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These Sex Toy Sex Positions Are The Best You’ll Ever Try

Sex positions invite variety and experimentation into your relationship, but combine them with your favourite sex toys and you can create the most explosive sexual experiences of your life.

Couples that want to improve their intimacy and take their sex life to a whole new level, would do well to realize that you can never know enough about sex. There are over 100 natural positions and moves that you can try during a lovemaking session with your significant other.

Combine these with sex toy mastery to heighten the experience, and you are looking at a never ending bag of tricks that you can draw on for the rest of your relationship. With novelty being such a critical part of maintaining sexual desire – this is not a post you want to miss out on!

That’s why today we are going to teach you about the types of sex position that go extremely well with specific sex toys for stronger, longer lasting, more intense couple’s play.

Kamasutra sex positions worth learning
Kamasutra positions worth learning

The Key To More Fulfilling Sex & Sex Positions

Everyone has their favourite sex positions that they use repeatedly in the bedroom. But even these old favourites can become a bit dull after a while, especially in long term relationships.

In order to enjoy sexual fulfilment and pleasure with your significant other, you need to invite some key dynamics into your bedroom to keep the passion alive there.

This is best done by expanding your repertoire of positions and preferences, and by adding some staple couple’s sex toys into the mix.

According to Kate Beckman, a sex and health writer for the Dailyorange.com, we have entered the golden age of sex. With the rise of smart sex toys, it’s now easier to sustain sexual fulfilment in a relationship than it has ever been in human history.

The keys are:

  • More time spent connecting and indulging in the bedroom
  • A greater sense of closeness, deeper bonds and intimacy
  • The willingness to explore with your significant other
  • Discovering and shaping your sexual identity as a couple
Kamasutra positions work best with sex toys
Kamasutra positions work best with sex toys

To make these keys happen, you need a number of new sex positions that you can use in conjunction with your sex toys and smart toys.

Spicing Up The Old Favourites

Many of these sex positions are well known, but when coupled with a sex toy they can become something completely different. Mix and match, and grow your sexual knowledge.

#1: Her on Top

He will be lying on his back with his legs outstretched, she will be on top. This leaves his hands free, and she can control the speed and movement of the sexual encounter.

Add the sex toy!

With her on top sex positions, it’s a shame not to throw in a couple’s vibrator that fits on him and stimulates her as well. Get an affordable version of this in a cock ring for added vibrations.

#2: Sitting Down

He will be sitting with his legs open leaning on his hands, she will be straddling him with her legs open leaning back on her hands. Both of you control speed and movement.

Add the sex toy!

Any seated position allows the man to enjoy anal play with an insert-able sex toy during the experience. Anal sex toys like plugs or bullet vibrators would work extremely well here, for extra orgasm power when the time comes.

#3: Love Lock

He will be crouched on the bed while she straddles him, her legs wrapped around him. This is one of the deeply intimate sex positions, and allows him to relax and control the pace.

Add the sex toy!

This position works well with two sex toys – kegel exercisers for additional friction inside her vagina during sex, and lingerie for his visual pleasure. Combined expect magic to happen!

#4: Legs Up

He will kneel over her, as she lies on her back and wraps her legs high up around his neck. These sex positions are great for bondage play, and light BDSM.

Add the sex toy!

Because he is in such a dominant position on top, this is an especially submissive position for her which is why it works well with fluffy handcuffs and restraints. Try it out!

Couples enjoy kamasutra positions with sex toys
Couples enjoy kamasutra positions with sex toys

#5: Side of The Bed

Great for those lazy weekends, he perches himself on the side of the bed, and she lies on her back across the bed – vice versa. Sex positions like this allow him to get more leverage and movement because he has access to the floor.

Add the sex toy!

For a bit of pegging action, this is a good position for her to use her strap-on in because it gives her the leverage she needs to move and frees up her hands for more important things.

Testing Out New Favourites

Sexual adventure is all about trying new sex positions that you have never really been into before, and seeing how you can make them work for each other. Add toys for mind-blowing change.

#6: The Swordsman

An easy position to execute, he stands behind her while she bends slightly over – also standing. This is a solid position for sneaking off and having sex somewhere inconvenient or in a hurry.

Add the sex toy!

To make this extra exciting, bring along a finger vibrator so that she can pleasure herself, or he can pleasure her with the vibrating pulses at the same time.

#7: Shower Power

He takes her from behind in the shower, and controls the range of movement while she balances on the side of the shower, using her outstretched arms. Sex positions like these are good for water play.

Add the sex toy!

Try anal sex in the shower, then add a vibrator for her to use so that she can try some double penetration while the water adds sensuality to the experience.

#8: Crossed Keys

She lies on her back, while he crouches in front of her – and her legs stretch up to his face. Instead of hanging around his neck, they are crossed over for added pressure.

Add the sex toy!

This is a great position for clitoral vibrators, which she can then use on herself and on him during sex. These sex positions will also benefit from wand, bullet or g-spot vibrators depending on the type of penetration you feel like.

Kamasutra positions bring couples together
Kamasutra positions bring couples together

#9: The Plough

A position that requires physical strength from him, she will lie face forward on the bed, while he stands on the side of the bed. He reaches down and lifts her entire body upwards and onto him. He controls all movement, while she hovers off the bed, leaning on her arms.

Add the sex toy!

This is a strong set of sex positions for power play in BDSM, and for her the position is great for nipple clamps and satin bonds. Mix and match these to create your perfect scenario.

#10: The Amazon

She crouches in front of him, while he lies on his back, his legs pulled up to his chest. She forces his legs forward and mounts him, rocking back and forth. This is a famous position because it makes her feel like the man, but without the strap-on!

Add the sex toy!

As sex positions go, this is a good one for roleplay. He can don some men’s lingerie, she can choose her favourite outfit and play out a sexy scene together.

Finding Your Favourite Combinations

The best thing about trying out new sex positions, is that you can add them to your own sexual style and switch between them as you like.

According to Jay Dee of Sex Within Marriage, a survey they conducted showed that 28% of men and women prefer to be on top, while 25% prefer doggy style positions. People tend to stick to their favourite positions 60% of the time, leaving room for exploration together.

Finding your best sex position is something you and your significant other should never stop searching for, because it changes over time. Now when someone asks you, ‘how do I use sex toys in different positions?’ you will have an entire post to refer them to!

Spend time investigating these sex positions, even if they feel awkward at first. Eventually, when you have warmed up to them, and mastered the art of incorporating your sex toys into each dynamic lovemaking session – you will have a happier, more fulfilling sex life.

What Do You Think?

Thank you for reading our post, we hope you found it enlightening! In the spirit of our mission we have one more thing to ask you. Which is your least favourite sex position or sex toy, and why?

Be bold, and leave your comment below.

About Jade

I am the Operations Manager at Désir & feel so privileged to have been a part of this adventure from the very beginning, conceptualizing and building our amazing lingerie and sex toy ranges. Having a Diploma in Business Analysis my aim is to assist in the streamlining of processes, thereby ensuring maximum efficiency, remaining relevant by keeping up to date with trends, and producing statistical analysis in order to meet our consumer’s needs.

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