SEX ESSENTIALS

Sex Essentials carefully selected to compliment your intimate journey, encourage sound sexual health and wellness, and ensure a more satisfying and rewarding sex life.


Desir’s sex essentials are products that have been introduced with the purpose of making your sexual experience that much more satisfying. From lubes and condoms, to supplements and medically sound intimate care products, our essential category offers you the best complimentary products and must-haves for your sexual health and wellbeing.


What is good sexual health?

Feeling good about your body and taking care of your physical and emotional health are all part of being sexually healthy. Physically this can relate to regular sexual health exams, getting tested for sexually transmitted infections, preventing unwanted pregnancies and having a healthy hygiene regime when it comes to cleaning your sex toys and taking care or your body.


But additionally, your emotional or mental health also has an enormous role to play in your attitude towards sex and your sexual health status. Feeling good about your body, giving yourself permission to enjoy sexual pleasure, and being comfortable with your sexual orientation and gender are huge parts of one’s sexuality and can have a fundamental impact on how you perceive yourself, others, and your sexuality.


How do I have good sex?

Planned parenthood states that good sex comes from understanding how your body works. Whilst sex is not a one size fits all experience, good sex comes down to being confident with your body, knowing what you like and don’t like, and understanding your sex drive and pleasures.


It is in this regard that Desir’s range of Essentials have been carefully curated to ensure that you have the best sex possible, whilst taking care of your sexual health and wellness at the same time.


Sexual Health Supplements

With so many factors impacting our sex lives, one of the biggest contributors is that of low libido or poor sex drive. Science has come a considerably long way in providing formulations that not only increase your sexual libido, but also assist with symptoms related to menopause, erectile dysfunction, vaginal dryness, and stamina.


Brands like Solal have focussed specifically on formulations, vitamins and minerals that contain essential ingredients like vitamin b12, vitamin b6, ginseng, fenugreek, and maca root that are natural testosterone boosting herbs. Not only proven to increase your libido, these ingredients are specifically known to alleviate symptoms related to erectile dysfunction, poor sperm quality, infertility, and are known to positively support and boost male and female sexual function. A completely natural alternative to anabolic and pharmaceutical steroid medicines, brands like Solal, LaMelle, Vitaforce, and Erex provide you with the option of adopting a far more holistic approach to your sexual health.


Stimulants and Enhancers

When it comes to stimulation and increasing your arousal and genital blood flow, several brands like Shunga, Wicked, Intimate Earth, and Pjur focus specifically on products designed to intensify your sexual experience.


From clitoral arousal serums and pleasure gels to aphrodisiacs and prolong sprays, Desir has a range of complimentary serums and elixirs that have been proven to amplify your sexual experience. Use them in conjunction with your favourite intimate product or simply for an increase in your masturbation or solo play


Explore the sensory experience of applying serums that encourage warmth, cooling, tingling, and relaxation and stimulate your nerve endings to encourage stronger orgasms and a heightened sense of arousal.


Personal Care and Product Care

One of the most important aspects to sound sexual health, is that of good personal and product care.

With conditions like bacterial vaginosis, yeast infections, vaginal infections, and STD’s, it is critical to follow a health regime that supports your sexual lifestyle. From intimate toy cleaners and disinfectant wipes, to vaginal douches and condoms, Desir has ensured that you have all you need to practice safe sex and avoid cross-contamination.


WebMd lists the use of a good intimate wash as the number one priority after sex. Not only limited to the cleansing of your genital areas, cleansing of your sex toys is just as important and with the introduction of foam or gel sex toy cleaners, taking care of your sex toys has never been easier.


With much controversy around the practice of douching and specifically with regards to women who douche, douching before or after anal sex (also referred to as rectal douching) is widely practiced to clean the anal area in preparation for sex.


With a variety of douches that range from shower attachment to bulb hand held douching apparatus, douching is best practiced with warm water and should be repeated until the water runs clean. EndHIV provides a word of caution for douching too frequently stating that it can damage the lining of the rectum, making you more susceptible to to HIV infection should you choose to not use a male condom.


Desir Panel of Medical Experts

To encourage positive sexual health and wellness, Desir has introduced a medical panel of experts that specialise in sexual health and promote sexual health and wellness - for both men and women. From gynaecologists and aesthetic practitioners, to sexologists and psychotherapists, Desir’s sexual health doctors are available for consult via our treatments category. With a variety of procedures, consults, and services available, your mental and physical sexual health is of the utmost importance to us and we are proud to offer you access to some of South Africa’s most renowned doctors who specialise in their respective fields.

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A Perfect O Silicone Love...
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A Perfect O Silicone Love Ring - Fifty Shades of Grey

Fifty Shades of Grey
BO DP 5060428804784
R219
The Perfect O silicone love ring by Fifty Shades of Grey is formed from 100% body safe silicone and contains no phthalates or latex. Slightly stretchy, this silky soft silicone ring is extremely comfortable. Slip the ring onto the base of the penis shaft with a little water-based lubricant to gently grip and constrict the blood flow to your penis.  The...
Armour Vibrating Penis Ring...
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Armour Vibrating Penis Ring - Zemalia

Svakom
CON SV ZCSRING-BLK
R529
The Zemalia Armour penis ring is a vibrating silicone ring designed to prolong intercourse, delay ejaculation, and allows for clitoral stimulation for her at the same time. 100% waterproof, this vibrating penis ring is made from ultra soft body safe silicone and is a one-size-fits-most with a minimum circumference of 4.55cm. Wear it at the base of your...
Maximus Flexible Penis Ring - Joy Division
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Maximus Flexible Penis Ring - Joy Division

JoyDivision
BO DP 4028403156113
R199
Maximus Penis ring by Joy Division is the perfect ring for beginners who are looking to prolong foreplay, extend love-making and delay ejaculation. Easy to put on, the Maximus constricts the penis at the base of the shaft to keep you harder for longer. Flexi loops on either side of the cock ring help you to get it on and remove it after use. The flexible...
Elite Velvet Touch Silicone...
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Elite Velvet Touch Silicone Glide and Massage - Intimate Earth

Intimate Earth
BO MS 049IE
R629
Velvety smooth, Elite Velvet Touch Silicone Glide and Massage by Intimate Earth is a premium all in one massage and silicone personal glide.  Highest grade silicone is infused with natural Shiitake extracts and Vitamin E for the softest nourishing glide. Pure vegan and paraben free, with absolutely no taste or smell. This unique Intimate Earth product...
Double Ring Stand Up...
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Double Ring Stand Up Erection Supporter - Malesation

Malesation
BO DP 4041937315801
R329
The Double Ring Stand Up Erection Supporter by Malesation is perfect for men looking for a bit of support to enhance their erection and to promote longer-lasting intercourse. Made from soft flexible body-safe silicone, the double ringed support is designed to be worn with the singular ring place around his scrotum whilst the shaft sits comfortable inside...
Premium Silicone Based...
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Lubricants

Premium Silicone Based Lubricant - Promescent

Promescent
P PromSilicone
R379
The Promescent Premium Silicone based lubricant is ideal for longer lasting sex, masturbation or water play. With a thicker viscosity than that of a water-based lubricant, Promescent silicone lube is long-lasting, odourless, colourless, and paraben-free. Designed to reduce friction and increase your overall comfort during intercourse or masturbation,...
Aqua Heat Water-Based...
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Aqua Heat Water-Based Warming Lubricant - Wicked

Wicked
CJ 133163
R249
Wicked's Aqua Heat water based warming lubricant is a must have if you enjoy spicing things up in the bedroom. A unique blend of elements will thrill your erogenous zones with pleasure while the advanced formula enhances personal moisture.  Made with natural extracts of Cinnamon Bark, Clove, Ginger Root and Olive Leaf, Wicked Aqua Heat is gentle for all...
Aqua Chill Water-Based...
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Aqua Chill Water-Based Cooling Lubricant - Wicked

Wicked
CJ 133164
R249
Wicked's Aqua Chill is a water-based lubricant with a cooling sensation. This superior quality lubricant provides you with a tingling, heightened sensual experience specifically created to assist in full sensitivity.  With it's thrilling waves of natural peppermint leaf, ginger root and menthol, Aqua Chill is perfect if you want to feel everything.It is...
StaminoGro Fertility...
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StaminoGro Fertility Supplement - iNova Pharmaceuticals

R280
StaminoGro is a combination supplement designed to assist you in providing additional nutrition, and works synergistically to help promote wellbeing and vitality.  With it's Vitamin E, Arginine and Selenium ingredients, StaminoGro is perfect for women who suffer from subfertility improved ovarian response, endometrial receptivity, and are struggling to...
CBD Shot Energy & Focus 5mg...
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CBD Shot Energy & Focus 5mg - ReThink

ReThink
ReThinkEnergyShot
R49
ReThink shots are a great way to experience the full benefits of CBD quickly and easily. In a compact size, the Energy & Focus CBD Shot helps to increase energy, heighten focus, and improve alertness thanks to it's combination of Vitamin B and Caffeine.  In a palatable cherry flavour each shot contains 5mg of CBD in a 50ml single shot bottle....
Delay and Climax Control...
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Delay and Climax Control Spray - Promescent

Promescent
P PromDelay
R699
For anyone looking to build confidence and last longer in bed, the Promescent Delay and Climax Control spray is ideal.  Voted by over 2000+ healthcare professionals, this lidocaine delay spray increases your level of control whilst still maintaining enough sensitivity to achieve strong orgasms. With a metered-dose spray delivering 10mg of lidocaine per...
VitaFlux Libido Supplement...
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VitaFlux Libido Supplement - Promescent

Promescent
P VitaFlux
R1,499
VitaFlux by international brand Promescent is a supplement designed to improve your overall circulation health for both men and women. Specially formulated to boost your body's Nitric Oxide levels, VitaFlux improves your circulation, lowers your blood pressure, improves your body's endothelium health, helps to maintain erections and assists greatly with...
CBD MIND, SLEEP, PLEASURE,...
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CBD MIND, SLEEP, PLEASURE, MOOD Capsules (60 Capsules) - Biomedcan

Biomedcan
BMC BioMed Mind
R549
The Biomedcan CBD range is an all-natural, locally produced range of CBD products that promote a balanced mind, healthy body, and overall improved personal wellbeing.  With a range of capsules that range from assisting SLEEP, MOOD, MIND, and PLEASURE, Biomedcan capsules combine the multi-faceted CBD components with other all-natural ingredients that...
Prelox Patented Male Fertility Supplement - LaMelle
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Prelox Patented Male Fertility Supplement - LaMelle

LaMelle
LM 6009825730615
R649
Close to 10% of all couples experience infertility at one point or another, with half of all couple's infertility problems being due to male infertility. This is commonly due to deficiencies in the semen. Lamelle Research Laboratories has over 40 years of pharmaceutical and medical experience and it is with this extensive knowledge that they have...
Prelox Peak Performance...
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Prelox Peak Performance Male Supplement - LaMelle

LaMelle
LM PRE002
R649
Sexual wellness and performance is often seen as a barometer of a mans health. With blood flow being one of our most important functions, it helps bring oxygen and nutrients to our muscles and organs. A healthy blood circulation is key to optimal erectile function and quality. Prelox Peak Performance tablets contribute in a natural way to not only...
Defense Protection Glide & Lubricant - Intimate Earth
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Defense Protection Glide & Lubricant - Intimate Earth

Intimate Earth
BO MS 033IE
R429
The Defense Protection Glide and Lubricant by Intimate Earth is an exciting breakthrough in lubricants.Containing strong anti-yeast and HPV protection agents such as Caarrageean (sea kelp) and Guava bark anti-bacterial extract, this lubricant inhibits the infectious ability of viruses that cause cervical cancer and genital warts and assist in preventing...
Le'Lube Dermo Sensitive...
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Le'Lube Dermo Sensitive Water-Based Lubricant with Aloe Vera - Le'Lube

Con LL LeLube
R99
Le'Lube is a unique silky water-based lubricant for both intimate pleasure or massage.  Le'Lube is specifically PH balanced with a low osmolality of 765 mOsm/kg. The World Health Organisation recommends that one use a lubricant with an osmolality of below 1200 mOsm/kg. Le'Lube thereby maintains the body's natural homeostasis. Le'Lube has been tested and...
Water Based Personal...
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Water Based Personal Lubricant - Assegai

SM AssegaiWater
R99
The water-based lubricant by Assegai is specifically formulated to prolong and enhance your intimate pleasure.Recommended by doctors, gynaecologists, and sex-therapists, using water-based personal lubricant helps prevent condom breakage, increases sexual comfort, and relieves vaginal dryness.Assegai water-based lube is oil free, condom safe, PH balanced,...
KY Lubricating Jelly - Durex
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KY Lubricating Jelly - Durex

Durex
SM 110112
R89
This lubricating jelly by Durex is a personal lubricant formulated to replicate the body's natural moisture levels. Water-soluble, this water-based lube is safe to use with all condoms and intimate products. Protecting against discomfort and gynaecologically tested, this lube quickly prepares you for intimacy and eases discomfort that is caused by...
Super Man-Up Libido Protein...
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Super Man-Up Libido Protein - My Wellness

My Wellness
MW MUAP1000V/C
R399
Man-Up Libido Protein powder by My Wellness is a lean chocolate or vanilla flavoured protein powder formulated to deal with male sex performance issues, whilst assisting in lean muscle repair and growth at the same time. Using a combination of super-foods and amino acids, this protein powder targets the root cause of many of the symptoms related to...
Super Ashwagandha Libido...
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Super Ashwagandha Libido Enhancing Capsules - My Wellness

My Wellness
MW SA60
R199
The Super Ashwagandha capsules by My Wellness contain one of the most powerful and most important herbs in Ayurveda - a form of alternative medicine based on Indian principles of natural healing.  Formulated to increase your virility, sexual desire, alleviate symptoms related to anxiety and depression, as well as relieving stress, this ancient medicinal...
Man-Up Libido Boost - My...
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Man-Up Libido Boost - My Wellness

My Wellness
MW MULB30
R179
The Man-Up Libido Boost supplement by My Wellness is designed to alleviate erectile dysfunction in men whilst increasing libido at the same time, using powerful traditional African herbs and known vasodialtors. An all natural combination that produces effective results.  Simply take 4 capsules a day, or as needed 30 mins before sexual activity. Used...
Ultre Fragrance Free Silicone Based Intimate Lubricant - Wicked
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Ultra Fragrance Free Silicone Based Intimate Lubricant (60ml, 120ml)- Wicked

Wicked
CJ 133168/9
R279
Ultra Silicone Lubricant by Wicked is luxuriously sensuous and long lasting. This high performance, velvety smooth formula will enhance pleasure without feeling heavy, greasy or tacky. Formulated with the highest quality silicone available in the personal care market. Ultra Fragrance Free contains no additives or fillers for an exceptionally silky feel....
Creme Masturbation Cream For Men - Wicked
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Creme Masturbation Cream For Men - Wicked

Wicked
CJ 133152
R249
Peak your sensations and intensify your pleasure with Creme Masturbation Cream for Men. This unique, oil-based, intimate lubricant is essential for private moments. Experience the transformation as the fortified, nourishing cream, melts with the warmth of your body into a non-greasy liquid lube. The superior glide of Vitamin E enriched Creme is sensually...
Aqua Fragrance Free Water Based Intimate Lubricant - Wicked
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Lubricants

Aqua Fragrance Free Water Based Intimate Lubricant (60ml, 120ml, 250ml) - Wicked

Wicked
CJ 133182
R179
This water-based lubricant by Wicked, is a completely safe, fragrance-free, preservative free lubricant designed for the more sensitive skin.  Perfect for every day lubricant for women who suffer from dryness, for use with your intimate products and for both vaginal and anal sex, this non-sticky, hydrating formulation leaves your skin feeling silk...
Clinica Amorous Plus - Clinica
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Clinica Amorous Plus - Clinica

Clinica
723000 DSV
R129
The Amorous Plus Supplement by Clinica Pharmaceuticals is an essential vitamin and mineral supplement designed to increase sexual desire for both men and women. With all natural ingredients such as Siberian Ginseng, Thiamine, Ribovlavin, Vitamin B12, Zinc and Magnesium, Amorous Plus contains the correct combination of essential vitamins and minerals which...
Real Feel Condoms - Durex
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Real Feel Latex Free Condoms (3's,12's) - Durex

Durex
SM 3005139/4
R69
Real Feel condoms by Durex are uniquely designed next generation condoms that feature the RealFeel material for a natural skin feeling.Made from polyisoprene, a technically advanced non-latex material, these condoms are transparent, lubricated, and formulated to minimise the risk of latex allergic reactions. With a nominal width of 56mm, and a teat end...
Play Warming Lubricant - Durex
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Play Warming Lubricant - Durex

Durex
SM 3037098
R129
The Durex Play Warming lubricant is a pleasure gel designed to heat things up.Containing a special ingredient that is activated upon application, this lubricant warms the skin on contact. With it's silky soft base, you not only have a fabulous smooth feel, but also a warming sensation that heightens arousal, increases your level of stimulation, and...
Play Lubricant - Durex
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Play Feel Lubricant - Durex

Durex
SM 3037095
R129
Play Feel Pleasure Gel by Durex is a classic light, silky lube designed to give you an intensely sensual experience. Containing a specially formulated blend of ingredients which will enhance touch between you and your partner, the Play Feel is a water-soluble lubricant that is easily washed off and won't stain. Designed to ease vaginal dryness and...
Hybrid Silicone & Water based Lubricant - Wicked
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Hybrid Silicone & Water-based Toy Friendly Lubricant - Wicked

Wicked
CJ 133170
R379
Wicked's Hybrid combination lubricants are crafted with the intention of enhancing the sensual experience and giving maximum pleasure. Made with Seaweed extract and Olive Leaf extract which acts as an anti-oxidant, this lube helps to moisturize the skin and eliminates germs and bacteria. With it's silky silicone texture, you will gain the extra glide and...
Wicked Flavoured Lubricant
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Water-Based Flavoured Lubricant - Wicked

Wicked
CJ 133173
R249
As one of SA's leading brands in lubricants, Wicked has introduced a product that will allow your sexual adventures to involve all of the five senses, allowing you to reach your most intimate desires. Each flavour is available in 60ml, are long-lasting, non-sticky, paraben-free, and latex friendly so can be enjoyed safely, also making this ideal with...
Twilight Pheromone Perfume...
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Stimulants & Enhancers

Twilight Pheromone Perfume for Him - Hot Man

BO DP 4042342000450
R1,199
The Hot Man Pheromone perfume spray for him is an extra-strong pheromone spray designed to enhance your natural pheromones and enhance the sexual arousal of women.Made from unique and top quality ingredients, Hot Man enhances your natural pheromones which are often lost during cleansing and uses specific ingredients to work as sexual attractants on top of...
MensVite Mature - VitaForce
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MensVite Mature - VitaForce

Vitaforce
621378
R179
VitaForce MensVite Mature is a multivitamin and multimineral supplement specifically formulated for men between the ages of 45 years and older.With it's unique 2-phase release system, this multivitamin, mineral, and amino acid combination is designed for optimal absorption throughout the day. With it's balanced formulae targeting older men, you gain the...
MensVite Adult - Vitaforce
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MensVite Adult - Vitaforce

Vitaforce
062465
R179
VitaForce MensVite Adult is a unique 2-phase release comprehensive multivitamin, mineral and amino acid supplement designed for men between the ages of 18-45 years.Containing essential vitamins and antioxidants, this supplement supports reproductive health, the immune system and helps to protect the body's cells from damage. With the inclusion...
Solal Prostate Protection Formula - Solal
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Solal Prostate Protection Formula - Solal

Solal
DSV 6009663991551
R399
The Prostate Protection formula by Solal is a plant-based formulae that supports prostate health and relieves the associated urinary symptoms.With the combination of I3C, DIM and curcumin, the Prostate Protection formula is the only formulation that combines all natural extracts at optimal doses, to provide adequate protection for the prostate. Retarding...
Med PRO-LONG Spray - Pjur
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Pjur Med Pro-Long Delay Spray - PjurMed

Pjur
BO DP 827160113582
R499
PjurMed Pro-long delay spray features a unique combination of OakBark extract that enables a calming skin sensation whilst reducing over-sensitivity and premature ejaculation. With it's active and completely body-safe tannic acid ingredient, this spray has an astringent (contracting) effect that in combination wtih panthenol prolongs your ability to...
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