Couples Vibrating Penis Ring - SToys

SToys
BO DP 4041937326081
R189
The Lust Glider Vibro Ring is a penis ring designed specifically for couples. Made from flexible silicone, the ring is worn at the base of his shaft - allowing him to experience delayed ejaculation, a firmer erection and longer lasting pleasure. With a mini bullet vibrator attached at the top of the ring, your partner will receive intense clitoral...
BThrilled Classic Massage...BThrilled Classic Massage... 2
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BThrilled Classic Massage Wand - BSwish

B Swish
BO DP 8555888501412
R899
The BThrilled Classic massage wand by BSwish is a sleek and discreet body wand massage vibrator designed to give you both intimate and all over body massage. With 5 vibrational patterns and a broadly contoured and flexible head, this wand gives you the width and depth required to experience full vulva stimulation - allowing your entire clitoral system to...
Oriel Rechargeable Massage...Oriel Rechargeable Massage... 2
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Oriel Rechargeable Massage Wand - Rocks Off

Rocks off
BO DP811041014075
R1,199
The Oriel Massage wand by Rocks Off has been quoted as being 'The ultimate couples wand'.  Luxuriously designed, this black and gold wand is the perfect addition for couples seeking intense, sensual, full on vibrational contact. Made from super soft velvety silicone, this wand features a flexible head that swivels and moves as you move it around your...
Black Swan Rabbit Vibrator...Black Swan Rabbit Vibrator... 2
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Black Swan Rabbit Vibrator - Swan

Swan
BO DP677613320667
R1,799
The Black Swan vibrator by Swan is an ergonomically shaped vibrator designed to fit the female form perfectly to expertly pleasure the g-spot and clitoris. Noted for it's curved features and unique shape, the Black Swan features two motors - one in the main shaft, and one in the external shaft. Insert the larger shaft vaginally and allow the external arm...
Simple & True Extra Touch...Simple & True Extra Touch... 2
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Simple & True Extra Touch Finger Sleeve - Swan

Swan
BO DP 677613895165/58
R359
The Simple & True finger extender by Swan is a flexible silicone finger sleeve designed to give you a bit of extra length to reach all of the right spots. Perfect for g-spot and p-spot massage, the extra touch features a slight curve with several bulbous points for extra stimulation. Made from super-soft silicone, you are able to easily insert your...
Womanizer Premium Eco...Womanizer Premium Eco... 2
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Womanizer Premium Eco Clitoral Stimulator - Womanizer

Womanizer
BO DP4251460603645
R3,949
The Womanizer Premium ECO is a completely new and unique concept delivered by Womanizer. Made from sustainable, renewable, and vegan materials, this pleasure air clitoral stimulator is the first of it's kind to deliver a toy that is 100% recyclable. Offering the same pleasure intensity as the original premium, this clitoral stimulator offers 12 intensity...
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Deluxe 4 Piece Vibrating Wand Set - Minds of Love

Minds of Love
BO DP 4041937313791
R2,299
This powerful wand massager by Minds of Love is a versatile wand vibrator that includes 3 varying head attachments that allow you to enjoy a multitude of stimulations and pleasure - all in one toy. With 5 vibrating and pulsating functions, this 3 speed rechargeable wand is perfect for anal, vaginal, prostate, and all-over-body massage. Made from 100%...
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Perifit App Controlled Pelvic Floor & Kegel Trainer - Perifit

Perifit
EDC4642226
R3,009 R4,299
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The Perifit kegel exerciser is a new revolutionary system designed for strengthening and training your pelvic floor muscles and has been designed for people at every stage of their life.  Using a fun, innovative, and professionally designed app you are able to track your progress via an app dashboard that allows you to work on your pelvic strength at...
BulletPoint PowerBullet...BulletPoint PowerBullet... 2
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    BulletPoint PowerBullet Vibrator - Swan

    Rocks off
    BO DP 677613565150/167/112/198
    R399
    The PowerBullet by Swan is a discreet and powerful bullet vibrator designed to offer pinpoint precision and accuracy. With 10 powerful settings, PowerBullet is known for its highly advanced motor and deep and rumbly vibrations. With a simply press of a button, you are able to navigate through 10 settings that vary from gentle and mild to incredibly...
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      F1S V2 Male Masturbator - LELO

      Lelo
      BO DP 7350075028366
      R4,399
      The F1S Version 2 is the next generation of male masturbators for leading international sex toy brand LELO. A penis sleeve designed for thrill seekers who want to explore the most intense and optimal satisfaction, V2 promises double the strength, four programs and a softer, more flexible sleeve to accommodate a wider range of sizes, shapes, and girths....
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        Vibrating BlowJob Stimulator - Boners

        EasyToys
        EDC BON034
        R1,499
        The BlowJob stimulator by Boners promises an 'almost-real-deal' experience for him and mimics the sensation and pleasure created by the act of receiving oral sex. Stylishly designed in a grey masculine casing, this masturbator features a powerful motor that offers 10 varied settings and is discreet enough to place on your nightstand. Easy to operate...
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          Passage 7X Ergonomic Prostate Massager - Prostatic Play

          Prostatic Play
          EDC AE963
          R2,199
          The Passage 7X Ergo Prostate Stimulator is the ideal stimulator if you are looking for a precision built, ergonomically designed and powerful prostate massager. With 7 functions, including 3 powerful vibrating intensities and 4 pulsation modes, the Passage 7X is controlled via an easy to use button on the base of the product and allows for hands-free...
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            Manta Vibrating Stroker - Fun Factory

            Fun factory
            BO DP 4032498806501/18
            R2,069
            The Manta by Fun Factory is an award winning male stroker made versatile enough to use for either solo or couples play. Designed with a looped handle on one end and a wing like design on the other, Manta works by fitting snugly on either side of your shaft allowing you to control the movement and deliver expert pleasure thanks to the intense vibrations...
            Sundaze Pulsing & Thrusting...Sundaze Pulsing & Thrusting... 2
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              Sundaze Pulsing & Thrusting Vibrator - Fun Factory

              Fun factory
              BO DP 4032498807089
              R2,799
              The Sundaze vibrator by Fun Factory is an all-in-one thrusting, pulsating, rumbling vibrator that promises hands-free pleasure wherever you need it. Sundaze delivers a completely new kind of stimulation. Unlike conventional vibrators, Sundaze features a unique pattern that allows a slow, gentle tapping motion that gradually moves faster and faster...
              Empower Couples Penis Ring...Empower Couples Penis Ring... 2
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                Empower Couples Penis Ring - Rocks Off

                BO DP 811041014389/72
                R1,299
                The Empower Couples ring by Rocks Off is a penis ring designed to prolong ejaculation, provide a firmer erection, and offer clitoral stimulation all at the same time. Designed using stretchy body safe silicone, this ring fits comfortably at the base of his penis. The tapered head of the ring features a powerful motor that delivers intense vibrations that...
                Le Wand All Over Plug In...Le Wand All Over Plug In... 2
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                  Le Wand All Over Plug In Body Vibrator - Le Wand

                  Le Wand
                  BO DP 4890808227725
                  R2,699
                  The Le Wand Plug in massager is a powerful body wand vibrator in a classic style and finish that offers continuous power and intense vibrations. Featuring unparalleled quality, the Le Wand features an extra long 8'' cord that allows you to experience 10 vibration speeds and 6 patterns all at an incredibly powerful level thanks to the mains plug in....
                  PalmPower Extreme Massage...PalmPower Extreme Massage... 2
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                    PalmPower Extreme Massage Wand Vibrator - Swan

                    Swan
                    BO DP 677613309112/280
                    R2,399
                    The PalmPower Extreme body wand is a powerful and versatile massage wand designed for all-over body and intimate massage. Rechargeable and water-resistant, this wand features an elongated arm and flexible swivel neck allowing you to position the broad based silicone head on either your body's muscular pressure points or to deliver powerful vibrations to...
                    Iris Clitoral & G Spot...Iris Clitoral & G Spot... 2
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                    Iris Clitoral & G Spot Vibrator - Svakom

                    Svakom
                    CON SV 11-PMR
                    R1,424 R1,899
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                    The Iris clitoral and g-spot vibrator by Svakom is an ergonomically designed vibrator that features the perfect angle in order to reach the g-spot seamlessly. Made from ultra-soft seamless silicone, the Iris features a slim design with a curved arm. With a soft spoon shaped head, insertion is both easy and comfortable and once inserted finding your...
                    Emma Neo Rabbit Wand...Emma Neo Rabbit Wand... 2
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                    Emma Neo Rabbit Wand Interactive Warming Vibrator - Svakom

                    Svakom
                    CON SV SAV-01D
                    R1,987 R2,649
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                    The Emma Neo warming wand vibrator by Svakom is part of the new Intelligent App Control series, now allowing you to be more connected than ever before. Featuring new technology, Emma is a powerful, interactive, warming wand vibrator featuring detachable rabbit ears. With it's versatility you are able to use your wand, with it's swivel head, for powerful...
                    I Rub My Duckie Waterproof...I Rub My Duckie Waterproof... 2
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                      I Rub My Duckie Waterproof Massager - Big Tease Toys

                      Big Tease Toys
                      ST Duckie
                      R599
                      The I Rub My Duckie 2.0 romance collection is a massage duck that is perfect for relaxing and softening muscles, or for intimate caresses. Completely waterproof, the Duckie 2.0 has a stronger and quieter motor than before and features 7 vibrational patterns that are powerful and intense. Measuring 8cm, this petite duck is phthalate free, easy to clean...
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