SEX ESSENTIALS

Sex Essentials carefully selected to compliment your intimate journey, encourage sound sexual health and wellness, and ensure a more satisfying and rewarding sex life.


Desir’s sex essentials are products that have been introduced with the purpose of making your sexual experience that much more satisfying. From lubes and condoms, to supplements and medically sound intimate care products, our essential category offers you the best complimentary products and must-haves for your sexual health and wellbeing.


What is good sexual health?

Feeling good about your body and taking care of your physical and emotional health are all part of being sexually healthy. Physically this can relate to regular sexual health exams, getting tested for sexually transmitted infections, preventing unwanted pregnancies and having a healthy hygiene regime when it comes to cleaning your sex toys and taking care or your body.


But additionally, your emotional or mental health also has an enormous role to play in your attitude towards sex and your sexual health status. Feeling good about your body, giving yourself permission to enjoy sexual pleasure, and being comfortable with your sexual orientation and gender are huge parts of one’s sexuality and can have a fundamental impact on how you perceive yourself, others, and your sexuality.


How do I have good sex?

Planned parenthood states that good sex comes from understanding how your body works. Whilst sex is not a one size fits all experience, good sex comes down to being confident with your body, knowing what you like and don’t like, and understanding your sex drive and pleasures.


It is in this regard that Desir’s range of Essentials have been carefully curated to ensure that you have the best sex possible, whilst taking care of your sexual health and wellness at the same time.


Sexual Health Supplements

With so many factors impacting our sex lives, one of the biggest contributors is that of low libido or poor sex drive. Science has come a considerably long way in providing formulations that not only increase your sexual libido, but also assist with symptoms related to menopause, erectile dysfunction, vaginal dryness, and stamina.


Brands like Solal have focussed specifically on formulations, vitamins and minerals that contain essential ingredients like vitamin b12, vitamin b6, ginseng, fenugreek, and maca root that are natural testosterone boosting herbs. Not only proven to increase your libido, these ingredients are specifically known to alleviate symptoms related to erectile dysfunction, poor sperm quality, infertility, and are known to positively support and boost male and female sexual function. A completely natural alternative to anabolic and pharmaceutical steroid medicines, brands like Solal, LaMelle, Vitaforce, and Erex provide you with the option of adopting a far more holistic approach to your sexual health.


Stimulants and Enhancers

When it comes to stimulation and increasing your arousal and genital blood flow, several brands like Shunga, Wicked, Intimate Earth, and Pjur focus specifically on products designed to intensify your sexual experience.


From clitoral arousal serums and pleasure gels to aphrodisiacs and prolong sprays, Desir has a range of complimentary serums and elixirs that have been proven to amplify your sexual experience. Use them in conjunction with your favourite intimate product or simply for an increase in your masturbation or solo play


Explore the sensory experience of applying serums that encourage warmth, cooling, tingling, and relaxation and stimulate your nerve endings to encourage stronger orgasms and a heightened sense of arousal.


Personal Care and Product Care

One of the most important aspects to sound sexual health, is that of good personal and product care.

With conditions like bacterial vaginosis, yeast infections, vaginal infections, and STD’s, it is critical to follow a health regime that supports your sexual lifestyle. From intimate toy cleaners and disinfectant wipes, to vaginal douches and condoms, Desir has ensured that you have all you need to practice safe sex and avoid cross-contamination.


WebMd lists the use of a good intimate wash as the number one priority after sex. Not only limited to the cleansing of your genital areas, cleansing of your sex toys is just as important and with the introduction of foam or gel sex toy cleaners, taking care of your sex toys has never been easier.


With much controversy around the practice of douching and specifically with regards to women who douche, douching before or after anal sex (also referred to as rectal douching) is widely practiced to clean the anal area in preparation for sex.


With a variety of douches that range from shower attachment to bulb hand held douching apparatus, douching is best practiced with warm water and should be repeated until the water runs clean. EndHIV provides a word of caution for douching too frequently stating that it can damage the lining of the rectum, making you more susceptible to to HIV infection should you choose to not use a male condom.


Desir Panel of Medical Experts

To encourage positive sexual health and wellness, Desir has introduced a medical panel of experts that specialise in sexual health and promote sexual health and wellness - for both men and women. From gynaecologists and aesthetic practitioners, to sexologists and psychotherapists, Desir’s sexual health doctors are available for consult via our treatments category. With a variety of procedures, consults, and services available, your mental and physical sexual health is of the utmost importance to us and we are proud to offer you access to some of South Africa’s most renowned doctors who specialise in their respective fields.

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Lust Glider Couples Vibrating Penis Ring - SToys

SToys
BO DP 4041937326081
R189
The Lust Glider Vibro Ring is a penis ring designed specifically for couples. Made from flexible silicone, the ring is worn at the base of his shaft - allowing him to experience delayed ejaculation, a firmer erection and longer lasting pleasure. With a mini bullet vibrator attached at the top of the ring, your partner will receive intense clitoral...
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Aromatherapeutic Massage Oil - Promescent

Promescent
P MassageOil
R399
These massage oils formulated by Promescent provide the ultimate massage experience by setting the mood and awakening your senses. Formulated using only premium body safe ingredients, the oils hydrate and freshen your skin whilst the essential oils and aromas help to reduce stress, tension and promote desire, serenity and mood. Choose between the floral...
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Natural Water & Silicone Based Toy Friendly Lubricant - Svakom

Svakom
SVA CON SE001
R445
This natural water-based lubricant by Svakom is a unique water and silicone 2-in-1 formula designed for everyday, intimate, or intimate product use. Using the highest graded materials, this Natural lubricant gives you the ultimate pleasure and comfort and has been specifically tested for sensitive skin. Leaving you feeling smooth and soft, this lube...
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    Silicone Medical Dilators (Set of 5) - MySexualHealth

    Désir
    MSHDilators
    R1,999
    The My Sexual Health dilators and 100% body safe silicone dilators made in South Africa and are designed to treat pelvic pain, anxiety towards intercourse, to restore or expand the tissue surrounding the vagina and to treat vaginismus. In a set of 5 ranging from a girth of 5cm right up to 12cm and a length of 6cm right up to 15cm, you are able to proceed...
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    Delay Spray - Boners

    EasyToys
    EDC BON104
    R229
    The Boners delay spray has been formulated to assist you in lasting longer. Helping with over-sensitivity this spray slightly desensitises your penis without taking away from any of the pleasure you will experience. Delaying your ejaculation and helping you last longer, this spray is ideal for those suffering from premature ejaculation.  Simply spray 2...
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      XXL Cream - Boners

      EasyToys
      EDC BON102
      R379
      The Boners XXL cream is a nourishing penis cream designed to stimulate your blood flow thereby giving you more volume and allowing you to enjoy more stimulation and powerful orgasms. Simply apply a generous amount to your penis and massage in thoroughly. Wait to fully absorb prior to having intercourse. Repeat the process daily for maximum results....
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        Oral Sex Edible Strips - Bijoux

        Bijoux
        EDC BIO331
        R229
        These oral sex strips by Bijoux Indiscrets are ultra-thin peppermints designed to make oral sex a more intense and pleasurable experience. Slowly melting on your tongue, these peppermints are safe for use on both the vagina and penis and are ideal for clitoral stimulation and incredible foreplay. A cooling, minty, tingling experience heightens the senses...
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          Slow Sex Warming Massage Oil - Bijoux

          Bijoux
          EDC BI0328
          R449
          Slow Sex Warming Massage Oil from Bijoux Indiscrets is a delicious coconut flavour edible warming oil designed to stimulate all your erogenous zones.  Designed to surprise, gently blow on oil-soaked skin to heighten the exciting warming effect. Can be enjoyed on intimate areas and 100% compatible with your toys.  This smooth textured sweet flavoured oil...
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            Slow Sex Clitoral Balm - Bijoux

            Bijoux
            EDC BI0326
            R349
            The Slow Sex Clitoral Balm by Bijoux Indiscrets is a fast absorbing, instant warming balm with ginseng and arginine to heighten sensitivity and sensation for the ultimate clitoral pleasure experience. This tantalizing gel has a smooth silky texture and delicious coconut aroma.  10ml Compatible with all toys and latex condoms. 
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              Slow Sex Nipple Play Gel - Bijoux

              Bijoux
              EDC BI0325
              R349
              The Slow Sex Nipple Play gel by Bijoux Indiscrets is a wonderful addition to stimulating nipple play.  This gel combined with the cooling metallic roll-on will provide you with mind-blowing chills. Apply a thin layer to the nipple and play. Kiss the gel and transfer its cooling effect to other erogenous zones. Boost the gels cooling effect by putting it...
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                Slow Sex Oral Sex Balm - Bijoux

                Bijoux
                EDC BIO324
                R349
                The Oral Sex Balm by Bijoux Indiscrets is a delicious add-on to your oral play. With a soft, cooling effect, this balm hydrates the skin and allows for a seamless movement between your lips and intimate areas. A mild coconut flavour leaves you smelling and tasting delicious, whilst the soft, silky texture gives your skin a moisturising and smooth effect....
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                  Last Longer Delay Cream - Boners

                  EasyToys
                  EDC BON103
                  R379
                  The Boners Delay Cream is a silky smooth water based cream that provides a subtle numbing effect to your penis, allowing you to last and perform longer. Apply a small amount of cream to your entire penis and gently massage in. Wait until the cream is fully absorbed into your skin so that you don't numb your partners skin as well. With just the right...
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                    Cock & Ball Strap - Boners

                    EasyToys
                    EDC BON016
                    R429
                    The Cock and Ball strap by Boners is a silicone strap designed to be worn around the penis and scrotum and assists with a firmer erection and longer lasting intercourse. With the ring worn around the base of the penis, the blood flow is gently restricted allowing you to experience a firmer erection whilst the scrotum band hugs your testicles gently...
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                      Premium Organic Aloe-based Lubricant - Promescent

                      Promescent
                      P PromAloe
                      R399
                      Promescent Aloe-Based lubricant is a premium PH balanced formula made with green tea, oat extracts, quinoa, flax and hemp. These responsibly sourced ingredients rejuvenate, moisturise and refresh your skin during and long after each use. This personal lubricant, for penile and/or vaginal application is intended to moisturise and lubricate to enhance the...
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                        Basic Nipple Pump - SAIZ

                        SAIZ
                        EDC SAIZ004
                        R699
                        The Basic Nipple Pump Set by SAIZ is an easy to use pump system that increases the sensitivity of your nipples and assist with those with inverted nipples. The squeeze ball pump action allows you to control and create as much vacuum power as needed, creating a suction power that gently increases the blood flow to your nipples. The gentle vacuum action...
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                          Basic Clitoral Pump - SAIZ

                          SAIZ
                          EDC SAIZ007
                          R699
                          This quality clitoral pump by international brand SAIZ is the ideal pump if you are looking to increase pleasure, enhance your orgasms, or if you are suffering from symptoms related to clitoral atrophy. Designed to function using air pump action thereby creating a vacuum and increasing blood flow, this pump features a cup that fits snugly around your...
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                            Olio Libido For Her Potency Supplement - Olio

                            Olio
                            WSLIBHER
                            R389
                            Libido For Her by Olio is a female potency supplement, scientifically formulated with premium natural ingredients to enhance sexual performance, increase blood flow, reduce anxiety and regulate hormones.  A healthy libido is important for physical and mental well-being. Take 2 capsules daily, preferably with a meal or 30 minutes before intercourse....
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                              Olio Libido For Him Potency Supplement - Olio

                              Olio
                              WSLIBHIM
                              R389
                              Olio Libido For Him is a male potency supplement, scientifically formulated with premium natural ingredients to enhance sexual performance, increase blood flow and reduce anxiety.  A healthy libido is important for physical and mental well-being. Take 2 capsules daily, preferably with a meal or 30 minutes before intercourse.  Benefits:  - Improves...
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                                Empower Couples Penis Ring - Rocks Off

                                BO DP 811041014389/72
                                R1,299
                                The Empower Couples ring by Rocks Off is a penis ring designed to prolong ejaculation, provide a firmer erection, and offer clitoral stimulation all at the same time. Designed using stretchy body safe silicone, this ring fits comfortably at the base of his penis. The tapered head of the ring features a powerful motor that delivers intense vibrations that...
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                                  LustGlider Intimate Douche - STToys

                                  SToys
                                  BO DP 4041937581008
                                  R279
                                  The LustGlider douche is a black pvc douche designed to keep your anal and rectum area hygienic and clean and can be used in preparation for anal sex. With a length of approximately 11cm and a diameter of 4cm this douche can hold up to 224ml. For a more comfortable insertion if necessary, apply a small amount of water based lubricant onto the tube of the...
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                                    Kalahari Horing Erection Booster & Enhancer - PVT Remedies

                                    PVT Remedies
                                    Kalahari
                                    R249
                                    Kalahari Horing is an all natural supplement designed to boost your erection power to it's full potential. With studies showing exceptional results, the Kalahari Horing supplement aids in low libido, low sex drive, weak erection strength, and premature ejaculation. With results visible in just 40 minutes after taking 2 capsules, the Kalahari Horing...
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                                      Olio Silky Smooth Water-Based Lubricant with CBD - Olio

                                      Olio
                                      WSLUBE200
                                      R289
                                      A highly effective water-based lubricant with 200mg CBD / 100ml tube. Extra moisturising, soothing and cell replenishing, Olio lubricant can be used to highten your sexual experience or use daily intra-vaginally to protect and prepare the vaginal canal from dryness and imbalance. Safe to use with silicone toys and condoms. - 100ml tube Ingredients:...
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                                      Luvido Libido Booster for Women - Ailon

                                      LuvidoWomen
                                      R199
                                      The Luvido libido booster for women is an all natural supplement from the Ailon Naturals brand and is known to show a beneficial effect on improving the general health of women. Taken as a dietary supplement, Luvido contains Ginseng panax, Red Clover Ashwanganda, Fenugreek and Tribulus, an all natural herbal product that is well known for it's libido...
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                                        Luvido Libido Booster for Men - Ailon

                                        LuvidoMen
                                        R279
                                        The Luvido libido booster for men is an all natural supplement from the Ailon Naturals brand. Taken as a dietary supplement, Luvido contains wild harvested Mpesu, an all natural herbal product that is well known for it's libido inducing effects. Packed with added proteins and minerals, Luvido is a potent nutritional supplement that promises a boost in...
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