SEX ESSENTIALS

Sex Essentials carefully selected to compliment your intimate journey, encourage sound sexual health and wellness, and ensure a more satisfying and rewarding sex life.


Desir’s sex essentials are products that have been introduced with the purpose of making your sexual experience that much more satisfying. From lubes and condoms, to supplements and medically sound intimate care products, our essential category offers you the best complimentary products and must-haves for your sexual health and wellbeing.


What is good sexual health?

Feeling good about your body and taking care of your physical and emotional health are all part of being sexually healthy. Physically this can relate to regular sexual health exams, getting tested for sexually transmitted infections, preventing unwanted pregnancies and having a healthy hygiene regime when it comes to cleaning your sex toys and taking care or your body.


But additionally, your emotional or mental health also has an enormous role to play in your attitude towards sex and your sexual health status. Feeling good about your body, giving yourself permission to enjoy sexual pleasure, and being comfortable with your sexual orientation and gender are huge parts of one’s sexuality and can have a fundamental impact on how you perceive yourself, others, and your sexuality.


How do I have good sex?

Planned parenthood states that good sex comes from understanding how your body works. Whilst sex is not a one size fits all experience, good sex comes down to being confident with your body, knowing what you like and don’t like, and understanding your sex drive and pleasures.


It is in this regard that Desir’s range of Essentials have been carefully curated to ensure that you have the best sex possible, whilst taking care of your sexual health and wellness at the same time.


Sexual Health Supplements

With so many factors impacting our sex lives, one of the biggest contributors is that of low libido or poor sex drive. Science has come a considerably long way in providing formulations that not only increase your sexual libido, but also assist with symptoms related to menopause, erectile dysfunction, vaginal dryness, and stamina.


Brands like Solal have focussed specifically on formulations, vitamins and minerals that contain essential ingredients like vitamin b12, vitamin b6, ginseng, fenugreek, and maca root that are natural testosterone boosting herbs. Not only proven to increase your libido, these ingredients are specifically known to alleviate symptoms related to erectile dysfunction, poor sperm quality, infertility, and are known to positively support and boost male and female sexual function. A completely natural alternative to anabolic and pharmaceutical steroid medicines, brands like Solal, LaMelle, Vitaforce, and Erex provide you with the option of adopting a far more holistic approach to your sexual health.


Stimulants and Enhancers

When it comes to stimulation and increasing your arousal and genital blood flow, several brands like Shunga, Wicked, Intimate Earth, and Pjur focus specifically on products designed to intensify your sexual experience.


From clitoral arousal serums and pleasure gels to aphrodisiacs and prolong sprays, Desir has a range of complimentary serums and elixirs that have been proven to amplify your sexual experience. Use them in conjunction with your favourite intimate product or simply for an increase in your masturbation or solo play


Explore the sensory experience of applying serums that encourage warmth, cooling, tingling, and relaxation and stimulate your nerve endings to encourage stronger orgasms and a heightened sense of arousal.


Personal Care and Product Care

One of the most important aspects to sound sexual health, is that of good personal and product care.

With conditions like bacterial vaginosis, yeast infections, vaginal infections, and STD’s, it is critical to follow a health regime that supports your sexual lifestyle. From intimate toy cleaners and disinfectant wipes, to vaginal douches and condoms, Desir has ensured that you have all you need to practice safe sex and avoid cross-contamination.


WebMd lists the use of a good intimate wash as the number one priority after sex. Not only limited to the cleansing of your genital areas, cleansing of your sex toys is just as important and with the introduction of foam or gel sex toy cleaners, taking care of your sex toys has never been easier.


With much controversy around the practice of douching and specifically with regards to women who douche, douching before or after anal sex (also referred to as rectal douching) is widely practiced to clean the anal area in preparation for sex.


With a variety of douches that range from shower attachment to bulb hand held douching apparatus, douching is best practiced with warm water and should be repeated until the water runs clean. EndHIV provides a word of caution for douching too frequently stating that it can damage the lining of the rectum, making you more susceptible to to HIV infection should you choose to not use a male condom.


Desir Panel of Medical Experts

To encourage positive sexual health and wellness, Desir has introduced a medical panel of experts that specialise in sexual health and promote sexual health and wellness - for both men and women. From gynaecologists and aesthetic practitioners, to sexologists and psychotherapists, Desir’s sexual health doctors are available for consult via our treatments category. With a variety of procedures, consults, and services available, your mental and physical sexual health is of the utmost importance to us and we are proud to offer you access to some of South Africa’s most renowned doctors who specialise in their respective fields.

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    Water-Based Flavoured Lubricant - Wicked

    Wicked
    CJ 133173
    R229
    A leading brand in lubricants, Wicked has introduced a product that will allow your sexual adventures to involve all of the five senses, allowing you to reach your most intimate desires. Each flavour is available in 60ml, are long-lasting, non-sticky, paraben-free, and latex friendly so can be enjoyed safely, also making this ideal with vegans. The...
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      Pjur We-Vibe Toy Cleaner - Pjur

      We Vibe
      BO DP 827160111441
      R379
      We-Vibe™ Clean made by pjur® is an alcohol-free, ordourless toy cleaner designed for use with your We-Vibe or other premium adult toys. Disinfecting against any bacteria or germs, this hygienic spray comes in a handy spray bottle, allowing you to apply the formulae directly onto your We-Vibe pleasure toys - keeping them hygienically clean and fresh....
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        Sex Toys

        Pivot Vibrating Penis Ring for Couples - We-Vibe™

        We Vibe
        BO DP 839289006812
        R2,199
        The Pivot by We-Vibe™ is a stretchy silicone cock ring that is worn around the base of the penis. It is made of soft silicone that is comfortable and hardwearing. Apply We-Vibe™ Lube to the ring and the penis and slide down gently to the base of the penis. The Pivot cock ring helps him to stay harder and to last longer. The powerful rumbly motor in the...
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          Verge Luxury Vibrating Penis Ring & Perineum Massager - We-Vibe

          We Vibe
          BO DP 839289006805
          R2,499
          You’ll love the the power and pleasure you’ll feel with the Verge by We-Vibe™. Cock rings help to create a bigger, harder, and more long-lasting erection, finishing with more powerful orgasms. Now, the Verge cock ring by We-Vibe™ intensifies that pleasure with vibrations targeted to the scrotum and perineum. Put the Verge on before you get aroused, gently...
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            Warming Sensation Lubricant Gel - WaterGlide

            WaterGlide
            ST 4019514305408
            R399
            The Warming Stimulating Gel by WaterGlide is a lubricant produced in Germany using only the finest formulation to give you a 100% natural feeling combined with a stimulating warming sensation. High-quality ingredients that are characterised by their skin-friendly properties are professionally monitored and checked for your safety through regular medical...
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              Anal Lubricant and Sensation Gel - WaterGlide

              WaterGlide
              ST 4019514305101
              R399
              The Anal Intimate Glide by WaterGlide is a lubricant produced in Germany using only the finest formulation to give you a 100% natural feeling. High-quality ingredients are characterised by their skin-friendly properties and are professionally monitored and checked for your safety through regular medical and dermatological checks. Oil and fat free, this...
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              Tingling Lubricant and Sensation Gel - WaterGlide

              WaterGlide
              ST 4019514306108
              R399
              The Tingling Intimate Gel by WaterGlide is a lubricant produced in Germany using only the finest formulation to give you a 100% natural feeling whilst providing a tingling and stimulating effect at the same time. High-quality ingredients that are characterised by their skin-friendly properties are professionally monitored and checked for your safety...
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                Natural Feeling Lubricant and Sensation Gel - WaterGlide

                WaterGlide
                ST 4019514305057
                R399
                The Natural Feeling Intimate Glide by WaterGlide is a lubricant produced in Germany using only the finest formulation to give you a 100% natural feeling. High-quality ingredients that are characterised by their skin-friendly properties are professionally monitored and checked for your safety through regular medical and dermatological checks. Oil and fat...
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                  Tom of Finland Hot Water Douche - Tom of Finland Tools

                  Tom of Finland
                  BO DP 848518023414
                  R749
                  The Tom of Finland range is based on the world renowned artist Tom of Finland's fetish art. With alluring images of hyper masculine men, Tom's leatherman, bikers, cowboys, cops, and lumberjacks all form part of these iconic symbols and illustrations. With each product within the range featuring a collector's card, you are able to enjoy Tom's work and...
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                    Luxury Massage Aphrodisiac Candle - Senze

                    Swede
                    BO DP 7350028783205/29/36
                    R549
                    Senze’s erotic massage candle is perfect for gentle foreplay. The candle burns at a low heat, creating a warm, buttery, scented oil that moisturizes the skin as you massage. Just a few minutes of burning will create enough oil for a basic massage. Give it a little longer to have enough oil for a full-body sensual massage that your partner will love....
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                      Swan Ultimate Personal Shaver for Her - Swan

                      Swan
                      BO DP 677613521491
                      R999
                      The Swan Ultimate Personal Shaver is an excellent investment designed for women and for all her personal grooming. It’s been carefully designed to be compact, lightweight, and easy to use. It gives a clean, close shave with no nicks, cuts or razor bumps. Included in the kit are the main trimmer, a precision trimmer head, a finishing head, a stencil...
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                        Tammy Double Ring Couple's Vibrator - Svakom

                        Svakom
                        CON SV S38-VLT
                        R1,849
                        The Tammy by Svakom is a double penis ring designed for couples looking for extreme pleasure.With a soft silicone material, this super-flexible penis ring features two rings - one designed to be worn around the scrotum and the other around the base of your penile shaft. WIth a circular textured pad situated at the top of the ring,  you are able to provide...
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                          Natural Water & Silicone Based Toy Friendly Lubricant - Svakom

                          Svakom
                          SVA CON SE001
                          R445
                          This natural water-based lubricant by Svakom is a unique water and silicone 2-in-1 formula designed for everyday, intimate, or intimate product use. Using the highest graded materials, this Natural lubricant gives you the ultimate pleasure and comfort and has been specifically tested for sensitive skin. Leaving you feeling smooth and soft, this lube...
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                            LustGlider Intimate Douche - STToys

                            SToys
                            BO DP 4041937581008
                            R279
                            The LustGlider douche is a black pvc douche designed to keep your anal and rectum area hygienic and clean and can be used in preparation for anal sex. With a length of approximately 11cm and a diameter of 4cm this douche can hold up to 224ml. For a more comfortable insertion if necessary, apply a small amount of water based lubricant onto the tube of the...
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                            Lust Glider Couples Vibrating Penis Ring - SToys

                            SToys
                            BO DP 4041937326081
                            R189
                            The Lust Glider Vibro Ring is a penis ring designed specifically for couples. Made from flexible silicone, the ring is worn at the base of his shaft - allowing him to experience delayed ejaculation, a firmer erection and longer lasting pleasure. With a mini bullet vibrator attached at the top of the ring, your partner will receive intense clitoral...
                            Solal Prostate Protection Formula - Solal
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                            Solal Prostate Protection Formula - Solal

                            Solal
                            DSV 6009663991551
                            R208 R416
                            The Prostate Protection formula by Solal is a plant-based formulae that supports prostate health and relieves the associated urinary symptoms.With the combination of I3C, DIM and curcumin, the Prostate Protection formula is the only formulation that combines all natural extracts at optimal doses, to provide adequate protection for the prostate. Retarding...
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                            Solal CBD Drops - Solal

                            Solal
                            DSV SolalCBD
                            R272 R679
                            Solal CBD Drops are specially formulated drops that assist with mood, sleep support, stress relief and inflammation. Adding a medium chain Trigylceride (MCT) oil to the formulation, this quick-digesting oil absorbs and metabolises far more efficiently to produce an almost immediate tranquil effect on the mind and body. With no THC included, this oil does...
                            Geisha's Secret Collection Organica Gift Set - Shunga
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                              Geisha's Secret Collection Gift Set - Shunga

                              Shunga
                              BO DP 697309082112/082
                              R799
                              The secret arts of Japan’s renowned geishas made them sought-after lovers.  The Geisha’s Secrets Collection from Shunga lets you in on some of these secrets and features 5 of their most popular products featuring alluring aphrodisiac properties. This set contains a beautifully scented Exotic Massage Oil, Warming Aphrodisia Oil, Mini-Massage Candle,...
                              Carnal Pleasures Aphrodisiac Collection - Shunga
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                                Gifts

                                Carnal Pleasures Ultimate Collection - Shunga

                                Shunga
                                BO DP 697309090070
                                R2,499
                                Shunga collections are beautifully packaged, perfect for gifting and are designed to enhance your love-making and levels of intimacy. The Carnal Pleasures Collection contains five full-sized products, offering a range of deliciously scented options for your carnal adventures. For the most erotic form of foreplay - use the erotic massage oil to stimulate...
                                Secret Garden Female Clitoral Enhancing Cream - ShungaSecret Garden Female Clitoral Enhancing Cream - Shunga 2
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                                  Secret Garden Clitoral Enhancing & Orgasm Cream - Shunga

                                  Shunga
                                  BO DP 697309055000
                                  R899
                                  Shunga's Secret Garden Clitoral Enhancing Cream improves and heightens clitoral sexual pleasure, making orgasms stronger and more frequent. This soft and sensual cream acts as a lubricant aid, and assists in engorging her clitoral area as well as sensitizing to maximising her pleasure and enhancing lovemaking. Whilst some women experience immediate...
                                  Rain of Love G Spot Arousal Cream & Water-based Lubricant - ShungaRain of Love G Spot Arousal Cream & Water-based Lubricant - Shunga 2
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                                    Rain of Love G Spot Arousal Cream & Water-based Lubricant - Shunga

                                    Shunga
                                    BO DP 697309075008
                                    R899
                                    The G-Spot can sometimes be difficult to find, but with Shunga's Rain of Love arousal cream, you will be able to stimulate and massage your g-spot with ease.With it's all natural ingredients, your g-spot is gently stimulated encouraging the nerves to react providing you with a tingly intense sensation that is warming as well as it is stimulating. Apply it...
                                    Dragon Fire & Ice Virility Prolong & Enhancing Cream - ShungaDragon Fire & Ice Virility Prolong & Enhancing Cream - Shunga 2
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                                      Dragon Fire & Ice Virility Prolong & Enhancing Cream - Shunga

                                      Shunga
                                      BO DP 97309052009
                                      R899
                                      All-natural ingredients provide intense sensation in Shunga's Dragon Virility Cream. The 'fire and ice' sensation enhances the erection and lightly desensitizes, so he can enjoy longer lovemaking. During sex, the sensations stimulate the vagina and G-spot, intensifying orgasms for her. Dragon Virility Cream makes sex more intense and fulfilling for both...
                                      Shunga Lovebath Sensual...Shunga Lovebath Sensual... 2
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                                        Gifts

                                        Shunga Lovebath Sensual Love Pearls - Shunga

                                        Shunga
                                        BO DP 697309068017/24
                                        R629
                                        Create the ultimate erotic bathing experience with the Shunga Lovebath. Transforming your bath water into thousands of delicate pearls, the Shunga Lovebath forms a sensual gel softly moisturising your skin, thereby creating a soothing experience with the most luxurious scent. Simply empty sachet #1 into a run bath, stir lightly and within 5 to 10 minutes,...
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                                          Oriental Crystals Scented & Arousing Dead Sea Salts - Shunga

                                          Shunga
                                          BO DP 697309067003/027
                                          R679
                                          Relax in a scented oasis as a prelude to a night of love. Shunga's Oriental Scented Dead Sea Salt crystals transform your bath into a sensual oasis. Just a small amount of crystals will colour your bathwater a soothing blue, creating velvet bubbles and releasing a beautiful scent. The aphrodisiac effect of these moisturizing bath crystals will linger...
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