LUBRICANTS

DESIR’S LUBRICANTS ARE DESIGNED TO INCREASE YOUR COMFORT AND CONFIDENCE DURING SEXUAL INTIMACY AND YOUR DAY TO DAY LIVING.


With a vast range of both international and local lubricants available on the South African market today, it’s often overwhelming, let alone confusing on which one to purchase and why. From water-based and silicone, to vegan and oil-based, the types of lubricants available on the market today are endless.


Coupled with the misconception that vaginal dryness equals disinterest or lack of arousal, many individuals or couples choose to hide their discomfort, or refrain from sex altogether - compromising not only their wants and needs, but also their sexual health and safety.

Lubrication 101

Typically, the walls of the vagina remain lubricated with a thin layer of moisture, primarily supported by the hormone estrogen. This, and the constant production of estrogen, maintain a level of elasticity, thickness and moisture in the vaginal walls. According to WEBMD however, many women may experience a gradual decline in the amount of moisture their vagina produces due to a number of reasons. Menopause, medication, age, and hormonal imbalances all play a vital part in the level of moisture found in the vagina, dispelling the myth that your level of lubrication is directly related to your arousal level.


It is here that the inclusion of a good, body-safe lubricant is vital to reduce friction and irritation, and promotes the healthy maintenance and protection of the healthy tissue in your vaginal walls.ISSM states that in addition, many women simply prefer more lubrication than what their body may provide.

With brands like Pjur, We-Vibe, Durex, Joy Division, and Intimate Earth, and the increase of online sexual health stores, lubricants for both men and women have never been more accessible.


Water Based lubricants - best for sex toys!

Most popular are water based for use with adult sex toys. Unable to penetrate the silicone of your sex toys, water based lubes not only protect against disintegration of your adult toy, but also moisturise and nourish your skin. With an aqua based ingredients list, water based lubes are inexpensive and easy to find. With a limited viscosity (meaning they are not always long-lasting), water based lubes require regular re-application and are easy to wash off. Designed mostly for those with more sensitive skin, water based lubricants are an obvious choice for those looking for a more natural lubricating alternative or for the inclusion of sex toys in your sex life.


Silicone based lubricants

If it’s viscosity and long-lasting lubrication that you’re after, then silicone silicone based are for you. With a more concentrated formula, silicone based lubes are not recommended for use with silicone toys due to the degradation of the silicone material over time. Thicker in it’s consistency, silicone is long-lasting and forms a protective barrier on your skin making it perfect for anal sex, massage, or masturbation. Silicone lubricants specifically designed for anal sex include anti-bacterial, and relaxing properties to assist with comfort during penetration whilst protecting your skin barrier at the same time. Silicone lubes have an oilier base, making it less easy to wash off and can sometimes act as an irritant for women when not washed off immediately.


Best of both

For the best of both worlds, hybrid lubricants refer to a combination and water and silicone. These are safe for use on your sex toys, are not as thick as a traditional silicone lube, and ofter the hydrating benefits of water based lubricants.


Choosing a lubricant is a personal decision, and should be based on the person’s required outcome. If it’s day to day lubrication that you are after, look for the more women friendly water based lubes that are designed to offer a more natural result based on day to day use.


For a lubricant that offers a thicker protective barrier opt for silicone based lubricants - but remember lubricants are not a preventative method against sexually transmitted infections and not all lubricants are condom friendly.


Oil based lubes should be avoided. Their long list of unnatural ingredients as well as the incompatibility with latex condoms often lead to the transmission of sexually transmitted infections, and allergic skin complications.

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Water Based Glide Lubricant - Malesation
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    Water Based Lubricant & Glide - Malesation

    Malesation
    BO DP 3000000911133
    R179
    Malesation Glide is a smooth water-based lubricant great used on its own or with any toy. It is latex friendly, odorless and tasteless. Malesation Water Based Glide's formula is highly concentrated and is long-lasting yet gentle on skin and toys. Suitable for males and females. 100ml
    Anal Hybrid Lubricant - Malesation
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      Anal Relaxing Hybrid Water & Silicone Based Lubricant - Malesation

      Malesation
      BO DP 4041937911157
      R329
      Malesation's Anal lubricant has a 2 in 1 water-based composition that allows this product to feel like a silky textured silicone lubricant whilst providing you with ease and comfort during Anal play. With it's combination of relaxing components and Metha Piperetha oil, it supports the body's natural moisture levels whilst allowing a cooling and relaxing...
      Anal Relax Lubricant - Malesation
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        Anal Relaxing Water-Based Lubricant - Malesation

        Malesation
        BO DP 404193791164
        R299
        Malesation Anal Relax is a water-based lubricant designed to provide ultimate relaxation for anal penetration. It supports the natural moisture balance of your skin and therefore provides comfort during sexual activites without comprimising or hindering the stimulation experienced. Thanks to it's formula rich ingredients containing Metha Piperetha oil and...
        Aquaglide Water-Based Lubricant - Joy Division
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          Aquaglide Water-Based Lubricant - Joy Division

          JoyDivision
          BO DP 4028403117046/022
          R429
          Aquaglide from Joy Division is a pH-optimised, highly effective, water-based lubricant that features long-lasting lubricating properties. This product assists in increase sensation and excitement to love-making, but is also the ideal to use with latex condoms or your pleasure objects. It is so versatile that it can also be used as a massage gel! It is...
          Aquaglide Flavoured...
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            Aquaglide Flavoured Lubricant - Joy Division - 100ml

            JoyDivision
            BO DP4028403117916/7909
            R320
            Flavoured lubricants add extra enjoyment to oral sex, and can counteract the flavour of latex condoms. Aquaglide's banana-flavoured water-based lubricant adds extra moisture and increases sensitivity. The medical grade lubricant is dermatologically tested to be perfect for all skin types. It's a long-lasting and smooth lubricant that is naturally absorbed...
            JoyDivision Easy Anal Beginners Lubricant
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              Easy Anal Water Based Lubricant - JoyDivision

              JoyDivision
              BO DP 4028403115219
              R459
              JoyDivision's Easy Anal lubricant is one of the best anal lubricants and is recommended specifically for first times. Water-Based, this lubricant is condom friendly and designed for anal intercourse - a few drops of Easy Anal ensure the anus is perfectly lubricated and assists in avoiding any discomfort. Easy Anal is smooth and non-oily, whilst being...
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              Play Tingle Lubricant - Durex

              Durex
              SM 3037097
              R129
              Durex Play Tingling Pleasure Gel is a specially formulated lubricant designed to offer a tingling, cooling, and warming experience to heighten your sexual experience and levels of orgasm.Menthol and fragrance free, this lube is perfect for easing vaginal discomfort and adding moisture and lubrication to your intimate areas. With it's stimulating...
              Fleshlight Water-based Lubricant - 100ml - Fleshlight
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                FleshLube Water-based Lubricant - 100ml - Fleshlight

                Fleshlight
                BO DP 8428508034716
                R249
                This water-based lubricant by Fleshlight is designed to promote the body's natural moisture levels, has a silky texture  and provides a comfortable feeling without leaving a sticky residue. Gentle enough for all skin types, this Fleshlight Lube is specifically designed for sensitive areas. Suitable for use with all Fleshlight products, simply apply a...
                Ease Anal Relaxing Silicone Glide - Intimate Earth
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                  Ease Anal Relaxing Silicone Lubricant - Intimate Earth

                  Intimate Earth
                  BO MS 0521E
                  R679
                  Ease silicone anal glide by Intimate Earth is a silcone glide blended with all-natural and relaxing Bisabol extract from the chamomile plant. With it's skin healing and muscle relaxing properties, this anti-irritant, anti-inflamatory glide provides you the ultimate comfort and lubrication required for anal sex. Paraben free and vegan friendly, this...
                  Soothe Anal Antibacterial Glide - Intimate Earth
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                    Soothe Hygienic Water-Based Anal Lubricant - Intimate Earth

                    Intimate Earth
                    BO MS 035IE
                    R429
                    Enjoy comfortable and sensual anal sex with this organic anal glide with guava bark extract by Intimate Earth. This pure vegan organic-based anal lubricant is paraben free, and benefits from the natural cleansing power of guava bark to protect as it soothes. Soothe Anal Glide is water-based, and safe to use with silicone anal toys and latex condoms. Use...
                    Hydra Glycerin-Free Water-Based Natural Glide & Lubricant - Intimate EarthHydra Glycerin-Free Water-Based Natural Glide & Lubricant - Intimate Earth 2
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                      Hydra Natural Water-Based Lubricant - Intimate Earth

                      Intimate Earth
                      BO MS 007/120IE 007/60IE
                      R249
                      Smooth and silky, Hydra Natural Glide is a paraben- and glycerin-free water-based lubricant. It’s tasteless and odourless, making it your natural choice for use during foreplay and lovemaking. With natural plant extracts of aloe and goji berry, Hydra Natural Glide is vegan-friendly and 100% bodysafe. It’s perfect for use with your silicone sex toys, and...
                      Defense Protection Glide & Lubricant - Intimate Earth
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                        Defense Water-Based Lubricant with Tea Tree - Intimate Earth

                        Intimate Earth
                        BO MS 033IE
                        R449
                        The Defense Protection Glide and Lubricant by Intimate Earth is an exciting breakthrough in lubricants.Containing strong anti-yeast and HPV protection agents such as Caarrageean (sea kelp) and Guava bark anti-bacterial extract, this lubricant inhibits the infectious ability of viruses that cause cervical cancer and genital warts and assist in preventing...
                        Rain of Love G Spot Arousal Cream & Water-based Lubricant - ShungaRain of Love G Spot Arousal Cream & Water-based Lubricant - Shunga 2
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                          Rain of Love G Spot Arousal Cream & Water-based Lubricant - Shunga

                          Shunga
                          BO DP 697309075008
                          R899
                          The G-Spot can sometimes be difficult to find, but with Shunga's Rain of Love arousal cream, you will be able to stimulate and massage your g-spot with ease.With it's all natural ingredients, your g-spot is gently stimulated encouraging the nerves to react providing you with a tingly intense sensation that is warming as well as it is stimulating. Apply it...
                          Toy Fluid - Fun Factory
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                            Toy Fluid Water Based Lubricant - Fun Factory

                            Fun factory
                            BO DP 4032498711003
                            R299
                            Fun Factory Toy Fluid is ideal for use with your silicone sex toys. It's a smooth water based lubricant that is condom safe, and leaves no residue or sticky application. The handy pump action dispenser makes it quick and easy to access and with it's modern gold stainless steel bottle finish, this lube will fit perfectly and discreetly on your bed side...
                            2in1 Scented Silicone Massage & Intimate Gel - Bijoux Indiscrets2in1 Scented Silicone Massage & Intimate Gel - Bijoux Indiscrets 2
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                              Aphrodisia 2-in-1 Scented Silicone Massage & Intimate Gel - Bijoux

                              Bijoux
                              BO DP 8436562010492
                              R779
                              Bijoux Indiscrets are known for their luxurious and beautifully scented products, and this stunning silicone massage and intimate gel is no exception. Use it to give your partner an aphrodisiac massage that will warm them up for seduction, or apply it directly to the genitals for a warming sensation that enhances orgasmic feeling. Aphrodisia 2-in-1...
                              Analyse Me Anal Comfort Spray - Pjur
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                                Pjur Analyse Me Relaxing Anal Comfort Spray - Pjur

                                Pjur
                                BO DP 827160113568
                                R449
                                Pjur Analyse Me spray relaxes the anal area in preparation for anal sex and is the perfect substitute for anal lubricants. Gently moisturising and desensitizing your skin at the same time, the Pjur Analyse me spray prevents oversensitivity and makes anal play more comfortable and enjoyable. With premium ingredients like panthenol and aloe vera, your skin...
                                Aqua - PjurAqua - Pjur 2
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                                  Pjur Aqua Water-based Lubricant - Pjur

                                  Pjur
                                  BO DP 827160100278/61/85
                                  R589
                                  Pjur Aqua water-based lubricant is made from the highest quality ingredients and absorbs into the skin, leaving it feeling soft and silky. It adds extra lubrication for both masturbation and love-making, and is also suitable for use with all adult toys. Pjur Aqua water based is 100% latex condom safe, non-toxic, allergy tested, tasteless, odourless,...
                                  Pjur Analyse Me Relaxing Anal Gel
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                                    Pjur Analyse Me Relaxing Silicone Anal Glide Lubricant - Pjur

                                    Pjur
                                    BO DP 827160104344
                                    R529
                                    Pjur is a high quality brand of lubricant that prides itself on using only the best bodysafe ingredients in its special silicone-based formula. The Pjur Analyse Me Anal Glide was designed especially to help relax you during anal sex, making anal play easier and more fun. Jojoba is included in this lubricant to soften and moisturize the skin and relax the...
                                    Pjur Back Door Glide
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                                      Pjur Back Door Anal Desensitizing Silicone Glide - Pjur

                                      Pjur
                                      BO DP 827160104368
                                      R579
                                      Anal intercourse, particularly of the more vigorous variety, requires a more careful approach under certain circumstances. To cater to these more exacting requirements, the ingredients have been dosed at a higher concentration for the silicone-based formula of Pjur BACK DOOR relaxing anal glide. This special composition differs from pjur analyse me!...
                                      Pjur Light BodyGlide - Pjur
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                                        Pjur Light Silicone BodyGlide & Lubricant - Pjur

                                        Pjur
                                        BO DP 827160100933
                                        R429
                                        Pjur Light bodyglide combines all of the positive elements of the original Pjur silicone bodyglide, but allows a noticeably thinner silicone formula, allowing you to use this excellent long-lasting product as a personal, toy, and body-glide massaging lubricant. Spreading further and lasting longer than the original body glide, this odorless and tasteless...
                                        Pjur MAN - Extreme Glide
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                                          Pjur MAN Premium Silicone Extreme Glide & Lubricant - Pjur

                                          Pjur
                                          BO MS 2212
                                          R599
                                          Pjur's Man - Extreme Glide is a silicone based, rich and premium product providing extra long-lasting lubrication qualities. Safe to use with condoms, this lube consists of highly concentrated ingredients allowing you to use only a few drops at a time for maximum effect. Ensuring pleasure at the highest level, this lube is very rich, extremely long...
                                          Original Bodyglide - Pjur
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                                            Pjur Original BodyGlide & Silicone-Based Lubricant - Pjur

                                            Pjur
                                            BO DP 827160106249/232
                                            R249
                                            Pjur’s award-winning lubricants are among the most popular in the world. Their long-lasting silicone formula makes the orginal Bodyglide a bedroom must-have. This smooth, skin-nourishing lube can be used for massage as well as for sex. Silicone lube is not absorbed by the skin, so just a few drops goes a long way. It doesn’t get sticky or dry out, it’s...
                                            COOL - Pjur
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                                              Pjur Cool Menthol Water-Based Lubricant - Pjur

                                              Pjur
                                              BO DP 827160110154
                                              R499
                                              Pjur's Cool waterbased lubricant creates a gentle stimulating & tingling sensation, coupled with the cool freshness of menthol - enhancing your sexual pleasure and adding to more intense orgasms. This lube is, like all Pjur lubricants, specially formulated to be kind to your skin and to provide long-lasting lubrication for extended sexual pleasure. With...
                                              Woman Toy Lube - Pjur
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                                                Pjur Water & Silicone Based Toy-Friendly Lubricant - Pjur

                                                Pjur
                                                BO DP 827160111694
                                                R429
                                                This creamy non-drip Pjur Toy lubricant has been specially formulated by Pjur for use with your favourite erotic toys. With it's ultra creamy trexture, this lube is long-lasting and free from oils and perfumes. Leaving your skin moisturised, soft and smooth, this lube is not only perfect for all your lubrication needs but can be used with all silicone,...
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