Sex Essentials

Sex Essentials 

SEX ESSENTIALS

DÉSIR'S MUST HAVE'S TO MAKE YOUR SEXUAL EXPERIENCE THAT MUCH MORE SATISFYING

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Désir's essentials are products destined to make your sexual experience that much more satisfying. From lubes and condoms, to those must-have intimate care products, make sure you stock up on these perfectly sensual and necessary add-on's. 

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  • R3,834 R4,197
    Reduced price!

    We Vibe has become an incredibly popular brand, creating toys that are not only luxurious, but technologically advanced. They have collaborated with Pjur to create their own brand of lubricant and toy cleaner, specially designed to take care of your We Vibe toys. This package deal provides you the opportunity to get a We Vibe 4 Couples Vibrator, the We...

  • R1,903 R2,114
    Reduced price!

    What is a pleasure object with out a good lubricant? This is why we have made purchasing the amazing IMTOY Rhino dual stimulating vibrator and the necessary essentials a little bit more affordable. It is always best to use a water-based lubricant with a silicone toy, so we have combined this toy with the Pjur Woman Aqua Lubricant.The Rhino is an...

  • R245

    This incredibly luxurious product by Lelo is a dual purpose personal lubricant as well as a moisturizer. Made from nourishing ingredients, this lube will provide you with long-lasting lubrication and will leave your skin feeling silky smooth. This water-based lubricant is a safe and a satisfying addition to all your sensual experiences. It is safe to use...

  • R739

    The Pjur Set for him and her contains a pair of the best lubricants from Pjur - one energising lubricant for him and one stimulating and warming lubricant for her. The energizer for him is an ecologically formulate water based lubricant consisting of ginkgo, allowing more power, expansion, and energy whilst the stimulating and warming lubricant for her is...

  • R699

    The Pjur Anal Comfort serum is specifically designed to allow for comfortable anal intercourse and play. With no lidocaine or benzocaine, this special serum forms an invisible protective film on the skin thereby reducing sensitivity without a total numbing effect. Safe with condoms and suitable for daily application, this concentrated gel is the perfect...

  • R659

    Pjur SuperHero Performance spray for me is perfect for those wanting to prolong their sexual enjoyment. The unique formula and ingredients ensure longer enjoyment and prevent premature ejaculation. It enhances smoothness, reduces oversensitivity and is one of the top selling Pjur products worldwide! With only 2 to 4 sprays required per application, this...

  • R997 R1,108
    Reduced price!

    This bundle has been specially put together for the enjoyment of anal play. The Ass-Berries vibrating butt plug, coupled with the H20 Anal Cooling Lubricant by Jo will provide an immense cooling sensation and ensure you have all the lubrication needed to get started. Enjoy this wonderful package alone or with a partner and be sure to reach new levels and...

  • R339

    Pjur and We Vibe have come together to create the perfect cleaner for all your We Vibe toys! Its formula is free from alcohol & perfume and promises a thorough & hygienic cleaning, yet gentle for those with sensitive skin. This cleaner is great for materials such as latex, rubber and silicone and its spray bottle makes cleaning a breeze. 100ml

  • R359

    Jo's H2O Anal Warming Lubricant is the only water based lubricant that feels like silicone, warm to the touch, and contains no harmful numbing agents or desensitizers. Latex safe and compatible with all sex toys, it is fragrance free and never sticky. Non toxic, non allergenic, containing no animal based glycerine or animal by-products. 120ml

  • R349

    JO Anal Personal Water based Lubricant, the only water based lubricant that feels like silicone, delivers a silky smooth long lasting pure glide, and contains no harmful numbing agents or desensitizers. Latex safe and compatible with all sex toys, it is fragrance free and never sticky. Non toxic, non allergenic, containing no animal based glycerine or...

  • R699

    The Swan Ultimate personal shaver has been designed for use by women, but can absolutely be used by anyone. A comprehensive kit that contains everything you need to feel silky smooth. With a precision trimmer attachment and a special comb that slides over the trimmer, the swan shaver is perfect for bikini styling and trimming. The kit contains the...

  • R329

    This premium silicone-based lubricant by Astroglide is not only waterproof but extremely long-lasting! From the bedroom to the shower or bathtub, its unique formula will keep the pleasure going!

  • R329

    Astroglide's Natural Liquid lubricant is perfect for those that prefer to go au-natural and works incredibly well for those with vaginal dryness. With botanical ingredients like chamomile & aloe vera, its original formula helps to soothe and hydrate. It is not made with glycerin, parabens, fragrances, flavours or hormones so is a great choice in lubricant!

  • R395

    The Wild G Spot Gel by System JO is an incredible stimulant that enhances sexual sensitivity in women. It has been specially formulated to produce a gratifying tingling and cooling sensation that takes effect in seconds. All you need is 1 to 2 drops and you are set for up to 45 minutes of intense sexual pleasure.With a pleasant tingling sensation on...

  • R415

    The Shiatsu Tightening Spray is perfect for intensifying pleasure for both yourself and your partner. Spray directly onto your labia and clitoris and simply wait a few minutes to allow the liquid to absorb to experience vaginal tightening sensations. Also helps relieve vaginal dryness and will provide you with intense sensations and enhanced sexual...

  • R415

    The amazing Shiatsu Tightening cream is composed of special astringent and circulation-enhancing agents. These ingredients relieves vaginal dryness and will provide you with intensified sensations and enhanced sexual experiences.

  • R289

    The Malesation Delay Spray has all natural ingredients and has a slight numbing effect, allowing you to keep control and prevent early ejaculation. Being able to last longer will give you the opportunity to provide longer lasting enjoyment. We recommend waiting a few minutes for the spray to take effect and to prevent the spray from affecting your...

  • R319

    Tampons and pads are a thing of the past! Menstrual cups have taken the world by storm. Mpower, a local-based manufacturer of the Mcup, have created a non-absorbent reusable barrier cups made from medically approved, 100% pure silicone menstrual cup as a menstrual management solution for all women. Mcups are:- Eco-friendly: one Mcup is equivalent to 1200...

  • R239

    Malesation's Hybrid Anal lubricant has a 2 in 1 water-based composition that allows this product to feel like a silky textured silicone lubricant. It supports the body's natural moisture balance, providing the utmost comfort during sexual activities without hindering the stimulation experienced. Being water-based, it is safe to use with toys that are made...

  • R239

    Malesation Anal Relax is a water-based lubricant designed to provide ultimate relaxation for anal penetration. It supports the natural moisture balance of your skin and therefore provides comfort during sexual activites without comprimising or hindering the stimulation experienced. Due to it being water-based, it is safe to use with any toy that is made...

  • R249
    1 Review

    Ntimate Rejuvinate serum is specifically formulated for women and endorsed by the well known Sexologist & Author, Timothy Kieswetter. With it's unique homeopathic ingredients, this serum tightens, tones, and restores a women's vagina, without the pain and hassle of lazer surgery, in less than 60 seconds. Follow the application method precisely, and...

  • R199

    Maintaining your Fleshlight in order to prolong its lifespan is one easy task! This Renewal Powder restores the hyper-realistic SuperSkin sleeve to its original softness. Made from 100% cornstarch, this natural powder will not irritate the skin. Remove your Fleshlight sleeve from its casing, dispense the powder onto the sleeve until coated...

  • R435
    1 Review

    Ntimate Rejuvinate serum is specifically formulated for women and endorsed by the well known Sexologist & Author, Timothy Kieswetter. With it's unique homeopathic ingredients, this serum tightens, tones, and restores a women's vagina, without the pain and hassle of lazer surgery, in less than 60 seconds. Follow the application method precisely, and...

  • R415

    Pjur Superhero Delay Serum - 20ml - is a lubricant serum for men, which reduces sensitivity of the penis thereby prolonging ejaculation. Suitable for daily application, this gel enhances the smoothness of the penis and provides a desensitizing film around the penis to reduce sensitivity without giving a completely numbing effect. Perfect in combination...

  • R479

    The Screaming O Ovation Kit provides the ultimate kit for a night with your partner. Containing 2 of each item, this kit includes 2 screaming o vibrating cock rings, 2 water-based lubricant sachets, 2 warming lubricant sachets, two cleansing towelettes, and two sweet mints. The disposable vibrating cock ring, allows for 30 plus minutes of play and has a...

  • R399

    Pjur and We Vibe have come together to create a quality, water based lubricant to accompany all your We Vibe toys! This lube is specially-formulated to enhance sensitivity and provide you with a long-lasting, hydrating glide. It is dermalogically tested and made from the highest quality ingredients. It's simple pump bottle design allows for...

  • R459

    Anal intercourse, particularly of the more vigorous variety, requires a more careful approach under certain circumstances. To cater to these more exacting requirements, the ingredients have been dosed at a higher concentration for the silicone-based formula of pjur BACK DOOR relaxing anal glide. This special composition differs from pjur analyse me!...

  • R45

    Spartan Advanced is a new medically endorsed pill that helps men restore their confidence by igniting their sexual desire. 100% natural, 100% safe & it takes only 40 minutes to take effect. Spartan Advanced has not been designed to treat Erectile Dysfunction or impotence. With its natural ingredients, this tablet will promote feelings of arousal. Do not...

  • R180

    Spartan Advanced is a new medically endorsed pill that helps men restore their confidence by igniting their sexual desire. 100% natural, 100% safe & the unique combinations of herbs not only assists with improved blood flow, but also improves energy levels ensuring results within 40 minutes. Spartan Advanced has not been designed to treat Erectile...

  • R274
    2 Reviews

    The Evarmiles Gel is a new and incredible lubricant that is formulated from Visnadine, a natural herb, clinically proven to stimulate the clitoris & labia minora. Evarmiles, a completely natural product,  is perfect for women who experience a lack of arousal, difficulty to achieve orgasm, sexual pain, and loss of sexual pleasure due to menopause. It...

  • R179

    Durex Fetherlite Ultra condoms are super fine with Sensi-Fit which provides a sleeker fit for even greater feeling (compared to our standard latex condoms) where you want it most. On average, Durex Fetherlite Ultra condoms are 20% thinner than our standard latex condoms and help to enhance sensitivity, bringing you and your partner even closer together. 12's

  • R299

    Shunga's Toko Aroma Lubricant is perfect for added lubrication and can even be used during oral sex, providing providing a long lasting, non staining, and ultra silky smooth finish with a delicious taste. Waterbased, latex safe and sex toy compatible, this lubricant is non sticky and long lasting. 

  • R459

    The Shiatsu Pheromon Perfume for Women is a perfume designed to attract men, working subconsciously to appeal by releasing chemical messages. Shown to have measureable impact on brain metabolism, pheromones are the perfect way to enhance playtime with your partner. Simply spray on your body or the areas destined for play. Helps intensify sex appeal,...

  • R369

    This 3 pc Douche set is an intimate douche kit perfect for intimate care. With three attachments it is versatile and can be used for both vaginal and anal care. Designed to make you feel cleaner, douching for women assists in washing out the vagina, whilst anal douching is a hygienic practice useful for cleaning the rectum in preparation for anal sex, or...

  • R1,199

    The JoyDivision Alu-Douche Shower extension is an intimate douche perfect for both vaginal and anal intimate care. Simply screw off the existing shower hear and screw on the intimate douche attachment. Designed to make you feel cleaner, douching for women assists in washing out the vagina, whilst anal douching is a hygienic practice useful for cleaning...

  • R429

    JoyDivision's Easy Anal lubricant is one of the best anal lubricants and is recommended specifically for first times. Condom friendly and designed for anal intercourse, a few drops of Easy Anal ensure the anus is perfectly lubricated and assists in avoiding any discomfort. A water based lubricant, Easy Anal is smooth and non-oily, whilst being...

  • R359

    JO H20 Flavoured Lubricant, the only water based lubricant that feels like silicone, delivers a deliciously smooth pleasant tasting long lasting glide, containing no artificial sweeteners or after taste.  Latex safe and compatible with all sex toys, fragrance free and never sticky. Non toxic, non allergenic and gluten free.  150ml.

  • R869

    Your sense of smell can ignite the most extraordinary passion within you. This bed & lingerie perfume with aromatherapy scented oils combining the smell of rose, jasmine, wood & spice as well as the erotic powers of Ylang-Ylang, this spray is perfect for creating the ultimate sense of seduction. Scent the room or spray on your bedding for...

  • R459

    The Shiatsu Pheromon Perfume for Men is a perfume designed to attract women, working subconsciously to appeal by releasing chemical messages. Shown to have measureable impact on brain metabolism, pheromones are the perfect way to enhance playtime with your partner. Simply spray on your body or the areas destined for play. Helps intensify sex appeal,...

  • R280
    1 Review

    Intimina Feminine Moisturizer with Aloe Vera is an alcohol-free, gentle hydrating lotion that has been formulated to enhance your natural moisture. This Glycerin and Paraben Free lubricant reduces the chances of vaginal dryness that may be caused by the surrounding environment, pre-menopausal decrease in estrogen or hormonal changes that...

  • R215

    Durex Play 2in1 Massage Gel contains Aloe Vera. It is soft, smooth & silky and is gentle enough to be used all over the body as well as intimate areas. It also has a delicate fragrance for an arousing aromatherapy experience. It is water soluble and easily washed off.  It is non sticky and won't stain. 

  • R29

    A Single FC2 Pre-Lubricated Female Condom.  The female condom is distinguished from a male condom in that it is retained in the vagina after insertion. The external component of the device provides some coverage to the external female genitalia. It is made from Natural Latex Rubber can be effective for contraceptive purposes and in the...

  • R99

    A sensitive, soap and fragrance-free wash for ladies. Gentle enough to use daily to rinse away odour-causing germs and to maintain ideal PH balance. 140ml. *This product has been medically endorsed by Desir's resident sexual health practitioner, Dr Barker, for it's documented health benefits.

  • R29

    LifeStyles Premium Condoms Ultra Thin 3 Condoms are made extra thin for enhanced sensitivity. They are electronically tested to ensure efficacy and come lubricated. 3's

  • R179

    Durex Extra Safe condoms are specifically intended to be slightly thicker with extra lubrication to ensure comfort & extra peace of mind. With this extra reassurance, the Extra Safe condoms are the ideal way to keep your mind focused on your partner.12's.

  • R795

    Shunga Geisha Secret Collection is the perfect exotic combination based on the sensual art form of Japanese lovemaking. This set includes massage Oil perfect for all over body massage (10ml), aphrodisiac Oil perfect for intimate area massage (10ml), exotic bathing Gel (10ml), edible sweet snow body powder perfect for oral play (4g), small feather tickler...

  • R1,145

    The Shunga Tenderness & Passion Collection is perfect for couples wishing to add a little spice to their love life. With it's aphrodisiac effects and based on the incredible Japanese art form of lovemaking, this sensual aroma infused collection is perfect for heightening your and your partners sense, making it the ideal prelude to your lovemaking....

  • R689

    Bijoux Wanderlust Aphrodisia travel size gift pack. Bijoux Wanderlust Aphrodisia gift pack is a travel size pack of massage oil, body mist, arousal creme, feather tickler and two satin handcuffs. Perfect for travel.

  • R350

    Pjur's Med Clean towelettes for gentle cleansing of sensitive intimate areas, hold no lint residue or germ transfer, and are in a resealable packet making them perfect for travel. Dermatologically tested, alcohol and fragrance free, these towelettes reduce germs from bacteria and fungi thereby reducing body odour. 25 Fleece per pack. Perfect for a quick...

  • R339

    This toy cleaner in a sexy stylish Aluminium Bottle, is an all round cleaner, both toy cleaner and hygienic spray, for reducing fungus, germs and bacteria in the genital area., with pump action dispenser.  75ml.

  • R325

    JO H2O Cooling Lubricant, the only water based lubricant that feels like silicone, provides a warm sensation,  delivering a silky smooth long lasting pure glide. Latex safe and compatible with all sex toys, fragrance free and never sticky. Non toxic, non allergenic, containing no animal based glycerin or animal by-products.  135ml.

  • R145

    JO H2O Lubricant, the only water based lubricant that feels like silicone, delivers a silky smooth long lasting pure glide. Latex safe and compatible with all sex toys, fragrance free and never sticky. Non toxic, non allergenic, containing no animal based glycerine or animal by-products. 30ml

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