SEX ESSENTIALS

Sex Essentials carefully selected to compliment your intimate journey, encourage sound sexual health and wellness, and ensure a more satisfying and rewarding sex life.


Desir’s sex essentials are products that have been introduced with the purpose of making your sexual experience that much more satisfying. From lubes and condoms, to supplements and medically sound intimate care products, our essential category offers you the best complimentary products and must-haves for your sexual health and wellbeing.


What is good sexual health?

Feeling good about your body and taking care of your physical and emotional health are all part of being sexually healthy. Physically this can relate to regular sexual health exams, getting tested for sexually transmitted infections, preventing unwanted pregnancies and having a healthy hygiene regime when it comes to cleaning your sex toys and taking care or your body.


But additionally, your emotional or mental health also has an enormous role to play in your attitude towards sex and your sexual health status. Feeling good about your body, giving yourself permission to enjoy sexual pleasure, and being comfortable with your sexual orientation and gender are huge parts of one’s sexuality and can have a fundamental impact on how you perceive yourself, others, and your sexuality.


How do I have good sex?

Planned parenthood states that good sex comes from understanding how your body works. Whilst sex is not a one size fits all experience, good sex comes down to being confident with your body, knowing what you like and don’t like, and understanding your sex drive and pleasures.


It is in this regard that Desir’s range of Essentials have been carefully curated to ensure that you have the best sex possible, whilst taking care of your sexual health and wellness at the same time.


Sexual Health Supplements

With so many factors impacting our sex lives, one of the biggest contributors is that of low libido or poor sex drive. Science has come a considerably long way in providing formulations that not only increase your sexual libido, but also assist with symptoms related to menopause, erectile dysfunction, vaginal dryness, and stamina.


Brands like Solal have focussed specifically on formulations, vitamins and minerals that contain essential ingredients like vitamin b12, vitamin b6, ginseng, fenugreek, and maca root that are natural testosterone boosting herbs. Not only proven to increase your libido, these ingredients are specifically known to alleviate symptoms related to erectile dysfunction, poor sperm quality, infertility, and are known to positively support and boost male and female sexual function. A completely natural alternative to anabolic and pharmaceutical steroid medicines, brands like Solal, LaMelle, Vitaforce, and Erex provide you with the option of adopting a far more holistic approach to your sexual health.


Stimulants and Enhancers

When it comes to stimulation and increasing your arousal and genital blood flow, several brands like Shunga, Wicked, Intimate Earth, and Pjur focus specifically on products designed to intensify your sexual experience.


From clitoral arousal serums and pleasure gels to aphrodisiacs and prolong sprays, Desir has a range of complimentary serums and elixirs that have been proven to amplify your sexual experience. Use them in conjunction with your favourite intimate product or simply for an increase in your masturbation or solo play


Explore the sensory experience of applying serums that encourage warmth, cooling, tingling, and relaxation and stimulate your nerve endings to encourage stronger orgasms and a heightened sense of arousal.


Personal Care and Product Care

One of the most important aspects to sound sexual health, is that of good personal and product care.

With conditions like bacterial vaginosis, yeast infections, vaginal infections, and STD’s, it is critical to follow a health regime that supports your sexual lifestyle. From intimate toy cleaners and disinfectant wipes, to vaginal douches and condoms, Desir has ensured that you have all you need to practice safe sex and avoid cross-contamination.


WebMd lists the use of a good intimate wash as the number one priority after sex. Not only limited to the cleansing of your genital areas, cleansing of your sex toys is just as important and with the introduction of foam or gel sex toy cleaners, taking care of your sex toys has never been easier.


With much controversy around the practice of douching and specifically with regards to women who douche, douching before or after anal sex (also referred to as rectal douching) is widely practiced to clean the anal area in preparation for sex.


With a variety of douches that range from shower attachment to bulb hand held douching apparatus, douching is best practiced with warm water and should be repeated until the water runs clean. EndHIV provides a word of caution for douching too frequently stating that it can damage the lining of the rectum, making you more susceptible to to HIV infection should you choose to not use a male condom.


Desir Panel of Medical Experts

To encourage positive sexual health and wellness, Desir has introduced a medical panel of experts that specialise in sexual health and promote sexual health and wellness - for both men and women. From gynaecologists and aesthetic practitioners, to sexologists and psychotherapists, Desir’s sexual health doctors are available for consult via our treatments category. With a variety of procedures, consults, and services available, your mental and physical sexual health is of the utmost importance to us and we are proud to offer you access to some of South Africa’s most renowned doctors who specialise in their respective fields.

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Cannabis Intimate Oil - Your Nectar

Your Nectar
CON Your Nectar
R689
This luxurious cannabis pleasure oil is a 100% plant based blend containing CBD and MCT Coconut oil - formulated to enhance sexual pleasure, ease discomfort, and help make intercourse even better. Formulated to work with your body, the full spectrum cannabis extracts when applied topically promote increased blood flow thereby promoting increased...
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    Set of 3 Crystal Yoni Eggs - Yoni Eggs

    Yoni Eggs
    Setof3
    R1,199
    Yoni Eggs, or more commonly known Jade Eggs, have been used for thousands of years as part of traditional medicine. Today the practice of inserting a Jade or Yoni Egg into the vagina, offers a myriad of benefits that not only incorporate medical advantages but also healing properties on an energetic level. By using a Yoni egg daily, blood and lymph flow...
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      Water-Based Various Flavoured Lubricants (60ml, 120ml) - Wicked

      Wicked
      CJ 133173
      R214
      A leading brand in lubricants, Wicked has introduced a product that will allow your sexual adventures to involve all of the five senses, allowing you to reach your most intimate desires. Each flavour is available in both 160ml and 120ml, are long-lasting, non-sticky, paraben-free, and latex friendly so can be enjoyed safely, also making this ideal with...
      Aqua Sensitive Intimate Lubricant - Wicked
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        Water Based Lubricants

        Aqua Sensitive Water-Based Intimate Lubricant for Sensitive Skin - Wicked

        Wicked
        CJ 133165
        R389
        This water based lubricant by Wicked is a smooth and satiny, hypoallergenic lubricant rich in aloe, vitamin E, and Olive extracts. Ideal for sensitive skin, this lubricant not only heightens sensation and arousal, but also nourishes and moisturises the most sensitive of skins. With it's non sticky application, this lube is latex friendly and...
        Creme Masturbation Cream For Men - Wicked
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          Creme Masturbation Cream For Men - Wicked

          Wicked
          CJ 133152
          R279
          Peak your sensations and intensify your pleasure with Creme Masturbation Cream for Men. This unique, oil-based, intimate lubricant is essential for private moments. Experience the transformation as the fortified, nourishing cream, melts with the warmth of your body into a non-greasy liquid lube. The superior glide of Vitamin E enriched Creme is sensually...
          Aqua Fragrance Free Water Based Intimate Lubricant - Wicked
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            Lubricants

            Aqua Fragrance Free Water Based Intimate Lubricant (60ml, 120ml, 250ml) - Wicked

            Wicked
            CJ 133180/81/62
            R329
            This water-based lubricant by Wicked, is a completely safe, fragrance-free, preservative free lubricant designed for the more sensitive skin.  Perfect for every day lubricant for women who suffer from dryness, for use with your intimate products and for both vaginal and anal sex, this non-sticky, hydrating formulation leaves your skin feeling silk...
            Ultre Fragrance Free Silicone Based Intimate Lubricant - Wicked
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              Lubricants

              Ultra Fragrance Free Silicone Based Intimate Lubricant (60ml, 120ml)- Wicked

              Wicked
              CJ 133168/9
              R549
              Ultra Silicone Lubricant by Wicked is luxuriously sensuous and long lasting. This high performance, velvety smooth formula will enhance pleasure without feeling heavy, greasy or tacky. Formulated with the highest quality silicone available in the personal care market. Ultra Fragrance Free contains no additives or fillers for an exceptionally silky feel....
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                Lubricants

                Aqua Chill Water-Based Cooling Lubricant - Wicked

                Wicked
                CJ 133164
                R369
                Wicked's Aqua Chill is a water-based lubricant with a cooling sensation. This superior quality lubricant provides you with a tingling, heightened sensual experience specifically created to assist in full sensitivity.  With it's thrilling waves of natural peppermint leaf, ginger root and menthol, Aqua Chill is perfect if you want to feel everything.It is...
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                  Aqua Heat Water-Based Warming Lubricant - Wicked

                  Wicked
                  CJ 133163
                  R369
                  Wicked's Aqua Heat water based warming lubricant is a must have if you enjoy spicing things up in the bedroom. A unique blend of elements will thrill your erogenous zones with pleasure while the advanced formula enhances personal moisture.  Made with natural extracts of Cinnamon Bark, Clove, Ginger Root and Olive Leaf, Wicked Aqua Heat is gentle for all...
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                    Lubricants

                    Pjur We-Vibe Water-Based Lubricant - Pjur

                    We Vibe
                    BO DP 827160111434
                    R349
                    Formulated especially for We-Vibe, the We-Vibe™ Lube made by Pjur® is perfect for use with all your We-Vibe and other luxury adult toys. The water-based lubricant formula is gentle on your skin and avoids corrosion of the soft luxury silicone found on your We-Vibe adult products. It's rich formulae is long-lasting, non-sticky and mess...
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                      Sex Essentials

                      Pjur We-Vibe Toy Cleaner - Pjur

                      We Vibe
                      BO DP 827160111441
                      R349
                      We-Vibe™ Clean made by pjur® is an alcohol-free, ordourless toy cleaner designed for use with your We-Vibe or other premium adult toys. Disinfecting against any bacteria or germs, this hygienic spray comes in a handy spray bottle, allowing you to apply the formulae directly onto your We-Vibe pleasure toys - keeping them hygienically clean and fresh....
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                        Pivot Vibrating Penis Ring for Couples - We-Vibe™

                        We Vibe
                        ST 839289006812
                        R2,199
                        The Pivot by We-Vibe™ is a stretchy silicone cock ring that is worn around the base of the penis. It is made of soft silicone that is comfortable and hardwearing. Apply We-Vibe™ Lube to the ring and the penis and slide down gently to the base of the penis. The Pivot cock ring helps him to stay harder and to last longer. The powerful rumbly motor in the...
                        We Vibe Luxury Verge Penis RingWe Vibe Luxury Verge Penis Ring 2
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                          Verge Luxury Vibrating Penis Ring & Perineum Massager - We-Vibe

                          We Vibe
                          BO DP 839289006805
                          R2,099
                          You’ll love the the power and pleasure you’ll feel with the Verge by We-Vibe™. Cock rings help to create a bigger, harder, and more long-lasting erection, finishing with more powerful orgasms. Now, the Verge cock ring by We-Vibe™ intensifies that pleasure with vibrations targeted to the scrotum and perineum. Put the Verge on before you get aroused, gently...
                          Warming Sensation Lubricant...
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                            Lubricants

                            Warming Sensation Lubricant Gel - WaterGlide

                            WaterGlide
                            ST 4019514305408
                            R399
                            The Warming Stimulating Gel by WaterGlide is a lubricant produced in Germany using only the finest formulation to give you a 100% natural feeling combined with a stimulating warming sensation. High-quality ingredients that are characterised by their skin-friendly properties are professionally monitored and checked for your safety through regular medical...
                            Anal Lubricant and...
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                              Lubricants

                              Anal Lubricant and Sensation Gel - WaterGlide

                              WaterGlide
                              ST 4019514305101
                              R399
                              The Anal Intimate Glide by WaterGlide is a lubricant produced in Germany using only the finest formulation to give you a 100% natural feeling. High-quality ingredients are characterised by their skin-friendly properties and are professionally monitored and checked for your safety through regular medical and dermatological checks. Oil and fat free, this...
                              Tingling Lubricant and...
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                                Lubricants

                                Tingling Lubricant and Sensation Gel - WaterGlide

                                WaterGlide
                                ST 4019514306108
                                R399
                                The Tingling Intimate Gel by WaterGlide is a lubricant produced in Germany using only the finest formulation to give you a 100% natural feeling whilst providing a tingling and stimulating effect at the same time. High-quality ingredients that are characterised by their skin-friendly properties are professionally monitored and checked for your safety...
                                Natural Feeling Lubricant...
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                                  Natural Feeling Lubricant and Sensation Gel - WaterGlide

                                  WaterGlide
                                  ST 4019514305156
                                  R399
                                  The Natural Feeling Intimate Glide by WaterGlide is a lubricant produced in Germany using only the finest formulation to give you a 100% natural feeling. High-quality ingredients that are characterised by their skin-friendly properties are professionally monitored and checked for your safety through regular medical and dermatological checks. Oil and fat...
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                                    Tom of Finland Hot Water Douche - Tom of Finland Tools

                                    Tom of Finland
                                    BO DP 848518023414
                                    R749
                                    The Tom of Finland range is based on the world renowned artist Tom of Finland's fetish art. With alluring images of hyper masculine men, Tom's leatherman, bikers, cowboys, cops, and lumberjacks all form part of these iconic symbols and illustrations. With each product within the range featuring a collector's card, you are able to enjoy Tom's work and...
                                    Luxury Massage Candle - Senze
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                                      Luxury Massage Aphrodisiac Candle - Senze

                                      Swede
                                      BO DP 7350028783205/29/36
                                      R549
                                      Senze’s erotic massage candle is perfect for gentle foreplay. The candle burns at a low heat, creating a warm, buttery, scented oil that moisturizes the skin as you massage. Just a few minutes of burning will create enough oil for a basic massage. Give it a little longer to have enough oil for a full-body sensual massage that your partner will love....
                                      Tammy Double Ring Couple's Vibrator - SvakomTammy Double Ring Couple's Vibrator - Svakom 2
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                                        Sex Toys

                                        Tammy Double Ring Couple's Vibrator - Svakom

                                        Svakom
                                        CON SV S38-VLT
                                        R1,699
                                        The Tammy by Svakom is a double penis ring designed for couples looking for extreme pleasure.With a soft silicone material, this super-flexible penis ring features two rings - one designed to be worn around the scrotum and the other around the base of your penile shaft. WIth a circular textured pad situated at the top of the ring,  you are able to provide...
                                        Viala Sonic Skin Cleanser & Body Massager - SvakomViala Sonic Skin Cleanser & Body Massager - Svakom 2
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                                          Sex Toys

                                          Viala Sonic Skin Cleanser & Body Massager - Svakom

                                          Svakom
                                          CON SV V01-SNF-PNK/GRN
                                          R799
                                          The Viala by Svakom is a luxuriously versatile 2-in-1 sonic skin cleanser and all over body massager.  Offering a full spa experience and holding the accolade of being an award winning facial cleansing device, the Viala is a vibrating body wand that features a silicone, non-porous, bristled removable head that is resistant to bacterial build up and is...
                                          Natural Water & Silicone...Natural Water & Silicone... 2
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                                            Lubricants

                                            Natural Water & Silicone Based Toy Friendly Lubricant - Svakom

                                            Svakom
                                            SVA CON SE001
                                            R445
                                            This natural water-based lubricant by Svakom is a unique water and silicone 2-in-1 formula designed for everyday, intimate, or intimate product use. Using the highest graded materials, this Natural lubricant gives you the ultimate pleasure and comfort and has been specifically tested for sensitive skin. Leaving you feeling smooth and soft, this lube...
                                            JoyRide Toy & Body Cleaning Spray - JoyRide
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                                              Sex Essentials

                                              JoyRide Toy & Body Cleaning Spray - JoyRide

                                              SToys
                                              BO DP 4041937914899
                                              R219
                                              The JoyRide cleaning spray in a 150ml spray bottle is the perfect solution to cleaning and disinfecting your sex toys or intimate areas.Simply spray onto your intimate products, wait a minute, and wipe of with a warm cloth. With it's gentle solution, this toy cleaner is also suitable for your intimate areas and protects your PH balance whilst offering a...
                                              Lust Glider Couples...
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                                                Sex Toys

                                                Lust Glider Couples Vibrating Penis Ring - SToys

                                                SToys
                                                BO DP 4041937326081
                                                R189
                                                The Lust Glider Vibro Ring is a penis ring designed specifically for couples. Made from flexible silicone, the ring is worn at the base of his shaft - allowing him to experience delayed ejaculation, a firmer erection and longer lasting pleasure. With a mini bullet vibrator attached at the top of the ring, your partner will receive intense clitoral...
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