SEX ESSENTIALS

Sex Essentials carefully selected to compliment your intimate journey, encourage sound sexual health and wellness, and ensure a more satisfying and rewarding sex life.


Desir’s sex essentials are products that have been introduced with the purpose of making your sexual experience that much more satisfying. From lubes and condoms, to supplements and medically sound intimate care products, our essential category offers you the best complimentary products and must-haves for your sexual health and wellbeing.


What is good sexual health?

Feeling good about your body and taking care of your physical and emotional health are all part of being sexually healthy. Physically this can relate to regular sexual health exams, getting tested for sexually transmitted infections, preventing unwanted pregnancies and having a healthy hygiene regime when it comes to cleaning your sex toys and taking care or your body.


But additionally, your emotional or mental health also has an enormous role to play in your attitude towards sex and your sexual health status. Feeling good about your body, giving yourself permission to enjoy sexual pleasure, and being comfortable with your sexual orientation and gender are huge parts of one’s sexuality and can have a fundamental impact on how you perceive yourself, others, and your sexuality.


How do I have good sex?

Planned parenthood states that good sex comes from understanding how your body works. Whilst sex is not a one size fits all experience, good sex comes down to being confident with your body, knowing what you like and don’t like, and understanding your sex drive and pleasures.


It is in this regard that Desir’s range of Essentials have been carefully curated to ensure that you have the best sex possible, whilst taking care of your sexual health and wellness at the same time.


Sexual Health Supplements

With so many factors impacting our sex lives, one of the biggest contributors is that of low libido or poor sex drive. Science has come a considerably long way in providing formulations that not only increase your sexual libido, but also assist with symptoms related to menopause, erectile dysfunction, vaginal dryness, and stamina.


Brands like Solal have focussed specifically on formulations, vitamins and minerals that contain essential ingredients like vitamin b12, vitamin b6, ginseng, fenugreek, and maca root that are natural testosterone boosting herbs. Not only proven to increase your libido, these ingredients are specifically known to alleviate symptoms related to erectile dysfunction, poor sperm quality, infertility, and are known to positively support and boost male and female sexual function. A completely natural alternative to anabolic and pharmaceutical steroid medicines, brands like Solal, LaMelle, Vitaforce, and Erex provide you with the option of adopting a far more holistic approach to your sexual health.


Stimulants and Enhancers

When it comes to stimulation and increasing your arousal and genital blood flow, several brands like Shunga, Wicked, Intimate Earth, and Pjur focus specifically on products designed to intensify your sexual experience.


From clitoral arousal serums and pleasure gels to aphrodisiacs and prolong sprays, Desir has a range of complimentary serums and elixirs that have been proven to amplify your sexual experience. Use them in conjunction with your favourite intimate product or simply for an increase in your masturbation or solo play


Explore the sensory experience of applying serums that encourage warmth, cooling, tingling, and relaxation and stimulate your nerve endings to encourage stronger orgasms and a heightened sense of arousal.


Personal Care and Product Care

One of the most important aspects to sound sexual health, is that of good personal and product care.

With conditions like bacterial vaginosis, yeast infections, vaginal infections, and STD’s, it is critical to follow a health regime that supports your sexual lifestyle. From intimate toy cleaners and disinfectant wipes, to vaginal douches and condoms, Desir has ensured that you have all you need to practice safe sex and avoid cross-contamination.


WebMd lists the use of a good intimate wash as the number one priority after sex. Not only limited to the cleansing of your genital areas, cleansing of your sex toys is just as important and with the introduction of foam or gel sex toy cleaners, taking care of your sex toys has never been easier.


With much controversy around the practice of douching and specifically with regards to women who douche, douching before or after anal sex (also referred to as rectal douching) is widely practiced to clean the anal area in preparation for sex.


With a variety of douches that range from shower attachment to bulb hand held douching apparatus, douching is best practiced with warm water and should be repeated until the water runs clean. EndHIV provides a word of caution for douching too frequently stating that it can damage the lining of the rectum, making you more susceptible to to HIV infection should you choose to not use a male condom.


Desir Panel of Medical Experts

To encourage positive sexual health and wellness, Desir has introduced a medical panel of experts that specialise in sexual health and promote sexual health and wellness - for both men and women. From gynaecologists and aesthetic practitioners, to sexologists and psychotherapists, Desir’s sexual health doctors are available for consult via our treatments category. With a variety of procedures, consults, and services available, your mental and physical sexual health is of the utmost importance to us and we are proud to offer you access to some of South Africa’s most renowned doctors who specialise in their respective fields.

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LELO Charger
    Available
    Sex Essentials

    LELO Charger

    Lelo
    BO DP 7350022274891
    R399
    This LELO charger is compatible with all LELO rechargeable toys except the smart wand large.
    Rechargeable battery Hybrid Kit - Fun FactoryRechargeable battery Hybrid Kit - Fun Factory 2
      Available
      Sex Essentials

      Hybrid Kit for Fun Factory Rechargeable Battery Toys - Fun Factory Battery+

      Fun factory
      BO DP 4032498805931
      R499
      Designed as an add on for the Fun Factory Battery+ range of sex toys, the Hybrid Kit allows you to use rechargeable batteries in your Mr Boss, Abby or Wicked Wings vibrator, allowing you to recharge your batteries without ever taking them out of your toy.  The innovative hybrid technology in the Battery+ toys means that, with this kit, you can treat your...
      Fleshlight Renewal Powder
        Available
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        Fleshlight Renewing Powder

        Fleshlight
        BO DP 810476016005
        R229
        Keep your favourite Fleshlight masturbation toys in top condition with regular use of official Fleshlight Renewing Powder. This bodysafe powder softens and conditions the SuperSkin sleeve inside your Fleshlight toy. Simply remove the sleeve from its casing, cover with a light layer of Renewing Powder, then slip it back into the case and enjoy the...
        Toy & Body Cleaning Spray (150ml) - Malesation
          Available
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          Toy & Body Cleaning Spray - Malesation

          Malesation
          BO DP 3100000914882
          R199
          The Malesation Toy and Body cleaner is an effective cleaning spray perfect for cleansing both intimate areas and adult toys. Spray a small amount of cleaner directly on the surface of your product you would like to clean, allow to soak for 1 minute and gently wipe dry. PH balanced, and containing no alcohol this body friendly cleanser is perfect for...
          Skins XL CondomsSkins XL Condoms 2
            Available
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            Skins XL Condoms - Manix

            Manix
            BO MS SKIN01
            R229
            Skins XL condoms allow a larger man to feel equally comfortable during sex. Created to provide you with peace of mind, these XL condoms are clear in colour, have no latex smell, are extra lubricated for comfort, and provide a natural light feel. Skin condoms are the same thickness as the Ultra thin range, providing you with heightened stimulation and...
            Manix Skyn Large - Pack of 10Manix Skyn Large - Pack of 10 2
              Available
              Condoms

              Skyn Large Latex Free Barely There Condoms - Manix

              Manix
              BO DP5011831087035
              R329
              The Manix Skyn Large condoms are officially known as the next generation in condoms. A revolutionary condom, these are made from Sensoprene which means they are not only softer and much more flexible, but that they are 100% latex free. Combining the strength of premium latex and the sensitivity of an ultra thin condom, the Manix Skyn provides you with a...
              Extra Safe Condoms - Durex
                Available
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                Extra Safe Condoms (3's,12's) - Durex

                Durex
                SM 3042299/3023655
                R69
                Durex Extra Safe condoms are specifically intended to be slightly thicker with extra lubrication to ensure comfort & extra peace of mind. With this extra reassurance, the Extra Safe condoms are the ideal way to keep your mind focused on your partner. Available in a pack of 3 or 12.
                Durex Select Flavours - Coloured and Flavoured Condoms - 3 pack
                  Available
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                  Select Flavours Coloured and Flavoured Condoms (3's) - Durex

                  Durex
                  SM 10061260
                  R69
                  The Durex Select Flavoured condoms are a pack of 3 coloured and flavoured condoms designed to add extra fun to the bedroom. Featuring banana, strawberry, and orange flavours, these natural rubber latex condoms are teat ended, lubricated, and feature a width of 53mm. For extra comfort use a condom safe durex lubricant, and use only one condom per...
                  Special Contoured Condoms (Pack of 3) - Billy BoySpecial Contoured Condoms (Pack of 3) - Billy Boy 2
                    Available
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                    Special Contoured Stamina Enhancing Condoms - Billy Boy

                    Billy Boy
                    BO 4008600232339 D27.06.2019
                    R89
                    Billy Boy contoured condoms feature a unique design in that they have a special built-in base ring designer for both a closer fit and to ensure that you last longer and prolong your climax. Gently restricting blood flow, much like a penis ring, the Billy boy contoured condoms increase duration and sensitivity whilst allowing you to provide extra pleasure...
                    Fetherlite Condoms - Durex
                      Available
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                      Fetherlite SuperFine Condoms (3's, 12's) - Durex

                      Durex
                      SM 10027983
                      R39
                      Durex Fetherlite Ultra condoms are super fine with Sensi-Fit which provides a sleeker fit for even greater feeling (compared to our standard latex condoms) where you want it most. On average, Durex Fetherlite Ultra condoms are 20% thinner than your standard latex condoms and help to enhance sensitivity, bringing you and your partner even closer together,...
                      Hex Condoms - LeloHex Condoms - Lelo 2
                        Available
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                        Hex Sensitivity & Intimacy Enhancing Condoms - Lelo

                        Lelo
                        BO DP 7350075022494
                        R499
                        The Lelo Hex condoms took 7 years to develop to ensure that you are offered the absolute best in pleasure, strength and safety. With a completely unique hexagonal structure and slightly lubricated, the Hex condoms offer a bespoke fit to enhance the sensitivity and intimacy of sex for both you and your partner. With a structure of 350 interconnected...
                        Performa Stamina Enhancing Condoms - Durex
                          Available
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                          Performa Stamina Enhancing Condoms (3's,12's) - Durex

                          Durex
                          SM 10027899/10032356
                          R59
                          Durex Performa condoms are designed to prolong intercourse and delay ejaculation without removing sensitivity and feeling. Containing a special lubricant – called Benzocaine – inside the condom which helps the man to delay climax and prolong excitement, you are able to enjoy longer-lasting pleasure. With their body-contoured shape and...
                          Fetherlite Ultra SuperFine & SlenderFit Condoms | Durex
                            Available
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                            Fetherlite Ultra SuperFine & SlenderFit Condoms (3's,12's) - Durex

                            Durex
                            SM 10045430/26
                            R69
                            Durex Fetherlite Ultra condoms are super fine with Sensi-Fit which provides a sleeker fit for even greater feeling (compared to our standard latex condoms) where you want it most. On average, Durex Fetherlite Ultra condoms are 20% thinner than your standard latex condoms and help to enhance sensitivity, bringing you and your partner even closer together,...
                            FairSquared Sensitive Dry Non-Lubricated Condom - Pack of 10 | FairSquared
                              Available
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                              FairSquared Sensitive Dry Non-Lubricated Condom - FairSquared

                              Fair Squared
                              BO DP 4260365853161
                              R349
                              The Sensitive Dry condoms by FairSquared and natural latex condoms manufactured in Germany and are designed for those who experience latex irritation and require a non-lubricated condom. With each condom tested individually, these condoms take your safety and health incredibly seriously. With their cylinder shape and comfortable fit, these Sensitive Dry...
                              FairSquared XL Condoms - Pack of 8 | FairSquared
                                Available
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                                FairSquared XL Condoms - FairSquared

                                Fair Squared
                                BO DP 4260365854915
                                R349
                                FairSquared condoms are German engineered condoms designed using the highest European testing standards. With each condom checked individually, you can now invest in a brand that takes your safety and health incredibly seriously.The XL 60 FairSquared condoms are created using fair trade natural latex. They are extra large offering you a nominal width of...
                                FairSquared UltraThin Condoms - Pack of 10 | FairSquared
                                  Available
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                                  FairSquared UltraThin Condoms - FairSquared

                                  Fair Squared
                                  BO DP 4260365853123
                                  R349
                                  The Ultra Thin condoms by FairSquared are german engineered natural latex condoms designed for those looking for safety without compromising on your 'barely there' experience.With it's wall thickness of 0.055mm, and a length of 180mm and girth of 52mm, these condoms are designed to give you the skin-on-skin feeling whilst giving you the protection that...
                                  Lynx Condoms (Small) | Malesation
                                    Available
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                                    Lynx Condoms (Small) - Malesation

                                    Malesation
                                    BO DP 4041937143503
                                    R129
                                    The Lynx condoms by Malesation are designed for men measuring in at 49mm in widt looking for a snug, comfortable fitting condom.With a reservoir tip at the end of the condom for added comfort, these condoms are transparent, cylindrical in shape and super smooth. Made from natural rubber latex, Malesation's condoms have all been electronically tested to...
                                    Cheetah Condoms (Large) | Malesation
                                      Available
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                                      Cheetah Condoms (Large) - Malesation

                                      Malesation
                                      BO DP 4041937143602
                                      R129
                                      The Cheetah condoms by Malesation are designed for men measuring in at 54mm in width -  looking for a snug, comfortable fitting condom.With a reservoir tip at the end of the condom for added comfort, these condoms are transparent, cylindrical in shape and super smooth. Made from natural rubber latex, Malesation's condoms have all been electronically...
                                      Lion Condoms (XXLarge) | Malesation
                                        Available
                                        Sex Essentials

                                        Lion Condoms (XXLarge) - Malesation

                                        Malesation
                                        BO DP 041937143657
                                        R129
                                        The Lion condoms by Malesation are designed for men measuring in at 60mm in width -  looking for a snug, comfortable fitting condom that offers a larger than normal girth size.With a reservoir tip at the end of the condom for added comfort, these condoms are transparent, cylindrical in shape and super smooth. Made from natural rubber latex, Malesation's...
                                        XXLarge Latex Condoms - Billy Boy
                                          Available
                                          Sex Essentials

                                          XXLarge Latex Condoms - Billy Boy

                                          Billy Boy
                                          BO DP 4008600227021
                                          R279
                                          These XXL condoms by Billy Boy are natural rubber latex condoms designed for those requiring a larger condom that provides adequate length and girth.Measuring in at 195mm in length and 62mm in girth, these lubricated condoms feature a reservoir tip and are transparent in colour. Medically tested for their reliability, the Billy Boy condoms are made in...
                                          LELO Hex Respect XL Condoms - LELOLELO Hex Respect XL Condoms - LELO 2
                                            Available
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                                            LELO Hex Respect XL Condoms - LELO

                                            Lelo
                                            BO DP 7350075024979
                                            R269
                                            The LELO Hex Respect condoms were designed due to huge customer demand. Following on from the original Lelo Hex regular condoms these condoms feature the same blend of science, safety and sex-appeal that makes this range a best-seller.Made from natural latex, the Hex Respect XL condoms are 0.045mm thin and 58mm in diameter, now giving you extra girth...
                                            Water Based Glide Lubricant - Malesation
                                              Available
                                              Lubricants

                                              Water Based Lubricant & Glide - Malesation

                                              Malesation
                                              BO DP 3000000911133
                                              R179
                                              Malesation Glide is a smooth water-based lubricant great used on its own or with any toy. It is latex friendly, odorless and tasteless. Malesation Water Based Glide's formula is highly concentrated and is long-lasting yet gentle on skin and toys. Suitable for males and females. 100ml
                                              Anal Hybrid Lubricant - Malesation
                                                Available
                                                Lubricants

                                                Anal Relaxing Hybrid Water & Silicone Based Lubricant - Malesation

                                                Malesation
                                                BO DP 4041937911157
                                                R329
                                                Malesation's Anal lubricant has a 2 in 1 water-based composition that allows this product to feel like a silky textured silicone lubricant whilst providing you with ease and comfort during Anal play. With it's combination of relaxing components and Metha Piperetha oil, it supports the body's natural moisture levels whilst allowing a cooling and relaxing...
                                                Anal Relax Lubricant - Malesation
                                                  Available
                                                  Lubricants

                                                  Anal Relaxing Water-Based Lubricant - Malesation

                                                  Malesation
                                                  BO DP 404193791164
                                                  R299
                                                  Malesation Anal Relax is a water-based lubricant designed to provide ultimate relaxation for anal penetration. It supports the natural moisture balance of your skin and therefore provides comfort during sexual activites without comprimising or hindering the stimulation experienced. Thanks to it's formula rich ingredients containing Metha Piperetha oil and...
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