LUBRICANTS

DESIR’S LUBRICANTS ARE DESIGNED TO INCREASE YOUR COMFORT AND CONFIDENCE DURING SEXUAL INTIMACY AND YOUR DAY TO DAY LIVING.


With a vast range of both international and local lubricants available on the South African market today, it’s often overwhelming, let alone confusing on which one to purchase and why. From water-based and silicone, to vegan and oil-based, the types of lubricants available on the market today are endless.


Coupled with the misconception that vaginal dryness equals disinterest or lack of arousal, many individuals or couples choose to hide their discomfort, or refrain from sex altogether - compromising not only their wants and needs, but also their sexual health and safety.

Lubrication 101

Typically, the walls of the vagina remain lubricated with a thin layer of moisture, primarily supported by the hormone estrogen. This, and the constant production of estrogen, maintain a level of elasticity, thickness and moisture in the vaginal walls. According to WEBMD however, many women may experience a gradual decline in the amount of moisture their vagina produces due to a number of reasons. Menopause, medication, age, and hormonal imbalances all play a vital part in the level of moisture found in the vagina, dispelling the myth that your level of lubrication is directly related to your arousal level.


It is here that the inclusion of a good, body-safe lubricant is vital to reduce friction and irritation, and promotes the healthy maintenance and protection of the healthy tissue in your vaginal walls.ISSM states that in addition, many women simply prefer more lubrication than what their body may provide.

With brands like Pjur, We-Vibe, Durex, Joy Division, and Intimate Earth, and the increase of online sexual health stores, lubricants for both men and women have never been more accessible.


Water Based lubricants - best for sex toys!

Most popular are water based for use with adult sex toys. Unable to penetrate the silicone of your sex toys, water based lubes not only protect against disintegration of your adult toy, but also moisturise and nourish your skin. With an aqua based ingredients list, water based lubes are inexpensive and easy to find. With a limited viscosity (meaning they are not always long-lasting), water based lubes require regular re-application and are easy to wash off. Designed mostly for those with more sensitive skin, water based lubricants are an obvious choice for those looking for a more natural lubricating alternative or for the inclusion of sex toys in your sex life.


Silicone based lubricants

If it’s viscosity and long-lasting lubrication that you’re after, then silicone silicone based are for you. With a more concentrated formula, silicone based lubes are not recommended for use with silicone toys due to the degradation of the silicone material over time. Thicker in it’s consistency, silicone is long-lasting and forms a protective barrier on your skin making it perfect for anal sex, massage, or masturbation. Silicone lubricants specifically designed for anal sex include anti-bacterial, and relaxing properties to assist with comfort during penetration whilst protecting your skin barrier at the same time. Silicone lubes have an oilier base, making it less easy to wash off and can sometimes act as an irritant for women when not washed off immediately.


Best of both

For the best of both worlds, hybrid lubricants refer to a combination and water and silicone. These are safe for use on your sex toys, are not as thick as a traditional silicone lube, and ofter the hydrating benefits of water based lubricants.


Choosing a lubricant is a personal decision, and should be based on the person’s required outcome. If it’s day to day lubrication that you are after, look for the more women friendly water based lubes that are designed to offer a more natural result based on day to day use.


For a lubricant that offers a thicker protective barrier opt for silicone based lubricants - but remember lubricants are not a preventative method against sexually transmitted infections and not all lubricants are condom friendly.


Oil based lubes should be avoided. Their long list of unnatural ingredients as well as the incompatibility with latex condoms often lead to the transmission of sexually transmitted infections, and allergic skin complications.

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Jelle Water-Based Anal Gel 120ml - Wicked
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Lubricants

Jelle Water-Based Anal Gel Lubricant - Wicked

Wicked
133167 14.10.19
R299
Wicked's Jelle water-based anal gel is crafted to make sure that all your anal play needs are met. With its extra long lasting formula, this water-based gel will provide maximum cushion and glide. Enhanced with Aloe and Olive leaf, a powerful anti-oxidant, great moisturizer and strong anti-bacterial, this anal lube is long lasting, easy to clean, and...
Hybrid Silicone & Water based Lubricant - Wicked
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Lubricants

Hybrid Silicone & Water-based Toy Friendly Lubricant - Wicked

Wicked
133170 14.10.19
R379
Wicked's Hybrid combination lubricants are crafted with the intention of enhancing the sensual experience and giving maximum pleasure. Made with Seaweed extract and Olive Leaf extract which acts as an anti-oxidant, this lube helps to moisturize the skin and eliminates germs and bacteria. With it's silky silicone texture, you will gain the extra glide and...
Wicked Flavoured Lubricant - Cinnamon Bun
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Cinnamon Bun Water-Based Flavoured Lubricant - Wicked

Wicked
133173 14.10.19
R249
As one of SA's leading brands in lubricants, Wicked has introduced a product that will allow your sexual adventures to involve all of the five senses, allowing you to reach your most intimate desires. Each flavour is available in 60ml, are long-lasting, non-sticky, paraben-free, and latex friendly so can be enjoyed safely, also making this ideal with...
Creme Masturbation Cream For Men - Wicked
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Lubricants

Creme Masturbation Cream For Men - Wicked

Wicked
WickedCreme
R329
Peak your sensations and intensify your pleasure with Creme Masturbation Cream for Men. This unique, oil-based, intimate lubricant is essential for private moments. Experience the transformation as the fortified, nourishing cream, melts with the warmth of your body into a non-greasy liquid lube. The superior glide of Vitamin E enriched Creme is sensually...
Ultre Fragrance Free Silicone Based Intimate Lubricant - Wicked
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Lubricants

Ultra Fragrance Free Silicone Based Intimate Lubricant - Wicked

Wicked
WickedUltra
R349
Ultra Silicone Lubricant by Wicked is luxuriously sensuous and long lasting. This high performance, velvety smooth formula will enhance pleasure without feeling heavy, greasy or tacky. Formulated with the highest quality silicone available in the personal care market. Ultra Fragrance Free contains no additives or fillers for an exceptionally silky feel....
We Vibe Lubricant - Pjur
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Lubricants

Pjur We-Vibe Water-Based Lubricant - Pjur

We Vibe
BO827160111434 D10.02.20
R399
Formulated especially for We-Vibe, the We-Vibe™ Lube made by Pjur® is perfect for use with all your We-Vibe and other luxury adult toys. The water-based lubricant formula is gentle on your skin and avoids corrosion of the soft luxury silicone found on your We-Vibe adult products. It's rich formulae is long-lasting, non-sticky and relatively mess...
Shunga Tenderness and Passion Collection
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Gifts

Tenderness and Passion Foreplay Collection - Shunga

Shunga
BO340000091841 D20.01.2020
R1,399
Shunga’s Tenderness & Passion is the ideal foreplay collection. Indulge your senses with this luxury collection infused with aromas that heighten the senses. It includes delicious Sweet Snow Body Powder, a lightly flavoured powder that lends a subtle glow to the skin and entices your partner to taste more. Use the feather tickler to apply the...
Geisha's Secret Collection Organica Gift Set - Shunga
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Lubricants

Geisha's Secret Collection Gift Set - Shunga

Shunga
BO697309082112 D13.12.19
R799
The secret arts of Japan’s renowned geishas made them sought-after lovers.  The Geisha’s Secrets Collection from Shunga lets you in on some of these secrets and features 5 of their most popular products featuring alluring aphrodisiac properties. This set contains a beautifully scented Exotic Massage Oil, Warming Aphrodisia Oil,...
Secret Garden Female Clitoral Enhancing Cream - Shunga
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Secret Garden Clitoral Enhancing & Orgasm Cream - Shunga

Shunga
BO697309055000 D20.01.2020
R729
Shunga's Secret Garden Clitoral Enhancing Cream improves and heightens clitoral sexual pleasure, making orgasms stronger and more frequent. This soft and sensual cream acts as a lubricant aid, and assists in engorging her clitoral area as well as sensitizing to maximising her pleasure and enhancing lovemaking. Whilst some women experience immediate...
Rain of Love G Spot Arousal Cream & Water-based Lubricant - Shunga
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Lubricants

Rain of Love G Spot Arousal Cream & Water-based Lubricant - Shunga

Shunga
BO697309075008 D06.01.2020
R699
The G-Spot can sometimes be difficult to find, but with Shunga's Rain of Love arousal cream, you will be able to stimulate and massage your g-spot with ease.With it's all natural ingredients, your g-spot is gently stimulated encouraging the nerves to react providing you with a tingly intense sensation that is warming as well as it is stimulating. Apply it...
Dragon Fire & Ice Virility Prolong & Enhancing Cream -  Shunga
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Lubricants

Dragon Fire & Ice Virility Prolong & Enhancing Cream - Shunga

Shunga
BO697309052009 D20.01.2020
R699
All-natural ingredients provide intense sensation in Shunga's Dragon Virility Cream. The 'fire and ice' sensation enhances the erection and lightly desensitizes, so he can enjoy longer lovemaking. During sex, the sensations stimulate the vagina and G-spot, intensifying orgasms for her. Dragon Virility Cream makes sex more intense and fulfilling for both...
Intimate Kisses Edible Aphrodisiac Stimulating Oil - Shunga
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Gifts

Intimate Kisses Edible Aphrodisiac Stimulating Oil - Shunga

Shunga
BO340000091881 D20.01.2020
R479
The Intimate Kisses Oil by Shunga is a delicious edible warming oil designed to stimulate and excite your erogenous zones. With it's aphrodisiac qualities, this oil not only heightens the senses, but offers a heating effect on your erogenouse zones designed to stimulate and increase stimulation. With a completely body safe formulae, this oil is safe to...
Lubricants

XES Sensual Cannabis Vaginal & Clitoral Stimulating Serum - XES

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XES 28.10.19
R1,399
XES Sensual CBD lubricant is a stimulating cannabis serum designed to offer erogenous stimulation to the vagina and clitoral area.Designed using a blend of cannabidoids, XES Sensual Serum compliments the neurochemistry associated with libido, pleasure, and sensation derived in the human endocannabinoid system. With it's relaxing and anti-inflammatory...
Dr Rocco's Pleasure Kit and Kaboodle - Rocks Off
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Sex Toys

Dr Rocco's Pleasure Kit and Kaboodle - Rocks Off

Rocks off
BO811041013818 D18.09.2019
R1,299
Dr Rocco's Pleasure Kit and Kaboodle by Rocks Off is a fun steampunk inspired gift set designed to titillate and tempt. In a gorgeous bronze and black colourway design, this gift set includes the Dominus Anal stimulation plug, the Cox's Cog flexible penis ring, a pleasure lubrication, and a removeable and fully submersible bullet vibrator. Added to your...
Woman Bodyglide - Pjur
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Lubricants

Pjur Woman Body Glide & Toy Friendly Silicone Lubricant - Pjur

Pjur
BO300000091333 D10.02.20
R399
Pjur Woman super-concentrated Bodyglide is dermatologically tested to be kind to sensitive skin. Pjur Woman Bodyglide is just as long-lasting as original Bodyglide, but is not as thick a formula. It’s still non-sticky, preservative-free and bodysafe.We recommend using a water-based lubricant with silicone toys, to avoid long-term damage to the toy, but...
Woman Aqua - Pjur
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Lubricants

Pjur Woman Aqua Water-Based Lubricant for Sensitive Skin -Pjur

Pjur
BO827160100346 D10.02.20
R329
Pjur’s water-based Woman Aqua lubricant is specially developed to be kind to sensitive skin. It acts as a moisturizer, providing relief to dry and damaged skin, and can be used daily with no drying out. It soaks into the skin, leaving no stickiness or staining. Odourless, tasteless, and compatible with latex condoms. This lube is also completely safe to...
Pjur Aqua Water-based Lubricant - Pjur
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Lubricants

Pjur Aqua Water-based Lubricant - Pjur

Pjur
BO300000091312 D10.02.20
R149
Pjur Aqua water-based lubricant is made from the highest quality ingredients and absorbs into the skin, leaving it feeling soft and silky. It adds extra lubrication for both masturbation and love-making, and is also suitable for use with all adult toys. Pjur Aqua water based is 100% latex condom safe, non-toxic, allergy tested, tasteless, odourless,...
Woman Toy Lube - Pjur
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Lubricants

Pjur Water & Silicone Based Toy-Friendly Lubricant - Pjur

Pjur
BO827160111694 D28.01.2020
R349
This creamy non-drip Pjur Toy lubricant has been specially formulated by Pjur for use with your favourite erotic toys. With it's ultra creamy trexture, this lube is long-lasting and free from oils and perfumes. Leaving your skin moisturised, soft and smooth, this lube is not only perfect for all your lubrication needs but can be used with all silicone,...
Myglide - Pjur
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Lubricants

Pjur MyGlide Warming & Arousing Water-Based Lubricant - Pjur

Pjur
BO821760104351 D20.01.2020
R449
The PJur MyGlide lubricant is a water-based lubricant designed to offer you a double effect - both stimulation and pleasure.With it's unique combination of ingredients containing natural ginseng, the myglide offers a pleasant effect in stimulating the blood circulation and thereby enhancing your excitement and heightens your stimulation. Dermatologically...
Myspray - Pjur
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Lubricants

Pjur MySpray Arousing Clitoral Spray - Pjur

Pjur
BO300000091345 D20.01.2020
R449
Pjur Myspray is a refreshing and unique spray designed just for women to enhance your clitoral stimulation, heighten the sensations of your clitoral nerve-endings and intensifying your sexual pleasure. With it's new formulation, just two to four sprays of Pjur MySpray for women will intensify sexual sensation. The stimulating effect of the unique...
Analyse Me Anal Comfort Spray - Pjur
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Lubricants

Pjur Analyse Me Relaxing Anal Comfort Spray - Pjur

Pjur
BO827160113568 D07.02.20
R399
Pjur Analyse Me spray relaxes the anal area in preparation for anal sex and is the perfect substitute for anal lubricants. Gently moisturising and desensitizing your skin at the same time, the Pjur Analyse me spray prevents oversensitivity and makes anal play more comfortable and enjoyable. With premium ingredients like panthenol and aloe vera, your skin...
COOL - Pjur
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Lubricants

Pjur Cool Menthol Water-Based Lubricant - Pjur

Pjur
BO300000091349 D11.11.19
R449
Pjur's Cool waterbased lubricant creates a gentle stimulating & tingling sensation, coupled with the cool freshness of menthol - enhancing your sexual pleasure and adding to more intense orgasms. This lube is, like all Pjur lubricants, specially formulated to be kind to your skin and to provide long-lasting lubrication for extended sexual pleasure. With...
Med PRO-LONG Spray - Pjur
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Lubricants

Pjur Med Pro-Long Delay Spray - PjurMed

Pjur
BO827160113582 D10.02.20
R499
PjurMed Pro-long delay spray features a unique combination of OakBark extract that enables a calming skin sensation whilst reducing over-sensitivity and premature ejaculation. With it's active and completely body-safe tannic acid ingredient, this spray has an astringent (contracting) effect that in combination wtih panthenol prolongs your ability to...
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