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Désir offers a gorgeous range of adult gifts, from bridal shower and bachelorette novelty items, to board games, books, and beautifully packaged occasional gift sets. The perfect accessory for a fun-filled experience, or a sensual gift for that special someone.

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  • R649

    The Rocks Off Feranti Boys will be Boys 3 in 1 kit is the perfect gift for the man who enjoys all round pleasure. With a powerful 7 function bullet, a strong silicone double cock ring, and a silicone hand-solo male masturbator, the Boys will be Boys kit provides you with an array of tools perfect for all encompassing pleasure, whether your choose to use...

  • R299

    A women's guide to the ancient art of using the exquisite natural fragrances of essential oils as aphrodisiacs, this modern Kama Sutra of scent inspires and encourages even the busiest woman to more thoroughly enjoy the sensuous pleasures of romantic and erotic love. Blending tales from antiquity with a wide array of simple, beautiful essential oil...

  • R359

    How do you fantasise being tied up? Let Best Bondage Erotica count the ways - with rope and handcuffs, as you might expect, but also with silk ties, plastic wrap, ethernet cables, and more. The debut volume in a new annual series, Best Bondage is for anyone who wants to know the exquisite pleasure of erotic restraint.

  • R349

    What happens when you can't say no? What happens when desire trumps restraint, and a seemingly innocent glance triggers a red-hot, clothes-in-a-heap quickie? Short in length but long on arousal, the stories in this collection take place anywhere, anytime the mood strikes.

  • R359

    Dismissed and misunderstood for hundreds of years, the clitoris is the one part of the female body whose sole purpose is to pleasure. The truth is out there, and internationally celebrated sex educator Rebecca Chalker has something to say about it. In the Clitoral Truth, Chalker offers the only mainstream in depth exploration devoted solely to women's...

  • R89

    The mini massage candles by Picobong are sensual, scented candles that melt into the most luxurious massage oil. Consisting of shea butter and apricot oil, these massage candles are easily absorbed into the skin, leaving you feeling nourished, moisturised, and silky soft. Light it up, let it melt and when you are ready, blow out the candle and pour the...

  • R329

    Whether you loved Fifty Shades, hated it but couldn't put it down, or never read it but think yor sex life could use some serious spicing up, then 150 Shades of Play is for you! This helpful and hilarious illustrated A-to-Z guide is brought to you by America's sex-writing sweethearts EM & LO, 150 Shades of Play will make your Christian and Ana fantasies a...

  • R339

    When a man really knows what feels good to a women..he can give her the most electrifying sex she's ever had. Learn the secrets to reading her signals; giving her what she wants and needs; making sure she's satisfied; and with so many new ideas, you won't be able to wait to try them out - and neither will she!

  • R1,799

    The Je Joue Ooh Pleasure Kit is a fabulous & innovative vibrator that allows you to mix & match the various colourful collectibles to personalize your sexual experience. Start off with the vibrating motor, then mix & pick either a clitoral pebble attachment or the classic vibrator attachment."Go Brazilian with this hot hot hot pleasure...

  • R1,599

    San Francisco Nights is one of the most exciting pleasure kits for him, by Je Joue Ooh! This set consists of a cock ring and a butt plug, to be used with the included motor. The motor's incredibly strong vibrations will ensure ultimate satisfaction! The beauty of this set is that you can mix and match to suit your intimate needs. All you need to do is...

  • R1,799

    The Je Joue Ooh Pleasure Kit is a fabulous & innovative vibrator that allows you to mix & match the various colourful collectibles to personalize your sexual experience. Start off with the vibrating motor, then mix & pick either the classic vibrator head, or a vibrating cock ring head - perfect for couple play! "The perfect pleasure...

  • R1,599

    This set from Steamy Shades covers all your basics for exploring bedroom bondage. All the pieces of the set are high quality and beautifully finished with a black lace detail that gives them an erotically feminine look. You’ll find a blindfold, wrist restraints, a length of silk rope, a feather tickler, nipple clamps, collar and leash and a riding...

  • R1,699
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    This Steamy Shades Positioning Kit is pretty and feminine for an erotic boudoir feel, but it’s tough enough to meet the needs of a more experienced kinky player. The bed restraint kit is adjustable and versatile, with strong satin ties that will work on different sized wrists and ankles. The Door Jam Closet Cuffs give you a go-anywhere option to...

  • R899

    7 Deadly Sins board game is a delightfully sinful game that tests your knowledge of naughtiness and your willingness to act out silly and outrageous sins. The aim of the game is to move around the board by answering trivia questions correctly and the first team to act out all 7 Deadly Sins wins. It includes a 16 x 16 inch game board, 270 Trivia cards, 100...

  • R999

    The Feranti His & Hers Vibe set by Rocks off is a cheeky and fun set consisting of 3 of their most popular vibes. In a gorgeous combination of black and pink, this set contains the Ramsey Rabbit clitoral vibe, the RO-80mm Bullet Vibe, and the infamous 4US Vibrating Penis Ring. The Rocks Off Ramsey Bullet Vibrator is a discreet clitoral vibrator powerful...

  • R1,299

    The Slap & Tickle set by Rocks Off is a set designed to allow couples to experiment with light dominance be it through a light tickle, a sizzling sting, or a play of seductive dominance. Exciting both you and your partner's senses, the slap & tickle set features a blindfold made from elegant satin, a feather tickler to excite your senses , wrist...

  • R549
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    The RO-Val necklace by Rocks off is an elegantly designed necklace featuring a small, discreet, and ultra quiet gold bullet vibe as it's jewel. With a scroll wheel to scroll through the various settings, you are able to work your way through the vibes until you find the one perfect for you. Discreet enough for no one to know what it is, you are able to...

  • R599
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    The Fifty Days of Play boardgame, taking inspiration from the Fifty Shades of Grey trilogy, is a sexy adult game for couples who are looking to spice things up. With 50 envelopes in a multitude of colours and 1 dice with corresponding coloured dots, you aim to throw the dice and open the relating coloured envelope. Following the instructions across five...

  • R499

    Sexual Role-Play is a fetish & fantasy game containing 1 Game Die, and 60 Role-Playing Cards. Embracing your adventurous and playful side, one partner shuffles the deck and fans the cards out face down. Once the die is thrown, the drawing player gets to choose a single card from anywhere in the deck. He or she then gets to read the role-play scenario and...

  • R599

    This Pamela outfit by Beauty night lingerie is a cheeky take on the waitress oufit and is perfect for date night! Made from a combination of satin and polyester, this strapless outfit in a combination of black and white satin panelling is figure hugging and cheekily designed at the same time. With a matching thong, this waitress outfit is perfect for role...

  • R229

    Gay Sex playing cards can be played in three different ways. It includes 50 different cards, 3 rule cards and 1 "Unleash your Fantasy" card. "Fortune Teller" game allows you to leave your fantasies for fate to decide. "Lover's Libido" encourages you to learn about your partner's likes, loves & lusts, all the while, building an adventure to lose yourself...

  • R229

    Lesbian Sex card game includes 50 different cards, 3 rule cards and 1 "Unleash your Fantasy" card, allowing you to play this in three different ways! "Fortune Teller" game allows you to leave your fantasies for fate to decide. "Lover's Libido" encourages you to learn about your partner's likes, loves & lusts, all the while, building an adventure to lose...

  • R279

    Spice things up in the bedroom with these kinky love dice! Throw the three dice (one for a body part, one for a location and another for an action) and let your fantasies be fulfilled! Contents contain three dice and a plush storage pouch. Perfect for date night and adding some spice into the bedroom.

  • R295

    You astrological guide to star-studded sex! Every sun sign has its match - in and out of bed. In this hot new edition of the classic bestseller, you'll learn the sensual secrets of the zodiac. With in-depth quizzes and descriptions of the sexual characteristics, favourite fantasies, and compatible matches of each sign, this entertaining guide is...

  • R299

    The 90-Day Penis Enlargment Workout by R. Thomas Ferguson is a book on how to enlarge your penis in 90 days using your hands only. No magic pills, formulas, or devices. Gain size. Gain confidence.

  • R355

    "Virginity loss can be the inspiration for some epic stories. As people spoke to me, they spun tales of shame and joy. Their stories contained breathtaking romance and mind-numbing mundanity, often in the same sentence. They talked about great expectations and equally grand disappointments. I watched as people revived ghosts from the past, and laid them...

  • R295

    This book provides a comprehensive, professional 'tool kit' that will help you:Learn how to resolve sexual and relationship problems Discover new techniques to improve your relationship Practice skills that can protect your relationship Put romance, fun and passion back into your life

  • R499

    Embark on an erotic Eastern voyage with this sensual guide to the best sex positions and techniques from the Kama Sutra and other ancient sex texts from India, Arabia, China, and Japan. Find out how to turn a room into a love chamber, learnt erotic massage the tantric way, or tease your lover with some playful pataka spanking or sexy geisha games....

  • R445

    Stripped down is a multi-orgasmic read that breaks all the rules. The selacious stories in Stripped down will draw you in and sweep you off your feet. Here is love, sex, revenge, and stranger sex so good you won't be able to think straight. These stories strip down way past naked to show us what we can discover about ourselves through our sexual encounters.

  • R499

    This hard cover book by Tracey Cox on Kama Sutra, allows you to choose from 100 positions and dozens of ancient but very effective techniques to transform your sex life from mundane to magnificent. A deliciously erotic feast this book features tasteful pictures in colour allowing you to master your techniques perfectly.

  • R499

    This paperback is far different from your ordinary sex manual in that it contains inspirational ideas for people who've lost a little of that zing in bed, are in a rut, tired from work, or are looking after the kids to feign headaches. Re-energise your life has helped thousands of couples rediscover their passion for one another and with bonus chapters...

  • R449

    This paperback by Dr Pamela Stephenson-Connolly is an eye-opening journey to explode myths and answer embarrassing questions we've always wanted to ask about sex and our insatiable appetite for it. Hugely informative, always entertaining and at times shocking, this book covers everything from puberty, sex in our 30s, 40s and 60s and who we are sexually.

  • R229
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    There's sex, there's good sex, and there's supersex! Are you ready for the most mind blowing sex of your life? All the tricks and techniques you need are in this handbag handy guide. Includes the kiss, lick, stroke and nibble guide; giving and receiving gobsmackingly great oral; being a penis genius when it comes to his precious part; instant fix it's and...

  • R184

    This pocket size book provides you with expert advice from tongue twisters to sword swallowing, from slow and sweet to passionate and powerful. Along with a basic refresher course on giving great lip service, you'll learn how to use the angle of his penis to the best effect, how to speed him up and slow him down, and with the perfect and clear...

  • R499

    Hot Sex is the unique graphic guide to sensual adventure, with hundreds of ideas to enhance your sex life's playfullness, passion, and possibilities.. starting tonight! A treasure trove of quick tips that will improve the sex life of any couple with a deliciously detailed primer on everything you need to know to become an incredible lover!

  • R699

    Although the Vedic sage Mallanaga Vatsyayana's guide to sexual etiquette is more than a millennium old, its teachings are still potent. It not only illuminates the countless ways to give and enjoy sexual delight, but also offers up a scientific account of the art of love, from the psychological to the physical. With its stylish silk binding and...

  • R3,599

    The LELO Intent Gift Set for her  is a set designed specifically around a women and her needs, ensuring some must-have 'me-time'. Beautifully packaged and presented, this luxurious gift pack contains the famous Lelo Ina 2 dual stimulating rabbit vibrator, the sound-responsive Lelo Siri 2 hand-held massager, as well as a Lelo Personal Moisturizer -...

  • R559

    If your biceps get bigger and harder with exercise, why can't your penis? It can! More than 1.3 million men have already learned the truth - the penis, like other muscles, is shapeable through exercise. Penis Exercise shows you how.

  • R339

    Refreshingly frank and funny, actress and presenter Julia Peasgood delivers practical information to transform your sex life. Packed with inspirational tips and facts, this book explores the world of eroticism, revealing secrets and techniques to energize and enhance your enjoyment. With everything from sweetening semen to locating the G-spot, this book...

  • R229

    These Becca nipple pasties by Anais are perfect for the ultimate showgirl fantasy! Featuring super sexy sequins for a slick black shimmer, these pasties in their heart shape have a soft threaded tassle attached to make for the ultimate in seduction. With a super sticky back you are able to use these over and over again and are easily removed.

  • R799

    Bijoux’s Happily Ever After set makes a perfect bridal shower or honeymoon gift. The matching satin garter, self-adhesive nipple pasties and satin handcuffs make a seductive combination, inviting teasing with the exotic feather tickler. The beautiful presentation box needs no extra wrapping to make the ideal gift.

  • R459

    The editors of Women's Health magazine bring you scientifically proven expert tips, intensely researched studies, and doctor-approved advice. Step-by-step details elevate every aspect of your sexual life--from the foods you eat to what you say, from amazing foreplay techniques to some mind-blowing sexual techniques you've probably never tried! The result...

  • R1,499

    Shunga’s Tenderness & Passion is the ideal foreplay collection. Indulge your senses with this luxury collection infused with aromas that heighten the senses. It includes delicious Sweet Snow Body Powder, a lightly flavoured powder that lends a subtle glow to the skin and entices your partner to taste more. Use the feather tickler to apply the...

  • R399

    The Lesbian Kama Sutra applies the spirit and intention of the original Kama Sutra--the expression of uninhibited pleasure through sex--to the lives of women. Celebrating the love between women with clear, empowering text and a rich visual tapestry of images, the book offers a frank and open discussion of the lesbian sexual experience, revealing the...

  • R599

    An Introductory Guide to Massage is an essential textbook for all massage students and professionals. Clearly written and comprehensively illustrated, it is designed to provide a thorough introduction to massage techniques, essential background knowledge and professional practice. This new edition includes a free CDROM, including full Massage video routine.

  • R849

    The secret arts of Japan’s renowned geishas made them sought-after lovers.  The Geisha’s Secrets Collection from Shunga lets you in on some of these secrets. This sample-size set contains beautifully scented bath gel, massage oil, warming aphrodisiac oil, Sweet Snow body powder with feather tickler for application, and Secret Garden...

  • R249

    Look at your partner from a whole new angle with SEX 365: A POSITION FOR EVERY DAY. From the sensual to the gymnastic, from the slow- and-steady to the aerobic, this romp through 365 different sexual positions could be the best thing that ever happened to your sex life. A novelty sex- position book on the market with full-color on every page, SEX 365 not...

  • R199

    They’ll be nibbled at before you know it… These Sweet & Sexy Candy Nipple Tassles are guaranteed to be popular. Attach the body-safe self-adhesive nipple caps to entice your lover to some fun-filled play eating off the candy sweets. They make a cute bachelorette gift, or even a fun stocking filler for a saucy girlfriend.

  • R499

    Apply this softly scented aphrodisiac oil to your lover’s most tender parts, then blow gently on it to heat up the skin. The heating sensation caused by Shunga Intimate Kisses Aphrodisiac Oil is guaranteed to set your lover aflame with desire. This tasty edible oil encourages you to caress, lick and blow on your partner’s skin, giving a whole...

  • R249
    Out of stock

    Sex doesn't always have to be ho-hum or wham, bam, thank you ma'am. Kama Sutra 365 gives you a year's worth of awe-inspiring sex positions to breathe new life into your love-making. From the Congress of the Cow to the Splitting of the Bamboo, tap into your sexy spiritual side with Kama Sutra 365.

  • R249

    Shimmering Flash Cross nipple pasties from Bijoux are eye-catching under a plunging neckline or transparent top. These pasties are flexible enough to adapt to different breast shapes, and are fully reusable. Use them to surprise in the bedroom, or discreetly flash a sexy secret under your evening dress.

  • R499

    Sizzling Sex is the ultimate recipe book to take your sex life to a whole new level of deliciousness. Intimate and explicit, amusing and arousing, this book guides you through a sexual menu that takes you from the very essence of libido and chemistry through to tricks, tips and techniques for mind-blowing orgasms and simple-to-sexpert positions.

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