SEX ESSENTIALS

Sex Essentials carefully selected to compliment your intimate journey, encourage sound sexual health and wellness, and ensure a more satisfying and rewarding sex life.


Desir’s sex essentials are products that have been introduced with the purpose of making your sexual experience that much more satisfying. From lubes and condoms, to supplements and medically sound intimate care products, our essential category offers you the best complimentary products and must-haves for your sexual health and wellbeing.


What is good sexual health?

Feeling good about your body and taking care of your physical and emotional health are all part of being sexually healthy. Physically this can relate to regular sexual health exams, getting tested for sexually transmitted infections, preventing unwanted pregnancies and having a healthy hygiene regime when it comes to cleaning your sex toys and taking care or your body.


But additionally, your emotional or mental health also has an enormous role to play in your attitude towards sex and your sexual health status. Feeling good about your body, giving yourself permission to enjoy sexual pleasure, and being comfortable with your sexual orientation and gender are huge parts of one’s sexuality and can have a fundamental impact on how you perceive yourself, others, and your sexuality.


How do I have good sex?

Planned parenthood states that good sex comes from understanding how your body works. Whilst sex is not a one size fits all experience, good sex comes down to being confident with your body, knowing what you like and don’t like, and understanding your sex drive and pleasures.


It is in this regard that Desir’s range of Essentials have been carefully curated to ensure that you have the best sex possible, whilst taking care of your sexual health and wellness at the same time.


Sexual Health Supplements

With so many factors impacting our sex lives, one of the biggest contributors is that of low libido or poor sex drive. Science has come a considerably long way in providing formulations that not only increase your sexual libido, but also assist with symptoms related to menopause, erectile dysfunction, vaginal dryness, and stamina.


Brands like Solal have focussed specifically on formulations, vitamins and minerals that contain essential ingredients like vitamin b12, vitamin b6, ginseng, fenugreek, and maca root that are natural testosterone boosting herbs. Not only proven to increase your libido, these ingredients are specifically known to alleviate symptoms related to erectile dysfunction, poor sperm quality, infertility, and are known to positively support and boost male and female sexual function. A completely natural alternative to anabolic and pharmaceutical steroid medicines, brands like Solal, LaMelle, Vitaforce, and Erex provide you with the option of adopting a far more holistic approach to your sexual health.


Stimulants and Enhancers

When it comes to stimulation and increasing your arousal and genital blood flow, several brands like Shunga, Wicked, Intimate Earth, and Pjur focus specifically on products designed to intensify your sexual experience.


From clitoral arousal serums and pleasure gels to aphrodisiacs and prolong sprays, Desir has a range of complimentary serums and elixirs that have been proven to amplify your sexual experience. Use them in conjunction with your favourite intimate product or simply for an increase in your masturbation or solo play


Explore the sensory experience of applying serums that encourage warmth, cooling, tingling, and relaxation and stimulate your nerve endings to encourage stronger orgasms and a heightened sense of arousal.


Personal Care and Product Care

One of the most important aspects to sound sexual health, is that of good personal and product care.

With conditions like bacterial vaginosis, yeast infections, vaginal infections, and STD’s, it is critical to follow a health regime that supports your sexual lifestyle. From intimate toy cleaners and disinfectant wipes, to vaginal douches and condoms, Desir has ensured that you have all you need to practice safe sex and avoid cross-contamination.


WebMd lists the use of a good intimate wash as the number one priority after sex. Not only limited to the cleansing of your genital areas, cleansing of your sex toys is just as important and with the introduction of foam or gel sex toy cleaners, taking care of your sex toys has never been easier.


With much controversy around the practice of douching and specifically with regards to women who douche, douching before or after anal sex (also referred to as rectal douching) is widely practiced to clean the anal area in preparation for sex.


With a variety of douches that range from shower attachment to bulb hand held douching apparatus, douching is best practiced with warm water and should be repeated until the water runs clean. EndHIV provides a word of caution for douching too frequently stating that it can damage the lining of the rectum, making you more susceptible to to HIV infection should you choose to not use a male condom.


Desir Panel of Medical Experts

To encourage positive sexual health and wellness, Desir has introduced a medical panel of experts that specialise in sexual health and promote sexual health and wellness - for both men and women. From gynaecologists and aesthetic practitioners, to sexologists and psychotherapists, Desir’s sexual health doctors are available for consult via our treatments category. With a variety of procedures, consults, and services available, your mental and physical sexual health is of the utmost importance to us and we are proud to offer you access to some of South Africa’s most renowned doctors who specialise in their respective fields.

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A Perfect O Silicone Love...
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A Perfect O Silicone Love Ring - Fifty Shades of Grey

Fifty Shades of Grey
BO DP 5060428804784
R219
The Perfect O silicone love ring by Fifty Shades of Grey is formed from 100% body safe silicone and contains no phthalates or latex. Slightly stretchy, this silky soft silicone ring is extremely comfortable. Slip the ring onto the base of the penis shaft with a little water-based lubricant to gently grip and constrict the blood flow to your penis.  The...
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vSculpt Pelvic Floor Toning & Vaginal Rejuvenation Therapy - JoyLux

JoyLux
JL VSculpt
R7,849
The vSculpt is a revolutionary gynaecologically designed home-use device used to stimulate tissue and encourage blood flow for better pelvic health. Non-hormonal and non-invasive, the vSculpts treats bladder leakage, vaginal dryness, pelvic pain, and sexual dysfunction, whilst assisting in restoring the tissue and muscles of your pelvic floor in the...
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Armour Vibrating Penis Ring - Zemalia

Svakom
CON SV ZCSRING-BLK
R529
The Zemalia Armour penis ring is a vibrating silicone ring designed to prolong intercourse, delay ejaculation, and allows for clitoral stimulation for her at the same time. 100% waterproof, this vibrating penis ring is made from ultra soft body safe silicone and is a one-size-fits-most with a minimum circumference of 4.55cm. Wear it at the base of your...
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BFit Classic Kegel Exerciser - BSwish

B Swish
BO DP 4897106300082/99/75
R599
The BFit Classic Kegel balls are perfect for those wanting to strengthen their pelvic muscles, avoid urinary incontinence, or experience stronger and more frequent orgasms.  Featuring a set of two customizable kegels complete with four interchangeable free-floating weights, these kegels allow you to start with a lighter weight of 28g and slowly...
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Pillow Talk Frisky Dual Set Kegel Balls - Swan

Swan
BO DP 677613567161
R749
These beautifully designed Pillow Talk Frisky kegel pleasure balls are perfect for increasing your desire whilst strengthening your kegel pelvic muscles at the same time. Made from 100% soft body safe silicone, these weighted kegels deliver a stimulating rocking motion in reaction to your natural movements. Insert them deep within your vaginal canal...
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AndroExtender Penis Enlargement Device - AndroPenis

AndroPenis
05069660000
R2,899
The AndroExtender penis extender device is a patented penile traction device designed to increase your penis size by enlarging both your girth and length giving you safe and permanent results.  Known as the most effective penis extender on the market, and both FDA and medically approved, this painless penis extender features comfortable technology that...
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Premium Kegel Exercise Weights (Set of 10) - Nurse Hatty

HattyKegel
R2,399
This premium set of kegel's from Nurse Hatty is the first Kegel Exercise Weight System of its kind designed for both kegel beginners and kegel pros. Consisting of 10 stainless steel kegel weights wrapped in premium medically graded body safe silicone, these kegels help tighten your pelvic floor muscles, improve bladder control, improve labour and...
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Men-X Xerus Couples Penis Ring - Rocks Off

Rocks off
BO DP 811041014174
R1,099
The Xerus by Rocks off is the ultimate power for couples or solo pleasure. Designed to be worn around the base of his shaft, the Xerus features 10 highly powerful vibrations and pulsation levels and offers intense pleasure whether worn alone or with your partner. Versatile in it's design, you are able to wear the the vibrating head underneath the shaft,...
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Relentless Vibrations Love Ring with Remote - Fifty Shades of Grey

Fifty Shades of Grey
BO DP 5060680311198
R1,599
The Relentless Vibrations Love Ring by Fifty Shades of Grey is a remote controlled penis ring that promises extended play, harder erections, and delayed orgasms. Designed using super soft body safe silicone, this dual ring fits snugly at the base of your penis with the secondary ring secured around your testicles. With the dual squeeze of both of these...
Big Ox Super Mega Stretch Penis Ring - OxBalls
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Big Ox Super Mega Stretch Penis Ring - OxBalls

Oxballs
BO DP 840215119513/20/37
R299
The OxBalls Big Ox Penis Ring is a versatile, flexible, and soft ring designed to either be worn around the base of your penile shaft or around your testicles. Made from a mixture of body-safe TPR and silicone, this super stretchy, flexible, and soft ring is thick in it's design, but focuses on giving you more girth and more strength. Restricting your...
Feranti Hold Me Tight Kegel Toning Kit - Rocks Off
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Feranti Single & Double Kegel Toning Set - Rocks Off

Rocks off
BO MS 7018
R999
The Hold Me Tight kegel toning kit will take you from beginner to toned expert, with a single starter Kegel Exercise ball and a double advanced Kegel Exercise ball. This Rocks Off Feranti set is made of soft-to-the-touch bodysafe silicone with a ridged design to give a pleasurable sensation on insertion and removal. A discreet but strong silicone pull...
Boyfriend Hollow Prosthetic Dildo Strap On | Malesation
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Boyfriend Hollow Prosthetic Dildo Strap On - Malesation

Malesation
BO ST 4041937315542
R679
The Boyfriend strap-on by Malesation is a prosthetic type strap on that is hollow inside.Allowing you to fit comfortably inside, the Boyfriend provides addition length and girth. With it's realistic looking shaft and textures, this strap on features an adjustable elastic belt harness to keep it comfortably in place. Suitable for waist sizes up to 120cm,...
Homeboy Hollow Vibrating Prosthetic Strap On - Malesation
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Homeboy Hollow Vibrating Prosthetic Strap On - Malesation

Malesation
BO DP 4041937315047
R1,299
The Homeboy is a rigid, ribbed prosthetic penis cover that adds plenty to your length and girth for a more filling sensation for your partner. This vibrating strap-on is ideal for men suffering from Erectile Dysfunction (ED). It’s hollow inside, so the penis rests comfortably within the strap-on, held in place by the adjustable straps. Simply slip the...
Doc Johnson Xtend It Kit - Doc Johnson
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Doc Johnson Xtend It Penis Enlargement Sheath Kit - Doc Johnson

Doc Johnson
BO DP 782421022754/47
R899
The Doc Johnson Xtend It Kit is a realistic prosthetic penis extension kit designed to extend your length and girth painlessly and effortlessly.Available in flesh and brown colourways, this hollow sleeve handcrafted from super soft ultra-skin provides the ultimate feel of realistic skin texture and colour. With it's length of 23cm and a width of 3.81cm,...
SkinLike Penis Extender - Malesation
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SkinLike Penis Extending Sheath - Malesation

Malesation
BO DP 4041937315849/56
R749
This penis extender by Malesation offers a realistic SkinLike texture designed to offer you an increase in length and girth without compromising on feeling and sensation.With it's soft textured surface, realistically designed glans, and a veined shaft, this sleeve is both realistic in feel and design. Made to be customized according to your size and...
RO-Zen Pro 2in1 Penis Ring & Vibrating Anal Plug - Rocks Off
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RO-Zen Pro Vibrating Penis Ring & Prostate Massager - Rocks Off

Rocks off
BO DP 811041011401
R1,299
The RO-Zen vibrating Penis Ring and prostate massager is an all in one cock ring, perineum massager, anal plug, and prostate massager! This is the ultimate toy for the man who wants to enjoy prolonged play, delayed ejaculation, an increase in orgasmic strength due to the anal and prostate massage, and an all over multi-sensory orgasmic experience! With a...
Cock Ring - Malesation
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Classic Silicone Cock Ring - Malesation

Malesation
BO DP 4041937315009/16/23
R139
Cock rings extend your enjoyment, make your erection harder and longer, and build up amazing orgasms. So who wouldn’t want to make sure they have a selection of different cock rings in their toy drawer? The basic cock ring from Malesation is a great one to start with. It’s made of soft, bodysafe silicone, and is available in different sizes. The silicone...
Maximus Flexible Penis Ring - Joy Division
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Maximus Flexible Penis Ring - Joy Division

JoyDivision
BO DP 4028403156113
R199
Maximus Penis ring by Joy Division is the perfect ring for beginners who are looking to prolong foreplay, extend love-making and delay ejaculation. Easy to put on, the Maximus constricts the penis at the base of the shaft to keep you harder for longer. Flexi loops on either side of the cock ring help you to get it on and remove it after use. The flexible...
Stretchy Penis Rings - Set of 3 - Malesation
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Stretchy Penis Rings - Set of 3 - Malesation

Malesation
BO DP 4041937315108
R249
These stretchy penis ring set by Malesation is designed specifically to help you achieve a longer-lasting and stronger erection. With three seperate rings, each featuring a unique design, you can choose from ribbed wtih chunky blocks, groovy waves, or fine ornamentation - all providing you with unique and varied stimulation. Made from phthalate free and...
Malesation Bead Cock Ring Set
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Bead Cock Ring Set (2) - Malesation

Malesation
BO DP 4041937315146
R399
The Malesation Beaded Cock ring set gives you two cock rings specifically beaded for extra stimulation. Made of high grade silicone, these soft, hygienic rings are anti-allergenic and easy to clean. Set includes two cockrings: 4cm and 4.5cm wide.
Swell Cock Ring - Malesation
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Swell Cock Ring - Malesation

Malesation
BO DP 670000031505
R229
The adjustable Swell Cock Ring by Malesation is a great first cock ring for your collection. This cock ring can be adjusted to your size, so you can ensure that it’s not too tight, or too loose, to do the job properly. A too-tight cock ring will inhibit the blood flow too much, making it difficult to get fully erect, or causing discomfort. A...
Happy Rabbit Rabbit Love Ring - LoveHoney
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Happy Rabbit Vibrating Love Ring - LoveHoney

Lovehoney
BO DP 5060020006500
R1,299
The Happy Rabbit Love Ring by LoveHoney is a super-stretchy double penis ring that not only offers staying power for him, but incredible vibrations for her.With a dual silicone love ring, this penis ring is designed to be worn by him, with one ring placed firmly around the shaft and the other wrapped around his testicles. The dual pressure not only...
Satisfyer Couples LoveRing1 - Satisfyer
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Satisfyer Couples LoveRing1 - Satisfyer

Satisfyer
BO MS RNG001
R1,199
The Satisfyer LoveRing1 is a versatile penis ring that is perfect for either couple or solo play.In it's luxurious body-safe soft silicone material, this ring is worn by the male with the vibrating head either situated on top of his shaft or below. Worn above, each thrust produces intense vibrations to his partner, whilst situated underneath the shaft,...
Satisfyer Couples LoveRing2 - Satisfyer
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Satisfyer Couples LoveRing2 - Satisfyer

Satisfyer
BO MS RNG002
R1,099
The Couples LoveRing2 by Satisfyer is a vibrating penis ring perfectly designed for simultaneous orgasms.With it's luxurious super-soft silicone material and it's stretch and flexible design, this penis ring is a one-size-fits-most product. In a gorgeous cobalt blue colour, this ring is sophisticated and perfect for the more discerning gentleman. Subtle...
We Vibe Luxury  Verge Penis Ring
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Verge Luxury Vibrating Penis Ring & Perineum Massager - We-Vibe

We Vibe
BO MS 839289006805
R2,399
You’ll love the the power and pleasure you’ll feel with the Verge by We-Vibe™. Cock rings help to create a bigger, harder, and more long-lasting erection, finishing with more powerful orgasms. Now, the Verge cock ring by We-Vibe™ intensifies that pleasure with vibrations targeted to the scrotum and perineum. Put the Verge on before you get aroused, gently...
 Vibrating Couples Penis Ring - Rinbit
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RIDMII Vibrating Couples Penis Ring - Rinbit

CON SV R04-HH-BLK
R799
The Ridmii vibrating penis ring by Rinbit, is a uniquely designed penis ring featuring multiple nodules and ears to guarantee additional pleasure and stimulation, for him and her.This versatile ring offers a multitude of ways to stimulate either the wearer or the receiver. During foreplay, you are able to use the rabbit ears to stimulate his/her nipples...
Feel It Baby Vibrating Cock Ring - Fifty Shades of Grey
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Feel It Baby Vibrating Cock Ring - Fifty Shades of Grey

Fifty Shades of Grey
BO DP 5060057873168
R535
You’ll both feel the pleasure with the Feel it Baby! vibrating cock ring from Fifty Shades of Grey. The stretchy, body-safe silicone expands to 6.4cm to make it easy to put on (we recommend putting on when semi-erect). Once on, the silicone band constricts the base of the penis, making it harder and helping you to last longer. Combine your harder stronger...
Mio Vibrating Cock Ring - Je Joue
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Mio Vibrating Cock Ring - Je Joue

Je Joue
BO DP 5060170971918
R2,499
Je Joue Mio Cock Ring is great for couple play. Worn by the male, it provides an enhanced and longer lasting erection for him, and if positioned correctly, offers the lady intense clitoral stimulation by means of the vibrating bullet, allowing simultaneous and intense orgasms. Simply add some water-based lubricant, slide the cock ring down the base of the...
Winni Vibrating Couples Ring with Remote Control - Svakom
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Winni Vibrating Couple's Ring with Remote Control - Svakom

Svakom
CON SV SRING-02W-VLT
R1,899
The Winni Vibrating Penis Ring by Svakom is a versatile penis ring designed for either couple use or for perineum massage. Made from super-soft luxurious silicone, the Winni offers a one-size-fits-most fit thanks to it's silicone stretch. Wear it at the base of the penis with the vibrating motor situated at the top of his shaft, allowing clitoral...
Ultra Soft Silicone Cock Ring
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Ultra-Soft Vibrating Rabbit Cock Ring for Couples - Seven Creations

Seven Creations
BO DP 4897042500034
R289
This vibro-rabbit cock ring was designed for couples and thanks to it's soft silicone it holds enough stretch to fit most men! It comes with a vibrating bullet (2 sets of batteries included) and a rabbit shaped clitoral stimulator for added sensation. Slide it onto the base of the shaft of the penis with the rabbit ears positioned up. As you thrust the...
Vibro Rabbit Ring - Malesation
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Vibro Rabbit Penis Ring for Couples - Malesation

Malesation
BO DP 4041937315030
R279
The Vibro Rabbit ring by Malesation has been specifically designed for couples stimulation in mind.With it's firm rabbit shape situated on top of the ring, you are able to stimulate her clitoris with every thrust. Wear it at the base of the shaft of your penis and enjoy the added benefits of prolonged love-making, delayed ejaculation and a firmer and...
RO-Zen Twin Penis Ring 7 Speed Vibrating Anal plug - Rocks Off
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RO-Zen Plus 7 Speed 2-in-1 Vibrating Penis Ring and Anal Plug - Rocks Off

Rocks off
BO DP 811041012286
R949
The Rocks Off RO-Zen penis ring is a one of a kind penis, scrotum, perineum, and anal stimulator in ONE. The ultimate toy for the man who wants to experience heightened orgasms, prolonged intercourse, delayed ejaculation and a multi-sensory experience. With a 1.4 inch penis ring fitting around your shaft and a 1.5 inch scrotal ring that stretches...
Discovery Vibrating Penis Ring with Prostate Massager - Malesation
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Discovery Vibrating Penis Ring with Prostate Massager - Malesation

Malesation
BO DP 4041937315177
R1,299
The Discovery penis ring by Malesation is a two-in-one design that now offers prostate massage with an attached penis ring.Combining the pleasure of prostate massage whilst gently restricting your blood flow you are able to experience anal stimulation, delayed ejaculation, firmer erections, intense orgasms, and increased stamina. Made from 100% phthalate...
Penis Silicone Sleeve
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Penis Stamina-Enhancing Silicone Sleeve - Seven Creations

Seven Creations
BO DP 4890888115905
R349
This flexible penis sleeve slips comfortably over your erection or vibrator and with its raised beads, will increase your sexual experience and provide heightened satisfaction. With it's snug fit, this sleeve mimics a penis ring and assists in extending foreplay, maintaining a stronger erection, and delays ejaculation. Thanks to the raised beads, you...
HydroMax9 Hydrotherapy Penis Pump - Bathmate
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HydroMax9 Hydrotherapy Penis Pump - Bathmate

Bathmate
BO DP 5060140209348/62/86
R3,899
If you're looking for the perfect way to start increasing your penis size and erection strength, or if you've reached your maximum length possible with one of the beginner pumps, within the Hydromax range, then the Hydromax9 Penis Pump (previously known as the X40) is the best pump to give you your desired results and is recommended for larger users or...
HydroXtreme9 Advanced Hydrotherapy Penis Pump - Bathmate
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HydroXtreme9 Advanced Hydrotherapy Penis Pump - Bathmate

Bathmate
BO DP 5060140209249
R5,799
The Bathmate HydroXtreme9 (previously known as the X40 Xtreme) is the most advanced choice of penis pump for users measuring between 17cm and 22cm and includes a majority of Bathmate accessories required to enhance your penis size and erection strength.An external rigidity device, the Bathmate HydroXtreme9 offers 35% more power than the Hydro9, and with a...
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