SEX ESSENTIALS

Sex Essentials carefully selected to compliment your intimate journey, encourage sound sexual health and wellness, and ensure a more satisfying and rewarding sex life.


Desir’s sex essentials are products that have been introduced with the purpose of making your sexual experience that much more satisfying. From lubes and condoms, to supplements and medically sound intimate care products, our essential category offers you the best complimentary products and must-haves for your sexual health and wellbeing.


What is good sexual health?

Feeling good about your body and taking care of your physical and emotional health are all part of being sexually healthy. Physically this can relate to regular sexual health exams, getting tested for sexually transmitted infections, preventing unwanted pregnancies and having a healthy hygiene regime when it comes to cleaning your sex toys and taking care or your body.


But additionally, your emotional or mental health also has an enormous role to play in your attitude towards sex and your sexual health status. Feeling good about your body, giving yourself permission to enjoy sexual pleasure, and being comfortable with your sexual orientation and gender are huge parts of one’s sexuality and can have a fundamental impact on how you perceive yourself, others, and your sexuality.


How do I have good sex?

Planned parenthood states that good sex comes from understanding how your body works. Whilst sex is not a one size fits all experience, good sex comes down to being confident with your body, knowing what you like and don’t like, and understanding your sex drive and pleasures.


It is in this regard that Desir’s range of Essentials have been carefully curated to ensure that you have the best sex possible, whilst taking care of your sexual health and wellness at the same time.


Sexual Health Supplements

With so many factors impacting our sex lives, one of the biggest contributors is that of low libido or poor sex drive. Science has come a considerably long way in providing formulations that not only increase your sexual libido, but also assist with symptoms related to menopause, erectile dysfunction, vaginal dryness, and stamina.


Brands like Solal have focussed specifically on formulations, vitamins and minerals that contain essential ingredients like vitamin b12, vitamin b6, ginseng, fenugreek, and maca root that are natural testosterone boosting herbs. Not only proven to increase your libido, these ingredients are specifically known to alleviate symptoms related to erectile dysfunction, poor sperm quality, infertility, and are known to positively support and boost male and female sexual function. A completely natural alternative to anabolic and pharmaceutical steroid medicines, brands like Solal, LaMelle, Vitaforce, and Erex provide you with the option of adopting a far more holistic approach to your sexual health.


Stimulants and Enhancers

When it comes to stimulation and increasing your arousal and genital blood flow, several brands like Shunga, Wicked, Intimate Earth, and Pjur focus specifically on products designed to intensify your sexual experience.


From clitoral arousal serums and pleasure gels to aphrodisiacs and prolong sprays, Desir has a range of complimentary serums and elixirs that have been proven to amplify your sexual experience. Use them in conjunction with your favourite intimate product or simply for an increase in your masturbation or solo play


Explore the sensory experience of applying serums that encourage warmth, cooling, tingling, and relaxation and stimulate your nerve endings to encourage stronger orgasms and a heightened sense of arousal.


Personal Care and Product Care

One of the most important aspects to sound sexual health, is that of good personal and product care.

With conditions like bacterial vaginosis, yeast infections, vaginal infections, and STD’s, it is critical to follow a health regime that supports your sexual lifestyle. From intimate toy cleaners and disinfectant wipes, to vaginal douches and condoms, Desir has ensured that you have all you need to practice safe sex and avoid cross-contamination.


WebMd lists the use of a good intimate wash as the number one priority after sex. Not only limited to the cleansing of your genital areas, cleansing of your sex toys is just as important and with the introduction of foam or gel sex toy cleaners, taking care of your sex toys has never been easier.


With much controversy around the practice of douching and specifically with regards to women who douche, douching before or after anal sex (also referred to as rectal douching) is widely practiced to clean the anal area in preparation for sex.


With a variety of douches that range from shower attachment to bulb hand held douching apparatus, douching is best practiced with warm water and should be repeated until the water runs clean. EndHIV provides a word of caution for douching too frequently stating that it can damage the lining of the rectum, making you more susceptible to to HIV infection should you choose to not use a male condom.


Desir Panel of Medical Experts

To encourage positive sexual health and wellness, Desir has introduced a medical panel of experts that specialise in sexual health and promote sexual health and wellness - for both men and women. From gynaecologists and aesthetic practitioners, to sexologists and psychotherapists, Desir’s sexual health doctors are available for consult via our treatments category. With a variety of procedures, consults, and services available, your mental and physical sexual health is of the utmost importance to us and we are proud to offer you access to some of South Africa’s most renowned doctors who specialise in their respective fields.

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Jelle Water-Based Anal Gel 120ml - Wicked
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Jelle Water-Based Anal Gel Lubricant - Wicked

Wicked
133167 02.03.20
R239 R299
Wicked's Jelle water-based anal gel is crafted to make sure that all your anal play needs are met. With its extra long lasting formula, this water-based gel will provide maximum cushion and glide. Enhanced with Aloe and Olive leaf, a powerful anti-oxidant, great moisturizer and strong anti-bacterial, this anal lube is long lasting, easy to clean, and...
Toy Love Water-Based Glycerin-Free Gel For Intimate Toys
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Toy Love Water-Based Non-Drip Gel Lubricant - Wicked

Wicked
133166 02.03.20
R299
The Toy Gel by Wicked is a lubricant specifically designed to be drip free, making it perfect for application directly to your toy of choice. It's luxurious texture leaves you feeling soft and sensual and is not only perfect for toy application but can be applied directly onto your skin. With it's long lasting qualities, this mess-free lubricant designed...
Hybrid Silicone & Water based Lubricant - Wicked
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Hybrid Silicone & Water-based Toy Friendly Lubricant - Wicked

Wicked
133170 02.03.20
R284 R379
Wicked's Hybrid combination lubricants are crafted with the intention of enhancing the sensual experience and giving maximum pleasure. Made with Seaweed extract and Olive Leaf extract which acts as an anti-oxidant, this lube helps to moisturize the skin and eliminates germs and bacteria. With it's silky silicone texture, you will gain the extra glide and...
Wicked Flavoured Lubricant - Cinnamon Bun
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Water-Based Flavoured Lubricant - Wicked

Wicked
133173 14.10.19
R174 R249
As one of SA's leading brands in lubricants, Wicked has introduced a product that will allow your sexual adventures to involve all of the five senses, allowing you to reach your most intimate desires. Each flavour is available in 60ml, are long-lasting, non-sticky, paraben-free, and latex friendly so can be enjoyed safely, also making this ideal with...
Aqua Sensitive Intimate Lubricant - Wicked
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Aqua Water-Based Intimate Lubricant for Sensitive Skin - Wicked

Wicked
133165 260619 02.03.20
R224 R299
This water based lubricant by Wicked is a smooth and satiny, hypoallergenic lubricant rich in aloe, vitamin E, and Olive extracts. Ideal for sensitive skin, this lubricant not only heightens sensation and arousal, but also nourishes and moisturises the most sensitive of skins. With it's non sticky application, this lube is latex friendly and...
Cleene Antibacterial Unscented Toy Cleaner Spray - Wicked
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Cleene Antibacterial Unscented Toy Cleaner Spray - Wicked

Wicked
WickedCleene 02.03.20
R299
Keep your toys safe and clean with Wicked Cleene Antibacterial Unscented Toy Cleaner. Enhanced with natural Lavender and Olive Leaf extracts to boost its anti-bacterial effectiveness. Safe to use on all toy materials.
Creme Masturbation Cream For Men - Wicked
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Creme Masturbation Cream For Men - Wicked

Wicked
WickedCreme
R230 R329
Peak your sensations and intensify your pleasure with Creme Masturbation Cream for Men. This unique, oil-based, intimate lubricant is essential for private moments. Experience the transformation as the fortified, nourishing cream, melts with the warmth of your body into a non-greasy liquid lube. The superior glide of Vitamin E enriched Creme is sensually...
Aqua Fragrance Free Water Based Intimate Lubricant - Wicked
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Aqua Fragrance Free Water Based Intimate Lubricant - Wicked

Wicked
WickedAqua
R159 R199
This water-based lubricant by Wicked, is a completely safe, fragrance-free, preservative free lubricant designed for the more sensitive skin.  Perfect for every day lubricant for women who suffer from dryness, for use with your intimate products and for both vaginal and anal sex, this non-sticky, hydrating formulation leaves your skin feeling silk...
Ultre Fragrance Free Silicone Based Intimate Lubricant - Wicked
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Ultra Fragrance Free Silicone Based Intimate Lubricant - Wicked

Wicked
WickedUltra
R199 R249
Ultra Silicone Lubricant by Wicked is luxuriously sensuous and long lasting. This high performance, velvety smooth formula will enhance pleasure without feeling heavy, greasy or tacky. Formulated with the highest quality silicone available in the personal care market. Ultra Fragrance Free contains no additives or fillers for an exceptionally silky feel....
We Vibe Cleaner - Pjur
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Pjur We-Vibe Toy Cleaner - Pjur

We Vibe
BO827160111441 D25.02.20
R329
We-Vibe™ Clean made by pjur® is an alcohol-free, ordourless toy cleaner designed for use with your We-Vibe or other premium adult toys. Disinfecting against any bacteria or germs, this hygienic spray comes in a handy spray bottle, allowing you to apply the formulae directly onto your We-Vibe pleasure toys - keeping them hygienically clean and fresh....
MensVite Adult - Vitaforce
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MensVite Adult - Vitaforce

Vitaforce
062465
R143 R179
VitaForce MensVite Adult is a unique 2-phase release comprehensive multivitamin, mineral and amino acid supplement designed for men between the ages of 18-45 years.Containing essential vitamins and antioxidants, this supplement supports reproductive health, the immune system and helps to protect the body's cells from damage. With the inclusion...
MensVite Mature - VitaForce
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MensVite Mature - VitaForce

Vitaforce
621378
R143 R179
VitaForce MensVite Mature is a multivitamin and multimineral supplement specifically formulated for men between the ages of 45 years and older.With it's unique 2-phase release system, this multivitamin, mineral, and amino acid combination is designed for optimal absorption throughout the day. With it's balanced formulae targeting older men, you gain the...
Swan Ultimate Personal Shaver - for him & for her
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Swan Ultimate Personal Shaver for Her - Swan

Swan
BO677613521491 D02.03.20
R699
The Swan Ultimate Personal Shaver is an excellent investment designed for women and for all her personal grooming. It’s been carefully designed to be compact, lightweight, and easy to use. It gives a clean, close shave with no nicks, cuts or razor bumps. Included in the kit are the main trimmer, a precision trimmer head, a finishing head, a stencil...
Viala Sonic Skin Cleanser & Body Massager - Svakom
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Viala Sonic Skin Cleanser & Body Massager - Svakom

Svakom
V01SNFPNK
R999
The Viala by Svakom is a luxuriously versatile 2-in-1 sonic skin cleanser and all over body massager.  Offering a full spa experience and holding the accolade of being an award winning facial cleansing device, the Viala is a vibrating body wand that features a silicone, non-porous, bristled removable head that is resistant to bacterial build up and is...
Solal Man 2 in 1 Dual Pack - Solal
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Solal Man 2 in 1 Dual Pack - Solal

Solal
6009663996693 11.07.2019
R337 R449
A comprehensive all-in-one supplement for men, the SolalMan dual pack provides you with multicaps and omega wellness essentials.Containing optimal doses of bioidentical vitamins and minerals, the SolalMan also provides you with concentrated herbal and plant extracts, antioxidants, and all 3 forms of omega - Krill oil, Fish oil, and Flaxseed oil. A...
Solal Woman 2 in 1 Dual Pack - Solal
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Solal Woman 2 in 1 Dual Pack - Solal

Solal
6009663996709
R337 R449
The SolalWoman 2 in 1 Dual Pack is a comprehensive all in one supplement for women that offers you a full 1 month's supply and is essential for staving off symptoms related to cancer, imflammation, menopause, low libido, osteoporosis, depression, and rheumatoid arthritis.With the unique formulae combination of biodentical vitamins, concentrated herbal and...
Solal Hormone Balance Natural HRT - Solal
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Solal Hormone Balance Natural HRT - Solal

Solal
6009663991100
R303 R379
The Solal Hormone Balance Natural HRT is a supplement designed to help relieve menopausal aned premenstrual symptoms.With a combination of Black Cohosh. Agnus Castus herbal extracts, Vitamin D3 and Ipriflavone, this supplement  gives you the natural nourishment you need whether you are entering menopause, currently in menopause, or simply have...
Solal Prostate Protection Formula - Solal
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Solal Prostate Protection Formula - Solal

Solal
6009663991551
R319 R399
The Prostate Protection formula by Solal is a plant-based formulae that supports prostate health and relieves the associated urinary symptoms.With the combination of I3C, DIM and curcumin, the Prostate Protection formula is the only formulation that combines all natural extracts at optimal doses, to provide adequate protection for the prostate. Retarding...
Solal Restorx Contraceptive Support - Solal
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Solal Restorx Contraceptive Support - Solal

Solal
596060
R259 R429
The Solal Restorx Contraceptive Support Supplement has been specifically formulated for women who are currently on contraceptive medication or hormone replacement therapy and are suffering for symptoms such as depression, fatigue or forgetfulness.Studies have shown that the long-term use of estrogen-containing oral contraceptives can induce folic acid and...
Solal Testomax Libido & Performance Enhancer - Solal
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Solal Testomax Libido & Performance Enhancer - Solal

Solal
596031 19.09.2019
R319 R399
Solal Testomax is a natural, non-steroidal alternative to pharmaceutical and anabolic Testosterone supplements. Containing multiple ingredients that are formulated to support male sexual functioning, this supplement works by increasing your sexual activity and correcting erectile dysfunction by improving your vasodilation and penile blood flow. With...
Inositol Mood, Stress & Sleep Supplement - Solal
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Inositol Mood, Stress & Sleep Supplement - Solal

Solal
6009663996792
R299 R379
The Inositol supplement by Solal is a formula designed to aid your mood, stress levels and sleep and promotes a healthy nervous system.Inositol is a powerful combination of various Vitamin B concentrations that contribute to normal psychological function at a cellular level. Known to primarily assist with stress, insomnia, depression and...
Solal Omega All - Solal
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Solal Omega All - Solal

Solal
6009663997423
R263 R329
Solal's Omega-All contains all three forms of Omega's that are essential for heart, brain, join and immune health.With 3 sources of Omegas from fish, flaxseed, and krill oil, this rich supplement is a source of EPA, DHA, in a highly absorbable phospholipid form, making it one of the richest sources of Omegas. Improving your heart health, Omegas are also...
Ashwaganda Extract Libido...
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Ashwaganda Extract Libido Booster - Solal

Solal
6009663990806
R169 R199
Solal's Ashwaganda Extract is an ayurvedic herbal extract that offers a multitude of benefits for both men and women. Using an extra concentrated patented extract, and a higher dosage of 500mg of Ashwagandha, this supplement offers a multitude of wellness benefits that range from gastrointestinal issues, skin conditions, stress and fatigue, nervousness,...
Shunga Tenderness and Passion Collection
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Tenderness and Passion Foreplay Collection - Shunga

Shunga
BO340000091841 D20.01.2020
R1,399
Shunga’s Tenderness & Passion is the ideal foreplay collection. Indulge your senses with this luxury collection infused with aromas that heighten the senses. It includes delicious Sweet Snow Body Powder, a lightly flavoured powder that lends a subtle glow to the skin and entices your partner to taste more. Use the feather tickler to apply the...
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