Sex Essentials

SEX ESSENTIALS

DÉSIR'S MUST HAVE'S TO MAKE YOUR SEXUAL EXPERIENCE THAT MUCH MORE SATISFYING

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Désir's essentials are products destined to make your sexual experience that much more satisfying. From lubes and condoms, to those must-have intimate care products, make sure you stock up on these perfectly sensual and necessary add-on's. 

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  • R469

    Intimate Organics Adventure is an anal relaxing spray formulated for women. It has been designed to naturally relax the anal sphincter, allowing for more comfortable penetration. What makes this product different is that it has no anesthetic effects, therefore will not numb the schincter and cause tearing. It works quickly and is very easy to use. 30ml

  • R475

    The EMBRACE Tightening Pleasure Gel from Intimate Organics is a specially formulated bled of certified organic extracts and natural capiscum that will relieve personal dryness & suppliment the body's natural lubrication. It enhances tightness and warmth to increase pleasure for both partners. A wonderful, 100% pur vegan product, perfect for those looking...

  • R329

    Intimate Organics HYDRA is a glycerin-free lubricant, formulated from natural plant cellulose. It is a water-based, organic blend that provides you with a silky smooth texture which is long-lasting, nourishing your skin. 120ml

  • R359

    Intimate Organics MELT is a warming lubricant that contains cinnamomum zeylancium bark. It is a premium, paraben-free lubricant that creates a warming sensation on contact & blends with a woman's own fluids. MELT is all naturally derived and is pure vegan, perfect for those looking for an all-natural lubricant. 120ml

  • R399

    The Bijoux Bliss Bliss Silicone Massage gel is a silicone gel which glides onto the skin, leaving you feeling satin smooth and luxuriously soft. Perfect for intimate areas or erotic massage, this gel in a gorgeous air-pump bottle lasts so much longer as you only need to apply a tiny amount to discover the thrill of satin on skin. Glides on smoothly and...

  • R659

    The Bijoux Crazy Cold Intimate gel is perfect to be used as a lubricant or massage gel, creating the most amazing cool tingle on all your intimate areas. Heightening all your sensations, this gel is non sticky, easy to clean, and only requires a small application for maximum results. Beautifully packaged, this gel has no boundaries.

  • R2,818 R3,058
    Reduced price!

    Looking to add a little adventure to the boudoir? Then this bundle pack is for you! Get the Oden 2 Vibrating Couples Love Ring and the SuperHero Performance Spray for Men at a reduced price to help spice things up a bit! The Oden 2 is one of the world's most sophisticated vibrating love ring for couples. It has flexible, interchangeable bases to...

  • R2,499

    The LELO Confession gift set is perfect for couples looking to indulge their deepest fantasies. With a pair of luxurious silk chainlink cuffs (perfect for either wrist or ankle restraint), the world famous Tiani 3 remote controlled couples vibrator, and a 75ml personal moisturizer, this adventurous gift set is perfect for enhancing couple play,...

  • R2,199

    The Lelo Accomplice Gift Set is the perfect indulgence for those looking for a couple's experience. With the luxury  TOR 2 vibrating couples cock ring, a box of 12 Lelo HEX condoms, and a 150ml quality water-based personal moisturizer, you have all you need to ensure a night of uninterupted pleasure. Use the vibrating ring to enhance and prolong...

  • R1,599

    This Lelo Alibi Gift Set is a set specifically put together for women who require discretion, seduction, and mystery. It includes the Lelo Mia 2, which is a USB rechargeable, 100% waterproof lipstick-shaped vibrator, as well as a set of Lelo's famous Luna Bead ben wa balls. Included in this exceptional gift set is a 75ml Lelo personal moisturizer....

  • R785

    The Aphrodisia is a 2 in 1 scented, silicone-based massage and intimate gel that is the ideal addition to your boudoir. Great for massages and perfect for pleasure. It has a fragrance that was inspired by the Kama Sutra that combines ylang-ylang, jasmine, rose & oriental spices - the exclusive essence of Bijoux Indiscrets. It has been created to heighten...

  • R3,670 R4,037
    Reduced price!

    We Vibe has become an incredibly popular brand, creating toys that are not only luxurious, but technologically advanced. They have collaborated with Pjur to create their own brand of lubricant and toy cleaner, specially designed to take care of your We Vibe toys. This package deal provides you the opportunity to get a We Vibe 4 Couples Vibrator, the We...

  • R245

    This incredibly luxurious product by Lelo is a dual purpose personal lubricant as well as a moisturizer. Made from nourishing ingredients, this lube will provide you with long-lasting lubrication and will leave your skin feeling silky smooth. This water-based lubricant is a safe and a satisfying addition to all your sensual experiences. It is safe to use...

  • R739

    The Pjur Set for him and her contains a pair of the best lubricants from Pjur - one energising lubricant for him and one stimulating and warming lubricant for her. The energizer for him is an ecologically formulate water based lubricant consisting of ginkgo, allowing more power, expansion, and energy whilst the stimulating and warming lubricant for her is...

  • R699

    The Pjur Anal Comfort serum is specifically designed to allow for comfortable anal intercourse and play. With no lidocaine or benzocaine, this special serum forms an invisible protective film on the skin thereby reducing sensitivity without a total numbing effect. Safe with condoms and suitable for daily application, this concentrated gel is the perfect...

  • R659

    Pjur SuperHero Performance spray for me is perfect for those wanting to prolong their sexual enjoyment. The unique formula and ingredients ensure longer enjoyment and prevent premature ejaculation. It enhances smoothness, reduces oversensitivity and is one of the top selling Pjur products worldwide! With only 2 to 4 sprays required per application, this...

  • R335

    Wicked's Hybrid combination lubricants are crafted with the intention of enhancing the sensual experience and giving maximum pleasure. Made with Seaweed extract and Olive Leaf extract which acts as an anti-oxidant, this lube helps to moisturize the skin and eliminates germs and bacteria. With it's silky silicone texture, you will gain the extra glide and...

  • R339

    With the OverTime delay cream for men you wont have to worry about under performing and can concentrate on the sensual experience that you and your partner are bound to have with this great product. Specially designed to prolong your satisfaction and ensure that you stay harder for longer, this cream is the perfect addition to make a great evening...

  • R275

    You can’t go wrong with this Toy Love water-based, glycerin-free gel for intimate toys, its formula specifically caters for the use of erotic toys. This thick decadent lubricant is perfect for any area that you wish to lubricate and is the essential lube to have when using an intimate toy. The Toy Love Lubricant is perfect for anyone who enjoys...

  • R355

    Awaken Stimulating Clitoral gel is specifically designed to arouse the 8000 plus sensory nerve endings in the clitoris. Crafted from ingredients such as Cinnamon, Ginseng root extract, Raspberry, Ginko Baloba leaf extract, Peony root, Wild Yam, Black Cohash, Maca and Damiana, this unique combination is all that is needed to create a wonderful and sensual...

  • R339

    Wicked's Foam 'n Fresh is the perfect anti-bacterial toy cleaner. This product includes the powerful olive leaf anti-oxidant, which acts as both a moisturizer and cleanser, ensuring that all germs are taken care of. With lavender and thyme extracts, these herbal remedies enhance the power and scent, making this the perfect alternative to soap....

  • R379

    Wicked's Ultra Heat silicone based sensation lubricant is a must have if you enjoy spicing things up in the bedroom. Made with hints of cinnamon, clove, lemon, vanilla, and citrus, it is perfectly moulded to heat things up in just the right way. Ultra Heat is available in 120ml and is an absolute pleasure to have around on those cold...

  • R379

    Wicked's Ultra Chill silicone based cooling sensation lubricant, provides you with a tingling and heightened sensual experience specifically created to assist in full sensitivity. Designed to activate and enhance your pleasure points, this silicone based cooling lubricant guarantees a feeling of overwhelming tingling sensations that will provide the...

  • R275

    In this Pleasers Assortment Lubricant Packette you will find a variety of different lubricants that will suit all your needs, with the perfect introduction to the Wicked range. Designed to cater for everyone’s needs, this pack contains an assortment of waterbased, silicone and coconut oil based products all in one convenient box.  In each...

  • R275

    Wicked's Teaser pack is the perfect introduction to the Wicked Aqua edible range of lubricants. Consisting of 3 x Candy Apple, 3 x Mocha Java, 3 x Salted Caramel and 1 x Toy Love Gel lubricant - this is the ultimate pack to get you started with it's travel size pack. With each Wicked lubricant containing the amazing Olive Leaf extract, these lubes...

  • R295

    As one of SA's leading brands in lubricants, Wicked has introduced a product that will allow your sexual adventures to involve all of the five senses, allowing you to reach your most intimate desires. The variety of flavours in this range are so delicious and refreshing, with vibrant individual tastes - you won’t be sorry you added this to your...

  • R259

    Wicked's Jelle water-based anal gel is crafted to make sure that all your anal play needs are met. With its extra long lasting formula, this water-based gel will provide maximum cushion and glide. Enhanced with Aloe and Olive leaf, a powerful anti-oxidant, great moisturizer and strong anti-bacterial, this anal lube is long lasting, easy to clean, and...

  • R339

    Pjur and We Vibe have come together to create the perfect cleaner for all your We Vibe toys! Its formula is free from alcohol & perfume and promises a thorough & hygienic cleaning, yet gentle for those with sensitive skin. This cleaner is great for materials such as latex, rubber and silicone and its spray bottle makes cleaning a breeze. 100ml

  • R359

    Jo's H2O Anal Warming Lubricant is the only water based lubricant that feels like silicone, warm to the touch, and contains no harmful numbing agents or desensitizers. Latex safe and compatible with all sex toys, it is fragrance free and never sticky. Non toxic, non allergenic, containing no animal based glycerine or animal by-products. 120ml

  • R749

    The Swan Ultimate personal shaver has been designed for use by women, but can absolutely be used by anyone. A comprehensive kit that contains everything you need to feel silky smooth. With a precision trimmer attachment and a special comb that slides over the trimmer, the swan shaver is perfect for bikini styling and trimming. The kit contains the...

  • R329
    1 Review

    This premium silicone-based lubricant by Astroglide is not only waterproof but extremely long-lasting! From the bedroom to the shower or bathtub, its unique formula will keep the pleasure going!

  • R329

    Astroglide's Natural Liquid lubricant is perfect for those that prefer to go au-natural and works incredibly well for those with vaginal dryness. With botanical ingredients like chamomile & aloe vera, its original formula helps to soothe and hydrate. It is not made with glycerin, parabens, fragrances, flavours or hormones so is a great choice in lubricant!

  • R415

    The Shiatsu Tightening Spray is perfect for intensifying pleasure for both yourself and your partner. Spray directly onto your labia and clitoris and simply wait a few minutes to allow the liquid to absorb to experience vaginal tightening sensations. Also helps relieve vaginal dryness and will provide you with intense sensations and enhanced sexual...

  • R329

    The amazing Shiatsu Tightening cream is composed of special astringent and circulation-enhancing agents. These ingredients relieves vaginal dryness and will provide you with intensified sensations and enhanced sexual experiences.

  • R289

    The Malesation Delay Spray has all natural ingredients and has a slight numbing effect, allowing you to keep control and prevent early ejaculation. Being able to last longer will give you the opportunity to provide longer lasting enjoyment. We recommend waiting a few minutes for the spray to take effect and to prevent the spray from affecting your...

  • R299

    Tampons and pads are a thing of the past! Menstrual cups have taken the world by storm. Mpower, a local-based manufacturer of the Mcup, have created a non-absorbent reusable barrier cups made from medically approved, 100% pure silicone menstrual cup as a menstrual management solution for all women. Mcups are:- Eco-friendly: one Mcup is equivalent to 1200...

  • R239

    Malesation's Hybrid Anal lubricant has a 2 in 1 water-based composition that allows this product to feel like a silky textured silicone lubricant. It supports the body's natural moisture balance, providing the utmost comfort during sexual activities without hindering the stimulation experienced. Being water-based, it is safe to use with toys that are made...

  • R239

    Malesation Anal Relax is a water-based lubricant designed to provide ultimate relaxation for anal penetration. It supports the natural moisture balance of your skin and therefore provides comfort during sexual activites without comprimising or hindering the stimulation experienced. Due to it being water-based, it is safe to use with any toy that is made...

  • R249
    1 Review

    Ntimate Rejuvinate serum is specifically formulated for women and endorsed by the well known Sexologist & Author, Timothy Kieswetter. With it's unique homeopathic ingredients, this serum tightens, tones, and restores a women's vagina, without the pain and hassle of lazer surgery, in less than 60 seconds. Follow the application method precisely, and...

  • R199

    Maintaining your Fleshlight in order to prolong its lifespan is one easy task! This Renewal Powder restores the hyper-realistic SuperSkin sleeve to its original softness. Made from 100% cornstarch, this natural powder will not irritate the skin. Remove your Fleshlight sleeve from its casing, dispense the powder onto the sleeve until coated...

  • R435
    1 Review

    Ntimate Rejuvinate serum is specifically formulated for women and endorsed by the well known Sexologist & Author, Timothy Kieswetter. With it's unique homeopathic ingredients, this serum tightens, tones, and restores a women's vagina, without the pain and hassle of lazer surgery, in less than 60 seconds. Follow the application method precisely, and...

  • R415

    Pjur Superhero Delay Serum - 20ml - is a lubricant serum for men, which reduces sensitivity of the penis thereby prolonging ejaculation. Suitable for daily application, this gel enhances the smoothness of the penis and provides a desensitizing film around the penis to reduce sensitivity without giving a completely numbing effect. Perfect in combination...

  • R399

    Pjur and We Vibe have come together to create a quality, water based lubricant to accompany all your We Vibe toys! This lube is specially-formulated to enhance sensitivity and provide you with a long-lasting, hydrating glide. It is dermalogically tested and made from the highest quality ingredients. It's simple pump bottle design allows for...

  • R45

    Spartan Advanced is a new medically endorsed pill that helps men restore their confidence by igniting their sexual desire. 100% natural, 100% safe & it takes only 40 minutes to take effect. Spartan Advanced has not been designed to treat Erectile Dysfunction or impotence. With its natural ingredients, this tablet will promote feelings of arousal. Do not...

  • R180

    Spartan Advanced is a new medically endorsed pill that helps men restore their confidence by igniting their sexual desire. 100% natural, 100% safe & the unique combinations of herbs not only assists with improved blood flow, but also improves energy levels ensuring results within 40 minutes. Spartan Advanced has not been designed to treat Erectile...

  • R274
    2 Reviews

    The Evarmiles Gel is a new and incredible lubricant that is formulated from Visnadine, a natural herb, clinically proven to stimulate the clitoris & labia minora. Evarmiles, a completely natural product,  is perfect for women who experience a lack of arousal, difficulty to achieve orgasm, sexual pain, and loss of sexual pleasure due to menopause. It...

  • R219

    Shunga's Toko Aroma Lubricant is perfect for added lubrication and can even be used during oral sex, providing providing a long lasting, non staining, and ultra silky smooth finish with a delicious taste. Waterbased, latex safe and sex toy compatible, this lubricant is non sticky and long lasting. 

  • R459

    The Shiatsu Pheromon Perfume for Women is a perfume designed to attract men, working subconsciously to appeal by releasing chemical messages. Shown to have measureable impact on brain metabolism, pheromones are the perfect way to enhance playtime with your partner. Simply spray on your body or the areas destined for play. Helps intensify sex appeal,...

  • R369

    This 3 pc Douche set is an intimate douche kit perfect for intimate care. With three attachments it is versatile and can be used for both vaginal and anal care. Designed to make you feel cleaner, douching for women assists in washing out the vagina, whilst anal douching is a hygienic practice useful for cleaning the rectum in preparation for anal sex, or...

  • R69

    Durex Pleasuremax Tingling condoms are specially designed with raised dots and uniquely positioned ribs, with a special tingling lube which provides a gentle tingling sensation. Tingle condoms are coated inside and out meaning heightened sensation for both of you.  3's

  • R1,199

    The JoyDivision Alu-Douche Shower extension is an intimate douche perfect for both vaginal and anal intimate care. Simply screw off the existing shower hear and screw on the intimate douche attachment. Designed to make you feel cleaner, douching for women assists in washing out the vagina, whilst anal douching is a hygienic practice useful for cleaning...

  • R429

    JoyDivision's Easy Anal lubricant is one of the best anal lubricants and is recommended specifically for first times. Condom friendly and designed for anal intercourse, a few drops of Easy Anal ensure the anus is perfectly lubricated and assists in avoiding any discomfort. A water based lubricant, Easy Anal is smooth and non-oily, whilst being...

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