SEX ESSENTIALS

Sex Essentials carefully selected to compliment your intimate journey, encourage sound sexual health and wellness, and ensure a more satisfying and rewarding sex life.


Desir’s sex essentials are products that have been introduced with the purpose of making your sexual experience that much more satisfying. From lubes and condoms, to supplements and medically sound intimate care products, our essential category offers you the best complimentary products and must-haves for your sexual health and wellbeing.


What is good sexual health?

Feeling good about your body and taking care of your physical and emotional health are all part of being sexually healthy. Physically this can relate to regular sexual health exams, getting tested for sexually transmitted infections, preventing unwanted pregnancies and having a healthy hygiene regime when it comes to cleaning your sex toys and taking care or your body.


But additionally, your emotional or mental health also has an enormous role to play in your attitude towards sex and your sexual health status. Feeling good about your body, giving yourself permission to enjoy sexual pleasure, and being comfortable with your sexual orientation and gender are huge parts of one’s sexuality and can have a fundamental impact on how you perceive yourself, others, and your sexuality.


How do I have good sex?

Planned parenthood states that good sex comes from understanding how your body works. Whilst sex is not a one size fits all experience, good sex comes down to being confident with your body, knowing what you like and don’t like, and understanding your sex drive and pleasures.


It is in this regard that Desir’s range of Essentials have been carefully curated to ensure that you have the best sex possible, whilst taking care of your sexual health and wellness at the same time.


Sexual Health Supplements

With so many factors impacting our sex lives, one of the biggest contributors is that of low libido or poor sex drive. Science has come a considerably long way in providing formulations that not only increase your sexual libido, but also assist with symptoms related to menopause, erectile dysfunction, vaginal dryness, and stamina.


Brands like Solal have focussed specifically on formulations, vitamins and minerals that contain essential ingredients like vitamin b12, vitamin b6, ginseng, fenugreek, and maca root that are natural testosterone boosting herbs. Not only proven to increase your libido, these ingredients are specifically known to alleviate symptoms related to erectile dysfunction, poor sperm quality, infertility, and are known to positively support and boost male and female sexual function. A completely natural alternative to anabolic and pharmaceutical steroid medicines, brands like Solal, LaMelle, Vitaforce, and Erex provide you with the option of adopting a far more holistic approach to your sexual health.


Stimulants and Enhancers

When it comes to stimulation and increasing your arousal and genital blood flow, several brands like Shunga, Wicked, Intimate Earth, and Pjur focus specifically on products designed to intensify your sexual experience.


From clitoral arousal serums and pleasure gels to aphrodisiacs and prolong sprays, Desir has a range of complimentary serums and elixirs that have been proven to amplify your sexual experience. Use them in conjunction with your favourite intimate product or simply for an increase in your masturbation or solo play


Explore the sensory experience of applying serums that encourage warmth, cooling, tingling, and relaxation and stimulate your nerve endings to encourage stronger orgasms and a heightened sense of arousal.


Personal Care and Product Care

One of the most important aspects to sound sexual health, is that of good personal and product care.

With conditions like bacterial vaginosis, yeast infections, vaginal infections, and STD’s, it is critical to follow a health regime that supports your sexual lifestyle. From intimate toy cleaners and disinfectant wipes, to vaginal douches and condoms, Desir has ensured that you have all you need to practice safe sex and avoid cross-contamination.


WebMd lists the use of a good intimate wash as the number one priority after sex. Not only limited to the cleansing of your genital areas, cleansing of your sex toys is just as important and with the introduction of foam or gel sex toy cleaners, taking care of your sex toys has never been easier.


With much controversy around the practice of douching and specifically with regards to women who douche, douching before or after anal sex (also referred to as rectal douching) is widely practiced to clean the anal area in preparation for sex.


With a variety of douches that range from shower attachment to bulb hand held douching apparatus, douching is best practiced with warm water and should be repeated until the water runs clean. EndHIV provides a word of caution for douching too frequently stating that it can damage the lining of the rectum, making you more susceptible to to HIV infection should you choose to not use a male condom.


Desir Panel of Medical Experts

To encourage positive sexual health and wellness, Desir has introduced a medical panel of experts that specialise in sexual health and promote sexual health and wellness - for both men and women. From gynaecologists and aesthetic practitioners, to sexologists and psychotherapists, Desir’s sexual health doctors are available for consult via our treatments category. With a variety of procedures, consults, and services available, your mental and physical sexual health is of the utmost importance to us and we are proud to offer you access to some of South Africa’s most renowned doctors who specialise in their respective fields.

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Vibro Spanning Ring - Malesation

Malesation
BO DP 4041937315948
R749
The Vibro Spanning Ring by Malesation is a sturdy penis ring designed to assist you to achieve a long lasting and far stronger erection whilst delaying ejaculation at the same time. With 2 motors situated inside the ring, you gain powerful vibrations that can be felt up and down your shaft whilst delivering the same amount pleasure to your partner on...
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CBD Infused Intimate Serum - NuForia

NuForia
NuForiaSerum
R549
The CBD infused serum by NuForia is a specifically developed intimate serum designed to stimulate pleasure to your intimate areas. By using a small amount directly applied to your clitoral area you will experience an arousing, tingling sensation that is intensified by the CBD infusion. Encouraging an increase in blood flow, your sensitivities are...
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Kalahari Horing Erection Booster & Enhancer - PVT Remedies

PVT Remedies
Kalahari
R249
Kalahari Horing is an all natural supplement designed to boost your erection power to it's full potential. With studies showing exceptional results, the Kalahari Horing supplement aids in low libido, low sex drive, weak erection strength, and premature ejaculation. With results visible in just 40 minutes after taking 2 capsules, the Kalahari Horing...
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Olio Silky Smooth Water-Based Lubricant with CBD - Olio

WSLUBE100
R279
A highly effective water-based lubricant with 100mg CBD / 100ml tube. Extra moisturising, soothing and cell replenishing, Olio lubricant can be used to highten your sexual experience or use daily intra-vaginally to protect and prepare the vaginal canal from dryness and imbalance. Safe to use with silicone toys and condoms. - 100ml tube Ingredients:...
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Luvido Libido Booster for Women - Ailon

LuvidoWomen
R149
The Luvido libido booster for women is an all natural supplement from the Ailon Naturals brand and is known to show a beneficial effect on improving the general health of women. Taken as a dietary supplement, Luvido contains Ginseng panax, Red Clover Ashwanganda, Fenugreek and Tribulus, an all natural herbal product that is well known for it's libido...
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Luvido Libido Booster for Men - Ailon

LuvidoMen
R279
The Luvido libido booster for men is an all natural supplement from the Ailon Naturals brand. Taken as a dietary supplement, Luvido contains wild harvested Mpesu, an all natural herbal product that is well known for it's libido inducing effects. Packed with added proteins and minerals, Luvido is a potent nutritional supplement that promises a boost in...
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Set of 3 Crystal Yoni Eggs - Yoni Eggs

Yoni Eggs
Setof3
R1,495
Yoni Eggs, or more commonly known Jade Eggs, have been used for thousands of years as part of traditional medicine. Today the practice of inserting a Jade or Yoni Egg into the vagina, offers a myriad of benefits that not only incorporate medical advantages but also healing properties on an energetic level. By using a Yoni egg daily, blood and lymph flow...
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Anara Personal Lubricant with ProBiotics - Anara

Anara
FA005
R269
The Anara personal lubricant is a water-based lubricant containing the powerful Cape Aloe anti-microbial, anti-fungal and anti-inflammatory ingredient. Protecting against damaging your skin, the Anara lube has been specifically formulated to heal damaged skin, and to protect your sensitive areas. Offering relief to dryness, itchiness, burning and also...
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Anara Hair Loss Serum - Anara

Anara
FA0004
R289
The Anara Hair Loss serum is a unique formulation designed to support hair loss in both men and women. In both sexes, hair loss is often related to hormonal changes and specifically the DHT (dihydrotestosterone) hormone. DHT affects your hairline by miniaturising your hair follicles causing the hair to stop growing as it normally would. Cape Aloe has...
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Anara Cape Aloe Conditioning Hair Mask for Brittle Hair - Anara

Anara
FA003
R259
Menopause and hormonal imbalances often result in a change to hair and scalp health. This may include hair loss as well as dry, brittle hair and ends. The Anara Cape Aloe conditioning mask is a Cape Aloe formulation that has inherent anti-microbial, anti-fungal, and anti-inflammatory properties which treat dry scalp, seborrheic dermatitis, skin flakes,...
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Anara Cape Aloe Gel with CBD Oil for Inflammation & Sleep - Anara

Anara
FA002
R329
The Cape Aloe Gel with CBD Oil from Anara is a pure aloe gel rich in phytoestrogens that includes a unique formulation of Swiss sourced CBD oil.  Formulated to provide a calming and anti-inflammatory effect on the body, this gel improves sleeplessness whilst relieving painful muscles and joints. Designed with both peri and post-menopausal women in mind,...
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Anara Cape Aloe Cooling Gel For Flushes & Night Sweats - Anara

Anara
FA001
R229
The Cape Aloe Cooling Gel by Anara is a pure aloe gel rich in phytoestrogens that has been specifically designed for individuals suffering from hormonal flushes or night sweats. Phytoestrogens are natural plant based compounds that mimic the oestrogen hormone in the body and have been found to be beneficial in combatting symptoms related to hormone...
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Intimacy Bath Salts with CBD & Cacao - Foria

Foria
Foria Bath Salts
R1,299
The Foria Intimacy Bath Salts is a multi-botanical bath soak formulated to seduce the body and mind and is inspired by the sensual ritual of bathing. Mineral rich, this bath salt formulation combines epsom salts, himalayan salts and infusions of organically grown kava, cacao, rose and hemp cbd. Delivering a symphony of botanicals to awaken your senses,...
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Willy Super-Stretch Penis Rings (Pack of 3) - Oxballs

Oxballs
BO DP840215120311
R229
Oxballs new super stretch penis rings are the perfect addition for prolonging intercourse, delaying ejaculation and giving you a much harder erection. Worn at the base of the shaft, these rings gently constrict your blood flow, allowing you to last longer and have a firmer erection. Use them as singles, or stack them on top of each other to experience...
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Vaginal Hydrating Gel - Intome

Intome
INTIC01
R329
This hydrating gel by Intome is a natural gel specifically formulated to protect the natural flora of the vagina and to reduce friction and discomfort. With it's soft, moisturising effect, this gel stimulates the natural function of the mucous membrane thereby reducing burning, itchiness, and irritation. Perfect for daily use or for use as a water-based...
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Intimate Body and Product Cleaning Spray - Intome

Intome
INTIC02
R329
This effective intimate spray is perfect for both body and product refreshing. Formulated to protect the natural flora of the vagina, this spray is an effective hygiene spray and promises dual functionality to keep your adult products fresh and clean. Spray a small amount of cleaner on the surface of the toy that needs to be cleansed and allow to air...
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Medical Gel Water-Based Lubricant - Intome

Intome
INTLUB02
R329
This water-based lubricant is a medically approved gel lube formulated to provide moisturisation and lubrication to enhance the comfort and ease of sexual activity. Supplementing the body's natural lubrication, this gel is perfect for vaginal, penile or anal use and is safe to use with latex condoms and intimate adult products.  With only a small amount...
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Breast Enlarging Cream - Intome

Intome
INTBC02
R349
This natural beauty enhancement cream by Intome has been specifically formulated to provide firmer and fuller breasts. With active ingredients such as Glycine Soy Oil, Prunus Amygdalus Dulcis Oil, Helianthus Annuus Seed Oil, Humulus Lupulus Cone Extract, Calendula Officinalis Flower Extract and Propylene Glycol, this gel not only provides a nourishing...
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Firming and Lifting Butt Gel - Intome

Intome
INTBC01
R349
The buttocks lifting gel by Intome is a revitalising gel that provides a maximum lifting effect on the buttocks and thighs with regular use. Formulated to provide protection against cellulite, this gel improves the flexibility of the skin and has a quick absorption rate. Using powerful ingredients such as Arnica, Hedera Helix, Panax Ginseng root extract,...
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Soft Moisturising Water Based Lubricant - Intome

Intome
IntLub01
R329
This soft water-based lubricant by Intome is a personal lubricant designed for penile, vaginal or anal application. Formulated to moisturise and lubricate, this lube enhances the ease and comfort of sexual activity and in turn supplements the body's natural lubrication. Latex friendly, this lube is safe to use with all condoms and adult intimate products...
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Water Based Lubricant - Lovense

Lovense
BO DP 728360599537
R399
The Lovense water-based lubricant is a fragrance-free, non-staining, PH balanced lubricant designed to offer comfort for both everyday use and for use with your intimate products. Perfect for him or her, the Lovense lube contains no parabens or glycerin and with it's viscosity level is perfect for either vaginal, anal, or sex toy use. Non-sticky and easy...
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GoGirl All Natural Water-Based Intimate Lubricant - Go Girl

GGLUBE50M
R179
GoGirl, velvety smooth and natural water-based lubricant provides additional moisture and long-lasting lubrication for him and her. GoGirl all natural and pure lubricant is Ph balanced and compatible with the natural vaginal environment. It contains no parabens, chemicals, or added flavourants or colourants to deliberately avoid any possible allergies....
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GoGirl All Natural Clitoral Enhancing Spray - Go Girl

GGSPRAY50M
R279
Take your pleasure to new hights with GoGirls all-natural clitoral enhancing gel spray. GoGirls primary ingredient is the essential amino acid L-Arginine that occurs naturally in the body. GoGirl feels completely natural, has no color and is scent-free. It is discreet and simple to use-and can be used as often as desired. There is also no need to remove...
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Tingling Lubricant and Sensation Gel - WaterGlide

WaterGlide
ST 4019514306108
R399
The Tingling Intimate Gel by WaterGlide is a lubricant produced in Germany using only the finest formulation to give you a 100% natural feeling whilst providing a tingling and stimulating effect at the same time. High-quality ingredients that are characterised by their skin-friendly properties are professionally monitored and checked for your safety...
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