SOUTH AFRICA'S premier online adult shop FOR DESIGNER SEX TOYS

The Désir Adult Shop is South Africa's most exclusive online store, devoted to giving our clientele private access to the finest designer brands on the intimate luxury market. Headquartered in Camps Bay, Cape Town, Desir Online has one main goal - to help our customers find stronger intimacy, form closer relationships and build passionate love lives by dispelling the myths and social stigmas that prevent people from sensual exploration & expression.

With this mission in mind, we have created the Desir intimate collection, a premium selection of the world's most advanced, forward thinking luxury sex toy brands. That way when you buy from us, you know you are getting superior quality materials, trending technology, and the highest standards possible.

A Harmony of Luxury & Style With Our Intimate Sex Toy Collection

Purveyors of personalized customer care, Desir Adult Shop has invested time, thought and money into perfecting your luxury shopping experience. At every touch point, whether online or at a custom appointment at our offices in Camps Bay, we make sure your needs come first.

Our Désir sex toys collection is tasteful, progressive and proven. We have sourced the most prestigious companies from the USA, UK, Australia, Europe and Japan to be a part of our line-up, multi-award winning brands that regularly feature in top publications online.

Enjoy browsing through designer sex toys, sexy lingerie, BDSM toys, sex essentials, erotic literature and fun accessories. Each and every product here carries our seal of approval.For our comprehenisve Buyers Guide, please view Desir's Sex Toy Guide

Exclusive Customized Packaging For Discerning Adult Toys Buyer

At our Desir Adult Shop we have created a concierge team of people that believe in our mission to elevate the adult toy market.

These are the individuals that will wrap each of your purchases in delicate tissue paper, place it carefully in one of our signature designer boxes, and will then tie it closed with a soft satin ribbon, because beauty matters.

This luxury package is then sealed discreetly in a non-transparent courier bag – shut away from prying eyes. At Désir Online, we have yet to meet a customer that wasn’t delighted to unwrap their purchase from us, because of the extra mile we go to make it part of your exclusive experience.

Guaranteeing Security and Privacy During Payment & Delivery

The Désir intimate collection doesn’t try to disguise what we offer, instead we choose to offer the best so that it inspires, instead of causing shame and embarrassment in our clients. Despite that, we understand that these items deserve a certain amount of discretion when they are purchased.

That is why all credit and debit card payment options are 100% secure, thanks to the extended validation on our Thawte SSL Web server. All payments are securely processed on-site through Peach Payments, and your package is sealed and sent for overnight delivery, within 24 hours of purchase.

Beauty Starts Inside and Should Always Be Shared

One of our Desir Adult Shop core beliefs is that all people, across race, gender and sexual orientation deserve to be honoured for their natural beauty and sensuality.

In life our innate beauty is always shared with that special someone. We want to help you enhance what is shared, for a more expressive, happier, closer bond that leaves you more fulfilled in your life. Knowing yourself and your lover comes with a lifetime’s worth of rewards.

If you would like a special experience with friends, booking an appointment to see our Désir sex toys at our Camps Bay headquarters is the best way to become acquainted with what we have to offer.

Our expert concierge team will take you through each product, to find which of them might suit your bedroom personality. Great for bachelorette parties, this is a champagne infused experience that would enlighten even the most playful soul.

There is finally a designer brand in South Africa that is available for all of your sensual needs. Connect with us on our online live chat facility, book an appointment or browse our extensive online site at your leisure. Guilt-free pleasure is just a click away.

When you demand beauty, luxury and refinement in your life, remember Desir Adult Shop – where honouring yourself is the only rule we want you to live by in the bedroom.

Enjoy browsing through our intimate collection…

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                  Thank you for the awesome service and hand written note we received when opening our parcel! It was a wonderful surprise and the products are amazing. We've ordered from one of your competitors before, but now I'm glad we discovered Désir. We really appreciated the bigger product variety, good prices, the website just feels amazing, your products are of high quality, the handwritten note really made the experience special.

                  Geoff R, Cape Town

                  Baie dankie vir die puik diens wat julle doen, van die inligting aangaande die versending, die verpakking and die mooi briefie wat saam met die produk gestuur is. Verskoon dit is in Afrikaans, dis hoe ek my waardering die beste kan uitdruk. Dit is werklik die beste diens wat ek ooit ontvang het met internet aankope. Julle is wenners, hou so aan en dankie aan elkeen wat by die bestelling betrokke was.

                  Andre M, Secunda

                  Thank you Désir, I am out of words. The neatness of the bubble wrapping is outstanding, the beautiful wrapped ribboned box, the personal "handwritten card", tissue wrapped box in which my item was placed in. I, being a person of the very  highest standards, pride myself on quality and presentation which usually means anyone who receives a gift from me is blown out of the water. Today you have been the only person who has done the very same for me.

                  Alison P, Umhlanga

                  I would do Desir a disservice to not mention their discretion, service, speed and attitude and how it has blown me away. I would go as far as saying that they inspire more customer loyalty than household names such as takealot or Amazon. Delivery was complete within 24 hours, everything was packed well and the handwritten note was a nice touch. Great service and great product.

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