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Bondage is one of the most popular activities in the BDSM world, and has seen such a steep increase in popularity that the products now offer a far wider assortment than traditionally available.From restraints and handcuffs to whips and paddles, your bondage collection includes a multitude of dominance and submission pieces - with the most popular being the art of restraint.

Physical Restraints

With restraining being the most traditional form of bondage and discipline, the easiest way to restrain someone is to use restraints, cuffs & ties.While they do have their place in a Naughty Cop roleplay, we advise against using actual handcuffs, as they can easily hurt the wearer in not-so-sexy ways. The best cuffs are the soft-lined leather or faux leather cuffs, or even neoprene cuffs. These are usually joined by detachable chains or cords.


Bed restraint kits are very handy, as they have cords designed to fit under your mattress with cuffs extending out at four corners for wrists and ankles. They’re adjustable for all bed sizes (and person sizes) and can provide a real sense of full restraint without too much fuss.


If you’re interested in Shibari – the Japanese art of rope bondage – you’ll find plenty of information about it on the internet. You might even be lucky enough to find a local class if you live in a big city. Shibari has even made its way into the fashion world, with dresses adorned with diamonds and criss-crosses of elegant coloured rope. The best rope to use for Shibari is simple cotton sash cord (easily available at your local hardware store) or treated jute or hemp rope. Remember to get yourself a decent pair of safety shears if you’re planning to tie your partner up, just in case you need to cut them loose in a hurry. You don’t need a lot of knowledge to do some basic restraint ties with rope – just find a decent tutorial on YouTube and watch carefully. But don’t try complicated things like suspending your partner from the ceiling, as this can really be asking for trouble.


Whips and Paddles

If you visit a BDSM party, you’ll hear a lot of talk about impact play. This is basically when someone is smacked with an implement, whether it’s a hand (and who doesn’t like a little spanking from time to time?), cane, whip or paddle.


Paddles are great if you’re just getting started or are interested in more vanilla sex. They make a good whacking noise, and can feel quite heavy on the receiving end, but they’re unlikely to do any damage and are easy to hit accurately with.


Whips and crops can be a little more tricky, and you need to be careful not to hit in danger spots like the stomach or lower back. They can hurt quite a lot – it’s a stingy sort of pain – and leave bruises, so start gently and always consider the receiver. They’re still easier to manage and less likely to do major damage than canes or bigger whips can.


Remember, with all kinky play it’s important to have a safe word and to respect what your partner needs. If the play isn’t working for them, you must stop. Safe words are usually different to ‘no’ because in some kinds of kinky play a partner might want to be able to say ‘No’, ‘Don’t’ or ‘Stop’ as part of a role-play, without having you actually stop. So you want to choose a safe word that they can use only if they actually really want you to stop.


Nipple Clamps

Nipple play is an exciting part of sensory bondage play. Nipple clamps are applied to the nipples to cut off blood flow to that area. When they are removed, blood flow returns and the sensitivity of the nipples is greatly heightened. Depending on the tightness of the clamps, they may be fairly comfortable to wear or increasingly painful. Some nipple clamps are joined by a chain which may be decorative and also handy for a partner to tug on to increase sensation. For beginners, adjustable clamps or tweezer clamps are the easiest to work with. Clover Clamps have a mechanism that makes them particularly tight, and they are often the clamp of choice for sado-masochistic play.


Be aware, when removing nipple clamps, that the wearer may experience sharp pain. Make sure to take the clamps off quickly and not have them slip and clamp down again.


Masks

Masks & blindfolds used in BDSM play are not the frilly masks intended to conceal the wearer’s identity, however often those might appear on the covers of erotic novels. They are more like sleep masks, or blindfolds, intended to block the wearer’s sight. He or she is then more aware of sensation, as their dominant partner teases them with ticklers, toys, or whips. For some people, this is a highly erotic experience, while for others it’s a bit more scary. Either way, you can play with the feelings to create an intense sensual experience.


Ticklers

Ticklers are usually made of a bunch of light feathers at the end of a stick, and can be used to tease and titillate your partner’s body. These sex toyss are popular in kinky sensation play, especially if the receiving partner is masked or blindfolded. Light, quick touch or dragging the feathers along an erogenous zone may have different responses. Take your time and enjoy exploring how your partner enjoys the sensations.


Strap-On Harnesses

Strap-on harnesses allow a person to wear the dildo of their choice in order to penetrate a partner via strap on sex. Pegging, in which a woman penetrates her male partner anally, can be an incredibly intimate and pleasurable experience for both partners.


The harness has an o-shaped ring at the front, through which the dildo is inserted, pointing outward. The harness is then strapped around the wearer’s hips and upper thighs and adjusted for best fit. Some harnesses have a pocket type space behind the o-ring which can hold a bullet vibrator against the clitoris of the wearer.


You can also find some harnesses designed for men to wear so that they can use a dildo and the penis for double penetration of a female partner’s vagina and anus. These are a bit harder to find.


Whatever your preference, bondage within the bdsm community relates specifically to the feeling of the temporary transfer of control and power and the ability to gain pleasure from the restrained partner’s submission. Many couples incorporate bondage into their sex lives, whether it be through the form of a sex game or a sexual fantasy enactment.


Remember, bondage is safer when conducted between trusted partners who respect each other’s boundaries and fully understand the risks involved and precautions necessary to ensure informed consent and safety. Your BDSM activities should never cause you any harm, pain, or excessive discomfort and any sexual act should be considered consensual.


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Remote Controlled Dildo & Harness Set - Pegasus

BO D4890808228296
R3,299
This strap-on set by Pegasus features a 15cm dildo coupled with an adjustable harness - perfect for couples looking to experience pegging. Featuring a naturally curved shaft, the firm yet flexible body-safe dildo has been designed with three raised waves along the length of the shaft as well as a realistically shaped glans to provide added stimulation...
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Luxury 6 Piece Bondage Set - EasyToys

EasyToys
EDC ET377BLK
R1,899
Enjoy the art of full body restraint and light bondage play with this luxuriously crafted 6 piece bondage set by EasyToys. If you are new to the world of light bondage play, then this is the set for you. Consisting of two handcuffs, two ankle cuffs, a blindfold, and a tickler you have everything you need to become acquainted with BDSM. Designed using...
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Harness Deluxe - RealRock

REA047
R799
This deluxe premium harness by RealRock is an elasticated strap-on harness that is both comfortable and luxurious in design. With 2 insertable rings (small 5cm diameter and medium 5.8cm diameter) you are able to use this strap-on harness with any dildo measuring up to 5.8cm in size. Made from leather and elastic straps, this one-size-fits-most harness...
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Red Dragon Secret Pleasure Chest - LoveBox

LoveBox
LBX406
R1,799
The Secret Pleasure Bondage Chest is the ultimate LoveBox featuring high quality PU Leather, stainless steel, and cotton light bondage products.Featuring 7 premium bondage items, this box is perfect for those looking for an all inclusive gift box that contains high quality, premium, and luxury bondage items that are designed for longevity and are hard...
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Wicked WildCat Secret Pleasure Chest - LoveBox

LoveBox
LBX405
R1,699
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Single Ended Four Piece Dilator Sounding Set - Sinner Gear

Sinner Gear
SIN176
R899
This dilator set by Sinner Gear is a 4 piece dilator set designed for men and women and is specifically intended for experienced users. Urethral sounding involves inserting an intimate product into the urethra - the tube in the penis or vagina that drains urine from the bladder. Known as a medical procedure to remove obstructions from the urethra,...
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Tantra Feather Pleaser - LELO

Lelo
BO DP 7350022271470
R649
The LELO Tantra feather pleaser is a gorgeous combination of down feathers and a polished metal and acrylic handle. Designed to tease and heighten your senses, this feather tickler is perfect for light bondage sensory play. Combine it with a soft and seductive blindfold, or if you are feeling a little more adventurous a pair of handcuffs.
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Fetish Extreme Nipple Weights - Pipedream

NippleWeights
R699
These nipple weights by Pipedream are heavy duty weights designed for advanced or more adventurous users. Each alligator-style nipple clamp is attached to a round metal weight that features grooves on it's base. For more weight to your clamp, simply screw the additional weight onto the base of the previous and you will immediately sense the increase in...
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Eight Ball Stretcher Penis Rings - Oxballs

Oxballs
BO DP 840215100917
R859
The 8 Ball Stretcher by Oxballs is a two-in-one ball stretcher and penis ring that promises explosive pleasure on each and every thrust.Featuring a two-in-one ergonomic design, this Skinflex soft silicone stretcher features two rings - one to be worn around the base of your penis and the other to fit snugly around your testicles. With the larger ring...
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Wearable Penis & Ball Sheath - Oxballs

Oxballs
BO DP 840215118905 /8899
R1,299
This amazing SackJack Penis Sleeve by Oxballs is an award winning penis sleeve that doubles up as a ballsling and a penis enhancer giving you a stronger shaft, a visual impact, and more intense orgasms.Worn over your penis and testicles, this sleeve features textures, nubs, and ridges on the inside giving you intense pleasure on your shaft, whilst the...
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Stainless Steel Penis Chastity Cage - XXDreamsToys

BO DP 4041937575755
R2,899
This all metal penis chastity cage by XXDreamsToys is an all encompassing metal cage designed to keep your penis in a placid state for as long as you can bare it.Made from medically graded steel, this cage features a curved ergonomic shape, making sure it is perfect for all day wear and control. With a brass lock and key, you are in your dom's absolute...
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The Curve Male Chastity Cage - Erotic Love Toys

BO DP 94922298577
R2,699
The Curve Male Chastity Cage by Erotic Love Toys is a cage designed for men with a larger size requiring all-day control.With it's ergonomical design, this chastity device is specificaly designed to be worn underneath your clothes, allowing you to submit to all-day control and resistance. With three rings that interlock together for a secure fit, this...
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Buck Dich Spanking Paddle & Dildo - Fun Factory

Fun factory
BO DP 4032498962030
R1,499
The Buck Dich 2-in-1 toy by Fun Factory is a kinky play toy that offers extreme pleasure for couples or for solo play.With a silicone paddle on one end and a curved shaped dildo on the other, you can combine the exciting experience of sensory play combined with intense p-spot or g-spot massage. Made from 100% body safe materials, this super soft silicone...
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Fetish Collar & Leash - Lux Fetish

Lux Fetish
BO DP 4890808042847
R379
This collar and leash set by Lux Fetish is perfect for submissive and control light bondage play.Fully adjustable for maximum comfort, the collar has quality velcro fastening allowing for secure play and easy removal. With it's black unisex design, complimented with silver rings, this collar features a detachable leash of 1.5m. Use your collar and leash...
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Under the Bed Ties - Steamy Shades

Steamy Shades
BO DP 4041937579104
R949
These Under the Bed ties by Steamy Shades fit any bed and tuck underneath your mattress for full body restraint.Adjusting to fit any bed easily, these ties have a strap to the center that connect the restraints and a D-ring for effortless setup. With satin ties that feature a delicate printed overlay, these restraints are comfortable to wear, soft to the...
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Mardi Gras Mask with Feathers - Steamy Shades

Steamy Shades
BO DP 4041937579241
R499
This sleek and decorative mask by Steamy Shades is the perfect accessory for role-play or costume BDSM play.Accentuating the face thanks to it's sleek design, this eye mask combines femininity, beauty and eroticism. Lightweight and flexible, this mask is made of metal that bends and shapes to perfectly fit your contours of your face. Fastened behind your...
Adjustable Tweezer Nipple Clamps  - Steamy Shades
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Adjustable Tweezer Nipple Clamps - Steamy Shades

Steamy Shades
BO DP 4041937579357
R479
These gorgeous tweezer nipple clamps by Steamy Shades are perfect for beginners looking to add some sensory play.Fully adjustable, these nipple clamps allow your partner to slide the rings to regulate the pain stimulus. From a light sensory tug to a firm purposeful pinch, the tweezer clamps allow absolute precision and pressure. Coated at the tips, the...
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Discovery Vibrating Penis Ring with Prostate Massager - Malesation

Malesation
BO DP 4041937315177
R1,299
The Discovery penis ring by Malesation is a two-in-one design that now offers prostate massage with an attached penis ring.Combining the pleasure of prostate massage whilst gently restricting your blood flow you are able to experience anal stimulation, delayed ejaculation, firmer erections, intense orgasms, and increased stamina. Made from 100% phthalate...
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Light Bondage Surprise Gift Box for Couples - Desir

D PainPleasureSurprise
R1,199
There's nothing quite like spicing up old routines with a bit of light bondage play. But more often that not, the selection process of where to start can be somewhat overwhelming and intimidating. With so many bondage products, and a slight oversight in your selection, your night of restraint play can end up a complete disaster, leaving you and your...
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Silicone Flogger Whip - Bad Kitty

Bad Kitty
BO MS 8130
R629
This silicone flogger type whip by Bad Kitty adds extra kink into your light bondage play.Measuring 50cm in length and featuring individually coated silicone strands, this whip is sure to leave a mark on your submissive. Gentle tickle your sub arousing even the most intimate of areas, or use this whip for more serious flogging play. A silicone coated...
Nipple Chain with Crystal - Bad Kitty
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Nipple Chain with Crystal - Bad Kitty

Bad Kitty
BO MS 8125
R499
These nipple chains by Bad Kitty add a touch of feminity and allure when compared to traditional nipple chains.With a beautifully designed tear-drop shaped crystal at the end of each clamp, these clamps are glamorous and stimulating. Balck in colour with a clear crystal, these clamps are fully adjustable by means of a small tightening mechanism. Coated...
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Lace Hood - Steamy Shades

Steamy Shades
BO DP 4041937579036
R399
This beautifully designed lace hood is the perfect accessory for your sensual bondage play. Allowing the perfect touch of anonymity, this hood has an ultra feminine look, and is delicately finished with a beautifully designed floral print lace overlay. Slip it gently over your head, pair it with your favourite bodystocking or lingerie set and Steamy...
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Cock Grip Plug (S,M,L) - Malesation

Malesation
BO DP 4041937578220/37/44
R1,299
The Cock Grip plug by Malesation is a dual purpose product that features both an anal plug as well as a penis ring - all in one.With the first penis ring fastened tightly around the erect shaft of the base of his penis, a second ring fastened around his testicles, and the attached metal anal plug inserted anally - this cock grip and plug offers intense...
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Ball Gag - Steamy Shades

Steamy Shades
BO DP 4041937579128
R1,045
This ball gag by Steamy Shades is a ball gag designed to provide an erotic experience to your light bondage play.Featuring a lightweight medium sized ball, this ball gag is comfortable and features a breathable design - giving both you and your partner the option of controlled prolonged bondage play. Finished off with two metal rings for ease of movement,...
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