Desir’s sex essentials are products that have been introduced with the purpose of making your sexual experience that much more satisfying. From lubes and condoms, to supplements and medically sound intimate care products, our essential category offers you the best complimentary products and must-haves for your sexual health and wellbeing.

What is good sexual health?

Feeling good about your body and taking care of your physical and emotional health are all part of being sexually healthy. Physically this can relate to regular sexual health exams, getting tested for sexually transmitted infections, preventing unwanted pregnancies and having a healthy hygiene regime when it comes to cleaning your sex toys and taking care or your body.

But additionally, your emotional or mental health also has an enormous role to play in your attitude towards sex and your sexual health status. Feeling good about your body, giving yourself permission to enjoy sexual pleasure, and being comfortable with your sexual orientation and gender are huge parts of one’s sexuality and can have a fundamental impact on how you perceive yourself, others, and your sexuality.

How do I have good sex?

Planned parenthood states that good sex comes from understanding how your body works. Whilst sex is not a one size fits all experience, good sex comes down to being confident with your body, knowing what you like and don’t like, and understanding your sex drive and pleasures.

It is in this regard that Desir’s range of Essentials have been carefully curated to ensure that you have the best sex possible, whilst taking care of your sexual health and wellness at the same time.

Sexual Health Supplements

With so many factors impacting our sex lives, one of the biggest contributors is that of low libido or poor sex drive. Science has come a considerably long way in providing formulations that not only increase your sexual libido, but also assist with symptoms related to menopause, erectile dysfunction, vaginal dryness, and stamina.

Brands like Solal have focussed specifically on formulations, vitamins and minerals that contain essential ingredients like vitamin b12, vitamin b6, ginseng, fenugreek, and maca root that are natural testosterone boosting herbs. Not only proven to increase your libido, these ingredients are specifically known to alleviate symptoms related to erectile dysfunction, poor sperm quality, infertility, and are known to positively support and boost male and female sexual function. A completely natural alternative to anabolic and pharmaceutical steroid medicines, brands like Solal, LaMelle, Vitaforce, and Erex provide you with the option of adopting a far more holistic approach to your sexual health.

Stimulants and Enhancers

When it comes to stimulation and increasing your arousal and genital blood flow, several brands like Shunga, Wicked, Intimate Earth, and Pjur focus specifically on products designed to intensify your sexual experience.

From clitoral arousal serums and pleasure gels to aphrodisiacs and prolong sprays, Desir has a range of complimentary serums and elixirs that have been proven to amplify your sexual experience. Use them in conjunction with your favourite intimate product or simply for an increase in your masturbation or solo play

Explore the sensory experience of applying serums that encourage warmth, cooling, tingling, and relaxation and stimulate your nerve endings to encourage stronger orgasms and a heightened sense of arousal.

Personal Care and Product Care

One of the most important aspects to sound sexual health, is that of good personal and product care.

With conditions like bacterial vaginosis, yeast infections, vaginal infections, and STD’s, it is critical to follow a health regime that supports your sexual lifestyle. From intimate toy cleaners and disinfectant wipes, to vaginal douches and condoms, Desir has ensured that you have all you need to practice safe sex and avoid cross-contamination.

WebMd lists the use of a good intimate wash as the number one priority after sex. Not only limited to the cleansing of your genital areas, cleansing of your sex toys is just as important and with the introduction of foam or gel sex toy cleaners, taking care of your sex toys has never been easier.

With much controversy around the practice of douching and specifically with regards to women who douche, douching before or after anal sex (also referred to as rectal douching) is widely practiced to clean the anal area in preparation for sex.

With a variety of douches that range from shower attachment to bulb hand held douching apparatus, douching is best practiced with warm water and should be repeated until the water runs clean. EndHIV provides a word of caution for douching too frequently stating that it can damage the lining of the rectum, making you more susceptible to to HIV infection should you choose to not use a male condom.

Desir Panel of Medical Experts

To encourage positive sexual health and wellness, Desir has introduced a medical panel of experts that specialise in sexual health and promote sexual health and wellness - for both men and women. From gynaecologists and aesthetic practitioners, to sexologists and psychotherapists, Desir’s sexual health doctors are available for consult via our treatments category. With a variety of procedures, consults, and services available, your mental and physical sexual health is of the utmost importance to us and we are proud to offer you access to some of South Africa’s most renowned doctors who specialise in their respective fields.

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Tom of Finland Hot Water Douche - Tom of Finland Tools

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The Tom of Finland range is based on the world renowned artist Tom of Finland's fetish art. With alluring images of hyper masculine men, Tom's leatherman, bikers, cowboys, cops, and lumberjacks all form part of these iconic symbols and illustrations. With each product within the range featuring a collector's card, you are able to enjoy Tom's work and...

Squeeze Clean Unisex Douche

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Comfortable and easy to use, this premium range douche is designed to provide a deep and satisfying cleanse. It has a capacity of 250mls and is made from silicone, TPR and ABS plastic. Its sleek and smooth design allows for easy insertion, just squeeze the bulb, place it underwater and then release the squeeze to allow water to draw in. When inserted,...

Multi attachment Douche Kit - Bad Kitty

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The multi-attachment douche kit by Bad Kitty, is a three spray attachment douche kit giving you ultimate versatility and the perfect intimate hygiene.Featuring a curved, ribbed, and tapered attachment, you simply fill the pump ball with 100ml luke-warm water, screw on any one of the spray attachments and gently insert the tip into either your anus or...
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Hydro Anal Douche Kit - Bathmate

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The Bathmate Hydrodouche is the ultimate in sophisticated hygiene equipment for complete confidence and a must have for those that participate in regular anal play. This douche makes for simple and thorough cleansing. The kit is easily put together, and can be stored in the discreet travel bag or simply left clipped in your shower for more regular use....

Bathmate Hydro Rocket Douche - Bathmate

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The Bathmate Hydro Rocket Douche is a personal hygiene device designed to be used in your shower and as a compliment to your personal hygiene routine.With an ergonomically designed shape, the easy to squeeze bulb holds up to 325ml of warm water and features an innovative non-return valve which prevents water from returning back to the bulb, thereby...

Back Door Comfort Water-Based Anal Glide - Pjur

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The Back Door Comfort Glide by Pjur is a hyaluron based formula designed to bind water molecules together - giving you a longer-lasting and more comfortable anal experience.Safe to use with condoms, this extra-moisturising lubricant is perfect for intensive anal intercourse and will not dry out thanks to it's high viscosity. Non-sticky, odourless, and...

Pjur Analyse Me Relaxing Silicone Anal Glide Lubricant - Pjur

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Pjur is a high quality brand of lubricant that prides itself on using only the best bodysafe ingredients in its special silicone-based formula. The Pjur Analyse Me Anal Glide was designed especially to help relax you during anal sex, making anal play easier and more fun. Jojoba is included in this lubricant to soften and moisturize the skin and relax the...

Pjur Analyse Me Anal Comfort Serum - Pjur

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The Pjur Anal Comfort serum is specifically designed to allow for comfortable anal intercourse and play. With no lidocaine or benzocaine, this special serum forms an invisible protective film on the skin thereby reducing sensitivity without a total numbing effect. Safe with condoms and suitable for daily application, this concentrated gel is the perfect...

Pjur Analyse Me Relaxing Anal Comfort Spray - Pjur

BO8271601135678 D11.06.2019
Pjur Analyse Me spray relaxes the anal area in preparation for anal sex and is the perfect substitute for anal lubricants. Gently moisturising and desensitizing your skin at the same time, the Pjur Analyse me spray prevents oversensitivity and makes anal play more comfortable and enjoyable. With premium ingredients like panthenol and aloe vera, your skin...

Anal Relaxing Hybrid Water & Silicone Based Lubricant - Malesation

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Malesation's Anal lubricant has a 2 in 1 water-based composition that allows this product to feel like a silky textured silicone lubricant whilst providing you with ease and comfort during Anal play. With it's combination of relaxing components and Metha Piperetha oil, it supports the body's natural moisture levels whilst allowing a cooling and relaxing...
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