RESTRAINTS, CUFFS & HARNESSES

The ultimate BDSM must-have essential - perfect for pros and beginners alike - giving you the ultimate experience of submission and control.


Desir’s Light bondage restraints, cuffs, and harnesses form part of the bondage discipline of dominance and submission. Whether you are experienced in the bdsm lifestyle, or you prefer vanilla sex, these carefully curated BDSM products are suitable for both.


With light bondage play seeing a rise in popularity thanks to the Fifty Shades of Grey trilogy, brands have jumped on board to offer you the best products to form part of your bdsm play. From wrist and ankle restraints, to satin ties and harnesses, use these role play type products to restrain your partner into a submissive position that awaits exquisite pleasure.


For a more sophisticated form of restraint, explore the world of Shibari Japanese Rope bondage using the careful positioning of ropes and the specific placement of knots to stimulate your partner’s pressure points and release a multitude of pleasure invoking hormones and endorphins.


With so many restraint options available, remember that bondage play should be a safe, consensual practice that allows for submission and control, but most importantly pleasure.

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Desir Metallique Mesh Handcuffs - Bijoux Desir Metallique Mesh...
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Desir Metallique Mesh Handcuffs - Bijoux

Bijoux
BO 8436562010126
R529
These versatile metallic handcuffs by Bijoux are the perfect accessory whether you choose to wear them as sexy bracelets or as part of your light bondage play. With removable chains, these handcuffs can be worn either as bracelets or handcuffs. Beautifully designed black chain mesh completes the cuff look, giving it an edgy yet sophisticated feel when...
Light Bondage

My First Pleasure Tape - LoveToy

ST Pleasure Tape 06.01.2020
R115
My First Pleasure Tape in baby pink or black is a non-sticky bondage tape that is designed to only stick to itself. Taking your BDSM light bondage play to the next level, this bondage tape allows you to restrain your partner safely and comfortably, without leaving any sticky residue behind. Ideal for beginners and novice bondage players, this pleasure...
Faux Fur Leatherette Cuffs - Lux Fetish Faux Fur Leatherette Cuffs - Lux Fetish
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Light Bondage

Faux Fur Leatherette Cuffs - Lux Fetish

Lux Fetish
BO4890808110515 D05.12.19
R429
These sexy faux fur cuffs by Lux Fetish are a versatile set of unisex cuffs perfect for either ankle or wrist restraint.With a sturdy leatherette material, the inner of the cuffs promise a soft, faux fur finish that give your submissive comfort whilst being restrained. With a completely adjustable buckle detail, the cuffs can be tightened or loosened...
Bed Spreader - Lux Fetish Bed Spreader - Lux Fetish
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Light Bondage

Bed Spreader - Lux Fetish

Lux Fetish
BO4890808042823 D28.01.2020
R999
This luxury bed spreader by Lux Fetish is a versatile restraint kit that allows you to explore gentle restraint and light bondage play.Fitting just about any bed, this spreader features sturdy, extra length straps that fit underneath your mattress, headboard, or frame. With four soft neoprene cuffs, you are able to connect your straps to the sturdy swivel...
Fetish Collar & Leash - Lux Fetish Fetish Collar & Leash - Lux Fetish
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Light Bondage

Fetish Collar & Leash - Lux Fetish

Lux Fetish
BO4890808042847 D.05.2019
R379
This collar and leash set by Lux Fetish is perfect for submissive and control light bondage play.Fully adjustable for maximum comfort, the collar has quality velcro fastening allowing for secure play and easy removal. With it's black unisex design, complimented with silver rings, this collar features a detachable leash of 1.5m. Use your collar and leash...
Deluxe Inflatable Wedge & Cuff Bondage Kit - Steamy Shades Deluxe Inflatable Wedge & Cuff Bondage Kit - Steamy Shades
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Light Bondage

Deluxe Inflatable Wedge & Cuff Bondage Kit - Steamy Shades

Steamy Shades
BO4041937579296 D06.01.2020
R1,499
The Deluxe Steamy Shades Inflatable wedge and cuff set is the ultimate set to allow you to explore new sexual positions combining light bondage play.With a large inflatable wedge made from strong plastic and reinforced seams, you are able to explore any position from doggy style to missionary thanks to it's unique non-slip design. With a set of...
Wrist to Ankle Cuffs - Steamy Shades Wrist to Ankle Cuffs - Steamy Shades
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Light Bondage

Wrist to Ankle Cuffs - Steamy Shades

Steamy Shades
BO4041937579067 D16.07.2019
R599
The Wrist to Ankle cuffs by Steamy Shades are a unique set of adjustable cuffs that allow you to position your partner into a multitude of positions including the HogTie.In a gorgeous black and grey design, these cuffs feature a secure hook and loop velcro closure. Simply attach them securely to the wrists, adjust the velcro strap as tight or as loose as...
Under the Bed Ties - Steamy Shades Under the Bed Ties - Steamy Shades
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Light Bondage

Under the Bed Ties - Steamy Shades

Steamy Shades
BO4041937579104 D14.01.2020
R949
These Under the Bed ties by Steamy Shades fit any bed and tuck underneath your mattress for full body restraint.Adjusting to fit any bed easily, these ties have a strap to the center that connect the restraints and a D-ring for effortless setup. With satin ties that feature a delicate printed overlay, these restraints are comfortable to wear, soft to the...
Bondage Rope Set (3 Piece) - Bad Kitty Bondage Rope Set (3 Piece) - Bad Kitty
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Light Bondage

Bondage Rope Set (3 Piece) - Bad Kitty

Bad Kitty
BO8119 M21.01.2020
R699
This bondage rope set by Bad Kitty, is a 3 piece rope set featuring three plaited bondage ropes that are 100% cotton.With one rope measuring in at 20m, and the other two at 3m, you have more than enough to allow you to enjoy traditional shibari bondage sessions. With their soft finish, these cotton ropes can be bound tightly and remain firmly in place....
Suction Cuffs - Steamy Shades Suction Cuffs - Steamy Shades
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Light Bondage

Suction Cuffs - Steamy Shades

Steamy Shades
BO4041937579050 D011018
R499
These suction cuffs by Steamy Shades are designed specifically for secure fastening onto smooth surfaces. Lightly padded for comfort and beautifully finished in a luxurious lace overlay, these cuffs feature a hook and loop fastener and are perfect for experimenting with light bondage play.
Love Sling for Easy Positioning - Steamy Shades Love Sling for Easy Positioning | Steamy Shades
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Light Bondage

Love Sling for Easy Positioning - Steamy Shades

Steamy Shades
BO4041937579319 D27.08.2019
R649
This Love Sling by Steamy Shades is the perfect tool to help support your neck and thighs for perfect positioning allowing you to hit your favourite spots easily.  Experience the ultimate in erotic fantasies together with your partner and achieve positions effortlessly.With it's adjustable straps and soft padded straps, the love sling works perfectly...
Fifty Shades Freed Want to Play Silk Bondage Rope - Fifty Shades of Grey Fifty Shades Freed Want to Play Silk Bondage Rope - Fifty Shades of Grey
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Light Bondage

Fifty Shades Freed Want to Play Silk Bondage Rope - Fifty Shades of Grey

Fifty Shades of Grey
BO5060493003495 D24.01.2020
R399
This gorgeously silky bondage rope by Fifty Shades Freed is a soft, luxurious, triple-twisted rope perfect for erotic shibari play. In a rich purple tone and a silky soft finish, this bondage rope is soft enough for beginners but long and sophisticated enough for more experienced players. With 10 metres in total, you have ample to explore the art and...
Maze Leatherlook H-Harness - Bijoux
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Light Bondage

Maze Leatherlook H-Harness - Bijoux

Bijoux
BO8436562011307 D17.01.2020
R1,199
Add a little sensual submission to your bedroom look with this BDSM-inspired H-harness by Bijoux. The Maze range of trendy bedroom accessories is a nod to the S&M styles currently dominating the catwalks. It supports and accentuates the breasts and leaves the back sensually bare. Pair it with a lace panty and nipple caps for a more playful look, or let it...
Maze Thin Neck Choker with Tassle Flogger - Bijoux Maze Tassle Choker - Bijoux
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Light Bondage

Maze Thin Neck Choker with Tassle Flogger - Bijoux

Bijoux
BO8436562011185 D14.01.2020
R749
The Maze tassled choker by Bijoux is a gorgeous leather look choker which features a tassle attachment - perfect for light bondage play and seduction. Adjustable with a buckle at the back of your neck, the tassle choker can either be worn as a bold necklace or can double up as a leash type collar for safe BDSM play. 100% vegan, this soft leatherlook...
Maze Thin Leatherlook Handcuffs - Bijoux Maze Thin Leatherlook Handcuffs - Bijoux
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Light Bondage

Maze Thin Leatherlook Handcuffs - Bijoux

Bijoux
BO8436562011147 D18.12.19
R649
The Maze handcuffs by Bijoux Indiscrets are beautifully crafted 100% adjustable leatherlook cuffs inspired by classic BDSM.With their thin chain you are able to place both cuffs on the same wrist to wear as a fashion accessory, or you are able to remove one end and attach it to your other wrist to use as traditional restraining handcuffs. Pair these cuffs...
Maze Wide Leather-Look Choker with Leash - Bijoux Maze Wide Choker with Leash - Bijoux
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Light Bondage

Maze Wide Leather-Look Choker with Leash - Bijoux

Bijoux
BO8436562011123 D150119
R799
The Bijoux wide choker with leash is the perfect necklace for your boldest outfits. Attach the necklace to the leash and use this versatile choker for submissive BDSM play. 100% adjustable, this buckled choker is detacheable and can be used a a bold necklace or bondage accessory. 100% vegan, this choker is made from recycled materials and is available in...
Positioning Set - Steamy Shades Positioning Set - Steamy Shades
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Light Bondage

Positioning Set - Steamy Shades

Steamy Shades
BO4041937579227 D06.01.2020
R1,699
This Steamy Shades Positioning Kit is pretty and feminine for an erotic boudoir feel, but it’s tough enough to meet the needs of a more experienced kinky player. The bed restraint kit is adjustable and versatile, with strong satin ties that will work on different sized wrists and ankles. The Door Jam Closet Cuffs give you a go-anywhere option to...
Bondage Kit - Steamy Shades Bondage Set - Steamy Shades
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Light Bondage

Bondage Kit - Steamy Shades

Steamy Shades
4041937579210 D06.01.2020
R1,899
This set from Steamy Shades covers all your basics for exploring bedroom bondage. All the pieces of the set are high quality and beautifully finished with a black lace detail that gives them an erotically feminine look. You’ll find a blindfold, wrist restraints, a length of silk rope, a feather tickler, nipple clamps, collar and leash and a riding crop in...
Bondage Collar, Leash & Nipple Clamps - Steamy Shades Bondage Collar, Leash & Nipple Clamps - Steamy Shades
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Light Bondage

Bondage Collar, Leash & Nipple Clamps - Steamy Shades

Steamy Shades
BO4041937579142 D09.10.2019
R779
The collar, leash and nipple clamp set by Steamy Shades is the ultimate bondage kit. In a gorgeous grey and black lace detail, this stunning collar with it's padded finish has a matching leash which is detacheable allowing you the ultimate control. With adjustable nipple clamps, you can tighten the fit according to your pain or sensory threshold, allowing...
HogTie Adjustable Ankle and Wrist Restraining Set - Steamy Shades HogTie Set - Steamy Shades
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Light Bondage

HogTie Adjustable Ankle and Wrist Restraining Set - Steamy Shades

Steamy Shades
BO4041937579098 D05.12.19
R349
The Hogtie set by Steamy Shades is a one size fits most restraining set designed to fit your wrists and ankles. Featuring a secure hook and loop tape system for the fastening of the straps, you are able to unfasten these ties quickly and easily when you need to, whilst the durable central metal ring keeps the straps in position whilst you and your partner...
Slap & Tickle Beginners BDSM Kit with Soft Tip Bullet Vibrator - Rocks Off Slap & Tickle Set for Couples - Rocks Off
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Light Bondage

Slap & Tickle Beginners BDSM Kit with Soft Tip Bullet Vibrator - Rocks Off

Rocks off
BO7016 M26.02.19
R1,299
Get a little naughty with this Slap & Tickle set, and explore the kinky side of life. This sexy set is a perfect way to add just a touch of BDSM to your bedroom without bringing out the bullwhip. The Rocks-Off Slap & Tickle Beginners S&M Kit contains a pair of soft wrist restraints, a satin blindfold, a sexy feather tickler, a small riding crop, and...
Soft Fetish 5 Piece Bondage Set - Bad Kitty
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Light Bondage

Soft Fetish 5 Piece Bondage Set - Bad Kitty

Bad Kitty
BO8118 M19.12.19
R899
The Bad Kitty Bondage set in hot pink is the perfect set to get your started on exploring your fetish side. A 5 piece set consisting of a pink and black eye mask, a velour leather whip (30cm), an ostrich feather tickler, a spanking paddle, and a set of handcuffs, ensure you have all you need to practice your and your partner's limits. Use your favourite...
Bondage Tape - XXDreamsToys
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Light Bondage

Bondage Tape - XXDreamsToys

BO4041937541040 D20.01.2020
R199
This 20m bondage tape is perfect for bondage games not requiring knots or adhesive. Sticking only to itself and not your skin or hair, this tape is skin friendly and a black wide finish. Remember to practise safe play and have a scissor ready for quick release.
Fluffy Love Handcuffs - XXDreamsToys Fluffy Love Handcuffs - ST Rubber
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Light Bondage

Fluffy Love Handcuffs - XXDreamsToys

BO4041937542139 d100919
R302
These fluffy handcuffs are the perfect accessory to your light bondage play. With the playful fur, these handcuffs can be used as either wrist or ankle restraints. With removeable fur, these handcuffs are easy to clean and are diverse enough to be used for either male or female play. Remember to play safely!
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