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Enjoy our sophisticated range of luxury dildos, available in a wide variety of shapes, sizes and tastes for the discerning couple-at-play or for individual satisfaction. Meet every longing head-on with our quality dildos online, whether strap on, strapless, pocket-sized, rippled, or for double stimulation – these sex toys are an essential for any fiery bedroom game.

Enhance the adventurous games you play with our range of quality dildos.

What Kind of Dildo Suits Your Intimacy Style?

Has there ever been a more classic sex toy than the dildo? Created to mimic the ideal shape, strength and length of that fundamental male part, these luxury dildos promise sexual gratification and something a little extra, if you know what you’re looking for.

#1: Larger Than Life Companions

Your everyday strapless dildo is anything but ordinary, especially when these are selected for size and comfort over other kinds of toys. A good dildo is made from quality, smooth or ribbed materials and is completely un-motorized.


Used by either lover, these sex toys are great for a stimulating massage during solo play, or as an intimate, versatile toy for couples. The best dildos can be used for her pleasure or for his, though you may want to be 100% sure when it comes to picking the right size.

#2: Realistic Glass For Massage

A glass dildo is by far the most hygienic, smoothest and durable of the dildo class, made from a softer, shatterproof glass that never imbibes smell, wears out or becomes a safety concern. Well known as the toy that makes temperature play more fun in the bedroom, these glass wands can be heated or frozen, as needed.


If one of your key concerns is to find dildos for men and women, for multi-purpose use without any of the cleaning issues, then glass is the way to go. Rigid without being overly hard, these curved borosilicate wands are excellent g-spot massagers.

#3: The Strap-On Kind

For role playing games in the bedroom, or fun exploring each other’s intimate desires, many luxury dildos are made to be attached to a harness, for hands-free use. Made from body-safe silicone that is waterproof and hygienic – these strap-ons come with soft, secure straps to keep the toy firmly in place while you heat things up between the sheets.


Strap on dildos are regularly used by men with erectile dysfunction, and many are hollow so that they fit well and vibrate during use to please both lovers. These can also be used for anal play by either lover, to heighten sensual moments during foreplay.

#4: A Couple’s Delight

A lesser known but increasingly popular toy comes in the form of the couple’s strapless dildos available at Désir. Also known as double dildos, these are double-ended for use by both lovers at the same time. The shorter side is worn by the active lover, who then engages their partner with the longer side.


A great companion for couples looking to add an exciting new method of foreplay to their repertoire, these are the best dildos to invest in if you are in the market for a vibrator that can be used in many different ways by each partner.

What To Look For In Quality Dildos Online

When shopping for dildos online, you should consider 4 main factors that will influence your purchase. Before making your final decision, take a look at the size of the toy, the materials it is made from and how long it lasts, what the potential functions of the toy might be and if they will benefit your specific uses for the toy in the bedroom.


In the past, it was challenging to buy dildos online in South Africa, but Désir makes it easy with our discreet, luxury one-click service for our discerning customers.


Browse our exciting range of the best dildos available online in South Africa, and honour yourself by investing in a part of you that matters.

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  • R1,659
    2 Reviews

    The Fun Factory Share Dildo is a fantastic toy created for couples. Designed for simultaneous stimulation, the Share Dildo, slightly smaller than the Share XL has a shorter, bulbous shaped worn by the female, which stimulates the g spot, and a longer end with a bulbous design used to stimulate and pleasure the partner, whether male or...

  • R1,499

    The Laid D1 Silicone dildo is the perfect hand held dildo intended for solo or couple play. With it's beautiful curvature and distinct lines, this dildo has an incredible velvety soft surface, making it perfectly soft to the skin and sensual to the touch. It's comfortable grip allows for smooth and easy maneuvering and is perfect for both anal, clitoral,...

  • R1,305

    The Share XS Strapless double dildo by Fun Factory is the smallest of the Share range and is the perfect toy for beginners. The Passive part (for the wearer) is designed for vaginal use, which is larger than the receiving end in girth and rests on and stimulates the g spot. It also acts as a kegel exerciser as you use your pelvic floor muscles to keep it...

  • R1,799

    This Fifty Shades Darker Steel G Spot massager is a double ended steel dildo which can be used for stimulating either the G Spot or the P spot. With it's curved design, it has a bulbed tip specifically intended to stimulate the G Spot and a beaded end for direct P Spot stimulation, making this perfect for either him, her or couple play. With it's...

  • R559

    This Lux Fetish Pretty in Pink Strap-On Harness is perfect for beginners wanting to experience the pleasures of the role-reversal and domination. With it's sturdy rubber O rings is compatible with most flared base dildos. With fully adjustable 4 way straps fitting up to a 152cm hip measurement, it provides you with a comfortable fit. With a pink...

  • R959
    Out of stock

    The Acute dildo by Tantus is harness-compatible and has been designed to mimic the perfect angle for ultimate stimulation. It is made from Tantus’ own unique formula of 100% Ultra-Premium Silicone and is great for vaginal and anal use. This toy is phthalate free, hypoallergenic and odorless. For cleaning the Acute dildo has never been easier! Use...

  • R2,499

    Laid's D2 Stone Dildo is hand sculpted from polished black granite. With a slightly twisted shaft, this dildo curves gently into a broad flattened head allowing you to gently twist the shaft which gives a fuller feeling and stimulates various points of pleasure, either anal or vaginal. This is the perfect dildo for those who prefer more pressure across a...

  • R2,365

    The Swan Luxury Eternal Vibrator is designed specifically for couples. Designed to be used without a harness, the female inserts the egg shaped end vaginally using her inner muscles to grip, whilst the longer shaft is inserted into her partner providing both with the ultimate vibrations. With a motor on either end, this couples vibrator delivers the...

  • R1,999
    Out of stock

    Mystim describes the Groovey George as the biggest and thickest e-stim dildo yet. This massive rilldildo is made from hand polished medical grade aluminum, can be used vaginal or anal stimulation and a peaked tip allows for easy insertion regardless of its circumference. The soft waved design provides evenly distributed waves of incredible...

  • R1,859

    The Double Dan by Mystim is an e-stim dildo that is perfect for beginners due to its compact & straight shape. Made from medical grade aluminum, it allows for easy insertion when used with your favourite lubricant. The plus and minus poles are located on a few centimeters from the tip, ensure a soft tingling or a rhythmic pulsating sensation that can be...

  • R3,699
    1 Review

    The Feeldoe straplass strap-on is the perfect toy for same sex or male to female play and for beginners to explore. The women inserts the bulbous end into her vagina, using her pelvic muscles to keep it in place, whilst the shaft end of the dildo, at a naturally tilted angle, allows you to penetrate your partner. Wearing the Feeldoe is a completely...

  • R889

    Discover a whole new sexual experience with the Discover Double Dong by Vibe Therapy. Made from body-safe silicone, it has sensual ridges along its shaft for added stimulation. This double ended dildo also warms quickly to your body temperature, for enhanced sensations. It can be used for solo play, but is most definitely a toy to bring excitement to the...

  • R2,665

    Tantus' Bend Over Intermediate Strap on Kit is the perfect way to explore strap-on sex. With two smooth 100% Ultra-Premium Silicone dildos, the Medium and Large Silk, this kit comes with a velvet harness that is comfortable, adjustable (fits up to 60” hips), and machine washable. With a one touch vibrator fitting snugly on the pouch on the front of...

  • R859

    The Fun Factory Amor dildo at a length of 3.5 cm and diameter of 3.5 cm, is the smallest dildo from the Fun Factory range. With a sleek, flexible design and a naturalistic shape of the tip, this dildo is perfect for targeting either the g-spot or the p-spot. Used with water based lubricant this dildo is perfect for either vaginal or anal use and has a...

  • R599

    Malesation's Robbie Dildo - Small - at a length of 12.5cm has a wavy shaft and angled tip that stimulates both G spot and P spot alike. With it's flared suction cup, this dildo enables hands free sensational massage, either on a surface or as a strap on.

  • R815

    Lelo's Ella Dildo is a luxury dual ended non motorized dildo. Designed for G spot massage, insert the Ella with the curved end pointing towards the upper wall of the vagina, directly where the g spot is found. Vary your movements and place direct pressure onto the G spot area to stimulate and promote orgasms. Flip Ella around to use the other end as a...

  • R2,399

    Tantus' Bend Over Beginner Strap on Kit is the perfect way to explore strap-on sex. With two smooth 100% Ultra-Premium Silicone dildos, the Small and Medium, this kit comes with a velvet harness that is comfortable, adjustable (fits up to 60” hips), and machine washable. With a one touch vibrator (that uses 1 X 1.5 V N Type...

  • R1,399

    The Fun Factory Bounce Dildo is an exciting new addition to the dildo family. With it's sleek abstract design and gently curved shape, this dildo is perfect for stimulating the g-spot and prostate. What makes it unique, is the additional stimulation you receive from the three internal rotating balls, which react to your movements providing you with...

  • R2,234

    The Bal(l)zac from Mystim is an extra-long e-stim dildo that has 6 balls to offer intense anal or vaginal stimulation. It is made from hand polished medical grade aluminum, which, when accompaied by lubricant, glides over the skin for easy insertion. The Bal(l)zac is an attachment for the Mystim Tension Lover e-stim Unit (sold separately), however...

  • R1,159
    Out of stock
    1 Review

    Malesation's Homeboy is a vibrating strap-on prosthesis that has 7 levels of vibration, all managed by an easily accessible remote control. Though it has a soft-to-the-touch silicone coating, the prosthesis itself is sturdy and rigid. These strap on prostheses assist men that suffer from Erectile Dysfunction. Added girth & realistic veins add...

  • R1,845

    The Fun Factory Share XL Dildo is an immensely pleasurable double dildo, designed to please both partners simultaneously, and without the use of a harness. Aimed at vaginal use, the wearer inserts the shorter side, which rests on and stimulates the G Spot, whilst the large side is used to pleasure your partner, whether female or male. Designed in the...

  • R574
    Out of stock

    The Fifty Shades of Grey Drive Me Crazy Glass Massage Wand at a length of 15cm is a stylishly smooth and gently curved glass dildo perfect for both male's and female's. Use it as a rigid massage wand during foreplay and move to the vaginal and anal areas for stimulating and massaging your G spot, clitoris, or perineum. Use with your favourite lube to...

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