SEX ESSENTIALS

Sex Essentials carefully selected to compliment your intimate journey, encourage sound sexual health and wellness, and ensure a more satisfying and rewarding sex life.


Desir’s sex essentials are products that have been introduced with the purpose of making your sexual experience that much more satisfying. From lubes and condoms, to supplements and medically sound intimate care products, our essential category offers you the best complimentary products and must-haves for your sexual health and wellbeing.


What is good sexual health?

Feeling good about your body and taking care of your physical and emotional health are all part of being sexually healthy. Physically this can relate to regular sexual health exams, getting tested for sexually transmitted infections, preventing unwanted pregnancies and having a healthy hygiene regime when it comes to cleaning your sex toys and taking care or your body.


But additionally, your emotional or mental health also has an enormous role to play in your attitude towards sex and your sexual health status. Feeling good about your body, giving yourself permission to enjoy sexual pleasure, and being comfortable with your sexual orientation and gender are huge parts of one’s sexuality and can have a fundamental impact on how you perceive yourself, others, and your sexuality.


How do I have good sex?

Planned parenthood states that good sex comes from understanding how your body works. Whilst sex is not a one size fits all experience, good sex comes down to being confident with your body, knowing what you like and don’t like, and understanding your sex drive and pleasures.


It is in this regard that Desir’s range of Essentials have been carefully curated to ensure that you have the best sex possible, whilst taking care of your sexual health and wellness at the same time.


Sexual Health Supplements

With so many factors impacting our sex lives, one of the biggest contributors is that of low libido or poor sex drive. Science has come a considerably long way in providing formulations that not only increase your sexual libido, but also assist with symptoms related to menopause, erectile dysfunction, vaginal dryness, and stamina.


Brands like Solal have focussed specifically on formulations, vitamins and minerals that contain essential ingredients like vitamin b12, vitamin b6, ginseng, fenugreek, and maca root that are natural testosterone boosting herbs. Not only proven to increase your libido, these ingredients are specifically known to alleviate symptoms related to erectile dysfunction, poor sperm quality, infertility, and are known to positively support and boost male and female sexual function. A completely natural alternative to anabolic and pharmaceutical steroid medicines, brands like Solal, LaMelle, Vitaforce, and Erex provide you with the option of adopting a far more holistic approach to your sexual health.


Stimulants and Enhancers

When it comes to stimulation and increasing your arousal and genital blood flow, several brands like Shunga, Wicked, Intimate Earth, and Pjur focus specifically on products designed to intensify your sexual experience.


From clitoral arousal serums and pleasure gels to aphrodisiacs and prolong sprays, Desir has a range of complimentary serums and elixirs that have been proven to amplify your sexual experience. Use them in conjunction with your favourite intimate product or simply for an increase in your masturbation or solo play


Explore the sensory experience of applying serums that encourage warmth, cooling, tingling, and relaxation and stimulate your nerve endings to encourage stronger orgasms and a heightened sense of arousal.


Personal Care and Product Care

One of the most important aspects to sound sexual health, is that of good personal and product care.

With conditions like bacterial vaginosis, yeast infections, vaginal infections, and STD’s, it is critical to follow a health regime that supports your sexual lifestyle. From intimate toy cleaners and disinfectant wipes, to vaginal douches and condoms, Desir has ensured that you have all you need to practice safe sex and avoid cross-contamination.


WebMd lists the use of a good intimate wash as the number one priority after sex. Not only limited to the cleansing of your genital areas, cleansing of your sex toys is just as important and with the introduction of foam or gel sex toy cleaners, taking care of your sex toys has never been easier.


With much controversy around the practice of douching and specifically with regards to women who douche, douching before or after anal sex (also referred to as rectal douching) is widely practiced to clean the anal area in preparation for sex.


With a variety of douches that range from shower attachment to bulb hand held douching apparatus, douching is best practiced with warm water and should be repeated until the water runs clean. EndHIV provides a word of caution for douching too frequently stating that it can damage the lining of the rectum, making you more susceptible to to HIV infection should you choose to not use a male condom.


Desir Panel of Medical Experts

To encourage positive sexual health and wellness, Desir has introduced a medical panel of experts that specialise in sexual health and promote sexual health and wellness - for both men and women. From gynaecologists and aesthetic practitioners, to sexologists and psychotherapists, Desir’s sexual health doctors are available for consult via our treatments category. With a variety of procedures, consults, and services available, your mental and physical sexual health is of the utmost importance to us and we are proud to offer you access to some of South Africa’s most renowned doctors who specialise in their respective fields.

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Penis Pump Starter 1 - Malesation

Malesation
BO DP 4041937407575
R499
This classic penis pump by Malesation is perfect for those looking to achieve longer-lasting intercourse, a stronger erection, and delayed ejaculation quickly and safely. A transparent cylinder made of ABS plastic with an integrated measurement scale allows you to monitor your gains whilst the silicone base makes it comfortable to wear whilst creating a...
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Supporting Penis Sleeve For Extra Girth & Length - Boners

BON035
R599
Adding length and girth to your penis, the Boners Supporting Penis Sleeve is a soft and flexible sleeve designed to add up to 25cm to your penis length. Made from Phthalate free TPE material, this sleeve is easy to wear and is perfect for men suffering from erectile dysfunction or for those looking to add extra girth and length to your size. Featuring a...
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Bunny Cock Ring - Malesation

Malesation
BO DP 4041937315719
R169
This versatile penis ring by Malesation is a double banded ring featuring a 'rabbit ear' head that promises dual satisfaction for both partners. With it's super-stretchy, body-safe silicone design, this cock ring is a soft, odourless, non-porous ring that is both easy to clean and fully waterproof. Designed to provide longer-lasting pleasure for him as...
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Penis Grip Pump - Boners

EasyToys
EDC BON025
R699
The Penis Pump by Boners is a large cylinder penis pump featuring a hand controlled grip pump. By applying a small amount of lubricant onto the seal of the pump as well as your penis you are able to insert your penis seamlessly into the cylinder without any discomfort. By applying a gentle amount of pressure onto the grip pump handle you are able to see...
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Last Longer Delay Cream - Boners

EasyToys
EDC BON103
R379
The Boners Delay Cream is a silky smooth water based cream that provides a subtle numbing effect to your penis, allowing you to last and perform longer. Apply a small amount of cream to your entire penis and gently massage in. Wait until the cream is fully absorbed into your skin so that you don't numb your partners skin as well. With just the right...
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Rock Hard Erection Cream - Boners

EasyToys
EDC BON101
R379
The Rock Hard Erection Cream by Boners has a unique formula of ingredients that are designed to assist you in maintaining a firmer and harder erection, whilst allowing you to have intercourse for longer. By massaging a small amount of cream to your entire penis prior to intercourse, your tissue becomes softer allowing for more stimulation and your blood...
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Cock & Ball Strap - Boners

EasyToys
EDC BON016
R429
The Cock and Ball strap by Boners is a silicone strap designed to be worn around the penis and scrotum and assists with a firmer erection and longer lasting intercourse. With the ring worn around the base of the penis, the blood flow is gently restricted allowing you to experience a firmer erection whilst the scrotum band hugs your testicles gently...
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Pivot Vibrating Penis Ring for Couples - We-Vibe™

We Vibe
BO DP 839289006812
R2,199
The Pivot by We-Vibe™ is a stretchy silicone cock ring that is worn around the base of the penis. It is made of soft silicone that is comfortable and hardwearing. Apply We-Vibe™ Lube to the ring and the penis and slide down gently to the base of the penis. The Pivot cock ring helps him to stay harder and to last longer. The powerful rumbly motor in the...
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Verge Luxury Vibrating Penis Ring & Perineum Massager - We-Vibe

We Vibe
BO DP 839289006805
R2,499
You’ll love the the power and pleasure you’ll feel with the Verge by We-Vibe™. Cock rings help to create a bigger, harder, and more long-lasting erection, finishing with more powerful orgasms. Now, the Verge cock ring by We-Vibe™ intensifies that pleasure with vibrations targeted to the scrotum and perineum. Put the Verge on before you get aroused, gently...
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Stretchy Penis Rings - Set of 3 - Malesation

Malesation
BO DP 4041937315108
R249
These stretchy penis ring set by Malesation is designed specifically to help you achieve a longer-lasting and stronger erection. With three seperate rings, each featuring a unique design, you can choose from ribbed wtih chunky blocks, groovy waves, or fine ornamentation - all providing you with unique and varied stimulation. Made from phthalate free and...
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Happy Rabbit Vibrating Love Ring - LoveHoney

Lovehoney
BO DP 5060020006500
R979
The Happy Rabbit Love Ring by LoveHoney is a super-stretchy double penis ring that not only offers staying power for him, but incredible vibrations for her.With a dual silicone love ring, this penis ring is designed to be worn by him, with one ring placed firmly around the shaft and the other wrapped around his testicles. The dual pressure not only...
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OxBalls Air Sport Cock Ring - Oxballs

Oxballs
BO DP 840215119575
R479
The OxBalls Air Sport Penis Ring is a super-lightweight stretchable penis and testicle ring, designed for wearers that enjoy the snug fit of a testicle and penis ring, but don't want the weight that goes with it.Made from super-soft, stretchy plus silicone, the OxBall Sport C-Ring is a super sleek and aerodynamic ring that can be worn either at the base...
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Clit Ring Penis Ring for Couples - Malesation

Malesation
BO DP 4041937315160
R399
The Clit Ring by Malesation has been specifically designed for couples stimulation in mind.With it's firm curvy targeted nub situated on top of the ring, you are able to stimulate the clitoris with precise pleasure. Wear it at the base of the shaft of the penis and enjoy prolonged love-making, delayed ejaculation and a...
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Vibro 8 Dual Penis Ring - Malesation

Malesation
BO DP 4041937315214
R425
The Malesation Vibro 8 Ring is a vibrating dual penis ring designed to be worn around both your testicles and the base of your shaft. Made from super-stretchy ABS & TPE material, this soft and flexible ring fits snugly around your testicles, gently pulling out the base of your penis. With the second ring fitting snugly around the base of your shaft, you...
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A Perfect O Silicone Love Ring - Fifty Shades of Grey

Fifty Shades of Grey
BO DP 5060428804784
R219
The Perfect O silicone love ring by Fifty Shades of Grey is formed from 100% body safe silicone and contains no phthalates or latex. Slightly stretchy, this silky soft silicone ring is extremely comfortable. Slip the ring onto the base of the penis shaft with a little water-based lubricant to gently grip and constrict the blood flow to your penis.  The...
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Beginner Cock Ring Set - Malesation

Malesation
BO DP 4041937315726
R179
This penis ring set by Malesation is the perfect set if you are new to using penis rings or are unsure of your size.Featuring 3 rings in a pack, from 2.2cm in girth to 3cm, you have the option of trying three different rings until you find your ideal fit. Made from 100% soft silicone, these super stretchy rings allow you to use one at a time or use all...
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Tammy Double Ring Couple's Vibrator - Svakom

Svakom
CON SV S38-VLT
R1,699
The Tammy by Svakom is a double penis ring designed for couples looking for extreme pleasure.With a soft silicone material, this super-flexible penis ring features two rings - one designed to be worn around the scrotum and the other around the base of your penile shaft. WIth a circular textured pad situated at the top of the ring,  you are able to provide...
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Olio Libido For Him Potency Supplement - Olio

Olio
WSLIBHIM
R389
Olio Libido For Him is a male potency supplement, scientifically formulated with premium natural ingredients to enhance sexual performance, increase blood flow and reduce anxiety.  A healthy libido is important for physical and mental well-being. Take 2 capsules daily, preferably with a meal or 30 minutes before intercourse.  Benefits:  - Improves...
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Vibro Spanning Ring - Malesation

Malesation
BO DP 4041937315948
R749
The Vibro Spanning Ring by Malesation is a sturdy penis ring designed to assist you to achieve a long lasting and far stronger erection whilst delaying ejaculation at the same time. With 2 motors situated inside the ring, you gain powerful vibrations that can be felt up and down your shaft whilst delivering the same amount pleasure to your partner on...
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Kalahari Horing Erection Booster & Enhancer - PVT Remedies

PVT Remedies
Kalahari
R249
Kalahari Horing is an all natural supplement designed to boost your erection power to it's full potential. With studies showing exceptional results, the Kalahari Horing supplement aids in low libido, low sex drive, weak erection strength, and premature ejaculation. With results visible in just 40 minutes after taking 2 capsules, the Kalahari Horing...
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Luvido Libido Booster for Men - Ailon

LuvidoMen
R279
The Luvido libido booster for men is an all natural supplement from the Ailon Naturals brand. Taken as a dietary supplement, Luvido contains wild harvested Mpesu, an all natural herbal product that is well known for it's libido inducing effects. Packed with added proteins and minerals, Luvido is a potent nutritional supplement that promises a boost in...
Willy Super-Stretch Penis... Willy Super-Stretch Penis... 2
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Willy Super-Stretch Penis Rings (Pack of 3) - Oxballs

Oxballs
BO DP840215120311
R229
Oxballs new super stretch penis rings are the perfect addition for prolonging intercourse, delaying ejaculation and giving you a much harder erection. Worn at the base of the shaft, these rings gently constrict your blood flow, allowing you to last longer and have a firmer erection. Use them as singles, or stack them on top of each other to experience...
Marathon Delay Spray for... Marathon Delay Spray for... 2
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Marathon Delay Spray for Him - Intome

Intome
INTHIM01
R379
The Marathon Delay Spray by Intome has been specifically formulated to delay ejaculation and reduce sensitivity in the penis. Allowing you to last longer during intercourse, the Marathon delay spray is applied before sex and ensures that the penis is not overly sensitive during intercourse.  Shake well before use and spray between 2 to 5 times for best...
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Vibrating Couples Penis Ring - PlusOne

PlusOne
6701
R899
The vibrating ring by PlusOne is a super stretchy body safe silicone ring designed to prolong his play and increase her pleasure. Perfect to use whether during solo or couple play, this penis ring accommodates most sizes and is worn around the base of the penile shaft. With the super-stretchy band gently constricting his blood flow, he gains a firmer...
Elite Velvet Touch Silicone... Elite Velvet Touch Silicone... 2
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Elite Velvet Touch Silicone Glide and Massage - Intimate Earth

Intimate Earth
BO MS 049IE
R649
Velvety smooth, Elite Velvet Touch Silicone Glide and Massage by Intimate Earth is a premium all in one massage and silicone personal glide.  Highest grade silicone is infused with natural Shiitake extracts and Vitamin E for the softest nourishing glide. Pure vegan and paraben free, with absolutely no taste or smell. This unique Intimate Earth product...
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StaminoGro Fertility Supplement - iNova Pharmaceuticals

R280
StaminoGro is a combination supplement designed to assist you in providing additional nutrition, and works synergistically to help promote wellbeing and vitality.  With it's Vitamin E, Arginine and Selenium ingredients, StaminoGro is perfect for women who suffer from subfertility improved ovarian response, endometrial receptivity, and are struggling to...
Delay and Climax Control... Delay and Climax Control... 2
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Delay and Climax Control Spray - Promescent

Promescent
P PromDelay
R749
For anyone looking to build confidence and last longer in bed, the Promescent Delay and Climax Control spray is ideal.  Voted by over 2000+ healthcare professionals, this lidocaine delay spray increases your level of control whilst still maintaining enough sensitivity to achieve strong orgasms. With a metered-dose spray delivering 10mg of lidocaine per...
VitaFlux Libido Supplement... VitaFlux Libido Supplement... 2
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VitaFlux Libido Supplement for Men - Promescent

Promescent
P VitaFlux
R1,499
VitaFlux by international brand Promescent is a supplement designed to improve your overall circulation health for men. Specially formulated to boost your body's Nitric Oxide levels, VitaFlux improves your circulation, lowers your blood pressure, improves your body's endothelium health, helps to maintain erections and assists greatly with symptoms...
Prelox Patented Male Fertility Supplement - LaMelle Prelox Patented Male Fertility Supplement - LaMelle 2
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Prelox Patented Male Fertility & Libido Supplement - LaMelle

LaMelle
LM 6009825730615
R649
Based on a unique formulation, Prelox for men is a natural booster for low libido as well as a supplement to increase sperm and virality. Taken as a daily supplement, Prelox assist with boosting your confidence, performance in the bedroom, and overall health. Close to 10% of all couples experience infertility at one point or another, with half of all...
Prelox Peak Performance... Prelox Peak Performance... 2
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Prelox Peak Performance Male Supplement - LaMelle

LaMelle
LM PRE002
R679
Sexual wellness and performance is often seen as a barometer of a mans health. With blood flow being one of our most important functions, it helps bring oxygen and nutrients to our muscles and organs. A healthy blood circulation is key to optimal erectile function and quality. Prelox Peak Performance tablets contribute in a natural way to not only...
Max Out Jelqing Enhancement Serum - Bathmate
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Max Out Jelqing Enhancement Serum - Bathmate

Bathmate
BO DP 5060140200505
R799
Bathmate's Jelq Max Out serum is a unique formulae designed to assist with the traditional technique of Jelqing - a massage method to increase your penis size.Believed to increase the size of your erection, Jelqing involves massaging your penis in a way which stretches and improves blood flow. The technique, derived from the Middle East, is best used with...
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Water Based Lubricant - Bathmate

Bathmate
BO DP 5060140200239
R289
Bathmate Lubricant is a personal lubricant formulated for penile, vaginal, or anal application. With it's PH friendly formula, this lube moisturizes and lubricates and is specifically designed to enhance your comfort and ease during intercourse and to supplement your body's natural lubrication. Compatible with latex, polyisoprene, and polyurethane...
Pjur MED Sensitive Glide - Pjur
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Pjur MED Sensitive Glide - Pjur

Pjur
BO DP 827160111137
R499
The Pjur MED Sensitive Glide is a lubricant formulated free of glycerins, parabens, and preservatives and is ideal for more sensitive users.With it's neutral formulation, Pjur MED Sensitive glide has been formulated specifically with very sensitive genital mucous membranes in mind. With it's pureistic formula, this lube has been made as neutral as...
Defense Protection Glide & Lubricant - Intimate Earth
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Defense Water-Based Lubricant with Tea Tree - Intimate Earth

Intimate Earth
BO MS 033IE
R449
The Defense Protection Glide and Lubricant by Intimate Earth is an exciting breakthrough in lubricants.Containing strong anti-yeast and HPV protection agents such as Caarrageean (sea kelp) and Guava bark anti-bacterial extract, this lubricant inhibits the infectious ability of viruses that cause cervical cancer and genital warts and assist in preventing...
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Le'Lube Dermo Sensitive Water-Based Lubricant with Aloe Vera - Le'Lube

Con LL LeLube
R119
Le'Lube is a unique silky water-based lubricant for both intimate pleasure or massage.  Le'Lube is specifically PH balanced with a low osmolality of 765 mOsm/kg. The World Health Organisation recommends that one use a lubricant with an osmolality of below 1200 mOsm/kg. Le'Lube thereby maintains the body's natural homeostasis. Le'Lube has been tested and...
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KY Lubricating Jelly - Durex

Durex
SM 110112
R119
This lubricating jelly by Durex is a personal lubricant formulated to replicate the body's natural moisture levels. Water-soluble, this water-based lube is safe to use with all condoms and intimate products. Protecting against discomfort and gynaecologically tested, this lube quickly prepares you for intimacy and eases discomfort that is caused by...
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