Sex Essentials

SEX ESSENTIALS

DÉSIR'S MUST HAVE'S TO MAKE YOUR SEXUAL EXPERIENCE THAT MUCH MORE SATISFYING

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Désir's essentials are products destined to make your sexual experience that much more satisfying. From lubes and condoms, to those must-have intimate care products, make sure you stock up on these perfectly sensual and necessary add-on's. 

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  • R589

    Close to 10% of all couples experience infertility at one point or another, with half of all couple's infertility problems being due to male infertility. This is commonly due to deficiencies in the semen. Lamelle Research Laboratories has over 40 years of pharmaceutical and medical experience and it is with this extensive knowledge that they have...

  • R589
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    Sexual wellness and performance is often seen as a barometer of a mans health. With blood flow being one of our most important functions, it helps bring oxygen and nutrients to our muscles and organs. A healthy blood circulation is key to optimal erectile function and quality. Prelox Peak Performance tablets contribute in a natural way to not only...

  • R245

    This incredibly luxurious product by Lelo is a dual purpose personal lubricant as well as a moisturizer. Made from nourishing ingredients, this lube will provide you with long-lasting lubrication and will leave your skin feeling silky smooth. This water-based lubricant is a safe and a satisfying addition to all your sensual experiences. It is safe to use...

  • R739

    The Pjur Set for him and her contains a pair of the best lubricants from Pjur - one energising lubricant for him and one stimulating and warming lubricant for her. The energizer for him is an ecologically formulate water based lubricant consisting of ginkgo, allowing more power, expansion, and energy whilst the stimulating and warming lubricant for her is...

  • R699

    The Pjur Anal Comfort serum is specifically designed to allow for comfortable anal intercourse and play. With no lidocaine or benzocaine, this special serum forms an invisible protective film on the skin thereby reducing sensitivity without a total numbing effect. Safe with condoms and suitable for daily application, this concentrated gel is the perfect...

  • R339

    Wicked's Foam 'n Fresh is the perfect anti-bacterial toy cleaner. This product includes the powerful olive leaf anti-oxidant, which acts as both a moisturizer and cleanser, ensuring that all germs are taken care of. With lavender and thyme extracts, these herbal remedies enhance the power and scent, making this the perfect alternative to soap....

  • R339

    With the OverTime delay cream for men you wont have to worry about under performing and can concentrate on the sensual experience that you and your partner are bound to have with this great product. Specially designed to prolong your satisfaction and ensure that you stay harder for longer, this cream is the perfect addition to make a great evening...

  • R275

    You can’t go wrong with this Toy Love water-based, glycerin-free gel for intimate toys, its formula specifically caters for the use of erotic toys. This thick decadent lubricant is perfect for any area that you wish to lubricate and is the essential lube to have when using an intimate toy. The Toy Love Lubricant is perfect for anyone who enjoys...

  • R335

    Wicked's Hybrid combination lubricants are crafted with the intention of enhancing the sensual experience and giving maximum pleasure. Made with Seaweed extract and Olive Leaf extract which acts as an anti-oxidant, this lube helps to moisturize the skin and eliminates germs and bacteria. With it's silky silicone texture, you will gain the extra glide and...

  • R379

    Wicked's Ultra Heat silicone based sensation lubricant is a must have if you enjoy spicing things up in the bedroom. Made with hints of cinnamon, clove, lemon, vanilla, and citrus, it is perfectly moulded to heat things up in just the right way. Ultra Heat is available in 120ml and is an absolute pleasure to have around on those cold...

  • R379

    Wicked's Ultra Chill silicone based cooling sensation lubricant, provides you with a tingling and heightened sensual experience specifically created to assist in full sensitivity. Designed to activate and enhance your pleasure points, this silicone based cooling lubricant guarantees a feeling of overwhelming tingling sensations that will provide the...

  • R275

    In this Pleasers Assortment Lubricant Packette you will find a variety of different lubricants that will suit all your needs, with the perfect introduction to the Wicked range. Designed to cater for everyone’s needs, this pack contains an assortment of waterbased, silicone and coconut oil based products all in one convenient box.  In each...

  • R275

    Wicked's Teaser pack is the perfect introduction to the Wicked Aqua edible range of lubricants. Consisting of 3 x Candy Apple, 3 x Mocha Java, 3 x Salted Caramel and 1 x Toy Love Gel lubricant - this is the ultimate pack to get you started with it's travel size pack. With each Wicked lubricant containing the amazing Olive Leaf extract, these lubes...

  • R295

    As one of SA's leading brands in lubricants, Wicked has introduced a product that will allow your sexual adventures to involve all of the five senses, allowing you to reach your most intimate desires. The variety of flavours in this range are so delicious and refreshing, with vibrant individual tastes - you won’t be sorry you added this to your...

  • R259

    Wicked's Jelle water-based anal gel is crafted to make sure that all your anal play needs are met. With its extra long lasting formula, this water-based gel will provide maximum cushion and glide. Enhanced with Aloe and Olive leaf, a powerful anti-oxidant, great moisturizer and strong anti-bacterial, this anal lube is long lasting, easy to clean, and...

  • R339

    Pjur and We Vibe have come together to create the perfect cleaner for all your We Vibe toys! Its formula is free from alcohol & perfume and promises a thorough & hygienic cleaning, yet gentle for those with sensitive skin. This cleaner is great for materials such as latex, rubber and silicone and its spray bottle makes cleaning a breeze. 100ml

  • R749

    The Swan Ultimate personal shaver has been designed for use by women, but can absolutely be used by anyone. A comprehensive kit that contains everything you need to feel silky smooth. With a precision trimmer attachment and a special comb that slides over the trimmer, the swan shaver is perfect for bikini styling and trimming. The kit contains the...

  • R415

    The Shiatsu Tightening Spray is perfect for intensifying pleasure for both yourself and your partner. Spray directly onto your labia and clitoris and simply wait a few minutes to allow the liquid to absorb to experience vaginal tightening sensations. Also helps relieve vaginal dryness and will provide you with intense sensations and enhanced sexual...

  • R469

    Intimate Organics Adventure is an anal relaxing spray formulated for women. It has been designed to naturally relax the anal sphincter, allowing for more comfortable penetration. What makes this product different is that it has no anesthetic effects, therefore will not numb the schincter and cause tearing. It works quickly and is very easy to use. 30ml

  • R329

    The amazing Shiatsu Tightening cream is composed of special astringent and circulation-enhancing agents. These ingredients relieves vaginal dryness and will provide you with intensified sensations and enhanced sexual experiences.

  • R299

    Tampons and pads are a thing of the past! Menstrual cups have taken the world by storm. Mpower, a local-based manufacturer of the Mcup, have created a non-absorbent reusable barrier cups made from medically approved, 100% pure silicone menstrual cup as a menstrual management solution for all women. Mcups are:- Eco-friendly: one Mcup is equivalent to 1200...

  • R239

    Malesation's Hybrid Anal lubricant has a 2 in 1 water-based composition that allows this product to feel like a silky textured silicone lubricant. It supports the body's natural moisture balance, providing the utmost comfort during sexual activities without hindering the stimulation experienced. Being water-based, it is safe to use with toys that are made...

  • R239

    Malesation Anal Relax is a water-based lubricant designed to provide ultimate relaxation for anal penetration. It supports the natural moisture balance of your skin and therefore provides comfort during sexual activites without comprimising or hindering the stimulation experienced. Due to it being water-based, it is safe to use with any toy that is made...

  • R249
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    Ntimate Rejuvinate serum is specifically formulated for women and endorsed by the well known Sexologist & Author, Timothy Kieswetter. With it's unique homeopathic ingredients, this serum tightens, tones, and restores a women's vagina, without the pain and hassle of lazer surgery, in less than 60 seconds. Follow the application method precisely, and...

  • R199

    Maintaining your Fleshlight in order to prolong its lifespan is one easy task! This Renewal Powder restores the hyper-realistic SuperSkin sleeve to its original softness. Made from 100% cornstarch, this natural powder will not irritate the skin. Remove your Fleshlight sleeve from its casing, dispense the powder onto the sleeve until coated...

  • R435
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    Ntimate Rejuvinate serum is specifically formulated for women and endorsed by the well known Sexologist & Author, Timothy Kieswetter. With it's unique homeopathic ingredients, this serum tightens, tones, and restores a women's vagina, without the pain and hassle of lazer surgery, in less than 60 seconds. Follow the application method precisely, and...

  • R415

    Pjur Superhero Delay Serum - 20ml - is a lubricant serum for men, which reduces sensitivity of the penis thereby prolonging ejaculation. Suitable for daily application, this gel enhances the smoothness of the penis and provides a desensitizing film around the penis to reduce sensitivity without giving a completely numbing effect. Perfect in combination...

  • R399

    Pjur and We Vibe have come together to create a quality, water based lubricant to accompany all your We Vibe toys! This lube is specially-formulated to enhance sensitivity and provide you with a long-lasting, hydrating glide. It is dermalogically tested and made from the highest quality ingredients. It's simple pump bottle design allows for...

  • R359

    Intimate Organics MELT is a warming lubricant that contains cinnamomum zeylancium bark. It is a premium, paraben-free lubricant that creates a warming sensation on contact & blends with a woman's own fluids. MELT is all naturally derived and is pure vegan, perfect for those looking for an all-natural lubricant. 120ml

  • R329

    Intimate Organics HYDRA is a glycerin-free lubricant, formulated from natural plant cellulose. It is a water-based, organic blend that provides you with a silky smooth texture which is long-lasting, nourishing your skin. 120ml

  • R225

    This cleaning spray is the best choice for all your cleaning needs. The anti-viral, anti-fungal spray takes 5 seconds to activate & can be used on latex, silicone, rubber or plastic toys. Its alcohol-free & balanced pH composition is proven to remove 99% of bacteria & germs. The stylish bottle purely says...

  • R219

    Shunga's Toko Aroma Lubricant is perfect for added lubrication and can even be used during oral sex, providing providing a long lasting, non staining, and ultra silky smooth finish with a delicious taste. Waterbased, latex safe and sex toy compatible, this lubricant is non sticky and long lasting. 

  • R459

    The Shiatsu Pheromon Perfume for Women is a perfume designed to attract men, working subconsciously to appeal by releasing chemical messages. Shown to have measureable impact on brain metabolism, pheromones are the perfect way to enhance playtime with your partner. Simply spray on your body or the areas destined for play. Helps intensify sex appeal,...

  • R369

    This 3 pc Douche set is an intimate douche kit perfect for intimate care. With three attachments it is versatile and can be used for both vaginal and anal care. Designed to make you feel cleaner, douching for women assists in washing out the vagina, whilst anal douching is a hygienic practice useful for cleaning the rectum in preparation for anal sex, or...

  • R69
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    Durex Pleasuremax Tingling condoms are specially designed with raised dots and uniquely positioned ribs, with a special tingling lube which provides a gentle tingling sensation. Tingle condoms are coated inside and out meaning heightened sensation for both of you.  3's

  • R1,199

    The JoyDivision Alu-Douche Shower extension is an intimate douche perfect for both vaginal and anal intimate care. Simply screw off the existing shower hear and screw on the intimate douche attachment. Designed to make you feel cleaner, douching for women assists in washing out the vagina, whilst anal douching is a hygienic practice useful for cleaning...

  • R429

    JoyDivision's Easy Anal lubricant is one of the best anal lubricants and is recommended specifically for first times. Condom friendly and designed for anal intercourse, a few drops of Easy Anal ensure the anus is perfectly lubricated and assists in avoiding any discomfort. A water based lubricant, Easy Anal is smooth and non-oily, whilst being...

  • R359

    JO H20 Flavoured Lubricant, the only water based lubricant that feels like silicone, delivers a deliciously smooth pleasant tasting long lasting glide, containing no artificial sweeteners or after taste.  Latex safe and compatible with all sex toys, fragrance free and never sticky. Non toxic, non allergenic and gluten free.  150ml.

  • R2,199 R2,920
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    The Lelo Accomplice Gift Set is the perfect indulgence for those looking for a couple's experience. With the luxury  TOR 2 vibrating couples cock ring, a box of 12 Lelo HEX condoms, and a 150ml quality water-based personal moisturizer, you have all you need to ensure a night of uninterupted pleasure. Use the vibrating ring to enhance and prolong...

  • R599

    Your sense of smell can ignite the most extraordinary passion within you. This bed & lingerie perfume with aromatherapy scented oils combining the smell of rose, jasmine, wood & spice as well as the erotic powers of Ylang-Ylang, this spray is perfect for creating the ultimate sense of seduction. Scent the room or spray on your bedding for...

  • R459

    The Shiatsu Pheromon Perfume for Men is a perfume designed to attract women, working subconsciously to appeal by releasing chemical messages. Shown to have measureable impact on brain metabolism, pheromones are the perfect way to enhance playtime with your partner. Simply spray on your body or the areas destined for play. Helps intensify sex appeal,...

  • R280
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    Intimina Feminine Moisturizer with Aloe Vera is an alcohol-free, gentle hydrating lotion that has been formulated to enhance your natural moisture. This Glycerin and Paraben Free lubricant reduces the chances of vaginal dryness that may be caused by the surrounding environment, pre-menopausal decrease in estrogen or hormonal changes that...

  • R349

    Shunga Divine Oral Pleasure Gloss 10m. This pleasure lip gloss provides a cooling, warming, tingling sensation. Designed for oral play, applying a layer to your or your partner’s lips can please both male and female, and is used to intensify oral pleasure.

  • R29

    A Single FC2 Pre-Lubricated Female Condom.  The female condom is distinguished from a male condom in that it is retained in the vagina after insertion. The external component of the device provides some coverage to the external female genitalia. It is made from Natural Latex Rubber can be effective for contraceptive purposes and in the...

  • R29

    LifeStyles Premium Condoms Ultra Thin 3 Condoms are made extra thin for enhanced sensitivity. They are electronically tested to ensure efficacy and come lubricated. 3's

  • R179

    Durex Extra Safe condoms are specifically intended to be slightly thicker with extra lubrication to ensure comfort & extra peace of mind. With this extra reassurance, the Extra Safe condoms are the ideal way to keep your mind focused on your partner.12's.

  • R895

    Shunga Geisha Secret Collection is the perfect exotic combination based on the sensual art form of Japanese lovemaking. This set includes massage Oil perfect for all over body massage (10ml), aphrodisiac Oil perfect for intimate area massage (10ml), exotic bathing Gel (10ml), edible sweet snow body powder perfect for oral play (4g), small feather tickler...

  • R1,145

    The Shunga Tenderness & Passion Collection is perfect for couples wishing to add a little spice to their love life. With it's aphrodisiac effects and based on the incredible Japanese art form of lovemaking, this sensual aroma infused collection is perfect for heightening your and your partners sense, making it the ideal prelude to your lovemaking....

  • R499

    Bijoux Wanderlust Aphrodisia travel size gift pack. Bijoux Wanderlust Aphrodisia gift pack is a travel size pack of massage oil, body mist, arousal creme, feather tickler and two satin handcuffs. Perfect for travel.

  • R239

    Pjur's Med Clean towelettes for gentle cleansing of sensitive intimate areas, hold no lint residue or germ transfer, and are in a resealable packet making them perfect for travel. Dermatologically tested, alcohol and fragrance free, these towelettes reduce germs from bacteria and fungi thereby reducing body odour. 25 Fleece per pack. Perfect for a quick...

  • R145

    JO H2O Lubricant, the only water based lubricant that feels like silicone, delivers a silky smooth long lasting pure glide. Latex safe and compatible with all sex toys, fragrance free and never sticky. Non toxic, non allergenic, containing no animal based glycerine or animal by-products. 30ml

  • R499

    JO's Premium Anal Cooling Lubricant provides a cooling tingling sensation, whilst delivering a silky smooth, thick, long lasting and sensual glide. Waterproof and containing no harmful numbing agents or desensitizes, it is latex safe and can be used with non silicone sex toys. It is fragrance free and never sticky. Non toxic, non allergenic and perfect...

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