SEX ESSENTIALS

Sex Essentials carefully selected to compliment your intimate journey, encourage sound sexual health and wellness, and ensure a more satisfying and rewarding sex life.


Desir’s sex essentials are products that have been introduced with the purpose of making your sexual experience that much more satisfying. From lubes and condoms, to supplements and medically sound intimate care products, our essential category offers you the best complimentary products and must-haves for your sexual health and wellbeing.


What is good sexual health?

Feeling good about your body and taking care of your physical and emotional health are all part of being sexually healthy. Physically this can relate to regular sexual health exams, getting tested for sexually transmitted infections, preventing unwanted pregnancies and having a healthy hygiene regime when it comes to cleaning your sex toys and taking care or your body.


But additionally, your emotional or mental health also has an enormous role to play in your attitude towards sex and your sexual health status. Feeling good about your body, giving yourself permission to enjoy sexual pleasure, and being comfortable with your sexual orientation and gender are huge parts of one’s sexuality and can have a fundamental impact on how you perceive yourself, others, and your sexuality.


How do I have good sex?

Planned parenthood states that good sex comes from understanding how your body works. Whilst sex is not a one size fits all experience, good sex comes down to being confident with your body, knowing what you like and don’t like, and understanding your sex drive and pleasures.


It is in this regard that Desir’s range of Essentials have been carefully curated to ensure that you have the best sex possible, whilst taking care of your sexual health and wellness at the same time.


Sexual Health Supplements

With so many factors impacting our sex lives, one of the biggest contributors is that of low libido or poor sex drive. Science has come a considerably long way in providing formulations that not only increase your sexual libido, but also assist with symptoms related to menopause, erectile dysfunction, vaginal dryness, and stamina.


Brands like Solal have focussed specifically on formulations, vitamins and minerals that contain essential ingredients like vitamin b12, vitamin b6, ginseng, fenugreek, and maca root that are natural testosterone boosting herbs. Not only proven to increase your libido, these ingredients are specifically known to alleviate symptoms related to erectile dysfunction, poor sperm quality, infertility, and are known to positively support and boost male and female sexual function. A completely natural alternative to anabolic and pharmaceutical steroid medicines, brands like Solal, LaMelle, Vitaforce, and Erex provide you with the option of adopting a far more holistic approach to your sexual health.


Stimulants and Enhancers

When it comes to stimulation and increasing your arousal and genital blood flow, several brands like Shunga, Wicked, Intimate Earth, and Pjur focus specifically on products designed to intensify your sexual experience.


From clitoral arousal serums and pleasure gels to aphrodisiacs and prolong sprays, Desir has a range of complimentary serums and elixirs that have been proven to amplify your sexual experience. Use them in conjunction with your favourite intimate product or simply for an increase in your masturbation or solo play


Explore the sensory experience of applying serums that encourage warmth, cooling, tingling, and relaxation and stimulate your nerve endings to encourage stronger orgasms and a heightened sense of arousal.


Personal Care and Product Care

One of the most important aspects to sound sexual health, is that of good personal and product care.

With conditions like bacterial vaginosis, yeast infections, vaginal infections, and STD’s, it is critical to follow a health regime that supports your sexual lifestyle. From intimate toy cleaners and disinfectant wipes, to vaginal douches and condoms, Desir has ensured that you have all you need to practice safe sex and avoid cross-contamination.


WebMd lists the use of a good intimate wash as the number one priority after sex. Not only limited to the cleansing of your genital areas, cleansing of your sex toys is just as important and with the introduction of foam or gel sex toy cleaners, taking care of your sex toys has never been easier.


With much controversy around the practice of douching and specifically with regards to women who douche, douching before or after anal sex (also referred to as rectal douching) is widely practiced to clean the anal area in preparation for sex.


With a variety of douches that range from shower attachment to bulb hand held douching apparatus, douching is best practiced with warm water and should be repeated until the water runs clean. EndHIV provides a word of caution for douching too frequently stating that it can damage the lining of the rectum, making you more susceptible to to HIV infection should you choose to not use a male condom.


Desir Panel of Medical Experts

To encourage positive sexual health and wellness, Desir has introduced a medical panel of experts that specialise in sexual health and promote sexual health and wellness - for both men and women. From gynaecologists and aesthetic practitioners, to sexologists and psychotherapists, Desir’s sexual health doctors are available for consult via our treatments category. With a variety of procedures, consults, and services available, your mental and physical sexual health is of the utmost importance to us and we are proud to offer you access to some of South Africa’s most renowned doctors who specialise in their respective fields.

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Slow Sex Oral Sex Balm - Bijoux

Bijoux
EDC BIO324
R379
The Oral Sex Balm by Bijoux Indiscrets is a delicious add-on to your oral play. With a soft, cooling effect, this balm hydrates the skin and allows for a seamless movement between your lips and intimate areas. A mild coconut flavour leaves you smelling and tasting delicious, whilst the soft, silky texture gives your skin a moisturising and smooth effect....
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Slow Sex Finger Play Gel - Bijoux

Bijoux
EDC BIO323
R379
The finger play gel by Bijoux is a water-based gel formulated to make finger and hand play more comfortable. With its gentle combination of aloe vera, the gel leaves you feeling smooth, hydrated and avoids irritation. A mild coconut flavour leaves you smelling and feeling delicious.  30ml
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Penis Grip Pump - Boners

EasyToys
EDC BON025
R699
The Penis Pump by Boners is a large cylinder penis pump featuring a hand controlled grip pump. By applying a small amount of lubricant onto the seal of the pump as well as your penis you are able to insert your penis seamlessly into the cylinder without any discomfort. By applying a gentle amount of pressure onto the grip pump handle you are able to see...
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Last Longer Delay Cream - Boners

EasyToys
EDC BON103
R379
The Boners Delay Cream is a silky smooth water based cream that provides a subtle numbing effect to your penis, allowing you to last and perform longer. Apply a small amount of cream to your entire penis and gently massage in. Wait until the cream is fully absorbed into your skin so that you don't numb your partners skin as well. With just the right...
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Rock Hard Erection Cream - Boners

EasyToys
EDC BON101
R379
The Rock Hard Erection Cream by Boners has a unique formula of ingredients that are designed to assist you in maintaining a firmer and harder erection, whilst allowing you to have intercourse for longer. By massaging a small amount of cream to your entire penis prior to intercourse, your tissue becomes softer allowing for more stimulation and your blood...
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Cock & Ball Strap - Boners

EasyToys
EDC BON016
R429
The Cock and Ball strap by Boners is a silicone strap designed to be worn around the penis and scrotum and assists with a firmer erection and longer lasting intercourse. With the ring worn around the base of the penis, the blood flow is gently restricted allowing you to experience a firmer erection whilst the scrotum band hugs your testicles gently...
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Premium Organic Aloe-based Lubricant - Promescent

Promescent
P PromAloe
R399
Promescent Aloe-Based lubricant is a premium PH balanced formula made with green tea, oat extracts, quinoa, flax and hemp. These responsibly sourced ingredients rejuvenate, moisturise and refresh your skin during and long after each use. This personal lubricant, for penile and/or vaginal application is intended to moisturise and lubricate to enhance the...
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Basic Nipple Pump - SAIZ

SAIZ
EDC SAIZ004
R699
The Basic Nipple Pump Set by SAIZ is an easy to use pump system that increases the sensitivity of your nipples and assist with those with inverted nipples. The squeeze ball pump action allows you to control and create as much vacuum power as needed, creating a suction power that gently increases the blood flow to your nipples. The gentle vacuum action...
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Basic Clitoral Pump - SAIZ

SAIZ
EDC SAIZ007
R699
This quality clitoral pump by international brand SAIZ is the ideal pump if you are looking to increase pleasure, enhance your orgasms, or if you are suffering from symptoms related to clitoral atrophy. Designed to function using air pump action thereby creating a vacuum and increasing blood flow, this pump features a cup that fits snugly around your...
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Olio Libido For Her Potency Supplement - Olio

Olio
WSLIBHIM
R389
Libido For Her by Olio is a female potency supplement, scientifically formulated with premium natural ingredients to enhance sexual performance, increase blood flow, reduce anxiety and regulate hormones.  A healthy libido is important for physical and mental well-being. Take 2 capsules daily, preferably with a meal or 30 minutes before intercourse....
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Olio Libido For Him Potency Supplement - Olio

Olio
WSLIBHIM
R389
Olio Libido For Him is a male potency supplement, scientifically formulated with premium natural ingredients to enhance sexual performance, increase blood flow and reduce anxiety.  A healthy libido is important for physical and mental well-being. Take 2 capsules daily, preferably with a meal or 30 minutes before intercourse.  Benefits:  - Improves...
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Empower Couples Penis Ring - Rocks Off

BO DP 811041014389/72
R1,299
The Empower Couples ring by Rocks Off is a penis ring designed to prolong ejaculation, provide a firmer erection, and offer clitoral stimulation all at the same time. Designed using stretchy body safe silicone, this ring fits comfortably at the base of his penis. The tapered head of the ring features a powerful motor that delivers intense vibrations that...
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LustGlider Intimate Douche - STToys

SToys
BO DP 4041937581008
R279
The LustGlider douche is a black pvc douche designed to keep your anal and rectum area hygienic and clean and can be used in preparation for anal sex. With a length of approximately 11cm and a diameter of 4cm this douche can hold up to 224ml. For a more comfortable insertion if necessary, apply a small amount of water based lubricant onto the tube of the...
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Vibro Spanning Ring - Malesation

Malesation
BO DP 4041937315948
R749
The Vibro Spanning Ring by Malesation is a sturdy penis ring designed to assist you to achieve a long lasting and far stronger erection whilst delaying ejaculation at the same time. With 2 motors situated inside the ring, you gain powerful vibrations that can be felt up and down your shaft whilst delivering the same amount pleasure to your partner on...
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CBD Infused Intimate Serum - NuForia

NuForia
NuForiaSerum
R549
The CBD infused serum by NuForia is a specifically developed intimate serum designed to stimulate pleasure to your intimate areas. By using a small amount directly applied to your clitoral area you will experience an arousing, tingling sensation that is intensified by the CBD infusion. Encouraging an increase in blood flow, your sensitivities are...
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Kalahari Horing Erection Booster & Enhancer - PVT Remedies

PVT Remedies
Kalahari
R249
Kalahari Horing is an all natural supplement designed to boost your erection power to it's full potential. With studies showing exceptional results, the Kalahari Horing supplement aids in low libido, low sex drive, weak erection strength, and premature ejaculation. With results visible in just 40 minutes after taking 2 capsules, the Kalahari Horing...
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Olio Silky Smooth Water-Based Lubricant with CBD - Olio

Olio
WSLUBE200
R289
A highly effective water-based lubricant with 200mg CBD / 100ml tube. Extra moisturising, soothing and cell replenishing, Olio lubricant can be used to highten your sexual experience or use daily intra-vaginally to protect and prepare the vaginal canal from dryness and imbalance. Safe to use with silicone toys and condoms. - 100ml tube Ingredients:...
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Luvido Libido Booster for Women - Ailon

LuvidoWomen
R199
The Luvido libido booster for women is an all natural supplement from the Ailon Naturals brand and is known to show a beneficial effect on improving the general health of women. Taken as a dietary supplement, Luvido contains Ginseng panax, Red Clover Ashwanganda, Fenugreek and Tribulus, an all natural herbal product that is well known for it's libido...
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Luvido Libido Booster for Men - Ailon

LuvidoMen
R279
The Luvido libido booster for men is an all natural supplement from the Ailon Naturals brand. Taken as a dietary supplement, Luvido contains wild harvested Mpesu, an all natural herbal product that is well known for it's libido inducing effects. Packed with added proteins and minerals, Luvido is a potent nutritional supplement that promises a boost in...
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Set of 3 Crystal Yoni Eggs - Yoni Eggs

Yoni Eggs
Setof3
R1,495
Yoni Eggs, or more commonly known Jade Eggs, have been used for thousands of years as part of traditional medicine. Today the practice of inserting a Jade or Yoni Egg into the vagina, offers a myriad of benefits that not only incorporate medical advantages but also healing properties on an energetic level. By using a Yoni egg daily, blood and lymph flow...
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Anara Personal Lubricant with ProBiotics - Anara

Anara
FA005
R279
The Anara personal lubricant is a water-based lubricant containing the powerful Cape Aloe anti-microbial, anti-fungal and anti-inflammatory ingredient. Protecting against damaging your skin, the Anara lube has been specifically formulated to heal damaged skin, and to protect your sensitive areas. Offering relief to dryness, itchiness, burning and also...
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Anara Hair Loss Serum - Anara

Anara
FA0004
R289
The Anara Hair Loss serum is a unique formulation designed to support hair loss in both men and women. In both sexes, hair loss is often related to hormonal changes and specifically the DHT (dihydrotestosterone) hormone. DHT affects your hairline by miniaturising your hair follicles causing the hair to stop growing as it normally would. Cape Aloe has...
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Anara Cape Aloe Conditioning Hair Mask for Brittle Hair - Anara

Anara
FA003
R259
Menopause and hormonal imbalances often result in a change to hair and scalp health. This may include hair loss as well as dry, brittle hair and ends. The Anara Cape Aloe conditioning mask is a Cape Aloe formulation that has inherent anti-microbial, anti-fungal, and anti-inflammatory properties which treat dry scalp, seborrheic dermatitis, skin flakes,...
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Anara Cape Aloe Gel with CBD Oil for Inflammation & Sleep - Anara

Anara
FA002
R329
The Cape Aloe Gel with CBD Oil from Anara is a pure aloe gel rich in phytoestrogens that includes a unique formulation of Swiss sourced CBD oil.  Formulated to provide a calming and anti-inflammatory effect on the body, this gel improves sleeplessness whilst relieving painful muscles and joints. Designed with both peri and post-menopausal women in mind,...
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