SEX ESSENTIALS

Sex Essentials carefully selected to compliment your intimate journey, encourage sound sexual health and wellness, and ensure a more satisfying and rewarding sex life.


Desir’s sex essentials are products that have been introduced with the purpose of making your sexual experience that much more satisfying. From lubes and condoms, to supplements and medically sound intimate care products, our essential category offers you the best complimentary products and must-haves for your sexual health and wellbeing.


What is good sexual health?

Feeling good about your body and taking care of your physical and emotional health are all part of being sexually healthy. Physically this can relate to regular sexual health exams, getting tested for sexually transmitted infections, preventing unwanted pregnancies and having a healthy hygiene regime when it comes to cleaning your sex toys and taking care or your body.


But additionally, your emotional or mental health also has an enormous role to play in your attitude towards sex and your sexual health status. Feeling good about your body, giving yourself permission to enjoy sexual pleasure, and being comfortable with your sexual orientation and gender are huge parts of one’s sexuality and can have a fundamental impact on how you perceive yourself, others, and your sexuality.


How do I have good sex?

Planned parenthood states that good sex comes from understanding how your body works. Whilst sex is not a one size fits all experience, good sex comes down to being confident with your body, knowing what you like and don’t like, and understanding your sex drive and pleasures.


It is in this regard that Desir’s range of Essentials have been carefully curated to ensure that you have the best sex possible, whilst taking care of your sexual health and wellness at the same time.


Sexual Health Supplements

With so many factors impacting our sex lives, one of the biggest contributors is that of low libido or poor sex drive. Science has come a considerably long way in providing formulations that not only increase your sexual libido, but also assist with symptoms related to menopause, erectile dysfunction, vaginal dryness, and stamina.


Brands like Solal have focussed specifically on formulations, vitamins and minerals that contain essential ingredients like vitamin b12, vitamin b6, ginseng, fenugreek, and maca root that are natural testosterone boosting herbs. Not only proven to increase your libido, these ingredients are specifically known to alleviate symptoms related to erectile dysfunction, poor sperm quality, infertility, and are known to positively support and boost male and female sexual function. A completely natural alternative to anabolic and pharmaceutical steroid medicines, brands like Solal, LaMelle, Vitaforce, and Erex provide you with the option of adopting a far more holistic approach to your sexual health.


Stimulants and Enhancers

When it comes to stimulation and increasing your arousal and genital blood flow, several brands like Shunga, Wicked, Intimate Earth, and Pjur focus specifically on products designed to intensify your sexual experience.


From clitoral arousal serums and pleasure gels to aphrodisiacs and prolong sprays, Desir has a range of complimentary serums and elixirs that have been proven to amplify your sexual experience. Use them in conjunction with your favourite intimate product or simply for an increase in your masturbation or solo play


Explore the sensory experience of applying serums that encourage warmth, cooling, tingling, and relaxation and stimulate your nerve endings to encourage stronger orgasms and a heightened sense of arousal.


Personal Care and Product Care

One of the most important aspects to sound sexual health, is that of good personal and product care.

With conditions like bacterial vaginosis, yeast infections, vaginal infections, and STD’s, it is critical to follow a health regime that supports your sexual lifestyle. From intimate toy cleaners and disinfectant wipes, to vaginal douches and condoms, Desir has ensured that you have all you need to practice safe sex and avoid cross-contamination.


WebMd lists the use of a good intimate wash as the number one priority after sex. Not only limited to the cleansing of your genital areas, cleansing of your sex toys is just as important and with the introduction of foam or gel sex toy cleaners, taking care of your sex toys has never been easier.


With much controversy around the practice of douching and specifically with regards to women who douche, douching before or after anal sex (also referred to as rectal douching) is widely practiced to clean the anal area in preparation for sex.


With a variety of douches that range from shower attachment to bulb hand held douching apparatus, douching is best practiced with warm water and should be repeated until the water runs clean. EndHIV provides a word of caution for douching too frequently stating that it can damage the lining of the rectum, making you more susceptible to to HIV infection should you choose to not use a male condom.


Desir Panel of Medical Experts

To encourage positive sexual health and wellness, Desir has introduced a medical panel of experts that specialise in sexual health and promote sexual health and wellness - for both men and women. From gynaecologists and aesthetic practitioners, to sexologists and psychotherapists, Desir’s sexual health doctors are available for consult via our treatments category. With a variety of procedures, consults, and services available, your mental and physical sexual health is of the utmost importance to us and we are proud to offer you access to some of South Africa’s most renowned doctors who specialise in their respective fields.

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Vibrating Couples Penis...
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Vibrating Couples Penis Ring - PlusOne

PlusOne
6701
R899
The vibrating ring by PlusOne is a super stretchy body safe silicone ring designed to prolong his play and increase her pleasure. Perfect to use whether during solo or couple play, this penis ring accommodates most sizes and is worn around the base of the penile shaft. With the super-stretchy band gently constricting his blood flow, he gains a firmer...
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Water Based Lubricant - Lovense

Lovense
BO DP 728360599537
R399
The Lovense water-based lubricant is a fragrance-free, non-staining, PH balanced lubricant designed to offer comfort for both everyday use and for use with your intimate products. Perfect for him or her, the Lovense lube contains no parabens or glycerin and with it's viscosity level is perfect for either vaginal, anal, or sex toy use. Non-sticky and easy...
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Ovaria Ovarian Health Supplement - LaMelle

LaMelle
LM OVA001/2
R349
Lamelle Ovaria is a nutritional supplement for optimal ovarian health in women with Polycystic Ovary Syndrome (PCOS). It contains 4000mg Myo-inositol and 2mg of Chromium Nicotinate per recommended daily dose of 1 sachet.  Myo-inositol is a naturally occurring substance found in all living cells and has a large base of research to support its use in the...
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Premium CBD Softgels 300mg - Cheeba Africa

Cheeba Africa
CheebaSoftGels
R729
These broad spectrum premium CBD softgels give you predictable results in a an easy to swallow format. Made using water-soluble nanoemulsion technology, these capsules allow for maximum absorption capabilities allowing you to experience premium effects that are at least two times higher than CBD delivered in oil form.  Containing 10mg of CBD per...
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Vegan Premium CBD Gummies - Cheeba Africa

Cheeba Africa
Cheeba Gummies
R795
These delicious premium CBD gummies by Cheeba are a great alternative to Cheeba's CBD tinctures and capsules.  Each jar has 30 gummies each containing 10mg of premium broad spectrum CBD. Gluten free, 100% vegan and using organic cane sugar to sweeten, these gummies are the perfect way to introduce CBD into your diet. Containing no THC or trace amounts...
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Broad Spectrum Premium CBD Oil 450mg - Cheeba Africa

Cheeba Africa
CheebaOil
R979
These premium CBD Oils by Cheeba Africa are a combination of broad spectrum CBD oil, certified organic MCT oils enriched with lemon, orange blossom or mint.  Containing 450mg of CBD per bottle, these tinctures are safe and a good introduction to the world of CBD. Broad spectrum means that these producfs contain many of the naturally occurring...
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Premium Unscented CBD Cream 250mg - Cheeba Africa

Cheeba Africa
CheebaCream
R745
This broad spectrum premium CBD cream comes in a pump action 30ml container and acts quickly to soften and moisturise your skin. With 250mg of CBD and nourishing oils, this cream contains organic olive oil, organic glycerin, safflower oleosomes and organic aloe leaf juice. Supporting skin and joint health, CBD cream has been proven to fire up the body's...
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Tingling Lubricant and Sensation Gel - WaterGlide

WaterGlide
ST 4019514306108
R349
The Tingling Intimate Gel by WaterGlide is a lubricant produced in Germany using only the finest formulation to give you a 100% natural feeling whilst providing a tingling and stimulating effect at the same time. High-quality ingredients that are characterised by their skin-friendly properties are professionally monitored and checked for your safety...
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Warming Sensation Lubricant Gel - WaterGlide

WaterGlide
ST 4019514305408
R349
The Warming Stimulating Gel by WaterGlide is a lubricant produced in Germany using only the finest formulation to give you a 100% natural feeling combined with a stimulating warming sensation. High-quality ingredients that are characterised by their skin-friendly properties are professionally monitored and checked for your safety through regular medical...
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Elite Velvet Touch Silicone Glide and Massage - Intimate Earth

Intimate Earth
BO MS 049IE
R629
Velvety smooth, Elite Velvet Touch Silicone Glide and Massage by Intimate Earth is a premium all in one massage and silicone personal glide.  Highest grade silicone is infused with natural Shiitake extracts and Vitamin E for the softest nourishing glide. Pure vegan and paraben free, with absolutely no taste or smell. This unique Intimate Earth product...
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Toy Cleaning & Intimate Wipes - PlusOne

PlusOne
843445021908
R179
Made with all natural ingredients, these easy to use cleansing wipes are safe for both the body and all intimate products. With 12 individually wrapped wipes per box, these paraben free, alcohol free, hypoallergenic and PH balanced wipes are perfect for after-play care. Use your wipes to easily wipe down your toy after use, or carry with them in your...
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Skyn Natural Feel Original Latex Free Condoms (3's, 10's) - Skyn

SM CON8004/7
R69
These new generation condoms are made from Skynfeel, a technologically advanced non-latex soft material that is proven to enhance stimulation. The super soft and comfortable barely-there feel will allow you and your partner to feel everything.  *Does not contain natural rubber latex and is suitable for individuals with a known sensitivity or allergy to...
Basic Relief Suppositories...
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Basic Relief Suppositories with CBD (8 Suppositories) - Foria

Foria
BasicForia
R1,799
Experience the soothing, tension-melting effects of Foria's Basic Relief suppositories. With each individually wrapped suppository delivering over 100mg of broad-spectrum hemps extract directly to the area that needs it most, you are able to enjoy local muscular relaxation, relief from period pain, inflammation relief, and intense soothing - whether it...
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Intimacy Natural Lubricant with CBD - Foria

Foria
IntimacyLube
R1,499
Taking clean to a whole new level, the Foria Intimacy Lubricant is an all-natural, free of added chemical lubricant that includes broad-spectrum CBD to enhance arousal, soothe, and excite. With no fragrances, additives or synthetic ingredients, Foria Lubricant is 100% plant based and organic. You'll love the natural glide of organic liquid coconut oil,...
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Awaken Arousal Oil with CBD - Foria

Foria
ForiaAwaken
R1,399
The Awaken Arousal Oil is the best seller from the Foria range.  Specifically formulated for people with vulvas, this unique blend of broad-spectrum CBD and organic botanicals work by enhancing arousal, easing discomfort, and helping your body make sex even better. Designed to support your pleasure and sexual wellness, Awaken is suitable for all phases...
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Slick Sensual Silicone Lubricant - Slick

Slick01
R249
Slick Lube is a silicon based long lasting, silky-smooth lubricant which is gentle on the skin. With a natural Ph of 5, Slick is friendly for both him or her. Slick is locally manufactured from world leading raw materials and is paraben free to ensure long lasting and safe satisfaction. The added moisturizer will leave your skin feeling smooth after each...
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Big Boy XL Lubricated Condoms (Pack of 12) - Secura

BO DP 4024144416325
R349
These Big Boy condoms by Secura are German engineered condoms specifically designed for men who require a larger fit. With a condom length of 19.5cm and a condom width of 6cm, these condoms are transparent, smooth, cylindrical in shape, and lubricated with a reservoir tip.  With each condom having been electronically tested, your safety and protection...
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Silicone 5 Piece Dilator Kit - CalExotics

EDC 3002480505
R2,299
This 5 piece dilator set by CalExotics has been carefully designed to assist with improving intimate experiences and to aid sexual health.  Each piece is made from phthalate free, silky soft premium silicone and come in a range of sizes (from 1cm to 3cm) to provide comfortable gradual dilation. With a sleek, smooth and flexible shape these dilators are...
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Aqua Heat Water-Based Warming Lubricant - Wicked

Wicked
CJ 133163
R249
Wicked's Aqua Heat water based warming lubricant is a must have if you enjoy spicing things up in the bedroom. A unique blend of elements will thrill your erogenous zones with pleasure while the advanced formula enhances personal moisture.  Made with natural extracts of Cinnamon Bark, Clove, Ginger Root and Olive Leaf, Wicked Aqua Heat is gentle for all...
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Aqua Chill Water-Based Cooling Lubricant - Wicked

Wicked
CJ 133164
R249
Wicked's Aqua Chill is a water-based lubricant with a cooling sensation. This superior quality lubricant provides you with a tingling, heightened sensual experience specifically created to assist in full sensitivity.  With it's thrilling waves of natural peppermint leaf, ginger root and menthol, Aqua Chill is perfect if you want to feel everything.It is...
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StaminoGro Fertility Supplement - iNova Pharmaceuticals

R280
StaminoGro is a combination supplement designed to assist you in providing additional nutrition, and works synergistically to help promote wellbeing and vitality.  With it's Vitamin E, Arginine and Selenium ingredients, StaminoGro is perfect for women who suffer from subfertility improved ovarian response, endometrial receptivity, and are struggling to...
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Crystal Elixir Water Bottle - Shift Crystal Collective

ShiftCrystal
R990
"Shift your Vibration with pure crystal hydration" - Shift Crystal Collective These incredibly elegant water bottles offer far more than just hydration. Science has shown that we are made up of 70% of water. There are 4 phases with the last being known as a structured water, which makes up the full composition of most of our bodies. Drinking structured...
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CBD Shot Energy & Focus 5mg - ReThink

ReThink
ReThinkEnergyShot
R49
ReThink shots are a great way to experience the full benefits of CBD quickly and easily. In a compact size, the Energy & Focus CBD Shot helps to increase energy, heighten focus, and improve alertness thanks to it's combination of Vitamin B and Caffeine.  In a palatable cherry flavour each shot contains 5mg of CBD in a 50ml single shot bottle....
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CBD Shot Re-Covery 5mg - ReThink

ReThink
RecoveryShotRethink
R49
ReThink shots are a great way to experience the full benefits of CBD quickly and easily. In a compact size, the Re-Covery CBD Shot assists with fighting fatigue and encouraging normal muscle function.  In a palatable peach flavour each shot contains 5mg of CBD in a 50ml single shot bottle. Conveniently pocket sized, you are able to enjoy the benefits of...
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