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DESIR’S LUBRICANTS ARE DESIGNED TO INCREASE YOUR COMFORT AND CONFIDENCE DURING SEXUAL INTIMACY AND YOUR DAY TO DAY LIVING.


With a vast range of both international and local lubricants available on the South African market today, it’s often overwhelming, let alone confusing on which one to purchase and why. From water-based and silicone, to vegan and oil-based, the types of lubricants available on the market today are endless.


Coupled with the misconception that vaginal dryness equals disinterest or lack of arousal, many individuals or couples choose to hide their discomfort, or refrain from sex altogether - compromising not only their wants and needs, but also their sexual health and safety.

Lubrication 101

Typically, the walls of the vagina remain lubricated with a thin layer of moisture, primarily supported by the hormone estrogen. This, and the constant production of estrogen, maintain a level of elasticity, thickness and moisture in the vaginal walls. According to WEBMD however, many women may experience a gradual decline in the amount of moisture their vagina produces due to a number of reasons. Menopause, medication, age, and hormonal imbalances all play a vital part in the level of moisture found in the vagina, dispelling the myth that your level of lubrication is directly related to your arousal level.


It is here that the inclusion of a good, body-safe lubricant is vital to reduce friction and irritation, and promotes the healthy maintenance and protection of the healthy tissue in your vaginal walls.ISSM states that in addition, many women simply prefer more lubrication than what their body may provide.

With brands like Pjur, We-Vibe, Durex, Joy Division, and Intimate Earth, and the increase of online sexual health stores, lubricants for both men and women have never been more accessible.


Water Based lubricants - best for sex toys!

Most popular are water based for use with adult sex toys. Unable to penetrate the silicone of your sex toys, water based lubes not only protect against disintegration of your adult toy, but also moisturise and nourish your skin. With an aqua based ingredients list, water based lubes are inexpensive and easy to find. With a limited viscosity (meaning they are not always long-lasting), water based lubes require regular re-application and are easy to wash off. Designed mostly for those with more sensitive skin, water based lubricants are an obvious choice for those looking for a more natural lubricating alternative or for the inclusion of sex toys in your sex life.


Silicone based lubricants

If it’s viscosity and long-lasting lubrication that you’re after, then silicone silicone based are for you. With a more concentrated formula, silicone based lubes are not recommended for use with silicone toys due to the degradation of the silicone material over time. Thicker in it’s consistency, silicone is long-lasting and forms a protective barrier on your skin making it perfect for anal sex, massage, or masturbation. Silicone lubricants specifically designed for anal sex include anti-bacterial, and relaxing properties to assist with comfort during penetration whilst protecting your skin barrier at the same time. Silicone lubes have an oilier base, making it less easy to wash off and can sometimes act as an irritant for women when not washed off immediately.


Best of both

For the best of both worlds, hybrid lubricants refer to a combination and water and silicone. These are safe for use on your sex toys, are not as thick as a traditional silicone lube, and ofter the hydrating benefits of water based lubricants.


Choosing a lubricant is a personal decision, and should be based on the person’s required outcome. If it’s day to day lubrication that you are after, look for the more women friendly water based lubes that are designed to offer a more natural result based on day to day use.


For a lubricant that offers a thicker protective barrier opt for silicone based lubricants - but remember lubricants are not a preventative method against sexually transmitted infections and not all lubricants are condom friendly.


Oil based lubes should be avoided. Their long list of unnatural ingredients as well as the incompatibility with latex condoms often lead to the transmission of sexually transmitted infections, and allergic skin complications.

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KY Lubricating Jelly - Durex KY Lubricating Jelly - Durex
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KY Lubricating Jelly - Durex

Durex
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R69
This lubricating jelly by Durex is a personal lubricant formulated to replicate the body's natural moisture levels. Water-soluble, this water-based lube is safe to use with all condoms and intimate products. Protecting against discomfort and gynaecologically tested, this lube quickly prepares you for intimacy and eases discomfort that is caused by...
Femolene Lubricating Vaginal Spray - Femolene
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Femolene Lubricating Vaginal Spray - Femolene

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R159
This intimate and lubricating vaginal spray by Femolene has been designed to promote vaginal health and lubrication. Formulated using a powerful combination of 300 million colony forming units (probiotics) made up of Lactobacillus gasteri, Lactobacillus acidophilus, and Lactobacillus rhamnosus, this lubricating spray alleviates vaginal dryness, reduces...
GynaGuard Daily Intimate Comfort Gel - GynaGuard
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GynaGuard Daily Intimate Comfort Gel - GynaGuard

Gynaguard
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R89
This intimate gel by Gynaguard is a light and non-greasy gel designed for everyday use to eliminate symptoms of irritation, discomfort, and odour control. Dermatologically and gynaecologically tested, this intimate gel designed for vaginal use is light enough that it can be used everyday and applied as frequently as you require. Water based it is...
GynaGuard Lubricating Moisture Gel - GynaGuard GynaGuard Lubricating...
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GynaGuard Lubricating Moisture Gel - GynaGuard

Gynaguard
115825CJ
R89
This water-based lubricant by GynaGuard is a non-sticky, ph balanced and fragrance free lube that hydrates, moisturises and enhances your natural lubrication when you need it most.  With it's ideal ph of 4.5 this lubricant moisture gel is suitable for even the most sensitive of skins. Water soluble and colourless it won't stain and is safe to use with...
On the Go Dermo-Sensitive Lubricant (Singles) - Le Lube
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On the Go Dermo-Sensitive Lubricant (Singles) - Le Lube

LeLubeSingle
R19
Le Lube is a silky water-based and alcohol-free lubricant that is packaged in a convenient snap sachet, making this a non-mess and convenient alternative to bulky or bottled lubes.  With the combination of it's Aloe Vera and non-irritating and dermo sensitive formula, Le Lube is PH balanced and low in osmality, thereby maintaining the body's natural...
On the Go Dermo-Sensitive Lubricant (Pack of 7) - Le Lube
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On the Go Dermo-Sensitive Lubricant (Pack of 7) - Le Lube

LeLubeOnTheGo
R119
Le Lube is a silky water-based and alcohol-free lubricant that is packaged in a convenient snap sachet, making this a non-mess and convenient alternative to bulky or bottled lubes.  With the combination of it's Aloe Vera and non-irritating and dermo sensitive formula, Le Lube is PH balanced and low in osmality, thereby maintaining the body's natural...
Ultra Fragrance Free Silicone Based Intimate Lubricant - Wicked
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Ultra Fragrance Free Silicone Based Intimate Lubricant - Wicked

Wicked
WickedUltra
R349
Ultra Silicone Lubricant by Wicked is luxuriously sensuous and long lasting. This high performance, velvety smooth formula will enhance pleasure without feeling heavy, greasy or tacky. Formulated with the highest quality silicone available in the personal care market. Ultra Fragrance Free contains no additives or fillers for an exceptionally silky feel....
Creme Masturbation Cream For Men - Wicked
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Creme Masturbation Cream For Men - Wicked

Wicked
WickedCreme
R329
Peak your sensations and intensify your pleasure with Creme Masturbation Cream for Men. This unique, oil-based, intimate lubricant is essential for private moments. Experience the transformation as the fortified, nourishing cream, melts with the warmth of your body into a non-greasy liquid lube. The superior glide of Vitamin E enriched Creme is sensually...
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Play Warming Lubricant - Durex

Durex
3037098 18.12.19
R129
The Durex Play Warming lubricant is a pleasure gel designed to heat things up.Containing a special ingredient that is activated upon application, this lubricant warms the skin on contact. With it's silky soft base, you not only have a fabulous smooth feel, but also a warming sensation that heightens arousal, increases your level of stimulation, and...
Dr Rocco's Pleasure Kit and Kaboodle - Rocks Off Dr Rocco's Pleasure Kit and Kaboodle - Rocks Off
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Dr Rocco's Pleasure Kit and Kaboodle - Rocks Off

Rocks off
BO811041013818 D18.09.2019
R1,299
Dr Rocco's Pleasure Kit and Kaboodle by Rocks Off is a fun steampunk inspired gift set designed to titillate and tempt. In a gorgeous bronze and black colourway design, this gift set includes the Dominus Anal stimulation plug, the Cox's Cog flexible penis ring, a pleasure lubrication, and a removeable and fully submersible bullet vibrator. Added to your...
Essentials

XES Sensual Cannabis Vaginal & Clitoral Stimulating Serum - XES

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XES 28.10.19
R1,399
XES Sensual CBD lubricant is a stimulating cannabis serum designed to offer erogenous stimulation to the vagina and clitoral area.Designed using a blend of cannabidoids, XES Sensual Serum compliments the neurochemistry associated with libido, pleasure, and sensation derived in the human endocannabinoid system. With it's relaxing and anti-inflammatory...
PleasureShot Intimate Serum - Zoet PleasureShot Intimate Serum - Zoet
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PleasureShot Intimate Serum - Zoet

PleasureShot
R59
The PleasureShot by Zoet, is an intimate serum designed to enhance sexual stimulation and extra lubrication for her.With it's unique all-natural and organic formula containing L-Arginine, Damiana Leaf, Mucuna Pruriens, Ginko Biloba, and Humulus Lupulus Extract, this active serum improves blood flow to the genitals, helps increase dilation in your...
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Water Based Personal Lubricant - Assegai

AssegaiWater
R89
The water-based lubricant by Assegai is specifically formulated to prolong and enhance your intimate pleasure.Recommended by doctors, gynaecologists, and sex-therapists, using water-based personal lubricant helps prevent condom breakage, increases sexual comfort, and relieves vaginal dryness.With it's flavour and fragrance free formulation, Assegai...
Pjur Woman Aloe Nourishing Water Based Lubricant - Pjur Pjur Woman Aloe Nourishing Water Based Lubricant - Pjur
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Pjur Woman Aloe Nourishing Water Based Lubricant - Pjur

Pjur
BO827160113162 D04.11.19
R179
The Pjur Woman Aloe formulae is a intimate care premium lubricant formulated with natural aloe vera extracts.Aloe Vera nourishes and soothes the skin whilst increasing it's elasticity at the same time. PH optimised, the Aloe Vera water based lubricant does not alter your PH levels and with only vegetable glycerin, it is paraben and paraffin free, making...
Pjur Woman Vegan Water Based Lubricant - Pjur
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Pjur Woman Vegan Water Based Lubricant - Pjur

Pjur
BO827160113155 D18.12.19
R379
The Pjur Woman Vegan lubricant is a premium water based personal lubricant with 100% vegan ingredients and no animal by-products. Made without parabens, paraffins, and glycerins, this PH optimised lube is also free of fragrances, colourings and gluten. Highly concentrated with very good coverage, this water-based lube is perfect for moisturising your skin...
Oske Water Based Lubricant - Oske Oske Water Based Lubricant - Oske
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Oske Water Based Lubricant - Oske

OSKE 12.12.19
R159
This gorgeous OSKE Lubricant is a gentle water based lube that has been specifically created for women.Manufactured in a pharmaceutical facility and developed to compliment the female physiology, this 96% organic lube is free from fragrance, alcohol, and sugar, and is packed with natural preservatives. Containing aloe vera, xanthan gum, citric...
Analyse Me Comfort Water-Based Anal Glide - Pjur
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Analyse Me Comfort Water-Based Anal Glide - Pjur

Pjur
BO827160110130 D10.12.19
R429
The Pjur Water Based Anal Comfort Glide is an anal lubricant that has the same silky effect as a silicone lube, but offers a water-based formulae with extra moisturizing hyaluron.Lasting longer than traditional water-based lubricants, this anal lube features the unique hyaluron that locks moisture in preventing the lube from drying out quickly. Softening...
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Flavoured Oral Pleasure Glide - Intimate Earth

Intimate Earth
038IE MM20.06.2019
R399
This Oral Pleasure Glide by Intimate Earth in a variety of delicious flavours is designed for oral and body play.Formulated with natural organic stevia, this glide has no aftertaste and is free from harmful additives. Turn oral sex into a playful experience with a flavoured edible glide of your choice.
Pjur MED Sensitive Glide - Pjur
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Pjur MED Sensitive Glide - Pjur

Pjur
BO827160111137 D06.01.2020
R429
The Pjur MED Sensitive Glide is a lubricant formulated free of glycerins, parabens, and preservatives and is ideal for more sensitive users.With it's neutral formulation, Pjur MED Sensitive glide has been formulated specifically with very sensitive genital mucous membranes in mind. With it's pureistic formula, this lube has been made as neutral as...
Cannabis Unisex Pleasure Oil Sachet (Single 1ml) - Oh! Holy Mary
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Cannabis Unisex Pleasure Oil Sachet (Single 1ml) - Oh! Holy Mary

SingleSachet
R99
The Cannabis Pleasure oil by Spanish brand Oh! Holy Mary is a potent formulae designed to stimulate either his glans or her clitoris, increasing both your level of sensation as well as amplifying your orgasm.  With it's unique formulae containing the Cannabis Sativa Seed this oil - unlike traditional stimulants - does not produce a cooling or...
Power Premium Cream - Pjur
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Power Premium Cream - Pjur

Pjur
BO827160101893 D06.01.2020
R479
Pjur power cream is the perfect long-lasting lubricant designed specifically for us with your intimate products and anal sex.Thanks to it's creamy, thick consistency, this lubricant has been formulated for extra glide, hydration, and maximum comfort. Leaving your skin silky soft, this skin friendly lube has both a silicone and water-based based, making it...
Cannabis Unisex Pleasure Lubricant - Oh! Holy Mary
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Cannabis Unisex Pleasure Lubricant - Oh! Holy Mary

HolMaryLube 200120
R549
Oh! Holy Mary Cannabis sliding gel is a lubricating gel formulated from the cannabis sativa seed oil, which when applied produces a mild heating effect.Combined with it's intense moisturising properties, this lubricant is rich in essential fatty acids and is PH safe. Containing no THC, this lube is formulated for the extra slip effect and is long-lasting...
Cannabis Unisex Pleasure Oil Sachet (Pack of 12 x 1ml) - Oh! Holy Mary
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Cannabis Unisex Pleasure Oil Sachet (Pack of 12 x 1ml) - Oh! Holy Mary

HolMarSingleBox 200120
R999
The Cannabis Pleasure oil by Spanish brand Oh! Holy Mary is a potent formulae designed to stimulate either his glans or her clitoris, increasing both your level of sensation as well as amplifying your orgasm.  With it's unique formulae containing the Cannabis Sativa Seed this oil - unlike traditional stimulants - does not produce a cooling or...
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