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Désir offers a gorgeous range of adult gifts, from bridal shower and bachelorette novelty items, to board games, books, and beautifully packaged occasional gift sets. The perfect accessory for a fun-filled experience, or a sensual gift for that special someone.

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  • R499

    Embark on an erotic Eastern voyage with this sensual guide to the best sex positions and techniques from the Kama Sutra and other ancient sex texts from India, Arabia, China, and Japan. Find out how to turn a room into a love chamber, learnt erotic massage the tantric way, or tease your lover with some playful pataka spanking or sexy geisha games....

  • R445

    Stripped down is a multi-orgasmic read that breaks all the rules. The selacious stories in Stripped down will draw you in and sweep you off your feet. Here is love, sex, revenge, and stranger sex so good you won't be able to think straight. These stories strip down way past naked to show us what we can discover about ourselves through our sexual encounters.

  • R499

    This paperback is far different from your ordinary sex manual in that it contains inspirational ideas for people who've lost a little of that zing in bed, are in a rut, tired from work, or are looking after the kids to feign headaches. Re-energise your life has helped thousands of couples rediscover their passion for one another and with bonus chapters...

  • R449

    This paperback by Dr Pamela Stephenson-Connolly is an eye-opening journey to explode myths and answer embarrassing questions we've always wanted to ask about sex and our insatiable appetite for it. Hugely informative, always entertaining and at times shocking, this book covers everything from puberty, sex in our 30s, 40s and 60s and who we are sexually.

  • R229

    There's sex, there's good sex, and there's supersex! Are you ready for the most mind blowing sex of your life? All the tricks and techniques you need are in this handbag handy guide. Includes the kiss, lick, stroke and nibble guide; giving and receiving gobsmackingly great oral; being a penis genius when it comes to his precious part; instant fix it's and...

  • R259

    This bite sized book combines the best of the Kama Sutra ancient wisdom with modern sex advice. Packed with 52 red hot positions, easy to learn techniques for him and her, and tips that will tune your lovemaking skills and maximise your sexual confidence. Flip through the pages of this book and be seduced. Work through the themed positions with your...

  • R299

    Featuring 23 sexy ways to play, this coupon booklet offers suggestive alternatives for you both to take part in. From sexy striptease to heads or tails, and foreplay fantasy ideas, this booklet is perfect for adding some spice to your date night.

  • R184

    This pocket size book provides you with expert advice from tongue twisters to sword swallowing, from slow and sweet to passionate and powerful. Along with a basic refresher course on giving great lip service, you'll learn how to use the angle of his penis to the best effect, how to speed him up and slow him down, and with the perfect and clear...

  • R899

    The Casmir Marcelle Corset made from the most exquisite imported lace and satin trims is a soft and figure hugging corset, accentuating in the most feminine manner possible. With delicate satin ribboning across the front you are able to adjust the corset to tighten it perfectly across your abdomen. With lace and mesh insets, and a transparent finish this...

  • R499

    Hot Sex is the unique graphic guide to sensual adventure, with hundreds of ideas to enhance your sex life's playfullness, passion, and possibilities.. starting tonight! A treasure trove of quick tips that will improve the sex life of any couple with a deliciously detailed primer on everything you need to know to become an incredible lover!

  • R699

    Although the Vedic sage Mallanaga Vatsyayana's guide to sexual etiquette is more than a millennium old, its teachings are still potent. It not only illuminates the countless ways to give and enjoy sexual delight, but also offers up a scientific account of the art of love, from the psychological to the physical. With its stylish silk binding and...

  • R3,599 R5,050
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    The LELO Intent Gift Set for her  is a set designed specifically around a women and her needs, ensuring some must-have 'me-time'. Beautifully packaged and presented, this luxurious gift pack contains the famous Lelo Ina 2 dual stimulating rabbit vibrator, the sound-responsive Lelo Siri 2 hand-held massager, as well as a Lelo Personal Moisturizer -...

  • R559

    If your biceps get bigger and harder with exercise, why can't your penis? It can! More than 1.3 million men have already learned the truth - the penis, like other muscles, is shapeable through exercise. Penis Exercise shows you how.

  • R339

    Refreshingly frank and funny, actress and presenter Julia Peasgood delivers practical information to transform your sex life. Packed with inspirational tips and facts, this book explores the world of eroticism, revealing secrets and techniques to energize and enhance your enjoyment. With everything from sweetening semen to locating the G-spot, this book...

  • R359

    These Silver Pasties by Anais are beautifully embellished in silver rhinestones and have a thin weighted tassle which hangs seductively from the pastie. With self adhesive backing these pasties are reusable and the perfect accessory for adding some sparkle and seduction to your ensemble.

  • R1,199

    This Happily Ever After Set is the perfect pleasure gift for the bride to be or for Honeymoon play. Consisting of a satin garter with bow, satin handcuffs, self adhesive nipple pasties, and an exotic feather tickler, this gift set is beautifully wrapped and promises a night of sensual pleasure.

  • R459

    The editors of Women's Health magazine bring you scientifically proven expert tips, intensely researched studies, and doctor-approved advice. Step-by-step details elevate every aspect of your sexual life--from the foods you eat to what you say, from amazing foreplay techniques to some mind-blowing sexual techniques you've probably never tried! The result...

  • R1,145

    The Shunga Tenderness & Passion Collection is perfect for couples wishing to add a little spice to their love life. With it's aphrodisiac effects and based on the incredible Japanese art form of lovemaking, this sensual aroma infused collection is perfect for heightening your and your partners sense, making it the ideal prelude to your lovemaking....

  • R399

    The Lesbian Kama Sutra applies the spirit and intention of the original Kama Sutra--the expression of uninhibited pleasure through sex--to the lives of women. Celebrating the love between women with clear, empowering text and a rich visual tapestry of images, the book offers a frank and open discussion of the lesbian sexual experience, revealing the...

  • R599

    An Introductory Guide to Massage is an essential textbook for all massage students and professionals. Clearly written and comprehensively illustrated, it is designed to provide a thorough introduction to massage techniques, essential background knowledge and professional practice. This new edition includes a free CDROM, including full Massage video routine.

  • R895

    Shunga Geisha Secret Collection is the perfect exotic combination based on the sensual art form of Japanese lovemaking. This set includes massage Oil perfect for all over body massage (10ml), aphrodisiac Oil perfect for intimate area massage (10ml), exotic bathing Gel (10ml), edible sweet snow body powder perfect for oral play (4g), small feather tickler...

  • R249

    Look at your partner from a whole new angle with SEX 365: A POSITION FOR EVERY DAY. From the sensual to the gymnastic, from the slow- and-steady to the aerobic, this romp through 365 different sexual positions could be the best thing that ever happened to your sex life. A novelty sex- position book on the market with full-color on every page, SEX 365 not...

  • R199

    Sweet and Sexy Candy Nipple Tassels are perfect for bachelor and bachelorette parties or to simply add a bit of adventure and play to the bedroom. These edible sweets, in the shape of self-adhesive nipple pasties create the perfect tongue play for your partner.

  • R399

    Shunga's Intimate Kisses Aphrodisiac oil heats up on application and is designed to be delicious, edible and sensual. Containing natural erotic and aphrodisiac properties, use this oil to connect while exploring each other's bodies. 100ml.

  • R249

    Sex doesn't always have to be ho-hum or wham, bam, thank you ma'am. Kama Sutra 365 gives you a year's worth of awe-inspiring sex positions to breathe new life into your love-making. From the Congress of the Cow to the Splitting of the Bamboo, tap into your sexy spiritual side with Kama Sutra 365.

  • R269

    Bijoux Flash Cross Nipple Pasties.Bijoux's flash cross nipple pasties are ideal for couple surprise, tempt and tease. Silicone based and self adhesive, they are easy to apply and reusable.

  • R499

    Sizzling Sex is the ultimate recipe book to take your sex life to a whole new level of deliciousness. Intimate and explicit, amusing and arousing, this book guides you through a sexual menu that takes you from the very essence of libido and chemistry through to tricks, tips and techniques for mind-blowing orgasms and simple-to-sexpert positions.

  • R499

    While the female nude has long played a concpicuous role in western iconography, the male nude has not always enjoyed such adoration. This collection provides an overdue review of material that at one time could only be bought under the counter, beginning with the anonymous erotica of the 19th century. It features the pioneer homoerotic nude photographs...

  • R359

    Readers can banish boredom from the bedroom all year with this day-by-day guide to the most erotic foreplay and exciting sex imaginable. The New 365 Sex Positions Book features 400 pages of illustrated tips and tricks to spice up your year.

  • R199

    69 Ways to Please Your Lover taps anyone's inner lover with sexy secrets and provocative pointers to stimulate both mind and body. There are no long explanations or step-by-step agendas, just a wealth of ways to tickle the erotic imagination. Part one covers techniques, from playing to penetrating. Part two tours the body's many hot spots -- and shows how...

  • R359

    Journalist Arianne Cohen asked hundreds of ordinary people from every walk of life to record their intimate sexual thoughts and encounters for a single week. The results is a tantalising and steamy glimps into their private lives and longings. From the adulterous businessman and the kinky lesbian to the grandmother yearning for a good romp, the sex...

  • R379

    Techniques that will drive her wild! Getting a woman to orgasm has more to do with the movement of your lips than what you do with your hips. The ultimate oral guide teaches you all of the moves you need to go down on a woman skillfully.

  • R549

    Whether you are lesbian, bisexual, queer, butch, femme, androdynous, or transgendered - and even if you have just discovered that you want to have sex with a woman - the whole lesbian sex book is for you. How to have all the orgasms you desire; how to create lasting intimate sexual relationships that deepen over time; the latest vibrators, dildos and...

  • R449

    Famous for helping couples discover how sex can be playful, erotic, passionate, exhilarating, and most of all, pleasurable.The Joy of Sex revolutionized how we experience our sexuality. An international bestseller since it was first published in 1972, Dr. Alex Comfort’s classic work dared to celebrate the joy of human physical intimacy with such...

  • R399

    Have a 100% steamier time in bed with Cosmo's red hot sex secrets. Inside this book you will find mental tricks and body moves to make you feel amazing naked; exactly how to touch a naked man; oral-sex secrets that will make him forget his name; 21 scorching sex positions; multiple orgasms; and your most intimate sex questions asked.

  • R229

    Sex shouldn’t be satisfying, it should be mindblowing. With this simple and accessible guide to BDSM (bondage, dominance, sadism and masochism) you can turn every night into an erotic fantasy. Sex should set you on fire, so that an unrecognisable shade of yourself comes alive in the smoulder. That’s the Fifty Shades of Grey philosophy...

  • R239

    Bored with vanilla sex? Now that a certain bestseller has set imaginations afire, everyone's eager to explore the world of BDSM (bondage, discipline, dominance, submission, sadism, and masochism). Let the fun and games begin, with this sizzling-hot guide to power play! Learn the ropes (literally) of bondage, try titillating torture for a spanking good...

  • R299

    From the author of best selling Fifty Shades of Pleasure, comes a naughty new collection of mind-blowing moves! If the latest wave of popular romance has gotten your motor running, this book will shift you into high gear. Author Marisa Bennett steps up again to give you the dirty details on doing the horizontal hula, with wit, humor, and some hot new...

  • R379

    At Last! A Comprehensive Guide to Sexual Intercourse!   Sex is as old as human civilization—so why, after all these years, are the secrets of a rewarding sex life so elusive? Fortunately, The Sex Instruction Manual is here to answer all of your most pressing questions: Why do men fall asleep after achieving orgasm? What’s the G-spot and...

  • R279

    Treat yourself and your lover to Fifty Shades of Bliss! With fifty raunchy chapters leading you from vanilla sex all the way to sinful BDSM thrills, this handy no-holds-barred guide is packed with delicious hints, tips and eye-opening ideas for exploring naughty and thrilling new games together. Playful and practical, and covering everything from...

  • R249

    This fun and flirty pocket-sized guide answers one of life's most enduring questions: what do men really want? Compiled by a leading expert on sex and relationships, Sex Tips for Girls by Guys brings together intimate knowledge of male anatomy and sexual preferences with deeply personal revelations by real men about the sex techniques they crave. With...

  • R399

    The Kama Sutra combines the spice of age-old eroticism with the candid instruction of a contemporary sex guide. The book draws aside the veil of myth and shows how to combine sensuality and sex for a loving, fulfilling relationship. Photos.

  • R399

    The ultimate guide to anal sex for women offers comprehensive information on all aspects of anal eroticism and health. For all women who want to learn to enjoy anal sex; allows you to build trust and communicating your desires; allows pleasurable anal penetration both how to give it and get it; clear illustrated pictures and discussion of anatomy and new...

  • R199

    Grown up's only! This sexy stocking full of seductive games will get you hot under the collar and ready for cheeky action in no time. From frisky foreplay to duvet dalliances, there's a suggestion here for every occassion, including pleasure hunt, eurovision strip contest, and snogging for apples. So slip into something more comfortable and get in the...

  • R259

    A guide not just to how to have good sex - but out-of-this-world, mind-blowing sex. It features positions and techniques including: best foreplay tips - the massage and kissing tricks that can make it a main event in itself; oral sex - tried and tested tongue techniques that guarantee orgasm for both sexes; and top-rated positions.

  • R2,229

    The LELO Dare Me Pleasure Set in seductive black, includes a soft tasseled SENSUA Suede whip,ETHEREA Silk Cuffs, and the popular Luna Beads Mini Noir, all bringing an exciting new dimension to foreplay. Gift set comes with a gift card and black satin storage pouch, creating an erotically shared pleasure fantasy together. 

  • R2,609

    The Indulge me Pleasure Set from Lelo is the ultimate addition to the bedroom when it comes to indulging in those intense, intimate moments. This pleasure set has a silk INTIMA blindfold and a feather tickler to heighten your partner's senses. To top it off, a Lelo Noa Couples Massager is included to turn your experience into a memorable one, allowing you...

  • R399

    After all these years of thinking 69 was our lucky number, the perpetrators of's wildly popular "Position of the Day" have hand-picked 366 of their very best erotic scenarios into one gloriously chunky, deeply inspiring, and hilarious compendium. Yes, that's 366 - one for each day of the year plus a little something special for leap year!...

  • R89

    Jelly Willies are the perfect naughty treat for a bachelorette or a humorous gift. These fruity flavoured snacks are a brilliant way to cause a few giggles at a party or a girls night in.

  • R199

    The Pocket Kama Sutra is an open sesame to a hot new world of sexual experience - a repertoire of more than 50 ingenious sex positions that will lift you an dyour lover to himalayan peaks of extasy!

  • R199

    Whether you're warming up with some amazing work on the earlobes, discovering new sensations in a bathing session for two, or treating your lover to a seductive show of self-massage, these tried and tested techniques are guaranteed to bring passion and fulfilment to your love life.

  • R99

    CalEx Penis Ice Tray. The Penis Ice Tracy is perfect for cheeky cocktails, bachelor and bachelorette parties.

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