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Enjoy our sophisticated range of luxury dildos, available in a wide variety of shapes, sizes and tastes for the discerning couple-at-play or for individual satisfaction. Meet every longing head-on with our quality dildos online, whether strap on, strapless, pocket-sized, rippled, or for double stimulation – these sex toys are an essential for any fiery bedroom game.

Enhance the adventurous games you play with our range of quality dildos.

What Kind of Dildo Suits Your Intimacy Style?

Has there ever been a more classic sex toy than the dildo? Created to mimic the ideal shape, strength and length of that fundamental male part, these luxury dildos promise sexual gratification and something a little extra, if you know what you’re looking for.

#1: Larger Than Life Companions

Your everyday strapless dildo is anything but ordinary, especially when these are selected for size and comfort over other kinds of toys. A good dildo is made from quality, smooth or ribbed materials and is completely un-motorized.


Used by either lover, these sex toys are great for a stimulating massage during solo play, or as an intimate, versatile toy for couples. The best dildos can be used for her pleasure or for his, though you may want to be 100% sure when it comes to picking the right size.

#2: Realistic Glass For Massage

A glass dildo is by far the most hygienic, smoothest and durable of the dildo class, made from a softer, shatterproof glass that never imbibes smell, wears out or becomes a safety concern. Well known as the toy that makes temperature play more fun in the bedroom, these glass wands can be heated or frozen, as needed.


If one of your key concerns is to find dildos for men and women, for multi-purpose use without any of the cleaning issues, then glass is the way to go. Rigid without being overly hard, these curved borosilicate wands are excellent g-spot massagers.

#3: The Strap-On Kind

For role playing games in the bedroom, or fun exploring each other’s intimate desires, many luxury dildos are made to be attached to a harness, for hands-free use. Made from body-safe silicone that is waterproof and hygienic – these strap-ons come with soft, secure straps to keep the toy firmly in place while you heat things up between the sheets.


Strap on dildos are regularly used by men with erectile dysfunction, and many are hollow so that they fit well and vibrate during use to please both lovers. These can also be used for anal play by either lover, to heighten sensual moments during foreplay.

#4: A Couple’s Delight

A lesser known but increasingly popular toy comes in the form of the couple’s strapless dildos available at Désir. Also known as double dildos, these are double-ended for use by both lovers at the same time. The shorter side is worn by the active lover, who then engages their partner with the longer side.


A great companion for couples looking to add an exciting new method of foreplay to their repertoire, these are the best dildos to invest in if you are in the market for a vibrator that can be used in many different ways by each partner.

What To Look For In Quality Dildos Online

When shopping for dildos online, you should consider 4 main factors that will influence your purchase. Before making your final decision, take a look at the size of the toy, the materials it is made from and how long it lasts, what the potential functions of the toy might be and if they will benefit your specific uses for the toy in the bedroom.


In the past, it was challenging to buy dildos online in South Africa, but Désir makes it easy with our discreet, luxury one-click service for our discerning customers.


Browse our exciting range of the best dildos available online in South Africa, and honour yourself by investing in a part of you that matters.

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  • R999

    The Spicy strap on dildo by Smile is a hollow strap on dildo, which can be worn by either him or her. With it's hollow inner, he can simply slip inside for added girth and length, or worn by her it features comfortable waist and leg straps that are both flexible and adjustable ensuring the ultimate comfort and fit. Large in size, this dildo is made from...

  • R545

    This clear dildo by ClearStone is a 7" dildo featuring a ripple effect on the shaft and a realistic penile type head for adding stimulation and sensation. Made from clear PVC, this soft to the touch dildo is Phthalate free and hygienic. With a suction base, it is easily attachable to any surface allowing for either anal or vaginal hands free play. Use it...

  • R545

    This realistic clear dildo by ClearStone is a 7 inch (18cm) lifelike dildo made of clear PVC. Phthalate free and made of hygienic material this soft to the touch dildo has realistic detailing and additional nobules at the base allowing increased sensations and stimulation, wheter it be for anal or vaginal use. With a suction base, it is easily attached to...

  • R545
    Out of stock

    This lifelike dildo with a realistic looking scrotum by ClearStone is an 8inch (20.3cm) dildo made of clear PVC. Phthalate free and made of hygienic material this soft to the touch dildo has rigid vein detailing, a lifelike looking head and a scrotum. With a suction base, it is easily attachable to any surface, making this product perfect for either...

  • R249

    The Simplx dong is a great and inexpensive toy to add to your collection and being only 15cm in length, it is perfect for beginners. It is non-toxic and Phthalate-free and features a realistic shape, with a flat base for placing on a flat surface. It is quite a versitile toy in the sense that it can be used for solo play, couples play, and can be placed...

  • R459

    This fun, double-ended dildo is made from soft silicone material, allowing for flexibility and is super soft to the touch. A favourite amongst lesbian couples, this dildo is 35cm in length, has a diameter of 2.5cm to 7.5cm and is great for both vaginal and anal play. Fully waterproof and made from 100% body safe silicone, this double ended dildo allows...

  • R869

    This beautifully designed glass dildo in a black colour, has a small tapered end on one side, perfect for either anal, clitoral, or g spot stimulation and a ring on the other end to ensure a firm grip. With it's slightly curved shaft, this dildo offers precision and pressured stimulation whilst the two nub like features at the base of the dildo ensuring a...

  • R1,199

    This beautifully designed purple glass dildo by Glass Vibrations is a dual ended dildo which can be used either solo or with your partner featuring as a double ended dildo. Reinforced for strength, this glass dildo with a slightly tapered end on one side and a perfectly round end on the other can be used as a clitoral stimulator, perineum stimulator, and...

  • R645

    Tantus Ripple Butt Plug is a winning combination of both dildo & anal beads. Perfect for P spot stimulation, it has a wide base making it perfect for most strap on harnesses. Remove it slowly during orgasm to increase orgasmic sensation and reuse over and over again. Whilst the fullness adds intensity into the orgasmic experience, we...

  • R1,659
    2 Reviews

    The Fun Factory Share Dildo is a fantastic toy created for couples. Designed for simultaneous stimulation, the Share Dildo, slightly smaller than the Share XL has a shorter, bulbous shaped worn by the female, which stimulates the g spot, and a longer end with a bulbous design used to stimulate and pleasure the partner, whether male or...

  • R1,499

    The Laid D1 Silicone dildo is the perfect hand held dildo intended for solo or couple play. With it's beautiful curvature and distinct lines, this dildo has an incredible velvety soft surface, making it perfectly soft to the skin and sensual to the touch. It's comfortable grip allows for smooth and easy maneuvering and is perfect for both anal, clitoral,...

  • R1,305

    The Share XS Strapless double dildo by Fun Factory is the smallest of the Share range and is the perfect toy for beginners. The Passive part (for the wearer) is designed for vaginal use, which is larger than the receiving end in girth and rests on and stimulates the g spot. It also acts as a kegel exerciser as you use your pelvic floor muscles to keep it...

  • R1,799

    This Fifty Shades Darker Steel G Spot massager is a double ended steel dildo which can be used for stimulating either the G Spot or the P spot. With it's curved design, it has a bulbed tip specifically intended to stimulate the G Spot and a beaded end for direct P Spot stimulation, making this perfect for either him, her or couple play. With it's...

  • R2,499

    Laid's D2 Stone Dildo is hand sculpted from polished black granite. With a slightly twisted shaft, this dildo curves gently into a broad flattened head allowing you to gently twist the shaft which gives a fuller feeling and stimulates various points of pleasure, either anal or vaginal. This is the perfect dildo for those who prefer more pressure across a...

  • R2,365

    The Swan Luxury Eternal Vibrator is designed specifically for couples. Designed to be used without a harness, the female inserts the egg shaped end vaginally using her inner muscles to grip, whilst the longer shaft is inserted into her partner providing both with the ultimate vibrations. With a motor on either end, this couples vibrator delivers the...

  • R1,859

    The Double Dan by Mystim is an e-stim dildo that is perfect for beginners due to its compact & straight shape. Made from medical grade aluminum, it allows for easy insertion when used with your favourite lubricant. The plus and minus poles are located on a few centimeters from the tip, ensure a soft tingling or a rhythmic pulsating sensation that can be...

  • R3,699
    1 Review

    The Feeldoe straplass strap-on is the perfect toy for same sex or male to female play and for beginners to explore. The women inserts the bulbous end into her vagina, using her pelvic muscles to keep it in place, whilst the shaft end of the dildo, at a naturally tilted angle, allows you to penetrate your partner. Wearing the Feeldoe is a completely...

  • R2,665

    Tantus' Bend Over Intermediate Strap on Kit is the perfect way to explore strap-on sex. With two smooth 100% Ultra-Premium Silicone dildos, the Medium and Large Silk, this kit comes with a velvet harness that is comfortable, adjustable (fits up to 60” hips), and machine washable. With a one touch vibrator fitting snugly on the pouch on the front of...

  • R645
    Out of stock

    Malesation's Robbie Dildo - Small - at a length of 12.5cm has a wavy shaft and angled tip that stimulates both G spot and P spot alike. With it's flared suction cup, this dildo enables hands free sensational massage, either on a surface or as a strap on.

  • R899

    Lelo's Ella Dildo is a luxury dual ended non motorized dildo. Designed for G spot massage, insert the Ella with the curved end pointing towards the upper wall of the vagina, directly where the g spot is found. Vary your movements and place direct pressure onto the G spot area to stimulate and promote orgasms. Flip Ella around to use the other end as a...

  • R2,399

    Tantus' Bend Over Beginner Strap on Kit is the perfect way to explore strap-on sex. With two smooth 100% Ultra-Premium Silicone dildos, the Small and Medium, this kit comes with a velvet harness that is comfortable, adjustable (fits up to 60” hips), and machine washable. With a one touch vibrator (that uses 1 X 1.5 V N Type...

  • R1,465

    The Fun Factory Bounce Dildo is an exciting new addition to the dildo family. With it's sleek abstract design and gently curved shape, this dildo is perfect for stimulating the g-spot and prostate. What makes it unique, is the additional stimulation you receive from the three internal rotating balls, which react to your movements providing you with...

  • R2,234

    The Bal(l)zac from Mystim is an extra-long e-stim dildo that has 6 balls to offer intense anal or vaginal stimulation. It is made from hand polished medical grade aluminum, which, when accompaied by lubricant, glides over the skin for easy insertion. The Bal(l)zac is an attachment for the Mystim Tension Lover e-stim Unit (sold separately), however...

  • R1,159
    1 Review

    Malesation's Homeboy is a vibrating strap-on prosthesis that has 7 levels of vibration, all managed by an easily accessible remote control. Though it has a soft-to-the-touch silicone coating, the prosthesis itself is sturdy and rigid. These strap on prostheses assist men that suffer from Erectile Dysfunction. Added girth & realistic veins add...

  • R499

    This Lux Fetish Strap-On Harness is perfect for beginners wanting to experience the pleasures of the role-reversal and domination.  With it's sturdy rubber O rings is compatible with most flared base dildos. With it's fully adjustable 4 way straps fitting up to 152cm hip measurement, it give you a custom fit, allowing you to take full control. 

  • R1,945

    The Fun Factory Share XL Dildo is an immensely pleasurable double dildo, designed to please both partners simultaneously, and without the use of a harness. Aimed at vaginal use, the wearer inserts the shorter side, which rests on and stimulates the G Spot, whilst the large side is used to pleasure your partner, whether female or male. Designed in the...

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