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ESSENTIALS

THE BEST SEX TOYS FOR WOMEN ENCOURAGE INTIMATE JOURNEYS INTO DESIRE, SENSITIVITY AND UNDERSTANDING.


Desir’s sex essentials are products that have been introduced with the purpose of making your sexual experience that much more satisfying. From lubes and condoms, to supplements and medically sound intimate care products, our essential category offers you the best complimentary products and must-haves for your sexual health and wellbeing.


What is good sexual health?

Feeling good about your body and taking care of your physical and emotional health are all part of being sexually healthy. Physically this can relate to regular sexual health exams, getting tested for sexually transmitted infections, preventing unwanted pregnancies and having a healthy hygiene regime when it comes to cleaning your sex toys and taking care or your body.


But additionally, your emotional or mental health also has an enormous role to play in your attitude towards sex and your sexual health status. Feeling good about your body, giving yourself permission to enjoy sexual pleasure, and being comfortable with your sexual orientation and gender are huge parts of one’s sexuality and can have a fundamental impact on how you perceive yourself, others, and your sexuality.


How do I have good sex?

Planned parenthood states that good sex comes from understanding how your body works. Whilst sex is not a one size fits all experience, good sex comes down to being confident with your body, knowing what you like and don’t like, and understanding your sex drive and pleasures.


It is in this regard that Desir’s range of Essentials have been carefully curated to ensure that you have the best sex possible, whilst taking care of your sexual health and wellness at the same time.


Sexual Health Supplements

With so many factors impacting our sex lives, one of the biggest contributors is that of low libido or poor sex drive. Science has come a considerably long way in providing formulations that not only increase your sexual libido, but also assist with symptoms related to menopause, erectile dysfunction, vaginal dryness, and stamina.


Brands like Solal have focussed specifically on formulations, vitamins and minerals that contain essential ingredients like vitamin b12, vitamin b6, ginseng, fenugreek, and maca root that are natural testosterone boosting herbs. Not only proven to increase your libido, these ingredients are specifically known to alleviate symptoms related to erectile dysfunction, poor sperm quality, infertility, and are known to positively support and boost male and female sexual function. A completely natural alternative to anabolic and pharmaceutical steroid medicines, brands like Solal, LaMelle, Vitaforce, and Erex provide you with the option of adopting a far more holistic approach to your sexual health.


Stimulants and Enhancers

When it comes to stimulation and increasing your arousal and genital blood flow, several brands like Shunga, Wicked, Intimate Earth, and Pjur focus specifically on products designed to intensify your sexual experience.


From clitoral arousal serums and pleasure gels to aphrodisiacs and prolong sprays, Desir has a range of complimentary serums and elixirs that have been proven to amplify your sexual experience. Use them in conjunction with your favourite intimate product or simply for an increase in your masturbation or solo play


Explore the sensory experience of applying serums that encourage warmth, cooling, tingling, and relaxation and stimulate your nerve endings to encourage stronger orgasms and a heightened sense of arousal.


Personal Care and Product Care

One of the most important aspects to sound sexual health, is that of good personal and product care.

With conditions like bacterial vaginosis, yeast infections, vaginal infections, and STD’s, it is critical to follow a health regime that supports your sexual lifestyle. From intimate toy cleaners and disinfectant wipes, to vaginal douches and condoms, Desir has ensured that you have all you need to practice safe sex and avoid cross-contamination.


WebMd lists the use of a good intimate wash as the number one priority after sex. Not only limited to the cleansing of your genital areas, cleansing of your sex toys is just as important and with the introduction of foam or gel sex toy cleaners, taking care of your sex toys has never been easier.


With much controversy around the practice of douching and specifically with regards to women who douche, douching before or after anal sex (also referred to as rectal douching) is widely practiced to clean the anal area in preparation for sex.


With a variety of douches that range from shower attachment to bulb hand held douching apparatus, douching is best practiced with warm water and should be repeated until the water runs clean. EndHIV provides a word of caution for douching too frequently stating that it can damage the lining of the rectum, making you more susceptible to to HIV infection should you choose to not use a male condom.


Desir Panel of Medical Experts

To encourage positive sexual health and wellness, Desir has introduced a medical panel of experts that specialise in sexual health and promote sexual health and wellness - for both men and women. From gynaecologists and aesthetic practitioners, to sexologists and psychotherapists, Desir’s sexual health doctors are available for consult via our treatments category. With a variety of procedures, consults, and services available, your mental and physical sexual health is of the utmost importance to us and we are proud to offer you access to some of South Africa’s most renowned doctors who specialise in their respective fields.

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Duet Cooling & Warming Nipple Gloss - Bijoux Duet Cooling & Warming...
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Duet Cooling & Warming Nipple Gloss - Bijoux

Bijoux
BO 8436562010010
R429
This incredible duo by Bijoux is a dual pack combination of a warming and cooling gloss designed to stimulate and excite your nipples. Gently use the applicator to apply either the warming or cooling gloss directly onto your nipple area and enjoy the varying sensations and heightened stimulation that each unique formulation brings. With the heightening...
Orgasm Balm for Her - Bijoux Orgasm Balm for Her - Bijoux
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Orgasm Balm for Her - Bijoux

Bijoux
BO 8436562010515
R259
The Orgasm Balm by Bijoux is an aphrodisia balm specially formulated specifically for the clitoris. Perfumed with a seductive essence, this balm works by increasing the blood flow to your clitoral area, thereby heightening your senses and increasing your orgasmic strength and sensitivity. In a pump actioned sophisticated 13g black container, only a...
Fleur Intimate Wash - Oske
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Fleur Intimate Wash - Oske

R180
The Fleur Intimate Wash by Oske is a gentle wash designed to be used by women on their intimate areas. With a gentle water-based formulation that includes only natural products, Fleur has been manufactured in a pharmaceutical facility and specifically developed and focussed on complimenting the female physiology. Ingredients such as marshmallow root...
Awaken Stimulating Clitoral Massaging Gel - Wicked
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Awaken Stimulating Clitoral Massaging Gel - Wicked

Wicked
R399
The Awaken clitoral stimulating gel is a blend of herbs and botanics designed to enhance your libido and heighten the sensitivity of the clitoris.  With over 8000 sensory nerve endings in the clitoris, more than in any other part of the human body, the clitoris is a powerful organ of sexual pleasure. Awaken stimulating gel ensures that you get the most...
Viala Sonic Skin Cleanser & Body Massager - Svakom Viala Sonic Skin Cleanser & Body Massager - Svakom
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Viala Sonic Skin Cleanser & Body Massager - Svakom

Svakom
V01SNFPNK
R899
The Viala by Svakom is a luxuriously versatile 2-in-1 sonic skin cleanser and all over body massager.  Offering a full spa experience and holding the accolade of being an award winning facial cleansing device, the Viala is a vibrating body wand that features a silicone, non-porous, bristled removable head that is resistant to bacterial build up and is...
Play Feel Lubricant - Durex
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Lubricants

Play Feel Lubricant - Durex

Durex
3037095 18.12.19
R129
Play Feel Pleasure Gel by Durex is a light, silky lube designed to give you an intensely sensual experience. Containing a specially formulated blend of ingredients which will enhance touch between you and your partner, the Play Feel is a water-soluble lubricant that is easily washed off and won't stain. Designed to ease vaginal dryness and...
Silicone Nipple Suckers - Fifty Shades DISCONTINUED - Silicone Nipple Suckers - Bad Kitty
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Silicone Nipple Suckers - Fifty Shades

Fifty Shades of Grey
BO5060428804845 D11.11.19
R399
These silicone nipple suction cups by Fifty Shades are perfect for those who have inverted or flat nipples or for those seeking additional nipple stimulation and arousal.With their soft silicone design, these suction cups gently encourage the nipple to elongate by the simple squeeze of the base of the cup. Creating a vacuum effect, the nipples...
XES Sensual Cannabis Vaginal & Clitoral Stimulating Serum - XES XES Sensual Cannabis Vaginal & Clitoral Stimulating Serum - XES
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XES Sensual Cannabis Vaginal & Clitoral Stimulating Serum - XES

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XES 28.10.19
R1,399
XES Sensual CBD lubricant is a stimulating cannabis serum designed to offer erogenous stimulation to the vagina and clitoral area.Designed using a blend of cannabidoids, XES Sensual Serum compliments the neurochemistry associated with libido, pleasure, and sensation derived in the human endocannabinoid system. With it's relaxing and anti-inflammatory...
PleasureShot Intimate Serum - Zoet PleasureShot Intimate Serum - Zoet
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PleasureShot Intimate Serum - Zoet

PleasureShot
R59
The PleasureShot by Zoet, is an intimate serum designed to enhance sexual stimulation and extra lubrication for her.With it's unique all-natural and organic formula containing L-Arginine, Damiana Leaf, Mucuna Pruriens, Ginko Biloba, and Humulus Lupulus Extract, this active serum improves blood flow to the genitals, helps increase dilation in your...
Toy Love Water-Based Non-Drip Gel Lubricant - Wicked
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Toy Love Water-Based Non-Drip Gel Lubricant - Wicked

Wicked
133166 14.10.19
R299
The Toy Gel by Wicked is a lubricant specifically designed to be drip free, making it perfect for application directly to your toy of choice. It's luxurious texture leaves you feeling soft and sensual and is not only perfect for toy application but can be applied directly onto your skin. With it's long lasting qualities, this mess-free lubricant designed...
Shunga Lovebath Sensual Love Pearls - Shunga Shunga Lovebath Sensual Love Pearls - Shunga
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Shunga Lovebath Sensual Love Pearls - Shunga

Shunga
BO330000091610 D06.01.2020
R449
Create the ultimate erotic bathing experience with the Shunga Lovebath. Transforming your bath water into thousands of delicate pearls, the Shunga Lovebath forms a sensual gel softly moisturising your skin, thereby creating a soothing experience with the most luxurious scent. Simply empty sachet #1 into a run bath, stir lightly and within 5 to 10...
Inositol Mood, Stress & Sleep Supplement - Solal
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Inositol Mood, Stress & Sleep Supplement - Solal

Solal
6009663996792
R379
The Inositol supplement by Solal is a formula designed to aid your mood, stress levels and sleep and promotes a healthy nervous system.Inositol is a powerful combination of various Vitamin B concentrations that contribute to normal psychological function at a cellular level. Known to primarily assist with stress, insomnia, depression and...
Solal Woman 2 in 1 Dual Pack - Solal
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Solal Woman 2 in 1 Dual Pack - Solal

Solal
6009663996709
R449
The SolalWoman 2 in 1 Dual Pack is a comprehensive all in one supplement for women that offers you a full 1 month's supply and is essential for staving off symptoms related to cancer, imflammation, menopause, low libido, osteoporosis, depression, and rheumatoid arthritis.With the unique formulae combination of biodentical vitamins, concentrated herbal and...
Discover G-Spot stimulating Gel  - Intimate Earth
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Discover G-Spot stimulating Gel - Intimate Earth

Intimate Earth
BO001IE M04.12.19
R449
The Discover G Spot Stimulating Gel by Intimate Organics is a gel designed to activate and stimulate the G Spot. With a blend of certified organic extracts, peppermint oil and L-Arginine, this unique formulae increases the size and sensitivity of the g spot making it more sensitive to the touch and easier to find. With an included guide to the g spot,...
Geisha's Secret Collection Gift Set - Shunga
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Geisha's Secret Collection Gift Set - Shunga

Shunga
BO697309082112 D13.12.19
R799
The secret arts of Japan’s renowned geishas made them sought-after lovers.  The Geisha’s Secrets Collection from Shunga lets you in on some of these secrets and features 5 of their most popular products featuring alluring aphrodisiac properties. This set contains a beautifully scented Exotic Massage Oil, Warming Aphrodisia Oil,...
Pjur MySpray Arousing Clitoral Spray -  Pjur
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Lubricants

Pjur MySpray Arousing Clitoral Spray - Pjur

Pjur
BO300000091345 D18.11.2019
R449
Pjur Myspray is a refreshing and unique spray designed just for women to enhance your clitoral stimulation, heighten the sensations of your clitoral nerve-endings and intensifying your sexual pleasure. With it's new formulation, just two to four sprays of Pjur MySpray for women will intensify sexual sensation. The stimulating effect of the unique...
Gentle Clitoral Arousal Serum-  Intimate Earth
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Gentle Clitoral Arousal Serum- Intimate Earth

Intimate Earth
BO004IE M09.12.19
R549
The Gentle Arousing Clitoral Serum by Intimate earth is the perfect solution for the woman who wants arousal without the added effect of too much heat.With a low concentration of Japanese peppermint oil, this clitoral serum provides just enough stimulation to the clitoral area without it leaving a burning or over-sensitized effect. A pea-sized amount...
Lady Prelox Female Intimacy Supplement - LaMelle Lady Prelox Female Intimacy Supplement - LaMelle
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Lady Prelox Female Intimacy Supplement - LaMelle

LaMelle
PRE003 18.12.19
R599
As she enters the room heads turn; drawn in by her magnetism. She holds herself in a way that makes people envy her. She is as alluring as she is striking. Not because of her killer heels but because she is the very embodiment of confidence. She is a Lady Prelox woman. She is who we all aspire to be… Recognising that women need and want more...
Arousal Herbal Drops for Women - Erex
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Arousal Herbal Drops for Women - Erex

Erex
EAD005
R149
The Arousal drops for Women by Erex is a 50ml western herbal formula designed to increase a women's levels of desire, arousal, sexual wellness and heightened libido.Perfectly blended from a combination of Muira Puama, Ginko Biloba, Panax Ginseng, Uqunsi, and uBangalala, these drops help revitalise female libido and heighten sensation. Improve your sex...
Rejuvenate Vaginal Revitalizer 30ml - Ntimate
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Rejuvenate Vaginal Revitalizer 30ml - Ntimate

Rejuvenate
REJ001
R349 R499
Quoted as being the 1 minute miracle vaginal revitalizer - Ntimate Rejuvinate serum is specifically formulated for women and endorsed by the well known Sexologist & Author, Timothy Kieswetter. With it's unique homeopathic ingredients, this serum tightens, tones, and restores a women's vagina, without the pain and hassle of lazer surgery, in less than 60...
Vaginal Pump - Bad Kitty Vaginal Pump - Bad Kitty
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Vaginal Pump - Bad Kitty

Bad Kitty
BO8123 M14.01.2020
R729
This vaginal pump by Bad Kitty is specifically designed to heighten sensation and sensitivity of the vaginal area. By using this vaginal pump, it not only allows increase in sensation, but also temporarily engorges the clitoral, labia and vaginal area - thereby promoting an increase in blood flow and making stimulation and orgasm easier. Simply lubricate...
Secret Garden Clitoral Enhancing & Orgasm Cream  - Shunga Secret Garden Female Clitoral Enhancing Cream - Shunga
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Secret Garden Clitoral Enhancing & Orgasm Cream - Shunga

Shunga
BO697309055000 D06.01.2020
R729
Shunga's Secret Garden Clitoral Enhancing Cream improves and heightens clitoral sexual pleasure, making orgasms stronger and more frequent. This soft and sensual cream acts as a lubricant aid, and assists in engorging her clitoral area as well as sensitizing to maximising her pleasure and enhancing lovemaking. Whilst some women experience immediate...
Intense Clitoral Arousal Serum - Intimate Earth
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Intense Clitoral Arousal Serum - Intimate Earth

Intimate Earth
BO 003IE M10.12.19
R549
The Intense Clitoral Arousal Serum by Intimate Earth is a unique blend of perppermint oil and L-Arginine designed to enhance your orgasm and clitoral stimulation and provide you with an extra boost during love-making.With it's silky smooth texture, you simply massage a small amount onto your clitoral area prior to love-making. The higher concentration of...
Pjur MyGlide Warming & Arousing Water-Based Lubricant - Pjur
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Pjur MyGlide Warming & Arousing Water-Based Lubricant - Pjur

Pjur
BO821760104351 D14.08.2019
R449
The PJur MyGlide lubricant is a water-based lubricant designed to offer you a double effect - both stimulation and pleasure.With it's unique combination of ingredients containing natural ginseng, the myglide offers a pleasant effect in stimulating the blood circulation and thereby enhancing your excitement and heightens your stimulation. Dermatologically...
Rain of Love G Spot Arousal Cream & Water-based Lubricant - Shunga Rain of Love G Spot Arousal Cream & Water-based Lubricant - Shunga
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Rain of Love G Spot Arousal Cream & Water-based Lubricant - Shunga

Shunga
BO697309075008 D06.01.2020
R699
The G-Spot can sometimes be difficult to find, but with Shunga's Rain of Love arousal cream, you will be able to stimulate and massage your g-spot with ease.With it's all natural ingredients, your g-spot is gently stimulated encouraging the nerves to react providing you with a tingly intense sensation that is warming as well as it is stimulating. Apply it...
Embrace Tightening Pleasure Serum - Intimate Earth
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Embrace Tightening Pleasure Serum - Intimate Earth

Intimate Earth
BO002IE M16.07.2019
R499
The muscles of your vagina need to be exercised to stay strong and feel ‘tight’, but sometimes life intervenes. Post-pregnancy, or during menopause, Embrace Tightening Pleasure Serum provides a temporary solution. This gentle, organic serum does not dry out the vagina, but causes the muscles to contract, creating a feeling of tightness. It contains...
Aphrodisia 2-in-1 Scented Silicone Massage & Intimate Gel - Bijoux 2in1 Scented Silicone Massage & Intimate Gel - Bijoux Indiscrets
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Aphrodisia 2-in-1 Scented Silicone Massage & Intimate Gel - Bijoux

Bijoux
BO8436562010492 D10.12.19
R599
Bijoux Indiscrets are known for their luxurious and beautifully scented products, and this stunning silicone massage and intimate gel is no exception. Use it to give your partner an aphrodisiac massage that will warm them up for seduction, or apply it directly to the genitals for a warming sensation that enhances orgasmic feeling. Aphrodisia 2-in-1...
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