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THE BEST SEX TOYS FOR WOMEN ENCOURAGE INTIMATE JOURNEYS INTO DESIRE, SENSITIVITY AND UNDERSTANDING.


Desir’s sex essentials are products that have been introduced with the purpose of making your sexual experience that much more satisfying. From lubes and condoms, to supplements and medically sound intimate care products, our essential category offers you the best complimentary products and must-haves for your sexual health and wellbeing.


What is good sexual health?

Feeling good about your body and taking care of your physical and emotional health are all part of being sexually healthy. Physically this can relate to regular sexual health exams, getting tested for sexually transmitted infections, preventing unwanted pregnancies and having a healthy hygiene regime when it comes to cleaning your sex toys and taking care or your body.


But additionally, your emotional or mental health also has an enormous role to play in your attitude towards sex and your sexual health status. Feeling good about your body, giving yourself permission to enjoy sexual pleasure, and being comfortable with your sexual orientation and gender are huge parts of one’s sexuality and can have a fundamental impact on how you perceive yourself, others, and your sexuality.


How do I have good sex?

Planned parenthood states that good sex comes from understanding how your body works. Whilst sex is not a one size fits all experience, good sex comes down to being confident with your body, knowing what you like and don’t like, and understanding your sex drive and pleasures.


It is in this regard that Desir’s range of Essentials have been carefully curated to ensure that you have the best sex possible, whilst taking care of your sexual health and wellness at the same time.


Sexual Health Supplements

With so many factors impacting our sex lives, one of the biggest contributors is that of low libido or poor sex drive. Science has come a considerably long way in providing formulations that not only increase your sexual libido, but also assist with symptoms related to menopause, erectile dysfunction, vaginal dryness, and stamina.


Brands like Solal have focussed specifically on formulations, vitamins and minerals that contain essential ingredients like vitamin b12, vitamin b6, ginseng, fenugreek, and maca root that are natural testosterone boosting herbs. Not only proven to increase your libido, these ingredients are specifically known to alleviate symptoms related to erectile dysfunction, poor sperm quality, infertility, and are known to positively support and boost male and female sexual function. A completely natural alternative to anabolic and pharmaceutical steroid medicines, brands like Solal, LaMelle, Vitaforce, and Erex provide you with the option of adopting a far more holistic approach to your sexual health.


Stimulants and Enhancers

When it comes to stimulation and increasing your arousal and genital blood flow, several brands like Shunga, Wicked, Intimate Earth, and Pjur focus specifically on products designed to intensify your sexual experience.


From clitoral arousal serums and pleasure gels to aphrodisiacs and prolong sprays, Desir has a range of complimentary serums and elixirs that have been proven to amplify your sexual experience. Use them in conjunction with your favourite intimate product or simply for an increase in your masturbation or solo play


Explore the sensory experience of applying serums that encourage warmth, cooling, tingling, and relaxation and stimulate your nerve endings to encourage stronger orgasms and a heightened sense of arousal.


Personal Care and Product Care

One of the most important aspects to sound sexual health, is that of good personal and product care.

With conditions like bacterial vaginosis, yeast infections, vaginal infections, and STD’s, it is critical to follow a health regime that supports your sexual lifestyle. From intimate toy cleaners and disinfectant wipes, to vaginal douches and condoms, Desir has ensured that you have all you need to practice safe sex and avoid cross-contamination.


WebMd lists the use of a good intimate wash as the number one priority after sex. Not only limited to the cleansing of your genital areas, cleansing of your sex toys is just as important and with the introduction of foam or gel sex toy cleaners, taking care of your sex toys has never been easier.


With much controversy around the practice of douching and specifically with regards to women who douche, douching before or after anal sex (also referred to as rectal douching) is widely practiced to clean the anal area in preparation for sex.


With a variety of douches that range from shower attachment to bulb hand held douching apparatus, douching is best practiced with warm water and should be repeated until the water runs clean. EndHIV provides a word of caution for douching too frequently stating that it can damage the lining of the rectum, making you more susceptible to to HIV infection should you choose to not use a male condom.


Desir Panel of Medical Experts

To encourage positive sexual health and wellness, Desir has introduced a medical panel of experts that specialise in sexual health and promote sexual health and wellness - for both men and women. From gynaecologists and aesthetic practitioners, to sexologists and psychotherapists, Desir’s sexual health doctors are available for consult via our treatments category. With a variety of procedures, consults, and services available, your mental and physical sexual health is of the utmost importance to us and we are proud to offer you access to some of South Africa’s most renowned doctors who specialise in their respective fields.

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Femolene MyLife Mature Menopause Support - Femolene
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Femolene MyLife Mature Menopause Support - Femolene

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R299
Femolene MyLife Mature is a supplement designed to support your changing of hormones during the course of the month. As you notice your monthly hormone activity starting to decrease, you may often start experiencing symptoms related to menopause that can vary from hot flushes, night sweats, and irregular mood swings. Femolene MyLife Mature has been...
Femolene Lubricating Vaginal Spray - Femolene
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Femolene Lubricating Vaginal Spray - Femolene

135330cj
R159
This intimate and lubricating vaginal spray by Femolene has been designed to promote vaginal health and lubrication. Formulated using a powerful combination of 300 million colony forming units (probiotics) made up of Lactobacillus gasteri, Lactobacillus acidophilus, and Lactobacillus rhamnosus, this lubricating spray alleviates vaginal dryness, reduces...
GynaGuard Daily Intimate Comfort Gel - GynaGuard
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GynaGuard Daily Intimate Comfort Gel - GynaGuard

Gynaguard
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R89
This intimate gel by Gynaguard is a light and non-greasy gel designed for everyday use to eliminate symptoms of irritation, discomfort, and odour control. Dermatologically and gynaecologically tested, this intimate gel designed for vaginal use is light enough that it can be used everyday and applied as frequently as you require. Water based it is...
GynaGuard PH Restoring Vaginal Capsules - GynaGuard GynaGuard PH Restoring...
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GynaGuard PH Restoring Vaginal Capsules - GynaGuard

Gynaguard
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R139
GynaGuard Vaginal Capsules are intended for use to help restore a healthy vaginal flora and PH Balance. These vaginal capsules contain two clinically proven and highly effective probiotic strains that have been formulated to restore the natural flora in the vagina. Promoting an optimal level of PH and enhanced comfort, these probiotic strains play an...
GynaGuard PH Balanced Foam Bath - GynaGuard
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GynaGuard PH Balanced Foam Bath - GynaGuard

134820CJ
R79
The Foam bath by GynaGuard is a ph balanced foam bath that is formulated to give you an ideal PH of 4.5 making it perfect for sensitive skins and to avoid irritation and discomfort. Especially formulated using high quality ingredients, GynaGuard foam bath contains Vitamin E and shea butter to soothe, hydrate, and protect the body's delicate skin. With a...
GynaGuard Essential Intimate Wash - GynaGuard GynaGuard Essential...
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GynaGuard Essential Intimate Wash - GynaGuard

Gynaguard
113757CJ
R65
The GynaGuard Essential Intimate wash is a sensitive soap and fragrance free wash gentle enough for daily use.  With an Ideal Ph of 4.5 and with it's soap and scent free formulation, this intimate cleanser, with extracts of cranberry, promises a safe yet effective formulation that is ideal for everyday use. Protecting and caring for your intimate...
GynaGuard Ultimate Intimate Wash - GynaGuard
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GynaGuard Ultimate Intimate Wash - GynaGuard

Gynaguard
113736CJ
R69
The ultimate intimate wash by GynaGuard is a sensitive formula that has been developed for everyday use to control odour, irritation, and itch. With a probiotic formulae, this tested and approved intimate wash contains an ideal PH of 4.5, is soap and scent free and specially formulated to keep you feeling clean, fresh and confident. Perfect for every...
The Official Guide to Body Massage - Adele O'Keefe
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The Official Guide to Body Massage - Adele O'Keefe

OfficialGuideMassage
R299
The Official Guide to Massage by Adele O'Keefe is a comprehensive guide for beginners and offers an informative and thorough look at all aspects of massage. Used as a reference tool for those studying relevant massage courses, this book covers massage, anatomy, physiology, and aromatherapy. Massage has become known and represents one of the fastest...
Fabulous Foreplay - Dr.Pam Spurr
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Fabulous Foreplay - Dr.Pam Spurr

FabulousForeplay
R299
Fabulous Foreplay by Dr. Pam Spurr focuses on having a pleasurable and fulfilling sexual relationship - whether you are single or committed. Dr. Pam Spurr writes " All too often, dissatisfaction in a couple's sex life is due to the fact that they've forgotten how to seduce each other. Couples are often guilty of skipping foreplay altogether, instead...
Duet Cooling & Warming Nipple Gloss - Bijoux Duet Cooling & Warming...
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Duet Cooling & Warming Nipple Gloss - Bijoux

Bijoux
BO 8436562010010
R429
This incredible duo by Bijoux is a dual pack combination of a warming and cooling gloss designed to stimulate and excite your nipples. Gently use the applicator to apply either the warming or cooling gloss directly onto your nipple area and enjoy the varying sensations and heightened stimulation that each unique formulation brings. With the heightening...
Orgasm Balm for Her - Bijoux Orgasm Balm for Her - Bijoux
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Orgasm Balm for Her - Bijoux

Bijoux
BO 8436562010515
R259
The Orgasm Balm by Bijoux is an aphrodisia balm specially formulated specifically for the clitoris. Perfumed with a seductive essence, this balm works by increasing the blood flow to your clitoral area, thereby heightening your senses and increasing your orgasmic strength and sensitivity. In a pump actioned sophisticated 13g black container, only a...
Arousal Warming & Cooling Lip Gloss - Bijoux Arousal Warming & Cooling...
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Arousal Warming & Cooling Lip Gloss - Bijoux

Bijoux
BO 8436562010522
R345
The Arousal Lip Balm by Bijoux is a stimulating lip gloss that is designed to enhance your oral sex experience. With a hot and cold stimulating effect, this lip balm leaves a tingling sensation that is designed to enhance and stimulate your senses and increase oral pleasure. Delivering a double cooling and heating effect, this balm uses a combination of...
Fleur Intimate Wash - Oske
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Fleur Intimate Wash - Oske

R180
The Fleur Intimate Wash by Oske is a gentle wash designed to be used by women on their intimate areas. With a gentle water-based formulation that includes only natural products, Fleur has been manufactured in a pharmaceutical facility and specifically developed and focussed on complimenting the female physiology. Ingredients such as marshmallow root...
Awaken Stimulating Clitoral Massaging Gel - Wicked
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Awaken Stimulating Clitoral Massaging Gel - Wicked

Wicked
R399
The Awaken clitoral stimulating gel is a blend of herbs and botanics designed to enhance your libido and heighten the sensitivity of the clitoris.  With over 8000 sensory nerve endings in the clitoris, more than in any other part of the human body, the clitoris is a powerful organ of sexual pleasure. Awaken stimulating gel ensures that you get the most...
Viala Sonic Skin Cleanser & Body Massager - Svakom Viala Sonic Skin Cleanser & Body Massager - Svakom
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Viala Sonic Skin Cleanser & Body Massager - Svakom

Svakom
V01SNFPNK
R899
The Viala by Svakom is a luxuriously versatile 2-in-1 sonic skin cleanser and all over body massager.  Offering a full spa experience and holding the accolade of being an award winning facial cleansing device, the Viala is a vibrating body wand that features a silicone, non-porous, bristled removable head that is resistant to bacterial build up and is...
Tom of Finland Hot Water Douche - Tom of Finland Tools Tom of Finland Hot Water Douche - Tom of Finland Tools
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Tom of Finland Hot Water Douche - Tom of Finland Tools

FinlandDouche D22.11.19
R749
The Tom of Finland range is based on the world renowned artist Tom of Finland's fetish art. With alluring images of hyper masculine men, Tom's leatherman, bikers, cowboys, cops, and lumberjacks all form part of these iconic symbols and illustrations. With each product within the range featuring a collector's card, you are able to enjoy Tom's work and...
Mirena Insertion - Dr Jeanne Aspeling
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Mirena Insertion - Dr Jeanne Aspeling

DrAspelingMirena
R1,495
Dr Jeanne Aspeling is a qualified medical doctor and has been working in the field of sexual medicine since 2015. She is an executive board member of the South African Sexual Health organisation, a member of the HIV Clinician Society of South Africa, and  the World Professional Association for Transgender healthcare. With a passion for women and men's...
Ultra Fragrance Free Silicone Based Intimate Lubricant - Wicked
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Ultra Fragrance Free Silicone Based Intimate Lubricant - Wicked

Wicked
WickedUltra
R349
Ultra Silicone Lubricant by Wicked is luxuriously sensuous and long lasting. This high performance, velvety smooth formula will enhance pleasure without feeling heavy, greasy or tacky. Formulated with the highest quality silicone available in the personal care market. Ultra Fragrance Free contains no additives or fillers for an exceptionally silky feel....
Creme Masturbation Cream For Men - Wicked
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Creme Masturbation Cream For Men - Wicked

Wicked
WickedCreme
R329
Peak your sensations and intensify your pleasure with Creme Masturbation Cream for Men. This unique, oil-based, intimate lubricant is essential for private moments. Experience the transformation as the fortified, nourishing cream, melts with the warmth of your body into a non-greasy liquid lube. The superior glide of Vitamin E enriched Creme is sensually...
Peptiplus Pure Granulated Collagen Hydrolysate - Peptiplus Peptiplus Pure Granulated Collagen Hydrolysate - Peptiplus
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Peptiplus Pure Granulated Collagen Hydrolysate - Peptiplus

R279
PEPTIPLUS is pure hydrolysed bovine collagen, which is extracted from the carcasses of cattle, which are almost totally made up of collagen. Collagen occurs in a triple helix structure made up of chains of amino acids. Two of these amino acids, Hydroxyproline and Hydroxylysine occur only in collagen and are required by the body to make collagen. Collagen...
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Clinica Amorous Plus - Clinica

723000 DSV
R99
The Amorous Plus Supplement by Clinica Pharmaceuticals is an essential vitamin and mineral supplement designed to increase sexual desire for both men and women. With all natural ingredients such as Siberian Ginseng, Thiamine, Ribovlavin, Vitamin B12, Zinc and Magnesium, Amorous Plus contains the correct combination of essential vitamins and minerals which...
Real Feel Condoms - Durex
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Real Feel Condoms - Durex

Durex
3005139
R79
Real Feel condoms by Durex are uniquely designed next generation condoms that feature the RealFeel material for a natural skin feeling.Made from polyisoprene, a technically advanced non-latex material, these condoms are transparent, lubricated, and formulated to minimise the risk of latex allergic reactions. With a nominal width of 56mm, and a teat end...
Lubricants

Play Warming Lubricant - Durex

Durex
3037098 18.12.19
R129
The Durex Play Warming lubricant is a pleasure gel designed to heat things up.Containing a special ingredient that is activated upon application, this lubricant warms the skin on contact. With it's silky soft base, you not only have a fabulous smooth feel, but also a warming sensation that heightens arousal, increases your level of stimulation, and...
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