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SEXY BONDAGE TOYS TIP THE BALANCE OF POWER IN FAVOUR OF ANTICIPATION, EXHILARATION AND SURRENDER.

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Discover our sensual range of sexy bondage toys, deliberately selected to improve modern BDSM play between couples with a taste for tipping power dynamics in the bedroom. Enjoy pushing the limits of abandon with our bondage gear, like the restraints & ties, bondage kits, blindfolds, whips and paddles on offer – sure to set your bedroom games on fire.

Submit to more risk and thrills in your relationship with our range of sexy bondage toys.

Give In To a New Kind of Power Play

Sexy bondage has recently become a mainstream concern, thanks to writers like EL James of the 50 Shades series. Also called ‘ligotage’ this form of bedroom play is a milder, softer version of extreme BDSM play (bondage, dominance, submission, sadomasochism).


This new type of light bondage does not necessarily have anything to do with sadomasochism, even though many similar instruments and toys are used during play. Many couples are realizing that subtle power play can be a very arousing bedroom pursuit.


Often pleasure is derived from these power dynamics, as the lover that is tied up is forced into a vulnerable position, which can be exhilarating to experience. The lover performing the sexy bondage will gain visual pleasure from having so much control over their partner. Your choice of bondage sex toys will dictate how light or intense the experience gets.


Bondage toys don’t have to be hard-core and uncomfortable, in fact most in our range are silk-lined, luxury items that add to the sensual couple’s experience. With this kind of light bondage gear, the limits are only as high as your imagination is broad.

Surrender To These Bondage Games

At Désir, we have selected only the best sexy bondage toys for you to enjoy. Choose from our variety of restraints & ties that come in leather, metal or silk materials. We also have soft rope restraints and fluffy handcuffs for ultra-motivated couples.


Outside of the basic ‘bonds’ we also have collar & leash packs for exciting role playing possibilities, and a broad selection of whips & paddles made from leather or silk, depending on your personal preference.


Some great additions to any sexy bondage play include masks & blindfolds to heighten the sensory experience of being restrained and teased, or a set of ticklers to ensure that every second of the game is memorable and arousing.


For the couples that have gone from light to moderate bondage, there is also a comprehensive range of nipple clamps and harnesses to add to your growing repertoire of delightful power plays.


No matter what your bondage gear requirements may be, Désir has made sure that every need is covered, from the soft silk mysteries of the novice, to the hard leather punishments of the pro; every couple will find what they are looking for in our online store.


Browse the most powerful range of sexy bondage toys available online in South Africa, and honour yourself exactly how you want to this year. Warning: Thrills ahead!

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  • R299

    These fluffy pink handcuffs are the perfect accessory to light bondage play. With the pink playful fur, these handcuffs can be used as either wrist or ankle restraints. With removeable fur, these handcuffs are easy to clean and are diverse enough to be used for either male or female play. Remember to play safely!

  • R535

    Sweet Torture by Fifty Shades of Grey are adjustable nipple clamps with a difference. These clamps form part of the Fifty Shades of Grey Weekend Collection and have single speed, vibrating bullets to provide hands-free stimulation. They are made from soft silicone with a slide-to-fit toggle function that won't pinch, making it comfortable to wear and...

  • R2,285

    Tantus' Bend Over Beginner Strap on Kit is the perfect way to explore strap-on sex. With two smooth 100% Ultra-Premium Silicone dildos, the Small and Medium, this kit comes with a velvet harness that is comfortable, adjustable (fits up to 60” hips), and machine washable. With a one touch vibrator (that uses 1 X 1.5 V N Type...

  • R829

    Looking to stimulate all erotic zones at the same time? The Spartacus Nipple and Clitoral tweezer style clamps do just that! By stimulating each erotic zone, you are able to increase the intensity of your orgasm allowing your entire body to share in the sensory overload. Three rubber tipped clamps are easily adjusted by simply sliding the steel ring...

  • R775

    This beautiful harness is made from 100% PVC, comes with 2 x rubber hold rings and can accomodate any dildo with a flared base. It is fully adjustable and will fit up to 152cm waist. This comfortable harness is perfect for beginners & experts alike!

  • R689

    Bijoux Wanderlust Aphrodisia travel size gift pack. Bijoux Wanderlust Aphrodisia gift pack is a travel size pack of massage oil, body mist, arousal creme, feather tickler and two satin handcuffs. Perfect for travel.

  • R100

    Desir Intimate Collection: White Satin Eye Mask. A soft Satin Eye Mask in draw string satin bag, to enhance your senses or ensure a perfect slumber.

  • R2,609

    The Indulge me Pleasure Set from Lelo is the ultimate addition to the bedroom when it comes to indulging in those intense, intimate moments. This pleasure set has a silk INTIMA blindfold and a feather tickler to heighten your partner's senses. To top it off, a Lelo Noa Couples Massager is included to turn your experience into a memorable one, allowing you...

  • R3,235

    Lelo's Bridal Pleasure Set is perfect for the bride to be, the perfect honeymoon gift, or for countless nights of passion. All in white, this set contains a sensual pearl studded silk blindfold, a teaser whip ring of soft suede, and most importantly the Noa couples vibrator - to be worn by the woman during lovemaking. 

  • R1,199

    This Happily Ever After Set is the perfect pleasure gift for the bride to be or for Honeymoon play. Consisting of a satin garter with bow, satin handcuffs, self adhesive nipple pasties, and an exotic feather tickler, this gift set is beautifully wrapped and promises a night of sensual pleasure.

  • R359

    Straight out of the Fifty Shades of Grey trilogy, this set of two beautifully venetian inspired masquerade masks allow you to perfectly obscure your identity, making role play and sensory exploration that much more exciting! Made from facially contoured plastic, and featuring a satin ribbon fastener at the back, these embellished eye masks are perfect for...

  • R995

    This Lux Fetish Door Slam Love Swing allows you to turn any standard door into a versatile and thrilling sex swing. Perfect for helping you and your partner discover different angles and positions to add to your repertoire. Simply shut the cuff loops into the door frame and use the fully adjustable straps to position you comfortably. Can hold a maximum...

  • R599

    This Lux Fetish Hog Tie Set is a BDSM couple's dream. Take full control of your partner while they're secured in positions that you and they never thought possible. With all four adjustable cuffs meeting at a center point, connected by rings and swiveling connector clasps, you are able to control and move positions according to your taste. Cuffs can...

  • R1,345

    This Fifty Shades of Grey Under the Bed Hard Restraints Kit transforms your bedroom into a bondage playground. Ideal for beginners, this bedroom bondage set can be used to create a full body restraint that's quick and easy to secure. 

  • R565

    The Fifty Shades of Grey Spanking Paddle Twitchy Palm is a soft dual sided padded satin and firm faux leather paddle guaranteed to deliver sensational spanking. The dual sided material allows you to vary the intensity of the spank, making this a great sensory accessory to your bondage play.

  • R199 R279
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    The Fifty Shades of Grey Spank Me Please Spanking Ruler at a length of 40.6cm is straight out of this explosive trilogy.The smooth and flexible wooden ruler allows the user to discover the eroticism behind spanking. 

  • R199

    The Fifty Shades of Grey Soft No Peeking Blindfold comes in a twin pack offering you glamorous opaque soft eye masks for both him and her. With an elasticated strap, these are perfect for sensory play. Use in conjunction with one of our massage candles to provide you with the perfect sensory experience.

  • R495

    These Fifty Shades of Grey Soft Limits Satin Restraint Wrist Ties are soft and silky, and perfect for light bondage or beginner play. Restrain your partner and allow their senses to run wild. Use in conjunction with one of our massage candles to enhance the sensory experience.

  • R284

    The Fifty Shades of Grey Pleasure and Pain Nipple Rings allow you to experience the insatiable feeling of both pleasure and pain simultaneously. Adorned with beautiful beads to add additional weight, wear one on each nipple by gently opening the ball tips and placing them on either side of your nipple. Perfect for beginners and experts alike, giving you...

  • R675

    The Fifty Shades of Grey Please Sir Flogger is a petite faux leather flogger whip in metallic silver and black. A step up from the feather ticklers and more sensitive floggers, this flogger delivers sharp licks intensifying your senses making it ideal for the more experienced user. 

  • R559

    This Lux Fetish Pretty in Pink Strap-On Harness is perfect for beginners wanting to experience the pleasures of the role-reversal and domination. With it's sturdy rubber O rings is compatible with most flared base dildos. With fully adjustable 4 way straps fitting up to a 152cm hip measurement, it provides you with a comfortable fit. With a pink...

  • R499

    This Lux Fetish Strap-On Harness is perfect for beginners wanting to experience the pleasures of the role-reversal and domination. With it's sturdy rubber O rings is compatible with most flared base dildos. With it's fully adjustable 4 way straps fitting up to 152cm hip measurement, it give you a custom fit, allowing you to take full control. 

  • R2,999

    Tantus' Bend Over Intermediate Strap on Kit is the perfect way to explore strap-on sex. With two smooth 100% Ultra-Premium Silicone dildos, the Medium and Large Silk, this kit comes with a velvet harness that is comfortable, adjustable (fits up to 60” hips), and machine washable. With a one touch vibrator fitting snugly on the pouch on the front of...

  • R3,199

    The CB-6000 Male Chastity Device is a new and innovative design in male chastities, which offers the ultimate in both comfort and security. Used for couple or bondage play, chastities allow you to postpone his pleasure, providing the key holder the ultimate power in unleashing his orgasmic pleasure. Made of medically graded material allowing for long term...

  • R399

    These Bijoux Za Za Zu Feather Handcuffs are made from soft marabou feathers and the combination of soft feather & cold chain creates an incredible mix of sensations. Bunch up the cuffs and use them to caress and tease your partner, alternating between feathers & chain. Let your partner restrain you, letting your senses dictate the game.

  • R268

    This Bijoux PomPom Feather Tickler is the perfect accessory to your bedtime sensory experience. With a tiny balled handle, these black feathers are perfect for stroking, tickling, touching, and tempting. Perfect for adding a sensory experience to your bedtime play.

  • R219

    The Bijoux Blindfold is a glamorous opaque, soft, and padded eye mask which allows you to heighten your senses during orgasmic play. 

  • R2,229

    The LELO Dare Me Pleasure Set in seductive black, includes a soft tasseled SENSUA Suede whip,ETHEREA Silk Cuffs, and the popular Luna Beads Mini Noir, all bringing an exciting new dimension to foreplay. Gift set comes with a gift card and black satin storage pouch, creating an erotically shared pleasure fantasy together. 

  • R279

    The Fifty Shades of Grey Tease Feather Tickler strokes and teases your partner's body into submission. Perfect for beginner play and enhancing you senses.

  • R559

    The Bijoux Plasir Nacre Handcuffs are designed in a beautiful pearl finish of either black or white pearl, and are a more rigid handcuff. Use these to beautifully adorn your favourite lingerie enticing your partner to heighten your senses and practice a little bit of control.

  • R225

    This 20m vinyl bondage tape is perfect for those looking to expand their sexual horizons when it comes to BDSM. It can be used to create restraints or harnesses - use your imagination. It adheres only to itself without sticking to your skin for a comfortable, yet exhilirating encounter.

  • R489
    1 Review

    The Lux Fetish Closet Cuffs are the perfect bondage and restraint accessory providing you with the ultimate control. Place these fully adjustable and easily assembled straps over the doors, locking your partner in submission and play. Perfect for beginners and experienced users alike.

  • R1,149

    The Lelo Tantra Sensua Whip provides a more stylish addition and daring approach to your bondage bedroom play. With soft suede tassels, this sensua whip allows you to vary the intensity of each blow, from softly sensual for awakening your senses to the more experienced and direct sting. Perfect for that erotic and suggestive gift.

  • R429

    These Lux Fetish Faux Fur Ankle Cuffs are perfect for restraining your partner, whilst letting them still play with their hands. Featuring a lock and chain, these ankle restraints are fully adjustable and are made of premium steel clips. The comfortable faux fur makes wearing them comfortable, allowing you to focus on the intense pleasure of being...

  • R399

    The Bijoux Satin Frou Frou Handcuffs are made of sophisticated organza and satin. Perfect for beginner bondage play or simply a way to enhance your orgasmic sensory experience. Tie your partners hands up for an all intensified sensory controlled experience.  Team up with beautiful lingerie for overall sensuality.

  • R414

    The Fifty Shades of Grey Restrain Me Bondage Rope is a twin pack of bondage rope measuring at 5m each. Allows the light bondage user the opportunity to indulge in the art of Shibari (restrain play). These ropes are durable, silky in touch, and strong and robust.

  • R415

    These Pinch Adjustable weighted Nipple Clamps are straight out of the Fifty Shades of Grey explosion and provide for the ultimate in intense sensory overload of pleasure and pain. Perfect for beginners and experts alike, you can adjust the pinch according to your own taste with the adjustable pressure escalating your sensitivity - providing you with an...

  • R1,399
    1 Review

    Inspired by the Fifty Shades of Grey Trilogy, this First Time Bondage Kit is the perfect all inclusive kit for beginners. With the satin tie restraints, satin blindfold, and a faux leather spanking paddle, this set allows you and your partner to explore your boundaries and senses safely and luxuriously. A great combination for a bit of bedroom play. 

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