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Enjoy our sophisticated range of luxury dildos, available in a wide variety of shapes, sizes and tastes for the discerning couple-at-play or for individual satisfaction.


What is a dildo? A dildo is a penis-shaped sex toy that is designed to mimic the ideal penis size, shape, and length and is available in a multitude of materials from glass and silicone, to latex and rubber. With a variation of colours, shapes, textures and sizes, dildos can be used by men or women alike, making them the perfect go-to sex toy for versatility. Generally used for masturbation and penetration, dildos have evolved considerably in that they also provide pleasure for same-sex couples as well as heterosexual couples for what is also commonly known as pegging. Read more to find-out about our different types of dildo's...


Pegging & Strap-On Dildos

According to Mens Health pegging is the practice in which a woman anally penetrates a man with a strap-on. Many men reportedly experience intense pleasure from pegging as it directly stimulates the prostate gland deep within the inside of the rectum. An erogenous zone that is often overlooked, prostate massage and prostate stimulation & play can help you stay harder for longer and increases your orgasms by almost 30%, making pegging an exciting way to increase his orgasmic strength with a completely new sensation and experience.


Thanks to the versatility of strap-on dildos, these can be worn either with a harness or are available in a design referred to as a strapless strap-on.Harnessed dildos feature a harness made either of synthetic or leather material worn around the wearer’s hips and feature an o-ring insert in the centre where the dildo or magic wand is fastened. This allows the wearer to penetrate the receiver without the dildo falling out of place and encourages hands free penetrative play.


For same sex couples who enjoy double penetration, strapless strap-on’s have increased in their popularity in that these dildos are harness free and encourage pleasure for both wearer and receiver. With a boomerang type design, the wearer inserts the shorter arm internally, whilst the larger arm is used for penetrating the receiver. By simultaneous insertion, both users receive immense amounts of pleasure.


Strap-on dildos are slowing moving away from the taboo’s associated with anal sex and are becoming more and more acceptable as an adventurous couples sex toy.


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Hollow Dildos

Designed for men, hollow dildos or prosthetic dildos are worn by men and allow him to increase his girth and length in a non-surgical, non-invasive manner. Often coupled with a harness, a hollow strap on can be curved for more precise g-spot or p-spot stimulation and offer a variety of textures, nubs, and ripples for added stimulation. With some hollow dildos featuring an internal vibrator, both wearer and receiver can enjoy the added benefit of intense vibrations that can be felt up and down his shaft as well as reaching the receiver for added pleasure.


Hollow dildo’s are particularly effective for those with disabilities, for those suffering from erectile dysfunction, or simply for those wanting to explore with extra girth and length. They allow a different dynamic in the bedroom and with their waterproof, or vibrating designs, hollow dildos are just as, if not more exciting than a traditional strap on dildo.


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Suction Cup Dildos

A favourite for hands-free play is the suction cup dildo. Versatile and fun, these dildos are designed to be fastened to a flat, smooth surface allowing you to experience penetration whilst keeping your hands completely free. A suction cup on a vertical surface (like a wall) allows you to explore g-spot massage or anal and vaginal penetration comfortably, whilst a flat surface allows you to stand up and gives you a bit more control to angle your body to wear you need the stimulation the most. A vac u lock on the suction cup allows your dildo to fit securely on the surface without it moving out of place.


With the added benefit of the suction base acting as a stopper, suction cup dildos are also compatible with most harnesses thanks to the broad base which fits perfectly into any o-ring on your harness.


View our range of Suction Cup Dildos


How to Shop for and buy your Dildo Online

Whilst dildo’s are by far one of the most classic sex toys available, the options of being wearer or receiver, going big or small, and strapless or strap-on can be incredibly overwhelming when considering adding a dildo into your sex life.


As a beginner looking to use a dildo as a masturbation device, choose a size and girth that leaves you feeling most comfortable. Upgrading to a larger size is far easier than feeling uncomfortable due to a too big a girth or length. From a more traditional design to a more modern take on the dildo, you are able to choose from a realistic penis and glans replica, or a sleek and modern design that is less realistic in its exterior. Vibrating dildos are perfect for both internal and external stimulation and provide more alternatives than penetration only. WIth the option of remote-control and clitoral stimulation, these dildos can be a great way to include your partner and are often the best option for dildos for couples.


If you are looking at introducing pegging into your relationship, communication is key to graduate from vailla sex to strap on sex. Remember to start by introducing anal play through introducing a butt plug or dildo without the strap-on at first to allow your partner to adjust to the sensations and comfort around having his or her anal area stimulated. A high quality lubricant is essential to protect your anal tissues and to discourage tearing or tissue damage. Remember to always use a water-based lubricant with your silicone toys to avoid disintegration of your toy’s silicone material and to avoid swapping from anal penetration to vaginal penetration to avoid cross-contimination and bacterial infection.


Once you have progressed to anal play and are comfortable to move on to anal dildo play, a good quality strap-on harness and dildo will go a long way to ensuring a positive pegging experience. Choose a dildo that is 100% body safe and offers a smoother and sleeker external finish as this will make penetration easier and won’t require a frequent application of lubrication. Don’t allow more penetration than what you can handle and pick a dildo that will offer you the stimulation that you desire, whether it be curved for p-spot or g-spot massage or slightly thicker for a fuller experience. Stick to a simple shape and design and remember to use a generous amount of lubrication.


What To Look For In Quality Dildos Online?

When shopping for a dildo online, you should consider 4 main factors that will influence your purchase. Before making your final decision, take a look at the size of the toy, the materials it is made from and how long it lasts, what the potential functions of the toy might be and if they will benefit your specific uses for the toy in the bedroom. Stay away from jelly dildos or rubber dildos, as these materials often contain toxic chemicals, and if you’re looking for a dildo that’s easy to clean, metal dildos or glass dildos are perfect for anti-allergenic properties.


In the past, it was challenging to buy a dildo online in South Africa, but Désir makes it easy with our discreet, luxury one-click service for our discerning customers.


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Limba Flex Bendable Dildo...
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Limba Flex Bendable Dildo (S,M) - Fun Factory

Fun factory
BO DP 4032498200002/805559
R1,599
The Limba flexible dildo by Fun Factory has been specifically designed taking into account that every body is different.  With a bendable wire inside the dildo you are able to flex it into any preferred angle. With a poseable shaft, you are able to bend this unisex dildo to perfectly stimulate either the g-spot or p-spot by shaping it into a C-shape,...
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Remote Controlled Dildo & Harness Set - Pegasus

BO D4890808228296
R3,499
This strap-on set by Pegasus features a 15cm dildo coupled with an adjustable harness - perfect for couples looking to experience pegging. Featuring a naturally curved shaft, the firm yet flexible body-safe dildo has been designed with three raised waves along the length of the shaft as well as a realistically shaped glans to provide added stimulation...
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Ribbed Silicone Anal Dildo with Suction Cup - EasyToys

EasyToys
ET200BLK
R549
This silicone dildo by EasyToys has been specifically and ergonomically designed for anal pleasure. Small in stature this anal dildo is anatomically curved and features a rounded glans for easy and comfortable insertion - ideal for those wanting to experience anal play. A ribbed texture along the shaft provides added stimulation, heightening your nerves...
Harness Deluxe - RealRock
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Harness Deluxe - RealRock

REA047
R799
This deluxe premium harness by RealRock is an elasticated strap-on harness that is both comfortable and luxurious in design. With 2 insertable rings (small 5cm diameter and medium 5.8cm diameter) you are able to use this strap-on harness with any dildo measuring up to 5.8cm in size. Made from leather and elastic straps, this one-size-fits-most harness...
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Medical Dildo with Suction Cup and Scrotum Base - You2Toys

You 2 Toys
5266810000
R1,099
This medically graded silicone dildo by You2Toys is a luxuriously smooth and realistically designed replica of a real penis. Measuring in at 20cm in length with a girth of 4.4cm, this lifelike dildo features a pronounced glans, a veiny shaft, and a textured scrotum and with its soft to the touch silicone, gives you a real texture finish. In a soft and...
Luxy 18cm Realistic Dildo...
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Luxy 18cm Realistic Dildo with Scrotum and Suction Cup Base - Clearstone

Clearstone
5121250000
R799
This lifelike dildo with a realistic looking scrotum base is a 7inch (18cm) dildo made of clear silicone PVC. Phthalate free and made of hygienic material this soft to the touch dildo has rigid vein detailing, a lifelike looking glans and a realistic scrotum base. With a suction on the base, it is easily attachable to any surface, making this product...
Body Extensions - Be Daring...
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Body Extensions - Be Daring 2 Piece Strap-On Set

Doc Johnson
0800-06-BX
R2,199
The Body Extensions Hollow Strap On System by Doc Johnson is a unisex harness and hollow silicone attachment designed to allow penetration regardless of the wearer's anatomy. Including a high-quality elastic and premium silicone harness and a 17cm hollow dildo, this interchangeable system features a wide elastic waistband along with snaps in order to...
Naked Addiction Remote...
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Naked Addiction Remote Controlled Thrusting and Rotating Dildo - Swan

Swan
BO DP 677613882257
R2,949
The Naked Addiction Thrusting Dildo by Swan is a realistically designed dildo that used the combination of IncrediFeel technology and superior silicone to produce a as close as possible replica to the real thing. Unbelievably soft to the touch, this dildo is flexible yet firm where needed. A luxury dildo, the design features realistic textures and veins...
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FleshJack Boys - Milan Christopher Lifelike Dildo - Fleshlight

Fleshlight
BO DP 810476012502
R1,599
This lifelike replica dildo of Milan Christopher's penis is as close to the real thing as possible. Made from the highest quality platinum cured silicone, this impressive dildo measures an impressive 22cm in length and a girthy circumference of 7cm. Moulded directly from the star himself, this slightly bendable and perfectly firm dildo is hyper realistic...
Inflatable Vibrating Curved Dildo with Remote Control - Lux Fetish
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Inflatable Vibrating Curved Dildo with Remote Control - Lux Fetish

Lux Fetish
BO DP 4890808210901
R1,599
The Lux Fetish inflatable curved dildo is a vibrating dildo that features a pump to allow it to both increase and decrease in size. Featuring 7 powerful vibration modes, this battery operated dildo is ideal for p-spot and g-spot stimulation. A curved tip ensures accurate stimulation, whilst the pump allows you to adjust your inflation according to the...
Unisex Vibrating Hollow Double Strap-On Dildo - Lux Fetish
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Unisex Vibrating Hollow Double Strap-On Dildo - Lux Fetish

Lux Fetish
BO DP 4890808210925
R1,399
The Double strap-on dildo set by Lux Fetish is a dual dildo combination designed for the more adventurous user. Featuring a hollow prosthetic type of dildo as well as an anal dildo underneath, this strap-on provides twice the pleasure for her. Featuring a wired remote control that navigates through 7 vibration modes, he is able to enjoy the stimulation...
Strap-On Vibrator & Harness Kit - Happy Rabbit
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Strap-On Vibrator & Harness Kit - Happy Rabbit

Lovehoney
BO DP 5060020009426
R2,599
The Happy Rabbit Strap-on kit is the perfect vibrating dildo and harness set, that promises dual stimulation and powerful vibrations for her. Featuring a slim, 12.7cm insertable silicone dildo, this dildo features a tapered head for smooth insertion and a curved tip for expert g-spot pleasure. Coupled with thick, flexible bunny ears that envelop your...
Fleshlight Dildo Suction Cup - Fleshlight
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Fleshlight Dildo Suction Cup - Fleshlight

Fleshlight
BO DP 810476019280
R799
The Fleshlight Dildo Suction Cup is a suction-based attachment that allows you to adhere your Fleshlight and FleshJack dildos securely to any clean, flat surface for the ultimate hands-free play.Simply remove the black silicone plug located in the base of your dildo, and fully insert the ribbed post of the suction cup into the hole at the base of your...
FleshJackBoys - Allen King Life Size Silicone Dildo - Fleshlight
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FleshJackBoys - Allen King Life Size Silicone Dildo - Fleshlight

Fleshlight
BO DP 810476012434
R1,599
Molded directly from erotic star Allen King's penis, this signature dildo by FleshJack is a real feel superskin life-size silicone dildo. Produced with platinum-cured, medically graded silicone, the Allen King replica dildo offers you the most realistic experience imaginable. Including every life like detail, this dildo has been hand detailed by artists...
Bendable David Realistic Suction Cup Dildo - Swan
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Bendable David Realistic Suction Cup Dildo - Swan

Swan
BO DP 677613856210
R1,299
The David bendable suction cup dildo is a realistic dildo designed for versatile hands free play in any position you like.With it's realistically designed shaft featuring a protruding glans, textured veins and a scrotum at the base, this dildo is fully versatile in that it is able to bend into any shape you desire. With a strong suction cup feature, flex...
Billy Large Suction Cup Dildo - Malesation
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Billy Large Suction Cup Dildo - Malesation

Malesation
BO DP 4041937099268
R1,015
The Billy dildo by Malesation is a sturdy, suction cup dildo featuring a large design and realistic glans.Measuring in at 17.5cm in length and a full 3.6cm in girth, this super soft body-safe silicone dildo is perfect for users looking for a fuller experience. With a strong suction cup that can attach to any clean, flat, smooth surface, your waterproof...
Barry Suction Cup Dildo - Malesation
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Barry Petite Beginners Suction Cup Dildo - Malesation

Malesation
BO DP 4041937099121
R529
The Barry Dildo by Malestion is an incredibly petite and ergonomically designed suction cup dildo featuring realistic curves, veins and glans.Measuring in at 12.5cm in length, and with a tiny girth of only 2.2cm, this dildo is perfect for anal play beginners who are looking for gentle penetrative strap on play, and particularly women who suffer...
Buck Dich Spanking Paddle & Dildo - Fun Factory
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Buck Dich Spanking Paddle & Dildo - Fun Factory

Fun factory
BO DP 4032498962030
R1,499
The Buck Dich 2-in-1 toy by Fun Factory is a kinky play toy that offers extreme pleasure for couples or for solo play.With a silicone paddle on one end and a curved shaped dildo on the other, you can combine the exciting experience of sensory play combined with intense p-spot or g-spot massage. Made from 100% body safe materials, this super soft silicone...
Justin Addiction Suction Cup Dildo - Swan
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Justin Addiction Suction Cup Dildo - Swan

Swan
BO DP 677613876010
R1,299
The Justin Addiction Dildo by Swan is a fun rainbow designed dildo with realistic features and a strong suction cup for ultimate pleasure.Measuring in at 20cm in length and 4cm in girth, this dildo not only offers you a realistic size, but also features a scrotum design and a realistically shaped glans for added stimulation and realism. With it's...
Strap On Harness - Malesation
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Strap On Harness - Malesation

Malesation
BO DP 4041937315535
R699
The Malesation Strap On Harness is the perfect harness for those looking for a soft, comfortable and versatile harness for their dildos.Designed using soft, comfortable neoprene, this harness features adjustable straps that allow a perfect fit from a hip measurement of 41cm right up to a hip size measurement of 152cm. With 3 removable rubbing rings...
Willy Classic Vibrating Dildo with Suction Cup - Malesation
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Willy Classic Vibrating Dildo with Suction Cup - Malesation

Malesation
BO DP 4041937099213
R729
The Willy dildo by Malesation is a realistically designed dildo that offers anal or vaginal stimulation.With it's realistic glans shape at the end, and a curved design, this dildo is ideal for reaching the P or G Spot. It's soft silicone texture gives a smooth and gentle insertion, whilst the wide suction base prevents this dildo from moving or slipping...
ShareVibe Couples Strap-On Vibrator - Fun Factory
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ShareVibe Couples Strap-On Vibrator - Fun Factory

Fun factory
BO DP 4032498262369/666
R2,799
The Fun Factory ShareVibe is the ideal luxury strap-on-toy for couples. Now featuring a bullet vibrator, this german manufactured product is the only toy of it's kind in that it offers 5 pattern vibrations incorporated into the base. As such, it allows couples to both experience and share in the pleasure of the intense vibrations during love-making....
The Boss Stub Dildo - Fun Factory
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The Boss Stub Dildo - Fun Factory

Fun factory
BO DP 4032498228044/365
R1,359
If you’re looking for a dildo that has a natural shape and feel and a pleasing length, look no further. The Boss by Fun Factory is a 17.8cm insertable length dildo with a diameter of 4.2cm. A glans shape to the top, with a prominent coronal ridge, targets the g-spot or prostate. Close to the base, pronounced ridges in vein-like shapes will give...
Laid D2 Black Granite Stone Twisted Dildo
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Laid D2 Black Granite Stone Twisted Dildo

Laid
BO MS D2
R1,899
Laid's D2 Stone Dildo is hand sculpted from polished black granite. With a slightly twisted shaft, this dildo curves gently into a broad flattened head allowing you to gently twist the shaft which gives a fuller feeling and stimulates various points of pleasure, either anal or vaginal. This is the perfect dildo for those who prefer more pressure across a...
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