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Enjoy our sophisticated range of luxury dildos, available in a wide variety of shapes, sizes and tastes for the discerning couple-at-play or for individual satisfaction. Meet every longing head-on with our quality dildos online, whether strap on, strapless, pocket-sized, rippled, or for double stimulation – these sex toys are an essential for any fiery bedroom game.

Enhance the adventurous games you play with our range of quality dildos.

What Kind of Dildo Suits Your Intimacy Style?

Has there ever been a more classic sex toy than the dildo? Created to mimic the ideal shape, strength and length of that fundamental male part, these luxury dildos promise sexual gratification and something a little extra, if you know what you’re looking for.

#1: Larger Than Life Companions

Your everyday strapless dildo is anything but ordinary, especially when these are selected for size and comfort over other kinds of toys. A good dildo is made from quality, smooth or ribbed materials and is completely un-motorized.

Used by either lover, these sex toys are great for a stimulating massage during solo play, or as an intimate, versatile toy for couples. The best dildos can be used for her pleasure or for his, though you may want to be 100% sure when it comes to picking the right size.

#2: Realistic Glass For Massage

A glass dildo is by far the most hygienic, smoothest and durable of the dildo class, made from a softer, shatterproof glass that never imbibes smell, wears out or becomes a safety concern. Well known as the toy that makes temperature play more fun in the bedroom, these glass wands can be heated or frozen, as needed.

If one of your key concerns is to find dildos for men and women, for multi-purpose use without any of the cleaning issues, then glass is the way to go. Rigid without being overly hard, these curved borosilicate wands are excellent g-spot massagers.

#3: The Strap-On Kind

For role playing games in the bedroom, or fun exploring each other’s intimate desires, many luxury dildos are made to be attached to a harness, for hands-free use. Made from body-safe silicone that is waterproof and hygienic – these strap-ons come with soft, secure straps to keep the toy firmly in place while you heat things up between the sheets.

Strap on dildos are regularly used by men with erectile dysfunction, and many are hollow so that they fit well and vibrate during use to please both lovers. These can also be used for anal play by either lover, to heighten sensual moments during foreplay.

#4: A Couple’s Delight

A lesser known but increasingly popular toy comes in the form of the couple’s strapless dildos available at Désir. Also known as double dildos, these are double-ended for use by both lovers at the same time. The shorter side is worn by the active lover, who then engages their partner with the longer side.

A great companion for couples looking to add an exciting new method of foreplay to their repertoire, these are the best dildos to invest in if you are in the market for a vibrator that can be used in many different ways by each partner.

What To Look For In Quality Dildos Online

When shopping for dildos online, you should consider 4 main factors that will influence your purchase. Before making your final decision, take a look at the size of the toy, the materials it is made from and how long it lasts, what the potential functions of the toy might be and if they will benefit your specific uses for the toy in the bedroom.

In the past, it was challenging to buy dildos online in South Africa, but Désir makes it easy with our discreet, luxury one-click service for our discerning customers.

Browse our exciting range of the best dildos available online in South Africa, and honour yourself by investing in a part of you that matters.

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  • R1,499

    This beautifully contoured dildo with its velvety soft surface is a must-have for your toy bag. Thanks to an exceptional 17.5cm of insertable length and almost 4cm diameter, it’s fulfilling on every level. With the addition of a good water-based lubricant, this sensuously curved dildo will provide ideal stimulation for the clitoris, vulva and...

  • R1,465
    1 Review

    The Fun Factory Bouncer is a wonderfully simple and pleasing dildo design. Like other Fun Factory dildos, it features a flat, wide suction cup base that allows you to stick it to a wall or other clean surface. That wide base also makes it perfect for anal play, and for use with a harness. This means the Bouncer can be used for solo or couples play....

  • R899

    Lelo's Ella Dildo is a luxury dual ended non motorized dildo with a flattened shaped head for the ultimate precision in G-Spot stimulation. Designed for G spot massage, insert the Ella with the curved end pointing towards the upper wall of the vagina, directly where the g spot is found. Vary your movements and place direct pressure onto the G spot area to...

  • R1,099

    When you’re looking for size, the Fun Factory Magnum lives up to its name. This girthy 18cm dildo is made in a flexible and bodysafe silicone that makes it soft to the touch yet firm enough to fulfil. Thanks to the flat suction cup base, the Magnum dildo can be used for both vaginal and anal play, and is also harness compatible. It has a smooth...

  • R914
    Out of stock
    1 Review

    Fun Factory dildos are a firm favourite, and we think every toy collection should contain a couple. With wide, flat, suction bases, Fun Factory dildos can be used safely for both vaginal and anal play, stick to smooth surfaces and walls for fun solo play, and fit comfortably into a harness. The Amor dildo is the smallest in the range, and is perfect...

  • R649

    The Robbie dildo from Malesation is perfect for solo or strap-on play. The flared suction base fits most standard strap-on harnesses, or can be used to firmly attach your dildo to a smooth surface. The wavy shaft and angled tip of the Robbie dildo make it ideal for g-spot or p-spot stimulation. It’s made from seamless, bodysafe, phthalate-free...

  • R999
    1 Review

    If you’re looking for a dildo that has a natural shape and feel and a pleasing length, look no further. The Boss by Fun Factory is a 17.8cm insertable length dildo with a diameter of 4.2cm. A glans shape to the top, with a prominent coronal ridge, targets the g-spot or prostate. Close to the base, pronounced ridges in vein-like shapes will give...

  • R599
    1 Review

    The Minds of Love Silicone Rabbit Dildo is a classic dildo cleverly designed to feature a pronounced glans and rabbit-shaped clitoral stimulator. Allowing you to stimulate vaginal or anal pleasure points, this rabbit dildo has a smooth surface making it extremely gentle for insertion. A powerful suction cup ensures good adhesion, and made from 100%...

  • R699
    Out of stock

    The Olly dildo is big and beautiful. Its impressive size makes it perfect for experienced users, both male and female for anal or vaginal play. The base is large and features a very strong suction cup for solo play. The Olly is also great used with a harness for adventurous couples play. Olly has a smooth ribbed shaft made from 100% medical grade...

  • R1,199

    Starting out at a very acceptable 15.5cm long and 3.3cm girth, the Magical Boy expands to more than double the size when inflated with the hand pump. This bodysafe silicone dildo will satisfy even the most enthusiastic size queen. It’s easily inserted with just a little waterbased lube, then gently pumped to reach that size that is most fulfilling....

  • R849

    Make a realistic unique replica of your penis with Cloneboy Cast Your Own Dildo Kit. This kit is suitable for all shapes and sizes.  The Cloneboy contains no plaster that can irritate the skin and uses medically tested moulding material made from natural algae. The simplicity of the kit enables you to make the perfect clone in just a few easy steps....

  • R549

    This clear dildo by ClearStone is a 7" dildo featuring a ripple effect on the shaft and a realistic penile type head for adding stimulation and sensation. Made from clear PVC, this soft to the touch dildo is Phthalate free and hygienic. With a suction base, it is easily attachable to any surface allowing for either anal or vaginal hands free play. Use it...

  • R449

    The Luxy 6" realistic clear dildo by ClearStone is a small dildo featuring a realistic penile effect across both the shaft and head. Providing you with added stimulation and a scrotum for realism and comfort, this dildo is perfect for beginners or for those who prefer a smaller fit.  Measuring in at 15cm, the Luxy realistic dong is small enough for...

  • R599

    The Luxy Double Headed Dildo by the Clearstone series is an 11" dildo made from clear 100% phthalate free PVC. Soft and flexible, this dildo is moulded on a realistic shaft and head design, thereby offering a realistic experience. Thanks to it's curve you are able to reach your P-Spot/G-Spot with ease, making this the ideal toy for same-sex play. Simply...

  • R499

    The Play Candi Double Dong is a flexible silicone double-ended dildo with a soft bodysafe, silky feeling finish. It’s 33cm in total length, with a pleasing bulge to either end and a ridged centre bridge for extra sensation. Play Candi sex toys are bodysafe, budget-friendly and attractively designed. This double ended dildo is great for both solo...

  • R599

    Discover a whole new sexual experience with the Discover Double Dong by Vibe Therapy. Made from body-safe silicone, it has sensual ridges along its shaft for added stimulation. This double ended dildo also warms quickly to your body temperature, for enhanced sensations. It can be used for solo play, but is most definitely a toy to bring excitement to the...

  • R1,949

    The Fun Factory ShareVibe is the ideal luxury strap-on-toy for couples. Now featuring a bullet vibrator, this german manufactured product is the only toy of it's kind in that it offers 5 pattern vibrations incorporated into the base. As such, it allows couples to both experience and share in the pleasure of the intense vibrations during love-making....

  • R1,945
    1 Review

    Share strapless dildos by Fun Factory are ideal for lesbian couples, and can be used for pegging if coupled with a harness. The Share double dildo is worn internally, held in place by the kegel muscles. Women with strong kegel muscles will find this double dildo a truly pleasurable experience, as your every thrust is felt by both partners. The...

  • R3,499
    1 Review

    The Feeldoe straplass strap-on is the perfect toy for same sex or male to female play and for beginners to explore. The women inserts the bulbous end into her vagina, using her pelvic muscles to keep it in place, whilst the shaft end of the dildo, at a naturally tilted angle, allows you to penetrate your partner. Wearing the Feeldoe is a completely...

  • R2,299
    1 Review

    The Eternal Swan is a strapless strap-on vibrator, which is best suited for lesbian couples. The shorter end is worn inserted into the vagina, and requires fairly strong pelvic muscles to hold and control while penetrating a partner with the longer shaft. The shape of the Eternal Swan means that when the bulb end is inserted, the longer end stands up...

  • R1,699
    3 Reviews

    Created for couples, the Share Strapless Double Dildo is a bodysafe silicone dildo with a short end and a long, curved end. The short end is worn by the active partner, inserted into the vagina, and gives great g-spot pleasure during your play. The longer end is 16cm of pure orgasmic joy for a receiving partner. Share strapless dildos by Fun Factory...

  • R2,499 R2,806
    Reduced price!

    For shared pleasure for lesbian couples, this stunning set contains the Share Strapless Double Dildo, the Rocks Off RO-80mm Bullet Vibrator, and top brand Pjur’s lubricant and toy cleaner. Get started on erogenous zone arousal with the Rocks Off RO-80mm bullet. With a pinpoint shape and single button operation, the RO-80mm is powerful and discreet....

  • R1,199
    2 Reviews

    The Homeboy is a rigid, ribbed prosthetic penis cover that adds plenty to your length and girth for a more filling sensation for your partner. This vibrating strap-on is ideal for men suffering from Erectile Dysfunction (ED). It’s hollow inside, so the penis rests comfortably within the strap-on, held in place by the adjustable straps. Simply slip...

  • R729

    The Fifty Shades Freed Divine glass beaded dildo is a luxuriously designed dildo offering sculpted firmness, rippling forms, and two distinct insertable tips. Perfect for both external and internal massage, this hand-crafted glass dildo is ideal for temperature play - simply warm or cool and enjoy the added stimulation of this sensory play. Use with your...

  • R799 R1,199

    The Purple Love is a gorgeous glass double ended dildo with one bulbous end and one tapered end. Both ends offer delicious sensation when inserted, and the tapered end is comfortable for anal teasing. The shaft of the Purple Love dildo is a deep purple, constrasting beautifully with the multicoloured bulbs to each end. Glass dildos are beautiful, easy to...

  • R1,699

    Looking for deep, intense orgasms that seem to last forever? Look no further. The Fifty Shades Darker Deliciously Deep steel wand is a sensational double-ended dildo guaranteed to fulfil. Each end delivers different sensations: choose from the smooth or the bulbous end for maximum pleasure. With over 20cm of insertable length, this g-spot dildo goes...

  • R1,799

    The Double Dan is a smooth, smaller sized metal e-stim dildo designed for beginners to electroplay. The classic rounded tip and approximately 6.5cm of insertable length make this slimline dildo very comfortable and easy to insert. It’s made of medical grade aluminium, which is completely body safe and can be warmed or cooled to enhance your...

  • R999

    The Switch Soft Strap-On Set includes a silicone, phthalate-free slightly curved and contoured dildo to hit either her g-spot or his p-spot every time. The harness straps are fully adjustable to fit all sizes and shapes. Best used with a water based lubricant.

  • R699

    This harness with black lace overlay over satin stands out thanks to its sexy appearance, and is nonetheless robust and versatile. Thanks to its adjustable belt, it can fit a multitude of wearers. Two different rings are available for different dildo sizes with a flat base. A small pocket in which a vibration bullet can be stored ensures additional...

  • R529
    Out of stock

    This Lux Fetish Pretty in Pink Strap-On Harness is perfect for beginners wanting to experience the pleasures of the role-reversal and domination. With it's sturdy rubber O rings is compatible with most flared base dildos. With fully adjustable 4 way straps fitting up to a 152cm hip measurement, it provides you with a comfortable fit. With a pink...

  • R2,699
    Out of stock

    Tantus' Bend Over Intermediate Strap on Kit is the perfect way to explore strap-on sex. With two smooth 100% Ultra-Premium Silicone dildos, the Medium and Large Silk, this kit comes with a velvet harness that is comfortable, adjustable (fits up to 60” hips), and machine washable. With a one touch vibrator fitting snugly on the pouch on the front of...

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