SEX ESSENTIALS

Sex Essentials carefully selected to compliment your intimate journey, encourage sound sexual health and wellness, and ensure a more satisfying and rewarding sex life.


Desir’s sex essentials are products that have been introduced with the purpose of making your sexual experience that much more satisfying. From lubes and condoms, to supplements and medically sound intimate care products, our essential category offers you the best complimentary products and must-haves for your sexual health and wellbeing.


What is good sexual health?

Feeling good about your body and taking care of your physical and emotional health are all part of being sexually healthy. Physically this can relate to regular sexual health exams, getting tested for sexually transmitted infections, preventing unwanted pregnancies and having a healthy hygiene regime when it comes to cleaning your sex toys and taking care or your body.


But additionally, your emotional or mental health also has an enormous role to play in your attitude towards sex and your sexual health status. Feeling good about your body, giving yourself permission to enjoy sexual pleasure, and being comfortable with your sexual orientation and gender are huge parts of one’s sexuality and can have a fundamental impact on how you perceive yourself, others, and your sexuality.


How do I have good sex?

Planned parenthood states that good sex comes from understanding how your body works. Whilst sex is not a one size fits all experience, good sex comes down to being confident with your body, knowing what you like and don’t like, and understanding your sex drive and pleasures.


It is in this regard that Desir’s range of Essentials have been carefully curated to ensure that you have the best sex possible, whilst taking care of your sexual health and wellness at the same time.


Sexual Health Supplements

With so many factors impacting our sex lives, one of the biggest contributors is that of low libido or poor sex drive. Science has come a considerably long way in providing formulations that not only increase your sexual libido, but also assist with symptoms related to menopause, erectile dysfunction, vaginal dryness, and stamina.


Brands like Solal have focussed specifically on formulations, vitamins and minerals that contain essential ingredients like vitamin b12, vitamin b6, ginseng, fenugreek, and maca root that are natural testosterone boosting herbs. Not only proven to increase your libido, these ingredients are specifically known to alleviate symptoms related to erectile dysfunction, poor sperm quality, infertility, and are known to positively support and boost male and female sexual function. A completely natural alternative to anabolic and pharmaceutical steroid medicines, brands like Solal, LaMelle, Vitaforce, and Erex provide you with the option of adopting a far more holistic approach to your sexual health.


Stimulants and Enhancers

When it comes to stimulation and increasing your arousal and genital blood flow, several brands like Shunga, Wicked, Intimate Earth, and Pjur focus specifically on products designed to intensify your sexual experience.


From clitoral arousal serums and pleasure gels to aphrodisiacs and prolong sprays, Desir has a range of complimentary serums and elixirs that have been proven to amplify your sexual experience. Use them in conjunction with your favourite intimate product or simply for an increase in your masturbation or solo play


Explore the sensory experience of applying serums that encourage warmth, cooling, tingling, and relaxation and stimulate your nerve endings to encourage stronger orgasms and a heightened sense of arousal.


Personal Care and Product Care

One of the most important aspects to sound sexual health, is that of good personal and product care.

With conditions like bacterial vaginosis, yeast infections, vaginal infections, and STD’s, it is critical to follow a health regime that supports your sexual lifestyle. From intimate toy cleaners and disinfectant wipes, to vaginal douches and condoms, Desir has ensured that you have all you need to practice safe sex and avoid cross-contamination.


WebMd lists the use of a good intimate wash as the number one priority after sex. Not only limited to the cleansing of your genital areas, cleansing of your sex toys is just as important and with the introduction of foam or gel sex toy cleaners, taking care of your sex toys has never been easier.


With much controversy around the practice of douching and specifically with regards to women who douche, douching before or after anal sex (also referred to as rectal douching) is widely practiced to clean the anal area in preparation for sex.


With a variety of douches that range from shower attachment to bulb hand held douching apparatus, douching is best practiced with warm water and should be repeated until the water runs clean. EndHIV provides a word of caution for douching too frequently stating that it can damage the lining of the rectum, making you more susceptible to to HIV infection should you choose to not use a male condom.


Desir Panel of Medical Experts

To encourage positive sexual health and wellness, Desir has introduced a medical panel of experts that specialise in sexual health and promote sexual health and wellness - for both men and women. From gynaecologists and aesthetic practitioners, to sexologists and psychotherapists, Desir’s sexual health doctors are available for consult via our treatments category. With a variety of procedures, consults, and services available, your mental and physical sexual health is of the utmost importance to us and we are proud to offer you access to some of South Africa’s most renowned doctors who specialise in their respective fields.

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Penis Pump Starter 1 - Malesation

Malesation
BO DP 4041937407575
R499
This classic penis pump by Malesation is perfect for those looking to achieve longer-lasting intercourse, a stronger erection, and delayed ejaculation quickly and safely. A transparent cylinder made of ABS plastic with an integrated measurement scale allows you to monitor your gains whilst the silicone base makes it comfortable to wear whilst creating a...
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Bunny Cock Ring - Malesation

Malesation
BO DP 4041937315719
R189
This versatile penis ring by Malesation is a double banded ring featuring a 'rabbit ear' head that promises dual satisfaction for both partners. With it's super-stretchy, body-safe silicone design, this cock ring is a soft, odourless, non-porous ring that is both easy to clean and fully waterproof. Designed to provide longer-lasting pleasure for him as...
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Sparta Prostate Massager - Nexus

Nexus
BO DP 5060274220776
R1,899
The Sparta prostate massager by Nexus is a luxury anal massager that uses unique stroker technology featured in the tip of it's shaft to precisely stimulate the prostate. The ergonomic design allows easy insertion whilst the looped handle at the base on the massager allows you to have absolutely control and precision on how deep or where to massage....
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Vibro Spanning Ring - Malesation

Malesation
BO DP 4041937315948
R749
The Vibro Spanning Ring by Malesation is a sturdy penis ring designed to assist you to achieve a long lasting and far stronger erection whilst delaying ejaculation at the same time. With 2 motors situated inside the ring, you gain powerful vibrations that can be felt up and down your shaft whilst delivering the same amount pleasure to your partner on...
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Kalahari Horing Erection Booster & Enhancer - PVT Remedies

PVT Remedies
Kalahari
R249
Kalahari Horing is an all natural supplement designed to boost your erection power to it's full potential. With studies showing exceptional results, the Kalahari Horing supplement aids in low libido, low sex drive, weak erection strength, and premature ejaculation. With results visible in just 40 minutes after taking 2 capsules, the Kalahari Horing...
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Luvido Libido Booster for Men - Ailon

LuvidoMen
R279
The Luvido libido booster for men is an all natural supplement from the Ailon Naturals brand. Taken as a dietary supplement, Luvido contains wild harvested Mpesu, an all natural herbal product that is well known for it's libido inducing effects. Packed with added proteins and minerals, Luvido is a potent nutritional supplement that promises a boost in...
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Willy Super-Stretch Penis Rings (Pack of 3) - Oxballs

Oxballs
BO DP840215120311
R229
Oxballs new super stretch penis rings are the perfect addition for prolonging intercourse, delaying ejaculation and giving you a much harder erection. Worn at the base of the shaft, these rings gently constrict your blood flow, allowing you to last longer and have a firmer erection. Use them as singles, or stack them on top of each other to experience...
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Lubricants

Elite Velvet Touch Silicone Glide and Massage - Intimate Earth

Intimate Earth
BO MS 049IE
R649
Velvety smooth, Elite Velvet Touch Silicone Glide and Massage by Intimate Earth is a premium all in one massage and silicone personal glide.  Highest grade silicone is infused with natural Shiitake extracts and Vitamin E for the softest nourishing glide. Pure vegan and paraben free, with absolutely no taste or smell. This unique Intimate Earth product...
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Premium Silicone Based Lubricant - Promescent

Promescent
P PromSilicone
R379
The Promescent Premium Silicone based lubricant is ideal for longer lasting sex, masturbation or water play. With a thicker viscosity than that of a water-based lubricant, Promescent silicone lube is long-lasting, odourless, colourless, and paraben-free. Designed to reduce friction and increase your overall comfort during intercourse or masturbation,...
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StaminoGro Fertility Supplement - iNova Pharmaceuticals

R280
StaminoGro is a combination supplement designed to assist you in providing additional nutrition, and works synergistically to help promote wellbeing and vitality.  With it's Vitamin E, Arginine and Selenium ingredients, StaminoGro is perfect for women who suffer from subfertility improved ovarian response, endometrial receptivity, and are struggling to...
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CBD Shot Energy & Focus 5mg - ReThink

ReThink
ReThinkEnergyShot
R49
ReThink shots are a great way to experience the full benefits of CBD quickly and easily. In a compact size, the Energy & Focus CBD Shot helps to increase energy, heighten focus, and improve alertness thanks to it's combination of Vitamin B and Caffeine.  In a palatable cherry flavour each shot contains 5mg of CBD in a 50ml single shot bottle....
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Delay and Climax Control Spray - Promescent

Promescent
P PromDelay
R749
For anyone looking to build confidence and last longer in bed, the Promescent Delay and Climax Control spray is ideal.  Voted by over 2000+ healthcare professionals, this lidocaine delay spray increases your level of control whilst still maintaining enough sensitivity to achieve strong orgasms. With a metered-dose spray delivering 10mg of lidocaine per...
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VitaFlux Libido Supplement - Promescent

Promescent
P VitaFlux
R1,499
VitaFlux by international brand Promescent is a supplement designed to improve your overall circulation health for both men and women. Specially formulated to boost your body's Nitric Oxide levels, VitaFlux improves your circulation, lowers your blood pressure, improves your body's endothelium health, helps to maintain erections and assists greatly with...
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CBD MIND, SLEEP, PLEASURE, MOOD Capsules (60 Capsules) - Biomedcan

Biomedcan
BMC BioMed Mind
R549
The Biomedcan CBD range is an all-natural, locally produced range of CBD products that promote a balanced mind, healthy body, and overall improved personal wellbeing.  With a range of capsules that range from assisting SLEEP, MOOD, MIND, and PLEASURE, Biomedcan capsules combine the multi-faceted CBD components with other all-natural ingredients that...
Prelox Patented Male Fertility Supplement - LaMelle Prelox Patented Male Fertility Supplement - LaMelle 2
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Prelox Patented Male Fertility & Libido Supplement - LaMelle

LaMelle
LM 6009825730615
R649
Based on a unique formulation, Prelox for men is a natural booster for low libido as well as a supplement to increase sperm and virality. Taken as a daily supplement, Prelox assist with boosting your confidence, performance in the bedroom, and overall health. Close to 10% of all couples experience infertility at one point or another, with half of all...
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Prelox Peak Performance Male Supplement - LaMelle

LaMelle
LM PRE002
R679
Sexual wellness and performance is often seen as a barometer of a mans health. With blood flow being one of our most important functions, it helps bring oxygen and nutrients to our muscles and organs. A healthy blood circulation is key to optimal erectile function and quality. Prelox Peak Performance tablets contribute in a natural way to not only...
Max Out Jelqing Enhancement Serum - Bathmate
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Max Out Jelqing Enhancement Serum - Bathmate

Bathmate
BO DP 5060140200505
R879
Bathmate's Jelq Max Out serum is a unique formulae designed to assist with the traditional technique of Jelqing - a massage method to increase your penis size.Believed to increase the size of your erection, Jelqing involves massaging your penis in a way which stretches and improves blood flow. The technique, derived from the Middle East, is best used with...
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Water Based Lubricant - Bathmate

Bathmate
BO DP 5060140200239
R329
Bathmate Lubricant is a personal lubricant formulated for penile, vaginal, or anal application. With it's PH friendly formula, this lube moisturizes and lubricates and is specifically designed to enhance your comfort and ease during intercourse and to supplement your body's natural lubrication. Compatible with latex, polyisoprene, and polyurethane...
Pjur MED Sensitive Glide - Pjur
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Pjur MED Sensitive Glide - Pjur

Pjur
BO DP 827160111137
R499
The Pjur MED Sensitive Glide is a lubricant formulated free of glycerins, parabens, and preservatives and is ideal for more sensitive users.With it's neutral formulation, Pjur MED Sensitive glide has been formulated specifically with very sensitive genital mucous membranes in mind. With it's pureistic formula, this lube has been made as neutral as...
Defense Protection Glide & Lubricant - Intimate Earth
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Defense Water-Based Lubricant with Tea Tree - Intimate Earth

Intimate Earth
BO MS 033IE
R449
The Defense Protection Glide and Lubricant by Intimate Earth is an exciting breakthrough in lubricants.Containing strong anti-yeast and HPV protection agents such as Caarrageean (sea kelp) and Guava bark anti-bacterial extract, this lubricant inhibits the infectious ability of viruses that cause cervical cancer and genital warts and assist in preventing...
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Le'Lube Dermo Sensitive Water-Based Lubricant with Aloe Vera - Le'Lube

Con LL LeLube
R99
Le'Lube is a unique silky water-based lubricant for both intimate pleasure or massage.  Le'Lube is specifically PH balanced with a low osmolality of 765 mOsm/kg. The World Health Organisation recommends that one use a lubricant with an osmolality of below 1200 mOsm/kg. Le'Lube thereby maintains the body's natural homeostasis. Le'Lube has been tested and...
KY Lubricating Jelly - Durex KY Lubricating Jelly - Durex 2
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KY Lubricating Jelly - Durex

Durex
SM 110112
R119
This lubricating jelly by Durex is a personal lubricant formulated to replicate the body's natural moisture levels. Water-soluble, this water-based lube is safe to use with all condoms and intimate products. Protecting against discomfort and gynaecologically tested, this lube quickly prepares you for intimacy and eases discomfort that is caused by...
Play 2in1 Massage Gel - Durex Play 2in1 Massage Gel - Durex 2
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Play 2in1 Massage Gel - Durex

Durex
SM 10048803/4/5
R159
Durex Play 2in1 Massage Gel contains a blend of natural aromatherapeutic ingredients and is designed to be used as an all over body massage glide or a stimulating lubricant for either him or her. With it's soft, smooth and silky consistency, this water based lubricant is perfect for adding moisture to your intimate areas and leaving your skin feeling...
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Super Man-Up Libido Protein - My Wellness

My Wellness
MW MUAP1000V/C
R399
Man-Up Libido Protein powder by My Wellness is a lean chocolate or vanilla flavoured protein powder formulated to deal with male sex performance issues, whilst assisting in lean muscle repair and growth at the same time. Using a combination of super-foods and amino acids, this protein powder targets the root cause of many of the symptoms related to...
Super Ashwagandha Libido... Super Ashwagandha Libido... 2
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Super Ashwagandha Libido Enhancing Capsules - My Wellness

My Wellness
MW SA60
R229
The Super Ashwagandha capsules by My Wellness contain one of the most powerful and most important herbs in Ayurveda - a form of alternative medicine based on Indian principles of natural healing.  Formulated to increase your virility, sexual desire, alleviate symptoms related to anxiety and depression, as well as relieving stress, this ancient medicinal...
Man-Up Libido Boost - My... Man-Up Libido Boost - My... 2
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Man-Up Libido Boost - My Wellness

My Wellness
MW MULB30
R279
The Man-Up Libido Boost supplement by My Wellness is designed to alleviate erectile dysfunction in men whilst increasing libido at the same time, using powerful traditional African herbs and known vasodialtors. An all natural combination that produces effective results.  Simply take 4 capsules a day, or as needed 30 mins before sexual activity. Used...
Ultre Fragrance Free Silicone Based Intimate Lubricant - Wicked
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Ultra Fragrance Free Silicone Based Intimate Lubricant (60ml, 120ml)- Wicked

Wicked
CJ 133168/9
R279
Ultra Silicone Lubricant by Wicked is luxuriously sensuous and long lasting. This high performance, velvety smooth formula will enhance pleasure without feeling heavy, greasy or tacky. Formulated with the highest quality silicone available in the personal care market. Ultra Fragrance Free contains no additives or fillers for an exceptionally silky feel....
Creme Masturbation Cream For Men - Wicked
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Creme Masturbation Cream For Men - Wicked

Wicked
CJ 133152
R249
Peak your sensations and intensify your pleasure with Creme Masturbation Cream for Men. This unique, oil-based, intimate lubricant is essential for private moments. Experience the transformation as the fortified, nourishing cream, melts with the warmth of your body into a non-greasy liquid lube. The superior glide of Vitamin E enriched Creme is sensually...
Aqua Fragrance Free Water Based Intimate Lubricant - Wicked
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Lubricants

Aqua Fragrance Free Water Based Intimate Lubricant (60ml, 120ml, 250ml) - Wicked

Wicked
CJ 133182
R179
This water-based lubricant by Wicked, is a completely safe, fragrance-free, preservative free lubricant designed for the more sensitive skin.  Perfect for every day lubricant for women who suffer from dryness, for use with your intimate products and for both vaginal and anal sex, this non-sticky, hydrating formulation leaves your skin feeling silk...
Water-Based Flavoured... Water-Based Flavoured... 2
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Water-Based Flavoured Lubricant - Wicked

Wicked
CJ 133173
R229
A leading brand in lubricants, Wicked has introduced a product that will allow your sexual adventures to involve all of the five senses, allowing you to reach your most intimate desires. Each flavour is available in 60ml, are long-lasting, non-sticky, paraben-free, and latex friendly so can be enjoyed safely, also making this ideal with vegans. The...
Twilight Pheromone Perfume... Twilight Pheromone Perfume... 2
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Stimulants & Enhancers

Twilight Pheromone Perfume for Him - Hot Man

BO DP 4042342000450/467
R1,199
The Hot Man Pheromone perfume spray for him is an extra-strong pheromone spray designed to enhance your natural pheromones and enhance the sexual arousal of women.Made from unique and top quality ingredients, Hot Man enhances your natural pheromones which are often lost during cleansing and uses specific ingredients to work as sexual attractants on top of...
MensVite Mature - VitaForce
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MensVite Mature - VitaForce

Vitaforce
621378
R179
VitaForce MensVite Mature is a multivitamin and multimineral supplement specifically formulated for men between the ages of 45 years and older.With it's unique 2-phase release system, this multivitamin, mineral, and amino acid combination is designed for optimal absorption throughout the day. With it's balanced formulae targeting older men, you gain the...
MensVite Adult - Vitaforce
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MensVite Adult - Vitaforce

Vitaforce
062465
R179
VitaForce MensVite Adult is a unique 2-phase release comprehensive multivitamin, mineral and amino acid supplement designed for men between the ages of 18-45 years.Containing essential vitamins and antioxidants, this supplement supports reproductive health, the immune system and helps to protect the body's cells from damage. With the inclusion...
Solal Prostate Protection Formula - Solal
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Solal Prostate Protection Formula - Solal

Solal
DSV 6009663991551
R399
The Prostate Protection formula by Solal is a plant-based formulae that supports prostate health and relieves the associated urinary symptoms.With the combination of I3C, DIM and curcumin, the Prostate Protection formula is the only formulation that combines all natural extracts at optimal doses, to provide adequate protection for the prostate. Retarding...
Delay Spray - Malesation
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Men's Delay Spray - Malesation

Malesation
BO DP 4041937911171
R379
The Malesation Delay Spray has all natural ingredients and has a slight numbing effect, allowing you to keep control and prevent early ejaculation. Being able to last longer will give you the opportunity to provide longer lasting enjoyment. We recommend waiting a few minutes for the spray to take effect and to prevent the spray from affecting your...
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Dragon Fire & Ice Virility Prolong & Enhancing Cream - Shunga

Shunga
BO DP 97309052009
R899
All-natural ingredients provide intense sensation in Shunga's Dragon Virility Cream. The 'fire and ice' sensation enhances the erection and lightly desensitizes, so he can enjoy longer lovemaking. During sex, the sensations stimulate the vagina and G-spot, intensifying orgasms for her. Dragon Virility Cream makes sex more intense and fulfilling for both...
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