Sex Toys for those with disabilities

Sexual health and wellness should not be limited to any specific group of individuals.


For many, physical disability often impairs a person’s ability to engage in a regular sex life. It also brings feelings of anxiety, lack of confidence, and concern with regards to sexual performance and the ability to communicate your wants and needs effectively. It is important to recognise that these feelings are all completely normal.


Being born with or acquiring a disability, requires a lot of adapting and re-education around activities that were once deemed easy or simple. According to the World Health Organisation, more than 56 million people experience some kind of disability, and it is here that there is a blindspot regarding sex education, sexual health, and intimacy.


For many, it has been through the introduction of sex toys into their self care or relationships, that intimacy and sexual exploration has been made possible.


Sex toys, with the help of brands like Hot Octopuss, have evolved considerably over time in recognising the need for sexual aids and sex toys. Specifically designed for people with physical disabilities or serious health conditions, sex and disability are no longer a myth or an attempt at the near impossible.


Desir has carefully curated a category of products that allow persons with disabilities to opt for a selection of sex toys that promise sexual exploration and the option of a fulfillling sex life. Physical impairment or physical disabilities should not restrict your ability to be mentally and physically stimulated.


Whilst penetrative sex is not always possible, Desir’s products for people with disabilities include male masturbators, hands free strap on harnesses, penis rings to assist with erectile dysfunction, and ergonomically designed rabbit vibrators and bullet vibrators.


Bullet vibrators are ideal for precise clitoral or g-spot massage, and even for nipple and penis play and are a great start for beginners looking to add adult toys into their sex life. For products that assist with sex positions, look for adaptive equipment like sex swings or even harnesses that offer added support and comfort to the hips and back.


For those that are not quite ready to introduce a sex toy to the bedroom, start by exploring with a good water-based or silicone-based lubricant that could assist with masturbation or even oral sex. Massage candles or massage glides are also the perfect way to offer your partner intimate sensory play.


Bearing an intellectual or physical disability does not mean the end to a fulfilling sex life and with so many ways in which to continue enjoying sex, you are now able to incorporate your imagination, sex toys, bondage, and restraints into your sex life and health care.


You may have to approach sexual activity differently, but with Desir’s access to carefully curated products and a panel of medical experts to assist, you have the ability to make your own informed choices regarding your physical and emotional health.

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    Set of 3 Crystal Yoni Eggs - Yoni Eggs

    Yoni Eggs
    Setof3
    R1,199
    Yoni Eggs, or more commonly known Jade Eggs, have been used for thousands of years as part of traditional medicine. Today the practice of inserting a Jade or Yoni Egg into the vagina, offers a myriad of benefits that not only incorporate medical advantages but also healing properties on an energetic level. By using a Yoni egg daily, blood and lymph flow...
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      Liberty Clitoral Stimulator - Womanizer

      Womanizer
      BO DP 4251460611015/046/022/039
      R2,099
      The Liberty - the latest release by Womanizer -  is a small, lightweight clitoral stimulator that now offers a super silent motor, and a uniquely designed cover, making it the perfect companion no matter where you are.With the incredible and award winning Air Pleasure technology, the Womanizer is designed to stimulate your clitoris by barely touching it...
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        Liberty by Lily Allen Clitoral Stimulator - Womanizer

        Womanizer
        BO DP 4251460606479
        R2,199
        The Liberty - the latest release by Womanizer -  is a small, lightweight clitoral stimulator that now offers a super silent motor, and a uniquely designed cover, making it the perfect companion no matter where you are.With the incredible and award winning Air Pleasure technology, the Womanizer is designed to stimulate your clitoris by barely touching it...
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          Womanizer Silver Delights Collection - Womanizer

          Womanizer
          BO DP4251460605816
          R4,299
          The Silver Delights Collection by Womanizer is a limited edition collection featuring two of your favourite products in one gorgeous gift pack. Featuring the Womanizer Premium clitoral suction vibrator and the We-Vibe Tango bullet vibrator, this set is perfect for women looking for intense clitoral stimulation whether it be for solo or couples play and...
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            Romp Free Clitoral Stimulator - ROMP

            Womanizer
            BO DP4251460600965
            R929
            Romp Free is a clitoral stimulator designed using the incredible pleasure air technology - giving you multiple orgasms again and again. Designed specifically for clitoral stimulation, the Romp Free uses subtle changes in air pressure that mimic a sucking and pulling sensation. With 10 intensity levels, you are able to experience intense pleasure without...
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              Premium 2 Clitoral Stimulator - Womanizer

              Womanizer
              BO DP4251460615525
              R4,499
              The Womanizer Premium 2 is the upgraded version of the bestselling clitoral stimulator.  With the same groundbreaking pleasure air technology, autopilot and smart silence technology, the difference for this clitoral stimulator is the added intensity levels and smooth delivery - making your experience of multiple orgasms easier than ever before. The...
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                Starlet 3 Clitoral Stimulator - Womanizer

                Womanizer
                BO DP 4251460616416
                R1,699
                The Womanizer Starlet 3 is the upgraded version of the bestselling lightweight and compact clitoral stimulator.  The Starlet 3 is perfect for those looking to explore the world of pleasure air technology and are looking for a discreet and compact stimulator. With 6 varied intensity levels, the Starlet produces alternating waves of pressure that produce...
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                  Chorus Couples Vibrator - We-Vibe

                  We Vibe
                  BO DP 4251460604345/21/38/16331/16348
                  R4,299
                  The Chorus by We-Vibe is being hailed as the most intuitive couples vibrator ever. Featuring an adjustable fit, touch-responsive controls, and hands-free vibrations, simultaneous orgasms have never been easier to achieve. Chorus is an ergonomically designed couples vibrator designed to be worn by the female. With a small flattened arm that rests...
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                    We Vibe
                    BO DP 839289000919
                    R2,699
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                      Tom of Finland Clear Realistic Penis Enhancer - Tom of Finland Tools

                      Tom of Finland
                      BO DP 848518020499
                      R1,199
                      The Tom of Finland range is based on the world renowned artist Tom of Finland's fetish art. With alluring images of hyper masculine men, Tom's leatherman, bikers, cowboys, cops, and lumberjacks all form part of these iconic symbols and illustrations. With each product within the range featuring a collector's card, you are able to enjoy Tom's work and...
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                        Tom of Finland Heavy Duty Penis Pump - Tom of Finland Tools

                        Tom of Finland
                        BO DP 848518026545
                        R3,499
                        The Tom of Finland range is based on the world renowned artist Tom of Finland's fetish art. With alluring images of hyper masculine men, Tom's leatherman, bikers, cowboys, cops, and lumberjacks all form part of these iconic symbols and illustrations. With each product within the range featuring a collector's card, you are able to enjoy Tom's work and...
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                          Tenga
                          BO DP 4560220555873/66
                          R899
                          The Flex masturbation sleeve by Tenga is a uniquely designed masturbation sleeve featuring a spiral-ribbed design that twists, sucks and flexes as you thrust.In a gorgeously designed malleable casing, the Flex features a lid type cover, that when removed reveals the soft and realistically textured spiraling sleeve inner. Simply remove the cap, insert your...
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                            Tenga
                            BO DP 4560220557426
                            R1,899
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                            Tenga
                            BO DP 4570030972685
                            R1,199
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                              Pillow Talk Cheeky Petite & Powerful Wand Vibrator - Swan

                              Swan
                              BO DP 677613267191/60
                              R1,499
                              The new Pillow Talk range from luxury erotic toy manufacturers BMS Factory is sure to prove as popular as their Swan and Palmpower toys. BMS adult toys are known for their powerful motors and beautiful silicone finish, and the Pillow Talk Cheeky Wand Massager is no exception. The PowerBullet™ motor in the head of this vibrating massage wand is strong,...
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                                Swan
                                BO DP 677613305282
                                R1,699
                                The Swan PalmPower personal massager has a deserved reputation as one of the most powerful and compact massage wands available. This plug-in version gives you all the power equal to that of a super-charged vibrator. The PalmPower features a cleverly tapered handle that is easy to hold while you guide the head to the perfect position. The flexible neck...
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                                  Swan
                                  BO DP 677613571533/2/9
                                  R529
                                  This PowerBullet by Swan is an absolute must have for anyone look for discreet, long-lasting pocket-sized power.Measuring in at a petite 7cm's, this powerfull bullet vibrator offers an incredible 9 functions that are deep, rumbling, and intense when you need it. With one press button, you are able to navigate your way through each of the 9 intensities...
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                                    Swan
                                    BO DP 677613308283
                                    R799
                                    The Swan PalmPocket is a travel-sized, super-charged mini massage wand that delivers intense power where you need it, when you need it. Providing phenomenal intensity that sends relaxing sensations throughout your body, this palm sized wand vibrator offers 7 functions and intense powerbullet vibrations. USB rechargeable this vibrator is compatible with...
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                                      Swan
                                      BO DP 677613309112/280
                                      R2,399
                                      The PalmPower Extreme body wand is a powerful and versatile massage wand designed for all-over body and intimate massage. Rechargeable and water-resistant, this wand features an elongated arm and flexible swivel neck allowing you to position the broad based silicone head on either your body's muscular pressure points or to deliver powerful vibrations to...
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                                        Swan
                                        BO DP 677613895165/58
                                        R359
                                        The Simple & True finger extender by Swan is a flexible silicone finger sleeve designed to give you a bit of extra length to reach all of the right spots. Perfect for g-spot and p-spot massage, the extra touch features a slight curve with several bulbous points for extra stimulation. Made from super-soft silicone, you are able to easily insert your...
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                                          Emma Mini Wand Vibrator - Svakom

                                          Svakom
                                          CON SV SVA-02MPMR/VLT
                                          R1,299
                                          The Emma mini wand by Svakom, is a powerful mini wand designed for women who prefer medium or small sized massagers. With 6 vibration modes and a powerful motor, this wand features a flexible vibrating head that stimulates the entire vulva area, or allows for a powerful all-over body massage. Stimulating even the deepest of vaginal nerve endings, the head...
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                                            Candy Kissing Mouth Clitoral Vibrator - Svakom

                                            Svakom
                                            CON SV S4-Blue
                                            R1,899
                                            The Candy 'Kissing Mouth' Vibrator is a uniquely designed clitoral vibrator that features soft luscious type lips that gently caress and flutter against your clitoris.With it's super-soft silicone texture, this petite massager is perfect for beginners or for those that require clitoral stimulation during penetration in order to orgasm. With it's 3 varied...
                                            Daisy Powerful Mini Vibrator - Svakom
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                                              Daisy Powerful Mini Vibrator - Svakom

                                              Svakom
                                              CON SV SLS-02-GRN
                                              R1,299
                                              The Daisy mini clitoral vibrator by Svakom, is a powerful yet petite vibrator that delivers 3 powerful intensities to where you need it most.Use it directly on your clitoris for intense stimulation, or use this mini-vibe on any of your erogenous zones for increased sensitivity and foreplay, whether it be your nipples, your vulva, or even his perineum....
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                                                Tyler Vibrating Couples Penis Ring - Svakom

                                                Svakom
                                                CON SV SRING-01-VLT
                                                R1,599
                                                The Tyler penis ring, is a vibrating cock-ring designed for couples play - encouraging clitoral stimulation during penetration, and simultaneous orgasms.With it's super soft silicone texture, this penis ring offers an incredibly stretchy fit that is offers a one-size-fits-most in diameter. With a circular broad-based noduled head vibrator situated at the...
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