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Bondage is one of the most popular activities in the BDSM world, and has seen such a steep increase in popularity that the products now offer a far wider assortment than traditionally available.From restraints and handcuffs to whips and paddles, your bondage collection includes a multitude of dominance and submission pieces - with the most popular being the art of restraint.

Physical Restraints

With restraining being the most traditional form of bondage and discipline, the easiest way to restrain someone is to use restraints, cuffs & ties.While they do have their place in a Naughty Cop roleplay, we advise against using actual handcuffs, as they can easily hurt the wearer in not-so-sexy ways. The best cuffs are the soft-lined leather or faux leather cuffs, or even neoprene cuffs. These are usually joined by detachable chains or cords.


Bed restraint kits are very handy, as they have cords designed to fit under your mattress with cuffs extending out at four corners for wrists and ankles. They’re adjustable for all bed sizes (and person sizes) and can provide a real sense of full restraint without too much fuss.


If you’re interested in Shibari – the Japanese art of rope bondage – you’ll find plenty of information about it on the internet. You might even be lucky enough to find a local class if you live in a big city. Shibari has even made its way into the fashion world, with dresses adorned with diamonds and criss-crosses of elegant coloured rope. The best rope to use for Shibari is simple cotton sash cord (easily available at your local hardware store) or treated jute or hemp rope. Remember to get yourself a decent pair of safety shears if you’re planning to tie your partner up, just in case you need to cut them loose in a hurry. You don’t need a lot of knowledge to do some basic restraint ties with rope – just find a decent tutorial on YouTube and watch carefully. But don’t try complicated things like suspending your partner from the ceiling, as this can really be asking for trouble.


Whips and Paddles

If you visit a BDSM party, you’ll hear a lot of talk about impact play. This is basically when someone is smacked with an implement, whether it’s a hand (and who doesn’t like a little spanking from time to time?), cane, whip or paddle.


Paddles are great if you’re just getting started or are interested in more vanilla sex. They make a good whacking noise, and can feel quite heavy on the receiving end, but they’re unlikely to do any damage and are easy to hit accurately with.


Whips and crops can be a little more tricky, and you need to be careful not to hit in danger spots like the stomach or lower back. They can hurt quite a lot – it’s a stingy sort of pain – and leave bruises, so start gently and always consider the receiver. They’re still easier to manage and less likely to do major damage than canes or bigger whips can.


Remember, with all kinky play it’s important to have a safe word and to respect what your partner needs. If the play isn’t working for them, you must stop. Safe words are usually different to ‘no’ because in some kinds of kinky play a partner might want to be able to say ‘No’, ‘Don’t’ or ‘Stop’ as part of a role-play, without having you actually stop. So you want to choose a safe word that they can use only if they actually really want you to stop.


Nipple Clamps

Nipple play is an exciting part of sensory bondage play. Nipple clamps are applied to the nipples to cut off blood flow to that area. When they are removed, blood flow returns and the sensitivity of the nipples is greatly heightened. Depending on the tightness of the clamps, they may be fairly comfortable to wear or increasingly painful. Some nipple clamps are joined by a chain which may be decorative and also handy for a partner to tug on to increase sensation. For beginners, adjustable clamps or tweezer clamps are the easiest to work with. Clover Clamps have a mechanism that makes them particularly tight, and they are often the clamp of choice for sado-masochistic play.


Be aware, when removing nipple clamps, that the wearer may experience sharp pain. Make sure to take the clamps off quickly and not have them slip and clamp down again.


Masks

Masks & blindfolds used in BDSM play are not the frilly masks intended to conceal the wearer’s identity, however often those might appear on the covers of erotic novels. They are more like sleep masks, or blindfolds, intended to block the wearer’s sight. He or she is then more aware of sensation, as their dominant partner teases them with ticklers, toys, or whips. For some people, this is a highly erotic experience, while for others it’s a bit more scary. Either way, you can play with the feelings to create an intense sensual experience.


Ticklers

Ticklers are usually made of a bunch of light feathers at the end of a stick, and can be used to tease and titillate your partner’s body. These sex toyss are popular in kinky sensation play, especially if the receiving partner is masked or blindfolded. Light, quick touch or dragging the feathers along an erogenous zone may have different responses. Take your time and enjoy exploring how your partner enjoys the sensations.


Strap-On Harnesses

Strap-on harnesses allow a person to wear the dildo of their choice in order to penetrate a partner via strap on sex. Pegging, in which a woman penetrates her male partner anally, can be an incredibly intimate and pleasurable experience for both partners.


The harness has an o-shaped ring at the front, through which the dildo is inserted, pointing outward. The harness is then strapped around the wearer’s hips and upper thighs and adjusted for best fit. Some harnesses have a pocket type space behind the o-ring which can hold a bullet vibrator against the clitoris of the wearer.


You can also find some harnesses designed for men to wear so that they can use a dildo and the penis for double penetration of a female partner’s vagina and anus. These are a bit harder to find.


Whatever your preference, bondage within the bdsm community relates specifically to the feeling of the temporary transfer of control and power and the ability to gain pleasure from the restrained partner’s submission. Many couples incorporate bondage into their sex lives, whether it be through the form of a sex game or a sexual fantasy enactment.


Remember, bondage is safer when conducted between trusted partners who respect each other’s boundaries and fully understand the risks involved and precautions necessary to ensure informed consent and safety. Your BDSM activities should never cause you any harm, pain, or excessive discomfort and any sexual act should be considered consensual.


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Bondage Rope 15m - BS Atelier
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Bondage Rope 15m - BS Atelier

BO DP 7420000010237
R599 R749
This BS Atelier bondage rope is made from 100% natural cotton and has been designed for ultimate comfort and control during light bondage play. Measuring in at 15 meters, this rope includes a user manual designed by Rosa Navarro, featuring various easy to master bondage rope techniques that allow you to practice the sensual art form of Shibari, a form of...
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Remote Controlled Dildo & Harness Set - Pegasus

BO D4890808228296
R2,639 R3,299
This strap-on set by Pegasus features a 15cm dildo coupled with an adjustable harness - perfect for couples looking to experience pegging. Featuring a naturally curved shaft, the firm yet flexible body-safe dildo has been designed with three raised waves along the length of the shaft as well as a realistically shaped glans to provide added stimulation...
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Luxury 6 Piece Bondage Set - EasyToys

EasyToys
EDC ET377BLK
R1,519 R1,899
Enjoy the art of full body restraint and light bondage play with this luxuriously crafted 6 piece bondage set by EasyToys. If you are new to the world of light bondage play, then this is the set for you. Consisting of two handcuffs, two ankle cuffs, a blindfold, and a tickler you have everything you need to become acquainted with BDSM. Designed using...
Harness Deluxe - RealRock
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Harness Deluxe - RealRock

REA047
R679 R849
This deluxe premium harness by RealRock is an elasticated strap-on harness that is both comfortable and luxurious in design. With 2 insertable rings (small 5cm diameter and medium 5.8cm diameter) you are able to use this strap-on harness with any dildo measuring up to 5.8cm in size. Made from leather and elastic straps, this one-size-fits-most harness...
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Red Dragon Secret Pleasure Chest - LoveBox

LoveBox
LBX406
R1,439 R1,799
The Secret Pleasure Bondage Chest is the ultimate LoveBox featuring high quality PU Leather, stainless steel, and cotton light bondage products.Featuring 7 premium bondage items, this box is perfect for those looking for an all inclusive gift box that contains high quality, premium, and luxury bondage items that are designed for longevity and are hard...
Wicked WildCat Secret...
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Wicked WildCat Secret Pleasure Chest - LoveBox

LoveBox
LBX405
R1,359 R1,699
The Secret Pleasure Bondage Chest is the ultimate LoveBox featuring high quality PU Leather, stainless steel, and cotton light bondage products. Featuring 8 premium bondage items, this box is perfect for those looking for an all inclusive gift box that contains high quality, premium, and luxury bondage items that are designed for longevity and are hard...
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Single Ended Four Piece Dilator Sounding Set - Sinner Gear

Sinner Gear
SIN176
R719 R899
This dilator set by Sinner Gear is a 4 piece dilator set designed for men and women and is specifically intended for experienced users. Urethral sounding involves inserting an intimate product into the urethra - the tube in the penis or vagina that drains urine from the bladder. Known as a medical procedure to remove obstructions from the urethra,...
Tantra Feather Pleaser - LELO
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Tantra Feather Pleaser - LELO

Lelo
BO DP 7350022271470
R649 R779
The LELO Tantra feather pleaser is a gorgeous combination of down feathers and a polished metal and acrylic handle. Designed to tease and heighten your senses, this feather tickler is perfect for light bondage sensory play. Combine it with a soft and seductive blindfold, or if you are feeling a little more adventurous a pair of handcuffs.
Fetish Extreme Nipple Weights - Pipedream
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Fetish Extreme Nipple Weights - Pipedream

NippleWeights
R559 R699
These nipple weights by Pipedream are heavy duty weights designed for advanced or more adventurous users. Each alligator-style nipple clamp is attached to a round metal weight that features grooves on it's base. For more weight to your clamp, simply screw the additional weight onto the base of the previous and you will immediately sense the increase in...
Fantasy Latex Full Penis Sleeve - Fantasy
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Fantasy Latex Full Penis Sheath- Fantasy

BO DP 7630009710810
R308 R385
This Latex Bondage styled penis sleeve is a fetish type penis sleeve designed to both stimulate and heighten your orgasms.In full latex, this BDSM type sleeve ensures slippery, and stimulating penetration whilst offering the wearer a snug and restrictive fit. Simply slide over your shaft with your favourite water-based lubricant and enjoy the feeling of...
Wearable Penis & Ball Sheath - Oxballs
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Wearable Penis & Ball Sheath - Oxballs

Oxballs
BO DP 840215118905 /8899
R1,039 R1,299
This amazing SackJack Penis Sleeve by Oxballs is an award winning penis sleeve that doubles up as a ballsling and a penis enhancer giving you a stronger shaft, a visual impact, and more intense orgasms.Worn over your penis and testicles, this sleeve features textures, nubs, and ridges on the inside giving you intense pleasure on your shaft, whilst the...
The Curve Male Chastity Cage - Erotic Love Toys
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The Curve Male Chastity Cage - Erotic Love Toys

BO DP 94922298577
R2,799 R3,499
The Curve Male Chastity Cage by Erotic Love Toys is a cage designed for men with a larger size requiring all-day control.With it's ergonomical design, this chastity device is specificaly designed to be worn underneath your clothes, allowing you to submit to all-day control and resistance. With three rings that interlock together for a secure fit, this...
Latex Penis, Cock & Ball Sleeve - Fantasy
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Latex Penis, Cock & Ball Cuff Harness - Fantasy

BO DP 7630009710742
R335 R419
This latex penis and cock sleeve by Fantasy is a tight fitting penis cuff designed to enhance your bondage play or assist with symptoms related to erectile dysfunction.Made from a high quality latex material, the cuff fits over the base of the shaft of your penis with the cuff fitting securely around your testicles. With a built in ball splitter, the...
Breathable Ball Gag - Lux Fetish
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Breathable Ball Gag - Lux Fetish

Lux Fetish
BO DP 4890808139653
R303 R379
This breathable ball gag by Lux Fetish combines comfort and traditional BDSM thanks to it's body safe materials, metal hardware, and adjustable straps.With holes throughout the diameter of the ball, you have piece of mind to be able to breathe comfortably, whilst the polyurethan material and silver metal hardware gives you the traditional BDSM look and...
Leather Flogger - Lux Fetish
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Leatherette Flogger - Lux Fetish

Lux Fetish
BO DP 489088132678
R319 R399
This leatherette flogger by Lux Fetish is a versatile flogger that offers a dual purpose of both tickler and flogger.With it's 60cm leatherette tassles, this flogger has a leather grip and wrist strap that give you ultimate control and dominance over your submissive. Use it to lightly run the tassles over their body or to direct pleasure and pain to where...
Faux Fur Leatherette Cuffs - Lux Fetish
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Faux Fur Leatherette Cuffs - Lux Fetish

Lux Fetish
BO DP 4890808110515
R479 R599
These sexy faux fur cuffs by Lux Fetish are a versatile set of unisex cuffs perfect for either ankle or wrist restraint.With a sturdy leatherette material, the inner of the cuffs promise a soft, faux fur finish that give your submissive comfort whilst being restrained. With a completely adjustable buckle detail, the cuffs can be tightened or loosened...
3 Piece Neck & Wrist Restraint Set - Lux Fetish
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Three Piece Neck & Wrist Restraint Set - Lux Fetish

Lux Fetish
BO DP 4890808085134
R879 R1,099
If you are a BDSM enthusiast looking for light bondage gear designed for ultimate control and dominance, the three piece neck and wrist restraining set by Lux Fetish is perfect.With soft padded cuffs and neck strap, classic stainless steel O-rings, and fully adjustable neck and wrist positioning points, this versatile bondage device allows you to add a...
Buck Dich Spanking Paddle & Dildo - Fun Factory
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Buck Dich Spanking Paddle & Dildo - Fun Factory

Fun factory
BO DP 4032498962030
R1,299 R1,499
The Buck Dich 2-in-1 toy by Fun Factory is a kinky play toy that offers extreme pleasure for couples or for solo play.With a silicone paddle on one end and a curved shaped dildo on the other, you can combine the exciting experience of sensory play combined with intense p-spot or g-spot massage. Made from 100% body safe materials, this super soft silicone...
Bed Spreader - Lux Fetish
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Bed Spreader - Lux Fetish

Lux Fetish
BO DP 4890808042823
R1,039 R1,299
This luxury bed spreader by Lux Fetish is a versatile restraint kit that allows you to explore gentle restraint and light bondage play.Fitting just about any bed, this spreader features sturdy, extra length straps that fit underneath your mattress, headboard, or frame. With four soft neoprene cuffs, you are able to connect your straps to the sturdy swivel...
Fetish Collar & Leash - Lux Fetish
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Fetish Collar & Leash - Lux Fetish

Lux Fetish
BO DP 4890808042847
R343 R429
This collar and leash set by Lux Fetish is perfect for submissive and control light bondage play.Fully adjustable for maximum comfort, the collar has quality velcro fastening allowing for secure play and easy removal. With it's black unisex design, complimented with silver rings, this collar features a detachable leash of 1.5m. Use your collar and leash...
Bathmate Hydro Rocket Douche - Bathmate
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Bathmate Hydro Rocket Douche - Bathmate

Bathmate
BO DP 5060140200819
R599 R749
The Bathmate Hydro Rocket Douche is a personal hygiene device designed to be used in your shower and as a compliment to your personal hygiene routine.With an ergonomically designed shape, the easy to squeeze bulb holds up to 325ml of warm water and features an innovative non-return valve which prevents water from returning back to the bulb, thereby...
Inflatable Positioning Wedge - Steamy Shades
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Inflatable Positioning Wedge - Steamy Shades

Steamy Shades
BO DP 4041937579197
R359 R449
The Steamy Shades Inflatable pillow is the perfect accessory for adventurous positioning, stimulation and pleasure.With it's reinforced seams, this pillow is durable and sturdy. Easy to inflate and deflate, it is easy to store and reusable. With it's non-slippage exterior this pillow is the perfect sex position aid.
Wrist to Ankle Cuffs - Steamy Shades
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Wrist to Ankle Cuffs - Steamy Shades

Steamy Shades
BO DP 041937579067
R719 R899
The Wrist to Ankle cuffs by Steamy Shades are a unique set of adjustable cuffs that allow you to position your partner into a multitude of positions including the HogTie.In a gorgeous black and grey design, these cuffs feature a secure hook and loop velcro closure. Simply attach them securely to the wrists, adjust the velcro strap as tight or as loose as...
Under the Bed Ties - Steamy Shades
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Under the Bed Ties - Steamy Shades

Steamy Shades
BO DP 4041937579104
R1,039 R1,299
These Under the Bed ties by Steamy Shades fit any bed and tuck underneath your mattress for full body restraint.Adjusting to fit any bed easily, these ties have a strap to the center that connect the restraints and a D-ring for effortless setup. With satin ties that feature a delicate printed overlay, these restraints are comfortable to wear, soft to the...
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