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Enjoy our sophisticated range of luxury dildos, available in a wide variety of shapes, sizes and tastes for the discerning couple-at-play or for individual satisfaction.


What is a dildo? A dildo is a penis-shaped sex toy that is designed to mimic the ideal penis size, shape, and length and is available in a multitude of materials from glass and silicone, to latex and rubber. With a variation of colours, shapes, textures and sizes, dildos can be used by men or women alike, making them the perfect go-to sex toy for versatility. Generally used for masturbation and penetration, dildos have evolved considerably in that they also provide pleasure for same-sex couples as well as heterosexual couples for what is also commonly known as pegging. Read more to find-out about our different types of dildo's...


Pegging & Strap-On Dildos

According to Mens Health pegging is the practice in which a woman anally penetrates a man with a strap-on. Many men reportedly experience intense pleasure from pegging as it directly stimulates the prostate gland deep within the inside of the rectum. An erogenous zone that is often overlooked, prostate massage and prostate stimulation & play can help you stay harder for longer and increases your orgasms by almost 30%, making pegging an exciting way to increase his orgasmic strength with a completely new sensation and experience.


Thanks to the versatility of strap-on dildos, these can be worn either with a harness or are available in a design referred to as a strapless strap-on.Harnessed dildos feature a harness made either of synthetic or leather material worn around the wearer’s hips and feature an o-ring insert in the centre where the dildo or magic wand is fastened. This allows the wearer to penetrate the receiver without the dildo falling out of place and encourages hands free penetrative play.


For same sex couples who enjoy double penetration, strapless strap-on’s have increased in their popularity in that these dildos are harness free and encourage pleasure for both wearer and receiver. With a boomerang type design, the wearer inserts the shorter arm internally, whilst the larger arm is used for penetrating the receiver. By simultaneous insertion, both users receive immense amounts of pleasure.


Strap-on dildos are slowing moving away from the taboo’s associated with anal sex and are becoming more and more acceptable as an adventurous couples sex toy.


View our range of Strap-On Dildos


Hollow Dildos

Designed for men, hollow dildos or prosthetic dildos are worn by men and allow him to increase his girth and length in a non-surgical, non-invasive manner. Often coupled with a harness, a hollow strap on can be curved for more precise g-spot or p-spot stimulation and offer a variety of textures, nubs, and ripples for added stimulation. With some hollow dildos featuring an internal vibrator, both wearer and receiver can enjoy the added benefit of intense vibrations that can be felt up and down his shaft as well as reaching the receiver for added pleasure.


Hollow dildo’s are particularly effective for those with disabilities, for those suffering from erectile dysfunction, or simply for those wanting to explore with extra girth and length. They allow a different dynamic in the bedroom and with their waterproof, or vibrating designs, hollow dildos are just as, if not more exciting than a traditional strap on dildo.


View our range of Hollow Dildos


Suction Cup Dildos

A favourite for hands-free play is the suction cup dildo. Versatile and fun, these dildos are designed to be fastened to a flat, smooth surface allowing you to experience penetration whilst keeping your hands completely free. A suction cup on a vertical surface (like a wall) allows you to explore g-spot massage or anal and vaginal penetration comfortably, whilst a flat surface allows you to stand up and gives you a bit more control to angle your body to wear you need the stimulation the most. A vac u lock on the suction cup allows your dildo to fit securely on the surface without it moving out of place.


With the added benefit of the suction base acting as a stopper, suction cup dildos are also compatible with most harnesses thanks to the broad base which fits perfectly into any o-ring on your harness.


View our range of Suction Cup Dildos


How to Shop for and buy your Dildo Online

Whilst dildo’s are by far one of the most classic sex toys available, the options of being wearer or receiver, going big or small, and strapless or strap-on can be incredibly overwhelming when considering adding a dildo into your sex life.


As a beginner looking to use a dildo as a masturbation device, choose a size and girth that leaves you feeling most comfortable. Upgrading to a larger size is far easier than feeling uncomfortable due to a too big a girth or length. From a more traditional design to a more modern take on the dildo, you are able to choose from a realistic penis and glans replica, or a sleek and modern design that is less realistic in its exterior. Vibrating dildos are perfect for both internal and external stimulation and provide more alternatives than penetration only. WIth the option of remote-control and clitoral stimulation, these dildos can be a great way to include your partner and are often the best option for dildos for couples.


If you are looking at introducing pegging into your relationship, communication is key to graduate from vailla sex to strap on sex. Remember to start by introducing anal play through introducing a butt plug or dildo without the strap-on at first to allow your partner to adjust to the sensations and comfort around having his or her anal area stimulated. A high quality lubricant is essential to protect your anal tissues and to discourage tearing or tissue damage. Remember to always use a water-based lubricant with your silicone toys to avoid disintegration of your toy’s silicone material and to avoid swapping from anal penetration to vaginal penetration to avoid cross-contimination and bacterial infection.


Once you have progressed to anal play and are comfortable to move on to anal dildo play, a good quality strap-on harness and dildo will go a long way to ensuring a positive pegging experience. Choose a dildo that is 100% body safe and offers a smoother and sleeker external finish as this will make penetration easier and won’t require a frequent application of lubrication. Don’t allow more penetration than what you can handle and pick a dildo that will offer you the stimulation that you desire, whether it be curved for p-spot or g-spot massage or slightly thicker for a fuller experience. Stick to a simple shape and design and remember to use a generous amount of lubrication.


What To Look For In Quality Dildos Online?

When shopping for a dildo online, you should consider 4 main factors that will influence your purchase. Before making your final decision, take a look at the size of the toy, the materials it is made from and how long it lasts, what the potential functions of the toy might be and if they will benefit your specific uses for the toy in the bedroom. Stay away from jelly dildos or rubber dildos, as these materials often contain toxic chemicals, and if you’re looking for a dildo that’s easy to clean, metal dildos or glass dildos are perfect for anti-allergenic properties.


In the past, it was challenging to buy a dildo online in South Africa, but Désir makes it easy with our discreet, luxury one-click service for our discerning customers.


Browse our exciting range of the best classic or realistic dildos available online in South Africa

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Inflatable Vibrating Curved Dildo with Remote Control - Lux Fetish Inflatable Vibrating Curved Dildo with Remote Control - Lux Fetish
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Inflatable Vibrating Curved Dildo with Remote Control - Lux Fetish

Lux Fetish
4890808210901 D29.11.19
R999 R1,299
The Lux Fetish inflatable curved dildo is a vibrating dildo that features a pump to allow it to both increase and decrease in size. Featuring 7 powerful vibration modes, this battery operated dildo is ideal for p-spot and g-spot stimulation. A curved tip ensures accurate stimulation, whilst the pump allows you to adjust your inflation according to the...
Unisex Vibrating Hollow Double Strap-On Dildo - Lux Fetish Unisex Vibrating Hollow Double Strap-On Dildo - Lux Fetish
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Unisex Vibrating Hollow Double Strap-On Dildo - Lux Fetish

Lux Fetish
4890808210925 D29.11.19
R1,099 R1,499
The Double strap-on dildo set by Lux Fetish is a dual dildo combination designed for the more adventurous user. Featuring a hollow prosthetic type of dildo as well as an anal dildo underneath, this strap-on provides twice the pleasure for her. Featuring a wired remote control that navigates through 7 vibration modes, he is able to enjoy the stimulation...
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Unisex Vibrating Hollow Strap On Dildo with Remote - Lux Fetish

Lux Fetish
BO4890808210932 D29.11.19
R1,299
The Unisex Strap On by Lux Fetish is a hollow prosthetic type of strap-on dildo designed to give pleasure to both wearer and receiver, whether male or female.   Designed using body safe phthalate free ABS plastic, nylon, and PVC, this strap-on features an elastic waistband that has a good amount of stretch - making it a one size fits most harness....
Strap-On Vibrator & Harness Kit - Happy Rabbit Strap-On Vibrator & Harness Kit - Happy Rabbit
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Strap-On Vibrator & Harness Kit - Happy Rabbit

Lovehoney
BO5060020009426 D10.01.2020
R2,019
The Happy Rabbit Strap-on kit is the perfect vibrating dildo and harness set, that promises dual stimulation and powerful vibrations for her. Featuring a slim, 12.7cm insertable silicone dildo, this dildo features a tapered head for smooth insertion and a curved tip for expert g-spot pleasure. Coupled with thick, flexible bunny ears that envelop your...
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Strapless Strap-On Rabbit Vibrator - Happy Rabbit

Lovehoney
BO5060020009433 D06.01.2020
R1,999
The strapless designed strap-on vibrator by Happy Rabbit is a dual penetrating vibrator designed to be used by couples - whether it be for vaginal or anal penetration. Made entirely from velvety smooth silicone, this strap on features two insertable shafts. With one measuring 14cm's in insertable length and a shorter arm measuring at 10cm's, this strap...
Fleshlight Dildo Suction Cup - Fleshlight Fleshlight Dildo Suction Cup - Fleshlight
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Fleshlight Dildo Suction Cup - Fleshlight

Fleshlight
BO810476019280 d100919
R599
The Fleshlight Dildo Suction Cup is a suction-based attachment that allows you to adhere your Fleshlight and FleshJack dildos securely to any clean, flat surface for the ultimate hands-free play.Simply remove the black silicone plug located in the base of your dildo, and fully insert the ribbed post of the suction cup into the hole at the base of your...
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FleshJackBoys - Allen King Life Size Silicone Dildo - Fleshlight

Fleshlight
BO810476012434 D18.12.19
R1,499
Molded directly from erotic star Allen King's penis, this signature dildo by FleshJack is a real feel superskin life-size silicone dildo. Produced with platinum-cured, medically graded silicone, the Allen King replica dildo offers you the most realistic experience imaginable. Including every life like detail, this dildo has been hand detailed by...
Bendable David Realistic Suction Cup Dildo - Swan Bendable David Realistic Suction Cup Dildo - Swan
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Bendable David Realistic Suction Cup Dildo - Swan

Swan
BO677613856210 D05.12.19
R749
The David bendable suction cup dildo is a realistic dildo designed for versatile hands free play in any position you like.With it's realistically designed shaft featuring a protruding glans, textured veins and a scrotum at the base, this dildo is fully versatile in that it is able to bend into any shape you desire. With a strong suction cup feature, flex...
Billy Large Suction Cup Dildo - Malesation Billy Large Suction Cup Dildo - Malesation
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Billy Large Suction Cup Dildo - Malesation

Malesation
BO4041937099268 D06.01.2020
R779
The Billy dildo by Malesation is a sturdy, suction cup dildo featuring a large design and realistic glans.Measuring in at 17.5cm in length and a full 3.6cm in girth, this super soft body-safe silicone dildo is perfect for users looking for a fuller experience. With a strong suction cup that can attach to any clean, flat, smooth surface, your waterproof...
Barry Petite Beginners Suction Cup Dildo - Malesation Barry Suction Cup Dildo - Malesation
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Barry Petite Beginners Suction Cup Dildo - Malesation

Malesation
BO4041937099121 D06.01.2020
R399
The Barry Dildo by Malestion is an incredibly petite and ergonomically designed suction cup dildo featuring realistic curves, veins and glans.Measuring in at 12.5cm in length, and with a tiny girth of only 2.2cm, this dildo is perfect for anal play beginners who are looking for gentle penetrative strap on play, and particularly women who suffer...
Barny Petite Dildo for Beginners with Suction Cup - Malesation Barny Dildo with Suction Cup - Malesation
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Barny Petite Dildo for Beginners with Suction Cup - Malesation

Malesation
BO4041937099114 D06.01.2020
R449
The Barny Dildo by Malesation is a petite, sturdy unisex dildo perfect for g-spot and p-spot play and beginners alike. Measuring in at 12.5cm in length and only 2.2cm in girth, this slightly smaller dildo is perfect for those looking to start penetrative anal sex or women who suffer from vaginismus and are looking for a smaller dildo. Made from...
Buck Dich Spanking Paddle & Dildo - Fun Factory Buck Dich Spanking Paddle & Dildo - Fun Factory
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Buck Dich Spanking Paddle & Dildo - Fun Factory

Fun factory
BO4032498962030
R1,499
The Buck Dich 2-in-1 toy by Fun Factory is a kinky play toy that offers extreme pleasure for couples or for solo play.With a silicone paddle on one end and a curved shaped dildo on the other, you can combine the exciting experience of sensory play combined with intense p-spot or g-spot massage. Made from 100% body safe materials, this super soft silicone...
Double Penetrating Wearable Dildo  - OxBalls Oxballs Double Pentrator -
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Double Penetrating Wearable Dildo - OxBalls

Oxballs
BO840215105455
R1,499
The Double Penetrator by Oxballs is a large, wearable silicone dildo designed for the more adventurous user.With it's platinum cured silicone formulae, the Double Penetrator features a firm, yet flexible 17cm shaft that molds to the base of your penis with a girth measuring in at 5cm. With a stretchy silicone penis and...
Naked Addiction Rotating & Vibrating Dildo - Swan Naked Addiction Rotating & Vibrating Dildo - Swan
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Naked Addiction Rotating & Vibrating Dildo - Swan

Swan
BO677613881250 D06.01.2020
R1,499
The Naked Addiction dildo by Swan is a rotating and vibrating dildo that offers versatile pleasure and the new IncrediFeel technology.In a neutral tone, the Naked dildo features superior silicone that offers an ultra realistic feel thanks to Swan's new IncrediFeel Technology. Unbelievably soft to the touch, this dildo is firm enough to deliver intense...
Justin Addiction Suction Cup Dildo - Swan Justin Addiction Suction Cup Dildo - Swan
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Justin Addiction Suction Cup Dildo - Swan

Swan
BO677613876010 D02.10.2019
R779
The Justin Addiction Dildo by Swan is a fun rainbow designed dildo with realistic features and a strong suction cup for ultimate pleasure.Measuring in at 20cm in length and 4cm in girth, this dildo not only offers you a realistic size, but also features a scrotum design and a realistically shaped glans for added stimulation and realism. With it's...
Strap & Bound Invisible Denim Harness - Fun Factory Strap & Bound Invisible Denim Harness
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Strap & Bound Invisible Denim Harness - Fun Factory

Fun factory
BO4032498804514 D10.12.19
R2,299
The Strap and Bound invisible denim harness is the world's first harness made out of 100% cotton denim designed by Fun Factory and is unisex in it's lust and appeal.Giving you complete control and hold over any dildo with a base and diameter measurement of up to 4.5cm, the Strap and Bound features a comfortable hip belt and two legs straps designed to...
Exciter Male Strap-On Anal Beads - Malesation Exciter Male Strap-On - Malesation
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Exciter Male Strap-On Anal Beads - Malesation

Malesation
BO4041937315061 D07.08.2019
R349
The Exciter strap-on by Malesation is the ideal strap-on for males who are looking for double penetration.With two rings and an anal dildo attached this strap-on is designed to be worn by the male. One ring is worn as a traditional penis ring (worn around the base of your penile shaft) whilst the other is worn comfortably around your testicles. With the...
Switch Soft Strap-On Set with Curved Dildo - Smile Switch Soft Strap-On Set with Curved Dildo - Smile
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Switch Soft Strap-On Set with Curved Dildo - Smile

You 2 Toys
BO 8210 M10.12.19
R849
The Switch Soft Strap-On Set includes a silicone, phthalate-free slightly curved and contoured dildo to hit either her g-spot or his p-spot every time. The harness straps are fully adjustable to fit all sizes and shapes. Best used with a water based lubricant.
Olly Suction Cup Rippled Dildo - Malesation Olly Big Suction Cup Dildo - Malesation
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Olly Suction Cup Rippled Dildo - Malesation

Malesation
BOmalesationollydildo D06.01.2020
R799
The Olly dildo is a dildo that is smooth and silky but offers incredible waves along it's shaft for added pleasure and stimulation. Available in two sizes, a small and a larger size, this dildo features a slightly curved head and a perfectly ergonomic design. Harness compatible the Olly can also be used hands-free thanks to it's suction cup base that...
Classic Harness - Steamy Shades
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Classic Harness - Steamy Shades

Steamy Shades
BO4041937579302 D24.07.2019
R699
This harness with black lace overlay over satin stands out thanks to its sexy appearance, and is nonetheless robust and versatile. Thanks to its adjustable belt, it can fit a multitude of wearers. Two different rings are available for different dildo sizes with a flat base. A small pocket in which a vibration bullet can be stored ensures additional...
ShareVibe Couples Strap-On Vibrator - Fun Factory ShareVibe Couples Strap-On Vibrator - Fun Factory
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ShareVibe Couples Strap-On Vibrator - Fun Factory

Fun factory
BO4032498262369 D16.10.19
R1,799
The Fun Factory ShareVibe is the ideal luxury strap-on-toy for couples. Now featuring a bullet vibrator, this german manufactured product is the only toy of it's kind in that it offers 5 pattern vibrations incorporated into the base. As such, it allows couples to both experience and share in the pleasure of the intense vibrations during love-making....
Silicone Rabbit Style Suction Cup Dildo - Minds of Love Silicone Rabbit Style Suction Cup Dildo - Minds of Love
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Silicone Rabbit Style Suction Cup Dildo - Minds of Love

Minds of Love
BO60000009810 D23.10.19
R599
The Minds of Love Silicone Rabbit Dildo is a classic dildo cleverly designed to feature a pronounced glans and rabbit-shaped clitoral stimulator. Allowing you to stimulate vaginal or anal pleasure points, this rabbit dildo has a smooth surface making it extremely gentle for insertion. A powerful suction cup ensures good adhesion, and made from 100%...
The Boss Stub Dildo - Fun Factory The Boss Stub Dildo - Fun Factory
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The Boss Stub Dildo - Fun Factory

Fun factory
BO4032498228044 D17.01.2020
R899
If you’re looking for a dildo that has a natural shape and feel and a pleasing length, look no further. The Boss by Fun Factory is a 17.8cm insertable length dildo with a diameter of 4.2cm. A glans shape to the top, with a prominent coronal ridge, targets the g-spot or prostate. Close to the base, pronounced ridges in vein-like shapes will give...
Play Candi Double-Ended Dildo
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Play Candi Double-Ended Dildo

Playcandi S13.09.2019
R449 R599
The Play Candi Double Dong is a flexible silicone double-ended dildo with a soft bodysafe, silky feeling finish. It’s 33cm in total length, with a pleasing bulge to either end and a ridged centre bridge for extra sensation. Play Candi sex toys are bodysafe, budget-friendly and attractively designed. This double ended dildo is great for both solo...
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