LUBRICANTS

DESIR’S LUBRICANTS ARE DESIGNED TO INCREASE YOUR COMFORT AND CONFIDENCE DURING SEXUAL INTIMACY AND YOUR DAY TO DAY LIVING.


With a vast range of both international and local lubricants available on the South African market today, it’s often overwhelming, let alone confusing on which one to purchase and why. From water-based and silicone, to vegan and oil-based, the types of lubricants available on the market today are endless.


Coupled with the misconception that vaginal dryness equals disinterest or lack of arousal, many individuals or couples choose to hide their discomfort, or refrain from sex altogether - compromising not only their wants and needs, but also their sexual health and safety.

Lubrication 101

Typically, the walls of the vagina remain lubricated with a thin layer of moisture, primarily supported by the hormone estrogen. This, and the constant production of estrogen, maintain a level of elasticity, thickness and moisture in the vaginal walls. According to WEBMD however, many women may experience a gradual decline in the amount of moisture their vagina produces due to a number of reasons. Menopause, medication, age, and hormonal imbalances all play a vital part in the level of moisture found in the vagina, dispelling the myth that your level of lubrication is directly related to your arousal level.


It is here that the inclusion of a good, body-safe lubricant is vital to reduce friction and irritation, and promotes the healthy maintenance and protection of the healthy tissue in your vaginal walls.ISSM states that in addition, many women simply prefer more lubrication than what their body may provide.

With brands like Pjur, We-Vibe, Durex, Joy Division, and Intimate Earth, and the increase of online sexual health stores, lubricants for both men and women have never been more accessible.


Water Based lubricants - best for sex toys!

Most popular are water based for use with adult sex toys. Unable to penetrate the silicone of your sex toys, water based lubes not only protect against disintegration of your adult toy, but also moisturise and nourish your skin. With an aqua based ingredients list, water based lubes are inexpensive and easy to find. With a limited viscosity (meaning they are not always long-lasting), water based lubes require regular re-application and are easy to wash off. Designed mostly for those with more sensitive skin, water based lubricants are an obvious choice for those looking for a more natural lubricating alternative or for the inclusion of sex toys in your sex life.


Silicone based lubricants

If it’s viscosity and long-lasting lubrication that you’re after, then silicone silicone based are for you. With a more concentrated formula, silicone based lubes are not recommended for use with silicone toys due to the degradation of the silicone material over time. Thicker in it’s consistency, silicone is long-lasting and forms a protective barrier on your skin making it perfect for anal sex, massage, or masturbation. Silicone lubricants specifically designed for anal sex include anti-bacterial, and relaxing properties to assist with comfort during penetration whilst protecting your skin barrier at the same time. Silicone lubes have an oilier base, making it less easy to wash off and can sometimes act as an irritant for women when not washed off immediately.


Best of both

For the best of both worlds, hybrid lubricants refer to a combination and water and silicone. These are safe for use on your sex toys, are not as thick as a traditional silicone lube, and ofter the hydrating benefits of water based lubricants.


Choosing a lubricant is a personal decision, and should be based on the person’s required outcome. If it’s day to day lubrication that you are after, look for the more women friendly water based lubes that are designed to offer a more natural result based on day to day use.


For a lubricant that offers a thicker protective barrier opt for silicone based lubricants - but remember lubricants are not a preventative method against sexually transmitted infections and not all lubricants are condom friendly.


Oil based lubes should be avoided. Their long list of unnatural ingredients as well as the incompatibility with latex condoms often lead to the transmission of sexually transmitted infections, and allergic skin complications.

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Aqua Heat Water-Based Warming Lubricant - Wicked

Wicked
133163
R249
Wicked's Aqua Heat water based warming lubricant is a must have if you enjoy spicing things up in the bedroom. A unique blend of elements will thrill your erogenous zones with pleasure while the advanced formula enhances personal moisture.  Made with natural extracts of Cinnamon Bark, Clove, Ginger Root and Olive Leaf, Wicked Aqua Heat is gentle for all...
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Aqua Chill Water-Based Cooling Lubricant - Wicked

Wicked
133164
R249
Wicked's Aqua Chill is a water-based lubricant with a cooling sensation. This superior quality lubricant provides you with a tingling, heightened sensual experience specifically created to assist in full sensitivity.  With it's thrilling waves of natural peppermint leaf, ginger root and menthol, Aqua Chill is perfect if you want to feel everything.It is...
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Premium Silicone Based Lubricant - Promescent

Promescent
PromSilicone
R379
The Promescent Premium Silicone based lubricant is ideal for longer lasting sex, masturbation or water play. With a thicker viscosity than that of a water-based lubricant, Promescent silicone lube is long-lasting, odourless, colourless, and paraben-free. Designed to reduce friction and increase your overall comfort during intercourse or masturbation,...
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Premium Water Based Lubricant - Promescent

Promescent
PromWater
R329
The Promescent water based lubricant is a premium lube designed to experience enhanced comfort and glide during intimacy - with or without an intimate product.  100% paraben-free, odourless, colourless, and non-sticky, the Promescent water lubricant is made with top-quality body-safe ingredients and assists with every day comfort, reduced friction,...
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Liquid Gold Rooibos Infused Water Based Lubricant - Liquid Gold

LiquidGold
R299
Liquid Gold is a rooibos infused water-based lubricant that is 100% organic, plant-based and chemical-free. Proudly South African, this lubricant contains only the highest quality of ingredients and offers a nourishing and moisturising effect that leaves you feeling silky soft. With it's rooibos infusion, you are offered a premium vegan-friendly...
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Water based Lubricating Gel For Women - Brunel

LUBET
R79
The Brunel water-based lubricant is an intimate personal lube designed for women with sensitive skin who are looking to support feminine moisture. Made from a combination of premium ingredients, this lubricant offers a non-sticky, non-greasy, pH balanced, alcohol-free and fragrance-free alternative to enhance and stimulate your natural moisture levels....
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Femolene Lubricating Vaginal Spray - Femolene

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R179
This intimate and lubricating vaginal spray by Femolene has been designed to promote vaginal health and lubrication. Formulated using a powerful combination of 300 million colony forming units (probiotics) made up of Lactobacillus gasteri, Lactobacillus acidophilus, and Lactobacillus rhamnosus, this lubricating spray alleviates vaginal dryness, reduces...
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GynaGuard Daily Intimate Comfort Gel - GynaGuard

Gynaguard
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R89
This intimate gel by Gynaguard is a light and non-greasy gel designed for everyday use to eliminate symptoms of irritation, discomfort, and odour control. Dermatologically and gynaecologically tested, this intimate gel designed for vaginal use is light enough that it can be used everyday and applied as frequently as you require. Water based it is...
On the Go Dermo-Sensitive Lubricant (Singles) - Le Lube
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On the Go Dermo-Sensitive Lubricant (Singles) - Le Lube

LeLubeSingle
R19
Le Lube is a silky water-based and alcohol-free lubricant that is packaged in a convenient snap sachet, making this a non-mess and convenient alternative to bulky or bottled lubes.  With the combination of it's Aloe Vera and non-irritating and dermo sensitive formula, Le Lube is PH balanced and low in osmality, thereby maintaining the body's natural...
On the Go Dermo-Sensitive Lubricant (Pack of 7) - Le Lube
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On the Go Dermo-Sensitive Lubricant (Pack of 7) - Le Lube

LeLubeOnTheGo
R119
Le Lube is a silky water-based and alcohol-free lubricant that is packaged in a convenient snap sachet, making this a non-mess and convenient alternative to bulky or bottled lubes.  With the combination of it's Aloe Vera and non-irritating and dermo sensitive formula, Le Lube is PH balanced and low in osmality, thereby maintaining the body's natural...
Ultre Fragrance Free Silicone Based Intimate Lubricant - Wicked
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Ultra Fragrance Free Silicone Based Intimate Lubricant - Wicked

Wicked
WickedUltra
R279
Ultra Silicone Lubricant by Wicked is luxuriously sensuous and long lasting. This high performance, velvety smooth formula will enhance pleasure without feeling heavy, greasy or tacky. Formulated with the highest quality silicone available in the personal care market. Ultra Fragrance Free contains no additives or fillers for an exceptionally silky feel....
Aqua Fragrance Free Water Based Intimate Lubricant - Wicked
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Aqua Fragrance Free Water Based Intimate Lubricant - Wicked

Wicked
WickedAqua
R199
This water-based lubricant by Wicked, is a completely safe, fragrance-free, preservative free lubricant designed for the more sensitive skin.  Perfect for every day lubricant for women who suffer from dryness, for use with your intimate products and for both vaginal and anal sex, this non-sticky, hydrating formulation leaves your skin feeling silk...
Creme Masturbation Cream For Men - Wicked
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Creme Masturbation Cream For Men - Wicked

Wicked
WickedCreme
R249
Peak your sensations and intensify your pleasure with Creme Masturbation Cream for Men. This unique, oil-based, intimate lubricant is essential for private moments. Experience the transformation as the fortified, nourishing cream, melts with the warmth of your body into a non-greasy liquid lube. The superior glide of Vitamin E enriched Creme is sensually...
XES Sensual Cannabis Vaginal & Clitoral Stimulating Serum - XES
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XES Sensual Cannabis Vaginal & Clitoral Stimulating Serum - XES

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XES 28.10.19
R1,199
XES Sensual CBD lubricant is a stimulating cannabis serum designed to offer erogenous stimulation to the vagina and clitoral area.Designed using a blend of cannabidoids, XES Sensual Serum compliments the neurochemistry associated with libido, pleasure, and sensation derived in the human endocannabinoid system. With it's relaxing and anti-inflammatory...
Pjur Woman Aloe Nourishing Water Based Lubricant - Pjur
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Pjur Woman Aloe Nourishing Water Based Lubricant - Pjur

Pjur
BO827160113162
R379
The Pjur Woman Aloe formulae is a intimate care premium lubricant formulated with natural aloe vera extracts.Aloe Vera nourishes and soothes the skin whilst increasing it's elasticity at the same time. PH optimised, the Aloe Vera water based lubricant does not alter your PH levels and with only vegetable glycerin, it is paraben and paraffin free, making...
Pjur Woman Vegan Water Based Lubricant - Pjur
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Pjur Woman Vegan Water Based Lubricant - Pjur

Pjur
BO827160113155 D06.07.20
R379
The Pjur Woman Vegan lubricant is a premium water based personal lubricant with 100% vegan ingredients and no animal by-products. Made without parabens, paraffins, and glycerins, this PH optimised lube is also free of fragrances, colourings and gluten. Highly concentrated with very good coverage, this water-based lube is perfect for moisturising your skin...
Oske Water Based Lubricant - Oske
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Oske Water Based Lubricant - Oske

OSKE 12.12.19
R179
This gorgeous OSKE Lubricant is a gentle water based lube that has been specifically created for women.Manufactured in a pharmaceutical facility and developed to compliment the female physiology, this 96% organic lube is free from fragrance, alcohol, and sugar, and is packed with natural preservatives. Containing aloe vera, xanthan gum, citric...
Analyse Me Comfort Water-Based Anal Glide - Pjur
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Analyse Me Comfort Water-Based Anal Glide - Pjur

Pjur
BO827160110130 D10.03.20
R429
The Pjur Water Based Anal Comfort Glide is an anal lubricant that has the same silky effect as a silicone lube, but offers a water-based formulae with extra moisturizing hyaluron.Lasting longer than traditional water-based lubricants, this anal lube features the unique hyaluron that locks moisture in preventing the lube from drying out quickly. Softening...
Pjur MED Sensitive Glide - Pjur
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Pjur MED Sensitive Glide - Pjur

Pjur
BO827160111137 D06.01.2020
R429
The Pjur MED Sensitive Glide is a lubricant formulated free of glycerins, parabens, and preservatives and is ideal for more sensitive users.With it's neutral formulation, Pjur MED Sensitive glide has been formulated specifically with very sensitive genital mucous membranes in mind. With it's pureistic formula, this lube has been made as neutral as...
Clinica Water-based Lubricating Jelly - Clinica
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Clinica Water-based Lubricating Jelly - Clinica

720537 11.07.2019
R79
The Clinica Water-based and condom-safe lubricant is a universal sterile lubricant originally designed for gynaecological examinations and general medical procedures. With it's puristic and 100% body-safe formulae, this lubricant is ideal for intimate use and contains no harmful or synthetic products.With active ingredients in the form of herbal extracts,...
Cannabis Unisex Pleasure Lubricant - Oh! Holy Mary
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Cannabis Unisex Pleasure Lubricant - Oh! Holy Mary

HolMaryLube 200120
R549
Oh! Holy Mary Cannabis sliding gel is a lubricating gel formulated from the cannabis sativa seed oil, which when applied produces a mild heating effect.Combined with it's intense moisturising properties, this lubricant is rich in essential fatty acids and is PH safe. Containing no THC, this lube is formulated for the extra slip effect and is long-lasting...
Cult Dressing Aid & Conditioner - Pjur
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Cult Dressing Aid & Conditioner - Pjur

Pjur
BO827160100230
R479
Pjur has developed a unique formulae specifically for wearers of latex and rubber clothing.A far easier substitute to body powder, Pjur's Cult dressing aid helps you slip easily into your tight-fitting fetish clothes, even if you have a lot of body hair. Protecting and maintaining the durability and suppleness of the material at the same time and...
Max Out Jelqing Enhancement Serum - Bathmate
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Max Out Jelqing Enhancement Serum - Bathmate

Bathmate
BO 5060140200505 D18.06.20
R699
Bathmate's Jelq Max Out serum is a unique formulae designed to assist with the traditional technique of Jelqing - a massage method to increase your penis size.Believed to increase the size of your erection, Jelqing involves massaging your penis in a way which stretches and improves blood flow. The technique, derived from the Middle East, is best used with...
Back Door Comfort Water-Based Anal Glide - Pjur
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Back Door Comfort Water-Based Anal Glide - Pjur

Pjur
BO827160110147 D27.05.20
R399
The Back Door Comfort Glide by Pjur is a hyaluron based formula designed to bind water molecules together - giving you a longer-lasting and more comfortable anal experience.Safe to use with condoms, this extra-moisturising lubricant is perfect for intensive anal intercourse and will not dry out thanks to it's high viscosity. Non-sticky, odourless, and...
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