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Désir offers a gorgeous range of adult gifts, from bridal shower and bachelorette novelty items, to board games, books, and beautifully packaged occasional gift sets. The perfect accessory for a fun-filled experience, or a sensual gift for that special someone.
Soy Luxury Aphrodisia Massage Candle (30ml Travel Size) - Shunga
R149The mini massage candle by Shunga, is the perfect travel sized companion for luxurious and sensual massage - right at your fingertips.With its soy based formulae, this candle may be used as an ambiance candle as well as an intimate massage oil. Simply light the candle, allow it to burn for up to 20 minutes, and gently extinguish the flame. Pour a...
Shunga Lovebath Sensual Love Pearls - Shunga
R449Create the ultimate erotic bathing experience with the Shunga Lovebath. Transforming your bath water into thousands of delicate pearls, the Shunga Lovebath forms a sensual gel softly moisturising your skin, thereby creating a soothing experience with the most luxurious scent. Simply empty sachet #1 into a run bath, stir lightly and within 5 to 10...
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These exquisite pillow slips by Dear Deer are made from a high quality satin that assists with retaining your natural moisture levels in your skin.Minimising facial lines, wrinkles, and puffiness, this high quality satin won't absorb your expensive night creams as natural fibre slips would. With it's hypoallergenic...
L'Essence du Boudoir Bedroom & Linen Perfume - Bijoux
R899Your sense of smell is one of the most sensitive, and can ignite a fiery passion within you with the right scents. Bijoux Indiscrets L’Essence du Boudoir captures sweet rose, exotic jasmine, woods and spices, and erotic Ylang-Ylang in an aphrodisiac linen perfume spray that sets the scene for a heady seduction. This luxurious linen scent is...
Indulge Me Pleasure Set - LELO
R3,499he Indulge Me Pleasure Set by LELO is the ultimate gift set allowing you to indulge your senses with luxury and absolute sophistication. Designed for couples, the Pleasure set features the INTIMA silk blindfold, the TANTRA feather teaser and the ultimate best-selling NOA couples massager. In a gorgeous gift box, the LELO Indulge me is a celebration of...
Soy Luxury Aphrodisia Massage Candle (Pack of 6 x 30ml) - Shunga
R729The mini massage candle by Shunga, is the perfect travel sized companion for luxurious and sensual massage - right at your fingertips.Featuring a pack of 6 travel sized candles, with it's soy based formulae, this candle may be used as an ambiance candle as well as an intimate massage oil. Simply light the candle, allow it to burn for up to 20 minutes, and...
Pain & Pleasure Sexy Surprise Gift Box for Couples - Desir
R1,199There's nothing quite like spicing up old routines with a bit of light bondage play. But more often that not, the selection process of where to start can be somewhat overwhelming and intimidating. With so many bondage products, and a slight oversight in your selection, your night of restraint play can end up a complete disaster, leaving you and your...
Beginners Sexy Surprise Gift Box for Him (S,M,L) - Desir
R899Shopping for a beginner is never easy and more often than not, men's intimate products can be incredibly overwhelming and intimidating and with the wrong purchase you may often be left feeling frustrated and dissapointed. Desir has made this part of your journey easier. With the Beginners Sexy Surprise for Him, our client concierge will carefully curate a...
Sexy Surprise Gift Box for Her (S,M,L) - Desir
R899Run out of ideas for her birthday? Need a gift that will make her feel exceptional? Desir has the perfect solution to help you honour her in the most elegant way possible. Our Sexy Surprise Gift Boxes consist of several items to the value of your purchase. The bigger the box, the bigger the reward! Simply purchase your Sexy Surprise and our team of...
Sexy Surprise Gift Box for Him (S,M,L) - Desir
R899Run out of ideas for his birthday? Need a gift that will blow him away? Desir has the perfect solution to help you honour him in the sexiest way possible. Our Sexy Surprise Gift Boxes consist of several items to the value of your purchase. The bigger the box, the bigger the reward! Simply purchase your Sexy Surprise and our team of experts will select our...
Bracli Pearl Sensation Glove - Bracli
R599The Bracli Pearl Glove is a unique addition to your lingerie ensemble, but certainly never dissapoints.A singular lace glove with a pearl finger loop attached, this glove allows you to stimulate and excite all of your partner's erogenous zones by simply gliding your hand gently over his or her body. The smooth, pearlescent pearls gently roll across their...
The O! Pendant by Dorothy Black - Dotspot
R649The O! Pendant by Dorothy Black - South Africa's Leading Sex and Relationship Columnist - is a magnificently designed pendant replica of the clitoris. Available in silver, gold, or rose gold the O! pendant came about subsequent to Dorothy Black's talks on Cliteracy and her 10 years of writing about sex and empowerment - and is one of her favourite ways to...
Maze Thin Neck Choker with Tassle Flogger - Bijoux
R749The Maze tassled choker by Bijoux is a gorgeous leather look choker which features a tassle attachment - perfect for light bondage play and seduction. Adjustable with a buckle at the back of your neck, the tassle choker can either be worn as a bold necklace or can double up as a leash type collar for safe BDSM play. 100% vegan, this soft leatherlook...
I Rub My Duckie 'Paris' Clitoral Vibrator - Big Tease Toys
R749You’re never too old to have some bath-time fun, and with the I Rub My Duckie toys getting clean becomes extra-adventurous. Big Tease Toys has created something special with this clitoral vibrator cunningly disguised as a girly bath toy. The oh-so-adorable rose pink andd black Paris duck is adorned with a removable feather boa and...
Fetish Fantasy Dance Pole - PipeDream
R2,499 R3,999Turn your bedroom or living room into your very own private dance stage with the Fantasy Fetish Dance Pole. This heavy-duty, stainless steel dance pole is easy to install and assembles in minutes. Designed to be installed in a flat ceiling, this pole uses a sturdy bolt-in mount and features a base for both the floor and ceiling to ensure it does not move...
Fluffy Love Handcuffs - XXDreamsToys
R302These fluffy handcuffs are the perfect accessory to your light bondage play. With the playful fur, these handcuffs can be used as either wrist or ankle restraints. With removeable fur, these handcuffs are easy to clean and are diverse enough to be used for either male or female play. Remember to play safely!
Frida Lip Shaped Nipple Pasties - Anais
R199These cute nipple pasties by lingerie brand Anais, are reuseable, self-adhesive pasties shaped into a fun pair of sensual lips.In a gorgeous soft, pastel pink colour these pasties are the perfect accompanyment to a cheeky date night outfit, or can be paired with your favourite lingerie ensemble. Made of lightweight material, these pasties are applied by...
Burlesque Nipple Pasties with Bow - Bijoux
R385These nipple pasties by Bijoux feature a gorgeous glittered finish topped with vintage styled satin bows.With a self-adhesive backing, these pasties are completely reusable and packaged in a gorgeous gift box, you are able to store these away ensuring lint free use everytime. Use them to add a sultry vintage appeal to your most seductive lingerie or team...
Flamboyant Body Jewellery - Bijoux
R349Your beautiful body deserves to be adorned, and these stunning body jewels are perfect for the job. Sparkling blues and greens call to mind the gorgeous colours of a peacock tail. This body ornamentation has a self-adhesive silicone backing that is easy to apply and remove, and leaves no sticky residue. There are three stickers in the pack, for breast and...
His Rules Bondage Bow Tie – Fifty Shades Darker
R299This wearable bondage tie is both dapper and diabolical. Worn around his neck for a formal event, the silky black bow tie looks perfectly innocent. But come the end of the night, it transforms to a restraint to hold wrists together while he has his way. A clever Fifty Shades Darker tag loop to the inside of the tie makes it quick and easy to restrain...
Flash Cross Nipple Pasties - Bijoux
R299Shimmering Flash Cross nipple pasties from Bijoux are eye-catching under a plunging neckline or transparent top. These pasties are flexible enough to adapt to different breast shapes, and are fully reusable. Use them to surprise in the bedroom, or discreetly flash a sexy secret under your evening dress.
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These Becca nipple pasties by Anais are perfect for the ultimate showgirl fantasy! Featuring super sexy sequins for a slick black shimmer, these pasties in their heart shape have a soft threaded tassle attached to make for the ultimate in seduction. With a super sticky back you are able to use these over and over again and are easily removed.
Jelly Willies - Spencer & Fleetwood
R99Jelly Willies are the perfect naughty treat for a bachelorette or a humorous gift. These fruity flavoured snacks are a brilliant way to cause a few giggles at a party or a girls night in.
Oriental Crystals Scented & Arousing Dead Sea Salts - Shunga
R499Relax in a scented oasis as a prelude to a night of love. Shunga's Oriental Scented Dead Sea Salt crystals transform your bath into a sensual oasis. Just a small amount of crystals will colour your bathwater a soothing blue, creating velvet bubbles and releasing a beautiful scent. The aphrodisiac effect of these moisturizing bath crystals will linger...
Gay Sex Card Game - Kheper Games
R229Gay Sex playing cards can be played in three different ways. It includes 50 different cards, 3 rule cards and 1 "Unleash your Fantasy" card. "Fortune Teller" game allows you to leave your fantasies for fate to decide. "Lover's Libido" encourages you to learn about your partner's likes, loves & lusts, all the while, building an adventure to lose yourself...
Luxury Massage Aphrodisiac Candle - Senze
R479Senze’s erotic massage candle is perfect for gentle foreplay. The candle burns at a low heat, creating a warm, buttery, scented oil that moisturizes the skin as you massage. Just a few minutes of burning will create enough oil for a basic massage. Give it a little longer to have enough oil for a full-body sensual massage that your partner will love....
Sexual Roleplay Card Game - Ball & Chain
R429Sexual Role-Play is a fetish & fantasy game containing 1 Game Die, and 60 Role-Playing Cards. Embracing your adventurous and playful side, one partner shuffles the deck and fans the cards out face down. Once the die is thrown, the drawing player gets to choose a single card from anywhere in the deck. He or she then gets to read the role-play scenario and...
The Really Cheeky Board Game for Adults
R599The really cheeky board game for adults is a board game of strategy & luck and can be enjoyed by couples. Designed as a game which encourages intimacy and fun, each throw of the dice moves you around the board allowing you purchase and manage businesses with the aim of making the most profit within the adult industry. Risky or Frisky cards will either...
Endless Nights of Amazing Sex Board Game - Kheper Games
R899The Endless Nights of Amazing Sex board game is based on the equally popular Kama Sutra card game, but now allows couples the opportunity to enjoy over 400 trivia questions, over 60 erotic foreplay, sex positions and tantalizing treats, and a combination of over 1 million ways to win! Earn Sex Cards by correctly answering sex trivia questions, learn more...
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7 Deadly Sins board game is a delightfully sinful game that tests your knowledge of naughtiness and your willingness to act out silly and outrageous sins. The aim of the game is to move around the board by answering trivia questions correctly and the first team to act out all 7 Deadly Sins wins. It includes a 16 x 16 inch game board, 270 Trivia cards, 100...
Kama Sutra Poker Game - Tease & Please
R429Let the chips fall where they may, you’ll always have fun with this Kama Sutra themed game of poker. You don’t need to be an experienced poker player to enjoy the building of erotic tension as the game slowly raises the stakes with stripping, teasing and caressing your fellow player(s) until you reach the ecstacy round. Bluff your way, change...
Divine 3-in-1 Stimulating Oral Pleasure Gloss - Shunga
R449Discover the art of intense and divine oral pleasure with Shunga's Divine Oral Pleasure Gloss. This pleasure lip gloss is designed to sensitize and excite and provides a 3-in-1 cooling, warming, and tingling sensation designed to stimulate both the woman and man's intimate areas through oral play. Apply a small amount to your lips using the gloss-designed...
Soy Luxury Aphrodisia Massage Candle (170ml) - Shunga
R449Experience the ultimate erotic massage with Shunga's massage candles, a soy based candle that can be used as both an ambiance candle or an intimate massage oil. It is made from 100% natural oils and is designed to burn at a lower temperature in order to create a lukewarm oil that will leave the skin feeling soft and silky. 170ml
Tenderness and Passion Foreplay Collection - Shunga
R1,399Shunga’s Tenderness & Passion is the ideal foreplay collection. Indulge your senses with this luxury collection infused with aromas that heighten the senses. It includes delicious Sweet Snow Body Powder, a lightly flavoured powder that lends a subtle glow to the skin and entices your partner to taste more. Use the feather tickler to apply the...
Carnal Pleasures Ultimate Collection - Shunga
R1,899Shunga collections are beautifully packaged, perfect for gifting and are designed to enhance your love-making and levels of intimacy. The Carnal Pleasures Collection contains five full-sized products, offering a range of deliciously scented options for your carnal adventures. For the most erotic form of foreplay - use the erotic massage oil to stimulate...
Intimate Kisses Edible Aphrodisiac Stimulating Oil - Shunga
R499The Intimate Kisses Oil by Shunga is a delicious edible warming oil designed to stimulate and excite your erogenous zones. With it's aphrodisiac qualities, this oil not only heightens the senses, but offers a heating effect on your erogenouse zones designed to stimulate and increase stimulation. With a completely body safe formulae, this oil is safe to...
Geisha's Secret Collection Gift Set - Shunga
R799The secret arts of Japan’s renowned geishas made them sought-after lovers. The Geisha’s Secrets Collection from Shunga lets you in on some of these secrets and features 5 of their most popular products featuring alluring aphrodisiac properties. This set contains a beautifully scented Exotic Massage Oil, Warming Aphrodisia Oil,...
Strip or Tease Adult Boardgame - Creative Conceptions
R499Strip or Tease is an adult boardgame encouraging intimacy and slow, sensual, seduction and teaches you how to undress with finess.With two sets of cards, you are able to choose either Strip or Tease. Choose strip and gently peel off your layers move by move or choose tease and seduce your partner with the erotic instruction and seductive tips. Strip...
Bijoux Kissable Dark Chocolate Body Powder - Bijoux
R459The Bijoux Kissable Body Powder in a delicious Dark Chocolate and Orange flavour is the perfect combination and full symphony of scents that come together on the body. With a fluffy applicator, simply dust the powder onto all areas of the body and enjoy the sensual exploration of each other's body leaving you smelling and tasting sweet and sublime.
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Inspired by Japanese erotic painting, Shunga's Edible Body Paint makes a perfect gift for couples. Get creative on your lover’s body and express your adoration, then lick off the tasty body paint to take your foreplay to another level. Edible Body Paint is non-staining and leaves the skin feeling smooth and soft.
Dark Desire Advanced Couples Kit - Fifty Shades Darker
R1,299Give in to your desires and indulge in the ultimate bondage and couples play fantasy with this Dark Desire Advanced Couples Kit from Fifty Shades Darker. With this kit, you are able to elevate your bondage play to new heights. Whether restraining by silky rope or bondage tape, use the blindfold to play with erotic sensory deprivation, whilst you use the...
Dare Me Pleasure Set with the Luxurious Luna Noir Ben-Wa Balls - LELO
R2,299For your own pleasure or as the perfect gift for a naughty friend, the Dare Me Pleasure Set from Lelo is both elegant and wicked. It includes a soft suede flogger, silk cuffs and the incredible Luna Beads Mini Noir. Quoted as beads designed for pleasure and indulgence, the Luna Beads Noir when inserted vaginally, feature two internal beads which gently...
Slap & Tickle Beginners BDSM Kit with Soft Tip Bullet Vibrator - Rocks Off
R1,299Get a little naughty with this Slap & Tickle set, and explore the kinky side of life. This sexy set is a perfect way to add just a touch of BDSM to your bedroom without bringing out the bullwhip. The Rocks-Off Slap & Tickle Beginners S&M Kit contains a pair of soft wrist restraints, a satin blindfold, a sexy feather tickler, a small riding crop, and...
San Francisco Nights Vibrating Multi Pleasure Kit for Him - Je Joue Ooh
R1,399San Francisco Nights is one of the most exciting pleasure kits for him, by Je Joue Ooh! This set consists of a cock ring and a butt plug, to be used with the included motor. The motor's incredibly strong vibrations will ensure ultimate satisfaction! The beauty of this set is that you can mix and match to suit your intimate needs. All you need to do is...
Her Name is Rio Pleasure Kit - Je Joue Ooh
R1,299The Je Joue Ooh Pleasure Kit is a fabulous & innovative vibrator that allows you to mix & match the various colourful collectibles to personalize your sexual experience. Start off with the vibrating motor, then mix & pick either a clitoral pebble attachment or the classic vibrator attachment. Je Joue Ooh Pleasure Kits are a great way to...
Happily Ever After Garter, Handcuff & Pastie Set - Bijoux
R999Bijoux’s Happily Ever After set makes a perfect bridal shower or honeymoon gift. The matching satin garter, self-adhesive nipple pasties and satin handcuffs make a seductive combination, inviting teasing with the exotic feather tickler. The beautiful presentation box needs no extra wrapping to make the ideal gift.
Bridal Pleasure Set with the Luxury Noa Couples Vibrator - LELO
R2,999Lelo's Pleasure Set is the perfect gift to add a little spark or excitment to your bedroom play. All in white, this set contains a sensual pearl studded silk blindfold, a teaser whip ring of soft suede, and most importantly the Noa couples vibrator - to be worn by the woman during lovemaking. The Noa by Lelo is a couples vibrator worn by women...
Persea Chemise - Angels Never Sin
R749This strapless naughty nurse outift is made from a silky stretch mesh and features a red ruffled border and red cross on the front. The matching cheeky thong features garter straps so you can add sexy stockings to complete the look. Enjoy some fun in the bedroom with this role-play lingerie. Note: Please check the size chart below to get correct sizing....
Wrist Length Floral Lace Gloves
R299These gorgeous black floral lace gloves add a definite touch of glamour and class to any outfit.Designed from luxurious imported black floral lace, these fingerless gloves are delicate in design and ultra feminine. Wrist length they can be worn with your favourite lingerie ensemble or even under that sexy black jacket. Perfect for gifting or as an...
Passion Waiter Fantasy Underwear Set
R399This sexy waiter set from Passion is a great ensemble for date night or sexy suprise. With a bowtie, white wrist cuffs, and a black bikini brief, you have everything you need for the ultimate role play. Made from 90% acrylic and 10% elastane, this set is comfortable to wear. Wash by hand and flat dry due to nature of the fabric. Made in Poland.
The Everything Great Sex Book | Bobbi Dempsey
R199 R399There's good sex and then there's great sex!Inside this revealing reference, you'll find dozens of illustrated positions and valuable advice as veteran sex writer Bobbi Dempsey teaches you:- How to get naughty with games and sex talk- Ways to position yourself for more enjoyable oral sex- New tips on how to find and tantalise the G-spot- What positions...
The Multi-Orgasmic Couple - Mantak Chia
R429The bestselling authors of the multi-orgasmic man and the multi-orgasmic woman show you and your partner how to:- Experience intense multiple whole-body orgasms- Pleasure each other profoundly- Use sexuality for health and healing- Deepen your love and spiritual relationshipCouples will discover simple step-by-step techniques for a level of sexual...
