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Enjoy our sophisticated range of luxury dildos, available in a wide variety of shapes, sizes and tastes for the discerning couple-at-play or for individual satisfaction.


What is a dildo? A dildo is a penis-shaped sex toy that is designed to mimic the ideal penis size, shape, and length and is available in a multitude of materials from glass and silicone, to latex and rubber. With a variation of colours, shapes, textures and sizes, dildos can be used by men or women alike, making them the perfect go-to sex toy for versatility. Generally used for masturbation and penetration, dildos have evolved considerably in that they also provide pleasure for same-sex couples as well as heterosexual couples for what is also commonly known as pegging. Read more to find-out about our different types of dildo's...


Pegging & Strap-On Dildos

According to Mens Health pegging is the practice in which a woman anally penetrates a man with a strap-on. Many men reportedly experience intense pleasure from pegging as it directly stimulates the prostate gland deep within the inside of the rectum. An erogenous zone that is often overlooked, prostate massage and prostate stimulation & play can help you stay harder for longer and increases your orgasms by almost 30%, making pegging an exciting way to increase his orgasmic strength with a completely new sensation and experience.


Thanks to the versatility of strap-on dildos, these can be worn either with a harness or are available in a design referred to as a strapless strap-on.Harnessed dildos feature a harness made either of synthetic or leather material worn around the wearer’s hips and feature an o-ring insert in the centre where the dildo or magic wand is fastened. This allows the wearer to penetrate the receiver without the dildo falling out of place and encourages hands free penetrative play.


For same sex couples who enjoy double penetration, strapless strap-on’s have increased in their popularity in that these dildos are harness free and encourage pleasure for both wearer and receiver. With a boomerang type design, the wearer inserts the shorter arm internally, whilst the larger arm is used for penetrating the receiver. By simultaneous insertion, both users receive immense amounts of pleasure.


Strap-on dildos are slowing moving away from the taboo’s associated with anal sex and are becoming more and more acceptable as an adventurous couples sex toy.


View our range of Strap-On Dildos


Hollow Dildos

Designed for men, hollow dildos or prosthetic dildos are worn by men and allow him to increase his girth and length in a non-surgical, non-invasive manner. Often coupled with a harness, a hollow strap on can be curved for more precise g-spot or p-spot stimulation and offer a variety of textures, nubs, and ripples for added stimulation. With some hollow dildos featuring an internal vibrator, both wearer and receiver can enjoy the added benefit of intense vibrations that can be felt up and down his shaft as well as reaching the receiver for added pleasure.


Hollow dildo’s are particularly effective for those with disabilities, for those suffering from erectile dysfunction, or simply for those wanting to explore with extra girth and length. They allow a different dynamic in the bedroom and with their waterproof, or vibrating designs, hollow dildos are just as, if not more exciting than a traditional strap on dildo.


View our range of Hollow Dildos


Suction Cup Dildos

A favourite for hands-free play is the suction cup dildo. Versatile and fun, these dildos are designed to be fastened to a flat, smooth surface allowing you to experience penetration whilst keeping your hands completely free. A suction cup on a vertical surface (like a wall) allows you to explore g-spot massage or anal and vaginal penetration comfortably, whilst a flat surface allows you to stand up and gives you a bit more control to angle your body to wear you need the stimulation the most. A vac u lock on the suction cup allows your dildo to fit securely on the surface without it moving out of place.


With the added benefit of the suction base acting as a stopper, suction cup dildos are also compatible with most harnesses thanks to the broad base which fits perfectly into any o-ring on your harness.


View our range of Suction Cup Dildos


How to Shop for and buy your Dildo Online

Whilst dildo’s are by far one of the most classic sex toys available, the options of being wearer or receiver, going big or small, and strapless or strap-on can be incredibly overwhelming when considering adding a dildo into your sex life.


As a beginner looking to use a dildo as a masturbation device, choose a size and girth that leaves you feeling most comfortable. Upgrading to a larger size is far easier than feeling uncomfortable due to a too big a girth or length. From a more traditional design to a more modern take on the dildo, you are able to choose from a realistic penis and glans replica, or a sleek and modern design that is less realistic in its exterior. Vibrating dildos are perfect for both internal and external stimulation and provide more alternatives than penetration only. WIth the option of remote-control and clitoral stimulation, these dildos can be a great way to include your partner and are often the best option for dildos for couples.


If you are looking at introducing pegging into your relationship, communication is key to graduate from vailla sex to strap on sex. Remember to start by introducing anal play through introducing a butt plug or dildo without the strap-on at first to allow your partner to adjust to the sensations and comfort around having his or her anal area stimulated. A high quality lubricant is essential to protect your anal tissues and to discourage tearing or tissue damage. Remember to always use a water-based lubricant with your silicone toys to avoid disintegration of your toy’s silicone material and to avoid swapping from anal penetration to vaginal penetration to avoid cross-contimination and bacterial infection.


Once you have progressed to anal play and are comfortable to move on to anal dildo play, a good quality strap-on harness and dildo will go a long way to ensuring a positive pegging experience. Choose a dildo that is 100% body safe and offers a smoother and sleeker external finish as this will make penetration easier and won’t require a frequent application of lubrication. Don’t allow more penetration than what you can handle and pick a dildo that will offer you the stimulation that you desire, whether it be curved for p-spot or g-spot massage or slightly thicker for a fuller experience. Stick to a simple shape and design and remember to use a generous amount of lubrication.


What To Look For In Quality Dildos Online?

When shopping for a dildo online, you should consider 4 main factors that will influence your purchase. Before making your final decision, take a look at the size of the toy, the materials it is made from and how long it lasts, what the potential functions of the toy might be and if they will benefit your specific uses for the toy in the bedroom. Stay away from jelly dildos or rubber dildos, as these materials often contain toxic chemicals, and if you’re looking for a dildo that’s easy to clean, metal dildos or glass dildos are perfect for anti-allergenic properties.


In the past, it was challenging to buy a dildo online in South Africa, but Désir makes it easy with our discreet, luxury one-click service for our discerning customers.


Browse our exciting range of the best classic or realistic dildos available online in South Africa

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Unisex Vibrating Hollow Strap On Dildo with Remote - Lux Fetish

Lux Fetish
BO4890808210932
R1,299
The Unisex Strap On by Lux Fetish is a hollow prosthetic type of strap-on dildo designed to give pleasure to both wearer and receiver, whether male or female.   Designed using body safe phthalate free ABS plastic, nylon, and PVC, this strap-on features an elastic waistband that has a good amount of stretch - making it a one size fits most harness....
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Unisex Vibrating Hollow Double Strap-On Dildo - Lux Fetish

Lux Fetish
4890808210925
R1,429
The Double strap-on dildo set by Lux Fetish is a dual dildo combination designed for the more adventurous user. Featuring a hollow prosthetic type of dildo as well as an anal dildo underneath, this strap-on provides twice the pleasure for her. Featuring a wired remote control that navigates through 7 vibration modes, he is able to enjoy the stimulation...
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The Eternal Swan Strapless Strap-on Vibrator for Couples - Swan

Swan
BO677613358967 D04.11.19
R2,199
The Eternal Swan is a strapless strap-on vibrator, which is best suited for lesbian couples. The shorter end is worn inserted into the vagina, and requires fairly strong pelvic muscles to hold and control while penetrating a partner with the longer shaft. The shape of the Eternal Swan means that when the bulb end is inserted, the longer end stands up...
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The Boss Stub Dildo - Fun Factory

Fun factory
4032498228044 D02.10.2019
R899
If you’re looking for a dildo that has a natural shape and feel and a pleasing length, look no further. The Boss by Fun Factory is a 17.8cm insertable length dildo with a diameter of 4.2cm. A glans shape to the top, with a prominent coronal ridge, targets the g-spot or prostate. Close to the base, pronounced ridges in vein-like shapes will give...
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Switch Soft Strap-On Set with Curved Dildo - Smile

You 2 Toys
BO 8210 M02.10.2019
R849
The Switch Soft Strap-On Set includes a silicone, phthalate-free slightly curved and contoured dildo to hit either her g-spot or his p-spot every time. The harness straps are fully adjustable to fit all sizes and shapes. Best used with a water based lubricant.
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Strapless Strap-On Rabbit Vibrator - Happy Rabbit

Lovehoney
BO5060020009433 D11.11.19
R1,999
The strapless designed strap-on vibrator by Happy Rabbit is a dual penetrating vibrator designed to be used by couples - whether it be for vaginal or anal penetration. Made entirely from velvety smooth silicone, this strap on features two insertable shafts. With one measuring 14cm's in insertable length and a shorter arm measuring at 10cm's, this strap...
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Strap-On Vibrator & Harness Kit - Happy Rabbit

Lovehoney
BO5060020009426291019
R2,019
The Happy Rabbit Strap-on kit is the perfect vibrating dildo and harness set, that promises dual stimulation and powerful vibrations for her. Featuring a slim, 12.7cm insertable silicone dildo, this dildo features a tapered head for smooth insertion and a curved tip for expert g-spot pleasure. Coupled with thick, flexible bunny ears that envelop your...
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Strap On Harness - Malesation

Malesation
BO4041937315535
R419
The Malesation Strap On Harness is the perfect harness for those looking for a soft, comfortable and versatile harness for their dildos.Designed using soft, comfortable neoprene, this harness features adjustable straps that allow a perfect fit from a hip measurement of 41cm right up to a hip size measurement of 152cm. With 3 removable rubbing rings...
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Strap & Bound Invisible Denim Harness - Fun Factory

Fun factory
BO4032498804514 D23.10.19
R2,299
The Strap and Bound invisible denim harness is the world's first harness made out of 100% cotton denim designed by Fun Factory and is unisex in it's lust and appeal.Giving you complete control and hold over any dildo with a base and diameter measurement of up to 4.5cm, the Strap and Bound features a comfortable hip belt and two legs straps designed to...
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Silicone Rabbit Style Suction Cup Dildo - Minds of Love

Minds of Love
BO60000009810 D23.10.19
R599
The Minds of Love Silicone Rabbit Dildo is a classic dildo cleverly designed to feature a pronounced glans and rabbit-shaped clitoral stimulator. Allowing you to stimulate vaginal or anal pleasure points, this rabbit dildo has a smooth surface making it extremely gentle for insertion. A powerful suction cup ensures good adhesion, and made from 100%...
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ShareVibe Couples Strap-On Vibrator - Fun Factory

Fun factory
BO4032498262369 D16.10.19
R1,799
The Fun Factory ShareVibe is the ideal luxury strap-on-toy for couples. Now featuring a bullet vibrator, this german manufactured product is the only toy of it's kind in that it offers 5 pattern vibrations incorporated into the base. As such, it allows couples to both experience and share in the pleasure of the intense vibrations during love-making....
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Robbie Dildo with Suction Base in Small and Big - Malesation

Malesation
BO600000009907 D23.10.19
R649
The Robbie dildo from Malesation is perfect for solo or strap-on play. The flared suction base fits most standard strap-on harnesses, or can be used to firmly attach your dildo to a smooth surface. The wavy shaft and angled tip of the Robbie dildo make it ideal for g-spot or p-spot stimulation. It’s made from seamless, bodysafe, phthalate-free...
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Pretty in Pink Strap-On Harness - Lux Fetish

Lux Fetish
BO4890808062166 D16.10.19
R549
This Lux Fetish Pretty in Pink Strap-On Harness is perfect for beginners wanting to experience the pleasures of the role-reversal and domination. With it's sturdy rubber O rings is compatible with most flared base dildos. With fully adjustable 4 way straps fitting up to a 152cm hip measurement, it provides you with a comfortable fit. With a pink...
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Play Candi Double-Ended Dildo

Playcandi S13.09.2019
R549
The Play Candi Double Dong is a flexible silicone double-ended dildo with a soft bodysafe, silky feeling finish. It’s 33cm in total length, with a pleasing bulge to either end and a ridged centre bridge for extra sensation. Play Candi sex toys are bodysafe, budget-friendly and attractively designed. This double ended dildo is great for both solo...
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Patent Leather Strap-On Harness - Lux Fetish

Lux Fetish
BO4890808062098 D23.10.19
R849
This beautiful harness is made from 100% PVC, comes with 2 x rubber hold rings and can accomodate any dildo with a flared base. It is fully adjustable and will fit up to 152cm waist. This comfortable harness is perfect for beginners & experts alike!
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Naked Addiction Rotating & Vibrating Dildo - Swan

Swan
BO677613881250 D21.08.2019
R1,499
The Naked Addiction dildo by Swan is a rotating and vibrating dildo that offers versatile pleasure and the new IncrediFeel technology.In a neutral tone, the Naked dildo features superior silicone that offers an ultra realistic feel thanks to Swan's new IncrediFeel Technology. Unbelievably soft to the touch, this dildo is firm enough to deliver intense...
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Magical Boy 7 Speed Inflatable & Vibrating Dildo - Malesation

Malesation
BO4041937315092 D25.06.2019
R1,179
Starting out at a very acceptable 15.5cm long and 3.3cm girth, the Magical Boy expands to more than double the size when inflated with the hand pump. It’s easily inserted with just a little waterbased lube, then gently pumped to reach that size that is most fulfilling. When needed, the easy push release button deflates the dildo, so you can adjust...
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Laid D2 Black Granite Stone Twisted Dildo

Laid
D2
R1,899
Laid's D2 Stone Dildo is hand sculpted from polished black granite. With a slightly twisted shaft, this dildo curves gently into a broad flattened head allowing you to gently twist the shaft which gives a fuller feeling and stimulates various points of pleasure, either anal or vaginal. This is the perfect dildo for those who prefer more pressure across a...
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Justin Addiction Suction Cup Dildo - Swan

Swan
BO677613876010 D02.10.2019
R779
The Justin Addiction Dildo by Swan is a fun rainbow designed dildo with realistic features and a strong suction cup for ultimate pleasure.Measuring in at 20cm in length and 4cm in girth, this dildo not only offers you a realistic size, but also features a scrotum design and a realistically shaped glans for added stimulation and realism. With it's...
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Inflatable Vibrating Curved Dildo with Remote Control - Lux Fetish

Lux Fetish
4890808210901
R1,359
The Lux Fetish inflatable curved dildo is a vibrating dildo that features a pump to allow it to both increase and decrease in size. Featuring 7 powerful vibration modes, this battery operated dildo is ideal for p-spot and g-spot stimulation. A curved tip ensures accurate stimulation, whilst the pump allows you to adjust your inflation according to the...
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Homeboy Hollow Vibrating Prosthetic Strap On - Malesation

Malesation
BO4041937315047 D28.05.2019
R1,199
The Homeboy is a rigid, ribbed prosthetic penis cover that adds plenty to your length and girth for a more filling sensation for your partner. This vibrating strap-on is ideal for men suffering from Erectile Dysfunction (ED). It’s hollow inside, so the penis rests comfortably within the strap-on, held in place by the adjustable straps. Simply slip...
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Fleshlight Mr Limpy Realistic Prosthetic Penis - Fleshlight

Fleshlight
BO810476035112 D25.06.2019
R229
The Mr Limpy is a realistic and anatomically correct fleshly penis prosthetic by Fleshlight, and is as close to the real thing as possible. Made from super-soft and super-stretchy real-to-the-touch Super Skin silicone, Fleshlight have ensured you will not know the difference with this prosthetic penis.At a flaccid 12cm in length, this extremely pliable...
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Fleshlight Dildo Suction Cup - Fleshlight

Fleshlight
810476019280 d100919
R599
The Fleshlight Dildo Suction Cup is a suction-based attachment that allows you to adhere your Fleshlight and FleshJack dildos securely to any clean, flat surface for the ultimate hands-free play.Simply remove the black silicone plug located in the base of your dildo, and fully insert the ribbed post of the suction cup into the hole at the base of your...
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