SEX ESSENTIALS

Sex Essentials carefully selected to compliment your intimate journey, encourage sound sexual health and wellness, and ensure a more satisfying and rewarding sex life.


Desir’s sex essentials are products that have been introduced with the purpose of making your sexual experience that much more satisfying. From lubes and condoms, to supplements and medically sound intimate care products, our essential category offers you the best complimentary products and must-haves for your sexual health and wellbeing.


What is good sexual health?

Feeling good about your body and taking care of your physical and emotional health are all part of being sexually healthy. Physically this can relate to regular sexual health exams, getting tested for sexually transmitted infections, preventing unwanted pregnancies and having a healthy hygiene regime when it comes to cleaning your sex toys and taking care or your body.


But additionally, your emotional or mental health also has an enormous role to play in your attitude towards sex and your sexual health status. Feeling good about your body, giving yourself permission to enjoy sexual pleasure, and being comfortable with your sexual orientation and gender are huge parts of one’s sexuality and can have a fundamental impact on how you perceive yourself, others, and your sexuality.


How do I have good sex?

Planned parenthood states that good sex comes from understanding how your body works. Whilst sex is not a one size fits all experience, good sex comes down to being confident with your body, knowing what you like and don’t like, and understanding your sex drive and pleasures.


It is in this regard that Desir’s range of Essentials have been carefully curated to ensure that you have the best sex possible, whilst taking care of your sexual health and wellness at the same time.


Sexual Health Supplements

With so many factors impacting our sex lives, one of the biggest contributors is that of low libido or poor sex drive. Science has come a considerably long way in providing formulations that not only increase your sexual libido, but also assist with symptoms related to menopause, erectile dysfunction, vaginal dryness, and stamina.


Brands like Solal have focussed specifically on formulations, vitamins and minerals that contain essential ingredients like vitamin b12, vitamin b6, ginseng, fenugreek, and maca root that are natural testosterone boosting herbs. Not only proven to increase your libido, these ingredients are specifically known to alleviate symptoms related to erectile dysfunction, poor sperm quality, infertility, and are known to positively support and boost male and female sexual function. A completely natural alternative to anabolic and pharmaceutical steroid medicines, brands like Solal, LaMelle, Vitaforce, and Erex provide you with the option of adopting a far more holistic approach to your sexual health.


Stimulants and Enhancers

When it comes to stimulation and increasing your arousal and genital blood flow, several brands like Shunga, Wicked, Intimate Earth, and Pjur focus specifically on products designed to intensify your sexual experience.


From clitoral arousal serums and pleasure gels to aphrodisiacs and prolong sprays, Desir has a range of complimentary serums and elixirs that have been proven to amplify your sexual experience. Use them in conjunction with your favourite intimate product or simply for an increase in your masturbation or solo play


Explore the sensory experience of applying serums that encourage warmth, cooling, tingling, and relaxation and stimulate your nerve endings to encourage stronger orgasms and a heightened sense of arousal.


Personal Care and Product Care

One of the most important aspects to sound sexual health, is that of good personal and product care.

With conditions like bacterial vaginosis, yeast infections, vaginal infections, and STD’s, it is critical to follow a health regime that supports your sexual lifestyle. From intimate toy cleaners and disinfectant wipes, to vaginal douches and condoms, Desir has ensured that you have all you need to practice safe sex and avoid cross-contamination.


WebMd lists the use of a good intimate wash as the number one priority after sex. Not only limited to the cleansing of your genital areas, cleansing of your sex toys is just as important and with the introduction of foam or gel sex toy cleaners, taking care of your sex toys has never been easier.


With much controversy around the practice of douching and specifically with regards to women who douche, douching before or after anal sex (also referred to as rectal douching) is widely practiced to clean the anal area in preparation for sex.


With a variety of douches that range from shower attachment to bulb hand held douching apparatus, douching is best practiced with warm water and should be repeated until the water runs clean. EndHIV provides a word of caution for douching too frequently stating that it can damage the lining of the rectum, making you more susceptible to to HIV infection should you choose to not use a male condom.


Desir Panel of Medical Experts

To encourage positive sexual health and wellness, Desir has introduced a medical panel of experts that specialise in sexual health and promote sexual health and wellness - for both men and women. From gynaecologists and aesthetic practitioners, to sexologists and psychotherapists, Desir’s sexual health doctors are available for consult via our treatments category. With a variety of procedures, consults, and services available, your mental and physical sexual health is of the utmost importance to us and we are proud to offer you access to some of South Africa’s most renowned doctors who specialise in their respective fields.

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Bunny Cock Ring - MalesationBunny Cock Ring - Malesation 2
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    Bunny Cock Ring - Malesation

    Malesation
    BO DP 4041937315719
    R169
    This versatile penis ring by Malesation is a double banded ring featuring a 'rabbit ear' head that promises dual satisfaction for both partners. With it's super-stretchy, body-safe silicone design, this cock ring is a soft, odourless, non-porous ring that is both easy to clean and fully waterproof. Designed to provide longer-lasting pleasure for him as...
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    Lust Glider Couples Vibrating Penis Ring - SToys

    SToys
    BO DP 4041937326081
    R189
    The Lust Glider Vibro Ring is a penis ring designed specifically for couples. Made from flexible silicone, the ring is worn at the base of his shaft - allowing him to experience delayed ejaculation, a firmer erection and longer lasting pleasure. With a mini bullet vibrator attached at the top of the ring, your partner will receive intense clitoral...
    Happy Rabbit Rabbit Love Ring - LoveHoneyHappy Rabbit Rabbit Love Ring - LoveHoney 2
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      Happy Rabbit Vibrating Love Ring - LoveHoney

      Lovehoney
      BO DP 5060020006500
      R979
      The Happy Rabbit Love Ring by LoveHoney is a super-stretchy double penis ring that not only offers staying power for him, but incredible vibrations for her.With a dual silicone love ring, this penis ring is designed to be worn by him, with one ring placed firmly around the shaft and the other wrapped around his testicles. The dual pressure not only...
      Clit Ring Penis Ring for Couples - MalesationClit Ring Penis Ring for Couples - Malesation 2
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        Clit Ring Penis Ring for Couples - Malesation

        Malesation
        BO DP 4041937315160
        R399
        The Clit Ring by Malesation has been specifically designed for couples stimulation in mind.With it's firm curvy targeted nub situated on top of the ring, you are able to stimulate the clitoris with precise pleasure. Wear it at the base of the shaft of the penis and enjoy prolonged love-making, delayed ejaculation and a...
        Beginner Cock Ring Set - MalesationBeginner Cock Ring Set - Malesation 2
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          Beginner Cock Ring Set - Malesation

          Malesation
          BO DP 4041937315726
          R179
          This penis ring set by Malesation is the perfect set if you are new to using penis rings or are unsure of your size.Featuring 3 rings in a pack, from 2.2cm in girth to 3cm, you have the option of trying three different rings until you find your ideal fit. Made from 100% soft silicone, these super stretchy rings allow you to use one at a time or use all...
          Tammy Double Ring Couple's Vibrator - SvakomTammy Double Ring Couple's Vibrator - Svakom 2
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          Tammy Double Ring Couple's Vibrator - Svakom

          Svakom
          CON SV S38-VLT
          R1,387 R1,849
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          The Tammy by Svakom is a double penis ring designed for couples looking for extreme pleasure.With a soft silicone material, this super-flexible penis ring features two rings - one designed to be worn around the scrotum and the other around the base of your penile shaft. WIth a circular textured pad situated at the top of the ring,  you are able to provide...
          Empower Couples Penis Ring...Empower Couples Penis Ring... 2
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            Empower Couples Penis Ring - Rocks Off

            BO DP 811041014389/72
            R1,299
            The Empower Couples ring by Rocks Off is a penis ring designed to prolong ejaculation, provide a firmer erection, and offer clitoral stimulation all at the same time. Designed using stretchy body safe silicone, this ring fits comfortably at the base of his penis. The tapered head of the ring features a powerful motor that delivers intense vibrations that...
            Intimacy Bath Salts with...Intimacy Bath Salts with... 2
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              Intimacy Bath Salts with CBD & Cacao - Foria

              Foria
              Foria Bath Salts
              R1,299
              The Foria Intimacy Bath Salts is a multi-botanical bath soak formulated to seduce the body and mind and is inspired by the sensual ritual of bathing. Mineral rich, this bath salt formulation combines epsom salts, himalayan salts and infusions of organically grown kava, cacao, rose and hemp cbd. Delivering a symphony of botanicals to awaken your senses,...
              Vibrating Couples Penis...Vibrating Couples Penis... 2
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                Vibrating Couples Penis Ring - PlusOne

                PlusOne
                6701
                R899
                The vibrating ring by PlusOne is a super stretchy body safe silicone ring designed to prolong his play and increase her pleasure. Perfect to use whether during solo or couple play, this penis ring accommodates most sizes and is worn around the base of the penile shaft. With the super-stretchy band gently constricting his blood flow, he gains a firmer...
                Luxury Massage Candle - SenzeLuxury Massage Candle - Senze 2
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                  Luxury Massage Aphrodisiac Candle - Senze

                  Swede
                  BO DP 7350028783205/29/36
                  R549
                  Senze’s erotic massage candle is perfect for gentle foreplay. The candle burns at a low heat, creating a warm, buttery, scented oil that moisturizes the skin as you massage. Just a few minutes of burning will create enough oil for a basic massage. Give it a little longer to have enough oil for a full-body sensual massage that your partner will love....
                  Elite Velvet Touch Silicone...Elite Velvet Touch Silicone... 2
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                    Elite Velvet Touch Silicone Glide and Massage - Intimate Earth

                    Intimate Earth
                    BO MS 049IE
                    R649
                    Velvety smooth, Elite Velvet Touch Silicone Glide and Massage by Intimate Earth is a premium all in one massage and silicone personal glide.  Highest grade silicone is infused with natural Shiitake extracts and Vitamin E for the softest nourishing glide. Pure vegan and paraben free, with absolutely no taste or smell. This unique Intimate Earth product...
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                      Premium Silicone Based Lubricant - Promescent

                      Promescent
                      P PromSilicone
                      R379
                      The Promescent Premium Silicone based lubricant is ideal for longer lasting sex, masturbation or water play. With a thicker viscosity than that of a water-based lubricant, Promescent silicone lube is long-lasting, odourless, colourless, and paraben-free. Designed to reduce friction and increase your overall comfort during intercourse or masturbation,...
                      Pjur MED Sensitive Glide - Pjur
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                        Pjur MED Sensitive Glide - Pjur

                        Pjur
                        BO DP 827160111137
                        R499
                        The Pjur MED Sensitive Glide is a lubricant formulated free of glycerins, parabens, and preservatives and is ideal for more sensitive users.With it's neutral formulation, Pjur MED Sensitive glide has been formulated specifically with very sensitive genital mucous membranes in mind. With it's pureistic formula, this lube has been made as neutral as...
                        Defense Protection Glide & Lubricant - Intimate Earth
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                          Defense Water-Based Lubricant with Tea Tree - Intimate Earth

                          Intimate Earth
                          BO MS 033IE
                          R449
                          The Defense Protection Glide and Lubricant by Intimate Earth is an exciting breakthrough in lubricants.Containing strong anti-yeast and HPV protection agents such as Caarrageean (sea kelp) and Guava bark anti-bacterial extract, this lubricant inhibits the infectious ability of viruses that cause cervical cancer and genital warts and assist in preventing...
                          Oske Water Based Lubricant - OskeOske Water Based Lubricant - Oske 2
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                            Oske Water Based Lubricant - Oske

                            OSKE 101
                            R189
                            This gorgeous OSKE Lubricant is a gentle water based lube that has been specifically created for women.Manufactured in a pharmaceutical facility and developed to compliment the female physiology, this 96% organic lube is free from fragrance, alcohol, and sugar, and is packed with natural preservatives. Containing aloe vera, xanthan gum, citric acid, and...
                            Play Warming Lubricant - DurexPlay Warming Lubricant - Durex 2
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                              Play Warming Lubricant - Durex

                              Durex
                              SM 3037098
                              R129
                              The Durex Play Warming lubricant is a pleasure gel designed to heat things up.Containing a special ingredient that is activated upon application, this lubricant warms the skin on contact. With it's silky soft base, you not only have a fabulous smooth feel, but also a warming sensation that heightens arousal, increases your level of stimulation, and...
                              Pjur Basic Silicone Personal Lubricant - Pjur
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                                Pjur Basic Silicone Personal Lubricant - Pjur

                                Pjur
                                BO DP 827160103019
                                R329
                                Pjur's basic silicone lube is the perfect starter product for anyone looking to try a silicone lubricant for the first time.Perfect for massage and sex, this lubricant is long-lasting and leaves your skin feeling silky smooth and moisturised. Odour free, this oil, fat, and preservative free lube is gentle on the skin and dermatologically tested....
                                Water-Based Flavoured...Water-Based Flavoured... 2
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                                  Water-Based Flavoured Lubricant - Wicked

                                  Wicked
                                  CJ 133173
                                  R229
                                  A leading brand in lubricants, Wicked has introduced a product that will allow your sexual adventures to involve all of the five senses, allowing you to reach your most intimate desires. Each flavour is available in 60ml, are long-lasting, non-sticky, paraben-free, and latex friendly so can be enjoyed safely, also making this ideal with vegans. The...
                                  Dragon Fire & Ice Virility Prolong & Enhancing Cream - ShungaDragon Fire & Ice Virility Prolong & Enhancing Cream - Shunga 2
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                                    Dragon Fire & Ice Virility Prolong & Enhancing Cream - Shunga

                                    Shunga
                                    BO DP 97309052009
                                    R899
                                    All-natural ingredients provide intense sensation in Shunga's Dragon Virility Cream. The 'fire and ice' sensation enhances the erection and lightly desensitizes, so he can enjoy longer lovemaking. During sex, the sensations stimulate the vagina and G-spot, intensifying orgasms for her. Dragon Virility Cream makes sex more intense and fulfilling for both...
                                    Pjur SuperHero Performance Spray for Men
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                                      Pjur SuperHero Performance Spray for Men - Pjur

                                      Pjur
                                      BO D 827160113544
                                      R499
                                      Pjur SuperHero Performance spray for men is perfect for those wanting to prolong their sexual enjoyment and assist with the common side effects of erectile dysfunction. The unique formula and ingredients slightly desensitize the penis and ensure longer enjoyment and prevent premature ejaculation. It enhances smoothness, reduces oversensitivity and is one...
                                      We Vibe Lubricant - PjurWe Vibe Lubricant - Pjur 2
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                                        Pjur We-Vibe Water-Based Lubricant - Pjur

                                        We Vibe
                                        BO DP 827160111434
                                        R429
                                        Formulated especially for We-Vibe, the We-Vibe™ Lube made by Pjur® is perfect for use with all your We-Vibe and other luxury adult toys. The water-based lubricant formula is gentle on your skin and avoids corrosion of the soft luxury silicone found on your We-Vibe adult products. It's rich formulae is long-lasting, non-sticky and mess...
                                        Pjur Med Soft Silicone Glide - Pjur Med
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                                          Pjur MED Soft Silicone Glide & Lubricant for Sensitive Skin - Pjur Med

                                          Pjur
                                          BO DP 827160111151
                                          R579
                                          Pjur Med Soft Glide is a silicone lubricant designed for very dry and sensitive intimate areas. With a highly concentrated formulae, this high grade silicone has been enriched with jojoba oil, and provides excellent lubrication and long-lasting moisture. Leaving your skin feeling supple and enriched, Pjur Med Soft Glide also enhances skin flexibility and...
                                          Pjur Med Natural Glide|100ml - Pjur
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                                            Pjur MED Water-Based Natural Glide & Lubricant - PjurMed

                                            Pjur
                                            BO DP 827160105815
                                            R449
                                            The Natural glide by Pjur is a water-based lubricant designed specifically for dry skin. With it's natural and nature-based formulation of pure vegetable glycerin, this lube provides additional moisture and long-lasting lubrication. Protecting and soothing the skin, this lube is especially suitable for sensitive skin and is idea for daily use. Apply a...
                                            COOL - Pjur
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                                              Pjur Cool Menthol Water-Based Lubricant - Pjur

                                              Pjur
                                              BO DP 827160110154
                                              R499
                                              Pjur's Cool waterbased lubricant creates a gentle stimulating & tingling sensation, coupled with the cool freshness of menthol - enhancing your sexual pleasure and adding to more intense orgasms. This lube is, like all Pjur lubricants, specially formulated to be kind to your skin and to provide long-lasting lubrication for extended sexual pleasure. With...
                                              Pjur Light BodyGlide - Pjur
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                                                Pjur Light Silicone BodyGlide & Lubricant - Pjur

                                                Pjur
                                                BO DP 827160100933
                                                R429
                                                Pjur Light bodyglide combines all of the positive elements of the original Pjur silicone bodyglide, but allows a noticeably thinner silicone formula, allowing you to use this excellent long-lasting product as a personal, toy, and body-glide massaging lubricant. Spreading further and lasting longer than the original body glide, this odorless and tasteless...
                                                Aqua - PjurAqua - Pjur 2
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                                                  Pjur Aqua Water-based Lubricant - Pjur

                                                  Pjur
                                                  BO DP 827160100278/61/85
                                                  R589
                                                  Pjur Aqua water-based lubricant is made from the highest quality ingredients and absorbs into the skin, leaving it feeling soft and silky. It adds extra lubrication for both masturbation and love-making, and is also suitable for use with all adult toys. Pjur Aqua water based is 100% latex condom safe, non-toxic, allergy tested, tasteless, odourless,...
                                                  Hydra Glycerin-Free Water-Based Natural Glide & Lubricant - Intimate EarthHydra Glycerin-Free Water-Based Natural Glide & Lubricant - Intimate Earth 2
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                                                    Hydra Natural Water-Based Lubricant - Intimate Earth

                                                    Intimate Earth
                                                    BO MS 007/120IE 007/60IE
                                                    R249
                                                    Smooth and silky, Hydra Natural Glide is a paraben- and glycerin-free water-based lubricant. It’s tasteless and odourless, making it your natural choice for use during foreplay and lovemaking. With natural plant extracts of aloe and goji berry, Hydra Natural Glide is vegan-friendly and 100% bodysafe. It’s perfect for use with your silicone sex toys, and...
                                                    Embrace Tightening Pleasure Serum - Intimate Earth
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                                                      Embrace Tightening Pleasure Serum - Intimate Earth

                                                      Intimate Earth
                                                      BO MS 002IE
                                                      R549
                                                      The muscles of your vagina need to be exercised to stay strong and feel ‘tight’, but sometimes life intervenes. Post-pregnancy, or during menopause, Embrace Tightening Pleasure Serum provides a temporary solution. This gentle, organic serum does not dry out the vagina, but causes the muscles to contract, creating a feeling of tightness. It contains...
                                                      Aquaglide Water-Based Lubricant - Joy Division
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                                                        Aquaglide Water-Based Lubricant - Joy Division

                                                        JoyDivision
                                                        BO DP 4028403117046/022
                                                        R429
                                                        Aquaglide from Joy Division is a pH-optimised, highly effective, water-based lubricant that features long-lasting lubricating properties. This product assists in increase sensation and excitement to love-making, but is also the ideal to use with latex condoms or your pleasure objects. It is so versatile that it can also be used as a massage gel! It is...
                                                        Fetherlite Ultra SuperFine & SlenderFit Condoms | Durex
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                                                          Fetherlite Ultra SuperFine & SlenderFit Condoms (3's,12's) - Durex

                                                          Durex
                                                          SM 10045430/26
                                                          R69
                                                          Durex Fetherlite Ultra condoms are super fine with Sensi-Fit which provides a sleeker fit for even greater feeling (compared to our standard latex condoms) where you want it most. On average, Durex Fetherlite Ultra condoms are 20% thinner than your standard latex condoms and help to enhance sensitivity, bringing you and your partner even closer together,...
                                                          Performa Stamina Enhancing Condoms - Durex
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                                                            Performa Stamina Enhancing Condoms (3's,12's) - Durex

                                                            Durex
                                                            SM 10027899/10032356
                                                            R59
                                                            Durex Performa condoms are designed to prolong intercourse and delay ejaculation without removing sensitivity and feeling. Containing a special lubricant – called Benzocaine – inside the condom which helps the man to delay climax and prolong excitement, you are able to enjoy longer-lasting pleasure. With their body-contoured shape and...
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