SEX ESSENTIALS

Sex Essentials carefully selected to compliment your intimate journey, encourage sound sexual health and wellness, and ensure a more satisfying and rewarding sex life.


Desir’s sex essentials are products that have been introduced with the purpose of making your sexual experience that much more satisfying. From lubes and condoms, to supplements and medically sound intimate care products, our essential category offers you the best complimentary products and must-haves for your sexual health and wellbeing.


What is good sexual health?

Feeling good about your body and taking care of your physical and emotional health are all part of being sexually healthy. Physically this can relate to regular sexual health exams, getting tested for sexually transmitted infections, preventing unwanted pregnancies and having a healthy hygiene regime when it comes to cleaning your sex toys and taking care or your body.


But additionally, your emotional or mental health also has an enormous role to play in your attitude towards sex and your sexual health status. Feeling good about your body, giving yourself permission to enjoy sexual pleasure, and being comfortable with your sexual orientation and gender are huge parts of one’s sexuality and can have a fundamental impact on how you perceive yourself, others, and your sexuality.


How do I have good sex?

Planned parenthood states that good sex comes from understanding how your body works. Whilst sex is not a one size fits all experience, good sex comes down to being confident with your body, knowing what you like and don’t like, and understanding your sex drive and pleasures.


It is in this regard that Desir’s range of Essentials have been carefully curated to ensure that you have the best sex possible, whilst taking care of your sexual health and wellness at the same time.


Sexual Health Supplements

With so many factors impacting our sex lives, one of the biggest contributors is that of low libido or poor sex drive. Science has come a considerably long way in providing formulations that not only increase your sexual libido, but also assist with symptoms related to menopause, erectile dysfunction, vaginal dryness, and stamina.


Brands like Solal have focussed specifically on formulations, vitamins and minerals that contain essential ingredients like vitamin b12, vitamin b6, ginseng, fenugreek, and maca root that are natural testosterone boosting herbs. Not only proven to increase your libido, these ingredients are specifically known to alleviate symptoms related to erectile dysfunction, poor sperm quality, infertility, and are known to positively support and boost male and female sexual function. A completely natural alternative to anabolic and pharmaceutical steroid medicines, brands like Solal, LaMelle, Vitaforce, and Erex provide you with the option of adopting a far more holistic approach to your sexual health.


Stimulants and Enhancers

When it comes to stimulation and increasing your arousal and genital blood flow, several brands like Shunga, Wicked, Intimate Earth, and Pjur focus specifically on products designed to intensify your sexual experience.


From clitoral arousal serums and pleasure gels to aphrodisiacs and prolong sprays, Desir has a range of complimentary serums and elixirs that have been proven to amplify your sexual experience. Use them in conjunction with your favourite intimate product or simply for an increase in your masturbation or solo play


Explore the sensory experience of applying serums that encourage warmth, cooling, tingling, and relaxation and stimulate your nerve endings to encourage stronger orgasms and a heightened sense of arousal.


Personal Care and Product Care

One of the most important aspects to sound sexual health, is that of good personal and product care.

With conditions like bacterial vaginosis, yeast infections, vaginal infections, and STD’s, it is critical to follow a health regime that supports your sexual lifestyle. From intimate toy cleaners and disinfectant wipes, to vaginal douches and condoms, Desir has ensured that you have all you need to practice safe sex and avoid cross-contamination.


WebMd lists the use of a good intimate wash as the number one priority after sex. Not only limited to the cleansing of your genital areas, cleansing of your sex toys is just as important and with the introduction of foam or gel sex toy cleaners, taking care of your sex toys has never been easier.


With much controversy around the practice of douching and specifically with regards to women who douche, douching before or after anal sex (also referred to as rectal douching) is widely practiced to clean the anal area in preparation for sex.


With a variety of douches that range from shower attachment to bulb hand held douching apparatus, douching is best practiced with warm water and should be repeated until the water runs clean. EndHIV provides a word of caution for douching too frequently stating that it can damage the lining of the rectum, making you more susceptible to to HIV infection should you choose to not use a male condom.


Desir Panel of Medical Experts

To encourage positive sexual health and wellness, Desir has introduced a medical panel of experts that specialise in sexual health and promote sexual health and wellness - for both men and women. From gynaecologists and aesthetic practitioners, to sexologists and psychotherapists, Desir’s sexual health doctors are available for consult via our treatments category. With a variety of procedures, consults, and services available, your mental and physical sexual health is of the utmost importance to us and we are proud to offer you access to some of South Africa’s most renowned doctors who specialise in their respective fields.

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Natural Water & Silicone Based Toy Friendly Lubricant - Svakom

Svakom
SVA CON SE001
R445
This natural water-based lubricant by Svakom is a unique water and silicone 2-in-1 formula designed for everyday, intimate, or intimate product use. Using the highest graded materials, this Natural lubricant gives you the ultimate pleasure and comfort and has been specifically tested for sensitive skin. Leaving you feeling smooth and soft, this lube...
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Andro Vita Pheromone Perfume for Women - Andro Vita

Désir
BO DP4260006580289
R989
Andro Vita Pheromones for Women is a highly concentrated blend of the pheromones Androstenol and Copulin formulated to attract the opposite sex. Known to omit a spicy and feminine fragrance, this perfume is ideal for mixing with your favourite perfume thanks to its neutral and gentle odour. Spray it on in the morning onto your pulse points (like your...
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Perifit App Controlled Pelvic Floor & Kegel Trainer - Perifit

Perifit
EDC4642226
R4,299
The Perifit kegel exerciser is a new revolutionary system designed for strengthening and training your pelvic floor muscles and has been designed for people at every stage of their life.  Using a fun, innovative, and professionally designed app you are able to track your progress via an app dashboard that allows you to work on your pelvic strength at...
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Silicone Medical Dilators (Set of 5) - MySexualHealth

Désir
MSHDilators
R1,999
The My Sexual Health dilators and 100% body safe silicone dilators made in South Africa and are designed to treat pelvic pain, anxiety towards intercourse, to restore or expand the tissue surrounding the vagina and to treat vaginismus. In a set of 5 ranging from a girth of 5cm right up to 12cm and a length of 6cm right up to 15cm, you are able to proceed...
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Delay Spray - Boners

EasyToys
EDC BON104
R229
The Boners delay spray has been formulated to assist you in lasting longer. Helping with over-sensitivity this spray slightly desensitises your penis without taking away from any of the pleasure you will experience. Delaying your ejaculation and helping you last longer, this spray is ideal for those suffering from premature ejaculation.  Simply spray 2...
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XXL Cream - Boners

EasyToys
EDC BON102
R379
The Boners XXL cream is a nourishing penis cream designed to stimulate your blood flow thereby giving you more volume and allowing you to enjoy more stimulation and powerful orgasms. Simply apply a generous amount to your penis and massage in thoroughly. Wait to fully absorb prior to having intercourse. Repeat the process daily for maximum results....
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Oral Sex Edible Strips - Bijoux

Bijoux
EDC BIO331
R229
These oral sex strips by Bijoux Indiscrets are ultra-thin peppermints designed to make oral sex a more intense and pleasurable experience. Slowly melting on your tongue, these peppermints are safe for use on both the vagina and penis and are ideal for clitoral stimulation and incredible foreplay. A cooling, minty, tingling experience heightens the senses...
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Slow Sex Warming Massage Oil - Bijoux

Bijoux
EDC BI0328
R449
Slow Sex Warming Massage Oil from Bijoux Indiscrets is a delicious coconut flavour edible warming oil designed to stimulate all your erogenous zones.  Designed to surprise, gently blow on oil-soaked skin to heighten the exciting warming effect. Can be enjoyed on intimate areas and 100% compatible with your toys.  This smooth textured sweet flavoured oil...
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Slow Sex Clitoral Balm - Bijoux

Bijoux
EDC BI0326
R349
The Slow Sex Clitoral Balm by Bijoux Indiscrets is a fast absorbing, instant warming balm with ginseng and arginine to heighten sensitivity and sensation for the ultimate clitoral pleasure experience. This tantalizing gel has a smooth silky texture and delicious coconut aroma.  10ml Compatible with all toys and latex condoms. 
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Slow Sex Nipple Play Gel - Bijoux

Bijoux
EDC BI0325
R349
The Slow Sex Nipple Play gel by Bijoux Indiscrets is a wonderful addition to stimulating nipple play.  This gel combined with the cooling metallic roll-on will provide you with mind-blowing chills. Apply a thin layer to the nipple and play. Kiss the gel and transfer its cooling effect to other erogenous zones. Boost the gels cooling effect by putting it...
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    Slow Sex Oral Sex Balm - Bijoux

    Bijoux
    EDC BIO324
    R349
    The Oral Sex Balm by Bijoux Indiscrets is a delicious add-on to your oral play. With a soft, cooling effect, this balm hydrates the skin and allows for a seamless movement between your lips and intimate areas. A mild coconut flavour leaves you smelling and tasting delicious, whilst the soft, silky texture gives your skin a moisturising and smooth effect....
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      Slow Sex Finger Play Gel - Bijoux

      Bijoux
      EDC BIO323
      R349
      The finger play gel by Bijoux is a water-based gel formulated to make finger and hand play more comfortable. With its gentle combination of aloe vera, the gel leaves you feeling smooth, hydrated and avoids irritation. A mild coconut flavour leaves you smelling and feeling delicious.  30ml
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        Last Longer Delay Cream - Boners

        EasyToys
        EDC BON103
        R379
        The Boners Delay Cream is a silky smooth water based cream that provides a subtle numbing effect to your penis, allowing you to last and perform longer. Apply a small amount of cream to your entire penis and gently massage in. Wait until the cream is fully absorbed into your skin so that you don't numb your partners skin as well. With just the right...
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          Cock & Ball Strap - Boners

          EasyToys
          EDC BON016
          R429
          The Cock and Ball strap by Boners is a silicone strap designed to be worn around the penis and scrotum and assists with a firmer erection and longer lasting intercourse. With the ring worn around the base of the penis, the blood flow is gently restricted allowing you to experience a firmer erection whilst the scrotum band hugs your testicles gently...
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            Premium Organic Aloe-based Lubricant - Promescent

            Promescent
            P PromAloe
            R399
            Promescent Aloe-Based lubricant is a premium PH balanced formula made with green tea, oat extracts, quinoa, flax and hemp. These responsibly sourced ingredients rejuvenate, moisturise and refresh your skin during and long after each use. This personal lubricant, for penile and/or vaginal application is intended to moisturise and lubricate to enhance the...
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              Basic Nipple Pump - SAIZ

              SAIZ
              EDC SAIZ004
              R699
              The Basic Nipple Pump Set by SAIZ is an easy to use pump system that increases the sensitivity of your nipples and assist with those with inverted nipples. The squeeze ball pump action allows you to control and create as much vacuum power as needed, creating a suction power that gently increases the blood flow to your nipples. The gentle vacuum action...
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                Basic Clitoral Pump - SAIZ

                SAIZ
                EDC SAIZ007
                R699
                This quality clitoral pump by international brand SAIZ is the ideal pump if you are looking to increase pleasure, enhance your orgasms, or if you are suffering from symptoms related to clitoral atrophy. Designed to function using air pump action thereby creating a vacuum and increasing blood flow, this pump features a cup that fits snugly around your...
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                  Olio Libido For Her Potency Supplement - Olio

                  Olio
                  WSLIBHIM
                  R389
                  Libido For Her by Olio is a female potency supplement, scientifically formulated with premium natural ingredients to enhance sexual performance, increase blood flow, reduce anxiety and regulate hormones.  A healthy libido is important for physical and mental well-being. Take 2 capsules daily, preferably with a meal or 30 minutes before intercourse....
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                    Olio Libido For Him Potency Supplement - Olio

                    Olio
                    WSLIBHIM
                    R389
                    Olio Libido For Him is a male potency supplement, scientifically formulated with premium natural ingredients to enhance sexual performance, increase blood flow and reduce anxiety.  A healthy libido is important for physical and mental well-being. Take 2 capsules daily, preferably with a meal or 30 minutes before intercourse.  Benefits:  - Improves...
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                      Empower Couples Penis Ring - Rocks Off

                      BO DP 811041014389/72
                      R1,299
                      The Empower Couples ring by Rocks Off is a penis ring designed to prolong ejaculation, provide a firmer erection, and offer clitoral stimulation all at the same time. Designed using stretchy body safe silicone, this ring fits comfortably at the base of his penis. The tapered head of the ring features a powerful motor that delivers intense vibrations that...
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                        LustGlider Intimate Douche - STToys

                        SToys
                        BO DP 4041937581008
                        R279
                        The LustGlider douche is a black pvc douche designed to keep your anal and rectum area hygienic and clean and can be used in preparation for anal sex. With a length of approximately 11cm and a diameter of 4cm this douche can hold up to 224ml. For a more comfortable insertion if necessary, apply a small amount of water based lubricant onto the tube of the...
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                          Vibro Spanning Ring - Malesation

                          Malesation
                          BO DP 4041937315948
                          R749
                          The Vibro Spanning Ring by Malesation is a sturdy penis ring designed to assist you to achieve a long lasting and far stronger erection whilst delaying ejaculation at the same time. With 2 motors situated inside the ring, you gain powerful vibrations that can be felt up and down your shaft whilst delivering the same amount pleasure to your partner on...
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                          CBD Infused Intimate Serum - NuForia

                          NuForia
                          NuForiaSerum
                          R549
                          The CBD infused serum by NuForia is a specifically developed intimate serum designed to stimulate pleasure to your intimate areas. By using a small amount directly applied to your clitoral area you will experience an arousing, tingling sensation that is intensified by the CBD infusion. Encouraging an increase in blood flow, your sensitivities are...
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                            Kalahari Horing Erection Booster & Enhancer - PVT Remedies

                            PVT Remedies
                            Kalahari
                            R249
                            Kalahari Horing is an all natural supplement designed to boost your erection power to it's full potential. With studies showing exceptional results, the Kalahari Horing supplement aids in low libido, low sex drive, weak erection strength, and premature ejaculation. With results visible in just 40 minutes after taking 2 capsules, the Kalahari Horing...
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