Desir’s sex essentials are products that have been introduced with the purpose of making your sexual experience that much more satisfying. From lubes and condoms, to supplements and medically sound intimate care products, our essential category offers you the best complimentary products and must-haves for your sexual health and wellbeing.

What is good sexual health?

Feeling good about your body and taking care of your physical and emotional health are all part of being sexually healthy. Physically this can relate to regular sexual health exams, getting tested for sexually transmitted infections, preventing unwanted pregnancies and having a healthy hygiene regime when it comes to cleaning your sex toys and taking care or your body.

But additionally, your emotional or mental health also has an enormous role to play in your attitude towards sex and your sexual health status. Feeling good about your body, giving yourself permission to enjoy sexual pleasure, and being comfortable with your sexual orientation and gender are huge parts of one’s sexuality and can have a fundamental impact on how you perceive yourself, others, and your sexuality.

How do I have good sex?

Planned parenthood states that good sex comes from understanding how your body works. Whilst sex is not a one size fits all experience, good sex comes down to being confident with your body, knowing what you like and don’t like, and understanding your sex drive and pleasures.

It is in this regard that Desir’s range of Essentials have been carefully curated to ensure that you have the best sex possible, whilst taking care of your sexual health and wellness at the same time.

Sexual Health Supplements

With so many factors impacting our sex lives, one of the biggest contributors is that of low libido or poor sex drive. Science has come a considerably long way in providing formulations that not only increase your sexual libido, but also assist with symptoms related to menopause, erectile dysfunction, vaginal dryness, and stamina.

Brands like Solal have focussed specifically on formulations, vitamins and minerals that contain essential ingredients like vitamin b12, vitamin b6, ginseng, fenugreek, and maca root that are natural testosterone boosting herbs. Not only proven to increase your libido, these ingredients are specifically known to alleviate symptoms related to erectile dysfunction, poor sperm quality, infertility, and are known to positively support and boost male and female sexual function. A completely natural alternative to anabolic and pharmaceutical steroid medicines, brands like Solal, LaMelle, Vitaforce, and Erex provide you with the option of adopting a far more holistic approach to your sexual health.

Stimulants and Enhancers

When it comes to stimulation and increasing your arousal and genital blood flow, several brands like Shunga, Wicked, Intimate Earth, and Pjur focus specifically on products designed to intensify your sexual experience.

From clitoral arousal serums and pleasure gels to aphrodisiacs and prolong sprays, Desir has a range of complimentary serums and elixirs that have been proven to amplify your sexual experience. Use them in conjunction with your favourite intimate product or simply for an increase in your masturbation or solo play

Explore the sensory experience of applying serums that encourage warmth, cooling, tingling, and relaxation and stimulate your nerve endings to encourage stronger orgasms and a heightened sense of arousal.

Personal Care and Product Care

One of the most important aspects to sound sexual health, is that of good personal and product care.

With conditions like bacterial vaginosis, yeast infections, vaginal infections, and STD’s, it is critical to follow a health regime that supports your sexual lifestyle. From intimate toy cleaners and disinfectant wipes, to vaginal douches and condoms, Desir has ensured that you have all you need to practice safe sex and avoid cross-contamination.

WebMd lists the use of a good intimate wash as the number one priority after sex. Not only limited to the cleansing of your genital areas, cleansing of your sex toys is just as important and with the introduction of foam or gel sex toy cleaners, taking care of your sex toys has never been easier.

With much controversy around the practice of douching and specifically with regards to women who douche, douching before or after anal sex (also referred to as rectal douching) is widely practiced to clean the anal area in preparation for sex.

With a variety of douches that range from shower attachment to bulb hand held douching apparatus, douching is best practiced with warm water and should be repeated until the water runs clean. EndHIV provides a word of caution for douching too frequently stating that it can damage the lining of the rectum, making you more susceptible to to HIV infection should you choose to not use a male condom.

Desir Panel of Medical Experts

To encourage positive sexual health and wellness, Desir has introduced a medical panel of experts that specialise in sexual health and promote sexual health and wellness - for both men and women. From gynaecologists and aesthetic practitioners, to sexologists and psychotherapists, Desir’s sexual health doctors are available for consult via our treatments category. With a variety of procedures, consults, and services available, your mental and physical sexual health is of the utmost importance to us and we are proud to offer you access to some of South Africa’s most renowned doctors who specialise in their respective fields.

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Solal Androvite Testosterone Booster - Solal

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The Androvite supplement by Solal is a natural, non-steroidal alternative to boosting testosterone in men.Testosterone is an androgenic sex hormone produced by the testicles and is often associated with feelings of manhood and general wellbeing in males. As you age however, your Testosterone levels naturally start to decline and can lead to feelings of...

Men's Delay Spray - Malesation

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The Malesation Delay Spray has all natural ingredients and has a slight numbing effect, allowing you to keep control and prevent early ejaculation. Being able to last longer will give you the opportunity to provide longer lasting enjoyment. We recommend waiting a few minutes for the spray to take effect and to prevent the spray from affecting your...

Dragon Fire & Ice Virility Prolong & Enhancing Cream - Shunga

BO697309052009 D04.11.19
All-natural ingredients provide intense sensation in Shunga's Dragon Virility Cream. The 'fire and ice' sensation enhances the erection and lightly desensitizes, so he can enjoy longer lovemaking. During sex, the sensations stimulate the vagina and G-spot, intensifying orgasms for her. Dragon Virility Cream makes sex more intense and fulfilling for both...

Pjur Med Pro-Long Delay Spray - PjurMed

BO827160105877 D25.11.19
PjurMed Pro-long delay spray features a unique combination of OakBark extract that enables a calming skin sensation whilst reducing over-sensitivity and premature ejaculation. With it's active and completely body-safe tannic acid ingredient, this spray has an astringent (contracting) effect that in combination wtih panthenol prolongs your ability to...

Solal Man 2 in 1 Dual Pack - Solal

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A comprehensive all-in-one supplement for men, the SolalMan dual pack provides you with multicaps and omega wellness essentials.Containing optimal doses of bioidentical vitamins and minerals, the SolalMan also provides you with concentrated herbal and plant extracts, antioxidants, and all 3 forms of omega - Krill oil, Fish oil, and Flaxseed oil. A...

Hot XXL Cream for Men - Hot

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Grow your girth and get intense stimulation with the Hot XXL Cream for men.Formulated with special and unique body safe ingredients, this cream is designed to make your penis feel fuller and thicker with continued use. Used regularly, the Hot XXL Cream not only increases your girth and size, but also increases your pleasure and heightens sensation....

Pjur SuperHero Performance Spray for Men - Pjur

BO827160104108 D22.11.19
Pjur SuperHero Performance spray for men is perfect for those wanting to prolong their sexual enjoyment and assist with the common side effects of erectile dysfunction. The unique formula and ingredients slightly desensitize the penis and ensure longer enjoyment and prevent premature ejaculation. It enhances smoothness, reduces oversensitivity and is one...

One-Hour Before Sex Drive Capsules for Men - Erex

The '1 Hour Before' Capsule by Erex is an all western herbal supplement designed to support your sex drive. With all natural herbs such as Elongifolia, Muira Puama, Tribulis, Panax Ginseng and Taurine, the Erex capsules have been widely tested and are known for their efficacy in enhancing sperm quality and mobility, increasing libido and sexual...

Espresso Stimulating Water-Based Lubricant - Pjur

BO827160110161 D16.07.2019
Pjur has developed a water-based lubricant that now offers a highly concentrated recipe containing caffeine - formulated to give you a stimulating effect that both activates and excites.Free from odour, colour or taste, this natural lubricant features Pjur's double-effect glide where natural additives give the lubricant a lasting and heightened...

FairSquared UltraThin Condoms - FairSquared

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The Ultra Thin condoms by FairSquared are german engineered natural latex condoms designed for those looking for safety without compromising on your 'barely there' experience.With it's wall thickness of 0.055mm, and a length of 180mm and girth of 52mm, these condoms are designed to give you the skin-on-skin feeling whilst giving you the protection that...

Hex Sensitivity & Intimacy Enhancing Condoms - Lelo

BO7350075022470 D27.06.2019
The Lelo Hex condoms took 7 years to develop to ensure that you are offered the absolute best in pleasure, strength and safety. With a completely unique hexagonal structure and slightly lubricated, the Hex condoms offer a bespoke fit to enhance the sensitivity and intimacy of sex for both you and your partner. With a structure of 350 interconnected...

Extra Safe Condoms - Durex

Durex Extra Safe condoms are specifically intended to be slightly thicker with extra lubrication to ensure comfort & extra peace of mind. With this extra reassurance, the Extra Safe condoms are the ideal way to keep your mind focused on your partner. Available in a pack of 3 or 12.
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