SEX ESSENTIALS

Sex Essentials carefully selected to compliment your intimate journey, encourage sound sexual health and wellness, and ensure a more satisfying and rewarding sex life.


Desir’s sex essentials are products that have been introduced with the purpose of making your sexual experience that much more satisfying. From lubes and condoms, to supplements and medically sound intimate care products, our essential category offers you the best complimentary products and must-haves for your sexual health and wellbeing.


What is good sexual health?

Feeling good about your body and taking care of your physical and emotional health are all part of being sexually healthy. Physically this can relate to regular sexual health exams, getting tested for sexually transmitted infections, preventing unwanted pregnancies and having a healthy hygiene regime when it comes to cleaning your sex toys and taking care or your body.


But additionally, your emotional or mental health also has an enormous role to play in your attitude towards sex and your sexual health status. Feeling good about your body, giving yourself permission to enjoy sexual pleasure, and being comfortable with your sexual orientation and gender are huge parts of one’s sexuality and can have a fundamental impact on how you perceive yourself, others, and your sexuality.


How do I have good sex?

Planned parenthood states that good sex comes from understanding how your body works. Whilst sex is not a one size fits all experience, good sex comes down to being confident with your body, knowing what you like and don’t like, and understanding your sex drive and pleasures.


It is in this regard that Desir’s range of Essentials have been carefully curated to ensure that you have the best sex possible, whilst taking care of your sexual health and wellness at the same time.


Sexual Health Supplements

With so many factors impacting our sex lives, one of the biggest contributors is that of low libido or poor sex drive. Science has come a considerably long way in providing formulations that not only increase your sexual libido, but also assist with symptoms related to menopause, erectile dysfunction, vaginal dryness, and stamina.


Brands like Solal have focussed specifically on formulations, vitamins and minerals that contain essential ingredients like vitamin b12, vitamin b6, ginseng, fenugreek, and maca root that are natural testosterone boosting herbs. Not only proven to increase your libido, these ingredients are specifically known to alleviate symptoms related to erectile dysfunction, poor sperm quality, infertility, and are known to positively support and boost male and female sexual function. A completely natural alternative to anabolic and pharmaceutical steroid medicines, brands like Solal, LaMelle, Vitaforce, and Erex provide you with the option of adopting a far more holistic approach to your sexual health.


Stimulants and Enhancers

When it comes to stimulation and increasing your arousal and genital blood flow, several brands like Shunga, Wicked, Intimate Earth, and Pjur focus specifically on products designed to intensify your sexual experience.


From clitoral arousal serums and pleasure gels to aphrodisiacs and prolong sprays, Desir has a range of complimentary serums and elixirs that have been proven to amplify your sexual experience. Use them in conjunction with your favourite intimate product or simply for an increase in your masturbation or solo play


Explore the sensory experience of applying serums that encourage warmth, cooling, tingling, and relaxation and stimulate your nerve endings to encourage stronger orgasms and a heightened sense of arousal.


Personal Care and Product Care

One of the most important aspects to sound sexual health, is that of good personal and product care.

With conditions like bacterial vaginosis, yeast infections, vaginal infections, and STD’s, it is critical to follow a health regime that supports your sexual lifestyle. From intimate toy cleaners and disinfectant wipes, to vaginal douches and condoms, Desir has ensured that you have all you need to practice safe sex and avoid cross-contamination.


WebMd lists the use of a good intimate wash as the number one priority after sex. Not only limited to the cleansing of your genital areas, cleansing of your sex toys is just as important and with the introduction of foam or gel sex toy cleaners, taking care of your sex toys has never been easier.


With much controversy around the practice of douching and specifically with regards to women who douche, douching before or after anal sex (also referred to as rectal douching) is widely practiced to clean the anal area in preparation for sex.


With a variety of douches that range from shower attachment to bulb hand held douching apparatus, douching is best practiced with warm water and should be repeated until the water runs clean. EndHIV provides a word of caution for douching too frequently stating that it can damage the lining of the rectum, making you more susceptible to to HIV infection should you choose to not use a male condom.


Desir Panel of Medical Experts

To encourage positive sexual health and wellness, Desir has introduced a medical panel of experts that specialise in sexual health and promote sexual health and wellness - for both men and women. From gynaecologists and aesthetic practitioners, to sexologists and psychotherapists, Desir’s sexual health doctors are available for consult via our treatments category. With a variety of procedures, consults, and services available, your mental and physical sexual health is of the utmost importance to us and we are proud to offer you access to some of South Africa’s most renowned doctors who specialise in their respective fields.

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StaminoGro Fertility Supplement - iNova Pharmaceuticals

R280
StaminoGro is a combination supplement designed to assist you in providing additional nutrition, and works synergistically to help promote wellbeing and vitality.  With it's Vitamin E, Arginine and Selenium ingredients, StaminoGro is perfect for women who suffer from subfertility improved ovarian response, endometrial receptivity, and are struggling to...
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Crystal Elixir Water Bottle - Shift Crystal Collective

ShiftCrystal
R990
"Shift your Vibration with pure crystal hydration" - Shift Crystal Collective These incredibly elegant water bottles offer far more than just hydration. Science has shown that we are made up of 70% of water. There are 4 phases with the last being known as a structured water, which makes up the full composition of most of our bodies. Drinking structured...
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CBD Shot Energy & Focus 5mg - ReThink

ReThinkEnergyShot
R59
ReThink shots are a great way to experience the full benefits of CBD quickly and easily. In a compact size, the Energy & Focus CBD Shot helps to increase energy, heighten focus, and improve alertness thanks to it's combination of Vitamin B and Caffeine.  In a palatable cherry flavour each shot contains 5mg of CBD in a 50ml single shot bottle....
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CBD Shot Re-Covery 5mg - ReThink

RecoveryShotRethink
R59
ReThink shots are a great way to experience the full benefits of CBD quickly and easily. In a compact size, the Re-Covery CBD Shot assists with fighting fatigue and encouraging normal muscle function.  In a palatable peach flavour each shot contains 5mg of CBD in a 50ml single shot bottle. Conveniently pocket sized, you are able to enjoy the benefits of...
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CBD Shot Calm & Chill 5mg - ReThink

RethinkCalmShot
R59
ReThink shots are a great way to experience the full benefits of CBD quickly and easily. In a compact size, the Calm & Chill CBD Shot helps to reduce feelings of anxiety and stress thanks to it's combination of THC free CBD and L-Theanine.  In a palatable orange flavour each shot contains 5mg of CBD in a 50ml single shot bottle. Conveniently pocket...
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CBD Daily Capsule (150mg, 300mg, 600mg) - ReThink

RethinkDailyCap
R599
The ReThink CBD Daily Capsules have been specifically formulated to assist with the maintenance and enhancement of your health, the relief of pain and inflammation, restlessness, sleeplessness and anxiousness.  In a range of three varied strengths ranging from 150mg to 600mg, the graded dosage allows you to start gradually on a lower dosage and gradually...
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CBD Relieve Pain & Inflammation Oil 150mg - ReThink

RelieveReThinkOil
R499
The ReThink CBD Relieve Pain & Inflammation Oil has been specifically formulated using a combination of Turmeric and Uncaria tomentosa root to assist with the relief of joint and muscle pain. It also helps to support health maintenance and enhancement.  In a strength of 150mg, with the plant material infused in a base of organic hemp seed oil, a...
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CBD Dream Sleep Aid Oil 150mg - ReThink

DreamOilRethink
R499
The ReThink CBD Dream Oil has been specifically formulated using a combination of Lemon Balm Leaf and Valerian Root to assist in the relief of sleep disturbances, mental stress and nervous tension. It also supports health maintenance and enhancement.  In a strength of 150mg, with the plant material infused in a base of organic hemp seed oil, a...
CBD Digest Oil 150mg - ReThink
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CBD Digest Oil 150mg - ReThink

DigestReThinkOil
R499
The ReThink Digest Oil has been specifically formulated using a combination of Artichoke and Ginger Root to assist in the symptomatic relief of digestive disorders. It also supports health maintenance and enhancement.  In a strength of 150mg, with the plant material infused in a base of organic hemp seed oil, a maintenance dose of 1ml a day is required...
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CBD Relax Stress & Tension Oil 150mg - ReThink

ReThinkRelaxOil
R499
The ReThink CBD Relax Oil has been specifically formulated using a combination of Ashwaganda and Golden Root to promote relaxation by reducing symptoms related to stress and anxiousness. It also supports health maintenance and enhancement. In a strength of 150mg, with the plant material infused in a base of organic hemp seed oil, a maintenance dose of...
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CBD Boost Energy & Focus Oil 150mg - ReThink

ReThinkBoostOil
R499
The ReThink CBD Boost Oil has been specifically formulated using a combination of Peppermint and Ginseng to promote an improvement to your physical and mental performance.  In a strength of 150mg, with the plant material infused in a base of organic hemp seed oil, a maintenance dose of 1ml a day is required with a maximum dosage of 4ml per day.   With...
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CBD Uplift Mood Enhancing Oil 150mg - ReThink

UpliftOil
R499
The ReThink CBD Uplift Mood Enhancing Oil has been specifically formulated using a combination of St Johns Wort and Lemon Balm Leaf to promote mood balance, to assist in relieving mild symptoms of stress and to help normalise sleep patterns.  In a strength of 150mg, with the plant material infused in a base of organic hemp seed oil, a maintenance dose of...
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CBD Daily Oil (150mg, 300mg, 600mg) - ReThink

ReThinkDailyOil
R559
The ReThink CBD Daily Oil has been specifically formulated to assist with the maintenance and enhancement of your health, the relief of pain and inflammation, restlessness, sleeplessness and anxiousness.  In a range of three varied strengths ranging from 150mg to 600mg, the graded dosage allows you to start gradually on a lower dosage and gradually...
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CBD Uplift Tea with Jasmine & Mint - CBD

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R99
The CBD infused Rooibos tea by REThink is an aromatic, antioxidant-rich rooibos tea infused with CBD - formulated to enhance your health and wellbeing, whilst elevating your mood and sense of emotional wellbeing.  Caffeine free, and rich in antioxidants this tea contains Aspalathus linearis, rooibos leaf, Jasmine oil, Peppermint Oil, and Cannabis Sativa....
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CBD Relieve Tea with Lavender & Rosemary - ReThink

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R99
The CBD infused Rooibos tea by REThink is an aromatic, antioxidant-rich rooibos tea infused with CBD - formulated to enhance your health and wellbeing whilst activating an anti-inflammatory response helping relieve stress, muscular tension and body aches.   Caffeine free, and rich in antioxidants this tea contains Aspalathus linearis, rooibos leaf,...
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CBD Dream Tea with Lavender & Chamomile - ReThink

CBDRethinkDreamTea
R99
The CBD infused Rooibos tea by REThink is an aromatic, antioxidant-rich rooibos tea infused with CBD - formulated to enhance your health and wellbeing whilst allowing you to relax, soothe, and calm your mind pre-bedtime.  Caffeine free, and rich in antioxidants this tea contains Aspalathus linearis, rooibos leaf, Lavender essential oil, German Chamomile...
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CBD Boost Tea with Lemon & Cinnamon - ReThink

ReThinkBoostTea
R99
The CBD infused Rooibos tea by REThink is an aromatic, antioxidant-rich rooibos tea infused with CBD - formulated to enhance your health and wellbeing whilst boosting your energy, restoring mental focus, and physical agility.   Caffeine free, and rich in antioxidants this tea contains Aspalathus linearis, rooibos leaf, Cinnamon Bark, Citrus Lemon and...
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CBD Digest Tea with Ginger & Artichoke - ReThink

ReThinkDigestTea
R99
The CBD infused Rooibos tea by REThink is an aromatic, antioxidant-rich rooibos tea infused with CBD - formulated to enhance your health and wellbeing and to assist with reviving your digestive system and reducing indigestion.  Caffeine free, and rich in antioxidants this tea contains Aspalathus linearis, rooibos leaf, artichoke seed oil, ginger root...
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CBD Relax Tea with Lemon & Chamomile - ReThink

ReThinkRelax
R99
The CBD infused Relax tea by REThink is an aromatic, antioxidant-rich rooibos tea infused with CBD, Lemon, and Chamomile - formulated to enhance your health and wellbeing and to allow time to pause, reflect, and relax.   Caffeine free, and rich in antioxidants this tea contains Aspalathus linearis, Chamomile, Citrus Lemon, and Cannabis Sativa. Containing...
CBD Rooibos Tea 2mg - ReThink
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CBD Rooibos Tea 2mg - ReThink

RETHINKROOIBOS
R99
The CBD infused Rooibos tea by REThink is an aromatic, antioxidant-rich rooibos tea infused with CBD - formulated to enhance your health and wellbeing.  Caffeine free, and rich in antioxidants this tea contains Aspalathus linearis, rooibos leaf, and Cannabis Sativa. Containing no THC, this tea does not produce any side effects that are related to the...
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Premium Ribbed Condoms - Promescent

Promescent
PromRibbed
R49
The Promescent premium ribbed condoms are designed specifically to increase stimulation for both partners during intimacy. With a delicate ribbing detail along the entire length of the condom, you gain extra pleasure and increased sensation on each and every thrust. Made from high-quality latex, these ribbed condoms are lubricated for extra comfort and...
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Premium Ultra Thin Condoms - Promescent

Promescent
PromThin
R39
The Promescent ultra thin condoms are a pack of 3 premium lubricated condoms that promise heightened sensitivity and a more natural feeling during intimacy. Made from premium quality latex, these thinner than normal condoms feature a reservoir tip for extra safety and are lightly lubricated to enhance comfort and reduce friction. The reduced wall...
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Female Arousal Gel - Promescent

Promescent
PromArousal
R1,099
"With just one pea-sized drop of the Promescent clitoral gel, you can experience sex or solo masturbation like you've never thought possible." A hybrid lubricant containing properties of both water and silicone lubricants, the Promescent Female Arousal Gel is a super-smooth gel that stimulates the clitoral area and maximises your level of arousal....
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Delay and Climax Control Spray - Promescent

Promescent
PromDelay
R699
For anyone looking to build confidence and last longer in bed, the Promescent Delay and Climax Control spray is ideal.  Voted by over 2000+ healthcare professionals, this lidocaine delay spray increases your level of control whilst still maintaining enough sensitivity to achieve strong orgasms. With a metered-dose spray delivering 10mg of lidocaine per...
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