LUBRICANTS

DESIR’S LUBRICANTS ARE DESIGNED TO INCREASE YOUR COMFORT AND CONFIDENCE DURING SEXUAL INTIMACY AND YOUR DAY TO DAY LIVING.


With a vast range of both international and local lubricants available on the South African market today, it’s often overwhelming, let alone confusing on which one to purchase and why. From water-based and silicone, to vegan and oil-based, the types of lubricants available on the market today are endless.


Coupled with the misconception that vaginal dryness equals disinterest or lack of arousal, many individuals or couples choose to hide their discomfort, or refrain from sex altogether - compromising not only their wants and needs, but also their sexual health and safety.

Lubrication 101

Typically, the walls of the vagina remain lubricated with a thin layer of moisture, primarily supported by the hormone estrogen. This, and the constant production of estrogen, maintain a level of elasticity, thickness and moisture in the vaginal walls. According to WEBMD however, many women may experience a gradual decline in the amount of moisture their vagina produces due to a number of reasons. Menopause, medication, age, and hormonal imbalances all play a vital part in the level of moisture found in the vagina, dispelling the myth that your level of lubrication is directly related to your arousal level.


It is here that the inclusion of a good, body-safe lubricant is vital to reduce friction and irritation, and promotes the healthy maintenance and protection of the healthy tissue in your vaginal walls.ISSM states that in addition, many women simply prefer more lubrication than what their body may provide.

With brands like Pjur, We-Vibe, Durex, Joy Division, and Intimate Earth, and the increase of online sexual health stores, lubricants for both men and women have never been more accessible.


Water Based lubricants - best for sex toys!

Most popular are water based for use with adult sex toys. Unable to penetrate the silicone of your sex toys, water based lubes not only protect against disintegration of your adult toy, but also moisturise and nourish your skin. With an aqua based ingredients list, water based lubes are inexpensive and easy to find. With a limited viscosity (meaning they are not always long-lasting), water based lubes require regular re-application and are easy to wash off. Designed mostly for those with more sensitive skin, water based lubricants are an obvious choice for those looking for a more natural lubricating alternative or for the inclusion of sex toys in your sex life.


Silicone based lubricants

If it’s viscosity and long-lasting lubrication that you’re after, then silicone silicone based are for you. With a more concentrated formula, silicone based lubes are not recommended for use with silicone toys due to the degradation of the silicone material over time. Thicker in it’s consistency, silicone is long-lasting and forms a protective barrier on your skin making it perfect for anal sex, massage, or masturbation. Silicone lubricants specifically designed for anal sex include anti-bacterial, and relaxing properties to assist with comfort during penetration whilst protecting your skin barrier at the same time. Silicone lubes have an oilier base, making it less easy to wash off and can sometimes act as an irritant for women when not washed off immediately.


Best of both

For the best of both worlds, hybrid lubricants refer to a combination and water and silicone. These are safe for use on your sex toys, are not as thick as a traditional silicone lube, and ofter the hydrating benefits of water based lubricants.


Choosing a lubricant is a personal decision, and should be based on the person’s required outcome. If it’s day to day lubrication that you are after, look for the more women friendly water based lubes that are designed to offer a more natural result based on day to day use.


For a lubricant that offers a thicker protective barrier opt for silicone based lubricants - but remember lubricants are not a preventative method against sexually transmitted infections and not all lubricants are condom friendly.


Oil based lubes should be avoided. Their long list of unnatural ingredients as well as the incompatibility with latex condoms often lead to the transmission of sexually transmitted infections, and allergic skin complications.

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XES Sensual Cannabis Vaginal & Clitoral Stimulating Serum - XES XES Sensual Cannabis Vaginal & Clitoral Stimulating Serum - XES 2
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XES Sensual Cannabis Vaginal & Clitoral Stimulating Serum - XES

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XES 28.10.19
R1,399
XES Sensual CBD lubricant is a stimulating cannabis serum designed to offer erogenous stimulation to the vagina and clitoral area.Designed using a blend of cannabidoids, XES Sensual Serum compliments the neurochemistry associated with libido, pleasure, and sensation derived in the human endocannabinoid system. With it's relaxing and anti-inflammatory...
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Water Based Personal Lubricant - Assegai

AssegaiWater
R99
The water-based lubricant by Assegai is specifically formulated to prolong and enhance your intimate pleasure.Recommended by doctors, gynaecologists, and sex-therapists, using water-based personal lubricant helps prevent condom breakage, increases sexual comfort, and relieves vaginal dryness.With it's flavour and fragrance free formulation, Assegai...
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Water Based Lubricant - Bathmate

Bathmate
5060140200239
R239
Bathmate Lubricant is a personal lubricant formulated for penile, vaginal, or anal application. With it's PH friendly formula, this lube moisturizes and lubricates and is specifically designed to enhance your comfort and ease during intercourse and to supplement your body's natural lubrication. Compatible with latex, polyisoprene, and polyurethane...
Water Based Glide Lubricant - Malesation
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Water Based Lubricant & Glide - Malesation

Malesation
BO300000091112 D04.11.19
R149
Malesation Glide is a smooth water-based lubricant great used on its own or with any toy. It is latex friendly, odorless and tasteless. Malesation Water Based Glide's formula is highly concentrated and is long-lasting yet gentle on skin and toys. Suitable for males and females. 100ml
Ultre Fragrance Free Silicone Based Intimate Lubricant - Wicked
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Ultra Fragrance Free Silicone Based Intimate Lubricant - Wicked

Wicked
WickedUltra
R349
Ultra Silicone Lubricant by Wicked is luxuriously sensuous and long lasting. This high performance, velvety smooth formula will enhance pleasure without feeling heavy, greasy or tacky. Formulated with the highest quality silicone available in the personal care market. Ultra Fragrance Free contains no additives or fillers for an exceptionally silky feel....
Toy Love Water-Based Glycerin-Free Gel For Intimate Toys
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Toy Love Water-Based Non-Drip Gel Lubricant - Wicked

Wicked
133166 14.10.19
R329
The Toy Gel by Wicked is a lubricant specifically designed to be drip free, making it perfect for application directly to your toy of choice. It's luxurious texture leaves you feeling soft and sensual and is not only perfect for toy application but can be applied directly onto your skin. With it's long lasting qualities, this mess-free lubricant designed...
Toy Fluid - Fun Factory
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Toy Fluid Water Based Lubricant - Fun Factory

Fun factory
BO4032498711003 D22.05.2019
R299
Fun Factory Toy Fluid is ideal for use with your silicone sex toys. It's a smooth water based lubricant that is condom safe, and leaves no residue or sticky application. The handy pump action dispenser makes it quick and easy to access and with it's modern gold stainless steel bottle finish, this lube will fit perfectly and discreetly on...
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Tenderness and Passion Foreplay Collection - Shunga

Shunga
BO340000091841 d1009019
R1,399
Shunga’s Tenderness & Passion is the ideal foreplay collection. Indulge your senses with this luxury collection infused with aromas that heighten the senses. It includes delicious Sweet Snow Body Powder, a lightly flavoured powder that lends a subtle glow to the skin and entices your partner to taste more. Use the feather tickler to apply the...
Secret Garden Female Clitoral Enhancing Cream - Shunga Secret Garden Female Clitoral Enhancing Cream - Shunga 2
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Secret Garden Clitoral Enhancing & Orgasm Cream - Shunga

Shunga
BO697309055000 D11.11.19
R729
Shunga's Secret Garden Clitoral Enhancing Cream improves and heightens clitoral sexual pleasure, making orgasms stronger and more frequent. This soft and sensual cream acts as a lubricant aid, and assists in engorging her clitoral area as well as sensitizing to maximising her pleasure and enhancing lovemaking. Whilst some women experience immediate...
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Salted Caramel Water-Based Flavoured Lubricant - Wicked

Wicked
133179 14..19
R249
As one of SA's leading brands in lubricants, Wicked has introduced a product that will allow your sexual adventures to involve all of the five senses, allowing you to reach your most intimate desires. Each flavour is available in 60ml, are long-lasting, non-sticky, paraben-free, and latex friendly so can be enjoyed safely, also making this ideal with...
Rain of Love G Spot Arousal... Rain of Love G Spot Arousal... 2
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Rain of Love G Spot Arousal Cream & Water-based Lubricant - Shunga

Shunga
BO697309075008 D11.11.19
R699
The G-Spot can sometimes be difficult to find, but with Shunga's Rain of Love arousal cream, you will be able to stimulate and massage your g-spot with ease.With it's all natural ingredients, your g-spot is gently stimulated encouraging the nerves to react providing you with a tingly intense sensation that is warming as well as it is stimulating. Apply it...
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PleasureShot Intimate Serum - Zoet

PleasureShot
R59
The PleasureShot by Zoet, is an intimate serum designed to enhance sexual stimulation and extra lubrication for her.With it's unique all-natural and organic formula containing L-Arginine, Damiana Leaf, Mucuna Pruriens, Ginko Biloba, and Humulus Lupulus Extract, this active serum improves blood flow to the genitals, helps increase dilation in your...
Play Warming Lubricant - Durex Play Warming Lubricant - Durex 2
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Play Warming Lubricant - Durex

Durex
3037098 14.10.19
R129
The Durex Play Warming lubricant is a pleasure gel designed to heat things up.Containing a special ingredient that is activated upon application, this lubricant warms the skin on contact. With it's silky soft base, you not only have a fabulous smooth feel, but also a warming sensation that heightens arousal, increases your level of stimulation, and...
Play Tingle Lubricant - Durex
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Play Tingle Lubricant - Durex

Durex
3037097 14.10.19
R129
Durex Play Tingling Pleasure Gel is a specially formulated lubricant designed to offer a tingling, cooling, and warming experience to heighten your sexual experience and levels of orgasm.Menthol and fragrance free, this lube is perfect for easing vaginal discomfort and adding moisture and lubrication to your intimate areas. With it's stimulating...
Play Lubricant - Durex
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Play Feel Lubricant - Durex

Durex
3037095 14.10.2019
R129
Play Feel Pleasure Gel by Durex is a light, silky lube designed to give you an intensely sensual experience. Containing a specially formulated blend of ingredients which will enhance touch between you and your partner, the Play Feel is a water-soluble lubricant that is easily washed off and won't stain. Designed to ease vaginal dryness and...
Play 2in1 Massage Gel - Durex Play 2in1 Massage Gel - Durex 2
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Play 2in1 Massage Gel - Durex

Durex
10048803
R179
Durex Play 2in1 Massage Gel contains a blend of natural aromatherapeutic ingredients and is designed to be used as an all over body massage glide or a stimulating lubricant for either him or her. With it's soft, smooth and silky consistency, this water based lubricant is perfect for adding moisture to your intimate areas and leaving your...
Pjur Woman Vegan Water Based Lubricant - Pjur
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Pjur Woman Vegan Water Based Lubricant - Pjur

Pjur
827160113155 D24.07.2019
R379
The Pjur Woman Vegan lubricant is a premium water based personal lubricant with 100% vegan ingredients and no animal by-products. Made without parabens, paraffins, and glycerins, this PH optimised lube is also free of fragrances, colourings and gluten. Highly concentrated with very good coverage, this water-based lube is perfect for moisturising your skin...
Woman Bodyglide - Pjur
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Pjur Woman Body Glide & Toy Friendly Silicone Lubricant - Pjur

Pjur
BO300000091333 D26.08.2019
R399
Pjur Woman super-concentrated Bodyglide is dermatologically tested to be kind to sensitive skin. Pjur Woman Bodyglide is just as long-lasting as original Bodyglide, but is not as thick a formula. It’s still non-sticky, preservative-free and bodysafe.We recommend using a water-based lubricant with silicone toys, to avoid long-term damage to the toy, but...
Woman Aqua - Pjur Woman Aqua - Pjur 2
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Pjur Woman Aqua Water-Based Lubricant for Sensitive Skin -Pjur

Pjur
827160100346 D04.11.19
R329
Pjur’s water-based Woman Aqua lubricant is specially developed to be kind to sensitive skin. It acts as a moisturizer, providing relief to dry and damaged skin, and can be used daily with no drying out. It soaks into the skin, leaving no stickiness or staining. Odourless, tasteless, and compatible with latex condoms. This lube is also completely safe to...
Pjur Woman Aloe Nourishing Water Based Lubricant - Pjur Pjur Woman Aloe Nourishing Water Based Lubricant - Pjur 2
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Pjur Woman Aloe Nourishing Water Based Lubricant - Pjur

Pjur
BO827160113162 D04.11.19
R179
The Pjur Woman Aloe formulae is a intimate care premium lubricant formulated with natural aloe vera extracts.Aloe Vera nourishes and soothes the skin whilst increasing it's elasticity at the same time. PH optimised, the Aloe Vera water based lubricant does not alter your PH levels and with only vegetable glycerin, it is paraben and paraffin free, making...
We Vibe Lubricant - Pjur We Vibe Lubricant - Pjur 2
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Pjur We-Vibe Water-Based Lubricant - Pjur

We Vibe
BO827160111434 D04.11.19
R399
Formulated especially for We-Vibe, the We-Vibe™ Lube made by Pjur® is perfect for use with all your We-Vibe and other luxury adult toys. The water-based lubricant formula is gentle on your skin and avoids corrosion of the soft luxury silicone found on your We-Vibe adult products. It's rich formulae is long-lasting, non-sticky and relatively mess...
Woman Toy Lube - Pjur
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Pjur Water & Silicone Based Toy-Friendly Lubricant - Pjur

Pjur
BO827160111694 D11.11.19
R399
This creamy non-drip Pjur Toy lubricant has been specially formulated by Pjur for use with your favourite erotic toys. With it's ultra creamy trexture, this lube is long-lasting and free from oils and perfumes. Leaving your skin moisturised, soft and smooth, this lube is not only perfect for all your lubrication needs but can be used with all silicone,...
Pjur SuperHero Performance Spray for Men
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Pjur SuperHero Performance Spray for Men - Pjur

Pjur
BO827160104108 M14.08.2019
R499
Pjur SuperHero Performance spray for men is perfect for those wanting to prolong their sexual enjoyment and assist with the common side effects of erectile dysfunction. The unique formula and ingredients slightly desensitize the penis and ensure longer enjoyment and prevent premature ejaculation. It enhances smoothness, reduces oversensitivity and is one...
Original Bodyglide - Pjur
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Pjur Original BodyGlide & Silicone-Based Lubricant - Pjur

Pjur
BO300000091303 D09.10.2019
R429
Pjur’s award-winning lubricants are among the most popular in the world. Their long-lasting silicone formula makes the orginal Bodyglide a bedroom must-have. This smooth, skin-nourishing lube can be used for massage as well as for sex. Silicone lube is not absorbed by the skin, so just a few drops goes a long way. It doesn’t get sticky or dry...
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