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LIGHT BONDAGE


Discover our sensual range of sexy BDSM toys, deliberately selected to improve modern BDSM play between couples with a taste for tipping power dynamics in the bedroom. Enjoy pushing the limits of abandon with our bondage gear, like the restraints & ties, bondage kits, blindfolds, whips and paddles on offer – sure to set your bedroom games on fire.

Submit to more risk and thrills in your relationship with our range of sexy bondage toys.

Give In To a New Kind of Power Play

Sexy BDSM has recently become a mainstream concern, thanks to writers like EL James of the 50 Shades series. Also called ‘ligotage’ this form of bedroom play is a milder, softer version of extreme BDSM play (bondage, dominance, submission, sadomasochism).


This new type of light bondage does not necessarily have anything to do with sadomasochism, even though many similar instruments and toys are used during play. Many couples are realizing that subtle power play can be a very arousing bedroom pursuit.


Often pleasure is derived from these power dynamics, as the lover that is tied up is forced into a vulnerable position, which can be exhilarating to experience. The lover performing the sexy bondage will gain visual pleasure from having so much control over their partner. Your choice of bondage sex toys will dictate how light or intense the experience gets.


BDSM toys don’t have to be hard-core and uncomfortable, in fact most in our range are silk-lined, luxury items that add to the sensual couple’s experience. With this kind of light bondage gear, the limits are only as high as your imagination is broad.

Surrender To These Bondage Games

At Désir, we have selected only the best sexy BDSM toys for you to enjoy. Choose from our variety of restraints & ties that come in leather, metal or silk materials. We also have soft rope restraints and fluffy handcuffs for ultra-motivated couples.


Outside of the basic ‘bonds’ we also have collar & leash packs for exciting role playing possibilities, and a broad selection of whips & paddles made from leather or silk, depending on your personal preference.


Some great additions to any sexy bondage play include masks & blindfolds to heighten the sensory experience of being restrained and teased, or a set of ticklers to ensure that every second of the game is memorable and arousing.


For the couples that have gone from light to moderate bondage, there is also a comprehensive range of nipple clamps and harnesses, and swings to add to your growing repertoire of delightful power plays.


No matter what your bondage gear requirements may be, Désir has made sure that every need is covered, from the soft silk mysteries of the novice, to the hard leather punishments of the pro; every couple will find what they are looking for in our online store.


Browse the most powerful range of sexy bondage toys available online in South Africa, and honour yourself exactly how you want to this year. Warning: Thrills ahead!

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  • R399

    The Y-styled nipple clamps by Steamy Shades are beaded clamps which add kinky pinching sensations to the nipples and clitoris - giving you a completely different multi-sensory experience during foreplay and love-making. A daring accessory for light bondage players, these clamps look and feel delectable. Featuring tweezer style nipple clamps, they are...

  • R329

    The Tweezer Intimate Nipple Clamps by Steamy Shades are perfect for all levels of bondage players - from beginners to experts alike!With a metal chain inter-connecting the nipple clamps, these clamps are adjustable and allow you to provide the exact level of stimulation you are looking for. Coated with soft rubber at the tips to provide a comfortable...

  • R399

    Indulge in a feminine fantasy with these soft and sensual cuffs from Bijoux Indiscrets. They won’t hold you back from exploring, but they’ll certainly set the scene for some serious bedroom role-play. These luxurious cuffs are made in satin and organza, joined by a simple and elegant silver chain. Combine them with sophisticated and sexy...

  • R499

    Sophisticated yet oh-so-suggestive to a partner in the know, these beautiful black or ivory pearl cuffs by Bijoux Indiscrets become the ultimate bondage accessory with the addition of a simple silver chain. Wear the cuffs individually with a glamorous outfit or luxurious lingerie to signal to your partner that you’re up for exploring the pleasures...

  • R449

    Tease your lover with the softness of these beautiful feathers against their skin before trapping their wrists to explore the sensual pleasure of captivity. The strong silver chain joining the two delicate feather cuffs makes a pleasing contrast in sensation and beauty, and allows you to explore the world of bondage and restraint with a sense of fun. Use...

  • R699

    The Maze handcuffs by Bijoux Indiscrets are beautifully crafted 100% adjustable leatherlook cuffs inspired by classic BDSM.With their thin chain you are able to place both cuffs on the same wrist to wear as a fashion accessory, or you are able to remove one end and attach it to your other wrist to use as traditional restraining handcuffs. Pair these cuffs...

  • R2,299

    Keep your sub under control in these strong and sexy ankle cuffs finished with rose-gold buckles, D-rings and attractive chain to join. With padded insides for comfortable long wear, these beautifully finished purple leather ankle restraints from the Fifty Shades of Grey Cherished collection will be a well-used essential in your BDSM toy collection. Pair...

  • R2,299

    The Fifty Shades of Grey Cherished Wrist Cuffs definitely mean business. These thick, soft, buckled cuffs in sensual purple leather are solid enough for some serious BDSM play, with strong buckles and D-rings for attaching them together or to a hard point. They come with a pretty but strong rose-gold chain with quick-release clips to easily join them or...

  • R4,599 R5,126
    Reduced price!

    For the Sub who loves luxury and the Dom who loves beauty, this stunning collection sets you up for sensual fun. The Fifty Shades of Grey Freed range is a luxurious leather range in sexy purple with rose-gold trims. The elegant finishes and smart design take this range a step beyond. It’s a worthwhile investment for BDSM beginners and experienced...

  • R499

    These unisex leatherette cuffs are the perfect bondage accessory. Thick and rugged leatherette cuffs with a soft lining and strong connecting chain set the scene for your BDSM fantasy. Connect the cuffs together or use the chain and lock to connect them to other restraints or to a headboard or other furniture. (Be sure to keep the key handy for safety.)...

  • R599

    This Love Sling by Steamy Shades is the perfect tool to help support your neck and thighs for perfect positioning allowing you to hit your favourite spots easily.  Experience the ultimate in erotic fantasies together with your partner and achieve positions effortlessly.With it's adjustable straps and soft padded straps, the love sling works perfectly...

  • R549

    Place yourself at your lover’s mercy when you hand them the satin storage bag containing the Fifty Shades of Grey Ultimate Control Handcuff Restraint Set. This set is designed for versatile bondage play, with two soft, padded cuffs attached to Perspex bars that can be caught in a doorframe or bed frame to hold you helplessly bound. With large...

  • R449

    The Hogtie set by Steamy Shades is a one size fits most restraining set designed to fit your wrists and ankles. Featuring a secure hook and loop tape system for the fastening of the straps, you are able to unfasten these ties quickly and easily when you need to, whilst the durable central metal ring keeps the straps in position whilst you and your partner...

  • R649

    A BDSM toybag essential, this Lux Fetish hogtie set has two sets of adjustable cuffs and a four-way central O-Ring that clips conveniently to the cuffs with D-Ring clips. The cuffs are soft, lined with velvet and fully adjustable with Velcro straps. The cuffs can be used individually to cuff wrists or ankles, or combined with the central ring or with...

  • R1,599

    The Steamy Shades Multiple Binding Set is the perfect kit allowing you and your partner a night of sensual and light bondage play. An all-inclusive kit that features everything you need allowing you to try a variety of restraint techniques with the accessories included. From an over the door connector, allowing you to experience vertical intimate play, to...

  • R549

    This gorgeously silky bondage rope by Fifty Shades Freed is a soft, luxurious, triple-twisted rope perfect for erotic shibari play. In a rich purple tone and a silky soft finish, this bondage rope is soft enough for beginners but long and sophisticated enough for more experienced players. With 10 metres in total, you have ample to explore the art and...

  • R599

    Get creative on your submissive partner with removable bondage tape in a pack of three colours. This tape is non-adhesive and easily removable, but sticks to itself to create a fast restraint or daring clubwear. Quickly create a cuff, harness, or full leg wrap. Rewrap the tape if you need to – it’s reusable. The possibilities are limited only...

  • R349

    This 18m bondage tape is perfect for bondage games not requiring knots or adhesive. Sticking only to itself and not your skin or hair, this tape is skin friendly and available in white, purple, and black. Remember to practise safe play and have a scissor ready for quick release.

  • R709 R1,109

    Shibari is an ancient, artistic, Japanese form of rope bondage. Shibari style rigging creates geometric patterns and shapes that contrast beautifully with the human body’s natural curves. Demoniq has incorporated this concept in a new lingerie collection. The Asami style within the Shibari range is a bra and panty set made from black, elasticated...

  • R812 R1,512

    Add a new dimension to date night and feel like a rock star in this sexy leather-look set. The figure-hugging cami-corset, hipster panties and fishnet stockings have a feisty feel that will set your partner’s pulse going. To add to the fun, this three-piece lingerie set is part of the Demoniq Shibari range, and includes two 8m ropes and instructions...

  • R999
    1 Review

    Add a little sensual submission to your bedroom look with this BDSM-inspired H-harness by Bijoux. The Maze range of trendy bedroom accessories is a nod to the S&M styles currently dominating the catwalks. It supports and accentuates the breasts and leaves the back sensually bare. Pair it with a lace panty and nipple caps for a more playful look, or let it...

  • R2,299

    This luxurious purple leather collar and leash set with rose gold connecting chain will have you begging for BDSM play just so you can wear it. The collar is padded, with carefully sewn finishes for comfortable wear. The buckle detail makes it easily adjustable, whilst the rose gold chain leash with leather handle clips easily onto the D-ring on the...

  • R749

    The Maze tassled choker by Bijoux is a gorgeous leather look choker which features a tassle attachment - perfect for light bondage play and seduction. Adjustable with a buckle at the back of your neck, the tassle choker can either be worn as a bold necklace or can double up as a leash type collar for safe BDSM play. 100% vegan, this soft leatherlook...

  • R799

    The Bijoux wide choker with leash is the perfect necklace for your boldest outfits. Attach the necklace to the leash and use this versatile choker for submissive BDSM play. 100% adjustable, this buckled choker is detacheable and can be used a a bold necklace or bondage accessory. 100% vegan, this choker is made from recycled materials and is available in...

  • R699

    The collar, leash and nipple clamp set by Steamy Shades is the ultimate bondage kit. In a gorgeous grey and black lace detail, this stunning collar with it's padded finish has a matching leash which is detacheable allowing you the ultimate control. With adjustable nipple clamps, you can tighten the fit according to your pain or sensory threshold, allowing...

  • R1,299

    The Cherished collection for Fifty Shades of Grey is stunning in purple leather with rose gold trim. This ball gag is so sexy that your sub may even enjoy the silence. The ball itself is made in a soft and fully safe silicone, while the adjustable headstrap is leather with gold details and back buckle. The ball on this Cherished Ball Gag is a comfortable...

  • R1,499

    You’ll be spanking in style with this gorgeous leather and suede paddle from the Fifty Shades of Grey Cherished collection. A rose gold handle with filigree detail to the tip gives you a good grip to deliver hearty thwacks to the bottom of a naughty sub, bringing them quickly to the edge of a painful ecstacy. Double sided for stinging leather slaps...

  • R649

    The ultimate in sensual indulgence, this beautiful Cherished Feather Tickler by Fifty Shades of Grey is both opulent and wicked. The elegant rose gold handle fits easily into your hand, and contrasts gorgeously with the purple feathers. Tease and tantalise your partner with the purple plumage until they’re begging for more…. Combine this...

  • R1,699
    1 Review

    The Cherished Suede Flogger is beautifully matched with the Cherished Feather Tickler to create a sensory experience that will keep them coming back for more. This luxurious purple suede flogger with elegant rose gold handle finished with stunning filigree detail is a real treat for the Dom who has everything. The 45cm long tassels can be trailed along...

  • R899

    Rocks Off continually surprise us with their inventiveness, and the Lust Linx Deliver is no exception. This two-in-one toy is both a vibrator and a fantastically fun flogger. The flogger section is made of silicone links that project a dungeon-like look worthy of a BDSM scene, but are soft enough to not do any damage to skin or nerve endings. In...

  • R1,299

    The sensual purple of the Fifty Shades of Grey Cherished collection sets it apart from the rest of this range, and the high quality finishes make these pieces well worth investing in for your BDSM toy collection. Sensory play can be combined with bondage or impact for a more intense experience, or simply as a gentle introduction to sensuous delight. The...

  • R229
    Out of stock
    2 Reviews

    Combine this sensual, soft, opaque padded eye mask with the Frou Frou cuffs and Lilly Whip, both from Bijoux Indiscrets, to set the scene for a night of sexy dominatrix roleplay. Your partner will love the heightened sensations of touch and sound when the element of sight is removed. Caress, tease and tantalise to build desire like never before.

  • R499

    The sliding toggle on these soft silicone nipple clamps by Fifty Shades of Grey makes them quite comfortable to wear, and they can be adjusted as needed. They gently titillate your nipples with vibration that builds up your arousal to insatiable desire. Each of the Sweet Tease Vibrating Nipple Stimulators holds a removable single-speed bullet...

  • R429

    This exquisite nipple and clitoral chain by Fifty Shades Freed, offers the thrill of sensation, pleasure and pain. With adjustable, silicone-tipped nipple clamps and a slide to fit clitoral clamp, you are able to adjust, pinch, and pressure the clasps to suit your degree of sensory intensity. Through increased sensitivity and heightened stimulation, your...

  • R249
    1 Review

    This clitoral clamp is ideal for beginners. Slide it on till it fits comfortably, with just enough tightness to stimulate and engorge the clitoris. It’s made from nickel-free metal so it’s completely hypo-allergenic and easy to clean. The free-swinging weighted beads will add extra sensation when you move. The clitoris and labia have thousands...

  • R299

    You’ll graduate to a new appreciation of the pleasures of pain with these intense nipple clamps from the Fifty Shades of Grey collection. These metal rings clamp directly onto your nipples with no gentle silicone or pvc padding to protect this tender area. It’s a new sensation, and not for beginners, but one well worth the challenge. The...

  • R229

    The Japanese Clover Nipple Clamps by Lux Fetish are a set of clamps designed to plump your nipples by allowing you to adjust the pinch of the clamps according to your personal pleasure threshold. With padded tips on each end, and an ultra tight grip, these nipples clamps are joined together by a high quality steel chain and are designed for erotic...

  • R349

    The beauty of these adjustable nipple clamps with beaded weights is that they are perfectly designed for both beginners and pain purveyors. The soft silicone tips create a firm hold around the nipple with no sharp edges. Adjust the pinch factor by sliding the metal bar up or down to tighten the clamps around the nipple. The small ball weights at the base...

  • R1,499

    Get a little naughty with this Slap & Tickle set, and explore the kinky side of life. This sexy set is a perfect way to add just a touch of BDSM to your bedroom without bringing out the bullwhip. The Rocks-Off Slap & Tickle Beginners S&M Kit contains a pair of soft wrist restraints, a satin blindfold, a sexy feather tickler, a small riding crop, and...

  • R1,699

    The Luxury Fifty Shades Freed Pleasure Overload Gift Set is a tantalizing gift box, perfect for introducing new ways to play together. Open a different door each day and discover either a sensual pleasure toy or a bondage accessory to introduce you to the world of sensory and light bondage play. Offering all kinds of intimate stimulation, the pleasure...

  • R2,199

    For your own pleasure or as the perfect gift for a naughty friend, the Dare Me Pleasure Set from Lelo is both elegant and wicked. It includes a soft suede flogger, silk cuffs and the incredible Luna Beads Mini Noir. Quoted as beads designed for pleasure and indulgence, the Luna Beads Noir when inserted vaginally, feature two internal beads which gently...

  • R1,199
    1 Review

    When Ana talks about “kinky f*%*ery”, she probably means something like this wildly fun couples set from Fifty Shades Darker. For the more adventurous couple wanting to explore their wilder side, this set makes a perfect gift, or pack it in for a special weekend away. This set is fantastic value, too, as it includes a set of wrist restraints,...

  • R1,499
    1 Review

    Give in to your desires and indulge in the ultimate bondage and couples play fantasy with this Dark Desire Advanced Couples Kit from Fifty Shades Darker. With this kit, you are able to elevate your bondage play to new heights. Whether restraining by silky rope or bondage tape, use the blindfold to play with erotic sensory deprivation, whilst you use the...

  • R1,799
    1 Review

    This set from Steamy Shades covers all your basics for exploring bedroom bondage. All the pieces of the set are high quality and beautifully finished with a black lace detail that gives them an erotically feminine look. You’ll find a blindfold, wrist restraints, a length of silk rope, a feather tickler, nipple clamps, collar and leash and a riding...

  • R1,699
    Out of stock

    This Steamy Shades Positioning Kit is pretty and feminine for an erotic boudoir feel, but it’s tough enough to meet the needs of a more experienced kinky player. The bed restraint kit is adjustable and versatile, with strong satin ties that will work on different sized wrists and ankles. The Door Jam Closet Cuffs give you a go-anywhere option to...

  • R2,527 R3,227

    Lelo's Bridal Pleasure Set is perfect for the bride to be, the perfect honeymoon gift, or for countless nights of passion. All in white, this set contains a sensual pearl studded silk blindfold, a teaser whip ring of soft suede, and most importantly the Noa couples vibrator - to be worn by the woman during lovemaking. The Noa by Lelo is a...

  • R999

    The Switch Soft Strap-On Set includes a silicone, phthalate-free slightly curved and contoured dildo to hit either her g-spot or his p-spot every time. The harness straps are fully adjustable to fit all sizes and shapes. Best used with a water based lubricant.

  • R799

    This beautiful harness is made from 100% PVC, comes with 2 x rubber hold rings and can accomodate any dildo with a flared base. It is fully adjustable and will fit up to 152cm waist. This comfortable harness is perfect for beginners & experts alike!

  • R699

    This harness with black lace overlay over satin stands out thanks to its sexy appearance, and is nonetheless robust and versatile. Thanks to its adjustable belt, it can fit a multitude of wearers. Two different rings are available for different dildo sizes with a flat base. A small pocket in which a vibration bullet can be stored ensures additional...

  • R2,999

    The Love Swing by You2Toys is a love swing designed to hang from your ceiling or weight-bearing surface, allowing you to explore with new positions in a completely relaxed and secure manner whilst hoisted in the air. With adjustable loops for the body - holding your back and torso in a safe and comfortable position - and two stirrup type loops for your...

  • R1,199

    This Lux Fetish Door Slam Love Swing allows you to turn any standard door into a versatile and thrilling sex swing. Perfect for helping you and your partner discover different angles and positions to add to your repertoire. Simply shut the cuff loops into the door frame and use the fully adjustable straps to position you comfortably. Can hold a maximum...

  • R799

    Turn any room of the house into your playground with the Steamy Shades door swing. Secure the barbell over the top of the door and shut the door to keep it in place. The door swing features an elegant black lace overlay on lustrous satin grey fabric. Sturdy enough to support adults to experience a variety of new sex positions.

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