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Désir offers a gorgeous range of adult gifts, from bridal shower and bachelorette novelty items, to board games, books, and beautifully packaged occasional gift sets. The perfect accessory for a fun-filled experience, or a sensual gift for that special someone.

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  • R599

    The Felicity sexy waitress outfit by Beauty Night is a gorgeous sleeveless body fitting dress made from a combination of soft polyester, satin and mesh frill detail. With cute bow ties across the bust and a matching choker, this outfit is perfect for role play whilst keeping it sexy and seductive. A matching black g string completes the look. Team up with...

  • R599

    This Pamela outfit by Beauty night lingerie is a cheeky take on the waitress oufit and is perfect for date night! Made from a combination of satin and polyester, this strapless outfit in a combination of black and white satin panelling is figure hugging and cheekily designed at the same time. With a matching thong, this waitress outfit is perfect for role...

  • R245
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    The Steamy Sex Games by Cosmo provides you wtih all sorts of naughty ways to have fun with your lover! It has 118 erotic, easy-to-use tear-out cards that are broken up into 12 sizzling, couples-only bedroom games.  Are you ready to play?

  • R219

    Secret Seduction game fro adults provides you with the opportunity to have the best and most creative sex of your life. It captures lust-incited passion and unleashes it with 62 of the most esciting sexual adventures for you and your partner. Within each sealed seduction is a new erotic adventure, waiting to be experienced. These sealed surprises include...

  • R229

    Adventurous Sex playing cards each illistrate a unique and adventurous sex position providing you the opportunity to be bold and take your sexual experience to new levels of excitement! Use them as flashcards, or play one of the included card games that can provide you with 100 000 possible sexual fantasies!

  • R229

    Gay Sex playing cards can be played in three different ways. It includes 50 different cards, 3 rule cards and 1 "Unleash your Fantasy" card. "Fortune Teller" game allows you to leave your fantasies for fate to decide. "Lover's Libido" encourages you to learn about your partner's likes, loves & lusts, all the while, building an adventure to lose yourself...

  • R229

    Lesbian Sex card game includes 50 different cards, 3 rule cards and 1 "Unleash your Fantasy" card, allowing you to play this in three different ways! "Fortune Teller" game allows you to leave your fantasies for fate to decide. "Lover's Libido" encourages you to learn about your partner's likes, loves & lusts, all the while, building an adventure to lose...

  • R229

    A Year Of Sex card game provides you over 50 different Kama Sutra sex positions! This versatile card game offers you the opportunity to either use the individual cards as positional references, or you can play one of the three included sex games to play out your fantasies! Each card offers you simple technique instructions as well as a challenging rating...

  • R279

    Spice things up in the bedroom with these kinky love dice! Throw the three dice (one for a body part, one for a location and another for an action) and let your fantasies be fulfilled! Contents contain three dice and a plush storage pouch. Perfect for date night and adding some spice into the bedroom.

  • R279

    Enjoy an evening of sensual pleasure with the Kama Sutra Dice Game! Throw the three dice (one for a kama sutra position, one for a location, another for additional instructions) and embark on a journey of sensual discovery. Contains 3 dice and a plush storage pouch.

  • R259

    The Nookii Bare - a cute teddy bear that is accompanied by a pouch bag filled with 7 cheeky Nookii cards - one card for every night of the week. Each card has a different, affectionate scenario that you are able to and encouraged to share with your partner, allowing you both to become more intimate with each other and bringing you closer together than...

  • R599

    This 'I Rub My Duckie Single Speed Travel Waterproof Massager is the miniature version of the original duckie. With it's single speed vibrations, it is waterproof and small enough to pack discreetly, making it the perfect travel companion. Perfect for direct clitoral stimulation and all over vulva vibrations. 

  • R295

    You astrological guide to star-studded sex! Every sun sign has its match - in and out of bed. In this hot new edition of the classic bestseller, you'll learn the sensual secrets of the zodiac. With in-depth quizzes and descriptions of the sexual characteristics, favourite fantasies, and compatible matches of each sign, this entertaining guide is...

  • R299

    The 90-Day Penis Enlargment Workout by R. Thomas Ferguson is a book on how to enlarge your penis in 90 days using your hands only. No magic pills, formulas, or devices. Gain size. Gain confidence.

  • R349

    Only You is full of tenderness, raw passion, love, longing, and the many emotions that kindle true romance. The couples in Only You test the boundaries of their love to make their relationships stronger. These lovers don't just go along for the ride - they want to take control and see how daring they can be.

  • R355

    "Virginity loss can be the inspiration for some epic stories. As people spoke to me, they spun tales of shame and joy. Their stories contained breathtaking romance and mind-numbing mundanity, often in the same sentence. They talked about great expectations and equally grand disappointments. I watched as people revived ghosts from the past, and laid them...

  • R295

    This book provides a comprehensive, professional 'tool kit' that will help you:Learn how to resolve sexual and relationship problems Discover new techniques to improve your relationship Practice skills that can protect your relationship Put romance, fun and passion back into your life

  • R424 R523
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    Get a little playful this weekend! Spice things up with Bijoux's Lucky Love Dice, a sexy yet sensual set of die which include self-adhesive stickers that allow you to create your own personalized game. Desir's eye mask provides you the opportunity for sensory play, should the mood take you, whilst the innocently naughty Kitten panty from Anais is a soft...

  • R499

    Embark on an erotic Eastern voyage with this sensual guide to the best sex positions and techniques from the Kama Sutra and other ancient sex texts from India, Arabia, China, and Japan. Find out how to turn a room into a love chamber, learnt erotic massage the tantric way, or tease your lover with some playful pataka spanking or sexy geisha games....

  • R445

    Stripped down is a multi-orgasmic read that breaks all the rules. The selacious stories in Stripped down will draw you in and sweep you off your feet. Here is love, sex, revenge, and stranger sex so good you won't be able to think straight. These stories strip down way past naked to show us what we can discover about ourselves through our sexual encounters.

  • R499

    This hard cover book by Tracey Cox on Kama Sutra, allows you to choose from 100 positions and dozens of ancient but very effective techniques to transform your sex life from mundane to magnificent. A deliciously erotic feast this book features tasteful pictures in colour allowing you to master your techniques perfectly.

  • R499

    This paperback is far different from your ordinary sex manual in that it contains inspirational ideas for people who've lost a little of that zing in bed, are in a rut, tired from work, or are looking after the kids to feign headaches. Re-energise your life has helped thousands of couples rediscover their passion for one another and with bonus chapters...

  • R449

    This paperback by Dr Pamela Stephenson-Connolly is an eye-opening journey to explode myths and answer embarrassing questions we've always wanted to ask about sex and our insatiable appetite for it. Hugely informative, always entertaining and at times shocking, this book covers everything from puberty, sex in our 30s, 40s and 60s and who we are sexually.

  • R229

    There's sex, there's good sex, and there's supersex! Are you ready for the most mind blowing sex of your life? All the tricks and techniques you need are in this handbag handy guide. Includes the kiss, lick, stroke and nibble guide; giving and receiving gobsmackingly great oral; being a penis genius when it comes to his precious part; instant fix it's and...

  • R259

    This bite sized book combines the best of the Kama Sutra ancient wisdom with modern sex advice. Packed with 52 red hot positions, easy to learn techniques for him and her, and tips that will tune your lovemaking skills and maximise your sexual confidence. Flip through the pages of this book and be seduced. Work through the themed positions with your...

  • R299

    Featuring 23 sexy ways to play, this coupon booklet offers suggestive alternatives for you both to take part in. From sexy striptease to heads or tails, and foreplay fantasy ideas, this booklet is perfect for adding some spice to your date night.

  • R184

    This pocket size book provides you with expert advice from tongue twisters to sword swallowing, from slow and sweet to passionate and powerful. Along with a basic refresher course on giving great lip service, you'll learn how to use the angle of his penis to the best effect, how to speed him up and slow him down, and with the perfect and clear...

  • R899

    The Casmir Marcelle Corset made from the most exquisite imported lace and satin trims is a soft and figure hugging corset, accentuating in the most feminine manner possible. With delicate satin ribboning across the front you are able to adjust the corset to tighten it perfectly across your abdomen. With lace and mesh insets, and a transparent finish this...

  • R499

    Hot Sex is the unique graphic guide to sensual adventure, with hundreds of ideas to enhance your sex life's playfullness, passion, and possibilities.. starting tonight! A treasure trove of quick tips that will improve the sex life of any couple with a deliciously detailed primer on everything you need to know to become an incredible lover!

  • R699

    Although the Vedic sage Mallanaga Vatsyayana's guide to sexual etiquette is more than a millennium old, its teachings are still potent. It not only illuminates the countless ways to give and enjoy sexual delight, but also offers up a scientific account of the art of love, from the psychological to the physical. With its stylish silk binding and...

  • R3,999 R5,050
    Reduced price!

    The LELO Intent Gift Set for her  is a set designed specifically around a women and her needs, ensuring some must-have 'me-time'. Beautifully packaged and presented, this luxurious gift pack contains the famous Lelo Ina 2 dual stimulating rabbit vibrator, the sound-responsive Lelo Siri 2 hand-held massager, as well as a Lelo Personal Moisturizer -...

  • R1,779 R2,050
    Reduced price!

    This Luxurious Lelo Alibi Gift Set is a set specifically put together for women who require discretion, seduction, and mystery. It includes the Lelo Mia 2, which is a USB rechargeable, 100% waterproof lipstick-shaped vibrator, as well as a set of Lelo's famous Luna Bead ben wa balls. Included in this exceptional gift set is a 75ml Lelo personal...

  • R559

    If your biceps get bigger and harder with exercise, why can't your penis? It can! More than 1.3 million men have already learned the truth - the penis, like other muscles, is shapeable through exercise. Penis Exercise shows you how.

  • R339

    Refreshingly frank and funny, actress and presenter Julia Peasgood delivers practical information to transform your sex life. Packed with inspirational tips and facts, this book explores the world of eroticism, revealing secrets and techniques to energize and enhance your enjoyment. With everything from sweetening semen to locating the G-spot, this book...

  • R1,199

    This Happily Ever After Set is the perfect pleasure gift for the bride to be or for Honeymoon play. Consisting of a satin garter with bow, satin handcuffs, self adhesive nipple pasties, and an exotic feather tickler, this gift set is beautifully wrapped and promises a night of sensual pleasure.

  • R459

    The editors of Women's Health magazine bring you scientifically proven expert tips, intensely researched studies, and doctor-approved advice. Step-by-step details elevate every aspect of your sexual life--from the foods you eat to what you say, from amazing foreplay techniques to some mind-blowing sexual techniques you've probably never tried! The result...

  • R1,599

    The Shunga Tenderness & Passion Collection is perfect for couples wishing to add a little spice to their love life. With it's aphrodisiac effects and based on the incredible Japanese art form of lovemaking, this sensual aroma infused collection is perfect for heightening your and your partners sense, making it the ideal prelude to your lovemaking....

  • R399

    The Lesbian Kama Sutra applies the spirit and intention of the original Kama Sutra--the expression of uninhibited pleasure through sex--to the lives of women. Celebrating the love between women with clear, empowering text and a rich visual tapestry of images, the book offers a frank and open discussion of the lesbian sexual experience, revealing the...

  • R599

    An Introductory Guide to Massage is an essential textbook for all massage students and professionals. Clearly written and comprehensively illustrated, it is designed to provide a thorough introduction to massage techniques, essential background knowledge and professional practice. This new edition includes a free CDROM, including full Massage video routine.

  • R895

    Shunga Geisha Secret Collection is the perfect exotic combination based on the sensual art form of Japanese lovemaking. This set includes massage Oil perfect for all over body massage (10ml), aphrodisiac Oil perfect for intimate area massage (10ml), exotic bathing Gel (10ml), edible sweet snow body powder perfect for oral play (4g), small feather tickler...

  • R249

    Look at your partner from a whole new angle with SEX 365: A POSITION FOR EVERY DAY. From the sensual to the gymnastic, from the slow- and-steady to the aerobic, this romp through 365 different sexual positions could be the best thing that ever happened to your sex life. A novelty sex- position book on the market with full-color on every page, SEX 365 not...

  • R199

    Sweet and Sexy Candy Nipple Tassels are perfect for bachelor and bachelorette parties or to simply add a bit of adventure and play to the bedroom. These edible sweets, in the shape of self-adhesive nipple pasties create the perfect tongue play for your partner.

  • R399

    Shunga's Intimate Kisses Aphrodisiac oil heats up on application and is designed to be delicious, edible and sensual. Containing natural erotic and aphrodisiac properties, use this oil to connect while exploring each other's bodies. 100ml.

  • R249

    Sex doesn't always have to be ho-hum or wham, bam, thank you ma'am. Kama Sutra 365 gives you a year's worth of awe-inspiring sex positions to breathe new life into your love-making. From the Congress of the Cow to the Splitting of the Bamboo, tap into your sexy spiritual side with Kama Sutra 365.

  • R269

    Bijoux Flash Cross Nipple Pasties.Bijoux's flash cross nipple pasties are ideal for couple surprise, tempt and tease. Silicone based and self adhesive, they are easy to apply and reusable.

  • R499

    Sizzling Sex is the ultimate recipe book to take your sex life to a whole new level of deliciousness. Intimate and explicit, amusing and arousing, this book guides you through a sexual menu that takes you from the very essence of libido and chemistry through to tricks, tips and techniques for mind-blowing orgasms and simple-to-sexpert positions.

  • R499

    While the female nude has long played a concpicuous role in western iconography, the male nude has not always enjoyed such adoration. This collection provides an overdue review of material that at one time could only be bought under the counter, beginning with the anonymous erotica of the 19th century. It features the pioneer homoerotic nude photographs...

  • R199

    69 Ways to Please Your Lover taps anyone's inner lover with sexy secrets and provocative pointers to stimulate both mind and body. There are no long explanations or step-by-step agendas, just a wealth of ways to tickle the erotic imagination. Part one covers techniques, from playing to penetrating. Part two tours the body's many hot spots -- and shows how...

  • R359

    Journalist Arianne Cohen asked hundreds of ordinary people from every walk of life to record their intimate sexual thoughts and encounters for a single week. The results is a tantalising and steamy glimps into their private lives and longings. From the adulterous businessman and the kinky lesbian to the grandmother yearning for a good romp, the sex...

  • R379

    Techniques that will drive her wild! Getting a woman to orgasm has more to do with the movement of your lips than what you do with your hips. The ultimate oral guide teaches you all of the moves you need to go down on a woman skillfully.

  • R549

    Whether you are lesbian, bisexual, queer, butch, femme, androdynous, or transgendered - and even if you have just discovered that you want to have sex with a woman - the whole lesbian sex book is for you. How to have all the orgasms you desire; how to create lasting intimate sexual relationships that deepen over time; the latest vibrators, dildos and...

  • R449

    Famous for helping couples discover how sex can be playful, erotic, passionate, exhilarating, and most of all, pleasurable.The Joy of Sex revolutionized how we experience our sexuality. An international bestseller since it was first published in 1972, Dr. Alex Comfort’s classic work dared to celebrate the joy of human physical intimacy with such...

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