Before Fifty Shades of Grey products, bondage was not as widely accepted as it is today. Thanks to EL James, the British writer who created the bestselling erotic book series, it’s now considered an essential experience for any adventurous couple looking for new things to try.

Fifty Shades of Grey in South Africa caused a boom in the adult market, with many adult toy manufacturers jumping on the bandwagon. But for the truly authentic experience you still cannot get any better than the branded products themselves.

That is why we decided to include many original Fifty Shades of Grey products in our Désir bondage range. Read the books, then delight in the products directly from the pages - for you and your lover to experience together.

Light Bondage Play Brings Couples Closer

Our range of Désir bondage toys include many popular showcases from the trilogy, including satin blindfolds for heightened sensation, masks for added mystery and feather ticklers for couples looking to introduce themselves to new power dynamics.

These basic Fifty Shades of Grey products quickly graduate to the more intermediate range – as they do in the books – including various creative sets of restraints, nipple clamps, and vibrating toys meant to inspire your imagination as you explore intimate control together.

Fifty Ways To Say I Love You

Couples that enjoy intimate bondage experiences will rave about Fifty Shades of Grey in South Africa, as a way for them to express their love for each other. For more advanced play, the toy range extends to cock rings, handcuffs, ropes, anal beads and discipline toys like whips, rulers and paddles.

Increasingly popular among our Fifty Shades of Grey products are the vibrating eggs - for remote control over your lover’s pleasure, and the glass massage wands that are great companions for temperature play and teasing.

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  • R354
    1 Review

    The Fifty Shades of Grey You are Mine Metal Handcuffs are more traditional handcuffs perfect for bondage submission. With a lock and 2 functional keys, these handcuffs have a safety mechanism providing you with the piece of mind that your bondage play is always safe. Remember to play safe!

  • R1,299

    Inspired by the Fifty Shades of Grey trilogy, this Wickedly Tempting Clitoral Vibrator, measuring at 10cm, is small and discreet enough to make it the perfect travel companion. With it's 5 pattern single speed vibration, it's sleek design is perfect for clitoral precision. 

  • R295
    Out of stock
    2 Reviews

    This Fifty Shades of Grey 'We Aim to Please' Vibrating Bullet at a length of 6.35cm, is sleek, slender and powerful. With it's single speed vibration, and it's perfectly discreet design, this clitoral vibrator is perfect for both solo and couple play. Rest it directly on your clitoris for amazing sensations, or rub it lightly on the vulva for all over...

  • R995

    This Fifty Shades of Grey Under the Bed Hard Restraints Kit transforms your bedroom into a bondage playground. Ideal for beginners, this bedroom bondage set can be used to create a full body restraint that's quick and easy to secure. 

  • R559

    The Fifty Shades of Grey Ultimate Control Hand Cuffs are perfect for turning your bedroom into a bondage playground. With a soft velvet lining on each of the cuffs, these restraints are comfortable to wear and feel amazing - remember to play safe!

  • R415

    The Fifty Shades of Grey Totally His Soft Hand Cuffs are strong yet comfortable handcuffs made of a velvet lining, sleek satin outer, and velcro straps for the perfect fit. With their quick release clips and D ring, they are designed for versatility and can be used separately or clipped together for more erotic light bondage play. 

  • R415

    These Pinch Adjustable weighted Nipple Clamps are straight out of the Fifty Shades of Grey explosion and provide for the ultimate in intense sensory overload of pleasure and pain. Perfect for beginners and experts alike, you can adjust the pinch according to your own taste with the adjustable pressure escalating your sensitivity - providing you with an...

  • R279
    Out of stock

    The Fifty Shades of Grey Tease Feather Tickler strokes and teases your partner's body into submission. Perfect for beginner play and enhancing you senses.

  • R695
    Out of stock
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    This dual-purpose Fifty Shades of Grey Sweet Touch Vibrator at a length of 12cm is small but powerful and allows directed stimulation to the entire clitoral area. With 10 vibration modes, the hooded head sits comfortably around the clitoral and vulva region, providing intense orgasmic relief. Perfect for direct clitoral stimulation or use it to gently...

  • R534

    Sweet Torture by Fifty Shades of Grey are adjustable nipple clamps with a difference. These clamps form part of the Fifty Shades of Grey Weekend Collection and have single speed, vibrating bullets to provide hands-free stimulation. They are made from soft silicone with a slide-to-fit toggle function that won't pinch, making it comfortable to wear and...

  • R1,449
    1 Review

    Inspired by the Fifty Shades of Grey Trilogy, this First Time Bondage Kit is the perfect all inclusive kit for beginners. With the satin tie restraints, satin blindfold, and a faux leather spanking paddle, this set allows you and your partner to explore your boundaries and senses safely and luxuriously. A great combination for a bit of bedroom play. 

  • R599

    This bondage tape set by Fifty Shades of Grey is the perfect restraining tape set for beginners. With it's self-adhesive and reusable qualitites, you are able to design your own make shift harnesses, cuffs, collars and more. With three rolls of tape in black, red and grey colouring, you and your partner are able to explore and delve into soft bondage play.

  • R654
    1 Review

    The Fifty Shades of Grey Spanking Paddle Twitchy Palm is a soft dual sided padded satin and firm faux leather paddle guaranteed to deliver sensational spanking. The dual sided material allows you to vary the intensity of the spank, making this a great sensory accessory to your bondage play.

  • R525
    1 Review

    These Fifty Shades of Grey Soft Limits Satin Restraint Wrist Ties are soft and silky, and perfect for light bondage or beginner play. Restrain your partner and allow their senses to run wild. Use in conjunction with one of our massage candles to enhance the sensory experience.

  • R449

    The Secret Touching Finger Massager by Fifty Shades of Grey is a slim vibe that fits perfectly over your finger for tantalizing pleasure. It is made from silicone and its powerful single speed & soft, textured nubs will intensify every touch. Whether you use it alone, or with your partner, this little vibe will provide you with intense stimulation for...

  • R429

    The Fifty Shades of Grey Restrain Me Bondage Rope is a twin pack of bondage rope measuring at 5m each. Allows the light bondage user the opportunity to indulge in the art of Shibari (restrain play). These ropes are durable, silky in touch, and strong and robust.

  • R1,849

    This Fifty Shades of Grey Relentless Vibrations contoured vibrating love egg allows orgasmic delights when inserted into your vagina. With a remote control, this vibrator allows your partner to join the play at a distance of up to 10m. Featuring a finger loop for easy retrieval, it is waterproof, has 3 speeds & 4 patterns of vibe play. Promises 100...

  • R945

    This Fifty Shades of Grey Pure Pleasure Bullet at a length of 10cm is perfect for precise clitoral stimulation. With it's 3 vibration speeds and 80 minutes of play, this waterproof bullet provides intense orgasms and is perfect for solo or couple play.

  • R454

    These Pleasure Intensified Anal Beads are perfect for beginners. When inserted bit by bit, this chain releases an especially deep sensation. Release them slowly during orgasm to increase your heightened sensations and orgasmic experience. The more slowly they are used, the more intense the experience. Remember to use your favourite lube!

  • R284

    The Fifty Shades of Grey Pleasure and Pain Nipple Rings allow you to experience the insatiable feeling of both pleasure and pain simultaneously. Adorned with beautiful beads to add additional weight, wear one on each nipple by gently opening the ball tips and placing them on either side of your nipple. Perfect for beginners and experts alike, giving you...

  • R675

    The Fifty Shades of Grey Please Sir Flogger is a petite faux leather flogger whip in metallic silver and black. A step up from the feather ticklers and more sensitive floggers, this flogger delivers sharp licks intensifying your senses making it ideal for the more experienced user. 

  • R359
    Out of stock

    Straight out of the Fifty Shades of Grey trilogy, this set of two beautifully venetian inspired masquerade masks allow you to perfectly obscure your identity, making role play and sensory exploration that much more exciting! Made from facially contoured plastic, and featuring a satin ribbon fastener at the back, these embellished eye masks are perfect for...

  • R2,149

    This Fifty Shades of Grey 'Holy Cow' Vibrator, an update of the traditional "Hitachi" wand, at a length of 22.8cm, has a powerful head perfect for either clitoral and vulva stimulation or for a directed body massage. With 8 vibration modes and 60 minutes of play, this waterproof vibrator provides the ultimate in intense orgasmic release. 

  • R2,195

    Inspired by the Fifty Shades of Grey trilogy, this Greedy Girl Rabbit Vibrator, at a length of 24cm, is perfect for both clitoral and g spot stimulation. It's ears rest perfectly on the clitoris whilst the curved end stimulates the g spot directly. Providing 60 minutes of play, this rechargeable vibrator has 3 speeds and 9 vibration patterns, making it...

  • R229

    Sex shouldn’t be satisfying, it should be mindblowing. With this simple and accessible guide to BDSM (bondage, dominance, sadism and masochism) you can turn every night into an erotic fantasy. Sex should set you on fire, so that an unrecognisable shade of yourself comes alive in the smoulder. That’s the Fifty Shades of Grey philosophy...

  • R169

    Fifty Shade of Grey - E.L. James | Book 1

  • R239

    Bored with vanilla sex? Now that a certain bestseller has set imaginations afire, everyone's eager to explore the world of BDSM (bondage, discipline, dominance, submission, sadism, and masochism). Let the fun and games begin, with this sizzling-hot guide to power play! Learn the ropes (literally) of bondage, try titillating torture for a spanking good...

  • R169

    Fifty Shades Darker - E.L.James | Book 3

  • R1,199

    This Fifty Shades Darker Wild Couples Kit is the perfect bondage kit for adventurous play. With a blindfold to heighten senses, wrist cuffs to restrain, a mini flogger to awaken the senses, a vibrating cock ring for dual stimulation, silicone nipple suckers for super sensitive erect nipples, and silicone anal beads to boost orgasmic intensity, this set is...

  • R999

    This Fifty Shades Darker Romantic Couples Kit is the perfect kit for beginners looking for soft bondage play.  With a blindfold to heighten the senses, silky wrist ties for restraint play, a mini feather tickler, a finger vibrator to stimulate, and an adjustable cock ring to prolong foreplay, this set is the perfect mix of non-intimidating, soft,...

  • R1,399

    This 50 Shades Darker Love Ring is an ergonomic, stretchable vibrating cock ring designed to enhance clitoral stimulation for her whilst helping him achieve longer lasting and harder erections. With 8 patterns and 12 speeds this powerful motor offers a whisper quiet vibration. USB rechargeable, 100% waterproof and perfect for the ultimate couple play.

  • R659

    This Fifty Shades Darker pleasure plug has a tapered bulb allowing complete comfort during wear. With a free-roaming internal steel ball which reacts to your body's movements, this plug can be used for either vaginal or anal play adding a jiggling stimulation and arousing at the same time. 100% waterproof and with a satin storage bag, this plug is perfect...

  • R1,899

    The Fifty Shades Darker 'Oh My' Rabbit Vibrator has a smooth contoured shape with ears positioned for the ultimate clitoral stimulation during use. In a natural shape and ergonomically designed shaft, this rabbit is perfect for beginners and experianced users alike. It has two powerful twin motors which offer 8 patterns and 12 powerful speeds. In...

  • R399

    These Fifty Shades Darker Chained Nipple Clamps gently pinch whilst offering pleasure. With a beaded chain which can be tugged for added stimulation, these adjustable nipple clamps are nickel free and contain a silicone tipped clamp providing cushioning comfort. Designed for couple play, these clamps provide you with a completely different sensationary...

  • R699
    1 Review

    This Fifty Shades Darker Glass Pleasure Plug is a cool, temperature responsive plug designed for anal stimulation. Tapered for comfortable insertion, this plug graduates to a bulb which enhances and stimulates your sensations. With a tapered and flared base for safety, this plug is made from shatter resitant borosilicate glass and is 100% safe for anal...

  • R1,799

    This Fifty Shades Darker G Spot Vibrator is the best selling g spot shape designed for smooth insertion, powerful internal stimulation, and ergonomically design stimulation. With two powerful twin motors it has 8 patterns and 12 powerful speeds it provides direct stimulation and powerful orgasms. With it's smooth, dark navy silicone exterior and a...

  • R1,799

    This Fifty Shades Darker Steel G Spot massager is a double ended steel dildo which can be used for stimulating either the G Spot or the P spot. With it's curved design, it has a bulbed tip specifically intended to stimulate the G Spot and a beaded end for direct P Spot stimulation, making this perfect for either him, her or couple play. With it's...

  • R1,399

    This Fifty Shades Darker Clitoral Massager is ergonomically designed in a pebble shape to ensure accurate precision and clitoral stimulation. With it's whisper quiet powerful motor offering 8 patterns and 12 speeds, this USB rechargeable vibrator is 100% waterproof and features a travel lock and satin pouch, making it perfect for travel. It's smooth and...

  • R2,682 R2,877
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    Catering for all-round pleaure, the 'Delicious Tingle' Clitoral Massager by Fifty Shades Darker is ergonomically designed in a pebble shape to ensure accurate precision and clitoral stimulation, while the 'Beyond Erotic' Anal Plug from the same amazing Fifty Shades Darker range is perfect temperature anal play and hands free use. The Wicked Ultra Chill'...

  • R299

    This Fifty Shades Darker Bondage Bow Tie is designed to work as a bow tie but also doubles up as a bondage item, whether it be a blindfold, wrist or ankle tie. Perfect addition for discreet bondage play.

  • R1,099

    This Fifty Shades Darker Anal Plug is made from medical grade steel providing perfect temperature anal play and hands free use. With it's tapered tip and flared base, play is simple, safe, and can be used for comfortable and prolonged wear. Designed for both men and women, this plug is supplied with a satin storage bag and is perfect for travel.

  • R299

    This Fifty Shades Darker Beaded Clitoral Clamp provides the most exquisite pinch. Intensifying solo play, foreplay, and sex, this clamp increases blood flow to the sensitive nerve endings of the clitoris providing you with the most intense sensations. Nickle free and with weighted beads to keep it steady, this clamp comes with a satin storage bag.

  • R1,299
    1 Review

    This Fifty Shades Darker 7 piece Advanced Couples Kit is the perfect bondage kit for couples that are used to bondage play. With a blindfold to heighten the senses, rope for multiple position restraint, bondage tape for simple tie up play, a mini paddle to stimulate senses, a bullet vibrator, a vibrating cock ring to enhance foreplay, and a silicone anal...

  • R399

    This Fifty Shades Darker Pinwheel is a simple design intended for all levels of sensory experimentation. With 22 spokes, use the metal pinwheel by rolling it gently on the body to add a thrilling sensory play leaving your partner guessing and wanting more.

  • R169

    Fifty Shades Darker - E.L. James | Book 2

  • R1,035

    'Beyond Aroused' by Fifty Shades of Grey is a quality kegel set that includes a harness, 4 solid silicone balls of varying weights and a red satin storage bag. These varying weights make this kegel exerciser customizable, offering you 6 different weight combinations. This is perfect for those new to kegel exercise and allows you to gradually work your way...

  • R2,517 R2,797
    Reduced price!

    There is nothing better than a little sensual play with your partner. Pair up the Fifty Shades Darker Oh My Rabbit vibrator with the Bijoux Plasir Nacre handcuffs and you are ready for an evening of sensual pleasures! Taking care of your toys is just as important and the Wicked Foam 'n Fresh toy cleaner is the perfect product to do just that....

  • R599

    The Fifty Days of Play boardgame, taking inspiration from the Fifty Shades of Grey trilogy, is a sexy adult game for couples who are looking to spice things up. With 50 envelopes in a multitude of colours and 1 dice with corresponding coloured dots, you aim to throw the dice and open the relating coloured envelope. Following the instructions across five...

  • R519

    This Fifty Shades of Grey Feel It Baby Vibrating Cock Ring is designed specifically for couple play. The snug fit of the cock ring allows him an enhanced and longer lasting erection, whilst the vibrators from the single speed device powerfully stimulates and vibrates her clitoris and the top of his shaft at the same time, allowing both partners to...

  • R654
    1 Review

    Fifty Shades of Grey Delicious Pleasure Ben Wa Balls have two weighted balls, encased in soft silicone. When inserted, the balls move inside you, stimulating your G Spot, providing you with hours of pleasure. These can also be used to enhance your sexual health by using them as Kegel exercises to tone your pelvic floor muscles, allowing you extend the...

  • R674

    This Delicious Fullness Vibrating Butt plug provides the most sensual vibrations to your nerve sensitive anal area. Perfect for both men & women. The initial tapered design helps for insertion, while the thin neck keeps the butt plug in place so that it stays in place. Its fullness adds intensity into the orgasmic experience. Use...

  • R1,435

    Based on the incredibly successful Fifty Shades of Grey Trilogy, this Deep Within Luxury Vibrator at a length of 22cm, is perfect for intense G Spot stimulation. It has 3 speeds, is waterproof, and can be used externally to stimulate the clitoris for a more targeted stimulation, providing intense orgasms. Packaged in a beautiful Fifty Shades of Grey satin...

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