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Désir offers a gorgeous range of adult gifts, from bridal shower and bachelorette novelty items, to board games, books, and beautifully packaged occasional gift sets. The perfect accessory for a fun-filled experience, or a sensual gift for that special someone.
Best Bondage Erotica - Rachel Kramer Bussel
R379Some say bondage is the ultimate intimacy. Once you have allowed yourself to begin exploring your fantasies by surrenduring to pleasure through bondage, you may need a firm but gentle hand to guide you. Let Best Bondage Erotica be your kinky playbook to erotic restraint - from silk ties and rope to shiny cuffs, blindfolds and much more.These stories of...
Mimi Nipple Body Jewellery - Bijoux
R299Body ornaments from Bijoux add something extra-special to a seductive outfit. Mimi shimmery jeweled body decorations enhance sexy lingerie and accentuate the breasts. With a gentle adhesive, they’re easy to apply, and can be reused if carefully removed.
Mimi Rhinestone Heart Nipple Pasties - Bijoux
R299The Bijoux Mimi pasties are self-adhesive reusable nipple pasties - this one in the shape of a beautiful heart. Skin-friendly, and easy to stick on - these pasties are perfect when paired with a sheer top or cleavage revealing outfit. Adorn you body with the most beautiful sparkle. Reusable numerous times when handled with care.
Burlesque Tassled Nipple Pasties - Bijoux
R349Out of stockAdd a bit of burlesque style with these sexy and fun Bijoux Burlesque Nipple Pasties. They’re self-adhesive, easily removable and re-usable. The silicone bases are covered in a soft satin, topped with a sweet bow and twirling tassel. If you’re looking for a fun gift for a friend or bachelorette, the beautiful presentation box makes these sexy...
Edible Candy Nipple Pasties - Spencer & Fleetwood
R159Out of stockThey’ll be nibbled at before you know it… These Sweet & Sexy Candy Nipple Tassles are guaranteed to be popular. Attach the body-safe self-adhesive nipple caps to entice your lover to some fun-filled play eating off the candy sweets. They make a cute bachelorette gift, or even a fun stocking filler for a saucy girlfriend.
Sweet & Sexy Edible Candy Bra - Spencer & Fleetwood
R199This Sweet and Sexy Candy Bra is perfect for bachelor and bachelorette parties or to simply add a bit of adventure and play to the bedroom. Tasty sweets in the shape of a bra create the perfect tongue play for your partner.
Sweet & Sexy Edible Candy G-String - Spencer & Fleetwood
R199This Sweet and Sexy Candy G-string is perfect for bachelor and bachelorette parties or to simply add a bit of adventure and play to the bedroom. These edible sweets, in the form of a g-string, create the perfect tongue play for your partner. Nipple them off one by one, and gently expose your sweet spots.
Jelly Willies - Spencer & Fleetwood
R129Jelly Willies are the perfect naughty treat for a bachelorette or a humorous gift. These fruity flavoured snacks are a brilliant way to cause a few giggles at a party or a girls night in.
Luxurious Satin Pillow Case in Travel Friendly Pouch | Desir Intimate Collection
R179These Satin Pillow cases are perfect to keep your skin wrinkle and crease free. A real indulgence. Use it to feel fresh in the morning, to protect your skin and hair, or simply to feel luxurious and seductive.Perfect for gifts, and come packaged in a beautiful Désir satin drawstring bag to keep it fresh. Remember to follow the wash care...
Pink Penis Marshmallows - Rude Food
R139We can’t help but smile when we look at these soft Marshmallow Willies in their cute blue box. These tasty marshmallows are in the shape of a penis, complete with testicles for that extra realistic touch. They make a perfect treat for a bachelorette party or baby shower for a naughty bride or mum to be. 140g.
Maze Thin Neck Choker with Tassle Flogger - Bijoux
R749Out of stockThe Maze tassled choker by Bijoux is a gorgeous leather look choker which features a tassle attachment - perfect for light bondage play and seduction. Adjustable with a buckle at the back of your neck, the tassle choker can either be worn as a bold necklace or can double up as a leash type collar for safe BDSM play. 100% vegan, this soft leatherlook...
The O! Pendant by Dorothy Black - Dotspot
R380The O! Pendant by Dorothy Black - South Africa's Leading Sex and Relationship Columnist - is a magnificently designed pendant replica of the clitoris. Available in silver, gold, or rose gold the O! pendant came about subsequent to Dorothy Black's talks on Cliteracy and her 10 years of writing about sex and empowerment - and is one of her favourite ways to...
RO-Val Bullet Vibrating Necklace - Rocks off
R449The RO-Val necklace by Rocks off is an elegantly designed necklace featuring a small, discreet, and ultra quiet gold bullet vibe as it's jewel. With a scroll wheel to scroll through the various settings, you are able to work your way through the vibes until you find the one perfect for you. Discreet enough for no one to know what it is, you are able to...
Sophisticated Pearled Handcuffs Plaisir Nacre - Bijoux
R499Sophisticated yet oh-so-suggestive to a partner in the know, these beautiful black or ivory pearl cuffs by Bijoux Indiscrets become the ultimate bondage accessory with the addition of a simple silver chain. Wear the cuffs individually with a glamorous outfit or luxurious lingerie to signal to your partner that you’re up for exploring the pleasures...
Blindfold Petits Bonbons - Bijoux
R229Combine this sensual, soft, opaque padded eye mask with the Frou Frou cuffs and Lilly Whip, both from Bijoux Indiscrets, to set the scene for a night of sexy dominatrix roleplay. Your partner will love the heightened sensations of touch and sound when the element of sight is removed. Caress, tease and tantalise to build desire like never before.
Aphrodisia and Desire Massage Candle - Shunga
R429Experience the ultimate erotic massage with Shunga's massage candles, a soy based candle that can be used as both an ambiance candle or an intimate massage oil. It is made from 100% natural oils and is designed to burn at a lower temperature in order to create a lukewarm oil that will leave the skin feeling soft and silky. 170ml
Oriental Crystals Scented & Arousing Dead Sea Salts - Shunga
R399Relax in a scented oasis as a prelude to a night of love. Shunga's Oriental Scented Dead Sea Salt crystals transform your bath into a sensual oasis. Just a small amount of crystals will colour your bathwater a soothing blue, creating velvet bubbles and releasing a beautiful scent. The aphrodisiac effect of these moisturizing bath crystals will linger...
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Senze’s erotic massage candle is perfect for gentle foreplay. The candle burns at a low heat, creating a warm, buttery, scented oil that moisturizes the skin as you massage. Just a few minutes of burning will create enough oil for a basic massage. Give it a little longer to have enough oil for a full-body sensual massage that your partner will love....
Divine 3-in-1 Stimulating Oral Pleasure Gloss - Shunga
R425Out of stockDiscover the art of intense and divine oral pleasure with Shunga's Divine Oral Pleasure Gloss. This pleasure lip gloss is designed to sensitize and excite and provides a 3-in-1 cooling, warming, and tingling sensation designed to stimulate both the woman and man's intimate areas through oral play. Apply a small amount to your lips using the gloss-designed...
Mini Massage Candle - Picobong
R89The mini massage candles by Picobong are sensual, scented candles that melt into the most luxurious massage oil. Consisting of shea butter and apricot oil, these massage candles are easily absorbed into the skin, leaving you feeling nourished, moisturised, and silky soft. Light it up, let it melt and when you are ready, blow out the candle and pour the...
Carnal Pleasures Aphrodisiac Collection - Shunga
R1,999Shunga collections are beautifully packaged, perfect for gifting and are designed to enhance your love-making and levels of intimacy. The Carnal Pleasures Collection contains five full-sized products, offering a range of deliciously scented options for your carnal adventures. For the most erotic form of foreplay - Dust your lover’s body with Sweet...
Intimate Kisses Edible Aphrodisiac Stimulating Oil | Shunga
R499Out of stockApply this softly scented aphrodisiac oil to your lover’s most tender parts, then blow gently on it to heat up the skin. The heating sensation caused by Shunga Intimate Kisses Aphrodisiac Oil is guaranteed to set your lover aflame with desire. This tasty edible oil encourages you to caress, lick and blow on your partner’s skin, giving a whole...
Gay Sex Card Game - Kheper Games
R231Gay Sex playing cards can be played in three different ways. It includes 50 different cards, 3 rule cards and 1 "Unleash your Fantasy" card. "Fortune Teller" game allows you to leave your fantasies for fate to decide. "Lover's Libido" encourages you to learn about your partner's likes, loves & lusts, all the while, building an adventure to lose yourself...
Openhearted Speed Dating Game - Moodzz
R149First date coming up? Nervous about how to get the conversation going? Try this fun ‘Speed Dating’ game from Moodzz. It contains a set of cards with conversation starters to help you overcome that ‘first date fright’ and strike up a conversation that will help you both get to know each other. It’s relaxed, fun and friendly.
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Spice things up in the bedroom with these kinky love dice! Throw the three dice (one for a body part, one for a location and another for an action) and let your fantasies be fulfilled! Contents contain three dice and a plush storage pouch. Perfect for date night and adding some spice into the bedroom.
Dice Game - Kama Sutra Positions
R281Enjoy an evening of sensual pleasure with the Kama Sutra Dice Game! Throw the three dice (one for a kama sutra position, one for a location, another for additional instructions) and embark on a journey of sensual discovery. Contains 3 dice and a plush storage pouch.
Kama Sutra Heart Game - Moodzz
R379Challenge your partner to a game of erotic fun with the Kama Sutra Heart game from Moodzz. Inside the lovely heart-shaped box are over a hundred erotic challenges, ranging from the simple to the sizzling, for you and your partner to try. Build intimacy and get to know each other’s sexual desires in a fun and romantic way with this beautifully packaged game.
Sexual Roleplay Card Game - Ball & Chain
R503Sexual Role-Play is a fetish & fantasy game containing 1 Game Die, and 60 Role-Playing Cards. Embracing your adventurous and playful side, one partner shuffles the deck and fans the cards out face down. Once the die is thrown, the drawing player gets to choose a single card from anywhere in the deck. He or she then gets to read the role-play scenario and...
The Really Cheeky Board Game for Friends
R655The really cheeky board game for friends is a board game of strategy & luck and can be enjoyed by couples and friends. Designed as a game which encourages intimacy and fun, each throw of the dice moves you around the board allowing you purchase and manage businesses with the aim of making the most profit within the adult industry. Risky or Frisky cards...
The Path to Pleasure Adult Board Game | Creative Conceptions
R495The Path to Pleasure boardgame is designed for adults that are looking to heat things up in the bedroom and encourage a journey of sexual discovery.Players move along a path of pleasure board game and with each roll of the dice, land on a numbered square that offers it's own tantalizing instruction designed to bring you closer together. From massage and...
Strip or Tease Adult Boardgame - Creative Conceptions
R449Strip or Tease is an adult boardgame encouraging intimacy and slow, sensual, seduction and teaches you how to undress with finess.With two sets of cards, you are able to choose either Strip or Tease. Choose strip and gently peel off your layers move by move or choose tease and seduce your partner with the erotic instruction and seductive tips. Strip...
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7 Deadly Sins board game is a delightfully sinful game that tests your knowledge of naughtiness and your willingness to act out silly and outrageous sins. The aim of the game is to move around the board by answering trivia questions correctly and the first team to act out all 7 Deadly Sins wins. It includes a 16 x 16 inch game board, 270 Trivia cards, 100...
Stripteuse set with CD, Boa & Nipple Pasties - Bijoux
R599This stunning gift tin is perfect for a bachelorette or a girlfriend who wants to come out of her shell. The Bijoux Stripteuse kit contains a CD of seductive striptease songs, a black feather boa, rhinestone nipple caps and a red satin garter. These essentials are all you need to create a sexy striptease that any romantic partner would be delighted...
Ovation Couples 'Date Night' Kit with Vibrating Penis Ring | Screaming O
R399The Screaming O Ovation Kit provides the ultimate kit for a night with your partner. Containing 2 of each item, this kit includes 2 screaming o vibrating cock rings, 2 water-based lubricant sachets, 2 warming lubricant sachets, two cleansing towelettes, and two sweet mints. The disposable vibrating cock ring, allows for 30 plus minutes of play and has a...
Wild Couples Set - Kinky - Fifty Shades Darker
R1,399When Ana talks about “kinky f*%*ery”, she probably means something like this wildly fun couples set from Fifty Shades Darker. For the more adventurous couple wanting to explore their wilder side, this set makes a perfect gift, or pack it in for a special weekend away. This set is fantastic value, too, as it includes a set of wrist restraints,...
Anniversary Collection Featuring Sync & Tango Vibrators - We-Vibe
R3,699To celebrate 10 years of bringing couples closer together, We-vibe have paired two of their most-loved products together - the We-Vibe Tango and the We-Vibe Sync - in a luxurious exclusive travel-ready play case.We-Vibe SyncDesigned to be worn by the female during love-making, the We-Vibe Sync is one of the most famous couples vibrators on the market....
The Alibi Luxury Gift Box for Her Featuring Mia2 Vibrator - LELO
R1,799You won’t go wrong with this luxury gift set in elegant black. Inside The Alibi, you’ll find the Lelo Mia 2. This USB-rechargeable bullet vibrator is smartly shaped like a lipstick case, so it’s easy to pop in your handbag for portable pleasure. Even left casually on your dressing table, the Mia 2 won’t raise and eyebrow. Along...
Dark Desire Advanced Couples Kit - Fifty Shades Darker
R1,499Give in to your desires and indulge in the ultimate bondage and couples play fantasy with this Dark Desire Advanced Couples Kit from Fifty Shades Darker. With this kit, you are able to elevate your bondage play to new heights. Whether restraining by silky rope or bondage tape, use the blindfold to play with erotic sensory deprivation, whilst you use the...
Dare Me Pleasure Set with the Luxurious Luna Noir Ben-Wa Balls | LELO
R2,199For your own pleasure or as the perfect gift for a naughty friend, the Dare Me Pleasure Set from Lelo is both elegant and wicked. It includes a soft suede flogger, silk cuffs and the incredible Luna Beads Mini Noir. Quoted as beads designed for pleasure and indulgence, the Luna Beads Noir when inserted vaginally, feature two internal beads which gently...
Feranti His & Hers 3-in-1 Pleasure Set for Couples - Rocks Off
R999The Rocks Off Feranti His & Hers Pleasure set is the perfect kit to allow both of you to experience pleasure by three of the most popular Rocks Off vibrator toys. Featuring two silicone sleeves, one in the form of the stimulating Ramsey Rabbit, and another in the form of the 4US couples cock ring, you are able to simply slip the...
Feranti Boys will be Boys 3-in-1 Kit for Him - Rocks Off
R629Out of stockThe Rocks Off Feranti Boys will be Boys 3 in 1 kit is the perfect gift for the man who enjoys all round pleasure. With a powerful 7 function bullet, a strong silicone double cock ring, and a silicone hand-solo male masturbator, the Boys will be Boys kit provides you with an array of tools perfect for all encompassing pleasure, whether your choose to use...
Slap & Tickle Beginners BDSM Kit with Soft Tip Bullet Vibrator | Rocks Off
R1,499Get a little naughty with this Slap & Tickle set, and explore the kinky side of life. This sexy set is a perfect way to add just a touch of BDSM to your bedroom without bringing out the bullwhip. The Rocks-Off Slap & Tickle Beginners S&M Kit contains a pair of soft wrist restraints, a satin blindfold, a sexy feather tickler, a small riding crop, and...
Bridal Pleasure Set with the Luxurious Noa Couples Vibrator - LELO
R2,299 R2,999Lelo's Bridal Pleasure Set is perfect for the bride to be, the perfect honeymoon gift, or for countless nights of passion. All in white, this set contains a sensual pearl studded silk blindfold, a teaser whip ring of soft suede, and most importantly the Noa couples vibrator - to be worn by the woman during lovemaking. The Noa by Lelo is a...
Nathella French Maid Set - Angels Never Sin
R729Set the scene for a saucy role-play in this flirtatious 5-piece French Maid outfit. A soft, wireless bra with split cups offers a sneaky peek in front, complimented by the cheeky back view in matching thong and barely-there miniskirt. The lacy headband and garter complete the look. Note: Please check the size chart below before placing your order.
Passion Waiter Fantasy Underwear Set
R349 R499This sexy waiter set from Passion is a great ensemble for date night or sexy suprise. With a bowtie, white wrist cuffs, and a black bikini brief, you have everything you need for the ultimate role play. Made from 90% acrylic and 10% elastane, this set is comfortable to wear. Wash by hand and flat dry due to nature of the fabric. Made in Poland.
Hot Sex - Tips, Tricks & Licks | Jessica O' Reilly
R459Tease and Please every hot spot for amazing orgasms!You love sex - and you're already great at it - but mind-blowing sex isn't just about intercourse. It is about titillating all of the body's hot spots and erogenous zones to peak arousal. This book lists all the techniques for being the best lover your partner has ever had - from your hands, mouth and...
The Everything Great Sex Book | Bobbi Dempsey
R399There's good sex and then there's great sex!Inside this revealing reference, you'll find dozens of illustrated positions and valuable advice as veteran sex writer Bobbi Dempsey teaches you:- How to get naughty with games and sex talk- Ways to position yourself for more enjoyable oral sex- New tips on how to find and tantalise the G-spot- What positions...
Oral Sex that will blow her mind | Shanna Katz
R329Become and oral sex aficionado!Whether you're starting or are practically an oral expert, this book has just what you need. It's packed with tips and techniques to improve those tingling tongue moves and features tastefully erotic photos of positions perfect for oral pleasing.
Kama Sutra Erotica | Anne Hooper
R599Explore a world of erotica inspired by the ancient Kama Sutra, from bestselling sexpert Anne Hooper.Maximise erotic pleasure in every stage of your relationship - transform your love-making by progressing from one position into another and another!
The Multi-Orgasmic Woman | Mantak Chai & Rachel Carlton Abrams
R349Mantak Chai is a world renowned teacher of the Taoist arts, from Tai Chi to Taoist sexuality. In this book he describes a simple step by step guide to the techniques allowing you to experience a level of sexual pleasure and healing you may not have known was possible. This fully illustrated guide will teach woman of all ages how to harness sexual energy...
BDSM for Nice People | Debra and Don Macleod
R229For the millions of readers who have been inspired to throw a bit more spice into their sex lives by the steamy bestseller 50 Shades of Grey, this simple and highly accessible guide to BDSM features fifty edgy and erotic adventures to sample.From turning your hohum bedroom into a red room, to exploring the fine art of Japanese rope bondage and a few other...
The Good Girl's Guide to Bad Girl Sex | Barbara Keesling
R299Imagine a world where you were as sexually confident, physically uninhibited, and as intensely orgasmic as you have always wanted to be...Based on the understanding that inside every good girl is a bad girl wanting to get out, this book teaches women how to express their natural impulses with dignity and panache. Comfortable with your own body, feeling...
